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| 1 | Was I clear that I was asking her on a date?There is no point in saying "desparate" phrases such as "is there any chance". Just say "I will take you out another day." | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 01:50 AM |
| 5 | unique situation involving me [16M] my brother [16M] and a girl [16F]Come on, do not do that to your brother... | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 02:44 AM |
| 30 | What would you consider a telltale sign that a girl isn’t mature?Not using/not having any knowledge about birth control. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit, why is it that I have a harder time dating using dating apps like Tinder lately?Tinder now is very different than it was in the beginning. At first, it was an app that had a "bad" reputation as it was "used for sex exclusively". With the addition of Tinder Social, a lot of people roam the app looking for friends/relationships; it is not taboo anymore which led to a culture shift. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Aren't any of you scared of getting STDs??Are you afraid of walking? You might get hit by a car. | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Need help Bridging the Gap from building attraction to demonstrating intent, and closing the deal.You are stuck in the "comfort" phase. This is a well researched topic and there is no point in re-inventing the wheel so just take a look at sidebar. What you're looking for is called kino or kino escalation. | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Any good techniques for getting in-ur-zone?Not really a general guide, but when going out, I like to make sure everything is well organized and set up. This way, you have way less worries and you will warm up faster. ALWAYS begin preparing earlier (you can't get ready to go out in 10 minutes unless you want to look sloppy). Start by cleaning your house (especially the room) -- no one likes spending time in dirty environment. TRUST ME, this is the most important thing...why? Your goal when going out (probably) is to f-close. You can't f-c… | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Need a little advice going from number to dateYour line is bad. It seems as if you are organizing your week around them. NEVER ask if they want to go. You will get the same response if you say "I'm picking you up..." and if you ask "Can I pick you up...?", except the first option is much more assertive. Be precise — instead of saying "something to eat", say "eat at restaurant X". Again, you will either get "no", "yes" or "i don't like that restaurant, how about Y?"... With all that in mind, your "question" should look like this: "I'm taking… | /r/seduction | 09/03/17 04:32 PM |
| 5 | How should I move forward with this girl?It doesn't mean anything. She canceled and didn't re-schedule. Forget about it. She will reach you if she wants to. | /r/seduction | 09/03/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I just unmatchable?Let me guess...you have a picture of you without a shirt? | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Being good without needing acceptanceOkay...? | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 03:36 AM |
| 3 | When to escalate or "take the next step"?In this case: nothing In next cases: take their number | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | I tried DM'ing this girlWithout going too deep into analysis, let's break up this message. "Hey girl" Drop the "girl". "I thought you were kind of cute" I see this line often and I hate it. Be a man. If you are going directly, say "you are cute". No need to bullshit with "i thought, you might be, you probably are, you could be...". She is either cute or not and it is obvious you thought about it if you concluded that she is. "...props" She does not need your "props" or advice. You are just a stranger to her. "You seem … | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I just unmatchable?It's obvious. It is either your pictures, biography, or a combination of both. Provide a description of your pictures and we might be able to help. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Texting confusion?Ah, the good old messaging loop. Use messages for logistics only. Since you are no stranger to him (work) and you already spoke for two days, this is a good test. Do not message him and if he is interested -- he knows where to find you. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to make of itAlways assume attraction. Even if she wasn't interested, she might be after you set up some foundation for attraction. | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 07:12 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate beyond being friendly?It's called Kino. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Totally lostLet's see your options here: Text her Don't text her I don't see the complexity here. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 07:31 AM |
| 4 | What are some good conversation openers after you catch a girl checking you out more than once?I assume you are talking about a club environment - raise a glass, see if she responds; wink (not creepily)...go for the direct approach. There isn't an universal opener. You can go with something as simple as "I saw you checking me out", "Do you always check out guys like that", "You are too obvious"... | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Help i've read everything here but need help approaching a girlI don't understand this type of "requests". How can we help you here? When you see her - go and have a conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 07:23 AM |
| 8 | Have you ever wondered if a girl is crazy for being into you?You won't get far in life doubting yourself like that (not only in seduction segment). Get used to it and keep going. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 07:21 AM |
| 2 | For future reference, how to not mess upLet's analyze. I am always on my phone and stuff like that so I like replying quickly (to everyone, even my friends!) Find a job, hobby, friends. You won't have time to be on your phone and will actually be busy enough not to be able to respond immediately. I have realised that being really nice can backfire Replying immediately is nothing to be proud of. To other people, it just means you are a person that has nothing to do. when we start contacting on something like snapchat etc. Forget about … | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 09:49 AM |
| 3 | I always end up investing too much into herThe best texting game is...when you don't use texts at all. Use messages to set up dates (if needed) and leave them. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Is she no longer interested?She could've misinterpreted your snap, but it also could've been a lot of other things. Avoid questions such as "how was work the following day"; when you think about it — what responses could you use to keep the conversation flowing after it? Do not contact her. If she is interested she will do it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | is facebook creepy?You are just damaging your reputation. Quit this immediately. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Tips for initiating friendly physical contact?Kino is the word you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 11:43 PM |
| 3 | ONE WEEK to learn the basics! Need advice!Do not put pressure on yourself. If you go with intention of kissing X girls, fucking Y girls and getting Z number, there is no way you will succeed. Use the party as a training opportunity (a byproduct of you having fun on a party). | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 11:42 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think I should have done differently?You know that feeling when you order something from Amazon and you get a tracking code? You check the location of item every hour, you are all excited and once it finally comes to the door — excitement is at the maximum...but when you open the box, something incredible happens — excitement starts dropping slowly and over time it deteriorates completely. That's what happens when you give a woman everything — you become an open box; she is not interested anymore; she knows she can have you; you ar… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 02:55 AM |
| 3 | How does one respond to a "that was smooth" text?"Get used to it" | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think I should have done differently?The best single piece of advice I can give you is to never finish a sentence with a question mark when you want to dictate the outcome. "I will pick you up at 8 and take you to my favorite place X" will get you the same response as "Can I pick you up at 8...maybe have some places to recommend?"; expect second approach is used by boys. Missed the college class? "I was not able to attend X due to Y." Instead of "Can you please excuse me for not coming to X class due to Y?" | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | quiet bars/pubs are my worst in terms of openingEnergy of guests is usually at low level in bars. Many of them are there to avoid the high energy of a club. When energy is low, chances drop significantly. You need to adapt to environment - experiment. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think I should have done differently?You WERE needy and desperate as all of your actions reflect. Use messaging for logistics only. Never ask if it "sounds good"; would it sound good to you if Jennifer Lopez asked you on a date? Yes it would. If she was interested enough, she would have found time. You wanted to be in a relationship with someone that can't find few hours to get with you? Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 02:24 AM |
| 3 | How would y'all approach texting a girl whose number you got from a mutual friend?Get it from her first. | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:12 AM |
| 1 | yin - yang (yang)Yes, game is a byproduct of other aspects of life. It is like a chain reaction. It can start with something as simple as getting a job. Job -> money -> social life -> .......... -> game | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Seducers experienced with hair loss/are on finasteride..how has your game been effected?https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3481923/ This paper will tell you everything you need to know. Sure, it is a great drug, but is it worth it? You are just delaying the inevitable. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Do looks matter?Of course they do. Improve what you can and stop worrying abouy things you can not change. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:22 AM |
| 1 | talking to two girls at a bar, how to move things forward?Pairs are tricky. You are not gaming just the girl you want; you need to seduce the other friend too, as if she does not approve you, you have no chance. What I like to do is introduce them to my friends, creating a sense of security which allows me to isolate the target a lot better. If it is only 3 of you and you say something like "let's go home", there is no way a girl is going to leave without her friend. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Seducers experienced with hair loss/are on finasteride..how has your game been effected?Finasteride is a very serious medication. People often overlook the side effects. I love my hair, I treat it with care, and I would be extremely sad if I started balding, but I would NEVER take Finasteride. Check this out: http://www.pfsfoundation.org | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | The only thing to remember when chasing a womanI was honest - in a different way. I replied to your statements with my own view of them, in a way that it's clear I don't agree with them. Being best version of yourself is what seduction is about. This takes practice too. You can't be good with women if you don't have good communication skills for example. It all takes practice. If you are not interested in seduction, you are in the wrong subreddit. Visit r/SelfImprovement instead. | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 11:42 PM |
| 2 | The only thing to remember when chasing a womanSeduction is not advocating living a fake life. It just gives you a structure to build upon as I've previously said. Models may be the best book for you, but I found it cringey to be honest. Seduction is a skill that requires practicing. You can't simply be yourself and succeed in seduction...or life in general. For example, I didn't like your post. That doesn't mean I'm going to be completely honest and write "this post is shit". I will restructure my reply in order to add something constructiv… | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 11:16 PM |
| 6 | The only thing to remember when chasing a womanI am tired of "Models approach" that is being pushed in this subreddit. First of all, woman should not be chased. Instead, present yourself in a way that will make HER chase YOU. Being real and honest will not make you confident. Identifying your weak points and improving yourself constantly will. Being honest (in a way that you don't think about what you are saying) with women does not (always) work and this is the foundation of seduction. Seduction is what gives the game a structure that you c… | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Been doing pickup over 2 years, just a few simple ideas I want to shareSorry, but this is completely wrong. The fact that you use word manipulation to describe seduction tactics clearly shows that you don't understand the inside of it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Do I go to the bar alone?I don't agree with this. Sometimes I go out alone just to expand the social circle and find myself in situations I would never otherwise be able to. I always meet a lot of people and find a permanent company in the first hour. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Today is the Day I Start Taking this Seriously.There is nothing cheesy in this post. Just by your writing style and will that you expressed in this post I think you will make it. It's up to you. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 03:00 AM |
| 2 | SHARE: Your Favorite Direct OpenerI am contributing to the discussion. I did not provide my own tips but things can be learned from my post. Speaking of that, you did not provide any tips and you did not contribute anything to the discussion. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 12:52 PM |
| 4 | SHARE: Your Favorite Direct OpenerAll of these are terrible. First one sounds like an insincere compliment, second one sounds like an obvious pickup line, third one is probably the worst of all. Remember the last time you've met someone naturally, did you immediately get to know each other and exchange numbers? I don't think so. Fourth one...why would a person that just saw you for the first time want to know your name without exchanging a word prior to that? | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 02:38 AM |
| 1 | I avoid going out and talking to girls because I fear humiliation...Hey man, you're not ugly, start with fixing some obvious mistakes. First - never, ever, ever wear headphones like that outside. If you need headphones, get in-ear headphones (I recommend Philips SHE3590). That dress shirt does not fit you, sleeves are too long and you have a lot of excess fabric while it's tucked in. Get a new haircut. Try something like undercut, also, your hair is thinning so have a look at that too. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Got a phone number... Now what?Sorry, but it might be your game that needs changing. You are probably going too directly and giving you a phone number is just an excuse for them to get you to leave. Try being more indirect, then after a few minutes of chatting set a time constraint and use it as an excuse to pick up a phone number. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 02:28 AM |
| 3 | What do you do? [Canned Responses]"Guess." | /r/seduction | 31/10/15 08:14 PM |
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