| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Ex buying me self-help booksShe cheated… she’s trying to make herself feel better somehow but by also trying to make you feel weak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | New account/ STBX found old oneYeah story of my life… but the truth always comes out eventually and my family now sees and understands | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Which state has easier laws?Leave Texas and take me with you, where we going?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Sex drive is through the roof as I go through divorce. Anyone else have this experience.If you do this… provide follow up feedback on the reaction… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | cousin fuckerNailed it | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Ex wife won’t help with 17 yr old car or insurance. What do I do?Yeah she’s cut off… no car, sell it and she can take the bus. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Newly Married. Just Had First Kid.At your age a lot of the immaturity will hopefully not be an issue but hold to humility and always take care of yourself both physically and mentally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants a divorceI’m sorry.. now is the time to reconcile with your family… reach out to your mom and dad if that’s a possibility.. lean to family and humble yourself… pray, go to church, focus on your well being and the rest will work out. Whatever you do don’t let the anger take over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 07:54 PM |
| 4 | 36M, how is datingSame age.. pushing myself to look younger with hard exercise and diet… so I can tell them no I’m single for life! Plot twist!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Stay in the same house or leave?Sell it move asap | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | QuestionDo whatever you feel comfortable doing.. no one here can answer that for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex-wife on a dating app.Don’t go to dating apps… go to church … trust me | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 09:21 PM |
| 14 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.That’s actually just what she’s saying because there’s someone else… whether or not the other guy is fully aware or involved may be unknown but it’s not about the spark it’s about her wandering heart | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 02:18 AM |
| 9 | Should I get a background check on my wife’s new bf now that he’s moving in with her?A 17 year old male is pretty low risk for anything that would concern you from a background check…. It would be petty and worthless at this point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Where can I get nice but cheap in priced shower towels?Haha I think they are still normal towels cause it’s the brand name they do sheets and stuff too.. but they are just low priced and found them to keep that soft feel much longer than even some of my most expensive towels | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Opinions? Considering Disclosing STBXW's affair on Social MediaFucking amen | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 12:33 PM |
| 7 | Opinions? Considering Disclosing STBXW's affair on Social MediaI’m gonna stop you right there… don’t air your dirty laundry … delete your social media… you’re not 12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Where can I get nice but cheap in priced shower towels?Kohls has this towel called the big one and I love it | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Financial ruin (divorce) vs. Wasted life (stay)Anyone know which state is best for that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 03:43 AM |
| -6 | The nightmare never ends. Divorce finalized. Custody finalized.Give her custody, pay the child support | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Update: How do I navigate through this life dilemaNope nope nope nope .. don’t marry her.. say you’re happy being the boyfriend | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Wife thinks I’m being ridiculousYou are walking a tight rope right now… the chances of this marriage surviving sounds pretty low.. do you have family you can talk to and get help from? This is not something you should be doing alone | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you call your kids when they are with their momIt may take some time and I understand the feeling. You being angry though doesn’t help you at all and doesn’t hurt her so let that go…. But if you’re choosing to not call and it makes you feel guilty.. that’s not good either. If the kids don’t necessarily need your call and you’re fine with it, for sure don’t call. Keep your sanity and your happiness if you’re just calling because you think you have to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you call your kids when they are with their momHere’s my unsolicited advice… call them, just so your kids see they are the priority and not her… she also sees that too ;) | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 10:09 PM |
| 5 | She's banging someone elseWasn’t expecting to read scriptures today but here we are | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | If you could save it...would you?This isn’t about right or wrong anymore but a family is more than sex so the idea now is are you going to make a family with her or is this just about you two? If so.. divorce might be best as your relationship is no longer a relationship to you but a codependent nightmare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 01:13 PM |
| 9 | Was marriage worth it?Literally no please don’t I’m begging you to please stop yourself from throwing your life away! I’m typing this frantically hoping somehow you will learn to listen to reason and run. Marriage provides the man no benefits and only risk… I know we all believe in love for life… but you have no idea what the future will bring and marriage is the best way to make sure you’re not prepared for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | I have a court appointment this week. Should I go hard or easy on my ex for withholding timesharing time?Get an attorney | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 12:20 PM |
| 2 | I have a court appointment this week. Should I go hard or easy on my ex for withholding timesharing time?No stay strong… the judge does not have the mindset you think… stick to the facts and demand just treatment | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else think about "switching teams"?💯 I have committed in my mind to doing this… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else think about "switching teams"?I’d happily remarry any of my best friends … if they wanted a blowie I’m sure enough alcohol and sweet talk could make it happen ;) just kidding but maybe not who knows midlife crisis says let’s just keep whatever happens as that’s okay | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 01:22 AM |
| 7 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?It’s not fair | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Guys, the peace of mind and silence is truly worth itLove it | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Staying in family homeListen to your lawyer but likely you will combine debts and assets including the house, then you can either sell the house and split it or one person can buy the other out to keep the house… sounds like you should split it and separate forever though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 09:26 AM |
| 32 | After a failed marriage and seeing vows broken out of anger, I struggle to see the benefit of marriage. It seems many women's loyalty is conditional, depending on their options and the state of the relationship.There’s no such thing as a woman who loves unconditionally…. I will die on this hill | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Just discovered long affair while on vacationI guess I just assume all women are unfaithful so it’s just not a surprise anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 8 | I'm getting a divorce with the same personThat was a wild read… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] How young is too young to date if you're not looking for your next wife? I'm 37Age is not just a number…. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] How young is too young to date if you're not looking for your next wife? I'm 37This is a famous formula and works very well for teenagers… plug in some years and you’ll see what I mean | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 10:51 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] How young is too young to date if you're not looking for your next wife? I'm 3730 is my hard cut off… we are the same age | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 10:49 PM |
| 6 | Just kicked her outWhat’s best for the kids was being a committed family, that’s gone, get that out of your head. Immediately change the locks and lawyer up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Men over 40 should NEVER get marriedI don’t think anyone ever should get married… men should marry their best friends for tax benefits only and then if they want to father children they will trade off years claiming them with their partner | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Quitting my job like women leave their husbandsThis was written by a woman | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else get told this after the divorce starts?We are the same to the T | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | 20 year+ marriage has become a prison cell. I can’t stay any longer, but I can’t seem to leave.Every story I’ve heard about someone trying the open marriage idea ends almost the exact same way as you described.. I’m sorry to hear this and I hope you make it through the process as painlessly as possible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Men what is a reasonable weekly or monthly sex output from your wife?Is this post for real? The answer is 0…. I’d be now pitching to whoever is thinking of marrying you to run away fast! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 12:58 AM |
| 7 | If your wife has a “work husband” assume they will eventually hook upDefinitely… truer words were never spoken | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?As fast as you can | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Run fast | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Choosing singleI will literally never date again | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Well, wife wants to go to the streetsThis is hitting home right hereb | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Women are wrong… you should learn to wait forever to begin dating aka… never date again… didn’t you learn the first time? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing my wife for cheating on me with my fatherTypically Jerry handles these cases | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Does it matter who serves who?She’s just like every woman… I liar… serve her | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/23 12:09 PM |
| -7 | Men in your 40s dating younger women, what are you guys doing?They are perverted pedophiles… if you go below 5 years your age in your 40’s … you’re a sicko and need help | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 11:44 PM |
| 3 | I've decided to abandon my children and feel indifferent about the whole thing.I get it | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I ruin my life for the sake of my children?I used to say yes .. but I’m so ready to quit life I just say whatever fuck it… do whatever you want | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/23 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Wife refuses to disclose whereaboutsA Narc is short for a narcotics officer … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Wife refuses to disclose whereaboutsCan someone address how a Narc and Narcissist are not the same thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop itShe’s probably emotionally cheating … get out | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I get how fathers abandon their childrenThis is a perfect understanding of everything I know and fear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | I want to shed some light on something related to the divorce process that I really believe men should know.Preach | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Should I get divorce?I feel this post is fake… you should’ve left years ago | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 3 | It’s been 4 months of hell.They always cheat… she cheated and that sucks I’m sorry | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 05:57 AM |
| 14 | Separated, Devastated, and Now Wife Divulges She Has Medical IssuesAlso, it’s an affair…100% | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | 2 jobs. should I drop one?Lawyer question… talk with your lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Please someone tell me this gets easier. Tell me I'm going to survive this.You could also have 100k debt unpaid taxes and the only possible outcome of homelessness to add to it… count your blessing so wish I could be in your shoes | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How many points do you score? High score wins…Literally I got all the points | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?These aren’t real problems… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 13 | Marriage questionLegally marry another man for tax benefits. .. keep a girlfriend otherwise | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Contemplating divorceYou don’t consider what you did infidelity… she should leave your ass…. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | If you get married you’re a fucking IDIOTWomen are definitely the most selfish creatures on earth… no doubt about that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Texas legal adviseCall a lawyer like yesterday!! Honestly as fast as you can, you will want to get something filed or you may not see your children again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 4 | Ex just asked me to split monthly child tax credit payments with her (USA residents). Don't know how I feel about it, and wondering if any of y'all have had this discussion?Never ever pay more | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 45 | First time meeting with ex wife after 2 of divorceCancel the meeting.. delete the number… closure achieved | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/21 03:19 AM |
| 4 | To all the divorced men...I’d honestly say I would be happiest to live the rest of my life with a dog … people suck | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Contested Divorce with two children - TexasReverse that vasectomy! I don’t know why, but just do it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Contested Divorce with two children - TexasThe last time I watched porn I was 19, I’m 33 now. It’s not unusual to find people who don’t watch porn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | How I appropriately challenged the divorce system, and how you can survive and thriveDefinitely a cult | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/21 03:50 PM |
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