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LEVEL UPMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:53 PM
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NAH, SISMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:16 PM
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COCKHOLM SYNDROMEMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:35 PM
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REMINDER 👑Mindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:04 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:59 AM
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DISCUSSIONMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:33 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:38 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:00 AM
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FIELD REPORT Mindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:20 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYMindard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:27 PM
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PickMe’s be like “THAT looks like a project for meEEeeeE~”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:50 PM
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Attacking other women is not a personality trait. I can see that you are extremely defensive mow but you are not a victim. And you should also realise that you are the only one infantilising yourself through your behaviour, I merely pointed it out. This is my last reply for you, you already wasted to many seconds of my time but I will report you if you keep bullying other members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:18 AM
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It’s alright, sis. As others have said: relapses can happen. Try to look within yourself and see why you let this happen. Why you craved affection so much or what was missing from your life that this happened. All the answers are within you. And don’t pay attention to our more petty sisters. Sometimes, some people get a false sense of self and become arrogant within it. They probably haven’t gone through similar things, hence the lack of empathy. And because they haven’t gone through it, they th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:24 AM
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Stop gatekeeping. This sub welcomes HVW at all stages of their development (with a possible one being the PickMe stage). If OP is having a hard time, she is to be treated with empathy and support (especially when she is asking for help), not some moral high ground bullshit appropriated from scrotes. As stated in my earlier comment: We are women. We support eachother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:04 PM
32

Do y’all know that song that goes “HEEEELL NO, to the nO NO NOOoooOOooO”. It’s an appropriate mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:54 PM
12

You’re being bitter for no reason. Relapses can happen, we are not robots. The last thing OP needs is a newbie acting like she committed a crime or something. We are women. We empathise. We stand together. We don’t beat each other into the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:11 PM
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Thank you! I tried watching this shit but it always rubbed me the wrong way. This post is literally why I loathe it. Let’s not forget how Lily was demonised and portrayed as a stupid loser when she took a break from Marshall and went to pursue her dreams. That part is trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:05 PM
2

You are so strong. This would literally end me completely if it happened to me. Please remember to eat, drink water and try to distract yourself with some cheap tv show. I wish you the best of everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:35 PM
3

You are so strong. This would literally end me completely if it happened to me. Please remember to eat, drink water and try to distract yourself with some cheap tv show. I wish you the best of everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:35 PM
10

This is so wholesome!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:32 AM
10

Yas, sis ❤️ I stand with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:35 PM
30

“Unlike women who wear Gucci, I don’t care about fancy dates. #girlboss” UM NOoooOOOOO! I AM A WOMEN WHO WEAR GUCCI AND CARE ABT FANCY DATES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:33 PM
2

This was me 1-2 years ago smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:30 AM
4

Absolutely disgusting. I’d rather die than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:17 AM
39

This is negging. He is trying to attack your confidence by implying you need the makeup to look good. Basically trying to maximise or create insecurities. I’d bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:20 PM
12

The scrotes base all women’s worth in being attractive so they pretend that we are ugly. Basic denial and coping mechanism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:22 PM
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I’m not sure if you are american and mad but what exactly is delusional? This post is ridiculous. As are americans that refuse to believe that they ‘Murica is not the Universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:06 PM
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I’m not british.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:02 PM
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Please educate yourself, the police brutality you speak of is a phenomenon almost isolated to America. I live in the UK and while there is racism here, it is not as outlandish as the US and people of colour are not killed for their skin. Also, please do not correlate such distinct variables, it’s still fallacious and superficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:48 PM
1

How can anyone live with bedbugs? My skin crawls just looking at a picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:08 AM
25

Too many external variables to equate this. I do not agree with this correlation. It is superficial fallacious. I would also advise against thinking that ‘Murica is the only country that exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:55 AM
1

Sorry, I thought that was acceptable per the rules. Will do in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:57 PM
39

The moment this would get posted in a feminist group, it would be completely erased and the OP would be permanently banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:53 PM
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I’m an Aquarius and aqua men are ✨trash✨ Also, Libra men are trash too. Worst relationship of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:43 AM
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Males are always supposed to be pickmes. Also, this is negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:42 AM
6

Ugh I’ve seen some of these too. I never engage with guys who have these on their profiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:45 PM
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Please don’t call a man who says basic things for brownie point a “king”. It makes me puke a little in my mouth. Set your bar higher sis, this is FDS not pickme-AA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:19 AM
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Oh hun, that’s still child pornography. Check the laws where you live, in the USA (ugh, horrid country) you can be charged for child pornography holding and/or distribution, even if they are your own nudes. I would definitely recommend seeing everything that you can do, legally. This is such a shitty thing. I am so sorry that you are going through this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:29 PM
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Hey sis, I am so sorry that this happened to you. I hope you are holding up alright. This is tough because you should go to the police. But I get your hesitation because of parents... But this guy is doing something extremely illegal. If you are a young teenager, you are a minor. What is your age? You could be dealing with a pedophile. He also could be dangerous.... Do you have any adults in your life that you can trust?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:57 PM
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What the heck. He’s acting as if our strategies teach us how to pick up men, not how assess them in relation with our needs 😂 There is no lack of suitors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:51 AM
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And that’s on rape and rape! But the LVM and pickmes will insist that we shouldn’t have gotten ourselves into that situation. As if being betrayed and taken advantage of by the person that was supposed to protect us isn’t enough, now we have to deal with these cretins too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:47 AM
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I’m happy for you that you aren’t a pickme and that you have a HVM xx However, you base your earlier comment on a supposition. You assume that your partner would find that woman attractive because you find her attractive. That was not the point of this post and it’s a tangent. But also, you never actually know if your partner finds another woman attractive because he doesn’t tell you. Or tells you if you ask. And when he does tell you, he never shows desire for that woman. This is why YOU feel s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:11 PM
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Wow, someone’s being a pickme here. Sis, if you are willing to put up with a man that looks at other women to the point where you know about it, that’s your thing but count me out. No one says that we can’t find other people attractive but to exteriorise it to the extent that your partner knows... well, would you accept if he: - mentioned how attractive other females are. - commented how attractive they are, on social media, under their photos. - looked at other women’s bodies in your presence. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:49 PM
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I’m 5’10 and thick. It’s a blessing sis. LVM will insult you because they have no chance with you. Pickmeishas will insult you because LVM rave on and on about long legs (eg tall women as we have long legs). The only “disadvantage” would be that we are taller than most men. I mean, our offspring will always be taller than average. It maybe depends where you live but 5’10 isn’t even that tall. I really wish I was 6’..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:52 AM
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They aren’t addicted to sex. They substitute their sense of self worth with sex. Instead of addressing themselves and what could bring them closer to the person they want to be, they would rather rub one out/have sex. Even if it’s not enjoyable anymore. Even if it hurts. Anything so their pathetic little brains can ignore the ever-growing flaws and issues. It’s kinda sad and funny at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:37 PM
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Wtf THEY ARE SPORTS ATTIRE FOR THE GYM. They are comfortable and stretchy. If a scrote looks at me like this, ill bite his head off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:54 AM
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Sis, this is a battlecry. Some just come out a bit choked 🧡 You did good xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:16 PM
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This is how a narcissist gets you hooked on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:27 AM
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The fact that he uses the word says a lot... he probably has some issues girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:15 PM
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Drop him. He honestly seems porn fried. I would 10/10 dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:01 PM
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KILL IT WITH FIRE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:39 PM
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That’s disgusting. I am Eastern European living in an English speaking country so I’m also seen as less than when I open my mouth. I just don’t get it, LVM perceive us as inferior to them and feel insulted if we don’t want them but (by their words) they shouldn’t want us in the first place. How can you simultaneously think we deserve less and want us, all without being a huge masochistic psycho?! Back in my pick-me days, I thought I could speak scrote but all I understood was RomCon vibes in a P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:36 PM
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OFF WITH HIS HEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:53 AM
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My most LV bf actually went and got me pads with no issue. The HVM one as well. I believe it’s the ones that score very low on the intelligence level that would have a problem with it. The only issue I would have was when I would have my period and my shitty ex would pressure me into sex bc ”he doesn’t care”. Me hurting wasn’t really an element.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:49 AM
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How are those requirements things he would bring to “the table”? And why does it matter if she’s asian? I mean, talk about setting the bar low, what she wants is nothing special
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:57 AM
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Oh my God, I hate that type. You end up giving them dating advice smh. I hope they stay out of the gene pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:44 AM
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I can cook a mean Sunday roast xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:44 PM
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It is very awkward. The thing is, I liked the attention until it because too awkward... He raised my blood pressure and pissed me off but he was also so so pitiful. I don’t like hurting people either but I’m not putting up with stuff for longer than necessary to appease some guy’s ego. If he actually had one, he wouldn’t freaking explain how he bought £30 jeans bc he’s fat and they rub between his legs. Wtf was I supposed to say to that?! Fucking 30yo............... We don’t need THIS attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:58 PM
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I wish I could. No man i know (aside from my dad, brother and one friend) is actually HV, and I’ve met so many people from all walks of life. None of my exes were, and that’s a tough pill to swallow. Girls, let them prove it. Test them. Catch them off guard. Attack their character. All over time, not on the first date, and in public, of course. See how they react. A shouting session today might be a black eye and cracked ribs in 2 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:54 PM
12

Thank God we are ✨single✨. Life is too short to put up with this debauchery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:50 PM
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Yea sis, I know. I am saying that he might have appeared to be one, not that he was. I think you can only label a guy HV if you date him for about 6mo-1year and he maintains a genuine decent & acceptable behaviour to most stimuli.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:49 PM
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I felt your pain. That’s also why I bounce so fast if a guy who pursues me displays negative behaviour. You usually can see it in the beginning, if you just listen. I started listening to what guys say only about a year ago and I remain horrified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:47 PM
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True. I haven’t integrated other traits that he displayed (would have been too long of a post) but I can agree that the ones I listen have more to do with being interested than being high-value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:36 AM
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Thanks!! And I am aware of those men. My ex was like that and I am allergic to misogynists now. I tend to run from men who display manipulative behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:35 AM
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He pressured you into sex. You actually didn’t want it and he freaked out and made you have it.... you know what this is called. Over time all his behaviours will be amplified. Maybe you can live with this now but what about in 1 year? 5years? 10? Can you see him as an example for you future child? The answer is no. Drop the fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:55 AM
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He is blackmailing her... can’t wait for karma to come for this one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:51 AM
3

You asking if he lives with girls is kinda cringe. It shows him that you care about that and that you might be insecure. (Eg asking if he lives with women because you feel threatened by another womanly presence) He can use this against you. Next time, ask if he is living with anyone without pressing about the gender. If he tells you the gender, you can comment on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:50 AM
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For a second, I thought the sub was deleted. I was 10 minutes to deleting my account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:05 AM
32

Meanwhile, they are single and cheeto greasy in their mum’s basement. Sir, if you died of ‘Rona, nobody would really care-!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:44 AM
11

The best boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:05 PM
20

Never ever trust a guy that mentions sex and his ex excessively (or even at all) when he is trying to woo *you***
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:21 AM
6

This sounds like how I would envision hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:18 AM
37

This why I never date artist men. Everything is a competition and they either pity or resent you. Yes, it is negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:15 AM
37

Wants to be picked by multiple guys. Is this a higher level?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:11 AM
11

PREACH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:29 PM
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He is adorable. She once (pretend) refered to him as a ‘friend’ to someone else and he kept whispering to her ‘best friends please’. I like that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:27 PM
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I’ll see myself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:25 PM
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Another one would be Chuck Palahniuk. I actually really enjoy his writing for the shock value mixed with his cynical perception but the men that do.... most I’ve met have been psychos... terrifying psychos... The I-will-drag-you-to-a-construction-site-at-midnight-on-our-first-date kind of psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:10 AM
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He’s a pedo so it’s obvious that he would defend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:31 AM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:35 PM
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I didn’t read the title and my stomach dropped into my ass when I read friends. That is so scary Be very careful, please!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:14 PM
1

Absolute gold but also, the bar is in *hell***
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:23 AM
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It’s massive pick-me energy but who the heck would want a man with nipple rings? What do y’all say to that????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:36 AM
24

Not all women live in America. For my fellow non-American women, please make sure to have at least one legally acceptable weapon (eg pepper spray) and an infinite amount of care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:54 PM
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She gives me me pick-me and cool girl vibes. Why would you condition women’s behaviour when the scrotes are the ones who bother them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:18 AM
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I know how to restore your humanity: always remember that these guys are incels. Involuntary celibate. They can’t get laid so they can’t procreate 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:35 AM
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But women are the psychos, am I right? What a pathetic nutjob this guy is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:33 AM
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He doesn’t want another man’s child. It must be his gEnEs. Hopefully, he never has kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:44 PM
80

How disgusting. This is probably the same man that wants to buy an eastern european wife 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:41 PM
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£20 that the admin is a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:54 AM
3

I absolutely love this💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:48 PM
31

To HURT YOU LMAO The goddamn audacity. The ego. The fucking nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:08 PM
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Exactly. It’s all the pickmeishas pandering to scrotes and saying that they “prefer” dad bods. The men either believe it or pretend to believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:35 AM
14

UMM SIR, YOU DROPPED YOUR PIKACHU!! Can you pls like, pick it? It’s scaring the children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:49 AM
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“Dad bod” is a shitty response to mom body. As is: the way our body changes after we have children. It’s a mockery. The bar for men is in hell and I blame everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:47 AM
9

Who else feels that she’s the Psyduck of Tiktok? She doesn’t really get picked but when she is, everyone gets a headache
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:12 PM
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AMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:24 AM
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NOBODY BREED WITH IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:15 AM
21

Your letter made me cry. I just blocked my LVM today and it felt so bittersweet. He wasn’t the worst and we had some good moments. Never did anything too bad to me. Or so I thought. He let me down so much. That is unforgivable. And your post helped cement that in my heart. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:56 AM
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This reminds me of my toxic ex. He didn’t get to beat me but he wasn’t too far from it. The scrote used to speed up his shitty cars to put me in panic attacks. He had an accident with me in the car prior to this. So I had suffered trauma and he used to just put me in a panic attack whenever he saw suit. I honestly hate men so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:20 AM
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This is pandering to men. Why do I need to be picked? If all women collectively put their foot down, videos like these would be a joke. And they are a bit fat joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:10 PM
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Me too, it was very violent. I almost puked on my work computer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:51 AM
3

You feel like this because he messed with your self worth. It’s not that you ‘loved him beyond mean’, it’s more that ‘not even that horrible turd could love me, maybe there is something with me...’ that’s how they keep us trapped, they mess with our ego, self worth, inherent value. You need to romanticise yourself. Fall in love with yourself and treat yourself properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:50 AM
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He is trying to make you second guess yourself. Block him to stop him from attempting this again. You need to put a lot of distance between you two!! It’s also dangerous because he can attack you on the streets... he knows where you live Best of luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:57 PM
42

Yeah we crave affection..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:14 AM
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I would stray from using American politicians as role-models. That country is going to shit and in no way should be used as a standard. I’d much rather see the New Zealand president featured. Proper HVW and role-model
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:57 AM
3

Why put them down publicly? We are conditioned to be like this by the society. I would gently offer my opinion if I am asked. Otherwise, sis don’t bother, it’s like training pigeons to high-five.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:52 AM
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This point is so weird. They call us incels but we are literally swearing off men who are sub-standard and choosing to accept high-value ones. We all get dates. We all get men interested in sleeping with us. At most, we are voluntary celibates 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:47 AM
6

Thank you 😊I’m alright now but I share to make others realise that it’s not ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:00 AM
38

Yes, absolutely. But that never mattered because he never stopped when I said no. It took two police officers asking me routine questions and a breakdown to realise this is rape. I didn’t press charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:49 PM
87

Forever iconic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:37 PM
1

Nope, she commented on this thread. Her actual lifestyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:35 PM
2

Sis, I respect that we might have different opinions and lifestyles. Yours is just my deepest, darkest nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:34 PM
1

Omg nooo!! That is so utterly disgusting. If I ever see a partner like that I will vomit on him and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:33 PM
2

That is exactly why being single will never again be hurtful for me. I’d rather adopt some babies and some cats and have a happy life than wAsH mY GrOwN aSS man & call him *KITTEN*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:15 PM
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My abusive ex used to call my friends “Harry Potters” as in, they are losers. He was also saying homophobic things to me and then backtracking when I would point out that my beat friend is a lesbian. He used to say that lesbians are better than gays. When I also pointed out a very dear person to me and my mum is feminine gay, he would make something else up. Listen to what they say. They don’t lie if they don’t know your stance on things. Also, fucking LEAVE when you see this! You can’t fix this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:48 AM
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I think love languages are a sham meant to manipulate us into being more giving. (E.g. his love language is sex so I let him fuck me roughly in my apartment and then he leaves without so much as a kiss because his love language only includes sex, not the other ones. He loves me in his own way~) Touch, words of affirmation, sex? Call me insane but I, along any other decently functioning adult, would require all of these in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:40 AM
2

If he treated her like the ultimate queen, she wouldn’t have to take him on dates and give him baths. Call me a “superficial bitch” but I want a proper grown man. With man hands, man body, man legs, man brain. Someone who will respect me and other people. A partner. I don’t want a “kitten” to bathe baby 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:37 AM
1

You and me both, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:33 AM
87

You and me both, sis. Let the patriarchy work for us 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:48 PM
48

Agreed. This is ridiculous. My parents have the healthiest relationship I’ve seen to date and they lead together. None of this bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:47 PM
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I feel this on another level. Two days ago I was walking with a friend and gesturing at the streets saying “look at all these amazing women, they looks bomb! Now look at the men, how many are handsome? None rn” because it’s true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:29 AM
2

Yeah, he was deeply troubled. Not my problem !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:33 PM
26

Did we date the same creep? The scrote I was sent me a snapchat of a girl giving him oral. Full display, saying it could have been me. Like no honey, never me! Then tried to say he was drunk and lonely smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:21 AM
2

You are the gift to him. He is proving it. Let yourself enjoy it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:27 PM
0

Unless the parents are super abusive and toxic, I agree 100% with everything you said! Massive red flag. Not sure why people downvote you tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:55 AM
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This mentality is why I was so traumatised when my ex wouldn’t stop. Deep down I knew it was rape but he actually believed he had a right to my body at all times. It was disgusting. It too me so long to accept that this was rape... because of men and women like this... normalising the concept that women are objects, simply to be used. I hope she opens her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:50 AM
1

A dream. I want in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:39 PM
33

Oh darling, I’m so sorry this happened to you!! She is such a cretin!! I am straight so this never happened to me but I can’t even imagine... what a pair of delusional fools. Thank God you never went home with her... who knows what the cretins would’ve done..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:41 AM
4

I wish but my last relationship gave me so much white hair it’s very noticeable 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:27 PM
62

I feckin died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:40 PM
6

I doubt most men go barber shops every 2 weeks though. Most of the guys I know only go for a haircut every 3 months. The bald men shave it themselves. It is only a portion that trim they hair regularly. So these calculations only take into account very groomed men and minimally groomed women. That’s not helpful at all. I kinda wish this was true tbh but we don’t see that many well kept men on the streets on average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:38 PM
6

Fair point, I also know some men who maybe would pay this, actually. But most of the men I know would probably not bother. There’s also this whole “line” and fresh haircut trend where a lot of men love looking groomed but I am not sure how they would act if it cost them £200-£300 every 3 weeks, instead of £30... My personal opinion is that they would glamorise being “natural”(aka unkept) as being “masculine” and would be negative towards men who would pay to get groomed. (Kinda how they call ver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:21 AM
38

To be perfectly fair, I got to a high end salon where the lady who does my boring mud colour hair won awards in hair styling. It is a whole experience as well, making me feel like a lil’ princess. I choose to pay extra in this scenario. I am just wondering, if men’s prices matched ours, would they groom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:40 AM
3

I almost cried. Bless her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:28 PM
8

So other women only understood you because a man mansplained to them? It’s getting so bad. I genuinely think they were projecting. Since they weren’t able to find men who don’t watch porn, it’s much better for them to believe they don’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:22 PM
12

THIS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A SAFE SPACE MY EYES. The audacity-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:42 PM
6

THIS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A SAFE SPACE MY EYES. The audacity-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:40 PM
5

Don’t do it alone and in confined spaces. Make sure that he can’t act irrational by being in public/somewhat public. Be prepared for tears, arguments, begging, insults, etc. You are also not required to give a detailed explanation. Also, make sure you have all your valuables out of his house. Stand your ground. Be strong. Be safe. I wish you the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:11 PM
4

Ok how do you know this? I am legit paranoid now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:12 PM
67

She is pandering to incels. Let her be, it depresses me too much to concern myself with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:00 PM
18

All day sis. All damn day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:15 PM
76

She is gross. What woman would ever want to pander to the incels, red pillers and MGTOW?! I wish we could stop the brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:41 AM
9

Are we the same person?! Jokes but I used to do all this too. No mas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:05 PM
8

What a fucking loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:29 AM
1

He seems to have blocked me or deleted his instagram. No temper tantrums
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:18 AM
20

Well, it’s easier to hang out with you till dark and “offer” his “safe” place. Also, he doesn’t know who else is in your house. Or if you would take him to your house even. And also pure laziness and lack of effort. I have a rule: no romantic interests allowed in my place. If it doesn’t work out, I’ll trade my sanctuary for furniture that smells like the dude who broke my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:06 PM
183

He’s trying to get you to come to his, or meet near his. Possibly in the hopes of sex. You can see the carrot dangling. Basically, it’s too much effort for him to take you out where you live. Drop him haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:42 PM
5

I’ll make a poster with this phrase! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:40 PM
5

They are! I am so happy I posted this now xx Never compromise yourself!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:23 PM
28

That’s why I keep my phone on silent. Well, that and email notifications ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:32 PM
3

Yes, I also cried. It’s so sweet ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:28 PM
127

Thank God you are able to see this for what it is and also help your poor mother. I hope she bounces back to health fast! May you be blessed with all you need
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:05 PM
41

IKR!! She would the LAST person to do this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:08 PM
23

Best course of action is: do not engage. Avoid them as much as possible. If you can’t avoid them in a specific instance, make use of their desperation to get out of a situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:28 AM
62

Ugh that is horrible! What a disgusting fat narcissist. I think our best option is to collectively raise our standards and jot even look into the direction of sub-standard males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:10 AM
18

Your vibe is everything that I live for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:03 AM
-4

Are you soft in the head?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:30 PM
1

Exactly. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:59 PM
2

You are so sweet!! I will message you if I set anything up in the future ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:15 PM
1

I have a FB page! Message me if you would like to see, I am reluctant to just post it because of lurkers and doxxing 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:14 PM
2

Oh my! I’m sorry!!! The way I trained myself to do without male validation was to draw something every time I felt the urge to get tinder. I figured that I was craving it mostly out of boredom/not wanting to be by myself. Finishing something that gave me joy made me less inclined to enter the shitshow and also taught me that being alone doesn’t mean being lonely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:13 PM
2

Thank you, sis 🌼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:52 AM
1

It’s practice, dear xx It took me 13 years to be able to draw and paint like I do now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:52 AM
2

Bless you!! Please do everything that makes you happy!! Life is too short to miss out on tranquility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:48 AM
1

Not exactly, I look at reference animals online (never drawn animals before) but I just see how it goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:48 AM
1

Thank you!! I am thinking about this. Might actually start the process as soon as I figure it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:46 AM
1

Hi, I don’t sell them. It’s just a hobby now 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:45 AM
52

DISCLAIMER: my ex was pornfree but also abusive, manipulative and misogynistic !! Please don’t assume they would be HVMs only because they are pornfree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:24 PM
62

He wore you down so you would be easier to manipulate. My ex used to do the same thing along with negging, gaslighting and others. Women are very vulnerable when confused. I was VERY resistant (we lived together for 3 months after we broke up) to the point where he called me rebellious, like I was a child (?!). You need to be very careful, in my experience, my ex would almost go out of his fucking mind when he saw he couldn’t turn me around and manipulate me. Had I stayed longer, I would have be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:22 PM
2

I don’t have an insta for art! Maybe I should convert my personal one. I have a FB page if you wanna see tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:26 PM
1

Hi, thank yo very much xx I have never done commissions but I can try! We can message to see if there is a feasible way to do it 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:23 PM
2

I just practiced with detail. I love adding detail to a design, it’s very calming! I’d suggest you look up some tutorials on line art and just practice 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:48 AM
3

Thank you!! I think anime is popular because it’s a very easy style. Line-art especially. When I started drawing (some 13 years ago) anime was the only style I could use that would look somewhat good (expecially if you learn by yourself and/or don’t have access to art materials; there are numerous tutorials online). That being said I did stray away from it because I wanted to develop my own style!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:30 AM
1

Yes, very much so! All are drawn on A5 paper though so it is quite small scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:20 AM
2

Thank you, I am still thinking about what I can do with my drawings xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:19 AM
1

Ahaha!! Not I want to draw a proper pizza! Thanks xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:18 AM
1

Yes!! Please do! The world is so dark these days, we can light a little candle with every piece of art that we do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:18 AM
2

This is amazing, my mum was the one who asked for a bear. How did you catch on that?! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:16 AM
1

It’s just drive and practice, sis xx it took me 13 years to get here 🌼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:15 AM
1

I used to have a deviantart when I was a teen but I haven’t used it in a decade! Not sure why I lost interest in it. I am thinking of prints but I need to research this more haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:14 AM
2

Thank you xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:02 PM
16

It took me 13 years, haha! To be fair, that is because I am an amateur. I wish I would have gone to art school but I am still happy with what I achieved! And yes, I’m not saying all if them are bad, it’s just that most I’ve met were either super broke, very sexually derranged (known for their extreme fetishes, e.g. Fisting) or both. I would love to meet/be with an artist who is also a HVM tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:58 PM
4

That is actually quite helpful! It took me a while to draw my wolf (2 failed attempts!) but I never thought I could liken it to a bear (the bear was a lot easier for me). This should make it a tad easier for my next attempt. I shall post it when it happens!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:51 PM
4

Thank you, dear ❤️ I still have a lot to learn, it’s my first time actually drawing animals in any style! The bottom left one is supposed to be a bear haha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:39 PM
6

Yes! Also being able to create beauty out of ordinary items is so satisfying! And a project is always amazing to have because it keeps you on track!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:36 PM
46

Yes!! I am very happy that I can work on constructive things. Before levelling up, I would get the urge to download tinder/bumble/etc. because I wanted a distraction and couldn’t bear to be alone because that meant actually addressing myself. It was hard but I managed to get though that and my hobby helped so so sooo much. And yes, I do see what they say. People generally like artsy stuff, low or high value. No one generally is indifferent, especially if it’s a LWM after sex. LWM would almost al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:34 PM
15

Thank you, sis!! I’d have your validation over men’s any day!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:21 PM
10

Thank you! I loved detailing him xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:20 PM
8

Thank you !! I didn’t go to art school, it is a hobby started from when I was 12. I just kept it through!! I don’t sell stuff but I have a fb page where I put my paintings. Dm me if you wanna see (I’m weary of trolls as my page has my personal info)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:18 PM
4

That looks lovely!!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:27 PM
30

Thank you xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:27 PM
4

Yes, I believe it would be conscious and subconscious. It has to do with your current outlook and mentality. You need to build your confidence up and get to understand yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:56 AM
153

Pickmeishas are the way they are because of trauma deep within themselves. They do not consider themselves worthy of the love they want so if a man (whom they consider above their level) shows them minimum effort, they believe that it is the best they can get. (This can be a whole ass topic in itself). Usually, women like this are afraid pf being alone and consider this to be a punishment/shameful. This is due to societal norms, upbringing and/or mental health issues. In the past it was the husb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:22 PM
10

Thry want us to pay them ($2,000) so they can teach us how to be feminine. Us, women. Them, scrotes. Why do I feel so sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:23 AM
115

She is amazing. And defending yourself is a ‘public freakout’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:27 PM
13

My brain is overheating. Someone stop this fool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:25 AM
8

Block his number. If his friends harass you or he contacts you from other numbers, change yours. Never compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:22 AM
5

Ugh, little pubeless kids with a narc’s ego. Worst combo. But also, it must be the teen girls liking them as I am 25yo and they look like children to me. Maximum that I want to ask them is if their balls descended yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:50 AM
1

I want me a Gerald with emotional availability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:43 AM
18

DISGUSTING!! He is twice her age!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:16 AM
141

This is gut wrenching... I have no words, except that I never expected this from the UK police. Her wounds look horrific and they are changing her?! I am crying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:53 AM
12

Sis, get Tiktok and look up the BLM protests. Among heartfelt, educational, extreme, heartbreaking stuff, you get to see GenZ absolutely going ballistic(there was a LLAMA at one, they THROW the teargas back, it is mind blowing). And you also get to support the movement! Or buy a nice book! Or watch Witcher. Anything that you like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:31 PM
4

I feel that you are concerned with this because (in your perspective) it lowers your value. Your value as a women has more dimensions: innate and learned. You innate value revolves around biological factors (child birth, maternal instincts, physical beauty; even if beauty is subjective and can be altered). The learned value revolves around societal norms and expectations (values, virginity, societal femininity, aspect, behaviour). Generally, when a women is concerned about losing her value due t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:41 AM
25

Lol tell me about it! It was ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:26 PM
82

My ex is 7 older older than me. I still remember when I was 24 (he was 31) and his brother jokingly asked me how we cope with the age difference. I jokingly said “I don’t know who is more mature half the time”. He yelled at me at the top of his lungs afterwards, saying things like “how can you even believe you are more mature than me for a second”, “I never want to hear you say this ever again” and more. I never felt so humiliated and put down in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:39 AM
2

I’m happy I could be of help! Everything I said is from my own experience so I can appreciate that I speak in anecdotal terms. Hopefully you will be able to overcome this soon :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:16 PM
11

Do you have a lot of insecurities? If you were dating a man that you thought has significantly more worth than you did (ps no one should ever have more worth in your eyes than yourself) then the fear of losing them can cause major panic and desperation and lead to feelings of ‘guilt’. You might have been socialised to always take accountability, even for minor things you did and to never appear uncaring. This could actually create(or help create) a narrative in your brain where the more remorse …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:54 AM
12

What a fucking lunatic. Do they actually think that we would find them endearing if they insult us?! Side note: I always loved kinky hair. I am white and my hair is so straight but the amount of treatments/perms I got to make it curly; to no avail! And he has the guts to insult that?! Is he even living on this earth?! Wear your hair like a crown sis, it’s beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:44 AM
20

This is lovely! However, has anyone seen the pickmeishas equating this with receiving a blowjob? I mean, such behaviour is appreciated and reciprocated but to treat sex as a commodity(and in this case a reward) on such a thread is very damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:26 AM
33

It’s supply and demand. The more matches they have, the more options they have. They dominated care about you. I don’t like online dating because it’s full of LWM and makes women easily ‘replaceable’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:25 AM
5

This touched something in me. I wish ai could yell this everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:15 PM
45

Absolute true scum. I literally have no words. I fear men like this more than death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:41 PM
16

I started painting again. Also, I was able to socialise and form (or re-form) meaningful connections with people (old and new friends). I used to be miserable all the time and the first time I tasted happiness after him was... it was amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:05 AM
43

As a romanian girl, I can speak for all us (prostitutes included) that we absolutely loathe this type of men. Which is why not even the woman, you have to pay, will ever indulge in this perversion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:20 PM
3

Are you a scrote apologist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:18 AM
-1

You are a HIGH level pickmeisha if you use that word! A “femcell”?! Really?! Do not stoop at men’s levels. If you think you’re that ugly then lose some weight, take care of yourself and/or get surgery. If you don’t love yourself, no one will ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:29 PM
23

Yes, they do exist but this does not necessarily make them HVMs. My ex was pornfree and an abusive cheater. Beware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:40 PM
4

I just broke up because of this. I told him I need more time of his day and attention. He said he probably won’t do that. I just told him thanks for the memories and it would be better if we parted. It sucks but you get over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:31 AM
1

You really think we hate men? Like, sis, you sound like an incel pretending to be a woman who distinguishes herself through her ‘love’ of average men. Sorry of I’m off the rails here but hypocrisy is my ultimate pet peeve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:12 PM
1

Yes, I am going a proper bender when this is all done. Hopefully, it will be soon!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:11 PM
43

I reckon he broke up his family when he decided to violate his wife in this manner. Alas, the question is if you can handle the fallout. I, personally, would do it but it might get legal if she goes to court. Her husband might also be very dangerous. Consider all implications and thread with care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:41 PM
10

I know exactly what you feel like, I’m dreading doing my dissertation as well. Best advice I ever got was “make life easier for yourself”. If you can achieve the degree without doing a dissertation, go for it. No one will judge you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:40 PM
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