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That's funny, I've always felt like that's how most STEM degrees people are, regardless of gender. Very smart but incredibly boring to talk to in daily life. cause all they care about are very noche subjects
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:21 PM
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Because people "watch what redpillers do and not what they say"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:57 PM
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This is stated in the general knowledge there. There is an article " Women are the most responsible teenagers in the house" as well as " Treat her like a whore"...on the subrredit's sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:36 PM
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I hace seen stuff like the last paragraph on the red pill. Andrew Tate keeps saying stuff like this as well. So did Rosh V, that Samuel black guy who passed away etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:21 PM
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You are right actually.I have been following the redpill from afar since 2013 and I have seen words like "Chad" and "Alpha male" go from fringe words on a subreddit, to common on Reddit, to used in right wing circles to now used by average people. I still belive they're a vocal minority but it's true that they are organizing themselves better. A minority can still be a big nuisance. The point I was trying to make is I don't think the everage man hold these views...I also believe that if you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:07 PM
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The point I'm making is from a woman perspective that is not an advantage. Sex work is degrading and in the context of dating, most women hate being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:01 PM
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The problem is as women we get exposed to the worst of men before being exposed to the good side. We get catcalled and harassed by creeps from age 14-22 years old, our formative years. Those creeps are a minority but they make a bulk of of our first encounters with men because the healthy 32 years old is too busy minding his buisness and is not interested in fucking teens. The guys our age who are bold enough to approach us in those years tend to be the problematic ones too. Then you add the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:55 PM
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"Women are more driven by physical attraction and social status than they let on" = fair observation "Men who fit their criteria date 5 women at times which means that mathematically some men will end up alone" =fair observation "doing this if they want long term relationships isn't a smart move" fair observation. Redpillers take those statements and turn it into "Women are over emotional creatures who only men with Narcissistic disorder and we should go back to the time where those dumb whores …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:36 PM
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an average girl will always have some guy interested in fucking her *. That's worthless as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:28 PM
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Yes, notice the past tense. I have since stopped doing this because it is a tiring performance and it wasn't worth it. Many were covert abusers. My current partner and I met at work and I was technically higher than him in the hierarchy. He said seeing me acting all competent during the day and see me wilingly in his bed was a major turn on and made him want to not fumble his chance with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:25 PM
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Solved the issue by acting like I need them. They did whatever I "needed" and felt important while I deep down knewif things were to go south I could simply take my money and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:19 PM
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I actually don't care about complaints but incels, mgtows and redpillers do have mysoginistic tendencies. The redpill especially just teaches men how to create a mentally abusive relationship with their preysThe guys they love are all mysoginistic ( Rosh V, Rollo Tomassi, Andrew Tate etc). It was even worse in 2013 when I first discovered the subrredit because its members hadn't done anything bad in the real world yet so it wasn't as regulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:01 PM
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There is a difference between noticing dating is difficult and being a mysoginistic larper online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:50 PM
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I used to think like this and then I realized it's just people venting theor fistratoons online. Adjusted men are too busy to comment so youhave a vocal minority. Plus, most of them act like the "simps" that they make fun of with the first half pretty girl who accepts to be their girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:36 AM
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good relationship > singlehood >>>>>>>>> bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:36 PM
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They are different realities and then there are generalizations based on how many realities are common to multiple people. Those can be found through statistics and they show that the majority of women contribute to the household income and majority of couples share cost of living. The problem is you tries to tell me what it's like to live as a woman. I'm not denying what you are living as a man. I was bullied to actually and was called "virgin for life" by dudes. Handsome/popular people suck in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:25 PM
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1) It's not a matter of having different realities. Words have meaning. If you don't mean everyone then you pecise that in your sentence. It's not the readers job to interprate what you mean. 2) You're not empathic towards women. Why would I admit you have a point if it's not what I think ? How can you relate with something you haven't read ? His arguments were nonsenical He did not ask for help.I personally cannot stand people men or women who hace standards for others but won't try to sez what…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:55 PM
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You're reaching because 1) "Women are like this" IS by definition a generalization and the fact that he admits that there "may be some rare exceptions" doesn't change the fact that you have contempt for the overwhelming majority of western women. 2) You want defend someone's position even though you haven't read his post so you talking without having all the facts It's not a bit entitled, it's extremely entitled The women who have that standard just don't date short men they don't say men shoule…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:15 PM
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Women are not loved unconditionally lol. They loved if they are young, pretty, and sacrificing themselves for their nuclear family. The fact that you think women don't help men show how you take what women do for granted. Men don't even provide for the most part we are splitting cost 50/50. Women are the ones constantly reaching out tonisolated family member, the majority of volunteers in ngos are women etc. And as a woman who's had a glow up I can tell you men didn't care if I died on the pavem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:05 PM
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I don't see men help non hot women. And the women they do help, they get angry if they're not into fucking them. Women help people selflessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:24 PM
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You are reaching at this point. If someone says a general statements about "women are self centered because they want to be career women and not want to sacrifice for their families", he is talking about most women. And even if he is only talking about specific women his position is still entitled.These women chose a lifestyle and bitching about it and expecting them to change because it reduces the pool of women he'd find attractive is entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:15 PM
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There is not a problem with wanting one, there is a problem with expecting all women to go against their best interests to conform with what you want. There are plenty of conservative women.All he needs to do is find a job, be traditionally masculine and join a church.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:36 PM
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Basically he wanted a traditional woman and he was upstet many women are not. Men only help hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:21 PM
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That's not true. And in this specfic context we talking about a dude who is upset that women (strangers who are not necesseraltmy interested in him) do not want to conform to his idea of what a good partner is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:20 AM
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from memory it was 25+
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:17 AM
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do they gae
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:33 AM
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Explains many discussions I hd with men trying to tell me it was common
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:23 AM
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okay but like what's your point ? I'm genuinly confused on what our discussion is about. Like I asked why we focus so much on anecdotal relationships and I don't get how your replies answer my original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:10 AM
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An 18 year old woman dating a 22 year old guy isn't an "age gap relationship" this is litteraly the same generation. "if you're a hot older guy". That's my point.Most older guys aren't hot. They're more likely to end up looking like Prince William than George Clooney. The average age gap in the USA is 3 years. So yes those relationships exist but they aren't the norms and this sub over focuses on them even though most of us will date within our age range. I think the focus exists mostly because …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:57 AM
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I don't see the correlation. There are promiscuous women in their 30's and 40's. And it's more realistic in my opinion to approach them if you want sex as the average older man isn't hot and doesn't really attract younger women. They just find younger women hotter, which is fine but let's not. kid ourselves with false reasons. And all of that doesn't change the fact that age gaps relationships aren't common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:12 AM
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As if saying women don't contribute to anything was a valid argument and not a sweeping generalization.I will not argument against irrational accusations against an entire gender. That's a waste of time. I'll keep to the facts : women do contribute as proven by their contribution to many vital industries. AND through their sacrifices as mothers and caregivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:15 AM
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You have the topic and the institutions where they were published, I'm not going to do the work for someone whondebates in bad faith. That's a long paragraph to say " I'm angry at women cause they won't fuck me so I'll belittle them and claim they don't contribute to nothing in the world" even though this is factually wrong (see percentage of women in heatlthcare, biology and teaching to name a few). Adieu !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:06 AM
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But promiscuous women are not really the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:47 AM
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Well your assumptions are wrong. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:27 AM
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Feel free to feel skeptical, if you know " what the actual demographic trends suggest" and think what I've said is wrong, feel free to explain why and I'll answer in details But I won't be wasting my time on someone who just wants to lecture me on how to read studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:24 AM
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lol, you go and skim read them on Google yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:07 AM
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My boyfriend's mom is very triggered by my freedom and says I mistreat her son because I don't do most of the housework even though I outearn him and he has more flexible hours ! You story doesn't surprise.me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:19 PM
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that's the healthy and dignified approach, you cant shame people into liking you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:42 PM
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Oh well, I suppose if the younger woman is okay she just says she is fine and moves with her old man. In the end it's those old women who suffer. I guess it's triggering to see someone have once we once had. I never tht was pretty until 23 though so the idea of caring that much about some other people's relationships because one is prettier than me sounds incredibly weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:27 PM
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Stink eye is defintly jealousy but asking if a woman is okay not necessarly. I'd do it and I'm still young so I have no reason to be jealous yet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:13 PM
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I don't think that many women are interested in older men. On dating apps studies, women swipe right on people within a 5 years age gap But, I suppose that the few who are into do get more access than previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:11 PM
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Pretty much.It's either the guy is being used for his money without knowing (many stories of women who for exemple marry rich plder men in thailand then once they get the green card divorce them and marry someone their age). Or, it's the woman who's being manipulated for sex and fun while this man has no intention of being serious with her and will kick her out for someone younger after a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:09 PM
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I do see this tendency in some older women but I quite frankly wonder if it's not a loud minority who just vent online because I've never seen such behaviors offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:04 PM
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That's true, it's like pop culture in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:58 PM
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Fit body doesn't make up for receding hairline and wrinkles. Like, look at prince William.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:56 PM
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We know those women choose to be there that's why I said we can only advise them to not do it not force them to not do it. And the women who've been there and regret it are right to speak up and warn younger women. There are nuances to this too. If I make 75k and my man 100k, sure my lifestyle will downgrade but I can fuck off. If i make nothing and my man 50k I'm screwed. Men who purposelly seek out those arrangements tend to be domineering and do prey on weak women. I don't see the point in te…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:49 PM
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We both know this is purely an intellectual exercise cause this is an extreme outlier. But in this extreme outlier case, the woman would defintly have more power. Because what would give the man more power due to his age ( more money, better connections, better resources and maybe even experiences) would be cancelled by this crazy amount of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:36 PM
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Actually, I think even with emotions men are actually the extremists. They either naively love women because they angels who can't do no wrong or they are bitter because all women are cheating whores. They effectively kill themselves while women can live mildly depressed for much longer. Women who can't find partners and are lonely occasionally bitch on social media and but cats. Incels go shoot sororities etc Women understand emotions better and can be very performative while expressing them wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:29 PM
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Well, it's easier to leave when you are not a dependant and the person has no leverage to ruin your life. So yes power balnace and imblaance exist.Hence why a 25 year old dating a 33 year old is balanced because they both have the looks and financial means to quickly leave a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:25 PM
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Men (nor women) will never be irrelevant. I think expectations shifted for both genders and I think it's been easier for women to adapt, for many reasons. Basically I think many men still negelect emotional intelligence and it hinders them in relationship. I'm not talking about " ExPreSsing eMotTions" more. But more like being good at introspection and caring for theor partner in the way women do. Just like men are better at providing on average, women will still be better at this on average but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:50 PM
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Yes and we, women who were not blinded by horniness in our youth, didn't tolerate them since the beginning but they called us "jealous" and "prefered the company of men"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:39 PM
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Women are still the main caretakers and it's been shown by studies that men think their contribution in caretakin is even when they do 30% and belive they do more than their partner's when they do more than 30%. One main problem is also that women in relationships are expected to lose their individual identity in a way that men aren't. And since they can provide for themselves (though less effectively) they do not think that identity loss is worth the man's providing and protecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:20 PM
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Oh. Welp I'm still in my 20's so while I know some of the og influencers' names, my first thoughts when influencers are mentionned are youtubers around my age (mid-late 20's) and GenZ tik tokers. Well yes those women may be jealous yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:57 PM
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yes 18-25 is a bit weird but we can't police adult relationships. only give advice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:38 PM
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Oh. Yes that may be true. But are we talking 23 year olds dating men in the 28-32 range ? Cause to me that's not an age gap. It's two people dating in their peak attractiveness. So in that case yes that's jealousy. But May December relationships are not advisable in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:36 PM
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That's true and that's because they tend to be agreeable. They're not better people but they make sure people like them. Men don't. Both attitudes have positive sides drawbacks (dependency/social back up when shit hits the fan and independance/isolation when shit hit the fan).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:31 PM
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Yes, I'm convinced Karen are just former Stacies who don't understand why people don't treat them like royalty anymore. The "wall" is a Stacy problem. Most women aren't pretty enough to be influencers. What does it have to do with age gaps tho ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:28 PM
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Because it's usually when there isn't such a discrepancy in maturity and lifestyle. You're out of college, you working, you go out on weekends just like the 33 year old. The power balance is even
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:09 PM
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I wouldn't consider it an "age gap relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:58 PM
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I personally see no objection to those especially when everyone involved is over 25. I don't really consider them "age gaps relationship" they're part of the same generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:56 PM
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Google is your friend. Your interpretation isn't more valid than mine. Branch swinging isn't even backed by data.Men are more likely to remarry after divorce no matter who initiated it. Neither is divorce for "finding onself". It's not even in the top 10 reasons for divorce. Less efficient or with higher standards for cleaness. We all know how clean "frat houses" , male only bathrooms or bachelor cribs look compared to womens'. Anyway, the studies I'm talking about do not measure how much time t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:43 PM
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The point is there's a a selection bias on the male's side not that motherhood is forced on people. The single men group are responsible me. who went outt of their way to be in their kids' lives, single women group is a mixed bag due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:25 PM
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The reason is pretty evident. Women carry the child and are still the default parent in many cases.So single mothers include : Responsible widows, divorced wives with reasonable income, broke divorced wives, crackheads, teen moms, abusive moms, prostitues, promiscuous party girls etc. Single dads include : Divorced/seperated from mothers men, Widowers. All of them are men who made the concious choice to be responsible fathers and have the means to do so. I'd love to see a study where those facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:25 AM
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1.We see people of both sexes describe their chaotic relationships and/or give advice based on that. They monopolize the public discourse. Then average men and women internalize it and interact with eachother based on those crazy takes. Dating becomes a weird thing where both parties try to take the most while giving the least possible. The saner people euther get lucky and date eachother or decide all that crazyness aint worth it and focus on their goals We need to decipher real issues from chr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:04 AM
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" Women prioritize their needs over mine how dare they".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:58 AM
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Nobody talked about height and the general requirement is my "height or taller" which most men fit. Yes, the taller, the better but let's be real it's not a requirelent set it in stones in most cases. Correlation doesn't mean causation. A 2019 study from University of Bath states that men do not like when their wives contribute to more than 40% of the household income. A study from University of Florida shows that men's self esteem gets worse when their wives are succesful. Another shows that ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:47 AM
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Most women are not even on the apps so we can't really use them to assess their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:43 AM
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Now to answer the op's question : I think unless it's a clear sugar baby situation where everyone gets something and no one deludes themselves,I think they tend to be unbalanced and unhealthy. I think that many women between 18-25, while they are adults are very idealistic and do not see the implications of such an arrangement. Many of those guys are also somewhat immature so those women outgrow them and wasted their best years on 50 year old teen. Even when the relationships are healthy I can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:38 AM
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The real question is why are we so focused on age gaps relationships when they are so uncommon. Most of us will date someone within a five years age gap, with the man being older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:29 AM
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You can't use that argument while asking women ther personal preferences. The woman above explained she personally didn't care but you've decided to use a data point to disprove her. Can purple pill men listen to individual women without trying to make them fit a statistic ?Especially when the women here tend to not be average because the average woman isn't on reddit. And, the norm isn't even hypergamy.Data show people date mostly in the same tax bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:00 PM
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nah. My man is is a translator/english teacher and makes barely above Colombian minimum wage.I make 4 times my home (european) country's minimum wage. It's basically a millionaire dating a lower middle class man situation. I still want him around because he reads Kant in his free time, speaks 5 languages and knows many random things about random subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:48 AM
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the problem is that it's not that gratifying. I am now in a good relationship but otherwise the happiest times of my life were when I was single. I have a very hands off attitude to this, so if my current relationship ends, I won't actively date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:28 AM
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My ex boyfriend did this so I stood him up on his birthday and blocked him everywhere and he is creating new acciunts and ll begging me to come back in my dms 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:20 AM
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When I read stuff like this I can't help but to think y'all confuse submissivness and not being a bitchy control freak. I built a table with my boyfriend yesterday. I shut rhe fuck up and followed his instructions cause Im not good at those things. Then I taught him french because that's my native language. Then we fucked because sex is pleasant and bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:41 PM
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Also period heightens emotions it doesn't create them. If I'm super mad about something duri g my period that thing been annoying me for a while. I've either amdreasy pointed it out more diplomatically during the month or the periods gave me the guts to finally say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:32 PM
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I think I'm feminine and most women are but it's the kind of femininty men do not like. I'm sensual and sensisitive.I'm good at interpersonal relationships and being likeable. I'm nuturing towards children. I'm inclined to make everything (myself, ly house, my insta feed, my ppts at work) aesthically pleasing.I was to'd im quite graceful. I use those traits for my own benefit ( seduce,have fun, to further my career, to get along with people) not to please men and I think that'sthe big change. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:47 AM
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It comes from ethnic women being able to be skinny woth big butts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:40 AM
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You're the one who is making that jump.I didn't say they hated themI said they either resent them or cheat. What I'm observing is they have minimum requirements then down the line if the woman doesn't vet, the incompabilities show up so they get their other needs met with another woman or just avoid being arou'd theor wife that much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:14 PM
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For the race thing, when you look at stats in turns out asian women get the most answers.They're the skinniest.Black women are the fatest. I wonder how much the disparity is once that's controled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:05 AM
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Women who are not suspicious of men they don't know get fucked over
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:20 PM
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Yes, and then they resent their wife/cheat. I've been with men with whom it was obvious we did not enjoy eachother's company yet they didn't want to end the relationship.This is confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:16 PM
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"One woman feels like she settled therefore all women everywhere in the world feel like they'v settled"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:38 PM
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Lol, now you are arguing in bad faith. We both know that my answer will be no.I've wasted enough time on you, get help.This is no healthy mindset to have in life. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:37 PM
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Which women ? All women ? wolen in general ? That's not true. Especially modern young women they either stay alone or get with people they actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:34 PM
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You can but you can't really control other people's actions only how you react to them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:32 PM
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who settles ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:31 PM
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I think men should enjoy their James Bond in peace ans ignore such comments. Don't expect women to act like james bond girls in real life tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:29 PM
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It's not unrealistic though. Women who look like Nina Dobrev do get very hot/succesful men. Nina is litteraly a model. Supermodels end up with millionaire husbands all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:23 PM
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So men get their fantasy fufilled in James Bond movies and women in The vampire diaries. What is the problem then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:19 PM
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What did you want the likes of Elena to do exactly, protect and provide for the dudes ? Apparently that's not what men want since even in the movies written, produced and catered to them, they'd rather put the man as the pursuer. I mean The vampire diaries (written by men screen writers by the way) is full of powerful women actually, there is a powerful witch who created rings so they could walk around in the sun as vampires, accomplished rich women with jobs, a very great at scheming fellow vam…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:10 PM
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Not all women are this beautiful while also having those qualities. Hell average women don't even have those qualities, half of this sub complains about how modern women are not coorperative nor nuturing a'd won't submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:57 PM
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She offered what the average man want in plenty : youth, beauty, kindness, nuturing,submission, vulnerability and sex. She is the archetype of the feminine ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:46 PM
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Some dude tried to argue Nina Dobrev was mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:18 PM
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In anither sub it would be but here il sure someone would argue they are average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:01 PM
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I don't know, it seems like the female way is healthier since it allows us to move on for good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:18 PM
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The reverse is true tho, there are no average looking actresses
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:02 PM
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So you are mad that chick flicks cater to women fantasies of being the beautiful passive love interest ? get therapy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:56 PM
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Moral of the story : men want beauty, female want status. Also Cinderella was an aristocrat not some peasant woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:24 PM
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I mean all the average dudes in movies targeted to dudes get a hot chick : Big Bang theory, Family sitcoms, Harry Potter, Transformers etc...So you are arguing ober nothing really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:21 PM
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How are they more attractive than her ?Where do you find 5''8 feet tall, straight haired brunettes with perfectlyn aligned teeth, perfect skin and skinny body type in the wild ? She also has very delicate features she litteraly fit all the beauty standards of the time. On top of rhat she was herself from a pretty wealthy family and smart (she was a premed student).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:18 PM
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Fair. And I'd like to add that Steroline was probably the cringiest thing to ever happen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:09 PM
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So she is attractive but it's not enough so she should try to seduce them ? like i genuinly don't understand what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:08 PM
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Ah yes but he continued with the originals which was pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:05 PM
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lol, yes that's the point. They're selling a fantasy.When the y want to sell to women the men is above average and the woman is beautiful but average enough so the women can self insert in tge story.When it targets men, the reverse happen. Nobody wants to see Becky and Joe meet in high school and live a mediocre life together...That's like storytelling 101 make extradordinary things happen to ordinary people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:01 PM
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Yes except for the last season when Elena wasn't part of the series anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:57 PM
24

No the gap isn't higher, they're on the same level of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:56 PM
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Exactly...Elena is pretty boring as a character but she embodies all the idealized female characteristics. She is beautiful, young , she is nuturing, she is empathetic, she is vulnerable and she is submissive. in exchange of all of that, She attracts dominant men with status. Pretty traditional plot if you ask me. Edit : spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:36 PM
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She is in the top 10% in terms of attractiveness. The average teengirl does not look like Elena at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:33 PM
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The female interest in movies aren't representative of the average women either. People want to see pretty actors and acresses on screen and escape reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 PM
1

Yes, but the subtext in all those libertins litterature is that all those tragedies wouldn't happen if they were in love marriage.Merteuil ended tragically too she is not an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:17 PM
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She ended up fucking him real good though so even in 18th centuary they knew nothing compares to passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:17 PM
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This leads me to my second observation : women have actively participated in the building of patriarchy. They willingly took the "subservient" role while it was serving g their interests. Patriarchy in its definition and ethymology isn't "male dominance" it's "father's dominance". It was the trade off to have more committed fathers. When women refuse to participate the patriarchy falls to the ground quickly. They just need to plant feminist ideas in their kids minds and in two generations the sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:47 AM
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I belive that there was a time between industrialization and the 1950's where it was indeed an unfair system.No wonder why that's when feminism started. I believe patriarchy is now irrelevant tho. I don't need my father's persmission to get married, I don't need my man's persmission to do anything. My status in society doesn't depend on my marital status. I can pass on my last name to my children. There is an exponentional growth in the number of female millionaires. Women have better relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:20 AM
2

I think the wall is mostly a Stacy issue. I'm not that good looking as a young person so I have developped a personality, resilience and a sense of independance. Once "youthfulness" go I'll just rely even more on personality traits and competence to get what Iwant. Karens are just post walls Stacies who don't understand why the world doesn't bend to their will like when they were young and beautiful. So they feel disrrspected and start arguments not realizing they were getting special treatment …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:53 AM
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I'm a woman I actually agree with point 1. The problem is patriarchy is. outdated. I'm okay with being submissive to a man who has to risk his life daily to bring us food. And, housemaker role makes a lot of sense where everything needs to be cooked from scratch, clothes sewn by myself and laundry done by hand in a cold river. Nowadays tho ? You're an office worker sitting all day, which I can do just fine and until we have kids there is no need for me to stay home while I clean the house for tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:43 AM
4

Bezos wife is dating a nice englush teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:53 AM
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I remember around 2014-2016, everyone was on them because it was new and people were curious. This meant that the female to mlae ratio was better and you had actually normal people there and you could meet nice people.I even have friends who got married who met there... However I think normal people quickly left it because most of us still would rather meet people organically and people with normal lives with a healthy social circle can do that. Those who met someone there at the time are either…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:34 AM
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lmao, he didn't lose part of his fortune. She had stocks in the company because she invested her money in Amazon when it wasn't worth anyrhing yet. She then left with her stocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:18 PM
2

They understand. I mean, they're the first to say they look down on women with high body counts because sex is easy to get for them.Each man just wishes they'd make an exception for him and is triggered when they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:18 PM
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I mean sure, they have their niche but the truth is men have higher standards than they realize. Basically men of all ages are fighting for the same generation of women. 20year olds have to be picky otherwise they'd have a body count in the thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:46 AM
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Bezos cheated and he got dumped. What's unfair in that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:47 PM
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When men talk about women they only talk about the young and pretty ones. The average woman is 35 and iverweight. Age and weight standards alone make the majority of women invisible to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:46 PM
1

In retrospect I think he thought I meant he has a shitty personality but it isn't what I meant. It's just he is a very extroverted person who doesn't like staying still and I'm someone who appears to be very social but I looove my lonely time. I know he is the kind of person who thinks introverts would be happier if they lived like extroverts and wouldn't understand and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:57 AM
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that's what they end up doing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:12 PM
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What is tact though. For example, some dude asked me out I said "no thank you" he asked why not I said because I'm not interested he asked why and I said "because I have interacted with you a lot in group setti gs and I know our personalities will clash in the long run" and he took offence. Yet, I don't see how it was offensive🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:55 PM
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I think men understimate how much more personally they take a woman's they're attracted to's comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:52 PM
1

tomboys/chicks with masculine interests aside, girls who prefer male friends are usually insecure girls who are mean in a passive agressive way to other girls. And they project their own insecurities on other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:45 PM
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Not wanting to fuck someone who reminds a family member is normal. Seeing any person who has vaguely generic features as family members is weird and I only witness it in black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:40 PM
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you've said it yourself : it's not the norm. And statistics show that not only they 're rare, they tend to not last.Of course you will find outliers. But the average woman in her early 20's is not checking for old men. I'd say most attractive age for men is early 30's. Then it dindwidle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:48 PM
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nah 40 year olds are repulsive. The only places where I see young wolen dating old men are in places with lot of poverty. Only thing age improves is finances and once you libe in a society where most people have access to basic necessities you need a loooot of it compensate your wrinkles, saggy skin and receding hairline
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:49 AM
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You got a point but I'm under the impression it's worse among black people. Like I have yet to meet an asian or a latino claim they don't want to date their race because they look like family members
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:24 AM
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I dunno, I think we are just scatered around in the wild, pretending to be normal. But maybe try "nerdy" meetings like dnd irl sessions or manga conventions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:23 AM
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Welp, as an autistic woman, I have to mask around man because feminity and autism are like polar opposites. This isn't a gender issue. Neurotypicals prefer dating other neurotypicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:14 PM
1

This is so stupid to be honest. We're the only race to do this. Between black males who will only date light women or non whites and this we sure aren't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:31 PM
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lol isn't the point of this sub to discuss them thoigh. Otherwise "yes women are advantadged in dating get over it". Debate over, close the purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:12 AM
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I don't care either, i'm just noticing the double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:02 AM
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It's a general reaction I've had. Going from "you think you're too good to clean" to "you're exploitative"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:01 AM
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for some reason it's also more acceptable to hire someone to do the man's work. Nobody bats an eye at someone going to the car repair or calling a plumber.But God forbid you hire a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:37 AM
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Is it demonizing or just voicing fustration and dissapointment.I think men take what women say too personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:34 AM
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Well that OKCUPID you guys like to pull out showed that while men consistantly prefer 20 year olds, women preffered men 3 years their senior at every age. While outliers exist, the average 23 year old isn't checking for grandpa and among those who do, a good portion is doing it for money. Now if grandpa doesn't care the relationship is transactionsl that's fine but it's time to accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:04 PM
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I disagree. I love adventure and so does my brother.However he can't plan anything by himself because my mither cuddled him to much. At 16, I was expected to take care of him, had a job, was planning my studying abroad and wild activities like skydiving and what not. I knew how to look for the information for all of that. He is 18 and my mom is the one looking for colleges he can apply to and he threw a fit when she wouldn't register him for karate class. This is an extreme case (my mom is afric…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:59 PM
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you don't "have" to be my friend but isn't it normal to be sad to lose a friend ? I don't care for male friendship though but I'd be sad if one of my girl friends just stopped talking to le
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:43 PM
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