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| 57 | Just signed up for my first 5k since high school. | SELF IMPROVEMENT | MilkiesMaximus | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 05:00 AM |
| 31 | Fashion help | ADVICE | MilkiesMaximus | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 8 | What do you look for when using online dating apps to try and find the right guy? | DATING ADVICE | MilkiesMaximus | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 7 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment. | DISCUSSION | MilkiesMaximus | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 12:41 PM |
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| 2 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.Wow so it's a bad thing to have standards and not just go for the first guy who is "good enough"? That sounds like a great way to end up in a lack luster marriage. I've done that before and don't care to repeat it. I learn from my past mistakes. I also don't want young impressionable girls to think they have to deny their sexual nature just to get a man. We've had enough of that in our history. Thanks for attempting to advise me but your way of thinking does not match with mine in the least. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.You comment does sound like shaming and I do take offense to it. You are essentially negating my feelings and calling me damaged goods and that all men I date are not normal. If that isn't an insult idk what is. Just because I chose to live my life different than you does not make it wrong or not as "normal", and therefore lower than you. If that's how the majority of this sub felt about me I would be fine having nothing to do with it. Thankfully your comment seems to be an outlyer | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 5 | How to get in the habit of cleaning/cooking when i feel so lazy and have a lack of energy. [Causing relationship issues leading to breakup.]I do something simialr when I feel overwhelmed by all the stuff lying around. I tell myself to put 10 things where they go, then I usually leads to another 10 things , etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 24 | How to get in the habit of cleaning/cooking when i feel so lazy and have a lack of energy. [Causing relationship issues leading to breakup.]Oh name calling is a big red flag. If he can call you names what do you think he would do to your children if you had them. He is a grown adult and needs to be able to express himself in a calm respectable manner. I personally wouldn't put up with it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.Ugh that sucks so bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Are men with tattoos a red flag for a rpw lifestyle?Character is not dictated by a presence or lack of tattoos. I don't think rpw pidgeon holes ppl like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.You're experience with your husband sounds like my current bf. I was actually surprised we didn't sleep together sooner. We went back to his place on a 2nd date, but he could tell I was uncomfortable because his ac wasn't working well and I was hot as hell so he didn't even try anything lol. When a guy doesn't try to jump my bones right away I think more of them honestly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.I'll admit I make it sound like the sex was just meh, but I was also trying to phrase it politlely, lol. In fact the couple of experiences I have had were with seemingly nice guys I felt some connection with and then the sex was the worst I have experienced in my life. Not just kinda awkward laughing about it, but like I was horrified it was so bad. I'm down for trying new things in bed but these men did things that added to my "hell no" list, which is pretty short. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 5 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.That is totally true. Nothing is better than feeling that magnetic energy with someone | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.Im glad you know what works for you and what will bring you the most personal happiness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 0 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.I can see where you might think it's a short term strategy. I will say I make it very clear to any guy I see that I want kids someday, but I also don't expect them to want to knock me up tomorrow. I just want us to be on the same page about where we see ourselves in 5 years. I sadly wasted a lot of time with someone who I thought might change their mind about kids and don't want to do that again. I find sexually vetting someone is the most long term thing I could do because for me I can't stay i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 9 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.Thanks for your questions! 1.Not sleeping on the very first date is a big thing I stopped doing. I had what I call my hoe days where I did it too much and it left me feeling empty so I stopped that. My main vetting is when a guy wants to actually get to know me and I can have a convo with them that doesn't revolve around sex. Also asking questions about their personal life goals is a good indicator. The man I'm seeing now is finishing school, then wants to get a govt job and is going through the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment.I agree sexual compatability grows and I am experiencing that with my current partner, but we got started on the right foot. I know myself well enough and for me sex is the glue that keeps me connected with someone so if it's not at least OK from the start then I am the one who looses interest. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenThat sucks. I live in MD and from what I researched it's not too hard here. Costs like $10 per modual since they subsidize and you just have to be a resident and sign up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Just signed up for my first 5k since high school.I ran a 5k very slowly and then never again lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How to handle “work wife”Let us know how it goes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:48 AM |
| 8 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenGetting your ged is much easier than trying for a college degree, finances wise and is something I'm sure you can do on your own. This sounds like the first step you need to take to be independent. P. S. Sorry for commenting on like 3 different comments lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenWorking through your Fear of commitment combined with leaving your toxic personal environment sounds like your most important thing you need to concern yourself about. You can't be a good partner to someone if you can't commit to them too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenMaybe. I'm in DC where everyone is too career focused. One guy I went on a few dates with was very enthusiastic about kids but that didn't work out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 3 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenSounds like a fear of commitment more than a fear of doing it wrong. I would investgate this feeling more. Again it's not wrong to not want kids. Just be sure it's for the right reason. A therapist can be very helpfully in sorting out complex emotions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenDidn't graduate college it high school? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:15 AM |
| 4 | I'm almost a red pill woman, but I don't want childrenGirl you have the opposite problem of me. I can't find a guy who will say they want kids even just someday in the future. Can we trade lol? Last relationship ended because of it and current one is being a little non commital about the idea. I don't need to get knocked up tomorrow, but just tell me kids are like in your 5 year plan with the right person. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:13 AM |
| 5 | How to handle “work wife”Have you met this woman yourself? Like have you guys all got lunch together or anything? If not I wouod try doing that. If nothing else making thebsuhmgfestion might show you more about how he feels about her. If he's OK with it and makes it happen then you get the change to really see how they are together and make better decisions. If he doesn't even want to do it or keeps delaying it then that's a big flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Please help!Personally I do the same thing he does. When I'm seeing someone I don't invest myself emotionally right away. I've had guys try to rush me to be committed to them with barely knowing them. I think there is nothing wrong with taking things slow, but if he is seeing other ppl at the same time that means you have the right to as well. I won't be surprised if he changes his tune if he knows you are not just sitting around waiting for him to "be yours". I think it's fine to keep seeing him but also k… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with Hitting the WallHot yoga has the double benefit of keeping your skin and bod looking great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 8 | Dealing with Hitting the WallYou should try doing some serious sweating. Like hot yoga or just anything that makes you looks super gross after lol. I find my skin looks it's best post shower after a lot of sweating. I'm sure there is evidence that it cleanses your skin somehow and keeps it tighter and just makes it glow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it realistic to wait for LOVE?Again not cynical, just realistic. I think we all know it hard to stay in total love for the entirety of your marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it realistic to wait for LOVE?It's less cynisim and more realism. I have felt that intense love for someone and looked at them with such adoration, but we wanted different things in life so it didn't work out. I'd like to think I will find someone like that again but won't be surprised if it doesn't happen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 11 | Is it realistic to wait for LOVE?I'm pretty sure it's easy to look at someone like that when they are making a crap load of money and are famous. This isnt your average couple so I wouldn't call it an avg relationship goal. You should respect your partner and they respect you and that's the bare minimum I would ever accept. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/20 11:30 AM |
| -2 | Making big decisions together...Personally if your car doesn't have ac and you use it for the kids I would be more concerned with the kids comfort and safty. Having no heat in winter doesnt sound safe for kids, depending on where you are. Why is he completely against debt? Some amount of debt is good for your credit score so long as you make payments each month. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 4 | When in the menstrual cycle is a woman most infertile?I used to use an app called Ovia Fertility and It does a pretty good job of helping to track cycles and tells your your fertility score and how likely you are to get pregnant. I have an iud now so i mostly just use it to track an symptoms I'm might have since my periods seems to have stopped on it. I can say from personal experience that "natural family planning" via cycle tracking does NOT work, so tell him to wrap it up if you can't use hormonal birth control. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 5 | I need a mentor, and I do not have any feminine figures around me or in my family, can any of you ladies help me?That fact that he blames you is a red flag for me. You Seem to have taken ownership of your shortcoming and want to improve but he needs to learn to speak to you respectfully as well even when he's heated. It's immature to just blow up because of what someone else says. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | 25f with 25m for close to 4 years. Sexual dysfunction and no plans for marriage.This sounds like soemthing you need to see a therapist for if it is impacting your personal relationships. This won't be the only man this happened with so unless you find a guy who is asexual you will continue to struggle until you deal with it. Honestly I don't know how you've been together so long. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Year and a half and no sexual activity - should I be concerned?Gay or asexual are the onky things that make sense and both are OK. If he's gay he deserves to be with someone he's attracted to, if he's asexual it sounds like you are too so it might be OK for both of you. The fact it's never come up in such a long time is a bit odd tho. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is he losing interest or bad at texting?I wouldn't agree with this. I'm with a guy who takes forever to text me back sometimes because in his own words "he's not glued to his phone all day". Men are different at communication and thats OK. I myself can read messages, not be in a place to respond, then forget to do so. No reason to panic unless you don't hear from him for days. I would give him space, wait like 48 hours or so. If you want to check on on him maybe ask him a question about sometime he told you about like "hey how did suc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Worried I love my boyfriend more than he loves meI would agree with all this and add that you should feel very lucky to have a man who is OK with all of this. I don't know of a single person who would be OK with any of what you all have arranged. Not saying it's wrong if it works for you two, but don't ever feel like it's normal, because it isn't. Maybe it's different in your social circle (the show gossip girl comes to mind where this lifestyle is typical) but I would never consider relying on a man for all my needs and zero professional skil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Worried I love my boyfriend more than he loves meI will say I can understand you wanting to put things on your social media. I do agree 3.5 months is a bit soon tho. I would say give it more time. I understand the need to want to share your joy with the world about this person you feel deeply for. I've been there and I'm 31. I also understand the feeling of disappointment I'd the other person wants nothing on social media, because an ex was like that with me. I felt he was ashamed of me, but after talking about it he just legit doesn't like hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Worried I love my boyfriend more than he loves meYes, this. It's typical of men to not post things as much and use social media more to keep track of others. He may just not think about it being an important thing at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Worried I love my boyfriend more than he loves meWhat exactly did you ask him? Did you ask him why he didn't have a pic of you too or if you are allowed to post one of him. Are you all "Facebook official" in that it's says you are dating someone and shows his name? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | HelloThat's nice to hear. Thank you. Any good examples of things you've read here helping you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 2 | HelloJust curious, what makes you want to check out this sub? What are you hoping to gain or learn? Do you also go to the male RP subs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 04:53 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffI found a list of goals I made for the whole year and was both sad to seem a lot were not going to happen, but it was mostly due to covid things. The biggest thing I was disappointed in was getting fired. I feel one of my biggest flaws is the fact that I have been fired from 4 of the 6 jobs I've had since in the last 7 years or so. It's is my biggest shame and I keep trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. My last job fired me due to what I perceived as unreasonable expectations to never make… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Making a relationship official: what should be discussed?Bad sex life was the reason my first marriage ended so I would for sure get this down. Don't lie to yourself about how important it is to you like I did. If I don't crave my partner it's not going to last. These things can of course change over time, especially with kids, but in the start I want to get chills thinking about them. And don't be ashamed if you have any kinks and don't be afraid to ask for them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Making a relationship official: what should be discussed?My big question is usually just do you want kids ever? I'd like them in the next 3-5 years so if that person never wants kids I'm not going to stick around. I've already wasted too much time with a guy who didn't want kids and I thought he would change his mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What extent would you go to improve your looks smv?The only extreme things I've considered is getting a boob reduction or left after having kids, maybe a tummy tuck if I got loose skin after. In the mean time I focus on my diet and exercise. I've been shifting to a plant based diet, running, and body weight or light weight stuff 4-5 times a week. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Advice: my boyfriend’s friends think I’m too childishI find cooking or baking for people is always a way to win them over. Also shows off your domestic side and let's you interact without having to talk to much if ppl are busy eating. Are you much of a baker or cook or feel you could learn? Also, when I'm feeling a bit more shy or just don't feel like talking I just ask ppl questions that require an open ended responds in hopes they will just get into a loop about talking about themselves. A lot of ppl love to talk about themselves. Ask about thei… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 3 | I’m looking to upgrade our bath towels to something super nice, luxurious and fluffy. What brands do y’all suggest? I figured if anybody, you domestic goddesses would know the answer!I'm not gonna lie. The towels at Costco are pretty legit. I can't recall the brand name but I know the box they have them on shows a picture of the towels getting more fluffy as you wash them and I believe it. They are very thick. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 10 | New Rule: "Leave Him" is never the 1st option.I'm assuming this rule does not apply to reports of violence or threat of violence. Seems common sense but always gotta make sure. I personally haven't seen a lot of instances of immediately telling them to leave the person with small problems but I also don't read all posts. I too get annoyed when I want actual advice and everyone just says leave them, but I don't think we do that as much on this sub. Having this rule leaves us vulnerable to actually be like what the trolls think we are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Childfree friend is mad at me. Was I wrong?I know many ppl who are currently child free but great with kids. Telling her to have her own is a very hash thing to say because it's a life long commitment when she is just probably wanting a combo of fun kid time like she's their aunt and being helpful. My only issue is her saying you have to come back when she says. That's not how baby sitting works lol. If she said she hates being around kids that's a other matter and I would be concerned she wouldn't watch them carefully | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How to find a Red Pilled guy in today's climate???? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 7 | What have you seen other women do that you admire?Now I wanna know what they said. It's the only reason I don't like removing comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/20 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Body change... I don't know if i like it.Girl have you seen Kim Kardashian? Wide hips are all the rage and looks very feminine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How to find a Red Pilled guy in today's climate?Oh I did no worries lol. I have screenshot from the other gut that would make you cringe | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 13 | How to find a Red Pilled guy in today's climate?This seems to be a typical thing of young women in that they think they need a red pilled man. They are actually quit the opposite of what you want as it tends to be used a means to get multiple women and not just one partner. There are aspects of red pill that are very attractive but the end game for RP men is much different form RP women. I tried dating a guy who was a self proclaimed RP man and he was the biggest ass I have ever met, very racist, homophobic, ragging Trump supporter, and only … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 12 | What is very unflattering for a woman?Being obease and making zero attempts to change or improve. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 9 | What is very unflattering for a woman?It's unflattering when the hair is not well maintained. I see a lot of women who go the crazy colors when then the roots grow out and don't showers and they just look messy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | What is very unflattering for a woman?Yes I will agree its the crazy colors that are a turn off. They just look like. And typically are new age feminists. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 6 | What is very unflattering for a woman?You just described my boy friends mom in a nutshell. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a morning person?You can do it | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | I have no friends, please tell me how I can make deep meaningful relationships with people who arent my boyfriend.That's still very vauge. What is a "true friend" to you. It's like going on a date with a guy and telling them right off the bat you want him to give you babies. These things take time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I have no friends, please tell me how I can make deep meaningful relationships with people who arent my boyfriend.Maybe you expect too much too fast. Making friends is similar to dating in that it can take time to really connect with someone. I would argue it's harder for because meeting one on one with someone is something you do when you have clicked already. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I have no friends, please tell me how I can make deep meaningful relationships with people who arent my boyfriend.Have you ever tried meetup.com? It's a great way to meet ppl with simialr interests. I made a meetup group myself for dog lovers and made some of my best friends when I moved to a new city that way. It took time, like all good relationships, but the best friends you make will be the ones you share interests with. What activities do you enjoy? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend wants me to be the dominant one?How have you been with him for 3 years. Three weeks of this guy would have been enough for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | A question on pair bonding ...In the theory of pair bonding I would say it's a thing, and that thing is called falling in love with someone. PB is just a more clinical name for it. In terms of one's ability to pair bond based on the number of partners I think the number of partners matter less than the quality of the relationships. Having abusive relationships (emotionally or physically) tends to lead more to a women being hesitant to bond to another man as quickly for fear of the same thing happening. Trust is needed for an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | A question on pair bonding ...I wouldn't blame the sex, more that they were already numb from some bad life experience and sex is a side effect. I've had 30 partners in my life and while I don't cling to a man instantly I have no trouble binding with someone really like | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect?There is always a man out there no matter what age you are. My grandmother got a bf in her 70s so you will be fine. I really think you just don't respect men that much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 7 | How to comfort him when he made a big mistake?No, I can hear the tone of voice he is using because my bf has done the same thing. I agree with being a bit aloof. If anything when he gets home ask of everything went OK but leave it at that. If you feel hurt by him you deserve to tell him, but I usually wait until I'm asked what's wrong. My bf can read me like a book so he always knows and always asks. That's when I would just say something like while I understand how stressed he was, I don't appriciate being talked down to when I'm only tryi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | How to comfort him when he made a big mistake?What things did he say? Not nice things about you or himself? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 10 | Becoming a morning person?There are alarm clocks that make you have to physically get out of bed and like stand on them or something. A cheaper option is charge your phone (assuming that's that alarm) across the room so you have to get up to turn it off. At the end of the day if you want to make the change enough, you will. I feel you. I've struggled with this forever and I myself don't want it enough lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect?This seems to be your problem. I don't think you really like men. You resent them and it probably comes through as you being a feminist, which is a huge turn off except to other non masculine men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect?What? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 6 | How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect?I agree this seeking our more conservative men. While I don't like their political ideals I do prefer there overall demeanor. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 7 | How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect?The moment you stop caring what men want you will probably see them be more interested. You said yourself when you don't seem interested it happened. So just keep doing that and slowly open up to them. Some men like a girl they have to work for. This would of course be more easy to diagnose with real examples or seeing you around men, but alas. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 10 | How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect?We for sure can not get sex from anyone. I've been on dates where I like the guy and we supposedly get a long then at the end of the night they had no interest in taking things further. Not all men are horn dogs and you want to avoid the ones who expect sex right away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Male friendsI don't get along well with most women so I prefer men. Red pill or not, men will be in my life and any significant other will have to deal. If they have a problem it means they don't trust me and I don't want a relationship with someone who doesn't trust me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Is this sub reddit filled with trolls?!I mean, there's the chance that one person said something stupid like that. But I highly doubt that was the overall advise | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 10 | Is this sub reddit filled with trolls?!Idk how anyone thinks this sub is oppressive. I just read a post where a woman was essentially called fat by her man and we all were like "girl leave him". If we were oppressive we would be saying things like "maybe you should try harder honey". | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Is this sub reddit filled with trolls?!People are for sure weird. I got down voted on a post in another sub basically saying if you have no money don't have kids. I agruged that there is more to providing for a child than money and it is a very personal choice that no one else has the right to judge. Down voted like hell. I wasn't even taking a religious stance on it. confirmation bias is the downfall of our world. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Desperate for help - I don't want any intimacy with my husband anymoreIf you confront him and things don't change you might consider just going to stay with a family member for a bit of that's an option. Sometimes men need to know what it feels like to lose you to realize they were a dick. My sister in law did that when my brother was being as ass. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/20 05:47 PM |
| 8 | How did you decorate your bedroom?All the plants. I like cool colors so I have a mandolla (sp?) duvet with blues and greens and teal curtains. I also like gold accents | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Fashion helpThank you for say so 🤦 I'm glad someone thought as much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/20 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Fashion helpWhat do adult overalls looks like these days lol? I jut remember the chunky cargo ones I had as a kid 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/20 03:31 PM |
| -4 | Fashion helpSince everyone insists on stalking me instead of just helping someone with an easy question I'll tell you I am polyamourous. Not something I like to tell random strangers but it's better than you thinking I'm cheating. This person is my bf of almost 5 years and Its now long distance so I've been in the dating scene in my new town. But Thanks so much for prying into my personal life and making your uneducated judgments about me instead of answering a very simple question. I thought this sub was m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Fashion helpThat IS the most southern dress. He just might regret his request 😂👗 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/20 06:14 AM |
| -15 | Fashion helpWow way to post stalk, but that wasn't was I asked for advice on. Never said I was with him only 20 days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 18 | Fashion helpYour assuming he controls me when in actuality he just tells me his preferences and I elect to do what makes him happy because I enjoy seeing him light up when I look nice. I have no opinion in what he wears, but I have other opinions and he listens to those. Not everything it tit for tat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Fashion helpVery cute, he might like that | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 19 | Fashion helpHe voices his opinions on what he likes and I try to accommodate when possible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 08:43 PM |
| -2 | Fashion helpIf only it wasn't pink, lol. He's not a fan of pink | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Am I dealing with a manipulative player?I agree. I get turned off of the guy seems to always have his phone at his hip. It less about disregard and more about having their own life and not being totally dependent on a partner to satisfy their life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 6 | A conversation about taking care of ourselves and exercise?(don't want to top from the bottom)I wouod agree with trying something maybe more group minded so it feels less like just you too working out together. He might feel more motivated seeing other men in the room doing the same thing he is. I know group fitness always works better for me. I like orange theory myself but have also done crossfit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 5 | A conversation about taking care of ourselves and exercise?(don't want to top from the bottom)Positive reinforcement is always a good first thing to do | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How widespread is the notion of shaming women and girls for their femininity?I can see why you feel that way and I agree being a stay at home whatever is a bad idea if finances are hard. My bf and I could never do that because I make way more than he does so if anything he would be the stay at home dad, which might make sense to do if child care cost more than he makes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 7 | What do you look for when using online dating apps to try and find the right guy?So basically the first rule of RP is don't talk about RP lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 9 | What do you look for when using online dating apps to try and find the right guy?I don't know about you all but something that causes me to want to swipe left immediately is any man who openly Proclaim is they're a feminist. To me that's just a big red flag that they are going to be incapable of being in charge of the relationship. Maybe I'm Wrong. I think a hard thing is so many men on dating apps all say they just want something casual. And I struggle because I've been in relationships before where it started off is very casual and it was fine cuz it was what I wanted as w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 4 | How widespread is the notion of shaming women and girls for their femininity?These days women seem to be shamed for wanting to carry traditional gender roles of being a home maker. I personally prefer to take care of others and don't do a good job of taking care of just me lol. When I'm home by myself I do a terrible job of keep things tidy and cooking regulary, but when I visit my bf (long distance relationship) I wake up and make the bed, clean the kitchen, go to the grocery, do laundry, and it makes me personally feel better about myself, even tho Im doing it more for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | I gave him an ultimatumPreach | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | What’s your frequency of sex?I'm 31 and bf is 29. I moved to another city so it's long distance now but I went back for 2 months during the pandemic since I could work remote. Went I first got back he couldn't keep his hands off me, it was almost unsettling because he never wanted me that much before I moved. Then as I was there for about a month is slowed down to our typical amount of 2-3 times a week. Always hot, just less frequent. I loved with him for almost 2 years before I moved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Red and green flagsIt's not lazy when you've seen it and suffered through it multiple times, hoping this time would be different. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 0 | Red and green flagsSounds like someone is in denial about their obvious red flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/20 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Red and green flagsAny guy who says their ex was crazy is, in fact, the crazy one. If they say they want something "consistent", "on going", but won't call it a relationship or girlfriend, then they just want a fuck toy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/20 03:33 AM |
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