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The dude was doing drugs and prostitutes. Any woman or man in their right mind would divorce someone like that. I would
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 02:06 AM
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I wear a uniform for work , so i tend at times to wear a shirt and jeans , head off and get changed at my locker. Once in awhile i will dress up in nice shoes and a collared shirt for myself. Wife notices it and usually says something as to why I am dressing so nice. My response, why shouldn't I , I deeserve to look good. After that she doesn't really ask why but will dig at me every once in awhile, i just ignore or say oh this raggedy shirt. I think i need to dress up and play the part everyday…
/r/askMRP17/09/16 11:20 PM
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Thanks, i agree. Not trying to bash anyone. These guys are in the same boat. Some worse, some better. I have never been a fat overweight loser, i always control my finances, I have a good job, groom , dress well erc.Wife does not touch my money. Lack of sex or passion is my thing with my wife. Don't get me wrong, if the wife divorced me or died god forbid i could fuck a girl within 2 to 3 weeks. But I want to fuck her.
/r/askMRP17/09/16 09:06 PM
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Thing is im really not desperate...I might just wait till this month of travelling is over. Busy month for her and see what happens next month
/r/askMRP17/09/16 07:04 PM
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Ok thanks. About 6 months ago some bartender gave me her number and my wife saw what was going on. She was impressed and said we have to hang it up on the wall in the house. We both laughed. For the next 3 days my wife walked into the bedroom in lingerie and fucked like it was the end of the world. All because of a phone number. I know I can get someone else. I am sure she knows. What she does know is that I won't cheat on her. I guess I am walking a fine line. Do I overstep those boundries and …
/r/askMRP17/09/16 04:25 PM
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I agree it sounds typical. Again before we married we had sex 3x a week roughly. Sometimes twice a day. Now sex is 2 to 3 x a week. Once in awhile twice. Last month we saw eachother 16x for the month. She was away on business or i was on a double the other 15 days. We managed to have sex 7x in 15 days. I guess month to month it differs, like this month it isn't the same.
/r/askMRP17/09/16 03:51 PM
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Have to figure shit out. Im off fri and sat. I usually do a double on sunday. So im at work from 630am to 11pm. Get home, sleep and wake up the next day for work from 630 to 3. When I get home I feel bad not being home all day sunday. So I usually chill with the wife. Sometimes try to initiate. Tuesday i go out with my friends from about 7pm to 11pm unless something comes up . 99pct im out of the house. I try on tuesdays for sex before I leave but it is the hardest no all the time. She doesn't w…
/r/askMRP17/09/16 03:23 PM
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My life isn't ruined. I enjoy her company, she enjoys mine. I cant leave my career. Im in a job where i get a pension and im done in 6 years. This is a new job she got and the travelling will slow down end of October. She had a part time job before and the sex was still the same and she was home more often. The career isn't the problem.
/r/askMRP17/09/16 02:59 PM
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One thing i do wrong is I don't withdraw attention. In the beginning i did and she would correlate the no sex and I up and leave or do something else. I think i have to start doing what another redditor does. He is going to the gym for instance no matter what, initiates beforehand and if the wife turns him down well guess what, he was going to the gym regardless. It doesn't look butthurt
/r/askMRP17/09/16 02:57 PM
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I believe I am missing gaming my wife. I don't wait till the end of day to have sex. I will start from the afternoon on and if I get shot down I get shot down. For instance I visited her on a business trip ( everything paid so why not), I came in late , she had dinner for me in the room with my favorite drink waiting. She looked exhausted, i was exhausted. I wasn't in the mood but she pulled down her panties and said lets have a quickie. Old me would say no. Now i plow thru it, she doesn't cum i…
/r/askMRP17/09/16 02:15 PM
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K thanks for the advice. Appreciate it. I understand desire and attraction. Once we get into it I always get off and she gets off 99pct of the time as well. We both enjoy it once we get into it. I guess trying to start her to get into it is the problem.
/r/askMRP17/09/16 02:10 PM
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Thanks, read those. I thought that way about women since college. To me they are worse than men. I am far from a beta, far from an alpha. I have always been in the middle. MRP has helped me alot with issues I had. I was the nice guy, always said yes. Covert contracts for sex , like buying flowers , gifts and thinking I deserved sex for that. I have almost no problems with my wife except sex. She is not naggy, harpy and rarely gives me shit. I am not a fat loser, never been a beta bux. In decent …
/r/askMRP17/09/16 02:05 PM
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First stop making excuses and start making solutions. I am in the same boat as you. Can't lift, can barely run , due to various surgeries. However i am 6ft3 and was once a skinny fat at 195 lbs. What i did was lose 25lbs. Im down to 170 now. Since i can't lift nor run like I used to , I asked myself what can I do. So I started kickboxing. Great workout , cardio and works out your upperbody. I realized im not going to be this big muscular dude , but I did realize what I can become. Swimmers build…
/r/askMRP11/09/16 04:42 PM
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So what do you do when you know the sex is going to be subpar?
/r/askMRP20/08/16 03:37 AM
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Lol thanks. Still working on things. I started this almost a year ago and things are going great. Are they where I want them to be , not fully there yet. But 100 times better than where I was at when I first started. Everyday is a journey and I live and learn. Today is a new day. Thanks for the input.
/r/askMRP19/08/16 01:37 PM
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Yea, after being rejected for 2 to 3 days in a row i tried not to let me be seen as butthurt. I did not complain and or beg. I might have come off as being too hungry when trying all the time. I don't just want to try before bed and get shot down. So i do try different times during the day. This plan i believe is all in her head. She mentioned something about trying to have sex no matter what on our days off because of our busy schedule. But to me it doesn't mean don't try during the week. In he…
/r/askMRP19/08/16 01:24 PM
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I did enjoy it last week..got to fish and drink, played some golf...watched some movies..enjoyed myself. The back to back weeks is a little much for me. We very rarely do business trips, but it is her new job and she went for training. This week gonna hit up the gym, a ballgame and go thr horsetrack. And go chat it up with some strangers
/r/askMRP07/08/16 05:12 PM
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You are right. Why worry
/r/askMRP07/08/16 02:34 PM
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Ex wife...married young. I acted way bp. Found out she was talking to someone else. I acted like a child about it. I tried to make it work. Eventually I wasn't gonna deal with it anymore and divorced her. 5 years later I remarried. Total opposite of my ex wife. Honestly the divorce was the best thing that happened. I guess getting burned once before makes me feel this way. I make good money, I am in good shape. I haven't surpassed her in SMV but we are equal . I would say before MRP and before d…
/r/askMRP07/08/16 01:26 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Appreicate it. While away, i did shit around the house, went fishing, played some golf...didn't have a worry in the world
/r/askMRP07/08/16 12:35 PM
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Don't know if you are being sarcastic about women finding insecurity attractive. I do not show her this at all. I don't call her when she is away, unless it was for an extreme emergency. I truly act as if it doesn't bother me. But it sorta does. I will read up on the philosophy of stoicsm..thanks
/r/askMRP07/08/16 12:16 PM
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Money reasons. If she wants to work full time and pay for it then she can. Im not paying for it. And again IDGAF if as you believe that she wants to fuck. Anyone can cheat on you at anytime, anyplace. Go have fun , the papers will be signed andI will move on easily
/r/askMRP09/03/16 12:26 PM
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Maybe, but again I DON'T CARE.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 02:23 AM
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In my opinion she is only doing this because she got caught basically having an emotional relationship with someone else. Now she feels like she needs to do whatever to keep you. Yes you are getting the sex you want. But she will revert back to her old self soon enough. She is basically giving you enough so you stay and don't leave. If my wife ever did that to me , I would file papers the next day. If she is your LTR use her and dump her. Grow a set and have some self respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 09:31 PM
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Great post. I can relate. I have been implementing MRP for months already. All positives. Not one negative. In fact we caught a flight friday morning to go on vacation. We go to bed thursday night....about 10ish. About 1 in the morning i have the wife grabbing my cock , starts kissing me while im asleep. She says I want to fuck. Please fuck me. Can’t turn that down.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 12:58 PM
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No sparring. Just you and the bag..and I take it light and easy when it comes to kicking.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 06:20 PM
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Can't lift due to a neck injury and can't run as much due to multiple knee surgeries. I do kickboxing though. I go light on the leg stuff. But it's a great workout. Love hitting that heavy bag
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 10:33 PM
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Honestly I never wanted to travel overseas with anyone except my wife. I honestly have a great time with her traveling. We have no kids, both want no kids because all we want to do is travel in life. We go away minimum 4 times a year. I am not hellbent at all about her traveling without me. She has gone across the country , down south , left for days for business or bachelorette parties. I am not worried she will cheat, i don't care if she did. I would leave her in a heartbeat. If someone wants …
/r/askMRP29/02/16 09:09 PM
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Agreed..but if she would have thrown me a curveball makes me wonder how i would have reacted to the situation
/r/askMRP29/02/16 01:42 PM
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I tend to agree with you on some points and not on some others. I probably could have spoken better to her about it. I admit that. Sometimes i need to take a step back and gather my words. My mouth speaks faster than my brain can process at times. It wasn't a threat in my eyes about telling her about going on vacation with my boys. I simply stated to her how would she feel if went on vacation with my boy and used our vacation money. After that she said she understands. To me i thought it was jus…
/r/askMRP29/02/16 01:41 PM
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I agree with you wholeheartedly. My wife does her thing and i do mine. She has gone on Bachelorette parties , long distance baby showers, birthdays. Again I have no problem with those at all. Go have a great time , call me when you land. It's the leaving the country part on an expensive vacation that I don't agree with. You want to spend a few hundred for a Bachelorette party or your friends bday in some partnof the country cool. But going overseas and spending thousands of unecessary money is w…
/r/askMRP29/02/16 01:34 PM
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Thanks...felt good...actually felt even better when she agreed and didn’t even bitch about...MRP has been paying off slowly
/r/askMRP28/02/16 02:56 PM
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The plan is to stfu . If and when she brings it up im going to tell her no. This is money WE saved for vacation for us to go on. We don't have the money put away for it , im not paying for it and I don't feel comfortable or find it necessary to go away to a foreign country with your friend ( we have been to paris together before). She can try to rationalize, beg etc...firm no
/r/askMRP27/02/16 08:09 PM
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Im not worried about the pussy. Stopped caring about that a few months ago after going through this journey of MRP. I am not a slave anymore to her pussy or worrying if im gonna get pussy. I tend to be the nice guy. Im not too beta , not soo alpha...in the middle. But I need more alpha. I use to say yes all the time. The readings have helped and I now use the word no instead of saying I dont care , or yes even though I wanted to say no. I guess the nicr guy in me doesn't want to hurt her feeling…
/r/askMRP27/02/16 06:57 PM
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Again not worried about chad. To me all my life I come to the realization that if given the right situation with the right person , 99 percent of women will cheat no questions asked , I don't care if you are channing fucking tatum , given the right situation his wife would cheat as well. Going alone with her friend his problem number 1. My job entails and deals with aspects of life that normal people don't see or face on a daily basis, so I know all the evil that is around. Hence me not wanting …
/r/askMRP27/02/16 06:53 PM
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See thing is to me , i don't care, go fuck chad. I will have zero problems getting pussy from someone else. You cheat on me I drop you in a heartbeat. No explanations needed. Im more pissed as to where she thinks this money will come from. Guess what it will come from me. Im not doing it , im not paying for it, im not allowing it. I want to bring up the subject but I am not going to because she didn't bring it up yet so im gonna STFU. It could be her and her friend dreaming to go together. She c…
/r/askMRP27/02/16 06:49 PM
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Lol no
/r/askMRP27/02/16 06:43 PM
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I have never been beta bux. She has worked full time before.
/r/askMRP27/02/16 03:12 PM
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I am a little frustrated with the money situation. Listen she works and will throw some cash into savings when she can. Doesn't ask me for cash for her girly things so that saves me cash. I work hard and love going on vacation and so does she. And honestly we have a great time together on vacation. An allowance thing just wouldn't work , no debt to worry about so there is no need for it. I like your advice and i am going to say i don't want to pay for it and stfu
/r/askMRP27/02/16 02:05 AM
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She never went on vacation by herself without me. We have done it together. This could be girls talking and it may not happen. But if it does i want to be prepared. We have zero debt except the mortgage. No debt whatsoever. So sometimes like i stated i have an extra 500 or 1k leftover after bills paid and what not. Normally throw it right into savings for the next vacation. But since i got that backpay lump sum paid to me , I dont want to keep adding more money just to save it and have her tell …
/r/askMRP27/02/16 02:00 AM
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I have never gotten upset or rage about redpill material. Growing up and even now I always realized that women are sluts. All of them , your wife, sister , family members etc etc. Women or worse than men when it comes to sex. I accepted that a long time ago. Yu just have to use that knowledge and try and make it work for you.
/r/askMRP20/02/16 05:37 PM
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Thanks , I will
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:38 PM
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None what so ever. In my mind I think like that , due to my past relationship. My ex wife and divorce through me for a loop. Honestly I have zero thoughts over divorce. My wife has said on multiple occasions that If I ever cheated she would take me back....me on the other hand I would drop her like a bad habit.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:37 PM
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Thanks. Will do for the next time. Appreciate the info
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:36 PM
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No I wouldn't be upset over that. My wife is very honest. Speaks her mind and is very truthful. So she is the type to tell me this. She has told me about guys buying her drinks when she is out with her friends etc. I never get mad over that. So if she didn't it would feel weird to me. Don't get me wrong , would I ever be surprised if she lied to me ...hell no. She is a woman.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:35 PM
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I was married oncr before. Young and dumb..got divorced. Probably sub consciously in the back of my mind is all that i could think
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:33 PM
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I dropped 25lbs. Did I need to...prob not. I look very lean though and it shows. I have people complementing me left and right. I have upped my wardrobe to my new body frame. Went from asize 36 to 32 in my waist. Only complaint is lifting. I can't because of a previous neck injury so I do other activities to exercise. Biking , boxing. I did stop complaining about sex. I would be like a bitch when she said no. I stopped and do other things. I am horny and yes could I have sex everyday , sure. But…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:31 PM
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Honestly i was more afraid at the time of what could come of this. I am not looking for a divorce. I wanted my sex life to improve and since starting MRP it has, significantly. Everything else about my wife is honestly great. Shit I married this woman. I wasn't desperate. Had plenty of girlfriends. She is great. Sex decreased and i was looking for ways to bring it back and MRP helped. Put the shoe on the other foot and if I found a guys number in her pocket I would be upset if she hid it from me…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:18 PM
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I was worried that if she found it in my pocket later that night or the next dayand i didnt say something while we were out then she would throw a shit fit. She did see the bartender actively engaging me and asked me what was up. Just wanted to be truthful and upfront at the time.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:10 PM
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Ok point taken thanks
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:04 PM
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