MinnNOLA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[deleted by user] No, I don't see a double standard, because I think its rude and condescending in both situations. You only asked about white women in a dating context, and I gave my opinion as a white woman. Those sorts of pet names from a unknown guy come across as rude and disrespectful, which immediately makes the conversation uncomfortable. Why rude and disrespectful? Because in my experience, guys who use those words actually are rude, disrespectful, and in some cases easily escalate to threatening. That's…	/r/seduction	22/06/22 03:18 PM
2	[deleted by user] Speaking as a white woman, it is an immediate red flag if anyone I don't know refers to me as "baby", "babe, "babygirl," or anything else along those lines. It comes across as condescending and disrespectful. You call them "unncessary boundaries", but to me they are very necessary to weed out the creeps and assholes. The boundaries are about establishing a basic level of respect for me as a person and not a potential notch on someone's bedpost.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 03:36 AM
3	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good This is some serious incel/pickup scammer BS. Please do not DM OP for tips.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 12:50 AM