MindsetRoulette Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Conan on sexism Men: They call each other cunts, dicks, and everything in between, yet still better at being friends than women.	/r/MensRights	25/06/15 04:29 PM
6	Expelled male student sues college for faulty rape trial Sure, but in all fairness if it was the other way around, just being intoxicated would be enough to label him the rapist.	/r/MensRights	21/06/15 12:40 AM
33	Expelled male student sues college for faulty rape trial Mathematics and logic was created by old white Greek men, so that's out too.	/r/MensRights	21/06/15 12:28 AM
6	Married man from r/DeadBedrooms gets fed up. Applies every single RP principle by the book, without even knowing about RP. Results are as predictable as you'd expect. Oh I'm not saying I'm moral right, in fact I consider it a deep seeded flaw. Just a deep seeded hangup I haven't been able to shake. Regardless of how much my So enjoys or wants it, there are certain behaviors/mentalities I feel morally apposed to. Most likely an over reaction to too much abusive men and I walled off anything I felt was too close in that direction. Not saying Red Pill is abusive at all, just my youthful reaction.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/15 04:55 PM
13	Married man from r/DeadBedrooms gets fed up. Applies every single RP principle by the book, without even knowing about RP. Results are as predictable as you'd expect. I am morally apposed to a lot of the Red Pill mentality, but what bothers me the most is how successful it can be. So I'm over here unable and unwilling to charge my moral outlook, knowing first hand that those morals are the wall preventing me from reaching the relationship goals I truely wanted.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/15 03:18 PM
1	CEO of Reddit: Ellen Pao says she "weeds out" candidates who don’t embrace her priority of building a gender-balanced and multiracial team. She has also has removed salary negotiations from the hiring process because studies show "women don’t fare as well as men." What she's saying is, if she was a man she could have kept those bitches in line and if she only hired men she wouldn't have needed to keep anyone in line.	/r/MensRights	06/04/15 11:58 PM
30	CEO of Reddit: Ellen Pao says she "weeds out" candidates who don’t embrace her priority of building a gender-balanced and multiracial team. She has also has removed salary negotiations from the hiring process because studies show "women don’t fare as well as men." Ya no shit, if you work with technology you probably shouldn't shit on the vast majority of the industry.	/r/MensRights	06/04/15 03:27 PM
0	[OC] A response to the poster from yesterday. If any of these are true, then congratulations, you have female privilege! I tend to go off of the dictionary definitions of words. "a form of social organization in which the father is the supreme authority in the family, clan, or tribe and descent is reckoned in the male line,with the children belonging to the father's clan or tribe." "a society, community, or country based on this social organization" That does cover many aspects of society but it's also one that can be very easily changed. The patriarchal structure is not being forced upon most societies but freely…	/r/MensRights	29/01/15 03:11 AM
1	'Punishing Us For Being Women': UVA Sorority Members Protest Frat Party Ban I was actually hoping the frat houses just stopped inviting women as defense against false charges. It is messed up for the campus to say only girls can't party, unless they also preventing men from going to specific sorority parties. I would much rather see a policy about rape claims being applied to both intoxicated parties. If someone claims rape due to intoxication, then guess what, if the other person was drunk too then they both get charged with the same thing. It's still not fair as it fo…	/r/MensRights	29/01/15 12:09 AM
-1	[OC] A response to the poster from yesterday. If any of these are true, then congratulations, you have female privilege! You can't really say there isn't a patriarchy. You can however question the reasons why and whose supporting it. If women are 51% of the population in the US and over 60% of the voters, that implies a very big reason more women aren't in power is because women aren't running and women aren't voting for them. Either way, if women vote for male candidates, can't exactly blame men for the patriarchy system.	/r/MensRights	28/01/15 11:55 PM
2	How I know I married a winner I had a similar experience with a gal friend. We were watching Meeting Evil. During which is the usual story of the man stressing out and struggling to support his family while the stay at home wife harasses him about it. Eventually there was a moment when the wife yelled screamed and called the husband a failure of a man. Before I could even react, my gal friend screamed out. "Oh her's the failure? What have you done to help this situation?" We had to take a little break before continuing, but …	/r/MensRights	28/01/15 05:10 PM
8	[Study] Men who treat women the same as they treat other men, without benevolent sexism/female privilege, are seen as overwhelmingly sexist by both men and women. I think that is the key difference with how men and women interact. Men focus more on the intent than the message, for example I've never complimented my asshat of a brother who's a total cocky knocker. Yet, we'll be roommates for life and love every minute of it. With girlfriends each comment, no matter how well intended or heartfelt, couldn't have the slightest weakness for her to spin into an insult. Yet, girls are more known to use backhanded compliments that sound good but have hurtful inte…	/r/MensRights	15/01/15 01:47 PM
12	[Study] Men who treat women the same as they treat other men, without benevolent sexism/female privilege, are seen as overwhelmingly sexist by both men and women. I've wondered if this is the reason the birthrates and relationships have dropped in places like Japan, and if it will continue to spread. Too many men just opting out due to gender expectations.	/r/MensRights	15/01/15 01:22 PM
11	[Study] Men who treat women the same as they treat other men, without benevolent sexism/female privilege, are seen as overwhelmingly sexist by both men and women. It's about intent. If the intent is to hurt, stubbornness refuses to let them see me bleed and if the intent was harmless than its easy to just let it slide as a verbal misstep.	/r/MensRights	15/01/15 01:12 PM
5	[Study] Men who treat women the same as they treat other men, without benevolent sexism/female privilege, are seen as overwhelmingly sexist by both men and women. I'd be curious if the resume acceptance based off of gender, isn't that women are viewed as less but simply a pain in the ass to deal with. When equality is sexist, how does an employer handle employees equally?	/r/MensRights	15/01/15 12:53 PM
5	Continuing my University/city's excellent sexual violence campaign is this: On the other side, most of my exes turned into cock hungry demons when delightfully drunk. Was I taking advantage of her if I was sober? Context surrounding the act means far more then the act itself. The issue is it's often a his words against her's contest between two drunks providing the context.	/r/MensRights	23/07/14 03:31 PM
6	Continuing my University/city's excellent sexual violence campaign is this: In addition to the difference between black out drunk and passed out drunk. Can't always tell when a person has officially had too much, especially if your also drunk.	/r/MensRights	23/07/14 03:20 PM
1	How to control anxiety during pickup? Sounds crazy but hear me out. If your old enough go to a strip club, get yourself a lap dance, and have a casual conversation with the striper while maintaining eye contact. If you can keep your cool during that you can talk with any girl. Day to day, just casual conversations with those around you. If you have really close gal friends, pretend your taking with them instead of a stranger.	/r/seduction	16/07/14 07:11 PM
1	What are the best books on improving your skills in bed and making women orgasm? '50 Shades of Gray' would obviously have some pointers. 'The Little Engine that Could' provides some solid advice. Beyond that I'm not sure about books but www.sexinfo101.com/ has a lot of good material.	/r/seduction	12/07/14 01:06 PM
1	Being picked at and talked down to by other men Guys can be difficult to deal with at times. The friendly ribbing can get carried away. Most of the time it's just friendly banter that is like a game of catch and wanting you to banter back. If it's beyond the banter stage, toss in a 'not cool man' jab or tone it out. Giving you shit for not getting laid is just juvenile, so retaliate with something juvenile. "Who needs bitches in their life when I've got you guys nagging me all day?", " I'm giving your mom a breather. ", " I'm saving up for a …	/r/seduction	09/07/14 06:12 PM
3	Caring to much with some girls, how to get rid of it? I've always suffered from the "nice guy" complex. To use simple labels, you have nice guys, assholes, and good men. While nice guys have the tendency to develop strong friendships, and assholes tend to have higher success with getting laid, good men are more of a balance between the two. Using each sides best attributes to develop relationships. Assholes- have confidence, demand respect, take charge, have a lower tolerance for taking shit from others, better at moving on/walking away, and better…	/r/seduction	09/07/14 03:41 PM
2	Never made sense to me "Mutilated" usually comes with an obviously cut/scarred appearance. All i'm saying this doesn't have that mutilated feel because mutilation is associated with disfigurement and making it look worse. This is the only type of mutilation that many (myself included) improved the appearance. I'm only against it being done to babies, but totally understand if a grown man wanted to have it done. It's mainly a cosmetic change, it doesn't change it's abilities or function. Removing a hand however is far …	/r/MensRights	01/05/14 05:28 PM
5	Never made sense to me Going off the look alone, I'd rather be circumcised (which I am). Each side has their own pros/cons list, but giving baby boys genital cosmetic surgery at birth is messed up. There's really no justifiable reason for it to be done. Even though it doesn't end up with a mutilated appearance, it is still genital mutilation. However, if any adult men want to get cut that's their choice. Imagine if we trimmed up our nipples, lips, nose, or other features at birth simply for appearance.	/r/MensRights	01/05/14 02:13 PM
2	Hey Seddit, have a quick question that I think you guys would answer best. If you're 26 and never had a girlfriend, would you tell the people you're dating the truth or make up past ex-girlfriends? Generally I thought it was an unspoken rule not to talk much about past relationships anyway. Your actions in the present matter more then the stories of your past. When someone asks about your past, tell them about your past and the relationships you've had. From 15-19 I had only gal friends and opportunities I could have taken to have sex, from 19-25 I had a various relationships with 13 girls that didn't feel counted as boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, from then I kinda just stopped dating…	/r/seduction	26/08/13 11:01 AM
3	Just completely bombed at a frat party The first rule of meeting new people is to meet people you WANT to meet not just people you CAN meet. If you don't enjoy the party lifestyle, you most likely won't like the people you meet at parties. Unless your a party wallflower looking for other wallflowers. Do what you enjoy, try new things, and keep your horizons expanded. Then try meeting those who share those interests. I used to love parties, far more socially adventurous then most believe, but I stopped liking them when I was still in …	/r/seduction	26/08/13 10:41 AM
1	How to not care what others think during approach? The first thing to remember, most people are busy living their lives. If your outside of their world they generally won't notice what your doing. Those who notice won't remember it for long before their life grabs their attention. Those who notice and interact with your moment, should simply be ignored. They are either the type that feeds of other's discomfort or don't have a engaging life themselves, and need to feed off another's life. One tip to remove embarrassing moments or rejection, is to…	/r/seduction	26/08/13 10:23 AM
1	Sixteen year old high schooler breaks up with his girlfriend (Seventeen) because he is questioning his sexuality. The now ex tells everyone that he raped her. (x-post Rage) One idea I've been bouncing around with friends. Whenever you heard the arguments that women need to be more like men (feminism in some cases) or men need to be more like women (metrosexual for instance). When ever I see one gender trying to be more like the other, they seem to imitate their worst attributes. It feel more like a power struggle or giving them a taste of their own medicine type of payback, rather then taking our best qualities and try and reach common ground. Obviously this is goi…	/r/MensRights	08/05/13 09:51 PM
0	Sixteen year old high schooler breaks up with his girlfriend (Seventeen) because he is questioning his sexuality. The now ex tells everyone that he raped her. (x-post Rage) Everyone has their own definition of what constitutes a slut. If we listed all the reasons for it we'll be here all day. We label guys with "pervert" for the same reason we label girls with "slut". Same general behavior just a different gender specific label. Men just don't get as bothered by being called a perv, and why would a perv complain about all the easy slut sex?	/r/MensRights	08/05/13 08:39 PM
1	Sixteen year old high schooler breaks up with his girlfriend (Seventeen) because he is questioning his sexuality. The now ex tells everyone that he raped her. (x-post Rage) Same tree but those are different sticks. And no they aren't gender specific, both can use and be abused by the same stick. But men will get the short end of the rapist stick and women will get the short end of slut stick.	/r/MensRights	08/05/13 08:09 PM
2	Sixteen year old high schooler breaks up with his girlfriend (Seventeen) because he is questioning his sexuality. The now ex tells everyone that he raped her. (x-post Rage) Yes sadly girls will always get the short end of that stick. Some guys think of a girl as a slut because she let him do stuff to her, and some girls let him do stuff to her because that's how you keep him happy. Even if she enjoys it, wants it, and initiates it, there is still that subtle feeling of an exchange taking place. But as a whole society views all behavior as a sort of currency. You do this so they will reward you with that. Do your chores so you get an allowance, do nice things for yo…	/r/MensRights	08/05/13 07:23 PM
16	Sixteen year old high schooler breaks up with his girlfriend (Seventeen) because he is questioning his sexuality. The now ex tells everyone that he raped her. (x-post Rage) Huh, I really like that concept of raped/robbed. Especially when combined with the habit to use rape with such a wide range. If we have several ways to define taking a life, depending on the circumstances, why is there just one broad definition/use for rape? It also makes me think of how some think is 'racist' and can be tossed around a little too freely. The idea of some girls seeing sex as currency or a tool to use for control/manipulation, has some interesting effects. Instead of doing sexual…	/r/MensRights	08/05/13 06:16 PM
0	This Was on CNN's Front Page There was a similar case I read about several years back in France. In the name of being a progressive court they allowed the use of the Koran to justify the domestic abuse. Using the passage that a wife should be obedient to her husband, but didn't reference the next chapter that a husband should protect his wife. Always bothersome when religious text influences the legal system in any way. Still aren't free of that crap in America.	/r/MensRights	25/03/13 02:26 PM
2	When the sex abuser is a girl and 19, 10 years older than her victim, they call it a lover affair Animal crackers, bitches love animal crackers.	/r/MensRights	15/03/13 06:47 PM
2	When the sex abuser is a girl and 19, 10 years older than her victim, they call it a lover affair I wouldn't be surprised if someone argued that we have no right telling her what she can/cannot do with her body. His body doesn't count cause he wanted it and probably just going to be a sexist rapist anyway.	/r/MensRights	15/03/13 06:25 PM
4	"Moms beware: you never know with young boys as they can have a crush on any woman, including the teacher and babysitter." - Article blames young boys for sexual molestation and not the adult women re For me I didn't read that line as a argument that the fault lies with the boy. More an argument they need extra attention in avoiding potential situations. Boys are more physical/sexual with their feeling, so even a crush can add that sexual confusion/curiosity. So if he has the crush already he is more likely to be drawn to that attraction, where someone can take advantage of. Much like if you have a naturally trusting child you need to take extra care so they don't trust the wrong people. Whic…	/r/MensRights	15/03/13 05:48 PM
-2	Feminism versus FACTS (RE Damsel in distress) Patriarchy does exist in the world, many cultures are still heavily based on this. In most countries its more like racism, it has existed, it still exists, but it's not as common as some may think and more common then others may think. In most first world countries its reached the point where it's still there, but at the point where it won't go away completely. When ever you are faced with a war you can never fully win, you just keep attacking stronger/harder and that is when you get retaliation…	/r/MensRights	15/03/13 04:10 PM
0	Feminism versus FACTS (RE Damsel in distress) I've never really seen the DID/Princess Trope in the sense that she's too weak or incapable of protecting herself. Even in nature males defend the females and many ecosystems are designed with a Queen hierarchy. Simply because females are more important to a society then males, and provide a greater service then being the protector/gatherer. So the basic concept of defending women is in our genetic code, we protect our most important resource. So I think many women simply see insult when there i…	/r/MensRights	15/03/13 03:57 PM
14	Feminism versus FACTS (RE Damsel in distress) From what I've seen of her videos, she didn't have facts as much as her personal interpretations and using specific examples to support them. Games have too wide a range to really hold any over all theme or bias. Some have the Damsel in Distress Trope, some had overly macho violent men, some have nerdy weak characters, some have lead female roles, and some have a damn randomly created life form. A lot of Feminist and Manists arguments aren't really factual, they are opinions that assume/imply in…	/r/MensRights	15/03/13 03:18 PM
1	Nothing too big, but It made me feel good! I don't understand the logic behind girls believing women can't be abusive. When women are constantly abusive towards each other, granted it's more emotional/mental. One reason I've talked about with friends is how many abusive relationships will have the person being abused believing that they deserved the abuse or in some way caused it. Maybe for some that mentality really sunk in in some weird way that they easily assume all forms of abuse are in some way deserved. So when a women is abusive …	/r/MensRights	07/03/13 06:30 PM
0	So apparently most men are hidden rapists at heart We need to have set degrees of rape, like we do with murder. Date Rape vs. assaulted rape. Would clear up a lot of mixed messages. When some people say your behavior and clothes are a potential problem, they are meaning more in the date/party rape situation. I do however remember a long time ago there were interviews with convicted rapists on what they looked for. Most of it was obvious things like she was alone at night, level of intoxication, and a moment of opportunity. (arguably like most cr…	/r/MensRights	07/03/13 04:49 PM
-6	If a man wants the woman to have an abortion, but the woman does not, why must he still pay child support? I've always been a supporter of a breeding license system. No babies until both parties have proven they can support the child financially, no addictions/drug use that can harm the child, and both passed a psychiatric evaluation. Maybe a legal certificate of abandonment, stating the father will relinquish all legal rights and obligations to that child. But that could only be decided after birth as a partial adoption sort of thing (many legal issues will need to be addressed with that one), simpl…	/r/MensRights	07/03/13 02:50 PM