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| 91 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found out | Conversation | Milmoney43 | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:14 AM |
| 71 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice. | Fundamentals | Milmoney43 | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Date idea | Logistics | Milmoney43 | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Friends, backpacking in western Europe | Conversation | Milmoney43 | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:58 PM |
| 0 | How often do you guys get approached by women | Conversation | Milmoney43 | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:05 AM |
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| 1 | I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silentHate when this happens 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Friends, backpacking in western EuropeIt’s from the show “F.R.I.E.N.D.S” heres the link. https://youtu.be/OWxrV0-ObCY?is=C10AzjcFxi6V5WB5 | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Stick with the sweaty 7’s. Trust. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys learn game?Keep it simple and apply what you learn. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Any former bad boy, player can give adviceThis is hilarious | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get approached by womenSame here, luckily im indifferent to it. Every now and then it’ll be a lwky crazy girl who becomes obssesive which just makes my life easier…to an extent lol | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get approached by womenI think that’s even more rare honestly, i have a decent profile and get approached more than i get mssged first by girls | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get approached by womenProbably, I’ve watched them reject other black dudes so it never crossed my mind | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get approached by womenVery true | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 0 | How often do you guys get approached by womenI agree to an extent, im also in a frat and have gotten approached at a few events by some beauties i also tend to get alot of compliments from older women when im not working which is definitely something | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:31 PM |
| 3 | How often do you guys get approached by womenI’ve seen alot of attractive dudes get approached, they just usually have no game to keep her interested | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:28 PM |
| 0 | How often do you guys get approached by womenIts cool and all but there’s times where my steak has been too juicy and it gets to be too much lol | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:27 PM |
| 0 | How often do you guys get approached by womenThat makes sense lol, I have noticed there are some girls who do seem to be well versed in the art, but idk if it’s the cultural shift of where I’m located or what, but theres been a few times where a girl will ask me for a room tour at my place after i get off, she’ll be all over me the entire night, then when i get off she plays hard to get until i see her again. Like you obviously know what your doing | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:26 PM |
| 26 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?Make an observation, make subtle attraction hints, make her qualify herself (ex: she says she likes something you don’t like you say “ahhh, I don’t know if we’re compatible” she explains herself if she is enjoying the interaction which makes her more attracted to you) lead her around the bar (get her a drink, take her to a table, play pool with her) ask her logistics, who she came with, what she’s doing later, etc. get her to the point where sleeping with her is the best possible outcome for her… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Sacrifice all fun just to get more girls? Last night got me thinking.I used to go out with the sole intention of getting numbers, but was always shot down and never got anywhere. Like you said women can sense when you have an agenda in the club. It's almost as if your mentality leaks out and is written all over your deamonor. When I started shifting my mentality to “im going out to have fun and vibe with my friends if I meet a cute girl she can join in on the fun if she isn’t a bore” I started getting looks and women would come into my vicinity and or flat out co… | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?😂 | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherAll my pics were “off guard” and showed my best features, I had one shirtless and one with friends everything else was normal. My prompts included “unusual skills… my thumb…nough said ;)” and something related to butter pecan ice cream. It was super simple and unserious. I'd get “are you real” comments often but my ban could also be because I would stop responding after getting too many matches | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherOpener is not that important, before I got banned on hinge for being accused of a fake profile. I had like 500 matches with 75%-85% respond rate. All I said was either “you're absolutely adorable” or “hey trouble”. The opener is not nearly as important as op is making it out to be | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 07:48 PM |
| -1 | She Ghosted You? Here's What to Text to Reignite the Spark (Without Looking Needy)Nah, it actually works. I would recommend Playingwithfire on youtube rather than the cocky example he gave, but he has a shit load of examples of doing this and I've done it myself. They always respond and continue the convo and we eventually hangout. Its not forced, its just a playful nudge | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 01:52 AM |
| 64 | Eye contact rule, when do know if it’s a sign?The amount of times Ive gotten “no signs” and a girl was in to me and gotten “signs” and she wasn’t in to me would blow your mind man just shoot your shot regardless nothing to lose | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outExactly lmao | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outgirls stick with girls man, especially if their bestfriends AND they find out i just used the same line on them. Someone isn’t going to be happy in this situation unless they were just flat out whores | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outExactly, idc i was just tryna see if i could wiggle out of it bc one is a model and the other is like a 6ft amazonian beauty | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outWelcome to the club brother hahaha | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outJust got out of a relationship pimp. Didn’t say i was fucking hella bitches said i had 20 bodies. I was just curious to see if someone experienced it and how you guys recovered | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:12 PM |
| 8 | asking for a 2nd date?Gotta be indifferent man, the more attached you are to an outcome the less likely you’ll receive the desired result. Personally id send it whenever i’m not busy, But i imagine since shes acting like this you came off a certain way (not trying to insult your game) so id say wait a solid amount of time between 6hrs to the next day | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 07:20 PM |
| 10 | asking for a 2nd date?Id just be like “we should definitely hangout again” | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outGood shit, thats how that typically goes though. Its alot more rare for it to work when you just start texting them and on snapchat at that | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outTried, they wasn’t on it. If I would’ve meet them in person together or banged one of them before talking to the other definitely could’ve made it happen | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | First date todayAnd maintain eye contact and never look down, if it gets awkward just look up as if you’re thinking of something. looking away before she does is not a good look | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | First date todayAsk her questions about herself and actually listen, stay away from topics such as religion, politics, and work. Basically anything boring or can cause a negative emotional reaction. Be playful, and subtly flirtatious, don’t touch her unless she touches you examples of touching include her brushing up against you or “accidentally” bumping into you. You just have to be cognizant of any sort of touching. When she touches you then you can escalate by looking for a tattoo and rubbing it as if your c… | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outBrother, the opener isn’t the problem. The fact that their bestfriends is. On top of that you haven’t given me a better solution, I came to figure out whether i should double down or just charge it to the game. You insulting my creativity was just uncalled for | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outThat depends on who you’re getting kicked in the teeth by | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:59 PM |
| -1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outYall are having a field day with my thread of mssges omg 😂 my body counts in the 20’s tho and im texting like 5 other girls using the same opener. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outIm pretty sure you have that backwards. In person you can talk ab what you can visually see shes wearing or let her talk about something she tells you. Over text in my opinion, it’s more acceptable to copy paste bc im just trying to get the meet up. Especially if im using Snapchat. Using “copy paste” during cold approaches can come off super uncalibrated if your game isn’t tight. If you mean just memorizing lines that is. | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 08:23 AM |
| -8 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outOne takes mental effort, the other doesn’t | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 07:06 AM |
| -13 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outi just didn’t care to 🤷♂️, but we can go with not creative | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 06:08 AM |
| 4 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found out“Saw you on quick add and thought you were too cute to pass up” I’ll typically get a over exaggerated thank you or just a really plain thank you. If she responds well ill do the whole speal (get to know you questions, vibe, banter, close with a ice cream date). If she’s plain ill just leave her on read. | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 04:52 AM |
| 7 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outI doubled down, the girl i was supposed to grab italian food with unadded me, the other girl texted me she wasn’t feeling it. You win some you lose some 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outEh, i more so think it’s interesting and would like to see if someones been through it before and whether or not they could finesse it | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outVery aware. Was not aware that they knew each other | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outGave charms up for lent | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:09 AM |
| 26 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found out^ | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:03 AM |
| 40 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outBlue balls | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:54 AM |
| 37 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found out😂😂 | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outI only copy and paste the opener because it works really well, but proposing a threesome? U might be on to something | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:53 AM |
| -11 | Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found outI just copy and paste the opener, everything else’s is freeform works like a charge…8/10 times | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?Play. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 12:13 AM |
| 13 | Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?She has like 30k on tiktok, my toes still haven’t recovered. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Dry spells are normal fam, just talk to every girl you see casually and focus on yourself one of them will eventually like you and you won't even have to try | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 11:35 AM |
| -1 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?Clubs, f**k no | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.You're right, a lot of the dudes that work there are in that category. I only really drink tequila and water every other week and maybe a shot or two then call it quits so im not worried abt it | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How to lead a conversation?Go deep not wide ask her questions about her childhood, first memories, crazy things she's done, how her friends view her in her perspective, etc | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.That’s an oversimplification, there’s a right way to do things and a wrong way. You can’t just say be persistent bc most guys are persistent in a needy creepy way which ultimately can get them fired and ruin their life which is what I’d rather not have happen. Most dudes get it wrong. We get it, but I’ve seen it end badly for others and read abt it all the time in subreddits other than this one. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?Own up to it but tell her it meant nothing. either you stay together or she leaves you, but it’s a much higher chance of you staying together if you own up to it rather than lying | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.The amount of posts I’ve seen in this subreddit alone asking on how to go about dating a coworker would say otherwise. Hint of bragging in here yeah, but the overall theme of the post is to help those not as fortunate as you | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:44 PM |
| 9 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.It is man lol, this girl I met a few weeks ago on a Friday was super in to me which is a story in of itself but the next day I told her we should hangout at the bar and introduce our friends to each other, thing is all my friends canceled on me last minute so I decided to go out with my female friend who also works there. We decided to meet at this other bar first then make our way to the bar I work at, I get there and meet up with my female friend and her friend I don’t usually talk to we sat a… | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Just Landed a Bartending Gig: How to Connect with Women?Call of duty UAV is a 4 kill kill streak, basically slept w 3 and 1 non coworker after playing the long game hahaha | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Just Landed a Bartending Gig: How to Connect with Women?That’s just coworkers (idc ab the job lol) | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Just Landed a Bartending Gig: How to Connect with Women?Play the long game forsure, be playful and flirt throw some get to know you questions in there and when they give you signs go for the number but take your time and don’t rush anything or else you’ll risk being the weird bartender. If she’s hot for you go for it, if she’s kinda hot but it’s subtle wait a few weeks or so and grow a connection then go for it later, be subtle don’t make anything to obvious. Currently work on and off at a high volume bar and playing the long game has done me well, l… | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:06 AM |
| 17 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.You’re right, get bar job tell coworkers you want snoosnoo 🫡 | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:57 AM |
| 13 | Just Landed a Bartending Gig: How to Connect with Women?You’ll get women just for working at the bar honestly. Just watch out for the girls that try to butter you up to get free drinks out of you. And don’t go for the coworkers unless you don’t care about the job even then let them make the move | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:46 AM |
| 10 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.True, when it comes to a serious career, it’s extremely common in the nightlife industry | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Dating coworkers. My experience and advice.Depends on the job and how much you need it, didn’t need the job just wanted extra cash might as well have fun while I’m at it | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:35 AM |
| 1 | The easiest way to kiss a girl (works 90% of the time if the date went well)Don’t do this, either go for it or say “you should come over here and kiss me” | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | I think I don't get flirtingCheck out Craig Ferguson | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Club girl HELP MEDon’t ever go on Reddit while out again bro 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 12:30 AM |
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