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I'm sorry you're going through all that. As a kid whose parents divorced, I barely remember even living with my dad. He remarried and had two other kids. and I only saw him a few times in my adult life. I had a great childhood. I can't miss something I don't remember, though (my dad). While my childhood was great, my mom was never a warm person, even still to this day. Now I have two kids of my own and going through my own divorce. I will tell my kids they don't have to marry. I will never do th…
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 06:52 PM
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Me and my spouse do not live together. One spouse moved out. Have 2 young kids, and we are amicable. One is using a lawyer. Not all divorces will be horrible.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 08:02 PM
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These holidays are only important because we as humans made it up and applied meaning to it. If I was a teenager, I'd rather go on the vacation and then do something special with my dad when I get back. It's only a big deal when others make it a big deal. Maybe it's just that I don't place importance on all these made up holidays or traditions. I can still live a fulfilling life without doing the same crap everyone else in the world wants to celebrate. There's no reason kids can't go on vacation…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 07:55 PM
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Think of it as just a court officialship. You were already divorced long ago. This is just paperwork.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 07:41 PM
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You made the right decision. Im happy for you. I would have done the same.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 04:19 AM
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No worries. I just accepted it. I didnt want to beg someone to stay.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 04:16 AM
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To clarify, he wants the divorce and chose to leave the home.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 04:11 AM
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My spouse went to stay with his mom and now lives with her. I stay at the house, and we just have an informal agreement to split the kids until divorce is finalized. It depends on your situation. If it’s amicable and u guys can work out sharing kids during divorce, it’s ok. My attorney did not say it was bad of him to do that.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 09:28 PM
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"Your Friends and Neighbors" - it's got the actor from Mad Men, about divorce. I thought it was great, with comedy too.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 07:28 PM
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Mine is $8k retainer fee and like 300+ for his paralegal. I paid him two months ago, and he hasn't done anything. I was told by someone else that divorce is SLOW. We haven't even gotten to the point of each other's finances yet.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 06:06 PM
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I'd never take anyone's financial assistance, but that's just me. Emotionally, I had some friends listen to me. I say that only because a lot of people only wanted to hear what happened, the gossip, but they never really followed up to ask how I was doing later. Maybe they just assumed I was doing okay because I had to carry on with work, watching the kids, etc. It sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 10:31 PM
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No idea
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 07:03 AM
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Woman
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 06:18 AM
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I'll be 40 this year, and my baggage includes 2 young children. But I don't have any addictions, meltdowns, debt, etc. I lead a kind of boring, introverted life, so when I start dating, I also want someone with some stability, both emotionally and financially. The last thing I'd want to do is date someone who lived paycheck to paycheck/bad credit. At this age, I don't have time for that. I will not be dating any men younger than me. I have no plans to remarry either.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 11:18 PM
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This sounds like ChatGPT wrote it
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 08:51 PM
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Im all the way in Hawaii. I hope we can find some friends soon!
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 05:27 PM
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Im cohabiting too. He’s the one who’s always had lots of friends, so many days he goes out and comes back late at night or go work on cars with his uncle, anything to be away from me. We are cordial around the kids, but he doesn’t even like me. It can feel awkward sometimes. Im the one with no friends, so ive been trying to do new stuff, but nothing sticks.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 05:24 PM
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I thought at first my spouse wrote this about me. He's on Reddit, but I have no idea his handle nor want to know. We're divorcing because he wants to, but these are all things I imagine he would say about me, except my family isn't rich and I do help with kids' learning. I guess you're doing us a favor if that's how you feel about your wife. However, it almost sounds like you don't take any accountability for things you've contributed to? I do wish you and my spouse would seek a therapist. And, …
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 07:52 PM
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We're at the start of the divorce, still living together. We have no plans for 4th of July. He said he might go to a work party at the beach and may take our son (leaving me with daughter). I said I didn't have plans and that it'd be nice if we could have a few memories left of all of us together during the holidays while we're still living under the same roof. So fucking sad. I hate this for me and my kids. I feel angry sometimes at my spouse for wanting this divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 07:44 PM
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If this is in my future (39F), I'm already scared. People are strange. I've never ghosted anyone in my life. If something wasn't working, I'd keep it brief and mention it. I also agree to not spend much money on the first date. I do think coffee or a cafe would suffice. I would not be sleeping with anyone on the first, second, third, etc....until we were going to be serious. I will not date any men younger than me, either. And I would not date someone who did not have their shit together by this…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/25 09:10 PM
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Oh my goodness, that's awful. I still have yet for an attorney to get back to me on a consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 07:49 PM
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It's slim pickings here in Honolulu, but maybe I'm picky. There's a lot of military, which I have no interest in. I can't imagine having to date on Kauai. I imagine everyone already knows each other. I hope you're able to find someone.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 07:47 PM
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Those of us would love to fight for our marriage, but when our spouse gives you no chance for reconciliation, we have no option but to move forward and divorce. I would have tried to work it out, but he didn't.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 07:45 PM
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lol where are these rich men in Hawaii? I will be soon in the dating pool at some point here in Honolulu, and I'm not looking forward to it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 07:41 PM
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I've contacted two lawyers now, haven't heard back from one of them. Both of them offer free consultation and have waited almost a month, even though I keep following up. Then paralegal asks if I just want to pay for the consultation. Like what? Maybe they're busy so only want to take the paid ones. I don't know. It's frustrating. I thought about mediation if we could agree on most things, but now that I've thought about it, I don't see us being 100% amicable on everything. In my state, there wa…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 12:34 AM
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Thank you for this. I emailed this page to myself so I can remember when I start drafting my parenting plan
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 11:48 PM
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