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Two novels in and I’m still so fucking lost on the point
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 04:16 PM
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My man you got involved with a hoe and now sit in anger that she done did hoe activities. The fault is entirely in you. Don’t shit up this board with your insecure controlling behavior. Learn and vet your women better
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:15 PM
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Some commenter mentioned above and it’s probably spot on: she found a guy who was better than her fiancé, cancelled the engagement, realized the guy she was going after was just fucking her on the side while he had several other girls in line, then got mad and hates all men now. I’m betting that’s probably what happened
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 07:59 PM
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I think America has a fetish for bleach blonde types. It wasn’t until I moved closer to the border that I started really preferring Hispanic women and was questioning what I saw in the Barbie types in the first place
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 07:53 PM
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No self awareness. They’re always justifying shit in their head of how they’re not a hoe while doing hoe stuff. Like a woman with an SO fucking around with you, then getting mad that you’re fucking around with other women. They simply can’t see their own hypocrisy
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 12:27 AM
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No point. Don’t worry about it. Just gain more experience with different women and you can intuitively pick up on what your gut says
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 11:44 PM
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Labeling half the population as deplorable racist bigot whatever-ist was such a poorly thought out and lazy approach
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 04:38 PM
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The tl;dr is to make your intentions known. Be physical early. If she’s not receptive, move on to the next. Can’t tell you how much time I wasted playing Casanova with one girl the whole night for nothing to come of it. But if you start off physical and she’s receptive you’re in. That romantic shit doesn’t work at the club
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 09:02 PM
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Have no shame. I’ll give you an example when I was young. I remember playing the board game Risk with some friends in school one night. Everyone was playing dirty especially this really cute girl. We’ll call her Kay. I didn’t know much about the game and realized I was going to lose. So my goal was to screw over the girl and basically kamikaze dive her since she was playing dirty. When I kept attacking and losing but still going people were like “what are you doing.” And I said it’s obvious I’m …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 02:03 PM
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Exactly. I think the point is you can express emotions but to not give a fuck about how you're coming off to a female when you do. It's your frame, your world, your rules. If you decide a close friend dying is worth some tears at his funeral, then that is YOUR decision and you shouldn't give a fuck what some girl besides you think... that's entering her frame. In fact a shit test in response to that would be enough for me to toss her for simply being a low EQ idiot who couldn't navigate social s…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 03:50 PM
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Dude same shit with self proclaimed “models.” You’re not a model if you’re paying someone to take pictures of you...
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 11:20 PM
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I've been there too man. I think the most important thing to do is not to do anything rash in times like this. And as cliche as it sounds: it will get better. You just have to hold out. I know it sounds like it won't, feels like it won't, life feels meaningless. I've been there. No one seems genuine. Just... wait it out. Keep moving forward and it'll pass. Times like these are great for showing you what's really important to you. Other than that, you know seeking things outside of yourself for v…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:49 PM
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It's hard to bring up to people. You gotta feel them out if they're receptive or not. I think back to when I had a mentor who was red pilling me before I even knew what red pill was. And I think it's bc I was asking the right questions, I was curious, and questioned why things didn't add up. He saw that and just steered my questioning to be able to ask the right ones. Occasionally he'd lay it out flat if I just wasn't understanding female dynamics but he had a way of laying it out simply. That d…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 05:53 PM
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I always think of that movie with Will Ferrel where he describes being a pimp in politically correct terms. If you dumb anything down to politically correct terms, it becomes real clear what’s going on. She’s an escort. But because the terminology like “accompanying” to events instead of “his date” then it’s easier to justify her being a sugar baby. I see it so many times. You got girls in law school, med school, any graduate school really... all justifying being a hoe by redefining just the ter…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:38 PM
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I think the point is you’ll never really know for sure. The only time I’ve ever been confident in a female telling me her body count is when I already see her as a thot and play with her about it. And it’s something SHE brings up bc she wants to know mine. I don’t ask bc frankly I don’t care. But they’ll tell theirs just to hear yours. Judge what you see presently and if you have enough experience there are hallmark signs she’s a hoe. Doesn’t mean you stop fucking her, just never commit to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 10:33 PM
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It always helps if I just step back and put it in perspective. Is she nice to everyone else? Then she’s feeling SOME type of way about you. If just your mere presence can elicit emotions in her, it’s always a good sign in my book. Just think beyond the initial reaction. She’s behaving that way bc she WANTS to elicit an emotion in you. It’s her attempt to get you feeling how she feels. And if she’s trying to make you feel insignificant, it’s bc SHE feels insignificant to you. She WANTS to know sh…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 12:47 PM
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You're asking a lot of bitter dudes here. I've seen it/experienced it too. And I'm a good looking dude. Cocky too. But yeah, I can go out to eat with an attractive girl and we get a waitress who is our age and she absolutely refuses to make eye contact with me. I point it out to my date and she even says "yeah that is really awkward." In the tip part of the check I'll just put "learn social skills." It's just women are very jealous and insecure. I don't see it as they find you ugly, quite the op…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 06:48 PM
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I thought that too. But that kind of toxicity has a way of eating itself. You really don’t even have to fight it, let them consume each other.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:39 AM
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Vet. Your. Fucking. Women. My heart goes out to you OP and thank you for sharing the story so others are reminded. Your entire life and reputation is not worth nutting in some crazy bitch. Keep your wits and maintain abundance mentality to keep thirst at bay. So you’re not caught off guard being all horny when a chick throws herself on you
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 03:35 PM
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Which is why social media is shit. Let them have that toxic dump
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 01:55 PM
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Veteran here. He’s right. Dude is going in with the wrong mentality. A lot of kids think they’re a marine before they even leave for boot camp. Shit a lot think they are after boot camp. But you ain’t shit unless you’ve done all that and been deployed and have a solid reputation. He’s going in to say he is, not to actually be one. Those scores are going to make him a target. He’s going to get walked over and passed up. I thought I was out of shape going into boot camp but my mile and half was mi…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 02:56 PM
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just use it to your advantage for other women. Pre-selection. You don't have to be attracted to her to be nice. If she just cant take the damn hint say youre in a serious relationship or something
/r/askTRP04/07/20 01:58 AM
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You get beat up by a drunk dude you deserve to get your ass beat
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 11:03 PM
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i may be the exception, if what youre saying is legit, you most definitely are. but where I'm from, it's simply an unnecessary risk to your finances, mental and physical health to be at the mercy of the divorce system. part of this sub is about letting men know the risks involved. they decide what they wanna do with said risks.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 10:18 PM
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I think you misunderstood me. I'm not advocating destroying anyone. I'm saying women find a way to be jaded one way or another
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 07:11 PM
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I don't mind a discussion, I'm open ears my man. but you come at me with a lot of assumptions I can't spend time addressing to correct. it reads as if you've taken the material in and didn't like it... and that's fine. if that is your conclusion, more power to you. I've taken the material and it resonated thru all my experiences. some things simply hold true consistently and countlessly throughout my life. I have never lost attraction from a woman by being wanted by other women. Never. Not once.…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 02:23 PM
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May I ask how old you are? I'm genuinely curious. You sound like you just discovered redpill and this part of the internet yesterday. been around the game for quite some time. I can't tell if this is projection or what. everything I brought up is general sidebar material There's nothing I can say that will change your mind, you'll either grow as a person and realise women are human beings that are complex and capable of deep thoughts, feelings and can be reliable, loyal, loving, devoted creature…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:49 PM
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dr Dre going thru it rn... no prenup
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:28 PM
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had a #2 briefly. Said nothing turned her on more than to see me get my dick sucked by another woman. although you'd think it's a good sign... she was still loose. any dude that she could see dominating her, she'd go for. so even with that, I wouldn't hold on to #2 either. or at least not hold her to monogamous expectations
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:25 PM
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not at all. it's just making fun of a common situation when a guy is given the odds and chooses anyways to try and beat them... only to wind up back here asking "how can I unfuck myself?" they'll always give advice. but they might poke fun a bit too
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:04 PM
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the whole point of marriage is to lock down resources. nothing to do with being special. a woman wants security and marriage is a convenient deal to guarantee she is provided for in life. and youre assuming the sex/attention is mediocre. women are emotional. attention from what she perceives a higher value male means hypergamy comes into play. that is more exciting than being married to a chump if she sees you as one. in turn, sex will be more exciting as well. marriage already puts you on the l…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:44 PM
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she's gonna get that victimhood mentality regardless. if she's sheltered, best believe she's gonna eat up whatever narrative people feed her. dudes are gonna come on to her and think she's a prude and dump her for some tail. she'll find a way to be jaded, trust
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:37 PM
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yup. and like clockwork, the wife is suddenly attracted to him again... BECAUSE he's banging a better bitch
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:30 PM
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dollars to donuts that side piece amber was prettier and/or younger to make the wife lose her shit
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:18 PM
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Lol she’s fifty tho. No thanks
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 10:14 PM
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I found this to be a HUGE time saver. My most valuable asset is my time. If I get a hint I’m being drug along for attention or validation, I make my intentions known. Not reciprocated? Great, on to the next. The point is I saved time and a headache over analyzing her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 08:54 PM
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I used to put all my carbs around my workout. All my carbs for the day were pre workout, intra workout, and post workout. It helped me stay strong on a cut
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:33 PM
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Piggyback on this bc I was into to competing in physique shows. If you’re the type to naturally not be hungry in the AM, milk that. Don’t eat breakfast, stay fasting. The body might feel lethargic at first but it’s incredibly adaptable. It will become second nature and you’ll have energy throughout the day. You can even push it an hour or two just by drinking a cup of black coffee. Some argue that’s breaking a fast but in my years of doing it, it’s really about what works best for you. And for m…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:30 PM
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My problem is bitter bitches. If I meet a girl in my social circle and she gets mad she gets REALLY mad. And there goes my social circle bc she’s causing drama
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 07:12 PM
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Doesn’t matter. It would NEVER be enough. No matter how many, the second you get into a LTR you’ll be wanting more. Better bet is to just do your thing and vet the hell out of any woman you’re considering fucking
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 05:29 PM
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Oh yeah not a fan of OLD. Ball is too much in their court. Given I’m so bad at it I figured it would only benefit me to try to improve at it. If anything better my skills with photography and online presence. I had a good run, but I’m taking a break for now until I improve my skills a bit more
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 03:01 PM
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That’s why frame and the way you carry yourself is so important. I could be a skinny nerd but if I walk around like a cocky white boy bitches will eat it up. With social media and this indoctrination shit people are spewing, you stand out even more so if you simply don’t give a fuck. Women see that and can’t help but be attracted.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 02:14 PM
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I’m the same dude. I just love a mouth full of pussy. And nothing kills the mood like a fucking dental dam lol. I try to compensate by vetting THE FUCK out of women Im attracted to. But even with that, it’s getting too risky to continue with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 05:52 PM
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The next step is to remove TRP after they’ve quarantined the sub. Yes social media is shit but there are little gems like this place. Before long, cancel culture WILL remove this place and any remnants of it. I understand those making posts to raise awareness. Take in all you can while you can
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:42 PM
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Yeah good point. Be as safe as you can gents
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 01:03 AM
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I wouldn’t overthink it man. Not a big deal to save messages if you lose track of the convo
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 09:14 PM
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Women don’t like men who fuck or want to fuck anyone but them
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 05:44 PM
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The beauty of Snapchat. The message is deleted. And if they wanna save it with some incriminating shit, you can just block them and it disappears. I never slide into DMs anymore. I get snaps and take it casually from there
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 05:43 PM
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Women can be 20 years out of high school but still tell anyone who will listen about a guy (who is now way out of their league) that hit on them back then. Some sad shit
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 05:28 PM
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My mans really helping us out here. Going as far as to show his dick too lol. You’re a rockstar dude I appreciate the guide. I’ve tried in the past and I always got only as far as having a girl claim she’s bi but never act on it. I just summed it up as girls saying that shit just for attention. But I guess I was looking at the wrong types
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 07:28 PM
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The sad part is the woman has reached her peak desire. She has maximized her hypergamy. Maximum commitment from a beta to provide security while obtaining the genetics of the alpha. So she will NOT change. She has no reason to. Imagine being a king with a harem of bitches and one says “no more sex from me.” Are you going to see the “error of your ways” all the sudden? Hell no, you’ve peaked, you’ve maximized YOUR masculine nature. You replace her with several more. Preferably younger, tighter, p…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 04:51 PM
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Problem with me is I get THIRSTY if I’m in a slump and haven’t watched porn. Like I find myself hitting up the equivalent of a crack whore just to get off. But if I watch a bit of porn I don’t do such thirsty stuff and I keep my standards a little higher. I definitely think it fucks with your brain tho
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:44 PM
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The thing with Dan is he could honestly be a cool dude. It’s just he tries incredibly too hard. There’s nothing genuine about his demeanor and his whole life revolves around trying to get attention. If the dude just stopped caring so much, a true not give a fuck attitude, he seems like he would be an awesome ass dude to be around.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 05:22 PM
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True. We all inherently know the social standings. I suppose I saw a bit of the young me in OP and I cringed a bit bc it reminded me of a person I was becoming but didn’t like. I guess the point I was trying to make is yes you may actually be the best, but avoid developing a big and fragile ego. If you’re competing with everyone, eventually you’ll lose, and the fall is harder. So for good long term success, I found just competing against yourself is best. In my older age I like to think I’ve bec…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 01:55 PM
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I’ve competed and placed in bodybuilding shows. I remain humble. There is always someone stronger than you. Always someone who naturally has better muscle insertions. I don’t walk into a party with my lats spread and muscles on my mind. I walk in there with a fun vibe looking to meet people, not to immediately judge anyone without abs inferior to me. Something new guys to lifting need to understand is no one cares about your muscles as much as you do. Don’t try so hard
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 11:29 PM
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I think it was the “I’m easily the most fittest, attractive” bits that came off pretentious. Reads as if he’s either really trying to convince himself or some anonymous internet users
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:00 PM
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“High value women” I’ve been seeing this a lot lately around here. So what exactly is a high value woman? Pussy turns your dick into gold? What gives? You guys falling off here thinking any girl is “quality.” That’s your job. You take care of the quality they take care of the quantity
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 12:43 AM
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You word it pretty well, have you thought of maybe writing a post up on it? Honestly think it would be a good topic for discussion and a lot of others can give input
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 05:31 PM
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Ok so this is definitely a niche and issue for dudes who may look pretty attractive. Game is different. And I think this is an avenue worth exploring to better our success rates. Your story of “you could have any girl here” brought up a lot of deja vu. I’m a bit older too, and shit similar to this has happened enough in my life to really put things in perspective that shit I must be attractive. But like you said, broads turn “hard to get” into “impossible to get.” And then get salty if I just mo…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 03:35 PM
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I dont wanna sound like I’m trying to brag here but what about the ones into you but are insecure/intimidated/whatever with you. So they try a little too hard to be uninterested to the point they’re overly friendly with everyone BUT you. I don’t want to sound like I’m some sperg who simply can’t read body language. I get it. I just happen to be a fairly good looking dude, can downright break necks if I’m dressed well enough. I just run into these cute girls with massive bitch shields bc they got…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 01:56 PM
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That’s my nephew. Smart af but socially retarded. My brother was always gifted in intelligence but he just figured the world out thru sheer experience. So he got involved in nuclear power which has a notoriously high washout rate in school. He made it thru but meeting some of the washouts, Jesus they are seriously clueless to basic life navigation. Smart as hell tho. If I could give you any advice to improve, just gain as much social experience as you can, learn to shut the brain off when it nee…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:04 PM
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Careful though. I think when we “love” we definitely love a bit more. But when it comes to shit like tinder, how much do you honestly care about any of those women past the point your balls getting emptied? Just don’t want dudes falling into the anger phase with women and their solipsism. We got our ways, they got theirs. Just don’t hold them to male standards like “love” and everybody wins
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 01:53 PM
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Yeah just use info here as a toolset, nothing set in stone. People can get a little autistic with "rules." Some dude swore up and down that I'd dry panties if I ever used an emoji. As I was literally spinning like 3 broads at the time all whom I constantly used stupid emojis on... 🤷‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 07:58 PM
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Yeah I think I should be more selective too. When I first started seeing a hint of success I tried forcing abundance I suppose. And honestly I probably could’ve seen these traits in those women way before just they were hot so I ignored it. Idk it’s like I’m attracted to girls with issues I need to chill. But thanks anyways man
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 07:58 PM
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I don't wanna get too specific but I can give the gist of a few examples. A girl you're sleeping wants to have "the talk" about being exclusive. You say you enjoy the relationship the way it is but don't outright say you're sleeping around. She then constantly blows your phone up about other dudes or dates and says "we're not fucking anymore." You say okay, whatever works, and delete her number. I mean... I don't know what else I'd do. How would you handle that shit test? Another is a girl who h…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 03:18 AM
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Big if. Most dudes need reality smacks across the face like this. But a lot still never learn unfortunately. They’ll commit to the next hoe at the whiff of pussy
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 10:35 PM
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What I don’t get is when they shit test so hard the only way to pass is to ghost their ass. Then they get bitter you left
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 09:46 PM
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I went to med school and before I got there I told myself “finally I’ll be surrounded by nothing but ‘high quality’ women.” Dude they play the same games as some bar broad. First one I fucked just lay there like a CPR dummy with her mouth open. Threw that one away. If anything, they’re even more insecure than the average girl. We’d go out in groups and I’d start choppin it up with randoms and you could see that jealousy rise in them like “but I’m going to be a doctor, he should be chasing me not…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 12:30 PM
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The military definitely helped me grow tf up. But like you said, they bend over backwards to promote women and give them a very cushioned position. At least in my experience
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 08:09 PM
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Oh yeah I definitely like the latinas. And most of the ones I dated had some of the traditional values although I still see it fading. Like... I should NOT be a better cook than a Latina, but unfortunately the younger ones just get pampered too much now a days
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 05:27 PM
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“They tend to eat better” Yeah I immediately was like [citation fucking needed] on that one. Literally every single one of my friends who got married have gotten significantly fatter and out of shape. Along with the misses
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:49 PM
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I appreciate your message here but are you going to be singing the same tune if you get divorced raped? I’m not saying it’s going to happen, but IF it does, will you be able to honestly come back and give the same advice to younger men? I’m a bit older, not sure your age, but I have not met one woman in my life worth that risk. Maybe I’m too stern in my vetting process. Or maybe I put myself too high on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:41 PM
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All the Arab bitches I met in uni were hyper feminists. Where would an American most likely run into one of these culturally faithful women? Not to mention the stigma of interracial shit with the family. Just genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 01:31 PM
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My bitch gets so wet when I become her purse holder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:30 PM
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Gotta disagree here. Clear communication has never worked for me. Got the vibe I was seen as weak. I started getting much better behaviors making a bitch FEEL she was wrong rather than overtly saying so. You gotta communicate in a language they understand. All about them feels. I believe Rollo had a good write up on this, check it out... https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 12:44 PM
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Yeah unfortunately that’s the case. They made the decision. Be thankful they showed you they were a poor investment. Imagine finding out that kind of behavior AFTER investing
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 12:03 PM
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Not gonna lie I was guilty of this when I first tried OLD. I’d take a girl to a nice dinner, then plan an evening to see a interesting show or something, only to make out at the end and no pussy. I’d know I was above the girl, yet she was friendzoning me. Eventually realized that going on so many dates like that was hurting the wallet and I decreased my investment in strangers by just meeting up for drinks and maybe some pizza and letting them pay for themself. Well what do you know I started ge…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 11:54 AM
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Think of your attention as pussy. What you ultimately want from a girl is their pussy. What they ultimately want is your attention. If they decrease the value of their pussy (by demonstrating red flag behavior, risk/reward imbalance) then you withdraw attention. Start setting your sights on better prospects. You don’t have to completely cut her out, just know that she has degraded herself from any potential serious investment on your part. If pussy is still on the table, throttle it with your at…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 11:38 AM
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There’s been an odd increase in these low effort stories with no actual point to be made lately
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 11:25 AM
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Let me tell a story about how a girl stopped a 15 min blowjob to have a “heart to heart” and say “no more pussy for you.” Then say it’s bc I fucked her so good... ? I don’t get it: the story, or the point. Women say this to every guy, you’re not a snowflake. If you’re fucking her good, she will hamster her way onto your dick no matter what. Reads as if she was trying to leash an orbiter. OP passed the test still, even if his reasoning was off
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 12:52 PM
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Taking steroids =/= Greek god body. I’ve cycled and got to single digit body fat, then competed in physique shows. That’s approaching Greek god status. But the vast majority of people I knew on gear at my gym didn’t look like Greek gods. In fact most of them were fat. The rest just looked like average gym goers. Be careful with making that claim friend. I appreciate your post and agree with some aspects of it. But a little bit of humility sounds warranted for you. If we talk alphas we talk leade…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 01:10 PM
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It always resorts to if guy dumps girl = abuse. A broad I used to fuck would scratch herself when she got emotional. Then at work when people asked about the scratches she’d say “X did it to me.” Got back to me and I confronted her about the lies and she 100% believed it was my fault. “If you hadn’t mad me mad this would’ve never happened. You did this to me.” The craziest thing was I could see she genuinely believed her hamster. Dropped that one asap
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 06:41 PM
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This is like 90% of every falling out I’ve had with women. They get pissy, then they try to fuck someone close to me. Rinse, repeat. So predictable it’s comical. Every once in a while you get that cool one that didn’t start drama and those are the ones I’d be lying if I said I didn’t kinda miss.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 12:47 AM
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exactly! Be present, right now. The cool air nourishing your lungs. The sights and sounds. Shit go turn on your faucet and just be amazed and thankful you have incredibly easy access to clean water. If you're in a rut... that's okay too man. Give yourself time to suffer. But the end goal is to survive and come out stronger
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 01:18 AM
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You don’t wanna be perfect. It’s too much of a fucking stress to live like that. Respect yourself to stay healthy and maintain drive but give some damn leeway to just be you, as imperfect as that is. Look man, this feeling doesn’t go away with or without women. All it does when you start getting women is show you that you don’t need them anyways. You’re back at being alone again. And somewhere along the way we’re told that’s somehow wrong. To be alone. Well, you have thousands of years of ancest…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 11:02 PM
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You don’t wanna be perfect. It’s too much of a fucking stress to live like that. Respect yourself to stay healthy and maintain drive but give some damn leeway to just be you, as imperfect as that is. Look man, this feeling doesn’t go away with or without women. All it does when you start getting women is show you that you don’t need them anyways. You’re back at being alone again. And somewhere along the way we’re told that’s somehow wrong. To be alone. Well, you have thousands of years of ancest…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 11:01 PM
3

I never got how all my buddies were struggling when we were on deployment with literally nothing to spend money on. Getting tax free hazard duty pay for 9 months and we get back and they can’t even fill their gas tank. I made sure to get out with everything paid off and a safety net of finances. People just don’t realize the value of utilizing their benefits
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 01:06 AM
6

Yeah I remember the #bringbackourgirls thing. It was okay killing little boys but girls oh no you’ve crossed the line now...
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 04:49 PM
18

I agree but I think there’s a trade off. Men take longer and are hit harder with the loss of love but that allows for true healing, moving on, and the ability to love deeply again for another. Whereas a woman... once she’s alpha widowed once, sticks with her for life. It becomes ingrained in her character forever.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 06:06 PM
11

A lot of people finding out they’ve been seeking validation outside themselves with this isolation
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 09:40 PM
1

Yeah I wouldn’t say you were overestimating but think of it as more like you weren’t reading properly. All it takes is a little bit of intrigue from the girl and you can manifest something with that. I think most guys are too thirsty and read way too much into a woman bc they want it to be true. They sabotage themselves by coming off desperate or creepy. Don’t beat yourself up over it, let it go and just think about the next time you get an IOI what to do with it. Again, attraction is something …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 03:48 PM
2

Indicators of interest. Subtle things women do to let you know they’re receptive to you. When you develop oneitis, you can become blind to those things
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 02:58 PM
3

Oh my man I had the same issue. I have a preference for latinas and for the longest time I could get one interested and eventually it would just fall apart. And I chalked it up to guessing latinas just weren’t in to guys like me. I realized I must’ve subconsciously been wanting it too much so I had to sit and think and force a mindset to stop caring about getting them or not. Once I stopped it seems like all I’ve been getting has been latinas. It seems like they’re exclusively in to guys like me…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 12:10 AM
1

I'm not saying women assign value to N count. I'm saying a man who sleeps around is simply a high value man given the work and skills needed to get to that point. Women inherently see that in men, not because he sleeps around, but because he's high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:34 AM
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I'm not trying to apply connotations to it, just merely stating the value difference. A man who sleeps around is high value due to the work required to get to that point. A woman who sleeps around is just a woman who sleeps around. I'm not saying that it's bad. The only "bad" one could apply to that is men not likely to engage in a relationship with said woman due to her mannerisms. But I think that boils down to biology where men inherently want to know their offspring is indeed theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:16 AM
1

I think as humans we all have a desire to have what others can’t. Or at least most of us. We want what others want, but only reserved for us. So a slut to a man isn’t desirable bc she’s “easy.” It’s like that saying would you rather have a lock that can be opened by many keys or a key that can open many locks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 08:09 PM
1

I think it comes down to effort. It’s easy for an average girl to be a slut. No work needed. They can go out to the bar and guaranteed to find a fuck if she wanted. Whereas men, in order to fuck a lot, have to show value. They simply can’t just be and have it delivered to them, even if they’ve got a lot of things going for them. They always have to put in work, play the game, and be high value. Simply put: it’s easy for a woman to be a slut. It’s hard for a man to be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 06:44 PM
8

I would say initially there’s resent but after some time you realize you’re holding women to men’s standards and that’s not fair. We’re different. No one inherently “good” or “bad” in the way nature has developed our strategies. You gotta sit and see both sides. Think of how you’d be if you were a woman. Like honestly sit and think about how your strategy would be and where the standards and expectations shift depending on the gender. Include all your vices you have and how you’d handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:30 AM
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TRP doesn’t “look down” on women, they simply state their nature. Do you get mad at a cat when it kills a mouse? No. It’s in their nature. Other than that I’ll have to disagree. No matter how hot the girl is, eventually you will get tired of fucking her. It’s called the Coolidge effect. You just want something different, not necessarily “better.” Some men can keep it in check. But you’re much less likely to tolerate any less than ideal behavior from current partner if you know you have one or tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:31 AM
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I’ve reached that point too man. You play the game, fuck a few bitches, end up actually kinda liking a few, but you know it’ll inevitably fail. You just rinse and repeat. Now that I am older, I really like my space and quiet time. I mean pussy is great, but i don’t need it. Pick up a hobby or something. Work on being a better person. Your time is yours so enjoy it
/r/TheRedPill12/03/20 12:27 AM
2

Yeah in just about every relationship I’ve been in. It’s called Briffaults law. Loyalty is a largely male emotion. Men can remember who stuck around when they struggled and keep that with them. Women seem to forget all of it. Men fuck themselves over thinking all their supporting of their woman will pay off one day. It’s also why when you’re on top of your game you have a seemingly surplus of women trying to get with you but when you’re struggling you’re struggling alone. The you hasn’t changed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:20 AM
2

I would say on average most women drop subtle cues. Their way of letting you know could simply be a smile. Then they leave it up to you to approach and progress it. However there are some girls that are upfront about it. Usually there’s alcohol/drugs involved or they’re driving by being goofy with their friends. Then there are some girls who don’t want you to know they like you and act in completely opposite ways, like purposely being rude to you. Like an auto-rejection of sorts. To sum it all u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:52 PM
9

really hard to eat when your girlfriend is wearing lingerie. This just makes me think he hardly ever fucks her if it's this much of a treat to see her like that. Another sign we're dealing with a chump here. A woman, particularly your girlfriend should want to fuck you, it shouldn't ever be done as a chore, favor, apology, etc. If she's not, you're doing something (many things) wrong in the relationship, or as a man in general.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/20 01:47 PM
3

The whole thing sucks sure but I see it as ironic that he joked about assassinating the president because he bought the media narrative only to be victim of the same narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:42 PM
8

you ever just breathe to flex on asthma niggas?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/20 09:35 PM
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This can go for those digesting the red pill as well... and it's a hard lesson to learn for one who experiences some success with the tools they develop from the material on this sub. If you're getting laid you begin thinking you have value. This is especially true if you were struggling before and now are at what is seemingly a surplus of sex. It's easy to begin associating access to pussy as validation for your masculinity. But this is still putting pussy on a pedestal, letting it control you,…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 11:37 AM
1

It goes both ways. You can “settle down” with an incredibly hot chick but you will eventually get tired of fucking her. You’ll want something new too. You’ve just been conditioned to think that’s not acceptable. TRP is merely showing you that it’s natural and giving you ways to exercise your options. Also it sounds like you’re making women your mission still. A woman should never be your mission in life. If one happens to want to ride along with you then great but don’t slow down or change direc…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 11:32 AM
1

Like the post but I also like eating ass so that part didn't help. I make sure the bitch preps beforehand of course, I don't go in there all willy nilly or with a girl I met that same night. They come to see you all crisp and clean from then on
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 02:00 PM
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Legit. I've had exes try to guess my penis size and it's always something like "hehe idk um like 9 inches..?" I let them think that. I'm nowhere close to that, they just suck at measuring, and only know a good fucking. Just roll with it fellas
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/20 01:28 AM
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They most definitely want validation from men. They bring men around their girlfriends to show them “hey, look I can get a man to commit to me.” Remember men value sex and are the gatekeepers or commitment. Women value commitment and are the gatekeepers of sex. It’s simply a way of flexing to their social circle or social media or whatever the fuck
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 04:43 PM
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My man we all have these stories. We all look back and cringe at where we went wrong. Even as you continue down your path you’ll still slip up here and there. You’re learning and that’s what matters. You can only do so much at this point to grow. And you’re doing it. Baby steps will turn into huge confident alpha chimp strides. Remember to always keep the focus on you and your life.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 05:55 PM
1

How do you manage to fuck them and not have at least one of them bitter and vindictive? If it’s a culture thing then where are you located?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 04:12 PM
1

yeah that was the article that made me ask the question actually... after reading your response in hindsight it looks like I'm conflating disrespect with drama. And I possibly am being too sensitive to any "disrespect" ​ thx
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:15 AM
1

Newton, Einstein, Beethoven, da Vinci, etc
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 11:32 PM
7

Some people take personal offense because you’re not acting according to how they believe you should. They either accept it eventually which could take a year or two or they cut out the “new” you and attempt to ostracize you. At least in my personal experience. Again from my perspective, don’t change, stay focused. You’ll like the new you even if it costs some relationships. You’ll find out they were toxic anyways if they can’t maintain relationships unless your personality is on their terms.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 12:58 AM
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I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with this one. I've tried it on several occasions, each being "unique" in their environment, and it ends ugly more often than not. Your best case scenario is you have a girl still hanging around that is able to joke about it... but jealousy and passive aggressive vindictive behavior will forever be an underlying thing to your relationship with her. If anything, I'd probably go for those on the fringes of an extended social circle, not ones you're close …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 04:33 PM
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I’ve went though something similar recently. Granted my indifference to losing a plate had her trying to “friend” her way back into my life. But I realized the reason I didn’t care was bc I was finally starting to internalize a lot of shit. I was 100% focused on me for once and I went back to work on being the best me I can be. If a female doesn’t wanna ride along for that so be it. In the past I’d ask a million questions on why the girl would be okay never talking again. But this time I honestl…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:52 PM
1

This is what I don’t get with the post. I feel like I’m doing a damn good job if i make a one night stand want more and start pushing for exclusivity. If I fuck a girl and get absolutely no contact after that, I’m probably gonna think I sucked at fucking her... or I wouldn’t be high value enough for her to consider trying to cuff me I can’t register with OP
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 11:07 PM
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Interestingly I’ve found I have been doing much better loving women as a collective rather than one in particular. I have allitis now
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 09:45 PM
1

You mind sending me the story through DM? It was removed here
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 09:44 PM
1

Well it’s removed now but genuinely curious what the story was based off the comments
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:56 PM
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Consequently the few remaining high value men are all the more attractive. Even better time to focus on yourself now
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 03:16 PM
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Not him but I relate to his story as well. I found that you can still be “quiet” and still be successful. You have to be mindful of the feel of what you’re saying, your vibe, your energy. It’s true you can say almost anything but it’s the feeling behind the words girls pick up on. If you’re genuinely excited about something people will feed off that energy. Think of it like a dog. You can say whatever you want to a dog but it’s the how you say it. The dog picks up on everything else about you ex…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 12:27 AM
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Gotta say OP I enjoyed the post and judging by the comments you really cleaned up the vocab. I didn’t see it before but it reads really well so good job taking criticism too
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 12:46 AM
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There’s a guy on YouTube called Brothers Eats Greens or some shit and he is God tier at making cheap food taste damn good. I learned a few tricks from him and add those tricks to just about any meal I make
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:45 PM
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Yeah just gotta give them plausible deniability. But if they’re down to come over for any reason they’re down to fuck. But they’ll probably feel better telling her friends she only went over to play with your puppy, bake cookies, watch a movie, whatever. Then “it just happened”
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:43 PM
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Who else is going to give her attention and validation when Chad leaves her?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 11:28 AM
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It’s about the V taper. Developing the shoulders is the best thing for creating that illusion. Followed by lats and chest. I competed in physique shows and even if I was hitting those 3x a week I always got critiques to develop those areas more.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 05:47 PM
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Yuh reddit has started to really amplify hive mind mentality and enforce echo chambers.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:49 PM
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But the “details don’t matter” lmao toxic bitch
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:29 PM
52

Mannnn FUCK fortnite. Always get my ass handed to me by kids
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 11:57 PM
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they travel to take fucking instagram or whatever-the-fuck pics to flex on social media
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 06:06 AM
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Common thing they teach officers in the military is to make a decision and make it fast. The wrong decision is better than no decision. Indecision can get you killed. The wrong decision can as well but at least it’s 50/50 and if you survive, you get a valuable learning lesson
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 04:14 PM
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It’s because it does sound like you’re bragging. The whole night you’re obsessing over this girl, focused on her, watching her intently for any reaction. Had you actually been focused on other women you wouldn’t have cared and this would be a none issue. It almost sounds like you’re the one with oneitis
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 09:54 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. If a girl is going to cheat she’s gonna cheat. Do you really wanna spend your whole time fighting against the nature of a shitty person? Hell no. Let her cheat and move on with another girl or two.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 02:09 PM
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It’s projection. Average beta chump can’t face the fact he can’t “nice” his way into female attraction. His only options are to be said provider these girls are using. Either that or it’s females that can’t hook a Chad and can only insult with the one thing anyone has ever found value in them for: pussy.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 07:18 PM
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I did the same shit bulking. All I did was get soft and made it harder to cut. Muscle grows at a fixed rate, eating excessive calories isn’t going to make that rate increase magically. Definitely for any guys reading, increase calories gradually
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 09:25 PM
1

Strength as a foundation is great to build hypertrophy on though.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 09:23 PM
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Out of every guy that enters the squat rack at my gym, I’d wager only 10-15% of them actually squat to depth. This is something I always tell myself when internet stats are brought up
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 09:21 PM
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Put yourself in situations where you can humbly take a loss. But use those situations to learn and grow for yourself. Use a loss to improve. Example. I’m a cocky asshole sometimes. But I know a guy or two that simply have women handed to them with so little effort. To me, I still feel like I have to work to get girls. I guess bc I’m not a natural like they are. They seemingly just flow through women. Angry me would say “that’s unfair, can’t game with them bc they’ll get all the prettier girls ea…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 04:40 PM
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Yeah don’t take test if you want to keep that fountain of youth active in your older age, or dare build a little muscle. That’s illegal. However if you wanna completely change your sex we can inject you with all the hormones you want and insurance will cover it 👌
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 01:17 PM
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Don’t pay attention to upvotes and downvotes too much. There’s always a gem you can find for yourself. The same argument of: you’re butthurt and she knows it is easily flipped by saying: why do you care what she thinks? Block, don’t block. Who cares. Do what’s best for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:28 PM
1

True. But this post was aimed at those trying to become Chad. If a guy isn’t getting laid, wants to, but his focus is on unproductive things, then cutting out those habits will help him in his goals. As long as he replaces those habits with taking care of himself. But you’re absolutely right, video games are a perfectly fine hobby if your shit is together.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 02:13 PM
1

Guard your commitment, attention, and time like she's guarding her pussy. She doesn't get the best things you can offer without giving the best thing she can offer. Chalk this one up as a Loss and start working on things with other women.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 01:20 PM
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It’s called the Coolidge effect. You think life would be great fucking that HB8 or 9 all The time? Nope. You will get tired of it and crave something novel.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 12:40 PM
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As with everything it'll take time. Continue doing exactly what you're doing. You'll develop abundance, genuinely forget about those nothing happened with, and escalate with those willing. It all seems to work itself out. And when (and it still will happen sometimes even when you're a Chad) your escalation attempts get turned down, you are not emotionally invested anyways, so you're not hurt, and you easily move on.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 01:09 AM
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I didn't get to see OP's post before it was deleted unfortunately. But yeah, I was attempting to explain why we act. It's like that same trigger when you see a beautiful woman with wide hips is still there in our monkey brain just as much as the same things that trigger attraction from women when they witness an alpha. That was the whole reason behind TRP to just simply understand all of that. Accept it, even though it is primitive, and do with that knowledge what you want to do. It's a toolbox.…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 11:21 PM
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I wish I could find the study on a troop of chimpanzees some people were studying long term. There was an alpha male who was aging and they were trying to guess who would be taking over soon. The scientists placed their bets on different chimps according to their behavior but what they found was pretty surprising. There was one chimp that was an absolute brute. Dude fucked anyone up that messed with him. He simply could kick anyone’s ass so naturally he ends up taking the alpha position. It didn…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:12 PM
2

Yeah I read up on it and it helped me understand. I think it was a power thing. Some people simply can not help themselves and will lie on instinct. I truly believe a lot of them don't even realize it. It's just that for whatever reason they have prioritized power, and having/maintaining a certain perception of themself, that they lie at all cost to keep their status. With that said, and me understanding it's a personal issue with them, I simply have no use for that kind of toxicity on my life. …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 06:30 PM
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I can offer you one I noticed with an ex. It’s the lying. For whatever reason it is impossible for them to be honest. Even when there is zero need to lie, they will do it, over the stupidest shit. And if you call them out on it, they will gaslight like crazy. It’s really fucking odd. Your best bet is to get away fully. Not halfway, not casually, but fully remove them from your life. Otherwise they will make it their life mission to be an inconvenience to you
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 07:48 PM
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Don’t overthink too much. Go out with a game plan and just assume it’s working. Don’t analyze during the interaction but reflect afterwards if things didn’t work out. This is why it’s good to journal. Always assume attraction. If you tell a joke that changes her facial expression and then you start worrying “oh no I offended her” it starts a snowball of negative assumptions. Just fuck it and keep going. She actually may have been offended but who cares, you’re still in your frame and if it’s sol…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 04:57 PM
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I’m not quite sure what you’re asking. If you’re asking if I think girls who have sex then regret it and claim rape it doesn’t change anything. I was just saying by the feminist definition of rape, I was raped. But I’m not going to go around telling everyone I was raped. I simply had sex with an annoying girl to shut her complaining up because she was so offended someone didn’t want to bone her 24/7
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 07:06 PM
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Although I appreciate your post and deep down would really enjoy a wife and kids, it’s just too much of a risk and have yet to find a woman even moderately mature enough to commit to. You’re probably older. Times have changed man. Guess I’ll just donate sperm to carry on my DNA or something. But thank you for the post anyways.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 08:06 PM
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Like normally that would be hyperbole and laughed off as a joke. But my ex did this too. Some days I simply didn’t want to fuck her bc she was unpleasant to be around. She took so much offense and basically forced me to fuck with a semi hard dick until she came. Just didn’t want to listen to her damn bitching. In hindsight it was rape
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 03:08 PM
2

I totally agree but unfortunately men don’t realize they should’ve already been that way. Due to blue pulled conditioning. It isn’t until shit goes really bad that they wake up. Least they can do is warn others. But I do agree, the end goal is to be accountable for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 04:47 PM
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To be fair, divorce rape is probably the most jagged red pill a man can swallow. I appreciate it when those guys share their stories. It’s a great reminder of perspective because no matter how bad things get or how special that unicorn was... at least you didn’t give a woman half your life for her to ruin while hers is improved significantly. Add kids to that and you’re a slave for a good chunk of your life
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 01:53 PM
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Although I agree the quality of recent content has gone down I wouldn’t just allow endorsed contributors to post. Game changes. And this sub was supposed to be about what works to get you laid. Some of those guys refuse to budge in their ways. Which is fine, if it works for them. But they can be blind to what is working for others as newer generations emerge. I’m 32. Currently plating an 18 year old. And although some TRP concepts are and will always be foundational, some opinions currently held…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 01:08 AM
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And here I was thinking I was a damn idiot for not being able to figure the site out
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 12:32 AM
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I think a lot of them don't really see the point. I see it first hand in a lot of my classmates. They're surrounded by massively inflated egos of women who are maybe a 6/10 and are just unpleasant to be around. They could simply go home and satisfy themselves with a 9/10 and no headache. That and no one is teaching these men to be men anymore. Something happened and they're all pushovers and soft. Women play them accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 03:35 AM
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I was skimming that thread when it was posted. It’s funny how you quoted that one guy desperately asking for advice after being the house maid. I had typed out a huge reply and then deleted it and left the thread once I thought it wasn’t worth the effort and backlash. And here I see him again, quoted by you. Poor guy.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 03:30 AM
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Thanks for the post. Curious why it didn't get traction but oh well... ​ So 2nd phase seems to be where TRP focuses. Just focus on yourself pretty much. I can get into that. Low investment in women = low stress. If you get laid, great. If not, don't care still focused on my mission. ​ One of the hangups for 3rd phase is once you see AWALT, it can be hard to "fulfill her needs and make her feel beautiful." It almost seems like you're slipping into unicorn land with this behavior. However, I think…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 04:46 PM
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Part of the reason for this is that investigations too often focus on women's character, honesty and sexual history - Rachel Krys, co-director of the End Violence Against Women Coalition It's funny how the process of reviewing a suspect's history is a completely foreign concept to this woman. Could you imagine growing up in a world where you're coddled your entire life to the point you get offended your word isn't enough to ruin someone's life?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 03:19 PM
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Well for someone who’s masculinity is fragile enough to be destroyed by an emoji maybe yeah I can agree, you shouldn’t be using them 🤷‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 04:49 PM
1

Relax man, just stating I’ve used emojis and managed to get laid after. You don’t have to be autistic with tinder messaging rules. Just play around a bit
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 01:12 PM
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I don't know man I do a lot of shit you're saying not to do and can land dates fairly consistently. The only reason I try to set up dates soon is to determine if they're there for validation or to get physical. I can quickly unmatch and move on to other prospects if I sense the former. Nothing wrong with emojis to make her feel either imo. But to each their own
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 02:57 AM
3

I don't get this... in my experience no woman has ever sat and thought "you know what, I was wrong, I should apologize." And yet we ghost until they apologize? All of my ghosting has turned into removing them from my life permanently. I have never once received an apology. At most they will try to weasel back in casually, which I don't allow. Am I supposed to demand an apology?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 02:43 PM
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I actually did this with my one buddy who is really timid about approaching... I said "let's go approach this group with the intent of being rejected... let's make it super awkward." It really lightens the mood and it's fucking hilarious the shit we come up with. A lot of the times it oddly works. Problem is he's pretty beta and has oneitis for a slut so won't bro out with me anymore. C'est la vie.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:08 PM
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Damn that's really good advice. Already be thinking about the next girl I'll be approaching... or the collective of approaches for the night. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:58 PM
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Some days/nights I'm in flow, it just seems like I'm a magnet to female IOI's. I started journaling to figure out why some nights everything seems to be perfect and I can literally just stand off to the side of the bar, alone, not drinking, not even on my phone, just standing there like an idiot and have a woman approach me... and other nights I'm striking out repeatedly even with girls I think are way below my SMV. I started logging my mood, my outfit, my fucking haircut... and it just seemed r…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:21 PM
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I get mad for my dad. My mom cheated on him and she got us, moved far away, and he paid child support for years. Fuck this system man
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 07:01 PM
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I agree with 3) Honesty. But I wouldn't vomit emotions. I'd just say what's on my mind without sugar coating your real desire in Disney fairy tale shit. ie) Don't convince yourself you and you friend would be a great couple because you guys just get along so well. Tell yourself you just want to fuck her but in reality she's a garbage person. If you're not fucking her, then she's not getting attention. You move on. Being honest with yourself and others makes things much more simpler and efficient…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 08:09 PM
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That's one of the big takeaways here. Don't treat what works for one guy as gospel. The main idea is to go out and just do, experiment around, try different things, find out what works best for you
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 03:58 PM
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I think I was in the same position OP. And coming to read here just amplified my “problem.” It seemed like you’re supposed to be able to have a ONS and if you can’t, something is wrong with you. I’ve experienced the same. Having an objectively hot girl under you, and feeling nothing. Simply because I just didn’t vibe with her at all. When it happens several times all with women you can honestly say are beautiful, then I think it’s something deeper. I managed to have a ONS after some reflecting a…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 12:27 PM
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Yeah I was looking into South Padre and seeing what some of the guys were saying over at the Roosh V forums. A lot were saying a sausage fest, trashy women, cliquey, and young. I'm 32, but could probably pass as a 25 year old. It's an option though, thank you.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:35 AM
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A cruise doesn't sound like a bad idea actually. I've been on one before and had a pretty good time. Thanks man
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:29 AM
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Definitely. If you fuck up, well at least you know that doesn't work so you can quickly work to fix or change it, try again. Never even attempting will offer no growth.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 05:31 PM
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If a woman's masculine image of you is shattered and her love is gone, it is impossible to get it back 99% of the time Usually this can be solved by simply fucking other women she knows. She sees other women experiencing all those feels you once gave her.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 05:29 PM
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Yeah just gotta accept it. It’s in their biological nature. They don’t/can’t play by the same rules as men do so they have to resort to other methods. It is what it is
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 11:40 PM
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Check out mindfulness. It's letting the feelings you have occur without judgement. If you feel upset about something, instead of letting those emotions creep into your head and cause anxiety, you sit and process the emotion objectively. Where do I feel this? Why do I feel this? Could I handle this better? Is it really that big of a deal? Instead of reacting immediately you learn to process things first.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 01:39 PM
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Watch RSD on YouTube. There’s a few guys (Max and Tyler?) I enjoy watching when I have some time. They show you how to be energetic and fun with strangers. Also nothing beats actually going out and doing it. Go out and just talk to women everywhere. You’ll find out your own style rather than imitating someone else. When you realize it’s not a big deal talking to strangers then you can start having more and more fun with it. Entertain yourself by being extravagant. Amuse yourself by doing funny s…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 05:22 PM
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Yep, you nailed it. After rereading my story it feels sloppy and doesn't give the story in full. But you get the point: don't bank on "one day" or future promises. You end up broke, stressed, and betrayed when those promises don't pan out. Treat every woman exactly for what they are presently, never for what they could be. Potential doesn't mean shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 04:50 PM
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Sure thing man. I'll try to condense as much as possible. I started university with the intention of dating casually, not taking anything serious. I made it a point to approach girls I found attractive. This was before TRP, this was just me telling myself to get out there and go after what you want. I approached a few girls but most never really went anywhere and I was starting to grow frustrated with how socially awkward the girls were (I was a good 10 years older than most). I have always love…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 06:11 AM
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I don't want to bore you with my story of when I thought exactly like you're thinking now, and what lead me here. I will just say that yes, you would think that to be the best decision. However, it's not. Anything a woman can "assist" you with is something you can do, and probably should do, on your own. You never want to rely on a woman to reach your goals. That is the most traveled path in all of history to ensure you fuck yourself over. Never once think a woman will ever help you. She may rid…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 05:02 AM
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Try to reframe. All the chains are gone. You can take whatever path you wish. Your life is 100% in your hands and you decide what to make of it. That's masculinity. Life has no meaning? So what? You can give it whatever meaning you want your little time here. You have all the power now.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 04:26 AM
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I remember having this thought as a kid after seeing a cartoon. In the cartoon there is a guy and he's in heaven. He's looking around for something to do and asks God if there's a billiards table in heaven. God looks at him and says: "Do you really need a billiards table in heaven?" The guy says guess not then sits there and says ... this sucks. The whole point of joy in life is working towards things, it's accomplishing goals, it's building, it's the journey. In heaven, everything is perfect. S…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 10:24 PM
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I used to wrestle in high school. If I went on a win streak I would get cocky and be humbled real quick. The most I ever learned were from losses. I would recognize my own weakness and implement new techniques that were used to beat me on other people. ​ I don't think knowing you'll win is good enough. I think knowing you're going to cause a significant amount of damage that your opponent will rather not fight you next time is a better approach. I don't mind a loss, and I don't care about size d…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 05:53 PM
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I dated a girl that fits all the descriptions above. She would lie about the absolute stupidest shit. I wouldn't even be mad at the fact she was lying, I was just mad at the fact she was lying over the dumbest shit for absolutely no reason.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 11:00 PM
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Being able to walk in any environment and being in the frame of mind im here for my own amusement and entertainment really changes the perspective. ​ Exactly. When I started going out alone I would care too much about everyone and everything around me. It wasn't until I got in the mindset of: "Let's see how much I can entertain myself" that I legit started having fun with it. The night can go any way and you have the power to steer it. It's a really exciting feeling and people pick up on that en…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 08:56 PM
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I had to take a psychology class that I opted to do online because it wasn’t my major and I could focus on other classes. We had a discussion board and iirc the topic was on the Bandura bobo doll experiment. Over half of the females in the class posted how their dad had raped them and now they’re afraid of walking alone and stuff. First off; who is 100% okay with telling online strangers this “fact” and second; the odds of that many fathers raping their daughters and them all being in the same c…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 04:55 PM
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Oh god no don’t do that lol. It’s super cringy seeing the orbiters comment. Even though I didn’t resort to that... i still felt like I was orbiting. Best for me to just stay away from validation central. At least I have mystery when not using it
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 05:40 PM
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Yeah I admit closing is my weakness. I play the game for so long then after a few weeks I say fuck it and move on to an “easier” girl. I’d be down for some advice though.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 05:26 PM
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Sure thing. I would use it for fitness progress pics, using it as a way to keep track up into my bodybuilding show. Naturally I had bodybuilding friends on there so instagrams algorithm would show me other fitness people on the main page. You like a few here and there and eventually you start popping up on other peoples Instagram. A girl at my uni would like a pic, I’d like one of hers back. Eventually it lead to comments. Then after establishing some sort of rapport we would start DMing each ot…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 05:24 PM
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I recently got rid of Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat. I would always only get just so far with it, never fully closing with a girl. Just far enough to be a good source of validation for the girl. As soon as I got rid of everything I felt a sense of relief. I no longer had to overthink what I was posting in attempts to impress anyone. And only a day later three girls I used to engage with frequently reached out to me through text. Stop being a fan. It’s a horrible deal to give the girl everyth…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 01:44 PM
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This is why women have no problem accusing you of something, or blatantly lying to her friends about you. They know you didn't actually commit the atrocities they're accusing you of, they just FELT like you're a bad enough person to commit them. They just KNOW you're a monster because their feelings told them so.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 03:04 AM
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Yeah this is the only gripe I have with TRP. Everything seems to always be so black and white. It simply isn't the case. I get the gist: grow to be a valuable man, never be surprised by what a female will stoop to, etc. But absolutes like "Is she actively sucking your dick right now? No? Then you're a beta loser to her." don't hold much weight when there are much more variables at play. Sometimes a girl is just fucking horny and will jump on any available dick. Nothing to do with you not being "…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 02:01 AM
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Reminds me of Time Ho by Patrice O’Neil. Check it out on YouTube https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 01:09 PM
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When I turned 21 and decided to experience the club life, I ran in to a guy like this. This was way before I knew anything about TRP. I saw this guy, at the club alone, and he was hitting on every single girl that walked by him. At first I thought he was creepy and judged him for it. But I can't lie I admired his dedication. Every girl rejected him, some even physically pushing him off, but he moved on to the next one. Sure enough, all it took was one girl to accept him, and they were swapping s…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 11:17 PM
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I definitely let them know I'm attracted. If it's a friend, I do it subtly. If it's a random I can be a little more blatant. Girls know they're pretty, but they also want to believe there's something special about them that sets them apart. If a guy only cares about looks, he will leave the girl for another equally or more attractive one. This is an insecurity women have. So giving them that initial attraction sign let's them know they have your interest but not quite your attention. As there ar…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 05:44 PM
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That was one of the main things that bothered me about being isolated. They took my bros with them. This story spans a long period and I didn't include the details of how I tried to keep my guy friends to no avail. It got to the point where I would plan guy things during the day, like going to the batting cages, but come the evening they'd go out for drinks and never contact me. Despite my efforts in having a man-to-man talk with them, they'd always casually forget to invite me to nights out, sa…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 05:36 PM
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I definitely take blame for letting things get to where they are, that was from having weak frame. I'd be lying if I said I didn't still harbor some animosity and I'm coming around to acceptance. We are still friends but I keep them at a healthy distance now. The unicorn feeling is still slightly present so although I'm casual with the one girl, I refrain from getting too close. I just don't want to read too much in to her behavior and get trapped in my old ways again.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 05:24 PM
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Not with those two particular. The above story spans a 1.5 year timeframe. The majority of it being beta and working on myself in isolation. I managed to eventually get laid after a lot of trial and error in going at things alone. Slowly over time things improved with my game and different women. But now with all that said and done, I have completely removed any possibility of fucking either of those two. I shut down any slight hint of flirting. I don’t think they would have a chance to even thr…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 12:09 AM
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I never had a huge following but I used it for bodybuilding. It was my way of tracking progress and getting that external validation of being able to post shirtless pics for the sake of posting shirtless pics. I had a lot of bodybuilder friends on it but since backing off from that lifestyle to focus on career goals I got rid of it. I was hesitant because there were a few girls I had managed to "attract" on IG. But out of all my time on there, absolutely jack shit came of it. They were all just …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 01:18 AM
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I watched that coming out of a LTR, heartbroken and depressed, just finding the red pill. First movie that made me forget I was depressed in a long time. We could have all the answers, know what happens with each choice, and still be left with wonderment. In the end it doesn’t really matter
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 06:30 PM
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Agreed. I had a buddy in the military who died and I never saved any pics of him. I figured in this day it wouldn’t be hard to find if I wanted to “see” him again. But it’s been almost a decade and all traces of him seem to have vanished. And I really don’t wanna forget because his passing completely changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 01:30 PM
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I know there's a lot of different races of men on here but I want to add that women use race as an envy shit test as well. Whatever race you are, women will bring up a different race and talk about how attractive they are. It's a touchy subjective but I wanted to let you guys know, even if you have some deep rooted race issues you're working through. Recognize it as a shit test and play with her. If she's going on about some guy she likes you can just say something so small and subtle like ".. y…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 03:23 AM
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This is a tricky topic, props to you for addressing it. You need some ego to view yourself as the prize. However you can't have a fragile ego to where any indication that you just may not be the prize upsets you. I like to equate it to the mafia. "Nothing personal, it's just business." The second you start doing things from an emotional foundation is the second you stop respecting yourself as a man. It's the point you lose sight of your goals.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 02:30 PM
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I’ve had success with “getting caught” staring. Now hear me out, most guys do it wrong, and it comes off as really creepy. Like OP stated, it’s a relaxed and confident eye contact. But try it with a waitress. Just find one you find attractive and watch her. Or a chick down the bar grabbing drinks. Just get caught staring with interest. Don’t be biting your lip and staring daggers. Just a relaxed gaze, like you’ve seen something that piques your interest but still deciding if she’s good enough to…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 01:23 PM
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I would add that it can evolve as well. I had a passion to be a pro wrestler for the WWE (I was like 9 alright). Well I was a scrawny kid so I got in to lifting. Found a passion in weightlifting. Realized you can lift all you want but results start pouring in through diet. Found a passion for nutrition. Realized living as a bodybuilder doesn’t particularly give me satisfaction in life and I’d rather just keep it as a hobby so I looked to use fitness to help others. Found a passion for physical t…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 01:04 AM
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Okay just to piggy back on this... I always heard here not to keep trying if the girl is flaking and not texting back, etc. Well in my case it's usually the main shit test I get. I'm fairly attractive, have a reputation of being a player, fit, what-have-you... so of course girls are going to expect you to chase a bit. The key is to just not care, have fun, don't be desperate. You have to know when you're coming off too try-hardy. I've slept with women who have flaked the first attempt to hang, h…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 10:16 PM
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The gist I gather is if you think life is meaningless, so what? Maybe it is, give life your own meaning then. Bust your ass day in and day out working on the goals you set forth towards that meaning. Something I have a lot of respect for are those guys that die really violently, but they die fighting to their last breath, with passion. In my mind it's like maybe they lived this whole life, and it was shit, all to end up at this point, fighting for it and not even knowing if there is any afterlif…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:10 AM
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In the military, when you start making rank and leading people, you are taught that the wrong decision is better than no decision. If you freeze, you're almost guaranteed a tremendous loss. However if you make a choice, say it being the wrong one, you quickly realize an "Oh shit!" just happened, learn, and correct it quickly. Don't just sit back and wait. Get off your ass and do. Seneca said it best: "While we wait for life, life passes."
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 10:57 PM
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I made a comment about cheating and how it prevented me from entering depression after the LTR breakup and was downvoted over it. TRP is amoral, or was. I was simply saying what made my breakup easier to deal with. Eventually in a LTR you well get lower returns on your investment until you’re at a net loss. And at this point guys start becoming dull and shadows of their former selves. They lose that spark. I believe this is why many cultures advocated for mistresses or multiple wives. If you wan…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 11:29 PM
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Good thing I saw this when browsing the front page. I had to take a break from TRP because it was depressing me. I do all the things, HAVE been doing all the things to add value. Got fit enough to compete in a physique show, focused on studies to get in to grad school, made effort on my appearance that I’ve been approached by modeling agents... you’d think I’d be swimming in pussy. I wasn’t. I have only managed to have sex with three women this last year. I read posts about guys banging that man…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 07:34 PM
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I'm familiar with those studies but those are for people who "feel" lonely. You can be alone and not feel lonely. It's the same thing with stress. There are studies done on people who see stress with a negative vs a positive outlook and it correlates to better health for the ones who frame stress positively.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 02:33 AM
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My parents did the same with me. I ultimately decided to get circumcised when I was 16 and I'm glad I did. I also appreciate my parents leaving to option open to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 02:07 AM
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I'm just giving my own anecdotal input here so take it as you will, not meant to discredit your work on this post, just offering a different viewpoint... My mother chose not to snip me when I was a baby after seeing my brother go through it. I was hypersensitive on the glans and could not tolerate any stimulation where the foreskin was pulled back. At the age of 15 I had attempted sex with a girl and it was so uncomfortable I could not even stick it in without cringing away by the foreskin being…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 02:05 AM
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I agree, super shady. But it’s always good to remind yourself it’s simple biology to avoid slipping in to anger. It helps to not be surprised and to easily let go of any oneitis
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 09:57 PM
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That sucks man, I'm really sorry you had to go through that while starting a new journey in life. It's normal to seek relief in drugs and other people, but this is only temporary, which I'm sure you know and have heard a million times. This girl you met made you finally feel something other than grief or that constant depressed fog surrounding you... but in the end all she did was add to your stress. You could try to get over it by going through an anger phase. What kind of bitch would lead you …
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:39 PM
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You can usually tell if you're suddenly dismissing red flags for a particular girl or finding ways to justify them. At that point, you need to come back to reality real quick
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:20 AM
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I wouldn't man. It could come off as you're the shoulder to cry on guy. Don't say anything, just let her see you with other girls talking to you if anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 12:42 AM
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It's just the nature of the beast. You're making progress man, don't sweat it. You'll go through countless women flaking in your TRP journey. I'm not downplaying your feels, it sucks, I know it does. It's frustrating. But I think it's part of the process. You say she's not unicorn, but the context in which you describe her means you invested in her. And you're affected when she plays games. You have to go through a few of these to not really give a fuck with the next few girls you pursue. The no…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:51 PM
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Well women don't really have to be attracted to a guy to get fucked by them. And some women fuck out of spite, validation, to feel desired, whatever it may be... One girl I was sleeping with had told me when her first bf dumped her she couldn't get wet for any guy so she had to use lube every time. She said it took her over a year to be able to have sex again and truly enjoy it. By the time I had met her she was definitely riding the CC and loving it.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:36 PM
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I said the same at first but in hindsight this worked to his advantage. He kept it as proof that he's a sensitive caring guy or whatever which goes completely against her claims. Anyways, doesn't matter, he's married to a model and expecting a kid apparently.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:24 PM
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“Your photos have to make her feel” My buddy took his wife to some modeling recruitment thing a few years ago and I tagged along. Jokingly as people were signing in I said fuck it and signed up and got in line with everyone. I was cracking jokes left and right because I wasn’t taking anything serious and noticed one of the agents staring at me smirking. Here I am surrounded by good looking people and I have the attention of some talent agent because I’m making people “feel.” Long story short I m…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 05:35 PM
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This. It also helps if you take a moment to just smirk at what she just did. Look at her like an overgrown child throwing a tantrum not to be taken seriously at all. Then deliver
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:39 PM
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Stop making excuse and just. Move. Forward. Even if it's baby steps, it may feel like you're not making any progress at all, but just put one foot in front of the other. It will suck and feel like you're going to be stagnant forever but focus on those baby steps. And keep moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:28 PM
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Don't let it define you. I've seen too many guys go in, obsess over their new identity, then become clueless idiots when they got out to the real world. The military is great at maturing you and forcing you to become a man, but don't tie your "manhood" to being a marine, rather what being a marine meant.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:24 PM
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This is kind of depressing. Ever since reading TRP and digesting it all, the more I see my dad as a beta. I'm losing respect for the guy from his behaviors. I used to think he was the pinnacle of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:15 PM
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Everybody has their own definition of fat. I enjoy the "thicc" girls for sure. Where they're fat in all the right places, maybe a little spillover in the arms/legs and stomach... I'm not talking huge gut or anything, but a little pudge ain't stopping me from fucking.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 12:56 AM
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Don't worry about it my man. Just stay on top of your game, be ready to let go at a moments notice, and keep things moving. To make you feel better I would recommend flirting with other women. You don't have to do anything with them. But knowing you still "got it" and keeping that abundance mentality will keep you sane and not too worried your girl will inevitably fuck it all up. Just my two cents and what has worked for me in handling failed LTR's. YMMV
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 12:40 AM
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Just don’t give them what they’re used to getting. I wouldn’t even use negs. Narcissists love attention, good or bad. So don’t give them anything to work off of. The biggest fear those types have are being forgotten or not being the prize if other girls are around. Ignore her and have enthusiastic fun with other girls. The girl could be worse than your oneitis in every way but one and that one way will be enough to make your crush’s plan ineffective. Say your crush is an 8. And new girl is a 6. …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 02:31 PM
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I was raised by a single mother but I think it helped me rather than hurt me. I’m not trying to bash my own mother here but my expectations for women were very low. So I naturally attracted many by generally being an uncaring asshole. It wasn’t until I decided “settling down” that I became blue pulled and started caring. Now I’m trying to cleanse myself again
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 07:59 PM
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Same thing happened to me when I was in the Navy... I met a girl at a bar and we went outside down to the beach. She starts making out with me and jerking me off, then out of nowhere asks me how religious I am. I asked why and she says "Well..." and right then I immediately knew: military town, bar close to base, her asking about morals. And I said "He's on deployment isn't he?" and she said yeah. I said no, that I was in the Navy too, and it's not right. In hindsight the bitch is going to cheat…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 04:56 PM
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Do you post your face on those sites? How do you do this without running in to someone you know or someone your significant other knows?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 04:48 PM
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I can't say without knowing exactly how you are in a relationship or the types of guys you're shooting for. Those men you desire, are they the ones you end up in relationships with? Or are you "settling" because you fear being alone? I can say this about men: Men do need pussy. It's a biological urge to ensure their seed is planted and their genetics continue to be passed on. What men desire is shelter. There is a tremendous amount of pressure on men to continuously improve in all aspects of the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/18 05:21 PM
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" How do I never land in the pussy box again? " What are you offering other than pussy? Putting some arbitrary amount of time before having sex doesn't help either. You're using pussy as the only incentive to continue courting you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/18 03:40 PM
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Hey bud, I'm 31 and in grad school with many 22-24 year olds. I have a group I go out with, all younger people, and we consistently pull 21-24 year olds. The key is to just have fun, that's the universal connection you can make with just about anyone regardless of age. I can't connect with them on their trash taste in music, pop culture, social media, whatever... but I can connect with them on having fun, dancing, fucking with women, cracking jokes. I should state that although I'm almost 32, I …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 02:59 PM
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I wish this was discussed more in the sub. It's great to look at everything so nihilistic and remove emotion, to teach that looks really don't matter as much as guys think for the ones less fortunate in that department. I love the support for the men here. But for the guys that just "seem" like they're players to women. They see a guy and think "Oh he can get any girl he wants but not me, I'm going to be the special one, the one HE has to chase." It's a paradox because women are attracted but th…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 01:03 AM
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I'm going through the same shit right now. A girl hit me up after three months of me ghosting her. I considered her previous actions disrespectful and was willing to never contact her again. And she wasn't the greatest lay anyways. But I've noticed the less I care, the less emotions I had invested in her, the more I'm willing to start spinning her again. If I truly do not care, I'll fuck her again. My ego won't get in the way of that. But I truly don't care if I don't fuck her either. It's up to…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 12:02 AM
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Kinda bittersweet eh? It's like you once-upon-a-time was really passionate about this girl and as the pill digests, you kill some of that passion. It's healthy because you're not emotionally invested and immune to being hurt by her, but you lose that special unicorn feeling that made her so special in the first place. Abundance is really the only option anymore. C'est la vie.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 11:41 PM
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Some people claim that accusations of being a man whore is a shit test. I never saw it as one. I always took it as a compliment. Girls always want to know my body count. I ask them to guess so I can get an idea of how many dicks they’ve taken. And it’s something like: “I wouldn’t be surprised if you were up in the 50’s” or “do you even know how many girls you’ve slept with?” I just smile, playfully act insulted and say I’m a virgin or if I’ve slept with them, say that only one truly mattered and…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 11:28 AM
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Smart if they manage to lock down an alpha. The problem with sleeping around is no alpha is going to take her serious and will fuck and chuck. So yeah they can enjoy their beauty but it comes at a price
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 09:51 PM
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Because regardless if a man is attractive and successful, he still must prove worth to a female in order to get laid. They are forever improving. They are forever adding value. They are forever grinding and busting their asses. Whereas a 5/10 woman can go out to any bar and get fucked whenever she wants. Without proving she is worth anything. And she has to put in zero work.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 09:44 PM
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Spot on. I think all women will “cheat” or at least set up a branch swing solely based on how they perceive their man. So in short, take responsibility, maintain frame, and lead the relationship. Never let her think she doesn’t have to put in work either. So screen for a decent candidate (maybe 5% of women you’re interested in would be relationship material), find one without major red flags, and keep frame every single day. Never lose it bc you can bet even without the red flags, she will see w…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:38 PM
12

Is he the dude who talks about someone's wife rimming his butthole while he browses reddit? I'll take shit that never happens for 500, Alex. And then he's upvoted by all the 16 and 18 year olds...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 09:18 PM
2

In your defense the vibe was pretty serious, so an agree and humorous amplify probably didn't seem natural. I think you could avoid this in the future by just establishing frame with all your relationships and keeping it. I tend to be absurdly cocky and make jokes at inappropriate times. But at the same time my actions with all my relationships are genuine. Plus all the females in my social circle see interactions between me and random women when we go out. So if I were to answer "C'mon that guy…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:57 PM
8

In my opinion one of the hardest obstacles to overcome. Internalizing your success and not just doing things to later boast about it. It's still very important to never seek validation from anyone else other than yourself. Never allow someone else to dictate your self worth
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:51 PM
3

Feeling humiliated is a gut instinct that is usually right. Any time a plate introduces me to a guy she's "getting serious with," I can be friendly with him no problem, but I'll never respect him. You know that this is some girl you essentially used as a warm hole and he's trying to become committed to her. Nothing against the man and no matter how humble you are as a person, you can't help but just feel the power difference. This guy did the right thing in ghosting her and the friends.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:33 PM
-1

I definitely agree sex in itself is unfulfilling. But I do find enjoyment in seeing something I want and taking it. Perhaps it's validation seeking, but it keeps me sane if I strike out or go through a rough patch in life. It goes back to abundance... if I've fucked objectively hotter women, I'm not giving a single fuck if things go sour with someone less attractive.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:00 PM
5

Women are still highly emotional. Some marry out of pure spite just to be vindictive to an ex. If a woman is willing to gamble that, she sure as shit will fuck a lower SMV guy just to prove something to herself/her friends/society/what-the-fuck-ever.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 07:46 PM
1

Bruh. It’s one girl. You got as far as you did. Instead of being mad at yourself you should be proud. What you did worked. You just stumbled a bit. There’s millions of other women to hone your skills. Don’t invest emotionally in the outcome. I know that’s hard to do being a virgin, but the less you care, the better. Look at failure objectively. Don’t focus on your feelings. Just analyze what worked and what didn’t. Maybe a break would be good. To just stop caring. Focusing on yourself is always …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 03:32 AM
6

I’d like to share a story of BUD/S. Not sure if it’s TRP related but there is a solid lesson about framing things. I was always a jack of all trades. Not really excelling in any one field. In BUD/S you have your endurance runners, sprinters, swimmers, and guys that could do push-ups and pull-ups all day. Hardly anyone excelled in every aspect. The muscle bound guys could PT all day but fell like a brick in the water, and lagged behind on the long runs. Then the endurance runners could lead the p…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 03:52 PM
11

do you mind if I just pull it through the fly in my boxers?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 04:49 PM
8

Same man... what lead me here. Had a (what I thought) great girlfriend. Met her in undergrad, we moved in together and I supported her while she applied to grad school. Told her I would cover shortcomings in bills (had savings from the military) as long as she focused on getting in to graduate school. A couple of years later, she gets denied and I get in to a doctorate program. Funds got real tight. It didn't matter that I supported her unconditionally for years while she tried to improve her li…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 07:50 AM
9

This kind of stuff used to upset me but now I feel nothing but the will of nature. It is what it is and I'm fine with that, as it leaves more women available to me in a relationship or not. However, and I know TRP is amoral, is it wrong to feel the same way as a man? I feel as if cheating in a LTR kept me sane and steered me away from depression after the breakup. Had I been faithful, I'd be all kinds of torn up over it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:33 AM
9

This OP. Truly not giving a fuck overrides everything else. Your attitude says indifference, but her hamster says "but he shared feelings with me, it must mean SOMETHING!" I'd say don't let her know. Women like men who other women like, even if they're ugly. They may even joke with you about the other girl, which opens up friendly conversation with them.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:37 AM
2

Good advice here OP. This story reminded me of something similar where I was at a concert by myself and just loved the band. I put my hoodie up and just moved with their music. Next thing I know is I have two girls either side of me bumping in to me dancing.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:34 AM
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I'm just going to paste and edit slightly what I wrote in a similar thread: It honestly doesn't matter. Dancing is about "fun." If girls see an awkward guy out dancing and having fun, they won't care if it's not some music video tier shit, they see fun and will want in on the fun. Sure bonus points if you're actually good. But even if you're goofy looking, you're still miles ahead of the guy "too cool" to dance because now he's the boring wallflower. You feeling awkward... just gotta say fuck it…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:18 AM
1

Ghost her
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:04 AM
1

It honestly doesn't matter. Dancing is about "fun." If they see an awkward guy out dancing and having fun, they will have a line of women wanting in on the fun too. Sure bonus points if you're actually good. But even if you're goofy looking, you're still miles ahead of the guy "too cool" to dance because now he's the boring wallflower.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:59 AM
2

Yeah that was the cause: you getting emotional once before. Your best bet is to pretend it never happened and trudge forward with a careless attitude. If you at least fake like you don't care, you may eventually get to the point where you truly don't care. Right now, you're in their frame. Get back in yours and hold it despite their prying. I'll give you a quick example: I lost frame when I broke down in front of a girl I was seeing. I was going through the death of a close friend and I was wear…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:52 AM
1

Damn this sounds like me... My problem is I'm in grad school but I'm older. Most of my classmates are damn near a decade younger than me, so they're ALWAYS on their phones when we're out doing something. The field I'm in is mostly female but I have a few solid bros that I hang with. When we go out, it's a mixed group but the girls vastly outnumber us. If they're not actively receiving attention, faces buried in their phones. Early on I had a weird exchange with one of the females who had a boyfr…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:05 PM
1

Same here. One girl I'm trying to set up, long story, but she has religious hangups, so more time needs to be spent lowering her guard. She's invited me over the past few days to hang but I'd rather be lifting or meal prepping than simply spending time with her for increased odds of pussy. Telling her no seems to make her want me more. The other day she actually thanked me for hanging out with her when all I did was let her drive us to lunch.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:24 PM
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Didn't you pay beforehand though? I tend to do this at bars if the bartender is being moody or not wanting to serve me. Rather than sit there waiting on them to come around, I move to the next bartender and tip them better, ignoring the shitty bartender the rest of the night.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:19 PM
1

Just about the same thing with my bro. No matter what you say, they're not going to listen. Just wish them the best and be there for him when he needs a bro to vent to.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 09:23 PM
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lol yeah I saw the responses and you defending it. Whenever I had asked for advice in the past, I got the same. And I was doing the same thing you were doing: she squirted all over my couch and was trembling afterwards. Like I shouldn't have to explain myself y'know, just give me advice. But yeah, even if she is all about weed, it's still disrespectful. Perhaps she doesn't know any better. Honestly, if all you care about is fucking, then I wouldn't care. But if you're trying to make this somethi…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:24 PM
1

This is a good frame to have. If I adapt to thinking she's worried, it'll help me keep my cool and not worry that I lost my opportunity. I'm thinking she's above my SMV but we'll see how she responds.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:17 PM
1

Yeah I found that word on TRP actually lol. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5gzndi/cant_get_it_up_for_casual_sex/ I decided to do No Fap but then I got too horny and was afraid I'd blow my load in 2 strokes. I stopped watching porn as well. Maybe I'll give NF another go and just try and see if it helps.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:13 PM
1

It sounds like she's trying to make you jealous. I hate the typical response: You didn't dick her down properly. That's a cop out. Doesn't matter how good you fuck, girls will still pull shit like this. I just wouldn't give it any energy. Show no emotion to it. But match her respect level. If she disrespects you, don't give her any yourself. Start setting things up with other women you're interested in. You don't even have to be fucking them, just hang with other girls. I'll tell you when shit l…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:09 PM
0

Yep. Once I figure out how they are I just stop giving them anything to work with. Sometimes I barely say anything and just nod, shake, and shrug. I focus on fun things to do with them like games or dancing where there's not much talking. After a while they tend to come around and "accept" my personality. That or I just play with them a bit. Hinting at how high strung they are or joke that I'll only offend them every 10 minutes instead of 2.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:52 PM
3

You guys always rationalize things so well. I have a lot of work to do still to become fully red pilled. Thanks for this perspective.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:44 PM
2

I thought I was the only one. I tried Tinder years ago and it didn't go well for me at all. I wasn't fully red pilled at the time but my game was... aight. And I like to think I'm a fairly attractive guy. But I had, like in your case, only success with 6's or 7's. Yet I can approach a 9 easily in person. I just chalked it up as my online game was shit and gave up on it. I was thinking about giving Tinder another go but so far I'm doing okay without it, and I feel much more confident in person th…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:35 PM
1

Best to drop it man. Recently happened with me. A FWB of close to 3 years. I had lost a really close family member and she asked me how I was. I lost it in front of her. She changed immediately. She started acting like a cunt to me and treating her pussy as some sort of prize for me to earn. I realized I fucked up in showing weakness so I just cut contact with her. She has been texting me but I just reply short and then leave her responses on read. A friend of mine said every time he sees her sh…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 07:20 PM
10

Jesus dude, I feel for you. Glad you're here.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 04:03 AM
6

I guess it depends on context. If you took her out to a nice place and paid for dinner and drinks, and she's talking about another nice place to go to during the current date, I would immediately be like "Nope." I would try and close THAT night and if it didn't happen, drop her. Ideally you should get a feel for the girl if she's like that before the first date. But any sign she's just there for food would mean a hard next in my opinion. Remember, you're too valuable to be courting some free-loa…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:57 AM
1

Well.. yeah. They see it as taboo or "wrong" in some way so it's like a fetish. In a way it is racist but no one seems to be getting hurt so I guess it's not a big deal. Oddly enough a girl tried shit testing me saying she had a thing for black guys. I suppose it was to see if I would get insecure or something. And I just said "yeah a lot of Hispanic girls do." And she was taken back and kind of defensive but I was casual about it. Fast forward a few weeks and I'm making her squirt all over my c…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:41 AM
9

Sounds like you need a good 'ole fashion depression to sink into. I usually find my calling, or an epiphany, whatever, during really trying times when I'm questioning if I can make it through. It slaps me in the face and just like that I have a drive to do something and dedicate all my time to pursue. 5 years ago around this time I was in the Navy, had lost a really good friend, and gotten out of a relationship with my oneitis. I was leaving the military and unsure where to take my life. I was d…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 12:06 AM
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I was going to reply something along the lines of this. Yes, an average woman can get sex whenever she wants with little to no effort. But it's not that she wants just sex, she wants sex with the man she has chosen. She wants a high status man to be the one fucking her. It's our job to be that high status man. You'll see a shift in how you're treated by the girl every other guy is ass kissing. The girl who leaves the thirsty betas on read is suddenly the girl you're leaving on read.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:38 PM
6

lol it was the Navy. I just said work to avoid going into detail about life on board a ship and why the guy was getting shit in his division.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 06:10 PM
9

I remember when I was one of the haters once. I strongly disliked one of my coworkers, he ran his mouth too much. He never ran it to me, but I took offense anyways. For whatever reason I didn't like the guy acting "tough." He got his ass beat one day, and I thought that would settle him down. Nope. He continued to run his mouth off. It made me even angrier, I felt he didn't have the right to still act tough when he got beat. But he persisted, and I finally realized he wasn't a bad dude at all. H…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 04:06 AM
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In my experience it's best not to willingly offer the knowledge but not to blatantly deny it either. Just find a vague grey area around the subject and attempt to stay in it. It sounds stupid but I always think of the line "A gentleman never kisses and tells." It keeps your frame that you're not disclosing anything but just saying that means you were kissing... or something like that. I can't explain it, just let the female try to figure it out in her own head. EDIT... actually this might be shi…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 02:44 AM
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duuuuuuude. I swear even the most butch of lesbians seem like they'd still enjoy a good dicking down from a man. I'm not trying to toot my own horn here but I've had a number of lesbian friends who all made some pass at me to where I'm like "don't you like girls?"
/r/MGTOW15/09/17 07:51 PM
4

Damn it's so clear when you guys respond. Here I am pondering the best course and it's so obvious with this mindset. I'm still putting pussy on a pedestal trying to dictate my actions around keeping it. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:48 PM
2

Just chiming in to back this up. I went to a predominantly female uni and had a lot of female friends. I did find that going out with one of the hot sorority girls was good only at meeting her friends. If I was trying to approach anyone else, they automatically assumed I was fucking the girl I was hanging with (I was, but that doesn't matter). So it was a lot of unnecessary explaining to women outside of the social circle. However, going out with attractive dudes is MUCH better. Girls go out in …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:52 PM
1

try keeping your 4.0 over another 3 years and there is your challenge Not even that. I maintained a 4.0 and retained nothing. I was just good at memorizing, or pumping a bunch of info in, then dumping it after an exam. However, I'm in a doctorate program now and it's a much different atmosphere. I don't even care about A's anymore, I'm just trying to learn the material for real, keep a social life, stay fit, and stay sane. I never considered myself smart, despite a 4.0, all that showed was my wo…
/r/MGTOW212/09/17 02:44 AM
1

My ex would often say "all you care about is money." Well... yeah? She couldn't wrap her head around me sitting on my money. In her mind, having an excess of funds means you're supposed to spend it on stuff to be happy. I hate acquiring useless crap that I hardly use, or something that just ends up being an extra thing to haul when moving to a new place. I'm frugal and a minimalist. I do this because I love the freedom that comes with a hefty stash of cash. If life were to throw something at me,…
/r/MGTOW10/09/17 04:11 AM
1

Fuck man, I've always wanted kids. But I'm beginning to think it's not worth it.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 02:59 AM
1

Okay, I'm still obviously very Blue Pilled here. I honestly value sex way too much and seek validation through women. Do you have recommended reading for me to let go of this mentality? I feel like I always have to prove to myself, to others, that I can get laid. But I go about it a very blue pilled way I guess. I just want to not care if I get it or not. I depend too much on females to feel worthy.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 02:58 AM
1

It's a health care doctorate program. I don't want to give away too much info just in the off chance someone I know sees. People in classes up from us are dating so it's not necessarily frowned upon. But like everyone is saying, if things were (likely) to turn sour, then it would just be really awkward. But I can handle awkward, just not sure if I want to bother. Yeah I understand the tease part but it's how she's chasing me that has me thinking she could possibly be down for casual sex. I haven…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 04:11 PM
1

lol. Some people are under the notion that you ultimately deserve any ailments that come your way. But anyone with a hint of real life experience can tell you bad things happen to good people all the time.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:51 PM
1

Fuck... This is an outlook I haven't even attempted to contemplate. I'm relatively fresh out of a 3 year relationship with a girl I assumed I was going to marry. But I cheated. And I beat myself up about it. I don't really feel bad about cheating, I understand WHY I did. I just had trouble coming to the realization that I am a cheater and no matter how many times I told myself I'm stronger than that, my actions said different. I guess I was acting like a chick. A question though; do you think it…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 12:51 AM
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Reframe. Your mindset is all fucked up right now and it's understandable. There's a ton of mental fog and mixed emotions with a breakup. But you can look at her behavior as she is really hurting. Hurt people hurt people. You were obviously enough of a catch for her to try and hurt you. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. If she is going out of her way to try and hurt you, it means she has very strong feelings for you still. Stay strong, don't do anything different, you're doing t…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:49 PM
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I think you were on the right track man, you just fell off a little bit. It doesn't sound like NF was the cause of you being "needy." It just sounds like that's a character issue you have to work out for yourself regardless if you're rubbing one off or not. Like one poster said, NF is generally supposed to redirect your energy. I'm currently doing it and I realized this when waking up. I'm always wanting to go immediately back to sleep when the alarm goes off. But if I'm horny and I start thinki…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 04:47 PM
1

I was always iffy about this too but had sex with a girl that liked it and even straight up said "smack me in the face" during sex. She bruises easily too so I'm VERY hesitant about that shit. Let something go sour and she can just show the marks... Anyways, when it came to choking, I would just grab her neck firmly. I wouldn't squeeze, just let her feel the power I had over her and could at any moment. That was enough to get her cumming, but also prevented any marks she could use against me jus…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 03:27 AM
1

You're right; I just started listening to some stuff from Mark Manson. I am needy and seeking validation. This girl is providing it and when she stops I get frustrated. Going to focus on being happy with myself and to stop chasing validation
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:52 PM
1

Will do brother, thank you
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:21 PM
1

Maybe I should have included the backstory. It started off as friends. There was always attraction but I was dating at the time. When I broke up with my girlfriend, we fucked right away. It was at time she started posting stuff about me. We were close before, as friends, but she would never post anything for fear of my girlfriend. Now that's over, she decided she would. I admit, my game is a bit different than most guys. So you may not understand where I'm coming from. I usually start off as fri…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 05:20 PM
1

Funny you say that, I came to that conclusion this morning. I woke up to a text from her and it just occurred to me; I'm too available. So I ignored it and went to go lift before class. Thanks man. Love the name btw! I plan to run Tren my next cycle
/r/askTRP10/08/17 05:02 PM
1

Thanks for the advice, I think I'm just going to be kind of a dick. I was horny last night and she was texting me, so I told her to call me when she got off work. She knew I had to be up early but decided to text me at 1AM saying "sorry I forgot to call, I was talking to my friend." In my head I'm like no the fuck you didn't, you're just trying to pull power here. So I left her on read and I'll just be short if she decides to text again until she makes the effort to come to me. I'm done chasing.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 04:59 PM
2

Thanks, I think I needed to hear that. Starting to worry I'll never become that man though. I'm 30 and still have a pretty selfish mindset. I feel as I do all the things required of a man, but I just don't fully commit to the responsibility of it. I served in the military, I'm paying my own way through graduate school, I take care of myself, great with finances, etc. I just feel like there's a child in me I'm holding on to and it's not ready to settle down.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:21 PM
7

I had the same problem. The big key is to just keep going out and doing it. Keep trying. It eventually hit me one night at a party. I was in the middle of a story and stopped to look at everyone. All eyes were on me, the body language of all the females were positive, the men "allowed" me to be the leader and stepped back, a few of them overprotective of their girlfriends and giving me death stares. And it just clicked. I realized I had been doing everything I had been learning to do subconsciou…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:33 AM
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In my experience, the less active they are on social media, or seeking validation, the better. If it's family pictures or food then go for it. The more boring the better. But I found correlation between more selfies and lack of loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:28 AM
2

Here's the deal... I was with a girl I cared deeply about for 3 years. She was everything I wanted in a girlfriend. Or so I thought. I knew I could trust her and that was most important. There was just no passion. I never experienced that "spark" with her. Kissing her incited nothing in me. And she's gorgeous. It just wasn't there for me. This could be for a number of reasons but to keep it short, I don't think there was anything I could do to remedy this problem. So I cheated. I figured I'd get…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:25 AM
3

I was always a small dude growing up. But I was scrappy. My mentality was that I was okay with losing a fight, no matter the size of the guy, as long as I hurt him in some way. I wanted him to think twice about messing with me in the future. So I never allowed myself to get punked. Being small was my motivation to get big and I developed a passion for bodybuilding. I've been doing it for something like 8 years now and I'm... "big" I guess. I still have the frail kid mentality though, and everyon…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:41 AM
3

Eyebrows. Fucking eyebrows. I had to sit through torture once because my girlfriend wouldn't shut the fuck up about my eyebrows that needed plucking.
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 12:57 AM
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What bothers me most about that story is how willing these "tough" guys were to assault someone based on some half-assed testimony from some girl
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 12:55 AM
3

Yuuup. I've worked with MDs that are just as catty and jealous of younger, prettier girls working in the same area. Regardless of life achievement, the desire for drama is ingrained in them
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 12:17 AM
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