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| – | Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults.Masculinity isn't the opposite of femininity. Both compliment one another and all people should possess elements of each. A dude can be responsible, motivated, emotionally intelligent, rational, monogamous, romantic and dominant. I suppose that most people are not this multi-faceted but I know that some can be, as I am in love with one. Women can also possess the same qualities or complimentary versions of them. How they package all of this becomes an embodiment of masculnity and femininity. Man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:51 AM |
| – | Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults.Dudes who are actually as interesting and fun to be around as they think they are don't experience lack of satisfaction as often as those who aren't. Most hetero females do care about their mates being masculine. The issue arises when males simply don't understand what masculinity actually is or how to exude it and end up acting like tantruming, inconsiderate babies who need to be coddled in some way. That's not opening up or being vulnerable; it's an alienating character flaw that ends up becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:35 AM |
| – | Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults.The most attractive man I know is diplomatic, kind, considerate, emotionally intelligent and sentimental... and it took me several decades to come across someone like this. Apparently, they are unicorns among average males. Emotional intelligence is the most masculine quality someone can have because it makes them capable, reliable and puts them in control. Nobody can feel safe with giving themselves over to a man who isn't even in control of himself and does not regard their feelings or wish to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:27 AM |
| – | Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults.OP is pointing out that many males who are focused on masculinity do not actually express it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:21 AM |
| – | Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults.That's a strawman, tbf. The OP is talking about men who are obsessed with masculinity but don't actually exude any. Actual masculinity really boils down to moral conviction, measured behavior, diplomatic attitude, consideration/kindness, accountability, self-sufficiency, etc. What would the people described in this post have to do with you if the description does not apply to your situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:17 AM |
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