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| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 27, 2025There’s a point where the hunger makes it incredibly tough to stick with it. An easy way to handle it is going in consistent walks, especially if you have a weighted vest. That’ll increase your burn and you can still eat enough to mitigate the hunger. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 27, 20252100 isn’t much. Are you deep into your cut? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/05/25 02:12 AM |
| 19 | 8 years laterSidebar Lift Shut up and work | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/08/24 03:46 AM |
| 16 | Wife has been diagnosed with a hormone problem.Hormones play a bigger role than most people think. You might mentally be available but your body will not be. Seeing a therapist and psychiatrist doesn’t automatically fix things and it’s been only two months, and medication can take a long time to have any effect if at all. I don’t think you’re being fair to your wife here. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 06, 2023My .02 - lifting with a goal in mind helps you stay on track, especially when incremental gains come more slowly. If strength is your goal, bulking can be a tool to get there, but isn’t always necessary (up to a certain point). Keep up the gains | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/23 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 06, 2023Are you trying to cut or bulk? Pressing movements are one of those lifts where more body weight is often necessary to break past plateaus, depending on how long you’ve been stuck. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/23 12:20 AM |
| 0 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testProbably why she’s texting other guys, he can barely move her | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to have frame around your wife?Save a copy of this text you posted for reflection in the future as you continue to put in the work. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 17, 2021Agreed on the anxiety, could be improperly tying the food to that as a result and it’s not because of its glycemic index but more how he feels about eating those foods | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 05, 2021It’s similar with fasting. It’s great for calorie restriction but isn’t the only way to lose weight effectively. It’s just what works best for you. At a certain point you will want those carbs for greater performance in the gym and for more efficient muscle growth. Meat protein is especially dense and satiating so it helps with hunger control. There are other foods out there carb wise that can do similar based off what you choose. Good luck on your journey, I hope you like the results | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 05, 2021Keto is pretty good for weight loss due to calorie restriction but it is not ideal for long term gains of muscle. You don’t need carbs but they’re incredibly helpful for performance | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 9 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?Character online reveals itself sooner rather than later | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 03:36 PM |
| 36 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?All of the shit he mentioned takes up maybe 30 hours of his week at most... this is an embarrassing post. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 03, 2020Progression in some way is important here. Increasing reps, weight, or changing intensity or small things within the exercise like variations can help. Biceps are one of those muscle groups you can hit frequently especially if you’re only doing a few sets when you go. It’s up to you to figure out the frequency you need for growth in terms of sets and the effort you put in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/20 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Fucked on 2nd date last noght. Do I text her or should I wait for her to text me?I like to text the morning or day after “Last night was really fun” or something short and sweet to that effect and leave it at that and wait for her response then setup the next date. Works wonders and helps with ASD, or buyers remorse. Ignoring them can go either way but usually not the way I want in my experience | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020Gotcha. Glad you find that IF helps you. Be aware of potential muscle wasting with fasting! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020Awesome man. Hard part is keeping it off. It helps to track especially as you get lighter and lighter. It makes a difference over the long term. Keto can be a little simpler in that you are restricting carbs, and eating more protein and fats which can be a little more satiating, especially proteins. What do you believe the health benefits of IF are? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020Generally about 10% of your body weight is the max you’d want to do at a time. Slower is usually better and once you are done with your weight loss program, to do a maintenance phase and let your weight stick for a bit, then bulk or cut again. You can also just go straight from a cut to a bulk or vice versa, the really only important thing here is adherence and making that easy on yourself is always better. What is your eating schedule like? Do you have your macros planned out? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020Keto is a great weight loss tool due to controlling caloric intake but unless you have medical issues that require it it’s not great for long term consistency or for growing muscle. While you don’t technically NEED carbs, they’re pretty much essential to gaining muscle and for the body to use efficiently during exercise and other activities. Protein and fats just aren’t as easily made available by the body for that. Cardio will help some, especially for the cardiovascular gains. If you aren’t we… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 6 | What to do when she has hotter friends?sex god method book is a good place to start | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 30, 2020I’d love to see a survey on that. I’ve self administered for years and if you are not careful with how you guard your own mental state and stay grounded you are liable to be pulled in polar opposites of decision making. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/20 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 30, 2020Your physical health affects your mental to an unfathomable degree. They feed off of each other. The more you spend on one the more the other improves. There’s a post on TRP right now that talks about how to lose weight through calorie and volume (weight) eating that may help you beat cravings while fasting. I did severe fasting of 23/1 for a summer years ago and the cravings really catch up with you so you need to eat food that fills you up literally while also hitting the nutrient goals you ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 30, 2020People don’t talk enough about the mental and mood benefits of it enough. There’s decades of science behind testosterone and when well dialed in is probably the best thing for a man that you can take. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 16, 2020Maintaining a deficit while eating foods that are high in hunger satiation. Hit your calorie and macro nutrient needs while getting proper micro nutrition from that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 16, 2020Frequency to provide proper stimulus is huge. Not sure what your plan looks like in terms of total volume over the course of the week and how much exertion you’re putting in but those are huge factors as well and very hard to do on 2x a week and sometimes even 3 days, so keep that in mind if muscle growth is your goal and not just muscle strength. If you’re not confident in your form in any lift you should drop it down to where you can focus on how you feel the exercise and ramp up the weight fr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 16, 2020Interesting about your lower back. I’m not in anyway a professional so this is only speculation, but have you looked at your form? Do you feel the same way when you do machine exercises that target the same muscle groups? Can you substitute a hack squat or leg press for your squat in the meantime and work on your form if that’s the issue? I recommend looking up Andrew Lock strength on youtube in the meantime before you see your pro and watching his videos on lower back pain as they may help you.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 16, 2020Has she given you any indication as to any real plans regarding that? For your physical part, raising your calories on lifting days will help your performance and recovery, especially if you play with the carbohydrates. If you’re looking to lose fat, it’s all about being in a deficit long enough to see those changes. You’ll need to track your calories meticulously and take a moving average of your weight fluctuations to see if you need to adjust or if you’re actually hitting your goals. Keep in … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Nothing wrong with a little toe sucking | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Question: Career DecisionsIf you haven’t spent any time on the related subreddit for it, I’d highly recommend, good wealth of anecdotal and study based information there for wherever you want to take yourself. | /r/askMRP | 10/06/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Question: Career DecisionsNandrolone is well known for its benefits in terms of joint pain. Things like masteron are on the opposite end of the spectrum. Higher E2 levels can also help a little bit. I can’t think of any other off the top of my head that would help directly with comfort. It’s probably time you look into peptides and other things that directly assist with the healing of your joints and ligaments. | /r/askMRP | 10/06/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Question: Career Decisionsmy last deca blast was 500 t e/ 600 deca, and it was phenomenal for mass and strength. Was able to support much greater weight and it seemed my joints could keep up excellently. You’ll see a lot of variance on npp/deca at low doses but everyone responss differently and many juice heads solve things by just adding more gear which obviously isn’t ideal. Since more studies have been shared on high dosed cruises or low blasts of test as almost being capable of doing permanently as long as bloods are… | /r/askMRP | 10/06/20 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???It was actually very enjoyable, and was perfect during late fall, winter and parts of Spring. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 03:20 AM |
| 5 | The frame on this guyYes. They’ll do whatever it takes to get a story, and no one is safe from the treatment over the course of their career | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 03:34 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/03/20)Good luck, helped me understand the concepts behind why people do what they do to accomplish different goals better, | /r/RPChristians | 04/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 4 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/03/20)Since you’re new, you’re going to be able to benefit a little from new muscle growth in addition to fat loss which are usually contradicting processes when natural. Still, you’re going to see primarily fat loss so stick with it, once you get to a lower BF of 12-15 you’ll see the real benefits of it when you get back to muscle growth down the road. For your fat intake using the .3-.4g of your body weight in pounds will give you a good estimate of what that would look like. I would keep your prote… | /r/RPChristians | 04/06/20 12:35 PM |
| 5 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/03/20)As you invest more time in it you’re gonna start seeing fat changes without seeing the scale change. Are you counting macros in addition to calories? | /r/RPChristians | 04/06/20 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???Those are the ones you breed with | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???Having lived in both places during summer and currently living in Texas I prefer Arizona due to lower humidity even though temperature wise it is hotter. There’s plenty of indoor attractions and although you’re going to want to hydrate more lower humidity helps when you’re sweating | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???Mostly fat ugly women everywhere although when you do see the Texas bombshells they are 👌🏼 | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???PHX Arizona is pretty fun for bachelors and land and housing isn’t as expensive. Young women everywhere, lots of outdoor stuff, plenty of other bro’s, Vegas up north, SD and LA to the west and easy to fly out of. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:21 AM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/03/20)How long have you been lifting for? | /r/RPChristians | 04/06/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 02, 2020I have a feeling this is going to be a growing trend in the near future as unemployment grows and people become more desperate for work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | LTR of 5 years weaponized sex for the first timeIt's her job to keep her place at your side. As you grow, you want to encourage her to grow too. There are definitely great women out there but you will find a wall with most of them where they will no longer follow you or are no longer relatively of great value. You're right on the count that too many men end relationships with women over dumb things, but we will never know what the true motivation is and it will rarely ruin a man's life to leave a certain woman unless they are married. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 12 | Do you think the quality of women have dropped?Why would they delete what makes them money? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 02:23 AM |
| 16 | Grab The WheelThis sub has evolved over time, you’ll see slightly different messages the further back you look. The end result of men who successfully implement applicable red pill practices in to their lives is usually the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2020Losing weight first would better serve him, you’re 100% right. Hill sprints are great for the extra mental toughness as well. The less fat on the body the better it performs in all areas. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Keeping things fun in quarantineYou’re right on the gay comment. I babysat for kids when I was younger and that’s what I would do. Not much cooler than getting a comment from the mother saying how happy the kid was that I taught them how to play baseball and they’re now in the backyard practicing by themselves. | /r/askMRP | 26/03/20 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Keeping things fun in quarantinePuzzles, board games, teach them sports. I’m not a father, so dismiss my comments if you’d like, but I would 100% use this extended time with them to expose them to as much as possible and get them to start thinking and asking questions. Much like Horns did on his FR on the main sub, you want them to start learning the lessons that will set them up for success later and plant those seeds now while they’re more malleable and don’t have as many bad habits. Walks around, pointing out bits of nature… | /r/askMRP | 26/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you hide the fact you have money from women? Questions on women “liking me for me”That’s when murder lands on the table /s | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Texting your balls awayIf calling isn’t congruent to who you are, I wouldn’t recommend it. If all you’re doing is telling her to come over and bump coochies with her, a plausible deniability text works fine. Your sentence saying “I don’t think I fucked it up yet” is pretty telling, probably best to take a short break today for a few minutes and step back and evaluate. You have a STBX, sounds like you’re still unplugging and figuring your shit out, make sure you’re not getting in over your head with this new woman befo… | /r/askMRP | 17/03/20 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Texting your balls awayText game comes over time and most people fuck it up. It’s similar to Heartiste’s rule of a ratio of incoming to outgoing texts and how much you text. Light flirting, teasing, communicating info. It can be great for qualifying a girl, keeping something a little warm until you see them, and then teasing them after. Text can help a little bit but it can also hurt a lot so it’s best to know when it’s applicable. New date coming up? Little flirting can help. Fighting with SO? Keep that to a minimum … | /r/askMRP | 17/03/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020Thanks fam. Hope it helps you. Going to use it for my own shit more intensely than I have been. Good luck and stay the course. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/20 02:56 AM |
| 121 | What's with the zoomers saying "simp" all the time lately?Imagine being that insecure you don’t want other men to improve so you can have a chance at some pussy. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020When you say you faced what you’ve been repressing, are you sitting yourself down in an environment where you are forcing yourself to address it and write down your thoughts on it? Looking for catharsis in a sense? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to have the characteristics of someone who is abusiveI hope you didn’t remove your text wall yourself, don’t be a bitch take your punishment and learn. I don’t care about women you could fuck, literally no one does. It’s clear you’re looking for validation here. You’ll need to string together consistency to start seeing patterns of success and what works well in your approach and what doesn’t. Every bit of the sidebar helps because it’s all essential. You should be out gaming women constantly and working on what you want out of life and aligning y… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 3 | I want to learn how to have the characteristics of someone who is abusiveYou obviously haven’t been practicing what you are reading. Instead of becoming interesting and a man that these women want to fuck, you’re resentful and see being like this as the easy route. It’s not discussed here and never will be in a positive light because that kind of behavior is fucking retarded. If you truly want to change, you’re going to suck it up and actually read the sidebar and apply it because you’re very clearly not. 5 lays as a 21 year old man is nothing now when given no conte… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.Places a lot of stress on the liver and most, not saying you, use them to compensate for poor diet and nutrition knowledge and recovery. Winny provides amazing results when you’re relatively lean, and Var can be great for assisting a cut and helping with some strength but since each person is dose dependent, it’s hard to tell what will be bette for some than others. Stacking orals just places a lot of unnecessary stress IMO and would be better spaced out at the beginning end or during the cycle. | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.Nothing wrong with being a pink Italian. | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.Don’t start your girl on any kind of PED until she shows some discipline and consistency otherwise you might just fuck her up. You’ll see pretty quickly if she just wants some guidance or she’s looking to suck up more of your time. Pick the username of the person you want to be, right? | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 9 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.Protect your normal lifting time, and take a little extra time maybe a couple days out of the week and walk her through how to run a routine and lift the correct way. Small time investment each time but you want to give her direction. Do this for a while then leave her to it and give her encouragement as she continues to go. | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 03, 2020Congratulations on the weight loss. Only thing I feel qualified to add for you is that if those stretch marks do appear and you do develop loose skin, there are aesthetic non invasive and invasive treatments you can pay for that will tighten your skin up as well as resurface your stretch marks. Same concept as whitening teeth. Most men aren’t aware of them but guarantee you ask your wife and she will know. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Lifting is awesome and a great first step, but grappling makes you badass.Glad it’s working out for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Lifting is awesome and a great first step, but grappling makes you badass.Just out of curiosity, why did you choose the snake diet | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do the majority of modern young women choose to offer nothing of substance to the world?😂 | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do the majority of modern young women choose to offer nothing of substance to the world?How can you extrapolate this one slutty women on to the rest of them? I am the last person who is #TeamWomen. Now, you may have just shared it as an example, but what’s available to men and women is very different unless you’re a gay man, then it’s the same thing thot wise. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do the majority of modern young women choose to offer nothing of substance to the world?I’ve heard of generalizations but this one takes the cake in this thread | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Why do the majority of modern young women choose to offer nothing of substance to the world?Many young people feel disenfranchised. Don’t know what direction to go in, told from birth what to do and where to be and what to aspire to and very few have any internal idea of what they want to do. This isn’t solely a female problem, this affects young people as a whole and everyone addresses it in ways the best they know how. Some do it forever, some don’t. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 17 | Why do the majority of modern young women choose to offer nothing of substance to the world?He’s in the anger phase, he will realize eventually. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 66 | LTR of 5 years weaponized sex for the first timeI don’t see anyone else addressing the engagement ring aspect here. Have you stated your intentions to her regarding this? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020If you focus on the white light long enough you’ll forget she’s even there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020Perception and reality are often very different. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/20 05:13 PM |
| 5 | About last night, at my house!This man has a talent | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 04, 2020What do you think of the Six Pillars so far? Finished it a while back. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Just giving this community an excellent book recommendation to start the year rightSometimes it’s easier than others to tell when a guy doesn’t get it. Nothing is commodified, nothing is without nuance. “Selling” has been the basis of human interaction for eternity. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Just giving this community an excellent book recommendation to start the year rightThis is a pretty lazy way to explain sales. Everything is sales, you’re selling yourself every time you interact with other people, especially when you’re trying to get them to do what you want. All relationships boil down to the transactional at their most basic level, ignoring that farr is dumb. Not al value is obvious and waiting for others to recognize value is going to leave you at the bottom of the pile. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/20 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Friend who turned me onto Redpill is getting jealousYeah, he probably noticed them changing how they interact with you. You won’t be able to do anything about this, it’s his insecurity. He will either get over it or stop being your friend. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Friend who turned me onto Redpill is getting jealousbet his gf or plates made a comment about you lol | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 21 | What would you do if your LTR/fiance/wife told her friend you weren't "her type"?You’re thinking too far ahead already. You’ve been dating her for six months, that’s it. It very much sounds like you’re on a quest for her validation and approval, which is not at all what you should be pursuing. | /r/askMRP | 11/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 16 | What would you do if your LTR/fiance/wife told her friend you weren't "her type"?I don’t think you understand the totality of what women are attached to. You don’t need to be peaked physically speaking to make women wet for you, there’s plenty of evidence of that in the world. You’re investing too much into this and her and not enough in yourself. Continue hitting the gym and get over it, you continuing down this path is only going to result in you stepping on your own dick and her jumping on another. Going to pop in a quick addition here: You stopped the vetting process too… | /r/askMRP | 11/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 07, 2020Almost all of that 2 pounds if not all of it that you gained was water weight. I wouldn’t worry about it, because it can come from stress on the body from travel, sleeping in a new environment, different foods, etc. Water retention happens from all manner of things. I would recommend even if you don’t do some body weight circuit or whatever to at least do cardio in the gym to expend more calories. Helps me while I’m traveling even if I don’t lift and gets the body ready for the day. Makes a mass… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 9 | Sitting here with a girl. Said she won't have body contact atm..Doesn’t sound like she’s a gf. Hookups don’t get girlfriend privileges, keep that in mind. If you’re not getting what you want from a purely sexual relationship, I wouldn’t provide more than basic comfort and leave and go do my own thing. Better shit to do than hang out with a sick girl who amounts to little more than a sexual release at this point of time. Tell her you hope she feels better and to rest up and that you’ll meet up agian soon. You’ve given us very little context here but from what… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I want to fuck her so now she doesn't want to fuckMan in the world has some great dancing monkey posts that might shed some more light on this topic for you, I’m struggling to internalize it myself but his articles helped a good bit | /r/askMRP | 28/12/19 06:13 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE; my fiancé cheated on me while drunkLet’s say they didn’t go and fuck other dudes while blackout or trashed. Still makes you look terrible by association. There are a lot of justified negative perceptions attached to this behavior that serves you well to avoid. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 04:16 AM |
| 3 | UPDATE; my fiancé cheated on me while drunkYou control other people’s actions by what you tolerate in your life and enforcing those boundaries when they are crossed. That’s the only way you can control external actions towards you. That’s your sphere of control. You did the right thing. Letting it go would mean you tolerate that kind of behavior and she will continue to do it. People who want to be a part of your life will live within those boundaries or they just aren’t part of it. You choose who you want in your life for the most part. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 04:13 AM |
| 9 | UPDATE; my fiancé cheated on me while drunkWhere’s your dad in this? Sounds like you just have to throw the whole family away. Sorry to hear you went through this, hope shit continues to improve. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you reply to Instagram story reactions?You’re investing too much if you want a specific woman in your bed that much. Don’t respond to low effort messages like this, if you’re going to ask her out, don’t do it after that, it looks desperate. If you’ve already got plates, what’s your time trade off of adding more? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 17, 2019I’m a big fan of Versa grips if you choose the grips route. Farmer’s carries, rack pulls all help grip, just make sure you put time into recovery on those areas as well | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 17, 2019Would highly recommend Taft boots if you’re looking for a variety of styles. Have had multiple high end brands and these are my favorite for comfort, appearance and versatility. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/19 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Wife spent $9k behind my backThen you have the ones where you aren’t necessarily married but present yourselves as such and that can bite you in the ass too. What a world we live in. | /r/askMRP | 14/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 8 | Wife spent $9k behind my backAre you in one of those states where debt is shared between spouses? Or is that just debt brought into the marriage? | /r/askMRP | 14/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Menopause and the red pillYou make a good point, thank you. I should have prefaced it as an absolute last resort if nothing else works, but you’re right if you’re at the point where this needs to be shared overtly the men have missed the point. | /r/askMRP | 07/12/19 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Menopause and the red pillFor those whose wives suffer from atrophy, dryness, discomfort during sex and pills and creams aren’t working for them, I would recommend finding a doctor who has a vaginal rejuvenation device and performing a consult to see if there can be any improvement. It can improve sexual comfort and help some women with SUI. Probably a small minority of you guys have it but roughly 65% of women will experience symptoms like this from menopause at some point in their life. | /r/askMRP | 07/12/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019Go check out Brian Alsruhe’s videos on bracing, they are god tier and helped my lifts more than anything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019Would recommend the steroids wiki and posting in the ask anything as well for all questions you might have. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019No one really needs something like this outside of high performing athletes, which I’m not, but I enjoy the ability to see how my nightly sleep went and adjust what I’m doing from there. Really all comes down to your nightly routine like the commenter said, and keeping it consistent as possible. Good luck man, the godliest gains come from great sleep. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019If you’re interested in tracking your sleep and recovery I suggest looking into an Oura ring (which I have) or a Whoop band (which I do not have.) You’ll be able to see how you slept at night, what your sleep was like, your recovery, etc. Sleep and recovery is neck and neck with your nutrition if not more important. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/19 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Where to find the safe person for NMMNGI’m going to second this and push it along with taking up an activity with another man that you both struggle or suffer through (for some it’s soorts, or difficult hobbies like hiking together) and building up that ability to separate wanting the best for your friend while also realizing it might change the dynamic of your relationship to something you no longer like. Counselor is a good way to start, but you’re going to have to lead the relationship where you want it to go and request this auth… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 26, 2019OYS #8 Stats Age: 25, 6’1”, 220 pounds, 15/16% BF eyeball test, could be 17%. No children, LTR for a little over two years (lives with me.) Lifts: Bench 1x335 on BP, have not benched with a bar in a while. Squat: 415x1 Deadlift: 475x1 Conventional Back row: 285 OHP: 215. Reading: Atomic Habits, NMMNG, How to Win Friends, Hagakure, Way of the Superior Man X 2, The Unchained Man, MAP, Models, 7 Habits, 12 Rules of Life, tons of sales books, tons of TRP, years of vintage CH. SGM x2, Book of Pook. P… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Am I irredeemable?I started doing psychedelics in May and that’s been the most helpful part of my journey so far combined with MRP. There’s a point though where you get your answer and you need to hang up the phone once you know what you need to do about the problems you’re presented with. 10/10 experience, if you haven’t tried acid yet, I recommend that for deep work and combinations of the two. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 01:56 AM |
| 1 | For guys who actually enjoy their job/career: what is it and why did you choose?I’ve got plenty of saved links over the years, I’ll share what I find when I review them this weekend to the sub. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | For guys who actually enjoy their job/career: what is it and why did you choose?Nice. It’s not looking great in the Texas fields now but the international part sounds awesome. Just recognized your name too, thanks for your work in RPworkplace. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | For guys who actually enjoy their job/career: what is it and why did you choose?How did you get into that role? I did construction sales and assisted with O&G once the rigs were up, it that side of it sounds way more interesting. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 19, 2019Sometimes it helps if you don’t force it. I’ve accepted that with some things it’s good to push through on productivity, but for this, decluttering your mind is still productive, even if you’re just sitting down and writing about your day or whatever is on your mind that morning and letting come what may. Sometimes it becomes insightful, but you’re not forcing it. You’re just letting it out so you focus a little better on other stuff. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 19, 2019Meditating and journaling just to de clutter your monkey mind will help a lot, it doesn’t have to be journaling to be productive but even in the morning or at night just getting the nonsense out on paper can help dump it so you can better focus on other things. Sometimes feels like post nut clarity | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 19, 2019Rope pull throughs work too although they’re awkward. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 12, 2019I’m guessing that’s seven sets of three on 110, probably a few weeks out on tren, only downside to that weight is availability of people strong enough to place the weights in your hands for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Legally she’s in your life right now, are you taking her on any adventures with you giving her a taste of the fun or is she just excluded from any of the fun parts of you? I’m in no way an expert on leading in a relationship and I’m not married, but are you bringing her in on any of this to show her what she can be a part of? | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Have a longer response for a few other things but let me ask you this: are you having fun with anything you’re doing right now? | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Fasting helps reduce inflammation all over the body. It also reduced the amount of time I felt I needed to sleep but can’t speak to the quality of that sleep. Mental clarity was great but again, inflammation was the key part there. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 5 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?When’s the last time you genuinely wanted to have sex with her and what preceded or sparked that feeling? For IF, if you want to get real freaky try 23/1 for a while, or multiple day fasts. Shit will melt off. Those T boosters you’re taking aren’t doing shit, throw them out. There’s not much legitimate increases in T possible outside of external hormone introduction, your baseline is going to stay pretty consistent after you’ve taken care of things like sleep, diet, exercise and such. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?It’s great that you’re improving. It’s also ok to be lifting because you want to be more attractive to women and be more dominant, as long as you’re doing it for you too. Anyone who says they only do it for themselves is a liar. It’s also acceptable to proud of what you’ve done, and to post gym selfies to flex on the plebs, but when you’re doing it because you want people to validate your efforts and that’s the only reason why you do it, there’s a large piece missing there. You sound pretty youn… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Loose Skin from weight loss?Going to suggest an alternative here that should be for when you start losing more weight- non invasive or invasive skin tightening. Depending on how much skin there is, you can use a radio frequency treatment at a medical aesthetic practice to get some pretty good results, the full series of treatments will probably run you $2,000, but you’ll get some serious tightening effects and it’ll look a lot better. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/19 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?Thanks for sharing? You’re definitely not self validating yet. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 03:21 AM |
| 5 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?Your cycles come and go because you’re relying on external validation rather than validating yourself. It’s a long road to get there | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 6 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.Add borax next time. Helps immensely | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 05, 2019Both of you should look into a sleep study and figure out why. My sleep improved on test, but it also adds muscle to the neck and can constrict airways. This is dangerous long term. It also can weaken your immune system, so keep that in mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/19 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Erasmus student soft-nexting a girlYou’re asking the wrong questions here. If you ever begin a thought process with how to “win a specific girl” you will lose every single time. The right question is, what must I do to become a man that women desire by doing what I like, and acting how I like, aware of what it takes to attract a woman. The alternative is you being a dancing monkey, which is the wrong road to go down. To answer your initial question for now, the answer is: have fun, be fun, do not let the outcome of any interactio… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | No social media for 30 days😂 | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 11:17 AM |
| 4 | No social media for 30 daysIt’s no nothing november boys, commit to a few things you’ll cut out and add one new thing you’ll do every day to grow. Masturbation, social media, TV, video games. Approaching a girl everyday, gym everyday, etc. You get the idea. Give it a shot | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019Issues really only crop up if you’re taking wildly fluctuating hormones that need crazy stability. You shouldn’t feel any difference whatsoever honestly. What some guys do is they front load a little bit right before they leave to help stretch it out by the time they get back so they can keep it “somewhat” stable but I’d ask your doctor since you’re in the tamping period right now. Right around the time you get back you should be about getting blood tests anyways so should be interesting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019So three weeks isn’t a whole lot of time for cyp to build in your system. You can see what I mean over at steroidcalc.com and plot your cycle/TRT. The difference shouldn’t be huge but when playing with hormones small effects might be experienced such as acne, or a little shortness of temper or moods changes that are minor. If you’re already a pretty solid guy in those areas you should be more than fine but stability is king when it comes to injecting, so consider that when you go on vacation and… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019I went down that same road very recently in my head and I’m starting to make a lot of progress and if you’re already aware now of the same concept of intention, the how and why and purpose of why you’re performing an action and what you’re desired result is and where the intention comes from, you’ll start experiencing a massive personal dynamic shift and relationship dynamic will follow IME. Tough to explain over text but if you keep a high level of awareness and introspection on intention witho… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Would be pretty dope to get a room set up with an indoor bike you can ride and practice/train while watching some of those movies to improve your mountain bike cardio. It’s a very shitty feeling when you realize how much you’ve been bullshitting and holding yourself back and limiting yourself, and for what? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Sounds like some very hard decisions coming up, but the energy and clarity you gain back by making those changes is going to feel like a refreshing blast of ice water once you have that control and foundation rebuilt. What would you do after it’s been delegated? Is there anything else you want to do really? I’ve read a lot about most men just dying early after retiring due to no purpose or mission, meaning “loss of life” in a sense since we are so goal driven. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Thanks man. I did a similar exercise when I read the Unchained Man but I haven’t revisited it like I should be, I believe it’s something that needs constant reflection every couple of weeks or a month to steer with negative feedback, going to re-do the exercise. Thank you! To your self proposed question, what does retirement mean to you? What would you be retiring from? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Why do you think women from Eastern Europe / Asia are better?A lot of fetishization here and fantasizing. Put a woman in a new environment and she will most likely adapt to the environment. Finding a “naturally red pill woman” to help the shortcomings of being a faggot is a terrible solution. Imagine traveling to another country for the purpose of a woman. Shameful. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019What were your thoughts on the video, if you've had the chance to watch it? Seemed congruent with what is often shared here in terms of presence, awareness and higher function towards a goal/mission/directive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019I found TRP about five years ago and have a very good in real life who I practice it with, very blessed in that regard. Luckily, I’m not married and just have a live in girlfriend. If she decided to stop fucking me and that was it, I’d take the financial hit and move out of our joint apartment and start over. She moved here for me and would really be fucking herself (which is another topic I’ve seen here, fucking for survivals and the comparison of it to rape), but for the sake of the exercise I… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019From what I understand injectables are way better. I like them a lot, in my unbiased opinion. Depending on your goals, there’s a whole world of stuff out there. I felt like the test boost improved my “psy” and ability to just get things and I also swear women and men can smell it. Brian Alsruhe and a few others are my bible for correct form and correcting injuries, if your trainer doesn’t point you in the right direction, there’s plenty of other resources. Good luck! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Im not familiar with gels, but I’m curious as to why he prescribed a gel rather than injectables? Can’t really speak to blood testing now with this. Best way to deal with that weak spot is take this time to really emphasize form and ramp up slowly and be able to tell the difference between bad pain and good pain. Any areas in particular? Testosterone improves your sleep and hormone function (obviously) but improved hormone function can help those who might have depression or other shit, so the d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Structured diet and structured plan are going to actually take advantage of the TRT and get you the results you dream of. Even though you’re bulking, tracking your input will help a lot, in terms of deciding what you’re willing to put into your body. I like my macros a lot. You’ll be able to push yourself a lot harder than normal in the gym and should, just be aware your tendons and joints aren’t going to adapt as quick as your muscles will. Four weeks you’re about at the saturation point and wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/19 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019OYS #5 Stats Age: 25, 6’1”, 218 pounds, 14/15% BF eyeball test, likely closer to 16/17% or more. No children, LTR for a little over two years (lives with me.) Lifts: Bench 1x160 on DB, have not benched with a bar in a while. Squat: 415x1 Deadlift: 455x1 Conventional Back row: 285 OHP: 215. Reading: Atomic Habits, NMMNG, How to Win Friends, Hagakure, Way of the Superior Man X 2, The Unchained Man, MAP, Models, 7 Habits, 12 Rules of Life, tons of sales books, tons of TRP, years of vintage CH. SGM … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/19 01:45 AM |
| 12 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?Yep; all you do is a “hey last night was fun” text in the AM and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Try the Limber 11 series to help with your lower body tightness as well. Pain in my body even in my lats and shoulders usually stems from tightness in my hips and thighs. Guys name is Joe DiFranco I believe in Youtube. Helps me immensely, | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Thank you! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Can you share what those books are? In addition to the ZMA recommended here, blue light blocking glasses and some 5HTP. I take the latter and wear the glasses and they can definitely help. Not sure what your other night time routine or hygiene looks like, like brain dumping before bed or such. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019That’s with dumbbells. My bench press with a bar is around 335 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/10/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019Good luck man ✊🏼 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019Aight I downloaded the app you recommended, going to connect it tonight, stick with YNAB and just to aside 10 minutes a night to go through everything. It’s going to take a shit ton of time to sort out all old transactions so hopefully I can just reset it and start from scratch. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019I’m similar to you in body needs for the deadlift and while it’s very uncomfortable at first the amount of power available is surprising. Are you following a specific diet at all, or just eating whatever you can? What’s your ultimate goal with the bulk? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019Not a bad way to look at it, it’ll just be something I do every week. I use my own money to expense work activities and will be setting up a separate card, so gonna figure out how I can separate personal expenses and maximize benefits. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/19 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019OYS #4 Stats Age: 25, 6’1”, 214 pounds, 14/15% BF eyeball test, likely closer to 16/17% or more. No children, LTR for a little over two years (lives with me.) Lifts: Bench 1x160 on DB, have not benched with a bar in a while. Squat: 415x1 Deadlift: 455x1 Conventional Back row: 285 OHP: 215. Reading: Atomic Habits, NMMNG, How to Win Friends, Hagakure, Way of the Superior Man X 2, The Unchained Man, MAP, Models, 7 Habits, 12 Rules of Life, tons of sales books, tons of TRP, years of vintage CH. SGM … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill observations at a coaching seminarYeah for sure anything for media clicks really | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill observations at a coaching seminarMark Walhberg shared his daily routine a while back, guy gets up at something like 2AM. His schedule cracks me up every time I read it but guess it works for him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019Yeah man. Doesn’t matter what the activity is, what matters is y’all doing it together and having fun. Good luck | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019I think you’re thinking too far ahead on this. Set the time and date and go from there and make sure it’s not boring shit, see how serious he is from there and gauge next steps whether it be a friendship outside the gym or something you can do inside it too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019I think this was a decent response, you had a little fun with them, engaged them on a level that wasn’t serious. The real question is, are you going to follow through with the guy and build from there? Hard to gauge from the context if he was serious or not, but if you’re building your group hard to go wrong with a gym bro you put in sweat with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark MansonAre you on MRP? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019OYS #3 Stats Age: 25, 6’1”, 215 pounds, 14/15% BF eyeball test. No children, LTR for a little over two years (lives with me.) Lifts: Bench 1x160 on DB, have not benched with a bar in a while. Squat: 385x3 Deadlift: 445x1 Conventional Back row: 285 OHP: 215 (Do not do this very often) Lifts are all regression from ATB. Reading: Atomic Habits, NMMNG, How to Win Friends, Hagakure, Way of the Superior Man X 2, The Unchained Man, MAP, Models, 7 Habits, 12 Rules of Life, tons of sales books, tons of T… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark MansonAlways a weird feeling when the two realities collide, huh? Really I guess it’s three. You have the RP one, your existing one, and then society’s reality that wants to incorporate you into it’s communal goal for you. It’s easy to see the how’s and why’s behind everything if you just take a little time and look. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark MansonComparing Terry Crews to one of us on this subreddit is going to be apples to oranges, so wouldn’t really use him as an example outside of what you can and can’t get away with depends on your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | My condolences on your forthcoming ban by Reddittrp.red | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 01, 2019OYS #2 OYS 1 Here Stats Age: 25, 6’1”, 215 pounds, 14/15% BF eyeball test. No children, LTR for a little over two years (lives with me.) Lifts: Bench 1x160 on DB, have not benched with a bar in a while. Squat: 385x3 Deadlift: 445x1 Back row: 285 OHP: 215 (Do not do this very often) Lifts are all regression from ATB. Reading: Atomic Habits, NMMNG, How to Win Friends, Hagakure, Way of the Superior Man X 2, The Unchained Man, MAP, Models, 7 Habits, 12 Rules of Life, tons of sales books, tons of TRP… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/19 03:07 PM |
| 77 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?You’ll get over how hot someone is pretty quickly once you start fucking hot girls | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Girlfriend cheated on meHere’s the reality man. You can’t control what she does, she will always do what she wants. Even if you’re the most attractive man in the world with everything going for you, there will still be that chance. It’s a reality you will have to accept, and the only things you can really do are vet your relationships thoroughly and live a life that’s fulfilling for you, for you. Women will enter along the way and earn their place. Living life to the fullest will always require being vulnerable in a se… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:32 PM |
| 6 | What to respond when girl asks how many girlfriends I've had before?50 billion. Don’t take it seriously, just mess with them. Your non-answer is what they’re looking for, not a real one. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 03, 2019Man this really resonated with me, I think you and I had very similes childhoods. I definitely do stop breathing under duress sometimes unless it’s a response I’ve trained for. For fucking outside the LTR, I think it’s because I’m not doing my part in leading myself and her into a fulfilling relationship and I’ve grown comfortable and want new stimulation. Not her fault; I am a poor leader right now from where I once was. How did you work past that self view of not being normal? acceptance of my… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 03, 2019I see your point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/19 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 03, 2019I believe I am looking for the whole picture. The sex comes easy, but I am looking for clarity, direction, how to become a more complete man. Sex doesn't mean much to me right now, when I wake up or go to bed it's more a struggle with my identity, my self-talk, and loving myself, something I've struggled with for years. I know many men come here to fix their deadbedroom, but I've been reading these for months and I see these men walking away with a lot more than just improved sex lives. They lov… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 03, 2019OYS #1 This will be a word vomit, but please bear with me, lots to cover. Stats Age: 25, 6’1”, 215 pounds, 15/16% BF eyeball test. No children, LTR for a little over two years (lives with me.) Lifts: Bench 1x150 on DB, have not benched with a bar in a while. Squat: 385x1 Deadlift: 425x1 Back row: 285 OHP: 185 (Do not do this very often) Lifts are all regression from ATB. Reading: Atomic Habits, NMMNG, How to Win Friends, Way of the Superior Man X 2, The Unchained Man, MAP, Models, 7 Habits, 12 R… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/19 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Becoming mentally independent and a "Real man"?yeah it’s a part of our social programming. You may not “think” you’re a nice guy but it’s so ingrained in us it’s hard to immediately see what it is. Those are habits I’m still working on but the first part of it is just identifying it | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Becoming mentally independent and a "Real man"?I don’t consider myself a nice guy but you learn a lot about covert contracts and validation needs you can correct | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 01:27 AM |
| 5 | What to do when GF goes out on nights out in fairly revealing clothing?Wouldn’t worry about it, it’s all low class trash commenting. If your girl is going out dressed as provocatively as possible and you’re not with her at any point, she’s not doing it for you. Act accordingly. Date someone who dresses more conservatively when she’s not with you and if she’s gonna wear something like this, ideally it’s for you when you go out together to give you a tease . | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 11, 2019Yep that’ll definitely do it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 11, 2019Taking 200MG hasn’t affected night time sleep? I know it has a long half life. Ill try 200 next time and see what happens on my off days. Much better than adderall for most people at the very least | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 11, 2019How much modafinil are you taking? I bought about 100 tabs a while back and have only used maybe 10, they are doses at 200 and I split them in half. I find it affects my appetite and might make me more alert but sometimes doesn’t help with poor sleep from night before, but not much can be done to overcome that short of hitting a line or doing some meth | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/19 12:16 PM |
| 6 | “I need a guy with a big dick unlike you”This is the correct response. If she hasn’t seen it and she’s saying this, she’s gonna be a bitch to deal with all the way down. If she has seen it, why spend your time with a woman who openly disrespects you? She can take her cavernous pussy elsewhere to try and fill the void left by being unlovable | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 16, 2019When my E2 gets low i definitely get achy. There’s a loooot of symptoms you can experience, some aren’t too dissimilar from high e2 but when you start using, even with TRT, it takes a while for the effects to become stable as it builds in your system. Not sure why the doctor recommended using both at the same time but if you’re not able to change doctors, you either go the less than legal route or your make do with what you have. If you go and get the blood test it’ll show more than e2, it’ll sh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 16, 2019At 60mg a week of test c, which is really low, most people wouldn’t need an AI at all, that’s below even low cruise doses for steroid users and once a week there will be peaks and troughs all over. You can get your own blood test from a few different places for around $70 and see what your levels are at legally plus where your current test levels are. Hopefully he raises your dose. Like the other guy said, the more injections the better stability you will experience and less fluctuation in how y… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/19 05:45 PM |
| 6 | How to handle ex LTR trying to ruin your life?Who cares about “winning?” Those clearly aren’t his real friends and she’s actively trying to fuck with him. The only way to “win” is to not play, which means no interaction. Changing of gyms and cutting those people out of his life is the correct answer here. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 03:11 AM |
| 32 | When you’re in an LTR and you break up with her, she brings out the ‘suicide’ card. What will you do?If she’s gonna say that she was gonna say it regardless. People who play it anyways. just separate yourself as fast as possible. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Controlling her fucking hypergamy.redpilled dads can see through their daughters bullshit pretty easily | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Red flag degrees and jobs?Stoicism isn’t against emotion, it’s against acting irrationally and letting the actions of others consume you. It’s losing the burden of constantly feeling negatively, processing why you feel that way and letting it go or doing something about it while focusing on the positive and neutral to improve your quality of life. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Girls with BF’s and how to have sex with them?Any supplication, search for validation, sign of neediness, over interest. Basically, any indication that this isn’t just fun, non judgmental fun with someone who can be subtle and understands her needs and nothing at all outside of that will not help. There’s a lot that that can affect in her own life, and this is just on the side. Another life, if you will. Anything more will have to come from her. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Girls with BF’s and how to have sex with them?When it comes to this, they already have a source of validation and sex (usually) with their boyfriend if they’re not getting it on the side already elsewhere as well. Any beta tendencies are going to throw it right now, just some D and excitement here | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Girls with BF’s and how to have sex with them?It’s not much different than any other girl. You’re playing it off like it’s no big deal, lead the interaction, don’t bring up her boyfriend and ignore or brush it off if he does come up, if she’s into it then she’s placing all the onus on you so you’re gonna have to take her by the hand here, because it can never be her fault. Something casual like a drink or otherwise, keep it short, build interest from there and gauge if it’s gonna be worth the effort or not. Have fun while doing so. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 03:54 AM |
| 18 | What to do when a Women shames you for only desiring sex?And nothing of value was lost | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Stressed over expensive christmas gift...Gf is eratic and disrespectful, not sure what to do?Progress isn’t linear, sometimes you do make mistakes and regress. Learn from what happened here and move forward with better selection protocols and hold a higher standard for yourself, in addition to learning how to manage your women | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Stressed over expensive christmas gift...Gf is eratic and disrespectful, not sure what to do?You dump her and move out. That’s literally it. There’s no going back and rebuilding your sand castle here because you lack the skills, tools and will to do so. You need to bite the bullet, end it, and work on yourself and reflect to the sidebar and other books. I’m serious. You need to overhaul yourself here and gain some self respect. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 11:15 PM |
| 6 | I'm starting to really hate women who find an interest in me, why?Part of it is going to be your ego as you are still remembering yourself as you were, and how that person wouldn’t be good enough for these girls. Now, you turn them down in “revenge” and also out of fear they’ll discover the true you and that you’re not really this new you | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 06:17 PM |
| 5 | LTR's Friends? What should I do?A lot of women want to try and have their cake and eat it too, in this case playing the two guys off each other, starting jealousy and drama, maybe pushing the boundaries because it’s exhilirating for her... if she respected OP, she wouldn’t be still in touch with someone who actively is trying to fuck, and OP knowing about it and her still hanging with him speaks to how their relationship has ultimately hit its course here. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Stressed over expensive christmas gift...Gf is eratic and disrespectful, not sure what to do?Dump her and move out. That’s the best advice you’ll get here. You need to leave this woman because it’s only going to get worse, any effort for you to improve the quality of this relationship and yourself will be met with a lot of resistance and is ultimately not worth it. You will be happier without her, you are who you hang out with and if you’re constantly with a negative person like her you will be miserable, like so many men who didn’t have the balls to end a relationship that wasn’t good … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Stressed over expensive christmas gift...Gf is eratic and disrespectful, not sure what to do?Dude please dump her this is incredibly emasculating | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Afraid to fight... what to do?If it’s a street fight, it would be better to not go to the ground, boxing or something to keep them at a distance then get away, not worth getting injured or arrested. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Ltr no sending nudesHave you sent her nudes before? Is there dirty talk and anticipation and shut throughout the day? Are you really a rousing her and getting her off? Just things to think about. Check out sex god method if you haven’t already, and continue to work on self improvement and time pursuing what you want. There’s different levels of dread, don’t over do it here | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Ltr no sending nudesDon’t ask her. Just keep putting in the work. She either will or won’t. She’s not sending you nudes now but the path to that is to raise her desire for you, which can’t be negotiated. It’s skmething that happens or doesn’t. At the end of it, you either get the nudes, which is a happy SIDE EFFECT of the work you’ve been putting in, or she doesn’t. There’s nothing wrong with wanting nudes from an LTR when she sent them to her ex but not to you. Might want to evaluate the LTR and as you grow you wi… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Ltr no sending nudesExamples of dread here would not telling her what you are doing sometimes, hanging out with guy friends more, spending more time on self improvement, not always texting her good night... things outside the norm that are also improving your SMV. Things you want to do and that you are having fun doing, basically you’re going to want to re establish things on your terms in your personal and this will bleed over to your relationship if applied correctly. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?Withdraw some attention. You’ve already brought up her ex. Now, as you withdraw your attention, she will either fuck off herself or potentially make the correct change, although she’s very likely shown her peak though here by lying about him to you. Talking to them is one thing in itself if she works with him and he’s an ex since she’s just a plate, but for her to lie about it compounds it and it’s not wise to take her word for such things moving forward | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women really sleep around as much as trp makes them out to?Use it as a lesson to seize the time you have now but don’t dwell on it any more than that. You’ll always get that as things become more miamnstream. The goal of this place is to go out and try what you read and learn and eventually only come back every now and then, if st all. Be a self actualized man who isn’t afraid to try and fail and see what the world has for him and what he can carve out of it. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Do women really sleep around as much as trp makes them out to?If that’s all life is to you, you’ll be pretty disappointed. I don’t think it’d be fun at all to have access to all of these things then have a severe drop off as soon as i stopped being a hot chick. You as a man have the internal confidence of knowing you earned everything you have. That won’t be taken from you. She’s discarded as soon as the next girl comes around. Being a girl sounds mentally and emotionally miserable. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 04:04 AM |
| 36 | Held Frame. I walked, She's sitting in jail.OP is indeed still a faggot. No frame was held here, he got lucky. There’s a lot he’s not telling us that led up to this with her behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 12:39 PM |
| 20 | Coworker is inviting me and my girlfriend to do things with him and my gfThere’s plenty good that comes with networking and hanging out with people you work with outside of work, just don’t overshare. Lots of career building happens outside of work with dinners, drinks, activities, just make sure it’s the right people and you don’t give them any rope to hang you with. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you start going *extra* alpha in a long term relationship?So what’s your real question? What do you want out of this and what do you want from life right now. Because alpha and beta are behaviors we lump people in but is a poor marker overall due to differences in actions on different things. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you start going *extra* alpha in a long term relationship?This tells me a few things. You’re likely in high school and just starting out in which case there’s no point in commitment and you’re really shooting your development in the foot here. Balance doesn’t mean anything if you’re not fucking, because what are you getting out of this relationship at this age? Handjobs? That’s insulting. Sounds like she’s firmly in control here, she’s riding the novelty of sexual experiences but isn’t really sure she wants to lose her virginity to you, and you’re just… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 09:46 PM |
| 3 | What happens when you start going *extra* alpha in a long term relationship?Balanced relationship, year and a half but no sex, girlfriend wants to put dates on everything... sounds like you need to read the sidebar and find a new girlfriend... | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Bad feeling from situation. LTR advice appreciated!She’s disrespected your relationship pretty badly here man. It’s time to cut losses and start fresh. The boundary has been crossed and she needs to be shown by you that’s not acceptable. Tell her “This isn’t working for me anymore” and NC and go enjoy college. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Aesthetics or SizeI’d jus to slowly increase calories and see where you end up. After a point you’ll have to choose what you want though, you might be able to put on more mass and stay around the same body fat if you dial in your diet and recovery right, but sounds like you’re in a good place man | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Aesthetics or Sizewhat are your current stats | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | She wants to feel small5/3/1 is fine for beginners, start with low weights and make sure you’re using proper form. good form practice now will help you out a lot in the future | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 05:22 AM |
| 11 | 3 Desirable Qualities Of Masculinity, According To My Female TherapistThey’re more feminine in appearance and behavior. Timid, shy, afraid of being men, some because they weren’t taught and others because they’re afraid of being and prefer to be soft | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 04:45 AM |
| 8 | 3 Desirable Qualities Of Masculinity, According To My Female TherapistIn a vacuum, yeah, action is always better than inaction. Going to go talk to that girl, making that choice you were afraid too. It really doesn’t have to be said to not risk the house and your finances on a bad gamble or something else, that’s not what the point of it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 04:44 AM |
| 4 | What does redpill think of John Cena, a high SMV, getting dumped by his fiancé before their wedding?I’m gonna ask first why you care unless you genuinely don’t understand why this could happen. SMV is always relative to a woman’s situation. No matter how high a man’s SMV is, you still might be seeing whole picture. Could be a throw rug she stomps all over for all we know. We don’t know enough about him to make any assumptions, but it’s likely that where he checked all the boxes on a girls list, he didn’t bring enough to the table in the others tonchallenge her and keep her hypergamt in check | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:11 AM |
| 2 | What does redpill think of John Cena, a high SMV, getting dumped by his fiancé before their wedding?I thought it was the other way around? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 02:48 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to "cool your ego"?Is there more context? just blow her a kiss | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 02:59 AM |
| 2 | A Simple Path To Success For Those Starting OutIt’s all self perception man. you’re climbing into the 20% and comparing yourself to the 10%. it’s good to keep that in mind as a “don’t get complacent” but you should rarely think about it, it should be more inspiring when you’re in the gym and once you leave it should be something you don’t think about. Just keep trucking everyday, comparing yourself to others body wise is a rabbit hole | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | A Simple Path To Success For Those Starting OutProbably a little body dysmorphia in there too man. I’m 6’1, 220~ and still don’t feel very big. But i also have dysmorphia haha | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 02:41 AM |
| 15 | Analysis of story: “My girlfriend got beaten up and raped. I broke up with her right after she told me. This is what happened:”You just say “alright” kick her out and make other plans in that instance. Her mind is made up, no point in resisting just move along. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Broke up with a gf of 2 months because she went for a walk with another guy, whom she has known for 4-6 weeks only. Did I do the right thing?That’s where trust but verify comes in. If she knows you mean it when you establish these boundaries and that you’re a high value man with options, she should avoid those activities. If she wants to do something and hide it you likely will never know, you have to watch her behavior. Very few things need explicit outright statements to her, you can accomplish her not seeing other dudes by saying you had an ex who did that and you ended the relationship over it. There’s no weakness in outright sta… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:48 PM |
| 11 | Broke up with a gf of 2 months because she went for a walk with another guy, whom she has known for 4-6 weeks only. Did I do the right thing?It’s “beta” if you don’t follow through. I see nothing wrong with explicitly stating some boundaries. Most of them though are up to you to relate through stories about your past and your behavior is, where she should pick up the rest. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy.You ideally want to find a girl who doesn’t go out and party that late. Not this “she changed for you” nonsense, but a girl who didn’t do much of it or at all in the first place. You’ve got the environment, her potentially slutty and enabling friends, etc. It’s easier to avoid all that and not date a girl who participates in that | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Where do I get blood tests for deficiencies linked to testosterone?You can get it anonymously for $70 through labs like quest diagnostics | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 9 | My best friend's girlfriend flirts with me, texted me telling me she's attracted to me, and I don't know what to do.A lot of it has to do with how you present it and what the guy is like to begin with. No matter what he’s going to be upset because someone he trusted is now perceived as a threat to his relationship, someone his girlfriend wants more than him, and now he’s going to wonder how long it has been going on, etc. in the end he’s doing him what a real friend would do, where he’s looking out for his friends interest with a low value woman, and there will be consequences for it. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 24, 2018Do you have many male friends or hobbies, etc? Just having a couple of those separate from your wife will help with your frame, fun and game, and if there are other women there your Oi | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/18 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls end up going on a dick/hookup spree with other guys after they are dropped/ghosted by their “chad?”Life’s better for everyone if it’s all positivity involved man, keep on living | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls end up going on a dick/hookup spree with other guys after they are dropped/ghosted by their “chad?”You’ve gotta always take it with a grain of salt and assume someone isn’t as far along as you might be in this sub. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 05:36 PM |
| 21 | Why do girls end up going on a dick/hookup spree with other guys after they are dropped/ghosted by their “chad?”They value power, and the power choosing who they fuck has over dudes. It’s a tool | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 04:30 PM |
| 2 | FR: 1 year in – You Get Out What You Put InFarmers walks will help the grip. Try and figure out where your sticking points are during the lift, then do accessories to strengthen that portion of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/18 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Is it beta to ask a girl if she is seeing somebody if it’s a bit unclear?I think you should stop wasting time with a girl you’ve never met in real life and talk to girls at your high school instead. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Is it beta to ask a girl if she is seeing somebody if it’s a bit unclear?I wouldn’t. Just don’t even pay attention to it. Other men don’t matter in your game, remember that as you get older. Don’t let them affect your approach unless they’re jealous psychos who want to kill you. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta to ask a girl if she is seeing somebody if it’s a bit unclear?Do you have proof of that? Either way, progress anyways and go after what you want, as long as you’re legally able to do so... | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it beta to ask a girl if she is seeing somebody if it’s a bit unclear?Girls have multiple sexual partners just like men do. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:14 PM |
| 22 | Is it beta to ask a girl if she is seeing somebody if it’s a bit unclear?Assume she isn’t and operate under that without asking explicitly and progress from there. On the one hand most every girl is seeing some one in some capacity but don’t let that stop you | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | “We Probably Aren’t Going to Be Able To Have Sex When I See You Next”Well done, AA works well for me on this but really just getting them to bring comfy with you will get rid of this shit test in the future. For AA, “Anal works for me, sounds great” or fucking with them and saying “cool call me when it’s done” also work well | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 05:00 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me for 1 year.Grab your balls and tell her to hit the curb. She has zero respect for you. You have zero respect for yourself. You can start to change that you telling this cheating little slut she’s no longer your girlfriend and to never contact you again. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 04:14 PM |
| 21 | How the fuck do some of you manage to lift everyday?roids | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Dropped a girl who put me in the friendzone, people hate me for it.He’s right, this is what you have to do, especially if you don’t want to deal with continued nonsense | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.It can at least, in my thinking, help dispel the claim that she fakes it all to make you happy and not threaten her. Not concrete but definitely a step in the right direction that you hang out a lot after work and the boyfriends claims are suspect as well as hers. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.Get as many pics of you and her happy on dates and use that as photo evidence of her being happy with you while out. Maybe that might help when it comes down to the wire. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:07 AM |
| 3 | How to Win Friends and Influence People Book by Dale Carnegie. Anyone who has read it does it have any red pill philosophies?There’s plenty of reasons why he should read friends and influence. I would argue he needs to read friends and influence before the other. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 02:08 AM |
| 4 | For a nuru body to body massage how much should you tip ?6” | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Burlesque performers sued for using #MeTooDykes are great as long as they don’t look like Shrek. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Burlesque performers sued for using #MeTooWell, after reading your post, I agree with everything you said because that’s why I still come here occasionally after finding this place years ago after finding most of what I need, I meant it’s become somewhat of a different one of late and that’s due to the influx of people. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Burlesque performers sued for using #MeTooWe have echo chambers in here sometimes too. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 11:38 AM |
| 10 | Burlesque performers sued for using #MeTooThe invasion of faggotry is non stop | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 11:13 AM |
| 1 | HB 8 - Did I play this correctly?If you’re having a lot of success elsewhere it might be worth just not fucking her. If it doesn’t work out and you continue to hang out with these people outside of this program or at least spend a lot of time with them, avoiding any drama where you spend the majority of your time is always a good idea. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Discuss RP strategies for breaking up with your LTRThe point is to limit the potential consequences here if you can at all, because there are plenty if you go about it tactlessly in these circumstances. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you get into youger girls social circles?Start doing yoga on the weekends or hang out where they are. Could work hitting on them at younger crowd bars but being where younger women are (coffee shops, malls, yoga studios, concerts) is gonna be a good bet. If there aren’t any around and you want to break in, you’re gonna have to relocate. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 06:21 PM |
| 8 | What are some good "default" topics to discuss at barsDepending on the environment you can ask them about what they do, what brings them here, etc. Just make it about them and keep teasing out little conversation strings to keep it going and you’ll find common topics to talk about. Holidays are coming up, can ask about family, travels, etc. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | TightnessLook up Limber 11 on Youtube and follow that. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend routinely tells me to fuck off, I fucked my frame up obviously, advice?You can try and fix it. Might need a little dread. Are you ready to be committed to this oussy and girl for the foreseeable future for the next several years? Certainly sounds like you’re trying to wife her and make her that just because you found one that seems like a unicorn regardless of where you are at in your own life | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend routinely tells me to fuck off, I fucked my frame up obviously, advice?Is she in college or going to it? Have you confirmed this count? You’ll never actually know. Fuck what she says watch how she reacts. Sluts are fun for a night, but you know you can date multiple women and have fun with multiple without it being exclusive while also having it be more than casual sex? It’s a try out, and you take the best one. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend routinely tells me to fuck off, I fucked my frame up obviously, advice?Sounds like oneitis. She’s hot, cool, so are other chicks. Not pleasant to you and disrespectful and rude. Why are you exclusive with her? Just fuck her and fuck others, that’s not behavior any girl you give your time to should be acting. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend routinely tells me to fuck off, I fucked my frame up obviously, advice?Simple advice is to read the sidebar and date/fuck other girls. You’ve got a lot of self work to do, because you’re clearly not leading this relationship. You can stick t out but I wouldn’t tolerate that treatment from her no matter if she was sucking my dick whenever I wanted, because there are plenty of girls out there who will too without the attitude and knowing your weaknesses. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Newly Single: Safe Sex vs RawNever had a bad one but vegan ones are the best | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Is cuckoldry really that popular of a fetish?It’s satire till it isn’t, unfortunately... | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 01:52 AM |
| 9 | Is cuckoldry really that popular of a fetish?Inject directly into the testicles, common mistake not to. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 09:43 PM |
| 12 | Is cuckoldry really that popular of a fetish?That’s why you inject it instead | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 09:09 PM |
| 3 | My buddies new girlfriend was rufiedYeah, more drama than the pussy is worth. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 02:21 AM |
| 9 | Maybe am too good for you shit testPat her on the head and tell her it’s adorable she thinks that. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How Do I stop Hating, and being Jealous of This Guy?The point is to better yourself and constantly improve. There will always be someone better than your. Your problem is you have special snowflake syndrome and think you’re entitled to more than this other dude yet he has what you want. Let go of the ego, continue your grind, embrace that this is a plate who is a club slut you just bang. You’ve swallowed part of the pill but have a lot left to swallow. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 02:08 AM |
| 3 | How Do I stop Hating, and being Jealous of This Guy?You’re gonna have to get over your ego, that’s gonna be the first step here. You think you’re above this guy, and it bothers you that he as all this and you don’t because you feel you’re entitled to it. Get over yourself, meditate and learn to give less of a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 01:46 AM |
| 9 | Revised.... Ex wife reaching out, AWALTToo many guys here stay stuck in their egos and butthurt not realizing doing these things won’t change her, because she won’t see any wrongdoing or real realization on her part, just that “he’s being an asshole when I reached out in my way to him.” From what I’ve seen here that’s a big component that’s holding a majority of these guys back. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 05:47 PM |
| 3 | How the hell do you stay present?You want to eventually slip into a state where you’re just existing in the moment of enjoying your surroundings, the current environment, and the situation you are. The past is gone, the future doesn’t exist, you’re just living in the now and letting it wash over you. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Is hitting on a girl who lives in your apartment complex a good idea?Don’t shit where you sleep is a good idea too. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 09:39 PM |
| 12 | LTR has an army friend... and they're penpals?Wew, hope that ultimatum doesn’t come back to bite you in the ass | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 05:09 AM |
| 11 | Getting your T-Levels checked should be something that is part of completing the sidebar.Some people crash theirs by not sleeping, drinking a shit ton of alcohol and doing other stuff to fool the doctors. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Getting your T-Levels checked should be something that is part of completing the sidebar.They get a little softer too. HCG can reduce the shrinkage and PCT can help with the recovery but I don’t believe it’s a fulll one | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | someone is stealing my milkdisappointed this is still a fad | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 02:47 AM |
| 4 | I really need a download of Models: Attract Women Through Honesty.If searching with the title + pdf hadn't helped then either look in a library, redpill books for their massive data dump, or mow someone's lawn for the cash | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Best TRP first dates?I like pool halls and drinks to break that initial comfort barrier they have with a relative stranger, then make a competition of the games, Ill have her but rounds of tequila shots for us every time she loses. Lots of date do's in this scenario like kino, teasing, non pedestalizing but a lot of it comes down to your attitude and comfort. Ill buy a girl a drink and it won't phase me at all and she won't think any different of me because I don't view it as an obligation from her to fuck me. I'm h… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?I see you sneaking wearing women's clothes in there | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?I see you sneaking wearing women's clothes in there | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?I see you sneaking wearing women's clothes in there | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?I see you sneaking wearing women's clothes in there | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?I see you sneaking wearing women's clothes in there | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Don't bother with her if you already lost frame. Not worth the time or effort.It takes a while but you learn to let go a lot easier and it transfers over to a lot of other aspects of your life you'll find increased happiness and mental wealth in if you learn that concept. They won't change, they'll continue to do more of the same because this is their instinct and they need a man who can fulfill it as much as possible, but they will always have that pull. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 02:24 AM |
| 7 | Don't bother with her if you already lost frame. Not worth the time or effort.The only thing you stand to gain from her crying is making your butthurt ego feel better | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelitySo describe your ideal long term interaction with a girl, because if you want o keep her around you're gonna have to have a lot of those things man, they will get bored | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelitySo basically stop putting in the work necessary to be successful and settle for some girl who is also settling for you. If you're putting in the bare minimum your return is gonna be pretty shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelityWhile it's just speculation, if you keep progressing and internalizing TRP you will be at the top of your game pretty effortlessly because that's the lifestyle you've created and you will have women gravitate towards you because of that. Your certain to find a woman to spend a bulk of your time with, but you'll have plenty of options and you're more than likely to take the opportunity on more than a few. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Perfect response for the "So do you respect women" test"Yeah man I like respecting them all night" have used that after using similar ones to you and it works well | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 05:04 PM |
| 6 | You May Be Doing Too MuchI don't think you understand what overwhelm means | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/17 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Requirement for a successful relationship: You need to be able to make her feel BADI agree 100% people can't read minds, I prefer the before approach of setting those boundaries with stories of past ex's or actions I didn't like or using some negative attention strategies to influence them early on so they know not to rather than deal with it as it comes. Off hand it sounds like we both have a very similar approach. On your last bit, all comes down to interest and her wanting to please you so you're doing a good job if she's doing that plus an in person apology. Manipulating a… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Requirement for a successful relationship: You need to be able to make her feel BADI reread it and realized I trailed off, was thinking about other things. Anyways, the point I was making is that from anecdotal experience boundaries are best set covertly by demonstrating actions such as leaving when she crosses one, using indirect examples rather than just telling her straight up on most things. I firmly believe you shouldn't have to have a boundaries discussion with a woman because at that point I believe you've lost the frame and leverage in the relationship to effectively l… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Requirement for a successful relationship: You need to be able to make her feel BADThe point he is making is that if you make her feel a wide range of emotions she's more likely to stick around. You create that negative space for her and put her mentally in that position and she's going to either do what she has to to rectify that and do what you want or she won't and you cut it off and move on. Always trying to make her feel good with pleasing activities especially when it comes to boundary enforcement, which talking about should be a last resort and if you have to you've lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenIf you want to have to pay women to pretend to be interested in your life go right ahead | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 03:34 AM |
| 32 | How I accepted that I was using weed everyday as an escape from my own inner problems for 2 years now. And how I tackled my anxiety with meditation, exercise, and mindfulness.No one cares enough to find this one weed user | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingI've heard and read otherwise, on accounts of gear usage and on ligaments and tendons, through personal experience as well. Good luck on your midterms. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingDo you have any articles related to that your nutritionists might provide? I'd like to look into it myself. Of course, a good amount of near pro and pro athletes also take gear and thus helps tremendously. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Men of March: Day #3No problem man, if it's daytime activities there's even more fun stuff to do for the kids, have fun. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Men of March: Day #3Have you looked into mini golf, stargazing, bowling, family cooking night, etc? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/17 04:08 PM |
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