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It... doesn't? And you do realize there are a metric shit-ton of men in relationships right now...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:02 PM
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You do realize its not that simple and most women don't make that much money, right? The average OnlyFans is less than $200 a month. The porn industry is -very- similar with thousands of women entering, making hundreds while putting up with terrible living conditions and treatment, realizing how awful it is and leaving. This industry THRIVES on that rotation of women and will happily keep it a revolving door. I love how men come on here and just "Lol i wanna show my asshole for 10k a month" as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:26 PM
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Wait, you consider "Knowing your worth" and "Never settle" as brainwashing? Holy low standards batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:04 AM
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buT mUh PeNiS wAnTs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:27 PM
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Now at 47 I'd be ok to 'settle down' ( was ready a few years ago) but I'm tired and low on options - does that mean I changed? All I know is, I'm not going to try and convince myself or anyone else that I've been born again/had some major epiphany and realized the error of my ways. That sounds like a good way to avoid accountability and avoid facing/challenging my shadow. Kinda weird that in all that time you didn't grow as a person. I don't know about anyone else but i've changed A LOT and beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:54 AM
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It's absolutely insane that people still try to push this narrative that somehow women are less valuable over time for ANY reason. It's like if they say it often enough it becomes true?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:51 AM
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It's especially hard because we seem to meet nothing but LVM from the time we hit puberty but they -do- exist. I'm just got married to one and I'm damn near 40. Just be ruthless and always vet. ABV, always be vetting, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:30 AM
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Tell me you aren't a woman and have no friends who are women without telling me...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:20 PM
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Tell me you hate your SO without telling me you hate your SO...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:22 AM
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I'm old as well and avoided tik-tok like the plague but I regret not getting it sooner. In reddit-esque fashion, you get the content you subscribe to and just have to wade through the shit a little bit. I've been following the chick from the OP for a while now and love all of her stuff. There are also quite a few good creators out there and while its a very, very small niche of tik-tok its still worth it, imo. If you decide to get it, please let me know and I can point you in the direction of so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:43 PM
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I mean... women were not allowed to be educated OR work and were the LITERAL property of men... so yeah, men have many more contributions. wtf, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:47 PM
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Yuuuup, same here! I could have no friends of mine own because they were too slutty, too dumb, too intelligent, disrespectful, etc. He told me that HIS friends (we we regularly spent time with) thought I tried too hard, was too nice, thought I was better than them, that they made fun of me for using 'big words' to try and impress them, etc etc. Turned out that NONE of that was true and was all just projection and insecurity on his part. Absolutely exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:58 PM
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It breaks my heart that society has conditioned us to even THINK "I don't know if I should move forward with someone who do this" rather than immediately walking away. And his entire family/ social circle are just as shady/ shitty. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:25 AM
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You do realizing that hating something and not caring about it are VASTLY different?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:13 AM
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Why would we not put in any effort? What? Do you have us confused with another group? "As none of you FDS women put in any effort into things." Ah, yes, I forgot that you know all of us individually and obviously know exactly what FDS is about, my mistake. There is no point in discussing this I guess since you are clearly the expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:41 AM
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Why would that need to be in there? Do you need to be taught how to treat other people with love, respect and dignity? You need to be taught to put effort into a relationship? Thats so confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:52 AM
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He sounds exactly like what FDS would be impressed by! It seems like he adds a lot of value to your life and treats you with the respect and love that you deserve. Your relationship sounds amazing. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:10 AM
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37 here, about 6 months ago is when I realized. Better late than never!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:27 AM
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Its crazy how quickly it goes from Niagara falls to the Sahara desert when you find out a man's background.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:29 AM
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And this is why we can't have nice things or put 100% trust in men to help deliver our message. How fucking horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:27 AM
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"No, I have to be fucking be here with you right now. UGH" Is all I can picture him saying in his head and it makes me want to scream on your behalf. I HATE this attitude, why even come along then if it was really -that- bad? Why would I want to be with someone who thinks that way when they are around me? Fuck that and fuck him.
/r/askFDS05/09/21 04:45 PM
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The "Joke" about dads meeting their daughter's date while holding a shotgun... They know, they all know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:05 AM
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I called my partner and he was kind of like "Well, maybe it's the pregnancy hormones, maybe you're reading into something and it's not what you think it is". I then called my sister and she told me to ring police. And this is why we need to always maintain close female friendships. Imagine if she had listened to her dismissive husband...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:54 PM
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"He also said he would be willing to help me get past the feelings of discomfort if I choose not to uphold this particular boundary." What a kind and benevolent scrote. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:15 AM
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Starting the day out with tea, witty banter, food and genuine compliments sounds amazing. One day, may we all be so lucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:43 AM
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Thats absolutely horrifying! I vaguely recall that woman but I remember nothing of the season or that sort of behavior. Kind of curious to go back now and watch it, if just for moments like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:39 AM
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A great way to start is, even for something as seemingly small as a friend asking you out for coffee, ask yourself how this benefits you. What do you get out of that interaction? If you are sitting there with them, are you just biding your time until you can leave or are you having meaningful/ fun/ balanced conversation? Someone wants your help for a project, moving furniture, advice on a relationship... does this benefit you? If they are a close friend, worth investing time into and you truly c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:41 AM
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I'm right there with you! And when I failed to find him something, I had the owner of my company hire him. So. Many. Rerets. We live and learn though, don't we!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:31 AM
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I did this for my own bf at the time and its one of my biggest regrets and was utterly humiliating. TL;DR/ Got him a job at my place of work because he was struggling to find something and I was tired of paying all the bills. He had no real resume and had barely worked. He was looking at porn at work, would say disrespectful things to me in front of my employees (I was management but he was in a different department) and just a host of other stupid shit. I finally called in and put in his notice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:30 AM
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Fuck, i'm realizing this is exactly the sort of stuff my sister says to me and its part of the reason I just don't talk to her but I couldn't really pinpoint why it bothered me.
/r/askFDS06/08/21 04:05 PM
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Chris Rock said it best "A (LV) man is only as faithful as his options"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:10 AM
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Her tl;dr is just heartbreaking. Despite being raped and sexually abused she is still downplaying it to a crazy degree. "We have mismatched libidos and i want to compromise". Its so painful to read. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:11 PM
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Oof, i'm 100% guilty of this and never thought about what exactly using this language is saying. Its also never used with regards to men, only women. Definitely going to rethink this, thank you for pointing it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:55 PM
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Uuuggh, yes! He has these amazing "A-HA" moments that he can... never apply to the next situation? Its like he never learns and his constant struggle with "doing what I was taught to do" and "doing the right thing" never becomes tangible change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:07 PM
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She sounds absolutely exhausting. You need to guard yourself from people like this and as you are working through trauma, that will require all of your headspace to be free of clutter and bullshit. There is absolutely NO room for someone who isn't adding value to your life. Time to drop her and find better friends.
/r/askFDS27/07/21 04:58 AM
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As someone who -just- finished this for the first time, I really love your list. Lord Grantham has me sooo torn, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:50 AM
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Same here, no option for volume and no sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:44 PM
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Maaaaan, this right here. I got into an argument about this recently and its so incredibly frustrating and horrifying. They feel entitled to sex but we aren't entitled to even feel safe? What a lack of fucking empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:21 PM
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this, it is absolutely horrifying! Good on you for getting out, for putting in the work to educate yourself and doing what you need to do. Is there any way for you to move and change your number? This is seriously how women end up being killed by their ex and you need to be on guard now more than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:52 PM
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Until my time here I never realized that this was the default advice for ANY situation, no matter how dangerous. Its horrifying. You can read through any of the relationship subs and a woman is talking about '2 years ago my bf held me down and had sex with me when i said no and i gave in and let him and now he uses that as an excuse to keep doing it, what do i do?' and you'll have tons of comments like 'well did you communicate to him that no means no? did you fully explain to him that you don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:23 PM
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Instead of ELI5 it can now be ELIM(ale). I love how you held his hand through that. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:46 AM
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Once again telling women that their dreams are unattainable and they need to just be happy and settle for whatever they get. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:27 PM
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u/kayethewitch really hit the nail on the head with that. What you are describing is the main/ first sign of depression. You say you are going to therapy but faking it, I'm not sure exactly what you mean but that sounds very counter-intuitive. Why do you feel the need to fake it? What are you faking? Could it be that this therapist is not the right one for you? Just with anyone else in your life, you must vet them extensively and if they are not helping (if you are putting in the work) they have…
/r/askFDS10/07/21 01:35 PM
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I saw your other comment but I had to dig around to find the video! My comment is based on this: https://www.tiktok.com/@min.aaaa1/video/6958219590593793285 (And I 100% agree with what you said and I think it falls right in line with this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:08 PM
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What is this 'men' that you guys speak of? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:52 AM
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Please, go with your gut. There are so SO many stories of women especially saying things like "He was perfect/ great but something just seemed off..." "I couldn't put my finger on it but something just didn't feel right..." and worst case scenario the guy is a murderer, 'best' case the guy was into some disgusting stuff. Who knows what exactly set off your creep radar but please trust it. We have been groomed since childhood to ignore those feelings but they exist for a reason!
/r/askFDS07/07/21 02:12 PM
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I'm so glad you got out, the longer you stay, the harder it can be. As someone who has a host of mental issues and a ton of past trauma, it really does get better. It takes time, sometimes a lot... but it gets there! The mental gymnastics that men like this have to do to convince themselves and others that they are 'right' OR the 'victim' is absolutely insane. All they'd have to do is reflect, some introspection and then work on themselves and it would take a fraction of the effort. Is narcissis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:09 PM
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Ahahahaha, i'm fucking dead. This is straight on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:19 PM
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If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:42 AM
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This hits hard, I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:28 PM
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Don't worry and don't be too hard on yourself. I'm damn near 40 and just realizing that this was me for most of my life. It gets easier, it gets better and you will level up and feel better! The more you read, the more you learn! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:29 AM
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This is life goals and I selfishly say that as someone who suffers from Bipolar disorder and a host of other mental issues that aren't worth going into. I have realized that I would rather be alone and doing what I need to do, when I need to do it (or not) than be with someone who constantly makes me feel worse than I already feel. My LVXes would constantly hound me with comments like "What?! You dont do that, thats not you" "Why are you acting so differently, what are you hiding?" "You try too …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:10 AM
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Oh god this one hits so close to home. How horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:24 PM
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What is this 'men' that you speak of? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:22 PM
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Oh god this is literally me right now and it hurts. I realized I never really 'connected' with most men and simply shaped myself to fit whatever mold they required at the time, only showing bits and pieces of myself. When it came to women I always felt like they didn't expect that and so I didn't know who to be and felt as though I could -never- be myself. This was obviously not of their doing and I regret the time I wasted NOT cultivating more female friendships. Thankfully I have a wonderful b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:20 AM
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You got this!
/r/askFDS08/06/21 03:33 PM
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Absolutely this! It also helps me to sit aside time dedicated to thinking about the issue and making that the end of it. Once I 'waste' those couple of hours, I refuse to spend any more. But sometimes we really do need to give it some mental space to properly process it and ASeaofQuotes is dead on about using a journal or just writing stuff down! Also reminding yourself that the hows and whys of his behavior don't matter, won't change anything and have nothing to do with you. He will most likely…
/r/askFDS07/06/21 09:01 PM
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Keep treating us like indentured servants, like we are lesser than and incapable of surviving happily without men and this is the future. No longer property to be sold and traded off from one man to another for their own self interest. Unwilling to compromise on how we are to be treated? Murder us in anger over rejection and entitlement? Too narcissistic to empathize with our plight? Fuck it all man, seriously. Fuck it. We'll do us and you do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:23 AM
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Thank you for this list! I'm going to save it and re-read it when I become discouraged. I heavily undervalued how important it is to have an active hobby and thanks to being Bipolar I continually start and stop hobbies and constantly switch them out and then drop them entirely. Maybe I should really hone in on 2 or 3 that I can rotate between rather than simply drop? Grats on finding something you love that also has the potential as a side hustle, those are the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:54 PM
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Ugh, this is worded so succinctly and it really makes sense now. Women have been gaslighted since the dawn of time and its simply one excuse after another as to why if we do something its just not the same and we are overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:43 PM
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This is the most disgusting aspect! I looked back through those pictures and none of the clothes were anything out of the ordinary. Just... girls in shirts?! I fucking hate society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:40 PM
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Kinda crazy that this is basically the list of expectations for women and we own it (which is understandable, we should all want this for ourselves) but I can count on one hand the men who would think this is a fair list for them. Especially now that Im back in the middle of nowhere, these men would say most of that stuff 'is fucking gay' and the rest of it shouldn't apply because 'its a woman's job'. Horrifying, absolutely horrifying. Also, i'm glad you made this list because its a reminder tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:31 PM
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This is amazing and I can't help it but picture women as being this 100lb, regal looking Doberman. Gorgeous and poised while staring down at a 5lb male chihuahua thats ripping up the carpet and barking in her face right after walking through a wedding cake while the owner keeps saying 'he never does this I dont know why he's behaving this way'. I rarely stop to think about how women are raised vs men and recall my mother saying she grew up always wanting to be a boy because of how they were trea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:55 AM
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Thank you for sharing this and it's a hard reminder that HVM Traits do not a HVM make. I'm glad you got out with your sense of self intact and had a mostly positive and beneficial relationship, though. Being that I am almost 40, this gives me hope as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:49 PM
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Being told my entire life by men that 'women are sensitive' had me floored the day I realized I only had to walk on eggshells around men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:40 AM
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Even worse, this is absolutely the way they approach most things too! They know it makes us uncomfortable and they are literally banking on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:23 PM
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This is why i'm so friggen grateful to FDS, it never occurred to me that this was even a 'thing' but reflecting on past experiences and seeing the same thing with others it became so glaringly obvious! How could I have not noticed or realized? Though I can guarantee 100% if I ever mentioned something like this to my circle of friends at the time (male and female) they would have told me that I was just being insane and that its just running/walking. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:53 PM
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LOL right?! I get told that soooo often "but i'm REALLY good with dogs". Ok. Cool. But not mine... soo... Ohhhh thats quite an interesting mix, I bet he's gorgeous! That will also be fun , especially if he's good at it and loves it. Do you know how to train for that or is that going to be a fun new hobby? :O Does he exhibit more of one breed than the other? And grats on the move to a more rural area, I did the same about a year and a half ago from the bay area and I'm LOVING it. Did your friend'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:53 AM
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She got down in his face and then sniffed it the way dogs would sniff each other. She used to do it to our old family dog who was fine with it but my dog does -not- want people in his face. He's comfortable enough with my mom that he did not growl or snap, just walked away. I've explained to my mom countless times that she can't do things like that but 'he likes me now though!' and she was quite butthurt when he ignored her for a week and growled at her once for getting too close. Now they are b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:06 PM
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Thank you and he is! Domination and violence is always the answer for them and also for women who have been trained by them. My own mother buys into this because its what she was always told by my dad and the other LVMs around her. She did something my dog didn't like and he was weary of her for about a week and it upset her and she gave the same 'you are not the alpha' speech. I reminded her that he didn't even growl at her but when she didn't respect his boundaries, he avoided her and didn't t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:50 PM
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I have a Lab/Husky mix and this sounds exactly like him! I never 'snatch' things from him, though I know he'd let me its just not worth the stress for either of us. He gets told 'drop it' and 'back up' and then I take the item and about half the time give him something else. This feels much more respectful for both of us so I'm happy with it. SO many LVM have told me "this is unacceptable and you obviously are not the alpha, you need to show him who is the boss". Wut? This dog would have you for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:18 PM
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Whenever there is any sort of crazy violence it would make headlines simply because its so rare and not because it's the norm. Weeks following the incident would be spend with thousands of researchers trying to figure out the whys and how could this happens of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:44 AM
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Ugh, too fucking true. I stand corrected, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:23 AM
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Oh man, I needed to hear this. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:38 AM
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My dad got my mother pregnant when she was 14 and he was 21 (he passed away a year and a half ago) and my mom was finally able to acknowledge that my father was a child predator. She then added "If one of you girls had come home with a man that old, your dad would have beat him to death and happily gone to jail for it." When its not projection on their part, they just fucking KNOW how men are yet do nothing about it. "Its not all men but I dont want to take any chances" Ok so its not -all- men b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:34 AM
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What a good watch, thank you! My stomach sank when she said (from the pimp) "You must perform this sex act TO this man". It puts so many of my own personal experiences into perspective and while i'm not a sex worker, a vast majority of my sexual experiences felt like something I was merely doing TO someone else, not with. My heart aches for these women and even as recently as 6 months ago I was very pro-sex worker, its absolutely insane how I bought into the patriarchal bullshit, I thought I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:06 PM
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Ugh I feel you on this so hard. Its fucking crazy when you get to experience both sides of that. My weight has always gone up and down a lot my whole life (+/- 50lbs or more) and when i'm overweight, at best, i'm invisible but I much prefer that to when i'm skinnier and its cat-calls and 'ey girl whats yo numba'. Also the try-hards though that did notice me who want to skinny-shame women to me just because I was overweight. Bruh, really? Its an instant no from me whenever another person tries to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:20 AM
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It is always women who pay the price for their fucked up partner's kinks. This is what most people don't even catch either. Outside of a select FEW kinks, women are always the ones having some sort of pain inflicted; whether physical, mental or emotional. My mom and I were talking about this recently after she was telling me about catching my 13 year old nephew watching porn on his phone idly while they were sitting together on the couch watching tv. She felt SO fucking disgusted, disgusting and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:11 AM
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