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| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman? | Discussion | Mikeyyy_mikeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 06:29 PM |
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| 2 | Why are so many women like this?I can’t wait for the day you all realize that these platforms are not representative of the actual population. If some of you would go outside and touch grass you would realize that OF/porn is generally received as negative amongst both men and women. Also… different women have different opinions and it is likely that you think women are being hypocritical because you see any opinion by a woman and assume it represents how all women feel, when in reality… it’s just an individual woman giving her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:25 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many women like this?They think anything a woman says is representative of what we all believe for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Interesting study. I’ll look into it, thanks for the info. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.I still disagree. I don’t think the overwhelming majority of men would just say yes to sex whenever offered… especially to just any woman. Maybe you’re projecting your own attitudes onto other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.How do women control consensual sex.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:26 PM |
| 4 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Nah it seems like you’re more out of touch on this topic. Not all men are desperate for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Omg thank you!! Being very desirable is one thing, but having a ton of bodies is off putting for a lot of women too. I have never met any women that was turned on or impressed by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingWhat source could you provide that concludes most domestic abuse situations are mutual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingYou were essentially saying it’s a woman’s fault for being abused in a relationship. You implied that a woman chose to be abused. But play obtuse if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingHave you ever considered that maybe two things could be wrong at once? One wrong way of thinking doesn’t justify your horrible view of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingWhere do you guys get this idea that average women are just drowning in attention from men? It’s not true. At all. Do you guys think the average woman is an instagram model or something? Because that’s the only way this would make sense. The average woman does not have flooded DMs especially not from 9’s or 10’s. Guys who are that attractive usually hook up with women who are also that attractive. I don’t know why you guys think “chads” only go to average or overweight women for hookups. I guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingYou guys really have been brainwashed into believing only guys 6ft and up get play and it’s so sad lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingA lot of these abusers don’t lead with the fact that they’re abusers. They are often manipulative and hide the fact that they are shitty. No man is going to say “hi nice to meet you, if you give me a chance I’ll abuse you and abandon you when you have my children”. Like come on. It’s a real shitty thing to say that it’s woman’s fault that a man turned out to be a horrible piece of shit. It’s also very shitty to think women actually want to be abused, like wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingSuper hot guys are not going for ugly fat girls. A lot of them are usually very pretentious and shallow, and the girl they pull is often seen as a representation of them so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 01:19 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedYou really expect guys like OP to use logic?? It’s just whatever they feel in the moment usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:51 PM |
| 7 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.I mean.. it’s true though. She wasn’t interested enough to overlook whatever misstep you took. I don’t think all women are like this… there are women out there looking for a genuine connection and with the right compatibility they are willing to work on any issues with you (within reason of course). Obviously there’s going to be irrational women who drop you for whatever minor reason, and that’s their right to do so. A dodged bullet in my eyes. But there’s nothing anyone can do about that.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Exactly. Like news flash, you have to do that regardless of your dating life in order to be a functioning adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:39 PM |
| – | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?That’s not the reality of all women. That’s just you projecting your thoughts onto them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:12 PM |
| 8 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkIdk where they get that belief from, it’s so false it’s comical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkI have tried myself. I told you they think most of it is dense and simple minded rhetoric not rooted in reality lol but the problem with using anecdotes is you can’t validate one claim over the other so it’s kind of pointless to use it as a baseline to make a generalization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkHow do you know most men are RP? Because you cherry pick talking points to them and they agree?Most men I know think the RP consists of deranged, out-of-touch with reality rhetoric and from that I can infer that most men are not RP and it would be just as valid as your claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Women do want to be apprached.Your original point made it seem like women are contradicting in the sense that they say they don’t care about having an attractive partner but in reality they do. You said women don’t want to accept that they value attractiveness but you provided a study that literally showed they are vocal about wanting an attractive partner… The study still shows that women want an attractive partner and are vocal about that (my original point) but they just underestimate how much they value attractiveness in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Women do want to be apprached.I don’t really see how this refutes my point? Women still want someone they are attracted to… and the study shows that. The order of preference when it comes to other characteristics is irrelevant to my original point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?You said it’s women’s issues that are the reason they are single. That implies that they are single because something is wrong with them and thats why I gave the response I gave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:54 PM |
| 5 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?No it’s a good bit of both. We don’t want to date old, balding, out of shape men that we have little in common with when we have tons of men that are our age and already in our circles… lol you guys have got to touch grass. Even the ones who do date older men usually do it mostly for financial reasons. Less to do with looks or personality. Also… a lot of us find it really off putting that 35+ year old men are exclusively seeking out 20 something year olds. It’s a red flag for many of us and we f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?How is that the only explanation? As if women don’t have the ability to just decide to stay single. Not everyone prioritizes relationships and there’s nothing wrong with that. Such a simple minded way of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?With the advancement of technology and societal shifts the “biological clock” (in which men also have) is becoming less of a concern for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:08 PM |
| 4 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?That’s not my experience. As a young adult with a lot of women friends, we date within our friend groups. Not men way older than us that we most likely have nothing in common with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 01:52 PM |
| 14 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Are you understanding what I’m saying? Most women don’t date men 10+ years older than them. Period. A 26 year old and a 36 year old is not a common couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:43 AM |
| 6 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:41 AM |
| 9 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Yeah I would define large age gap as 10+ years. And most women aren’t in relationships with that big of an age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:38 AM |
| 16 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?I mean.. sure. A 5 year difference isn’t out of the ordinary. I wouldn’t consider that dating “an older man”. I usually think that implies a large age gap. Most women date men 2-3 years older than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:30 AM |
| 10 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Sure but they most likely wont . The average man doesn’t even make more than 70k (in the US). Sure you can have confidence, but as men age they bald, they grow bellies and gray hair, and will likely never be wealthy statistically speaking. What you’re describing is like 1% of men lol. Let’s come back to reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Women do want to be apprached.There’s quite literally no data or research or anything that supports your claim that women say they want one thing but date another. You just pulled that out of your ass… respectfully. I feel like a lot of guys just say that to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:21 AM |
| 21 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Shh they like to believe everything is black and white. Man good woman bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:14 AM |
| 11 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?But most women don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:09 AM |
| 8 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?No they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Women do want to be apprached.I disagree. I think most women would tell you that they want a partner they are attracted to. In fact, every time this subject comes up many women say this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Women do want to be apprached.That doesn’t mean that’s the only thing the average woman finds attractive? Let’s be realistic. Just like I’m sure the average man isn’t just attracted to the usual sex symbol for a woman (blonde skinny bombshell) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Women do want to be apprached.So you would rather believe majority of women are settling than believe average women find average men attractive… cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women do want to be apprached.A lot of the women I talk to just don’t want to be approached by guys they aren’t attracted to and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Women do want to be apprached.No we aren’t. That’s so incredibly false it’s comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Women do want to be apprached.Woman have different definitions of attractive silly goose. And that includes average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Women do want to be apprached.Sure, but all those things can mean something different depending on the woman. What one woman considers attractive or a good position another might not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 10:30 PM |
| -1 | Women do want to be apprached.The average woman has different preferences for what they consider “attractive” which includes average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Women do want to be apprached.Why is everyone acting like it’s breaking news that women want to be approached by men they are attracted to? Is this not how it works? Am I missing something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Women do want to be apprached.Well duh? Surely most people would be romantically interested in someone they are attracted to? That’s literally how it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Jesus what a depressing post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 08:13 PM |
| – | Why don’t the men who constantly complain about women dating based only on appearance just go after better women?Then why isn’t it just a very small percentage of the male populace that is married/taken? It’s not adding up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Women overestimate the times they are being "hit" by menThis is probably the dumbest post I’ve seen on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 02:26 AM |
| – | Women. How often do you initiate sex with your man?Any time he didn’t initiate, I would. I would say I initiated like 40% of the time, but I also have a high sex drive and was very attracted to my partner. After a good few months of dating it slowed down but not by much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Exactly. Those qualities come natural and it’s not work for women on men. So what the original comment was saying was that these qualities are hard work which we now agree they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 09:52 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?You do realize we interact with people in non romantic ways as well right? Like friends? We have to be interesting, ambitious people for people to like us in general. Everyone strives to be likeable people for platonic and romantic reasons. So those qualities that were listed are things that everyone strives to do, men and women. You really don’t think women want to be charismatic? Not even for their friendships? For job prospects? Like wtf. We don’t just stand around and look pretty and wait ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Yeah but that’s not our fault that you guys don’t value those things that honestly should be valued because it shows the type of person you are but you guys just value looks.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 09:14 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?That’s not what we were discussing though. He mentioned things like taking care of yourself, learning charisma, having hobbies and goals. I said that’s just being a well rounded person that should be expected of anyone. I agree that cold approaching is hard on men and it sucks that it’s always dependent on them to do that, especially with getting rejected a lot. That requires having a strong ego so props to the cold approachers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?You guys relealize… this is just normal stuff every person should and are encouraged to do? You’re only going to have hobbies, ambition, and take care of yourself as long as it will attract a woman? If women didn’t exist you would live such a sad meaningless life lol. So I’m sorry it’s just hard to say that’s “hard work”, when that’s just life. I agree there are pressures for men to be charismatic and flirty, but that’s just having a good personality or learning how to be socially competent. I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Women don’t have to do it, no one has to do it. However, woman do all of the things he listed, because it’s good for anyone to do. It’s not our fault that you dont value anything in women past looks? Doesn’t mean we still don’t enjoy hobbies, have interests or focuses, taking care of ourselves, building a career for ourselves, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I get that I really do. I know it would be mentally tolling on me too if I had to do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Thank you for this answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 04:51 PM |
| -10 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Cmon be for real. You really think every man that’s successful in dating/getting sex has everything that he listed? If that’s the case the population would be much smaller lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyYou liberals? Don’t air out whatever grievances you have about liberals onto me, it doesn’t apply. And from the looks of the comment section many people gloss over it all the time. Men are seen as dogs and we’re just supposed to accept it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 09:57 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?There’s a lot of things in our nature that we have to control for the better good. If someone pisses me off it might be in my biological nature to want to smack them, but I have self control. I don’t think that’s comparable to dating preferences/standards. Also.. I don’t think it’s “natural” for men to have low standards when it comes to sex. Not all men are like that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:45 PM |
| -6 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?It just seems like you’re saying you have to be a well rounded person to me lmao. Like is it absurd to want to be intimate with someone who’s interesting?? It’s really hard work to have hobbies, ambitions, and take care of yourself? Think of what kind of person the opposite of what you described would be. Who in their right mind would find that appealing, for men or women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:43 PM |
| -3 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:40 PM |
| -2 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?So? I feel like self control is the simple solution here.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:37 PM |
| -5 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I would agree, but I wouldn’t classify that as hard work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I don’t get the correlation. How does saying men should have more standards/be more selective with who they have sex with the same as saying women shouldn’t have height preferences…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?There are a lot of women I know who have very low self esteem and never get approached by men. They usually tend to be very overweight, bad skin or hair, and very socially awkward. Idk if I can say they have to go to the same lengths as men, but I will say a lot of these women realize they have to work on themselves and make lifestyle changes to be more appealing to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:28 PM |
| -1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I think you guys really underestimate how often the average man has sex. Rich attractive men are not the only ones getting play or the world would look very different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?But there are a lot of men who do want bodies and look at a high body count as some sort of status symbol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:22 PM |
| -1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?But.. it’s only easier for women because men make it easy. So why should women be judged harsher because men would easily fuck almost any woman who offered (according to a lot of guys who believe in subject rhetoric)? Especially if women are usually more selective? The logic seems backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyWhat? So it’s a woman who has a lack of self control because men would easily fuck almost any woman who offered him sex? Meanwhile men gets a pass because women are more selective and therefore more effort is required? This is so backwards to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:15 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?A lot of this stuff you just need as a functioning adult. Im sure both men and women would not prefer to date a homeless carless person who doesn’t groom themselves…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:12 PM |
| -20 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?That’s what Brad told ya huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:11 PM |
| 5 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Exactly lol when I read this I was like wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:10 PM |
| 5 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Let’s also take geography into account. As someone who lives in the rural south, seeing a lambo driving on the street would be a crazy sight to see. The average woman isn’t meeting super rich guys, especially if they live outside of big cities like LA, NY, Miami, etc. so I feel like that’s an unrealistic take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:04 PM |
| -1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?But isn’t this because men throw themselves at women? Idk it seems like men complain about how different things are but they are also the reason it’s so different? It doesn’t have to be easy for women, men make it easy. But maybe I’m wrong idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:01 PM |
| -4 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?This is similar to my experience which is why I didn’t understand this “hard work” they were talking about? A friend of mine sees a guy they find attractive and they would just hook up.. especially in my college years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:44 PM |
| 7 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?This seems a bit extreme lol. I really don’t agree that the average woman has access to CEOs and millionaires. That’s insanely unrealistic. The average woman?? Absolutely not. Maybe if you’re talking about models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:37 PM |
| 2 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I agree that’s how hookups should be. If a woman is wanting to go on dates and talk for weeks, are you sure they are just looking for a hookup? Seems like they are wanting more. The women I know who are only wanting sex usually don’t care for all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 5 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?This seems a bit extreme. Can’t have hobbies? If that’s true then it sounds like your priorities need adjusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:22 PM |
| 3 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I’m just saying if men use the logic that a woman’s body count matters because women don’t have to work for it and men do, wouldn’t this outlier mean that this man’s body count should matter? If that makes sense.. Edit: and by matter I don’t just mean to the straight man, I mean matter as like.. they should be viewed negatively for their body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:06 PM |
| 5 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Isn’t that something everyone has to do though to be seen as attractive..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?So I wonder if men who believe body count only matters for women take into account the naturally attractive men you pointed out. Should body count matter for them? I see your point though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:02 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?I kinda understand this. Approaching/courting is generally expected from the men and I can see how anxiety-inducing that can be. I do give big props to men who cold approach, because that’s scary and the possibility of getting an ego-hit after being rejected is something that I personally would be too scared to chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyIf you’re a man with a very high body count it also shows a lack of self control. Having to pay for a few dates or pretend you’re actually interested in a woman doesn’t change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Women objectify men way, way more than the opposite.Yup! They believe all men think this way and all women think that way. Such a simple minded way to view a complexed world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthySo interesting seeing so many men simultaneously try their hardest to convince women not to have casual sex but also complain about how hard it is to get casual sex from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyThis is the best response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyDo you guys even realize how awful you describe men? Men are dogs.. but instead of discussing that and holding men accountable, let’s instead talk about what women can do to combat how awful men think. I mean yes, women should stay away from men who think like OP, but you guys are literally admitting to how shitty men act and we’re just glossing over that I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyI don’t agree with this. A lot of men believe sexual promiscuity is acceptable for men and not women for “biological reasons”. This is a common talking point on those incel podcasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyThis is exactly what I was thinking. And let’s say all women decided to stop having sex with men because they didn’t want to be perceived as “less-valued”. Then men would be getting no sex. Is that really what they want? It’s like cognitive dissonance for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?I mean personally I’m 5’9, so I would prefer my partner to be 5’9 and up. I might let 5’8 slide if he’s a real catch but I would prefer my partner to be my height or taller. I don’t get women who are 5’1-5’5 with super high height preferences? If I was that short I wouldn’t care about a man’s height at all lol as long as he’s taller than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single?When did I ever say that… please don’t air out your grievances on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single?Oh brother here comes the pseudoscience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:44 PM |
| 5 | On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single?How do you control access to relationships? Sure dating might be harder as a man but that doesn’t negate the struggles of dating for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:41 PM |
| 4 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?What is an obesity causing gene? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The issue with dating todayWhat I’m saying is 170lbs does not equal obese/overweight. It depends person to person on different factors like those I’ve mentioned above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 04:08 PM |
| 3 | The issue with dating todayNo it’s not an exception. Height and muscle mass plays a large role into weight and fat distribution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:46 PM |
| 2 | The issue with dating today170lbs doesn’t automatically mean obese/overweight. Other factors go into play. I’m a woman around 170lbs but I’m also 5’9 and weight train. People are surprised when I tell them how much I weigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:51 PM |
| 4 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMslol good luck finding a woman stupid enough to agree to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:25 PM |
| 4 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsCry about it. You want a stay at home wife, be ready to pay up if shit hits the fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:17 PM |
| 4 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMs“Steal” your money? If you marry a woman and want her to stay home and raise the kids, you really think it’s rational for her to walk away with nothing if a divorce happens? Wanting her to not work implies that the money YOU make will be shared. I’m sure no woman would agree to being a STAHP if they knew there would be no financial support for what they’re doing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:06 PM |
| – | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardIt’s really not shallow because not only are you “ugly” (as you self-proclaim), you feel like men don’t owe women pleasure when that’s the whole point in engaging in sex, and because nobody wants to fuck you, you’re whining on Reddit about how women don’t like sex and aren’t attracted to men. Go touch grass, most of your points aren’t rooted in reality. You just suck as a person and women can see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 10:32 AM |
| 2 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardStay on topic. You’re saying that men aren’t getting laid and concluded it was because women aren’t attracted to them. I’m assuming you’re talking about the average male, not some hot guy who can get sex regardless. I’m saying that maybe women would be more interested in hookups if there was an even exchange and men cared more about making sure women are enjoying sex too. Saying men are handed sex anyways but then initially saying men aren’t getting laid seems contradictory lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 05:02 AM |
| 4 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardThe entire purpose of engaging in sex is either to procreate or for pleasure. So if you want to have sex with a girl I think it should go without saying that you should be aiming at pleasuring one another… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:15 PM |
| 3 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardI think women would enjoy causal hookups more if men actually cared about pleasuring a women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 06:53 PM |
| – | Men and women do tell you what they want, its up to you to decide to accept or notIf everyone had this mindset, it would eliminate so many of these stupid debates and podcasts lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:29 PM |
| – | What do women think they accomplish when they say how offended they are when someone calls them slut despite doing slutty acts and/or think that someone is obligated to care what they think?What do you mean “what do women think they accomplish”? No one wants to be insulted especially for something as normal as enjoying sex. The real question is what are YOU trying to accomplish here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.You’ll be waiting forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.If beauty is subjective… how can someone overrate themselves..? Who determines what’s an overrate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 12:59 PM |
| 3 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenI get the feeling he doesn’t know much about women at all lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.“experienced guys know you’re essentially giving up your power in the interaction by complimenting her looks” Giving up what power? You’re just talking to the woman not trying to conquer her… it’s just a compliment. And it’s not that deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessWell it’s on both sides. Both men and women want their partner to make life easier for them. And if we’re going the traditional route based off what you listed, men want women who can cook for them, clean for them, do laundry, stay home and raise their kids, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Follow-up: Men are indeed hotter when using makeup.Men do like makeup.. And if they don’t, 9 times out of 10 they do and just don’t realize it. Also it seems like you are implying that since we live in a patriarchal society, everything men aren’t fond of is a flaw, which is also incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularThe only reason I think he’s so popular is because he says very controversial viewpoints for clout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women's clothing has gotten more and more revealing and sexualized as society got more and more progressive?The narrative is actually that woman should wear whatever they want regardless of what males want or think.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beSo… there’s no objective or biological difference. Just a difference based on your perception of how society works. You don’t see how that’s stupid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 8 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.I’m just trying to figure out what exactly did the lady do wrong.. do you think she should be obligated to accept your advances just because of her age? You’re the only one who seems entitled here.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Please don’t text. Talk to her in person! It shows more confidence, and it will be easier for you to feel the vibe, sense if she likes you, etc. But you have nothing to lose, just go for it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Self improvement is sure way to get more attractive girls in your lifeSpot on | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 02:52 PM |
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