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OYS #14 Me: 35, 6', 193lbs, no kids, married less than a year Life/Career: I have been continuing to crush it in my career, but I'm hitting a wall. I've dealt with burnout in the past when I was doing manual labor, but burnout from coding is different. It's not even just the work. I know that what I'm about to say sounds like whining, but it's not. This is just an attempt to write down where I'm failing and the struggles I am having. It's not even just the work that's burning me out, it's everyt…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 12:51 PM
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Thanks for reading and the response. I know this is a late response to your comment, but I haven't been on Reddit since I wrote this. I don't think this relates to Iron Rule #7 because I wouldn't need to put effort into something new, I would just go get it. The effort is directed at myself. It's only because of the way I handle things that she gets anxious like this. I think it's that I'm not very calibrated and I have laid the dread on heavy from the moment I promoted her from plate. Dropping …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 12:03 PM
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OYS #13 Me: 35, 6', 191lbs, no kids, married less than a year TRP/Reading: I didn't make an OYS last week. I was busy and didn't prioritize it. Monday into Tuesday is usually a really crazy time for me when I'm very busy, so it's hard to fit it in. I wrote it on Sunday a few weeks back so that all I had to do was post it on Tuesday morning, and I even had time to do that on Sunday but I was a lazy fuck instead. Continuing to read 48 Laws when I lift or when I'm driving. I haven't been doing them…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 01:53 PM
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Thanks for the well thought out, detailed response. In regard to the T statement, I'm on exogenous testosterone and have been for a few years(which had brought it's own problems I need to own). I really like the barbarian mindset you're talking about. I think I'm pretty close to that already most days. Other days I get hit with imposter syndrome, but it doesn't bother me too much. I deal with the imposter syndrome by just telling myself "well, if I do suck as bad as I think I do, then I just nee…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/22 02:24 PM
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OYS #12 ME: Age- 35 Weight-192.7 lbs. No Kids Married Less than a year Lifting: I missed a day this past week again. I only got 3 days in because I worked from home 2 days. Last week I wrote that I need to get a second gym membership so that I can go to the one in my town when I miss a weekday or don't go into the office, but I didn't make the time. I'm ok with that though because I know I made good use of my time this week and anything I could have sacrificed in order to make it to the gym to g…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 01:12 PM
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OYS #11 36 186 lbs., no kids, married less than a year Lifting/Eating: I missed a day this past week. My gym is next to my work, which is about 40 minutes away. I normally work from home one day a week and go in and lift the other 4 days, but this past week I worked from home 2 days and didn't go in to make it up on the weekend. There is also a gym in the town I live in that has a pretty cheap membership fee I have been meaning to get into so that it's easier to get in for a lift when I WFH or o…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 12:03 PM
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Thanks for the tips on sleeping. It has never really been an issue for me, I already make the room dark, wear earplugs, and then wear headphones over that with white noise or sleep music. It has just been of late that it has been happening. It could be a result of working at a desk now and staring at a computer all day, but maybe not. I'll try the magnesium. I don't post my lifts because except for specific things like this week, I have my lifting on lock. I'm over 30lbs heavier than before I st…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/22 01:42 PM
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OYS #10 36 192 lbs, no kids, married less than a year Lifting: I've made all 4 days this week and killed it on leg day and back day. On my deadlifts I didn't get the extra rep in that I did last time on a couple of the sets, but I nailed my form which I have getting concerned with. It's easier for me to add weight and then just go blue collar on the bar, but I really don't want to mess my back up. I don't know if I'm hitting the top of my ROM with my bar rows either. I hit a good weight this wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/22 01:18 AM
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OYS #9 ME: 36 ~190, no kids Lifting/Goals/Discipline: I have stumbled slightly in my lifting schedule. I have a 4x a week lifting schedule. During Christmas week I only lifted 3x that week. Then last week (Jan 2-8) I only lifted twice. Laziness was a factor, but the biggest issue is just having a hard time managing my time. I have noticed in myself that this is an area where I fall short regularly. It doesn't usually manifest in me missing the gym, but it's something that I have realized as I ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 09:17 PM
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OYS #8 Me: 35 6' 191lbs, no kids, lifting 4x a week Reading: I set a goal last week to read some of MMSLP each day. I didn't make the time. I did read a few days, but I skipped it or totally forgot most days. I didn't realize I already own it, and when I first opened it in kindle it was 80% complete. I forgot that I read most of it a few years ago but just never finished it. If I didn't take enough from it to even remember reading most of it, I think that's a decent sign I need to read it again.…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 10:20 AM
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Like others have said, the tricks are working, now start actually fixing yourself. The tricks only work for a short time. If you were owning your shit and working towards becoming a high value man you would know how to pass easy-as-hell shit tests like this one. There is a weekly own your shit thread. Read the sidebar and start posting in there. I'm sure you aren't pulling off this alpha shit have as well as you think you are (which is OK we've all been there) and if you don't start putting in t…
/r/askMRP09/12/21 10:22 AM
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Thanks. I've dealt with addiction before and seen a ton of it in my life. I know how this will sound, but being addicted to this isn't like being addicted to most substances and getting off it isn't the same process people go through to get off most substances. It's not like I walk around high or anything, it's just a physical dependency. It's just that I have an unhealthy relationship with it in my mind. It will be a long road to taper down and off. I'm hoping that putting it out there and owni…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 08:05 PM
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OYS #7 Me: 35 6' 185lbs, no kids, lifting 4x a week Reading: I read WOTSM last week. I was going to read MMSLP but I couldn't find an audio-book version of it. I know that I need to read it though so I will start reading it this week. Once I sit down to read it and see how long the chapters are I will set a goal to read a certain amount of chapters each day. I have been working on a goal to re-read one sidebar post every morning, which I only stuck to on the weekdays. I will use that time to rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 01:48 PM
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Fair enough. I've read it all before, I just need to slowly go through it all again to try to see things I didn't notice or internalize before. I didn't stick to it because I forgot that I even set it as a goal, which obviously raises another issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 10:56 AM
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Why do you guys keep saying that I haven't read the sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 01:26 PM
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Yeah, you're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 09:16 PM
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OYS #6 Me: 35 6' 185lbs, no kids, haven't been married long Reading: I started Way of the Superior Man a few days ago. I got through most of it on Sunday. It has been a great read, no concepts I haven't heard before, but he explains them in a simple way that makes it hard to misapply. I really need to read the Athol Kay books, but there isn't an audiobook for any of them that I could find. After I finish WOTSM in the next few days I will get MMSLP and start reading. I don't know yet what I will …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 03:17 PM
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Thanks for the tip, but I'm an android user. I plowed through about 3/4 of WOTSM on Sunday while I was working on some things. It's amazing to me how helpful this book is and how many times I have passed it up for other red pill books. Nothing in it is anything I haven't heard before, but he breaks things down into simple terms and puts guardrails on things so that a sperg like me won't misapply things. I read Way of the Superior Lover a few years ago and there is a ton of overlap with WOTSM. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 02:59 PM
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OYS #5 Me: 35 6' 185lbs, married only a few months. Back to lifting 4x a week after taking a few months off, and not being as consistent as I should have been for a few months before that. Reading: Last week in my OYS someone made a comment about reading and I had a response along the lines of "I've read all of the books on the sidebar at least once". Then I looked at the list of sidebar books again and realized that wasn't true. I haven't read any of the Athol Kay books or Way of the Superior M…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/21 04:23 PM
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Thanks man. I will go 5-6 hours a week, probably more actually because my routine is split into 4 different days. I know what you're saying about not making it harder, but I don't dread lifting, I fucking love lifting. My issue is that I have gotten so laser focused on my work and improving that part of my life(I still have a long way to go) that I have neglected every other thing I need to do to be the man I want to be. I know the kind of results I can get with my lifting routine, so I'll stick…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/21 10:03 PM
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My statement about NMMNG was past tense. I read it, no reading it, and as I said we read a few chapters a week. It took us about 2 months. I've read too may TRP books to want to list. If a book is required readings of TRP or MRP, I've read it at least once. I know what you're saying about lifting. I've been being a pussy. After I posted this I got a gym membership next to my work and I've been going in the morning before work. I had this idea that advancing my career was more important than lift…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/21 09:43 PM
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I know what you're saying, but if I'm going to lift I'm going to really fucking lift. I have had amazing results from my routine, and after changing, showering, etc. It takes 90-120 minutes. I just got a gym membership next to my office though and I'm going to go 3 times a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/21 12:19 PM
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I have read the sidebar more than once and I've read a shitload of TRP books. I have done a ton of work, but I've been slacking lately, I wouldn't be where I am now if I hadn't. When I learn things from this place I suck at living it though. STFU is something I fucking struggle with hard. I'm a pretty quiet person and don't talk much, but when I do get talking I get diarrhea of the mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/21 12:07 PM
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I hear that. I knew as soon as I wrote this post that I'm just making excuses. I know it's not laziness in the classic sense, but I'm being lazy about improving my life. I'm focusing on work instead of fixing myself. I got a gym membership for a gym next to my office on Friday so that I can lift in the morning before I go into the office 3 days a week. If I have to take 5-6 hours from my work schedule every week I don't think it will hurt my trajectory much, and even if it does, a great career i…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/21 12:00 PM
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I started the negotiation process several years ago but never followed through with it. I met with my accountant a couple of months ago to see if I could file an offer in compromise, but he told me there was a nearly 0% chance that they would take one now because they don't give them out like they used to and I am making too much money now. I have a plan to take care of it, going to try to take out a loan and roll it into the mortgage so that I can get out from under them. I'll send you a pm tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/21 11:56 AM
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OYS #4 Me: 6' 185lbs(down about 10 lbs from 6 months ago), haven't been lifting regularly for the last several months, 35yo TRP: Started doing OYS in the spring, got a temp ban for rule 9 (though I think the real reason was that I was annoying and wordy) and didn't prioritize posting after that. I continued reading the books suggested here though. I read NMMNG with one of the guys in my fraternity (nothing to do with college). Each week we would read a few chapters, then have a phone call on Sun…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 02:03 PM
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I suggest you flake on her and read the sidebar instead. You obviously have no clue what you are doing.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:17 AM
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Read the TRP sidebar (not the MRP one) to learn about kino, etc. u/beardedbaboon has it right though, work on yourself right now. As you become a better man kino and other tactics are just a fun way to ramp her up, but when she truly desires you because of the man you are it shouldn't take much effort to get your dick wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 11:27 AM
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Goals- Start my one month of no weed over again Continue posting OYS every week Continue required reading No candy Crush it at work. More specifically, I want to get the first months objectives for my mentorship program done in 2 weeks. This is pushing it a little, but If I put in a ton of hours I can do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 09:48 AM
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OYS #2 34y 192.6lbs 6'0" Lifting- I got really busy this week, put off lifting once or twice knowing that I would get to it later, or the next day. This happens. I am usually on point with my lifting routine and fit it in where I can, but I rarely lift less than 4x a week. Not this week. I figured that I missed a day and only got 3x in, but I just grabbed my lifting journal to make this OYS and holy shit, I have only lifted once since my last OYS! God that is a really shitty thing to realize. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 09:48 AM
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Why do you care if they do? For all you know all of the mods on here are just LARPing pimple faced faggots who have just gotten really good at learning this stuff and calling people out but have never applied a single bit of RP in their life. The fact that you care what anyone on here says to you beyond "how can this be useful to me?" shows just how badly you need it. I'll see you in there today, faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 08:33 AM
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after scanning the last 2 weeks (which took long as fuck) Pro tip- use [ ctrl + f ] next time. You're welcome!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 08:28 AM
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It seems you really don’t give a shit about the fundamentals of improving your life. If it is a requirement for OYS I will find it out and post it. Now that I have thought about it though, I should have just left it out. If it isn't an issue, then there is no shit there to own. Lol. Put a lollipop in your mouth and think about this long and hard. I have tried to figure out what you are pointing at here and the only issue I can see is the obvious, guiding my actions based on what a bunch of guys …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/21 10:46 AM
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(Maybe that’s my fault? Not being creative?). It is your fault. As you said you struggle to maintain frame around her, that's the issue. Read SGM. From what you have said it sounds like she is bored with you and can't even bother to fight with you. Stimulate her emotions and it will stimulate her pussy. Not sure if this is the right course of action, any guidance would be appreciated I'm in a somewhat similar situation (been RP aware for a few years but have not been on my shit lately) so if my …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 03:57 PM
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Congratulations! You’re ZERO body fat. How else am I supposed to say it? That's an honest question. I see everyone else posting bf% in their OYS but I really don't care what my bf% is. Should I leave it out of the next one? Are you 4 years old? Wtf. I know, it's weak af Rationalization I was starting to write a response to this and realized it was just another rationalization. I'm still going to stick to my original goal, but you've pointed out that I need to be more critical of myself on this. …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 01:38 PM
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God this hit me hard, especially the first post you linked. I somehow noticed in myself a few months ago that I was using sex for validation. Of course I wanted to fuck, but any time I got denied sex or a specific sex act it seriously hurt my ego. When I noticed this I started trying to correct it, but this post and the ones you linked have helped me put a sharp point on it instead of just vaguely knowing that something was wrong. I know more clearly now exactly what I have been doing and what I…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 12:42 PM
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Post your actual lifts. done So your goal is go even deeper into her frame? Get the fuck out. Fuck, you're right. She didn't make you beta. You did. Bookmarked. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 08:32 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to respond
/r/askMRP18/03/21 03:43 PM
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OYS #1 34y 193lbs 6'0", no noticeable body fat Lifting- Lifting hard 4-5 times/week at home. Didn't do legs for the past 1.5 years because my upper body is what really needed the help. After gaining over 30lbs my legs look like sticks. Started doing legs again a few weeks ago. Doing a mix of pyramid lifts, 3x20, and 7x10-12 depending on the lift and muscle. Got a workout routine written up by GLO a few years ago and have slowly changed it over time as I learn more, certain muscle groups lag behi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 02:29 PM
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Falling apart, I realized that this happened with my help. It is 100% your fault. Everything that you can control is your fault, the other shit doesn't matter. Don't take partial responsibility for your shitty marriage that's falling apart, own it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 12:40 PM
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I hear all of what you are saying and am thankful for it. She isn't supporting me and never will (unless I royally fuck up my life somehow). I took your first comment seriously and really appreciate the perspective. You didn't answer my biggest question though (which is fine if you don't want to) but I was hoping you would. The one about going into the marraige with a pre-nup, and not owning shit. If we both get to a point where we are making great money and everything is still in her name (othe…
/r/askMRP18/03/21 11:55 AM
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Thanks for the perspective. What you are saying is something that has certainly crossed my mind enough times. The thing is she is legally blind, so although she is high SMV in every other way, I am her best option. Because of her situation the things that concern her aren't the same things that concern your average 23 year old (like what do my frenemies think about my man). Although she came from a good family and had a good start in life she sees the man I am today. I'm not trying to say that s…
/r/askMRP17/03/21 10:36 AM
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Disregard the part about the field report. As I've been digging deeper into the sidebar I see how important STFU is around here (which is just what I need) and I realize that nobody gives 2 shits about my experience. I'll just post in the OYS once I get through all of the reading, which is more text than 5 bibles ffs, you guys sure do like to reiterate the same shit over and over again. So I'll start posting in a few years when I finish all of this reading.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 04:07 PM
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I started reading it in depth yesterday. I already owned NMMNG but I haven't read it because during the short time I was doing consulting with GLO he made fun of that book a bunch so I could never bring myself to spend my precious time getting through it, I will read it now though. I also just bought WISNIFG after seeing it as the number top books on the sidebar. I have heard Rian Stone talk about it a bunch but I never thought to read it because I don't usually have a problem saying no and just…
/r/askMRP16/03/21 11:35 AM
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Thanks for the credit. (Ask me how I know!) How do you know? I'm sure I can make a fairly accurate guess, but I'm here because just reading and trying to apply it myself only gets me so far. Learning how to use my mouth properly is an area I'm failing at. It wasn't a problem when I was cycling through plates, but I live with this woman. I have read the TRP sidebar through too many times to count, but I haven't read MRP sidebar as thoroughly. I'll do that. I just always hear people saying things …
/r/askMRP14/03/21 06:33 PM
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Thanks for the link. It doesn't apply to me with weed, but it was still something I needed to hear.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 03:53 PM
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Thanks for the link. I needed to read that.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 03:43 PM
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Cool, thanks man. I know you guys think I'm a stoner. I know exactly what you are talking about when it comes to stoners and how they downplay it. I can't convince you guys that I'm not a stoner and I really don't care to. It's an area of my life I have looked at and it's not a problem. There may be other sleep remedies out there, but weed works well and it's natural.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 09:15 AM
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I hear that. That's why I only smoke just before bed. I have night terrors (I know it sounds weak AF) and getting rested is important to me. Would I rather sleep like a baby without anything? Yes. Have I quit before? Yes, but my sleep sucked balls.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 09:11 AM
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Eh, you didn't hit the nail on the head but I see why you think all of that. We both put the prenup in place because I have a mountain of tax debt. I know, laugh at me about that idgaf. I'm working on it. I have a ton of motivation, hence why I am up at 4am right now to start my workout. I have been on my purpose hard for the last 4 years or so since I found TRP. I have made huge improvements in my life and got really good at picking up and spinning a plate for a few months, but because I focuse…
/r/askMRP14/03/21 09:06 AM
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You're wrong about some of what you're saying but I appreciate the actionable advice.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:26 PM
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Yes we do. She is coming into it with WAAAYY more resources than I am though. She owns the house, makes a ton more money. I have always lived a transient life of a fisherman and don't really own much. I know that none of that will matter in divorce court though so I made sure we got a prenup. I might not be ready to get married, but here I am. I am marrying her because that's what we both want. If it goes down in flames so be it. There are plenty of guys on here who came here with shit marriages…
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:21 PM
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I have quit before for just that reason. It makes me anti-social and a retard. I never smoke it if I think I'm going to interact with people, it's strictly a "take a hit 5 minutes before bed" thing because I have a hard time sleeping without it. Usually I don't really talk with her after I've smoked, but this time I did. Yeah I get that everyone in here is right. I knew I would get laughed at when I made this post, but I'm looking for some help on how to damage control this. She is a great submi…
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah I realized that after I said it. Like I said in my post I'm not the best at implementing TRP, I am way better than I was before but I still have a long way to go. My mouth is usually my biggest obstacle when trying to be a RP man. I have a hard time catching myself when DEERing and I say things that would make people on here cringe and shit all over me. I keep working on it and getting better, but like I said I still have a long journey. The thing is we do have this dynamic already without …
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:09 PM
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The speech went great, I nailed it. Was received very well by the group and touched a couple of the guys who were listening. Glad I did it. There are plenty of people out there who don't agree with all the feminist propaganda who think they are the only ones. People using facts without a bunch of emotion to point out that men have their own struggles is not that controversial and is the way forward if we don't want our society to be completely swallowed up by feminism.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:49 PM
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God you guys are dramatic in this thread. The speech went great. Even if it didn't, how would they cut my head off? I gave a good speech with facts about the oft ignored hardships of male life. I could see the concern of you guys if I was giving this speech in front of the woman's march, but it was in front of a room of MAWG's. Even if they didn't like it and we're offended, who cares?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:42 PM
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Thanks for looking out. I think many of you guys misunderstood my post. I gave the speech and it went great, my best speech yet. In the round robin meeting evaluation at the end everyone said how impressed they were with my speech and how eye opening it was. 2 guys emailed me after to tell me how much they enjoyed it, one if them opening up to me to tell me his story and share his feelings about how men are the doormat of society. It's not like I got up there and bashed women or explained SMV an…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:37 PM
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Yeah I have a hard time with DEERing. I have read a ton of posts about it and I know what it is but it is one thing I still struggle with in my TRP journey because I never notice when I do it. Thanks for pointing it out
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:00 AM
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I have to care what people think about me to work on my public speaking skills? I couldn't give a shit if every one of the guys in my TM group die from getting fucked to death by dogs. I'm on my journey, not looking for advice right now on how to get where I'm going (though sometimes I am). I was just hoping someone might bring up some ideas for statistics, etc. that show that men don't have it as good as the feminists say we do. Yeah yeah I get that part of a good speech is audience awareness, …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:45 PM
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Yeah I can understand how it seems that way. It's a small TM club of less than 10, and they are all dumb boomers and I couldn't care less what they think. I am not going to write it like a TRP post. So far I have the common things like workplace fatalities, prison sentencing, etc. I will be delivering it in the frame of "let's not demonize and forget about men on the road to equality" not "women bad, men good". Thanks for the tip about suicide rates of divorced men. I have suicide rates down but…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:46 PM
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Your 4 points that you needed giant text blocks for can be cut down to... Keep strong frame Kino in an approach Have abundance mentality Women are incapable of loving a man the way he expects to be loved I see you have been roasted a bunch already in here. Don't get defensive, listen to these guys. There is help here for you if you are willing to shut up and listen, or ask questions, but nobody cares about your made up life story. I hope you stick around and get better.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 12:12 PM
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OP, you are viewing value as something objective and tangible and equating what you see as value as something that she should see as value. I am not aiming to be a dick but this is going to sound dickish. You are still a BP beta, it is obvious by your post that you haven't internalized TRP. The things you are listing that make you valuable are not necessarily of high value to her as others have explained. You see her with guys that you think are lower value, but they might be giving her things t…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:25 PM
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There is no such thing as too jacked. Even if there was, it takes years of a kind of dedication that most men don't have. It sure as shit doesn't just happen by accident.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 02:56 PM
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Stuff like this makes me laugh. Women love it when a guy is jacked. The second pic you linked, the one with the guy who juices, women fucking love that shit. I know, I know... a couple of your plates have made comments to you about "I don't like guys that look like that" but they are fucking lying. They either don't want to sound shallow or they don't want you to improve your SMV and therefore your options. People on here who say things like you are saying are just trying to comfort yourselves. …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 02:54 PM
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OP you need to listen to this guy. He is trying to give you sound advice, not come at you. Read the side bar in its entirety and make sure you understand all of it and you will be able to figure this situation out on your own and understand why this guy is saying this. If your approach to getting pussy is flawed and this is how you approach getting laid, this will just be a repeating problem. Read the sidebar and learn how to get them to pay for dinner and weed and then suck you off after.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:04 PM
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Don't send her that response verbatim. I was just trying to show you what I would respond for reference. You need to keep working on this TRP stuff so that you will know what to do/say. It's not about copy/paste the perfect words, it's about growing into the man who knows what to do from a place of confidence and abundance. She might go for it, she might not. Either way you are fine if you are spinning multiple plates. Best of luck to you my man. Keep lifting and keep spinning plates.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:14 PM
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You have been in a relationship with her for one month? Is this a result of her being one of your plates and she got promoted to LTR? Your post screams "I haven't read the sidebar and I have not taken The Red Pill" If she was a plate that you were spinning for a long time who earned her promotion to LTR, then you have missed a ton of red flags along the way. If she is the first girl who would fuck you so you thought you would lock her down in an LTR, then you are doing TRP wrong and you need to …
/r/askTRP26/11/20 02:16 PM
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I'm going to have to jump in on this and start reading along
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