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| 0 | Does this sound like sex addiction?How the hell do you jerk off 8x a day? That would hurt my dick | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Men's style 101I disagree, you should do both at the same time. Even if you're overweight or not in great shape, you should always be trying. Your insecurities do not magically go away when you get in better shape, and practicing game helps deal with that. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Men's style 101You're absolutely correct but unfortunately you're getting downvoted by neckbeards who buy their clothes at Walmart. As an anecdote, the girl I'm dating now was initially attracted to me because of my style. The first time I met her she said I was the best dressed dude she knew. And I'm not in great shape like these celebs, just skinny fat with maybe a tiny bit of muscle. Style absolutely makes a difference to women, regardless of how fit you are. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Men's style 101Even an out of shape person looks better in stylish clothes vs a hideous camo T-Shirt from Walmart. Style advice is always relevant regardless of body type. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Men's style 101You don't just go from chubby to not chubby overnight. He's gotta wear clothes in between that time. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Fat guy looking for PRETTY girlsYou don't "have to eat a lot of fast food". You choose to eat it. Learn to cook so you can eat delicious foods you like at home that are healthier. For example, you can make a burger at home with leaner ground beef that is higher in protein and lower in calories. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.I'm dead lol | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls is easyTrue. American guys struggling should get tickets to Colombia, Brazil or Thailand. SMV skyrockets. The new problem you'll face is finding a quality girl. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Getting girls is easyGo to /r/tinder, you'll see dudes blow it all the time And it's not just about fucking up but also keeping her interested enough that she actually wants to meet you. The majority of the girls I've met off OLD wanted to talk for longer than 5 messages before meeting up. EDIT: Also dude, have you ever actually talked to a girl? They're more emotional than men and it's easy to say the wrong thing and turn them off. If it was all just physical attraction, then good looking guys would never strike ou… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Getting girls is easyThere's no way to attract someone that isn't at least somewhat attracted to you. But there's a lot of ways to fuck up with someone who is. If you said something in those 5 messages that turned them off, they wouldn't be down to meet. Period. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Will women care, how a guys body looks like, if its only for a one night standIf you get her into bed, it won't matter | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Is cold approach overrated now?Let me just put it this way: if you walk up to a cute girl on the street and you're kind of charming, she will probably give you her number. But that same girl will swipe left on you on Tinder without thinking twice because she has a buffet of men to pick from while she's sitting on the toilet. But with that said, you should do both. Sourcing from multiple avenues seems like a no brainer. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:13 AM |
| 12 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?That girl is a bitch, plain and simple. That response is not normal for a basic "hi, how are you". Just be thankful she let you know right off the bat before you could invest anything into her. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | how do you game very attractive girls in their mid-20s if you're 10+ years older?Sounds like something a woman over 30 would say. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 3 | how do you game very attractive girls in their mid-20s if you're 10+ years older?No, it's because you're negatively correlating playing videos games with being financially stable. I'm a software engineer and can assure you this is not the case. We all have different ways to unwind at the end of a long work day. Do you feel the same way about watching TV? Because I don't see why coming home to watch 4+ hrs of television is superior to someone playing video games for the same length of time. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Is there a really good Tinder\dating apps mentor?You just need high quality pictures. Hire a photographer or get a friend with a good camera to take pictures of you. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesGoing indirect is only good if you're experienced at cold approach. Most guys will not know how to convert it into a man to woman conversation, and the girl will stand there thinking "what does this guy want?" | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps even worth the headache?I see it as the dating version of protein powder. Do you need it to build muscle? No. Is it a useful supplement for building muscle? Yes OLD is just an additional source for meeting women. It doesn't require as much effort/thought as cold approach -- you can be taking a shit and texting your matches. Just don't take it too seriously and you'll be happier. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | This experience instilled my fear in approaching women.It can happen but it's 1/10000. Hardly proves any kind of trend. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachThat goes without saying. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:44 AM |
| 13 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachbut girls seem to go out to bars and clubs to enjoy the time with their friends rather than meet guys Not true from my experience. If you watch those girls closely, you'll find them looking around the room (in some cases, sending out choosing signals to particular men) hoping someone comes up to them. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.You'll find some negative stuff about it on reddit, some people seem to think the end product does not "look natural". But I'll tell you, everyone I've ever told about it has been in shock. They straight up just don't believe me when I tell them I had work done on my head -- they think I have a full head of hair and just shave my head. The key to having it look natural is to be modest about the design of your hairline. You also have to make sure the practitioner produces high quality work. And o… | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 11:46 PM |
| 3 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.https://www.aheadink.com/gallery Scalp micropigmentation. It's kind of like a tattoo but it does not go as deep into your skin as a real tattoo. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.I got SMP done. Very happy with it, it's a good option for guys that can rock the shaved head look. Also super low maintenance which is a plus. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Want to give dating apps a try. Looking for general advice and resources on setting up a profile and what to expectAnother thing that is not usually mentioned is that you basically have to "date down" as a guy on dating apps. The whole thing is skewed -- a girl that's like a 5/10 in terms of attractiveness will have 500 likes in 24 hours. And you, a guy that's maybe a 7/10 will get maybe 1 or 2 matches per week (or even month). She has all the options in the world, and you have barely any. So what ends up happening sometimes is that you go on dates with girls you're not even that attracted to. My advice: dit… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:22 PM |
| – | Do you consider guys around the age of 30(28-31)weirdos if they haven’t kissed a girl, lost their virginity or maybe never had a girlfriend?The question is, are you actually asexual or are you just not getting laid? Because I tried to convince myself at one point that I was asexual, but in reality I just didn't want to face the truth that I had zero self-confidence and was terrified of rejection. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Tinder makes me depressed!Same here but I'm in NYC. Pre-pandemic, around 2018-2019 I didn't have much trouble getting matches and dates. I used Hinge, Bumble and Tinder. I had at least 1 date every week with a decently attractive women. I should mention that I'm a very average looking dude too, the only thing that might be slightly above average is my height (I'm 5'11). I downloaded these apps 3 days ago and Hinge is by FAR the worst of them now...I don't mean to sound harsh but 95% of the women on it are just straight u… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 2 | I seem to feel inferior to modern, rich big city girls?Where/how are you meeting these girls? | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Meeting girls in NYCNight clubs and bars. There's no shortage. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 09:15 PM |
| – | Lack of romantic chemistryAs others have said, you were moving way too slow. I had the same issue when I started dating years ago. My first few dates with girls ended similar, I'd get texts after the date that would say "I didn't feel any chemistry" or "we'd be better off as friends". How to fix this: first thing's first, you have to break the touch barrier on the first date. That means going in for the hug when you first meet (if she's cool with it), putting your hand on her shoulder when you're talking, holding her han… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 17 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?So many of these guys are gonna die virgins because they literally don't leave their house/apartment/room. I know I easily could have if I didn't seek to change. You don't know how attractive you are until you actually put yourself out there, and some guys never will because they're too afraid of rejection. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Last Night while banging my booty call I told herCool story bro | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How often do girls look at you?I live in Manhattan so it's kind of impossible to not look at anyone. I try not to put any stock into girls looking at me when on the street. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Can't tell if this girl was into me or just playfully friendly.Nah man it's all in your head. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Your looks don’t matter, but your LOOK does! - The concept of IconographyMost PUA's on youtube will not admit that their good looks are helping with their success Looks definitely matter, but how do you explain guys like Vadim from Honest Signalz? He's a bald, skinny-fat dude, not what typically comes to mind when someone thinks "good looking". Even Todd himself isn't some supermodel. He's got a dad bod and an average face (though great hair for a guy his age, to be fair). | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 08:57 PM |
| 15 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Man, I wish I had the room to cook. I barely have a kitchen. That's NYC for you :( | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:53 PM |
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