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DISCUSSIONMilkTeaTime/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 07:55 PM
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Yeah. I've only had one instance of it coming up irl, and it was with someone well-versed in TRP so I didn't take much stock in it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 01:59 PM
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Oh, you're not, I was more asking for my own experiences with it as well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 05:39 AM
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How would you feel about a guy who knows it bothers you? Is he trying to incite a change? Or is he trying to drag you down or what?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 10:43 PM
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That's awful. :( But also realistic, in a sense? Like, I wouldn't just want success stories. I haven't seen the episodes yet but does the wife with the cheating husband leave him? I remember in her book, she mentions that you deserve a man who is faithful to you and only you, and while a unfaithful man can change, you should leave if he shows no signs of it. EDIT: I'm watching it while I work and now I'm so depressed, omg. I get what Laura is doing in a way but just because your husband does nic…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 03:59 PM
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Maybe it's just a pet peeve of mine, but I also dislike those terms, particularly "goals" and "queen." They sound very juvenile and it reminds me of how my 18-year-old BP sister talks. /irrelevant to post, sorry
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 03:58 PM
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Your man sounds wonderful!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:01 AM
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Gotcha, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 05:33 PM
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Wouldn't that be RMV though?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 04:34 PM
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Because it makes you look "easy." It's sexy, not demure. Try looking feminine and girly, rather than hot. This is what I think of when I think of a RPW. Others might think differently, though: Example 1 Example 2 Example 3 Example 4 Example 5 By all means, dress for your body type. I don't have much curves because I'm a stick, so I try to work around that by showing, idk, innocence, I guess? Lace, different textures, showing off my legs, collarbones, etc. The instagram style is really in fashion…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 04:23 PM
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Probably, because it's an emotional subject for me. But the thing I quoted above suggested that it's the only thing. I get that it might be hyperbole for the article but lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 04:43 PM
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Yeah, this is a little over the top. This quote kills me: Yesterday I was stressed out at work. I had so many things to do in such a short period of time. I didn’t have time to eat lunch and went hungry all day. When I finally made it home, it started pouring rain and my dog took forever to pee in the rain so I stood there soaking wet. Then my air conditioning broke so I was hot and sweaty all night…but when I finally went to bed I didn’t care about how stressful my day was and even smiled to my…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 09:02 PM
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Learning how to sew. The importance of sending out thank you notes and writing hand-written letters. Learning and researching a proper skincare regime. Becoming more family-oriented rather than self-oriented. Phone etiquette. Cooking beyond the basics; family recipes, things like that. A lot of this comes from my father raising me, I think. My mom died when I was young and so I didn't have anyone teaching me how to be feminine, so I had to learn a lot myself. I'm still learning. Semi-related, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 11:45 PM
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From my knowledge, the last time he went over her house she gave him head he claims he didn't want. I'm confused by this. Was this while you were dating?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 10:01 PM
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I'm showing you that Kim doesn't look fat, like you implied. You can go back and re-read, I DO already wear short a-line skirts and those are what are in the photos you just linked lol You are very combative and like to suggest people are stupid. Are you like this with men?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 03:34 PM
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Real question: is this a troll account?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 03:06 PM
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So, what about the LDR stuff? Could that work?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 08:05 PM
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As long as you have thin legs and a small waist (which a skirt accentuates), men will know you're not fat. There are some pictures of Kim in these types of looks, a bit older though, as seen here and here 2. I think a lot of the reason these men who approach me for the wrong reasons (without making it obvious) is because of my waist to hip ratio. Right. Which is why I suggest a skirt that hides it a bit better. Jeans and bodycon dresses flaunt it. Circle skirts show that you have a tiny waist wi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 07:59 PM
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I can't wear baggy clothes or I look sloppy and fat due to my hourglass shape. I know you mentioned that you wear tight-fitting clothes in an earlier post as well. I'm not sure if you mean, like, you wear bodycon dresses all the time, but maybe a suggestion would be to wear something like a circle skirt or a-line skirt? It's still a feminine look, flattering, and not baggy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 09:21 AM
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Perhaps try looking for a long-distance relationship since LA/big city men aren't working out for you. I went through your post history a bit and it seems like this has been an issue for you for awhile. Do you think that the obsessive mindset is causing you trouble? Vetting men and knowing what you want is good, but maybe the guys are getting some sort of strange vibe. It seems like you have no issue attracting men physically or on a superficial level, since they approach you just fine, right?, …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 09:12 AM
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Love this response. I'm upvoting a lot tonight.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 07:01 AM
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"Wearing a wedding ring to reduce the chances of men hitting on/harassing you, because they respect another man’s “property” more than a woman’s right to say no." Has this ever really stopped a man though...
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 02:23 AM
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She's gorgeous but some of her videos are so ridiculous, mainly this one on her sexuality. That being said, I'm so jealous of that bright-white deep-contrast look she has going on in her videos.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 08:34 PM
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Could you explain more, or give an example? Are you saying something like: a woman who loves a man so much she would do anything for him/go to great lengths for him that others would find insane; a woman who will tolerate a much more heavy load of BS from him that others would find unhealthy? But to both parties in the relationship, they find it healthy and loving? Edited for clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:18 AM
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79, who is going to beat me? I like how they don't have brackets over 5+.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:12 AM
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Totally interested in recipes if you have them on hand. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 10:08 PM
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maybe in the meantime someone could teach him you're versus your
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 04:33 AM
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He keeps spamming the same post.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 10:21 AM
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Female, and no. I have been guilty of "branch-swinging" in the past, though. It's incredibly easy to find a new partner just by virtue of being female. Also, my current partner has had back-up people in past relationships in order to prevent what you've described. In general, this idea makes me extremely uncomfortable. Are people investing emotional and sexual time in these back-up choices or are they more of a "hey, we could always get a date if you and X don't work out?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 05:23 AM
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Do you wear gloves while cleaning? They can help protect your hands from any harsh chemicals. Also be sure you are getting enough nutrients in your diet or supplement them with vitamins so your nails aren't brittle and breaking. I know you said "natural" nails, but I find that gel nails or acrylics keep my nails looking put together despite all the household abuse I put them through. As for looking sexy while cleaning, that might be a bit unrealistic. Have you thought about doing the lighter cho…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 11:03 PM
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Wow, interesting. Was it a physical irritation? I'm going to definitely have to do some research. I wish I was more informed before I got mine put it in. And yeah, they told me I'd be able to go to work right after. Just lol, no, I had to have someone come pick me up and drive me home so I could sleep for the rest of the day. :/
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 10:54 PM
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Sources for this? When I got my copper IUD, they didn't mention copper toxicity, and I don't believe my packet did either (though I could go digging around for it). That being said, don't love my Paragard. My periods are super heavy and the insertion was awful. I had to go the non-hormonal route because of another medical interacting with BC.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 07:10 AM
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I actually have never bought anything from Modcloth but always window shop. Have you? Do you find the quality to be good? Never heard of Shabby Apple. Their dresses look so cute but they veer on being slightly too conservative. Like, this would be perfect if it was slightly shorter. :(
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 09:57 AM
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My go-tos are Free People, Anthropologie, Francesca's, and Kate Spade. To a lesser extent, I shop at F21, Express, Target, and H&M, which can be hit or miss for me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 06:40 PM
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Semi-related, but where do you all shop for clothing? I suppose a lot of it depends on your age group, but I'm finding it hard not to fall in "trendy" clothing since it's so accessible. My favorite style is feminine and flirty: fits that aren't too form fitting all over and maybe show a hint of skin underneath lace. See here, here, here, and here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 05:43 PM
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All I'm saying is that this makes me look ten times more hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 09:22 AM
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That's so perfect. Her eyes look so amazing. Like, why wouldn't a woman want to look so fresh and glowing like that?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 09:00 AM
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I prefer a simple look where you either play up the eyes or the lips. My go-to is winged liner and a nude lip (or some gloss or a light lip stain), a bit of bronzer, and foundation (I have some redness and acne). I also fill in my brows. I used to be into big brows as a teen but I'm glad I stopped that, omg. I despise most of today's makeup trends -- it's just not for me. I'm talking about the Kylie Jenner mainstream stuff. I think they age girls SO MUCH. Like, an 18-year-old will look 25 due to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 08:55 AM
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Basically, the reason he says he's friends with this girl is because she doesn't have very many. He's claimed that their sexual roleplays were more for her than for him because she's so lonely. Wtf though. I think your response was good. Besides, she is a girl after all, and I am sure she can find another not-taken man to spend her time with if she put herself out there or worked on herself a bit. Perhaps your man could convince her of this and then he'd fade out of her life in lieu of an actual…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:49 AM
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Thank you for the advice. Interesting that you'd link something on the sunk cost fallacy, because he sometimes mentions that dating him is a sunk cost, ha.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:16 AM
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It's difficult, isn't it? I've been trying to put my energy into other things but even today I saw a message from another girl and my heart rate went up. I know it can be innocent, but what about when it's not? In most cases, I'd trust my SO, and I trust that there's nothing going on TO HIM, but my idea of cheating is much different. Have you talked to him about his relationship with the girl? Is it about attention? I think you can trust it's not sexual if he says it's not, but I'd still be wary…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:15 AM
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I made a sacrifice and moved away from my home state to live with him and take care of him, so I made arrangements with my work in order to keep my job by working remotely. I guess I feel like it would look stupid just to move back after doing all that. Also, he provides for me. I know I could find another guy to do these things for me (and even then it's not that important since I work), but he keeps putting it into my head that I won't be able to find anyone else "as good as him."
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:02 PM
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I don't mean to piggyback on someone else's post, but I'm dealing with a similar issue, and Littlewifey's quote struck a chord with me: Even if you're not a model girlfriend and have your flaws, monogamy is pretty much the simplest of basics in a committed relationship. My boyfriend has repeatedly told me that I'm not good enough and that it drives him to seek other women online (and sometimes in person). He means both emotionally -- so, when I'm a bitch -- and also physically -- though I'm thin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 09:08 PM
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Probably the beta husband for stability's sake, unless: I get along well with the other wives, and there is no jealously between us. Ideally, we'd all be of the same SMV. My sexual and romantic needs are met, and he is providing, which I assume he is because he is rich. There is a way that the situation wouldn't put shame on me; imagining telling my father or the women at work that I'm one of three other wives is just asking for problems. I've been a relationship similar to the second, though, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 12:27 PM
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So wearing eyeliner is too much, or do you think having a black line on my eye is natural?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 07:49 AM
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Yes. Gain weight, lose weight, get a bigger ass, wear less makeup, take less time getting ready, dye my hair back to brown, be more outgoing. There's probably more but I can't think of them right now. If it's related to my body, I feel like it's out of line, as these are not things I can change overnight. But it's really all about delivery and how they're said. Is it coming from a place of malice and insult, or is it coming as a kindhearted suggestion?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 07:51 AM
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Sometimes I get extremely self conscious in bed, particularly because my man has more experience than me, and I can't help but think about the other (hot) women he's been with before me. That makes me stiffen up and not into it, particularly because I'm constantly wondering if I'm being compared. What helps me is: wearing something I feel good in, making sure my makeup/hair is nice before sex (can't always be planned), and that I'm actually turned on (not caught up in my head). Things can feel v…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 12:20 AM
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