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OP did that. I called out the idiocy of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:43 AM
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Maybe you don’t understand English well?? Distance is not severing. It’s reducing closeness. And regarding our internal thoughts, they aren’t just about the opposite gender for gawd sakes! They are about everything and everyone. They are PRIVATE thoughts. All humans have them. Your friends are being influenced and they bleed it out. Thinking for yourself is old school but it’s the proven method of making informed decisions. Few young people choose to do this as they were conditioned to follow. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:00 PM
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This goes better in the incel tears sub. It’s those basement dwellers who have psychotic thoughts about what they deserve. Most men don’t think that way or want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:06 PM
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Nobody said cut them out, but it’s irrational to be close friends with people who don’t value your existence. I have turned friends into acquaintances more than once in my long life, even family. We are what we surround ourselves with. It’s hard to soar like an eagle when you hang out with turkeys. Especially if you remain silent to fester your feelings. And sorry to break it to you, but EVERYONE had thoughts hiding under our carefully crafted outside. We are humans after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:36 PM
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I dunno.. I am tall and was an athlete, and had to put in more effort to remain feminine, and both genders had something negative to say. I didn’t GAF, but it was/is a thing. Everyone has personal preferences and regardless of current trends, they don’t change. Mental evolution in males doesn’t need to morph them into women for gawd sake, but young people are so confused these days. It’s the pendulum swing..going too far in one direction from thousands of years going in the opposite direction. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:32 PM
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And there’s many vapid influencers who say crazy shit for clicks. I’ve seen a lot from that fringe. It’s as vile as incel violence. Avoiding extremists and influencers is prudent. Building your character, personality or moral compass by their paid-for opinions is idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:22 PM
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I’d say you need a more broad range of friends, not just one political type; because there’s a lot more than that perspective. On the same plane, I can’t count how many misogynistic men make disparaging statements about women. I don’t hang out with those men, regardless of physical appearance or financial status, so why do you? I’d never consider them close friends. It makes no sense to. I’m forever disappointed in the low level on both genders, and the sluggishness in evolving; but I’ve learned…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:15 PM
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These extremists are in all aspects of society. They are fringe but should be on our radar and people need to be careful about what they align with. I don’t join groups except to choose candidates and vote. I don’t align with the feminist label yet I’ll go down fighting for women’s rights. I’m a staunch advocate for the environment, but I haven’t found a group that doesn’t push hate towards humans. If you get your moral compass from influencers, it’s on you. SIASD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:24 PM
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He thinks all women are closet gay bc he had one relationship. It’s more than a little odd that you can move past that but hey it’s Reddit and this sub is known for it. He couldn’t defend his all women are gay statement with statistics or facts, just one personal one sided example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:36 AM
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Guys talking about getting pegged a lot these days, dare to comment bro? Ya’ll gay now? Oh you just like how it feeeeeels, this post is soooooo lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:08 AM
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His using his one gf experience to invalidate all women is the attack. My response was reasonable. Everyone has a heartbreak story, but not everyone uses it on Reddit to justify hating or generalizing all women. Especially saying we’re all gay. Preposterous. And YOU did the same with your comment. Study ethics, philosophy and virtue before acting like you’re being civil. You aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:04 AM
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There was no personal attack. Are you typing while loaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:52 AM
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I think the men who evolved to recognize a relationship is a partnership between self sufficient adults are having no problems finding and attracting women. They usually aren’t seeking influencer fakes on TikTok. 😏 why do you? Real life is so much better than cartoons. TikTok is cartoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:44 AM
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Deep state of denial you live in. Your life provides the lessons you need to learn. It’s up to you how quickly you progress. It’s not looking like you’ll be a star pupil in life or love. Prove us wrong if you can. Consider yourself blessed for the limited attention you received today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:32 AM
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Delulu druggie fantasy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:16 AM
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Your cray is deep bro. I pay my way, we bought a house together, share everything and I make more. You pay zero because you’re too scared to play with the grown ups. It’s a bad look. Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:15 AM
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Better work on your skills 🙄 we’re laughing too. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:50 PM
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I met my husband irl, but I dated online before. It’s fine for meeting people, but there’s a lot of garbage to sift through from my experience. The real problem is people can’t be happy in their lane and can’t handle rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:48 PM
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You apparently. There’s no decline of male effort outside of economic factors that affect everyone who isn’t wealthy. I have lots of single friends and they don’t see any of what you say is trending. And nobody gives effort for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:41 PM
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Nobody told him that casual sex hookups never required effort in the first place? Dude needs better friends. The rest is blah blah trying to prop up his weak stance, but was describing actual dating and all the romantic gestures are still happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:29 PM
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🦟 <— checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:22 PM
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In that line of thinking, are all men pedos or murderers since some are? You have a lot to learn about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:09 PM
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Hilarious that since he can’t compete, he threatens to remain single. What changed for women? Nothing, he was a mosquito all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:08 PM
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So because your girlfriend cheated w a girl, now everyone is gay??? lol you need to get out more. I appreciate beauty but I’m def not gay. My husband is straight as can be, never had the dude itch; so I’m on the side saying this is 100% backwards thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:02 PM
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Lmao enjoy freshman class!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:21 AM
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Some men are tired of being called liars. Just be honest about your intentions and own the social reaction. Own the many, many no’s that status brings. Stick with women only seeking hookups, not a relationship. Easy peasy, except for the lies. So many lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:17 AM
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Maybe you need to educate yourself on the whole situation. I’m neither M but the opening of the post describes a misogynist trying to deprive women financially based on sex, cooking and cleaning. The rest you can read.. please do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:04 AM
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I don’t know your cat lady. Maybe you should meet different people to get different results. There’s takers in both genders of course, but why are you following them and focusing on what you can’t afford? It’s voluntary you know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:59 PM
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Congrats on your marriage 😊. I agree, a mate should be chosen freely. If our survival depends on it, it’s not a choice, but a calculated option. Everything after flows from this. These young men have nothing to offer a relationship, so they devolve to the scorned ownership theory. It pushes women further from them, and they stay alone, all because they chose to feel sorry for themselves instead of becoming something that garners respect or admiration, which oftentimes leads to romance. But none …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:56 PM
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Said from someone who still believes men are smarter than women just because they created a system of oppression that kept women out.. lol silly guy. Times are changing. I make more than my husband and it’s not government work lmao. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:04 PM
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I got a fine looking husband for 23 years, a home we worked together for, companionship w great steady sex, and a person who is loyal & strong who protects our family, and happens to love me as much as I love him. I’d say it’s a win. I’ll do the mini yorkie and wine and cruise life if he passes before me. I’m happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:01 PM
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This post was ‘talking crap’ about women.. and? Lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:22 PM
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I’m 23 years married to a great man. My partner, not my boss. I have a career already. So does he. We share household responsibilities including cooking, cleaning and repairing. OP specifically mentioned sex, cooking and cleaning to qualify how well the woman is doing in the relationship, and how much provision she deserves based on his judgement. I addressed that specifically. What I said was not misandrist by any definition. What was posted was misogyny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:21 PM
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Men lose these arguments when women become self sufficient. He needs to hire the help he expects from his partner. She was never an employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:49 PM
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Priorities in dating naturally keep women as gatekeepers. Men and women use dating apps with different goals in mind (men for casual, women for relationships). Most women don’t even use apps. 67% of men do, only 33% of women, and yet women have a 44% success rate while men hover around 5%. Women are valued at all ages, as there’s want of companionship at all ages with willing partners at/of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:04 PM
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Written by someone who’s never experienced human sexual interactions, no doubt - although I’ll admit it must seem odd from the outside looking in. Like watching another species. Or watching adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:57 AM
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I don’t reflect on dating privilege as I’m now married and it is a newer (guilt/shame/shift) construct. I’m grateful for the freedoms and opportunities I have living where I do, and recognize many women worldwide aren’t as fortunate. I was not fortunate growing up, treated horrendously and in poverty, which led to some poor choices; but I am considered attractive by some. I don’t feel guilty or the need to diminish myself for being born as I was. So what changes for you? How do you benefit in kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:45 PM
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Yes, youth (-30) is the time of trial and error in dating (and life). Of course there will be errors on both sides. Hopefully we learn from those. Looks can be deceiving and people lie. Welcome to reality; it’s not a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:05 PM
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What it seems you are saying is CERTAIN women would be more willing to hookup if they knew it would end in a relationship. That’s already been happening and it’s been a fallacy. Casual sex with strangers is playing roulette and the house usually wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:51 AM
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Jaded much or too much social media? I don’t think it’s true for most couples in modern times in the West. Immature young couples who had poor examples have more power/control/adulting struggles but it’s rarely to keep her a helpless prisoner, it’s usually insecurity. Western women are focused on independence but many welcome the break if they can get it. The control dynamic definitely happens throughout Muslim cultures though. Can’t work, can’t drive, no voice or choice etc. My husband would lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:33 PM
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You’re very dim buddy. Stay in school. There’s zero connection between your idealized excessive casual sex and reality. You’re ASSuming women are like animalistic men only interested in penetrating anything that moves. We’re not (w some exceptions - like some men aren’t actually pigs).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:14 PM
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Usually unattractive women have higher standards than unattractive men, so no she is not failing, she would rather be alone than w a no. That’s a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:15 PM
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Once we have the right mindset with the right partner, it’s effortless. That’s usually close to or after age 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:53 PM
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I second this emotion 🖤 and I’ll add the minimization of SA stats also allows this mindset to fester. They always fail to mention that over 60% of sexual assaults against women are never reported. So if 17% are reported as raped, imagine the others as well as the range of sexual assaults that leads to rape. It’s not that the information is hard to access, they just refuse to acknowledge that it’s a 100% male problem. But keep blaming women. We’re used to it, and would rather go solo or wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:43 PM
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Preteen years shape this. Culture too. Our type isn’t set usually. Life experiences can change it. Even if a man fits my physical preferences, once he opens his mouth, it can change instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:15 PM
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Just because you haven’t experienced female lust, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. LMFAO ask my husband who wanted him on T and why. The universal balance is that women don’t usually experience the fullness of this until they have mentally matured (close to and over 30), giving men a chance to catch up to a life of responsibility and commitment, not just carnal hedonism. Hopefully you and other complaining men take this to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:26 PM
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A married woman has a lot of sex, if she wants it. But you ASSume promiscuously. You’re the troll.🧌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:24 AM
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Whatever you believe is true (for you). I am not one who hates a gender, but there’s definitely reasons to be wary. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:19 AM
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Hopefully any woman dating you is well informed before she lets you impregnate her. Stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:27 PM
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We were NOT talking about violent crime as a whole, that was your deflection and muddying the waters. There’s no way in hell your arguments diminishing violence against women are effective in gaining access to women, it’s simply insane. Go away. Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:30 PM
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No it is not the same. I’m glad we agree that strange men are the threat for violence against both men and women; and US stats say 17.7% of women have experienced rape by a man, and yes that is less than the global average of 30%, but it doesn’t show safety for women, just a lesser chance of harm in certain cultural demographics. Then there’s SA, which has higher stats. We can have other posts and discussions about male on male violence and gangs and infant deaths; but this is a conversation abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:54 PM
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That wasn’t my point. How would women even know that who didn’t approach them are still not approaching them? And you mentioned mom, of course moms care; but where’s dad, uncle and males? That’s who shy boys need at this particular stage in life to learn from and emulate to be confident men, who aren’t scared to talk to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:15 PM
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If you think women in the states are safe, you’re disconnected. Look at crime statistics. Just bc it’s not a daily threat from multiple directions, doesn’t change the fact that women are in danger around strange men. I don’t know you personally and was referring to the post of hating women (duh), and congrats on your dating success and look at you defending what you claim to not do, or just be a thorn to argue what isn’t your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:55 AM
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Have that convo w race, see how far you get. DV and SA still happen, so who TF cares about when we were born? Looking worldwide, women are still in danger from men. This is the base of our distrust. Your lack of orgasms and access to partners is your base of hating my gender. So go and hate, be my guest. It only hurts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:10 PM
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You’re on something. I said nothing of the sort. I don’t care if people hate bc they have their reasons. This is a fact. It doesn’t mean I hate or think it’s a good thing to hate. Men hate women and women hate men. Sfw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:39 AM
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What triggered? It’s just that if someone never approached bc shy and now won’t approach bc shy, what changed? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:36 AM
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I’m stating facts and you’re stuck on hurt feelings. There is no gender war ffs. I don’t hate all of any group of people. It’s ignorant. I can help those who choose to understand, and I’m not phased by your petty little quips after you couldn’t continue rational discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:06 AM
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😂 I’m a very happy person and you posted about hating women, but nice elementary virgin try 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:27 PM
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So women are supposed to panic because the shy guys who couldn’t muster enough courage to talk to women in the first place, are deciding to stay shy? 🤔🙄😆😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:25 PM
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It’s actually not going to end until the harm stops. The rates of SA and DV shows there’s still a lot of men who didn’t get the memo. Looking at the entire world, the shift to gender equality has barely started. Buckle in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:18 PM
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I don’t know what a 2 feels like, and I don’t think a man or woman will complain about dating up. Just because we have different standards, doesn’t make one effort easier than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:09 PM
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Who said anything about religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:05 PM
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Except life does strike the innocent. Kids suffer their parents bad acts for life. Look at the foster system. Horrific, and they did nothing. But in general I agree that we shouldn’t make current men pay for past men’s actions except those who act like past men; but we shouldn’t be surprised when there’s a large reaction to the immense ills of the past, which undeniably affects current generations. So I don’t believe in hating an entire sex, but I really don’t care if other people do. We all hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:04 PM
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The funny part is that universal karma is currently visiting men based on bad actions towards women for thousands of years. Maybe eat crow before trying to make similarities. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:06 PM
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Not really bc it’s not general access he complains about, but access to what he’s not eligible for. The struggle isn’t harder for him though bc there’s plenty of 2’s. I’d say it’s harder for a woman to find a faithful and trustworthy man, especially if she’s attractive and wants a similar level of attractiveness in her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:03 PM
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For looks: True that those who have lower standards will have more partners. True is also that some think they deserve better than they really do. For people that stay in their lane, there’s no shortage of partners available. The world has millions of below average and average couples. The problem exists when a 2 wants an 8, and rages how unfair it is that she doesn’t reciprocate. Find another 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:48 PM
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It’s just a deflection from singles and both sexes say it. I found someone who thinks I’m worth it and I think he is too. Millions of couples agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:11 AM
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It was rooted in the historic male dominated world. Women were/are treated as secondary in many countries and cultures. Women’s rights, access to higher education and participation in governance, or even becoming doctors and scientists is still new in the scope of history. As more women are involved, we’ll get some more focus on women’s health.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:34 AM
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Except you did by saying bisexual people should intentionally seek out same, and I just pointed out the comment you replied to that said hetros and gay people were phobic for not wanting bisexuals..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:59 PM
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I think it’s more about power dynamics and the immediate goals than anything. Some men enjoy the dance/chase and don’t necessarily want a more assertive partner. Rejection is part of life and I don’t think it’s anywhere near 90% success rates for women who pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:55 PM
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I know right?! It’s easier to catch a cheater than ever before, and we knew by age 20 that high school young promises had nothing to do with adult dating. OP will figure this out too. We were just thrown in faster and harder than most people are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:08 PM
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Staying in one’s lane and/or being 100% transparent while dating is a smart and safe choice regardless of the lane you’re in. Isn’t that why the lanes were created? To reduce risk of harm and increase chances of pairing with someone who has the same sexuality? It’s not phobic to maintain our preference, nor is having a reaction to it being infringed, yet a comment above yours is saying just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:54 PM
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Haters hate, who cares? I live my life, not theirs and “they” don’t matter in my life. Not even a blip on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:05 PM
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I like words 📖✍🏼🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:57 PM
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You skimmed there, but it boils down to personal choice/taste/preference for a variety of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:21 AM
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Keen observation. Except for harm, do whatever makes you happy; but OP is right, tolerance is not indicative of attraction. I faced scenarios like this while dating, and I always felt the need to disengage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:16 PM
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After for him, but before for me. If I don’t fully trust him, I will not be able to relax enough. This is common in women and why casual sex didn’t work the same as it did for men, unless it’s an already known person. That doesn’t mean that it’s not enjoyable, especially when drinking, but the O is usually not involved for me and many others. There was only one exception for me, and I married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:13 PM
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I must bond to O. Is that simple enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:12 PM
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I think you need to define coercion and define what rights women and children have that you want removed. Governments already coerce by giving penalties for committing crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:02 PM
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I don’t have a clue why SOME women ignore questions and use their response time as a platform. Maybe they hate all men? Do you answer for the men who are clueless or hostile to women? Maybe they hate all women? People sometimes suck, people have biases, people are confused. That’s why. I don’t defend anything I don’t agree with, nor bash for thrills or inner satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:42 PM
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Actually unless he reproduced with a psychopath, the mother will prioritize her child over a grown man. It’s nature. These men should grow up and do more or pay for more help for mom so she’s not ragged and sex is the last thing on her mind (she also knows sex is ultimately why she’s tired now/ultimate consequence of the act).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:17 PM
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For you maybe.. that was included in my comment that some opt out instead of helping the evolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:11 PM
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Coercive tactics like enacting & enforcing laws I’d definitely agree to. It needs to be worldwide and regardless of race/religion too. We have tiered laws in various countries and cultures that need the be updated to enact/enforce human rights for children and women. Until that day, we will have gender unfairness and the fight continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:10 PM
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Then stop looking at all those sugar communities if you don’t like the way they choose to be. They don’t hold the majority of dating age women anyway, so it’s a waste of time/counterproductive if you want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:10 AM
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One is preference and the other is an emotional reaction. Women have dealt with not being selected forever, same as men. It’s natural to not be #1 to everyone. It sucks, but it’s not about a moral failure unless it’s a moral failure that brought about the rejection or if the rejection brings about a moral failing in his character, like becoming toxic towards the opposite gender, instead of reflective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:35 AM
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Did one of those models cancel a date with you for Tate? Did you have a chance before him? Who cares what models do? You aren’t on their ladder climbing radar, and you’re not being denied bc Tate gets them first. And in a world with 8.3 billion total people, and over 1.6 billion being dating age (20-35), only a few thousand are even allowed around the gross Tate types. It’s just not true. Stay in your lane and learn that nobody cares that you want what apparently doesn’t want you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:55 PM
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I think there’s a lot put on the last few decades, and humans have interacted and survived together for many thousands of years; so we shouldn’t throw the towel in quite yet. As societies shift to more evolved ways of thinking in how we treat each other, there will be residual challenges & some will opt out, but there’s always been a sector who doesn’t participate, choosing to rage against the inequality instead of finding their path/happiness/mate. But we aren’t done yet, the world is a big pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:12 PM
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I broke up when the zing was gone. It’s effed u to stay imo but OP probably just wants to keep access.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:52 PM
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One tiny tidbit of advice I got from my dad was to avoid joining religious or political groups. What I observe about the modern feminist movement from the outside looking in reaffirms that it was a good choice for me personally. The pendulum swung so far, there’s going to be a period of turmoil until it settles in a better place. It’s turned political and toxic imo. I’ve processed my own life, my experiences and I hate only the men who harm, but I’m not lumping all men together. I’m not in favor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:42 PM
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Most people already make it obvious if they like someone. The only real move I’ve ever made w a man lead to our eventual marriage, though, so I think you aren’t wrong. If women pursue, it’s on their terms and they know what they want, where most guys do just about anybody. That is preferable to hoping a guy you’ve crushed on asks you out. It cleans up the mess and it’s easier to ignore/avoid the ho-men. But it takes self confidence in women too, and that is just starting to happen in society. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:16 PM
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My confident husband can be an asshole. I can be an asshole too. We’re both this way and we were attracted to the other partly because of it. Confidence comes with a sprinkle of ego, which is natural but we can let it go too far without managing ourselves daily. My xBF was a full blown narcissist but at first I saw it as confidence and intelligence. Time always tells though, so the bf didn’t last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:21 PM
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Get a job son
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:11 PM
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I’m NOT in my teens/early 20’s. I’m 55. I know far too much about the real world (and how propaganda is used to manipulate the youth).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:39 AM
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Or I’m not in my teens/early 20’s. 😆It’s you who has tunnel vision but it’s pretty normal for people until they get serious about life. But good luck whatever life you build for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:18 AM
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No, the socials and manipulated polls. Get outside, go meet real people.. it’s not like you imagine from the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:06 PM
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You’re biting the hook designed to keep you single. Same same in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:59 PM
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I’m not talking about those who were harmed by men. I’m not talking about those who are told how to think by socials. I’m talking about thinking women. I’m correct, but you’re choosing to believe these manipulated polls and articles. So be it, you’ll self fulfill your thoughts. If you’re negative, you’ll get negativity from life. No woman wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:50 PM
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A lot compared with..? How old are you? Your attachment style left unchecked will help you recycle similar partners and relationship patterns until you’re aware and modify who you want to be and why you work against that end. You literally create the dynamic you complain about, self fulfilling your idealization about relationships and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:50 AM
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Every straight woman I know loves decent menLook at the political and funding sources of the polls you believe are true. How much experience do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:49 AM
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No I don’t agree with you saying women are scared or frightened by men playing games to get a submissive. It’s laughable except for the few in both sexes who like playing games. Sounds like high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:41 AM
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You’re pushing a projection of what you HOPE is true for women, but it’s not. Especially in this time in America. There will always have a group of both sexes that do circus tricks to get the other circus performers attention; but unlike men using this aloofness as a tactic to get the most desperate enough to subvert their self, women are realizing their value and not compromising and the last thing we want is a power struggle, but to become a power couple. One that has mutual respect and growth…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:27 PM
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People do all kinds of crazy stuff to get laid. It doesn’t have anything to do with women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:51 AM
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Young men have been a concern forever based on historical evidence of violence. They have undeveloped minds with a new rush of hormones. Easy to rile. Now they act like victims and women are their enemy. That’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:55 PM
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I’m attracted to what I find attractive and sometimes they are assholes. I’ve fine tuned my radar to spot and reject quickly. It’s a good skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:36 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:33 PM
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This is untrue because, as I said and the world shows, there’s millions of couples who aren’t considered hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:02 PM
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Acting confused as they rate women by body part and attractiveness. Stupid is..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:24 AM
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No it means that people match in their attractiveness level. There’s many unattractive couples who are happy and have great lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:08 AM
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Right, we’re human. Chemistry/attraction is a prerequisite in developing a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:52 PM
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Why do you ask? I’ve had great life experiences in and outside of relationships. I think the search for love and companionship is important to those who desire it. I think the search for knowledge and understanding are also important, in or outside of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:43 PM
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It’s best for some men to exit the room with whatever rationalization they can muster. Do so peacefully and without incident. Thank you for your self awareness. You won’t be missed, but you already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:37 PM
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I don’t think they know what a romantic relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:24 PM
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You’re right, I’m extraordinarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:15 PM
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You are shallow in your understanding of women (or are you referring to teens?). Both mine and u/LUCKY_PRESSUR3 scenarios were in person meetings, and both didn’t go to casual sex at first sight 😂🙄. All humans have the attraction factor and if it’s there, proceed in measured steps. When someone isn’t receptive, move on. Story as old as time for both men and women. Attractiveness is the first step, not the only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:12 PM
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There’s a small group of men who accept woman hating, and women who accept man hating. It’s not tolerated by all, but it happens. Taste the bitterness of bias and stereotypes. Everyone feels it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:53 AM
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That’s blatantly false too. People meet outside their friend group all the time. My husband was a customer at my deli. He didn’t do any of the behaviors OP seems to think are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:28 PM
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There’s a scale of expression you’re seemingly unaware of. I’m creeped out if ANY male stranger, out of the blue without any previous interactions “compliments my body, calls me sexy, says he wants casual sex with me (showing obvious lust)”. That’s fucking disgusting. Control yourself and learn how to interact with women. Idk if it’s a culture thing from this op or he’s young and immature with little life experience, but the way this is put out is weird and creepy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:29 PM
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I do and I have a lifetime prescription to tint my car windows dark because of it. It’s most common with light colored eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:33 PM
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Uhm shitty people exist. Some are uglier than others. Everyone knows that. What is the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:09 PM
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Sounds like you’re lumping a lot w the all women see all men in any sort of way. Why do you want the hater type women anyway? It’s okay to look past those who aren’t a good fit, and mismatched never lasts so it’s a giant waste of time. But if you dress and act the part, you can have the same success as boss man did in PA. He wears caps, Harley shirts and jeans. Not a suit/tie type, but he’s confident and works out some, smiles at people, makes eye contact, and it was well received in that low ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:02 PM
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When it became a notable issue for whom? Men who ran the banks. I’m no hater but facts are facts. Like POC, women were only given rights because of pushback (and bc men ‘needed’ them to work). Times haven’t changed as much as we’d hoped though. It’s still the elites who believe they can issue and remove rights to everyone else. —— And you didn’t fully respond, just cherry picked one issue. I’d like you to realize you don’t have it worse than women, and by a huge margin; and that you were wrong i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:51 PM
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I don’t deny males are experiencing a pushback. Interestingly humans have no problem punishing new gens for old gen errors, so I’m sure it feels unfair if you’re not into being a tool regarding women. Many people can empathize with that in modern culture. Not quite the same way as women experienced harm/hate/preds though lol.. it’s not even close to what women went through because you’re not in danger financially or physically — but I get it. I’m tall, pretty, green eyed blonde. It was especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:28 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:58 PM
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What is ‘it’ referring to in holding her interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:56 PM
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I’m not. Read my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:55 PM
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I didn’t advocate for sexless relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:57 PM
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I know men who were sexually abused. They wouldn’t agree w this premise. It’s pure incel puke. The same guys who claim they want to be harassed or assaulted are those who want to r@pe comatose women to wet their dicks. Garbage human diarrhea is all this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:52 PM
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It’s obvious when a man is feigning interest just to get sex. I don’t think that is 90% of men, but it may be the majority of young men. It’s shallow and ignorant. What is there to HOLD her interest? What will you say when she sees you as a fraud? Once you know you can’t unknow. Change your thoughts to be more than orgasm based or you’ll never truly live or love. Life and relationships are so much more than this. Get a sex doll until you figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:35 PM
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I know manhaters and woman haters. It’s the same for both. Warped thinking isn’t gender specific. We just fixate on what the relationship does for us and take a risk. I avoid the haters. They never own mirrors. Life is too short to give them any of my energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:01 PM
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That’s off base though - garbage human is one with lack of virtue, character, morals or ethics; it’s nothing to do with testosterone. And I tend to agree that if a woman says things like that, she’s bisexual or lesbian. But inundated is a super stretch because you’re only considering manipulated social media platforms, not in real life. Certain areas also have more women, less men. My decent looking but not hot man boss went to PA and was stared at like a movie star and was told there’s not many…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:18 PM
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Anyone who has sex outside of a committed monogamous relationship is ‘using’ the other person’s body for sex. We should all acknowledge this and act accordingly. This is high school stuff. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:11 PM
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You are so off base on just about everything you said, it’s crazy and unbelievable! Like I think you’re fucking around with your ridiculous post. Something for you to look forward to - my nephew is a caregiver and says it’s always the old men who want sex favors and they say they don’t care who does it. He quits those pervs of course, but always men, never the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:22 PM
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If you think this is true, how hard is it to look past those women to find a suitable partner? And what metric do you use in determining whether someone ‘over’ values themselves? What is ‘value’ to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:22 PM
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Sounds like you need to seek out some new subs. Or better still, unplug and make real connections with real people. We don’t want garbage men anymore than men don’t want garbage women, but you’re lumping too much and op is stretching it to women prefer each other over men and that’s just not true for the vast majority called straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:13 PM
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What subs do you visit? Maybe change where you’re looking for women. Straight people only want the opposite biological sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:50 PM
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People can be 💩 on every side of everything. It’s why I don’t join things. Stay away from 💩 people. They are easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:24 PM
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I think that 99% number depends on age, social feeds and politics in large part. It’s been strategically trending for two decades but accelerated in the last decade. Probably partly why younger men are seeking older women in bigger numbers than in decades past. Hopefully more people reject the programming and start interacting and thinking for themselves IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:52 PM
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Actually the sociopolitical programming got to this one too.. whatever you look for, you will find. I find it tragically fascinating seeing how easily it was proven that propaganda affects youth the deepest. Destroying the nuclear family has been a political scheme for decades and we’re seeing the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:06 PM
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Only made that mistake twice. Both regretted. Risk/reward isn’t in women’s favor especially if drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:56 PM
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I think everyone knows what average is, but the issue is everyone wants something they aren’t qualified for. Let’s let those 1% chase, ghost, and 💔each other and the rest of the world keeps living. How about staying in our lane and stop complaining about not getting one of those 1% people who typically are garbage humans anyway? Also it doesn’t take perfectionism or massive ego to workout and socialize to become better at conversations so you don’t fumble around the 98%. Quityerbitchen is the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:12 PM
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I call it Regret.. and thankfully I have discernment before I get naked, unless I was stupid drunk when I was younger.. thus the regret part, not being on my game to avoid the trap I’d easily pass over if in my right mind— and why men ply women with alcohol (they know doping is their only chance). Ewww to all of that. I’m glad I’m not single anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:54 PM
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And usually regretted tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:47 PM
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That’s hilarious because convenient doesn’t mean desirable, just adequate for tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:58 PM
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I see extremists like those guys using religion as their primary source; and I’m not in their religion. So it would take more than not following the influencers. I’d need to see how and why their minds changed, and to what degree. I don’t want a social, political or religious zealot. I want a free thinking person who works to evolve themselves over time. He was hard to find, but I finally did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:00 PM
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I see extremists like those guys using religion as their primary source; and I’m not in their religion. So it would take more than not following the influencers. I’d need to see how and why their minds changed, and to what degree. I don’t want a social, political or religious zealot. I want a free thinking person who works to evolve themselves over time. He was hard to find, but I finally did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:59 PM
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I’m not part of any gender specific political type culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:51 PM
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Wow 😮 go be gay and brave and leave women out of it. You’re not interested in women and we don’t care what gay people think about our straightness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:26 PM
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Sexual chemistry is part of the initial eval, but it’s a bunch of fleeting thoughts until I know the person. It grows or fades from the initial assessment based on the way the guy conducts himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:19 PM
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Are minors allowed in this bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:39 AM
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This whiner dribble could be rewritten to men just as easily.. has game to get laid, feigns care to get laid, works out to get laid. As soon as they hook, they get lazy and fat or cheat. They used women to satisfy their dick, not because they are deep enough to feel love or have a mutually beneficial relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:10 AM
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There’s always been people who trade sex for what they want. Nothing new.. Tate is rich and famous, shallow women want the fade of his glow, want financial security and want attention. The majority of thinking women run from this, but there’s thirsty low levelers always available.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:13 PM
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Gaps that big are Eww to me on many levels. 🙂‍↔️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:48 PM
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Everyone is basically taught this now. Low effort isn’t going to get you far in life or love. Men should be taught that if they don’t evolve their minds with their muscles, they’ll still be alone in the long run or repeatedly divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:41 PM
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I showed the link in another comment. It’s not made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:13 PM
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I read that 10-30% of men perpetuate violence against women. Where did you find only 3%? That 3% would really have to be getting around to harm a quarter of all women. I’d also argue that shitty behavior and violence aren’t comparable at all. If 3 m&m’s in a bowl of 100 would kill you, how eager are you to grab one? Now increase that to 10-30 are poison.. how many men are being assaulted by women? 🍎🍊
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:56 PM
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I agree. Always and never are rarely reasonable.. people with these hangups should be in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:37 PM
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Stat from https://worldmetrics.org/porn-watching-statistics/ I find it incredibly interesting how angry some men come off/react/justify/rationalize this issue. I never bully anyone, believing in freedom of choice 💯, and in actuality it’s men usually bullying/gaslighting women to continue consuming it; but we had a convo early on about the issues/consequences of my xH addiction to it. He’s who said he’s not into it or strippers, thinks it’s dumb and never had issues finding suitable real women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:03 PM
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As a woman I appreciate the nice dates but not necessarily as a first date. That’s pure posturing for top spot in a game where the woman dangles her wares for the highest bidder. It doesn’t stop at the date. My boss #1 won top spot and married the hot girl, who has broke his bank for years, and raised his blood pressure with wanting more, more, more. Never satisfied. Boss #2 met his lady and they hiked, picnicked, rode ATV’s and had normal dates. She’s a great wife, he’s a happy husband. We get …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:06 PM
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I’m not interested in policing my partner’s M time, and it was him who explained how he’s not into porn or watching adult dancers. It’s refreshing after being married to someone addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:48 PM
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In my case I know what he does, but in many cases I’d agree that partners are not acting the same way as when they are with their partner; but I’d say this for both sexes, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:07 PM
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I never said people don’t find other people attractive, of course everyone does, and 31% of men don’t consume porn at all. I had a hard time believing my husband about this, but it’s proven true throughout 23 years of marriage. My exH was addicted to it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:05 PM
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Coordinated push..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:47 PM
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I agree that it’s different for the men trying to break from the gender/sexuality roles/identites. I haven’t heard a man sing, ‘I kissed a guy and I liked it’, while it’s aggressively pushed on women to be more fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:36 PM
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The goal is to only consider your partner, whether naked with them or not. I’ve sent my husband pics and clips from videos we’ve made together, when he’s out of town, and he says it’s much better bc it’s only for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:44 PM
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Liking women and wanting sexual relationships with women are two entirely separate things. Hit your thumb..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:13 AM
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Same.. at some point the future must be considered and those who don’t give up the party days/ways aren’t great choices. Past partners teach us a lot esp recent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:43 PM
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The history convo happened early in every serious relationship I’ve had. I called it judgement day. It was more me grilling than the guys, and I definitely paid attention to the quality of past partners in my development of opinions on the guy. There were a lot of no’s. I gave and expected grace for a dumb choice, but overall it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:33 PM
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I didn’t stigmatize anyone by expressing my life choice. I’m well aware of why sex happens too lmao. My point is virtues aren’t part of hookup culture, and if someone wants those qualities, look elsewhere. The post was about how people are treated. A person is going to be treated better by someone who respects them and would be loyal to them. It’s silly to complain that hookup guys are treating women as anything but convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:06 PM
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I don’t care what random men think, don’t do hookups or advertise my sexuality; and believe it or not, not all men want casual sex even if it’s easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:54 PM
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Insecure are those women (and maybe a couple guys) pressured to hookup when they’re really interested in a mutually loving relationship. My refusal to participate in this silly notch game means I’m more valuable than hookups. If hookups are feeling-less skinmashing, how is respect or loyalty part of that? It’s not. Casual sex doesn’t involve respect or loyalty, it’s all grind and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:16 PM
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Like attracts like and you get what you invest in. Anyone who would hookup without knowing you, would do so with others too. If you’re okay knowing that, fine. If you want respect and loyalty, avoid hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:21 PM
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When getting together, I agree. No reason to commit to someone you’re not sexually compatible with. There’s a whole different story as we age together, in good relationships anyway. There’s periods of less and more, sickness and health, kids and aging parents, and even a renewal of youth. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:33 PM
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That’s interesting to even ponder considering women are barely recognized for having rights, still don’t have them in much of the world, are continually threatened, and men have ran the show on who gets rights the world over forever before this modern push for equality. You must’ve never heard It’s a Man’s world. I’m curious what rights you believe you aren’t getting but deserve?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:55 PM
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Insecure people bend down, confident people reach up. It’s best not to date until you get your head straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:06 PM
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This is not true in my life experience. I’ve suffered as much or more from women assholes as from men. Their cruelty was a result of religion, ignorance, poor impulse control and making a choice to harm. It’s been the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:28 PM
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