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You are just making this assumption because I'm opening up to you about my problem. At any moment, I show I struggle socially or a lack of confidence in my picture. Even in real life, I'm the guy who will talk the most in a team, the guy who leads a team, the guy who doesn't hide his opinions, etc. Why is it a problem being with “unattractive people”? Some of them have a girlfriend and have some decent good facial characteristics. I value these guys more than just their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:25 AM
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Yes, I'll do everything to get a toned body, find my best haircut and have good pictures. But if all that is not enough to be successful on dating apps. I'd have no choice but to remove my ethnic features.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:17 AM
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Thanks yeah I'm looking to find someone who will me attractive and feel I'm beautiful. It's going to be very hard. Sometimes I just hate the fact I wasn't born a white guy. I'll probably try this therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:28 AM
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Then why I'm not attractive and I'm failing on dating apps? It must be of my look.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:19 AM
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Even for a relationship I want to be attractive and don't feel the girl has settled for me. Also, I want to get the best partenaire possible for genetic reasons. I want my kids to not live the same way as me by being more beautiful than me. That's why I'm bursting my ass to the gym, having a career and probably doing plastic surgery to correct my flaw. I'd try to work on my social skills but it's really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:36 AM
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If having a toned body and better pictures don't help to get many likes on dating apps, I’d invest in plastic surgery, bleaching my face and implant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:23 AM
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If a toned body and good pictures are not enough to get many likes on dating apps I’d invest in plastic surgery, bleaching my face and implant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:22 AM
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So I'm terrible now? Nice. I don't want to be just fine. If having a toned body and better pictures don't help to get many likes on dating apps, I’d invest in plastic surgery, bleaching my face and implant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:19 AM
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Probably plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:17 AM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:16 AM
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Physical appearance is the most important aspect to form attraction. So I'd follow your advice to get better pictures. In the mean time, I'll build a toned body. If it's not enough to get many likes on online dating. I'd start my procedure to improve my face via plastic surgery and implant. I don't care if it's risky. I'm willing to do anything to improve my dating life. I want to feel attractive and find a family. If I can't get what I want, I’d lose all my envy to continue living. Also, I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:14 AM
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I'd try to get better pictures and build a toned body. If it's not enough to get many likes on dating apps, I'd invest in many plastic surgeries and bleach my face. The problem is I don't know avenues to meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:06 AM
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I see your point but right now, I'm only building my body to be successful on dating apps and with women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:04 AM
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If I get this toned body and it's not enough to be successful on dating apps. I'd start investing in many plastic surgeries and bleaching my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:01 AM
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Why is it false? Like I said if I'm not getting great results on dating apps with good pictures, I'll start doing plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:59 AM
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I'll do surgery if I'm not getting 50 likes each week on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:56 AM
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I don't want to be fine but attractive so I'll get these surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:55 AM
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People don’t care about personality, it’s the last thing they look at a partner. Many studies have proven that. Physically attractiveness, height and money are way more important to find a partner than personality. I'll just keep doing what I need to do so gym and get better pictures. As I age, people will get fatter and ill be better. If I'm not satisfied with the quality of women getting, I’d do plastic surgery to improve my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:50 AM
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I'm sure surgery will be more beneficial than any advice. I'm not attractive it's just sad to know that. It's just time-consuming to find a niche. I don't really have the time for that. If I have to go this far just to find a girl it means I'm unattractive, so it gives me even more reason to invest in cosmetic surgery. For the sport, I play soccer and go to the gym. Online dating is hard, but it's the best way for me to measure my worth and attractiveness. I'd do anything to be successful there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:09 AM
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Why though? I'm willing to pay the price to be physically more attractive. Money can help me correct the mistakes of my genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:59 AM
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Even with good pictures isn’t not going to change the outcome. It’s mainly a problem with my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:44 AM
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Being just fine is not attractive so only surgery can potentially make me better. Otherwise, I do go to the gym. My problem is just finding good nutrition to help me to build muscles quickly. Yeah, I'm going to invest more in my clothes. I'm just waiting at least one month before investing in my wardrobe because my body is going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:10 AM
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Arabic guys are not seen in a good light. Even people of my ethnicity prefer white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:01 AM
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I live in an era where the average is not attractive. That's why I feel the need of doing plastic surgery. I'd give myself a last chance with online dating before starting to change my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:59 AM
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I hope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:40 AM
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I know my pictures are pretty much the same. I'd try to fix that this summer by diversifying my pictures. Actually, my body isn't that great, so it's not a great idea to take a shirtless picture for now. I don't travel a lot. My friends told me to go with them to Japan, but I said to them I'm saving money for plastic surgery. I rarely go to my native country. Right now, the pictures in the woods are my only pictures outside. My tripod is coming soon, so I’ll take different types of pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:35 AM
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No, but I’m worried the results would not be very different even with good pictures. I’d give myself a last chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:26 AM
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The problem is when online people tell me I'm attractive, I’ve hard time to believe this information since it doesn’t correlate with my online dating experience. I’ll try to have a more positive opinion of my look. For the therapy, maybe I'd consider one. I'm infested with black pill and lookxmaxxmmg contents.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:23 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:10 PM
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I hope it's not affecting too much your life. Have you considered therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:52 PM
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I go each year to the Otakuthon. I never tried approaching women there, but I'll try my chance this summer. This summer, I'll also volunteer for this event so I'll have the occasion this time to meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:43 PM
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I've been following the Reddit PLL. It's not a good program?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:23 PM
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I learned a new term, but I remember you only started dating men at 26 and you still fear them. I hope you're fine on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the support. I'll reach out you if I have any questions. Right now I'm mainly struggling with accepting myself and expanding my social circles. In trying to not believe everything I read about beauty theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:59 PM
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You're username sounds familiar to me. I think you sent me messages to comfort me in the past. However, thanks for the compliment. I just have trouble controlling my feelings and supporting loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:56 PM
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Im not sure if you're honest, but thank you for your compliment. I'm 6 ft so my height is not the issue. For the picture, it's hard capturing a good one of me especially when I'm outside. I'm trying to find the best lighting for my face. Also like you said I will try to take pictures of myself doing an activity. Yeah, I'll start searching for good fashion advice for men. I admit my style is boring right now. Thank you for the recommendation!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:22 PM
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Being average is not enough for dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:11 PM
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I appreciate your comment regardless if you're honest or not. I never received affection from a girl during my adulthood so it's hard for me to see myself in this light.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:04 PM
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Programming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:03 PM
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I'm not sure if you're honest, but thank you. I'll try to get better pictures. It's not easy since I'm trying to find the best places for taking pictures with good lighting and don't have any shadows around my eyes. I've working out since January. I'm struggling to gain muscles. I'll fix my sleep schedule to see if it can help me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:02 PM
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I'm not attractive sadly, but thanks for the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:52 PM
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Thanks. I'd try your suggestion. I think at first I need to improve my body before joining CrossFit. I don't want to be the guy with the worst body in the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:51 PM
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Regarding the advice other than getting better pictures. I'd like to know the best way to escalate physically with a girl. What should I talk to her? How to make the conversation sexual? For truerateme, I recommend you remove your pictures. They are harsh with their rating. You should not take into consideration their opinion when you're successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:47 PM
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Yeah, that's the problem I'm not attractive. I'm considering taking the risks of being good-looking with the help of surgery. Also, it's not easy to find ways to encounter women in my life, so online dating is my only source.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:05 PM
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I'm not sure if can get to these numbers without the help of surgery. I'd try.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:00 PM
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I appreciate your message, not sure if you only saying it to comfort me. Yeah, the picture with headphones is actually my higher-rated picture on Photofeeler. Unfortunately, it's a selfie and I need quality pictures for online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:58 PM
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My friends don't like bars. Having more girl friends is the same problem as finding a partner and it's where I can meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:52 PM
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Thx for the compliment, I'm not sure if you're honest. However, I'll like to meet more women in my life. Which clubs will help me? Yeah, I know I have to be better at talking to women. I'll take some time before I start being good at flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:46 AM
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How many likes do you get each week? I'm surprised you're getting results with selfies. Yeah, I'll invest more money in my wardrobe. My clothes are not helping me. I'd try to put aside my plan for plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:34 AM
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Honestly, before really starting dating apps. I read many things about the red pill. Once I started having dates. I wanted to not believe the red pill so I showed the girls that I was really into them. That I was ready for a relationship. I got many ghosts even from girls who approached me at first and initiated the dates. Now I understand my problem, some girls there want to play some games. You can't be completely yourself especially if you just want to hook up. You have to show her that you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:21 AM
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I appreciate that you gave me your experience. Maybe I should consider back my 50 likes each week. Yeah, it's really hard dating for men since girls have too many options, so they can be strict with their standards. Like even if you date someone below your league, it's still not easy. Just recently I asked a girl for a coffee date. She told me she can't today but she said she would like to see me tomorrow. She even asked me to come to her apartment. The next day, she started saying excuses for n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:05 AM
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I'm 6 ft. Why go abroad? Is it to just have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:52 AM
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How many likes do you have each week? Yeah, I agree, you have to be Chadlite in today's dating, it's ridiculous. My only hope is people will be less fit as I age so it will put me In a better position as the times go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:37 AM
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I'm open to advice and thanks for the compliment. I don't know if you said to comfort me. However, selfies are a turn-off unless you're a model on online dating, so I'll avoid them. I'll try to get better pictures. I need to find good places to take pictures and the best lighting for my face. Before doing surgery, I'm going to give myself a last chance. I'll work out to get a toned body. I'll go down to 10% body fat percentage. Then, I'll take my best pictures. If it's still not enough for onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:35 AM
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Being a five is not enough for online dating so I'll do anything to improve my looks (10% body fat percentage, surgery, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:17 AM
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They have some good arguments about beauty so I'm inclined to follow their advice and remove my ethnic features like my nose and eyes. I'll try your suggestion. I just need to find places with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:14 AM
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What is the point of being average, especially as an Arabic guy? You'll never get a burning desire from women for your appearance. I want to feel desired. I'm willing to bulk out, go down to 10% body fat and do cosmetic surgeries. I'll try to improve my style and pictures. I doubt with would help me to get at least 50 likes each week. I'm fine with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:08 AM
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I want to be attractive and dating apps are the best way to know you're good-looking. So I'll do anything to be good-looking. Also, I don't how I could meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:02 AM
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The issue is you need to be good-looking for dating apps. It's not a problem of my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:28 AM
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I don't see how I could illustrate my personality in online dating. Maybe having better pictures, but I doubt I’d have many likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:18 AM
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6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:14 AM
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Thanks for the compliment! I'll try to get a better picture and maybe hire a photographer when I'll have a toned body. In my regular life, I rarely meet new women. I don't know places where I could meet women. I'm trying bars, but I'm not comfortable approaching a woman with her friends. I asked help to my girl friends and they told me I should seek therapy because of the way I see myself. I told them about the black pill and beauty theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:11 AM
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It depends. Sometimes I say what I like and that I'm looking for a serious relationship. Other times I’d write a quote from a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:00 AM
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It's nice to hook up, but not a good idea to find a partner. I'd try to find a better way to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:39 AM
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I'm below average in terms of likes. I'm getting maybe one like every one or two weeks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:30 AM
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Being average is not enough in today's society, especially for an ethnic guy who has trouble meeting women. I don't know how to meet more women. I dislike bars. Surgery is my only option to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:29 AM
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The guy with a 30+ body count has probably at least 50 likes on dating apps each week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:07 AM
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I'd try your suggestion. Are you sure there are a lot of adults doing that? I consider plastic surgery to be attractive. I honestly want to feel that I'm attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:57 AM
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I'll pay for cosmetic surgery to be good-looking. It's not good being average for my case especially since online dating is my only way to meet women. I know will try to get better pictures. For the gym, I have trouble gaining muscles. I've been working since January.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:48 AM
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I don't know where I could meet more women. That's the problem. For online dating, I'll try again with better pictures. If it's not working I'll start paying for cosmetic surgery. Also, truerateme has really destroyed my perception of myself. It is hard to see in a good light.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:43 AM
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In Montreal, guys make up 49.2% of the population, while girls account for 50.8%. Thx for the compliment but I'm below average (truerateme). I don't think I'll have more success in another place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:26 AM
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Unfortunately, I'm in the last group. I never got a girlfriend in my life. It's pretty much hard finding opportunities to meet women in my daily life. I use dating apps but no success with these pictures . For improving my situation, I hit the gym 6 times a week. I have a skincare routine. I'm going to pay for a tripod to get better pictures for online dating. I'm even considering surgery if it can help me to gain one point in terms of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:54 AM
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I want to feel desired and online dating is the best to know if you're attractive. So I'll continue seeing that as an objective. Regarding my girl friends, yeah they could help me find people but I don't want to see them as my only option for finding girls. I want to be able to meet girls in my own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:33 AM
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I've friends. I even started talking about my issue to my girl friends and I told them my envy of doing plastic surgery. They told me I'm good and I should seek therapy because I‘ll never believe what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:05 AM
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I know but it's mostly my only way to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:43 AM
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I don’t see how I could meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:42 AM
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Of course not but I’m realistic. If I’m only getting few likes it’s mean I’m ugly for women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:13 PM
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I see your point. Personally, I'm going to pay for my surgeries with my own money. It's me in the picture and I'm average at best. It's nor enough for online dating, so I'll do surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:10 PM
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A lot of people said to me that I'm average or below. I want to be good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:08 PM
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If I’m average it’s not enough. Only surgery can help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:04 PM
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Thanks, I personally don't feel I'm attractive when I look at my life experience (dating apps, no girlfriend, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:21 PM
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It's me. I feel I'm below average because of how many likes I get on online dating and how truerateme perceive me. I hit the gym 6 times a week. I'm trying to get to 12% body fat percentage and gain muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:16 PM
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I'm evaluating my worth with dating apps. Since I don't have many likes I know I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:57 PM
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In reality, it's not like that, I read enough red pill and black pill contents to know what a woman like. I don't have the face to get genuine desire from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:53 PM
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Of course but for that, I need to have a better face first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:49 PM
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I think they are experts. They have a guide that says exactly how to know if you're attractive. Unfortunately, beauty in today's society is based on eurocentric features. It put me in a bad position and that explains why I'm below average. I need to remove my ethnic features to succeed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:44 PM
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I don't care about male opinions about my beauty unless they know how to judge attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:36 PM
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The problem is that my ethnic features are not good for online dating (nose and eyes). I need to change them to have a more Caucasian face. For now, I'm growing out my hair. Maybe I'll try your suggestion. As for the mustache, generally, women don't like a guy with only a mustache.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:34 PM
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I'm not gay but thank you for being honest that I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:23 PM
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What's the point? Isn't going to make me more attractive for online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:20 PM
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You know the reality that men like me are doomed. I'm below average and ethnic. The game is pretty much over for me, but I'll try to get good pictures before doing surgeries and making my face whiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:14 PM
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I hope plastic surgery will help me. I don't see any reason to continue living my life honestly if I'm not getting proof I'm attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:10 PM
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I already have an appointment for my shitty nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:07 PM
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Please I know the profile of guys that have many likes on dating apps. It's just a question of being good-looking. It's not my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:06 PM
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What's the point of getting married if I’d be seen as the beta provider? It leads to the same problem that you need to be good-looking to succeed in online dating and that a woman will desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:04 PM
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It's worth taking the risks when you're below average. At least I’d have tried to be good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:01 PM
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I'd try to get better pictures, but I know already what the outcome will look like. I'd have maybe 10 likes on the first day. Two likes the next one. Then one like each month. My face is terrible and only plastic surgery can help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:58 PM
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Yeah, plus these pictures because they have a decent score on photo feeler, so I thought it would be enough to get at at least 10 likes. Unfortunately, I'm ugly to get many likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:53 PM
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It's only nice being tall when you're above average. For a bellow average guy like me being tall isn't helping me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:44 PM
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I want to feel desired. Being below average or average is not enough to get a woman that will find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:42 PM
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I'll try your suggestions, but they will not correct my big and crooked nose or my eyelid exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:41 PM
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It means no women find me attractive so it's pretty much the same level of being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:39 PM
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No models look like me. If I was like a model I'd have girls approaching me in my daily life. I'd have at least 50 likes each day on dating apps. Thx for the help man, but I know I'm not good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:37 PM
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My obsession isn't harming my chance for online dating. It's simply my face being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:34 PM
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I'm not getting one like in a day on online dating. It just confirms my ugliness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:30 PM
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I don't take care if they don't take my weight into account. It means my face alone is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:27 PM
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I don't want to be average or below average. Even being average is not enough to get women to desire you, so this is why I'm considering plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:26 PM
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Truerateme says to me that my eye area is also terrible because I have too much eyelid exposure. Unfortunately, I've bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:23 PM
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I'm ugly truerateme told me that. Plastic surgery is the only way to save my face for online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:22 PM
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I'm below average so yeah it's my only way to the improve my look. Even outside your need to be attractive to get a date. You need to be good-looking to have women desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:19 PM
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If my septorhinoplasty is done right. It will make my nose straight. Now I'm thinking if I should make my nose smaller because the way my nose is now is ugly. Oorbital implant, canthoplasty, and blepharoplasty will help me to have a good eye area. I don't know how much it will change my life but at least ill try to be good-looking. Right now I'm ugly and I want to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:17 PM
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Why are people against plastic surgery? Guys with below-average look like me are doomed to a bad dating life. I also want to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:06 PM
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5 is average. 6 is above average. 7 is being good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:14 PM
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Above-average guys are not getting a lot of likes on online dating. You have to be a very least a 7 to get some results. Even outside, women will approach you rarely. On the contrary, an average woman can have many likes on dating apps and be approached by men in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:08 PM
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Even with money, not everyone can be Chad. It depends on where you start and if the surgeries are a success. Personally, I'm thinking of doing an orbital implant, a canthoplasty, a blepharoplasty and a septorhinoplasty. I want to be good-looking and surgery is the only way to get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:58 PM
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Just being above average for a man is not enough. You have to be at least good-looking to get women's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:44 PM
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More men should aim for plastic surgery. Being average looking is not enough in today's society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:38 PM
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They are judging your face by being the most objective possible, so yeah it's representative of how people perceive you in real life. In which hobbies or social clubs I'll find women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:31 AM
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Ranking subs helped me to understand why I'm not attractive to women. I have bad genetics. Like I said the other day, I genuinely don't know where I could meet a good woman. I dislike bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:17 AM
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I've better scores when I'm not smiling on photo feeler. That's why I'm not smiling anymore. I'm going to pay for a 72-inch tripod, so I'll try to get good pictures with that first. I already told you the last day I don't have opportunities to meet more women in my daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:06 AM
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Thank you, I'll try your suggestions, but I doubt they will help me reach the well-above-average range. My eyelid exposure and my nose are problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:57 PM
1

A toned body can help but you'll not go far away if you're average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:43 PM
1

I see but most of the time having a good face is pretty much the only criteria for online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:39 PM
1

What I should do? I'm trying longer hair since I dislike my look with shorter hair. How can I fix my under-eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:36 PM
1

If I can have more success with women I would be happier. Right now I'm judging by value with how many likes I get on dating apps. Since I'm getting few likes, I'm depressed knowing I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:32 PM
1

Women only care about your face on dating apps. I can't show my confidence in a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:20 PM
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Thank you for the compliment, but it would be obvious if I was good-looking. I'm not getting even 10 likes in a day on dating apps. I'm lucky if I get one... Like my pictures are probably not great, but I doubt it would change that much the outcome of having good pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:17 PM
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That's the problem I don't want to be just fine. That's why I'm considering truerateme opinions to increase my attractiveness. I feel like their scale makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:08 PM
1

Is r/truerateme the best way to judge your attractiveness? Since I know this subreddit, I want to do surgeries (eyelid and nose) to improve my appearance and be good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:59 PM
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I'm not denying the advantage of being 6 ft. It's just your face is way more important. I'd rather be 5.11 ft with 6.5 physical attractiveness than 6 ft with a 5 or 5.5 in terms of beauty.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 04:23 PM
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Height isn't the only way to get a woman excited. If you're average, at best you're seen as a better option than a guy in the same league as you that he's not 6 ft and more.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 04:10 PM
1

It's more attractive for you, but we know deep down women value way more physical appearance than the inside. When you're average it's pretty much impossible to get women excited for you. Surgery can potentially solve this problem if it's done right.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 03:57 PM
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To protect someone’s self-esteem. I'm sure a lot of people prefer to say to a guy that he is attractive or average rather than saying the truth. When you are attractive, it's obvious and you'll not need the opinions of strangers if you're good-looking or not.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 03:42 PM
2

Since when do women have trouble with online dating? A woman can only fault herself for not finding a partner. They just have to stop going for the high-value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:55 AM
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Many studies showcase that personality is the last thing a woman looks at for a partner. Your attractiveness, height and money are way more important than personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:05 AM
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How do you know you are seven? Otherwise, I agree that women have high standards even if they are average or below average. Like you said they confuse their real value with people who want to sleep with them. The reality is that you're value is tied to people who want a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:51 AM
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I’m honestly for surgery especially if it can help correct a big flaw. The only real problem is the risks related to surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:07 AM
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Do you think a man should do plastic surgery if he can afford it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:36 PM
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Ascending is more a term used to become potentially a light Chad with the help of surgery, gym or mewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:45 AM
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You can try. It may help you to go after this type of girl so you can gain experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:42 AM
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Of course, they do also want an attractive girl. Some of them will get what they want. You never know in real life, an attractive woman can find you attractive even if other girls think you are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:15 PM
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I was speaking for the average guy. However, you can definitely aim for a better-looking partner especially if you're above average in terms of look and/or salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:37 PM
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I’m fine with that, being active is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:00 PM
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I don't know if in Canada it's like in the USA, but I'm not going to change my preference for weight. It should not be hard to keep up a wealthy weight. I work out a lot, so I want a person who can stay attractive as long as possible because I'll do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:50 PM
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I see you're point, but an average guy has all the reasons to refuse any of the following girls you listed. It's not like we are asking for a model as a girlfriend. For me, the strict minimums for a potential girlfriend are a wealthy weight, no children, average looking, eating healthily and not being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:42 PM
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I agree with you. If you're looking for a partner, it's better to have more than one option. You never know what can happen with a girl you're dating. She can ghost you at any moment, tell you she gets back with her ex, say to you she sees you more as a friend, you learn something about her that is a turn-off, etc. Realistically speaking, I know many guys don't have the chance to date more than one girl at a time. If you're able to get the attention of more than one woman, you should definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:35 PM
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It's an advantage being this tall. However, I don’t how his face looks like, but he's balding at a relatively young age. That's can be a turn-off for many women even if the rest of his face is good. Fortunately, he can correct this issue with hair transplantation and this is what he's planning to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:18 PM
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Man, you should make a thread with that. I like your argument and it’s kinda sad at the same time. Like honestly, many times I found more attractive an average-looking girl more than a model. The same cannot be said for women to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:37 AM
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She often wants to see you, she doesn't make you wait for sex (I'm okay waiting if the girl is someone who doesn't do ONS), she clearly shows you that she finds you attractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:23 AM
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The red pill helped me to know how to conduct myself in my daily life and around women. Like prioritizing my career and the gym. It shows me a way I should talk to women and what I should not do with a girl I date. For the black pill, there are more negatives than positives. For the good things, It makes me realize that being 6 ft and having a good jawline are important in the eyes of women. So it's a good boost of confidence. However, looksmaxxing content makes me aware of some flaws in my face…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:38 AM
1

I'm more conscious of relationships now after all the red and black pills contents I read. I just want to be sure that the girl likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:05 AM
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I don't confuse being respected and getting sex. In a sexual context, I just prefer a girl who finds me attractive to a girl who sees me as a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:00 AM
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If I'm looking for something more than a friend, I mostly care about how much a woman can be attracted to me. Yeah, I don't care about a woman who “respects me” if she doesn't show clear signs that she's into me. Also, the thing is, when a woman wants to have sex with you quickly. Firstly, you know she’s attracted to you. She doesn’t see you as a provider. It’s easy from there to form a relationship with the girl in question or stay as FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:52 AM
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More men want to be the “fuck boy” instead of the boyfriend material because you generally receive better treatment from women if you're the first one. Also, it's hard to find and maintain a serious relationship before your thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:21 AM
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I agree with you, but I'm sure it's not on the same level as for men. During my life, I rarely saw a girl who was completely alone either in school or at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:00 AM
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I dated a girl in recent months when she told me she had a threesome because her last relationship was polyamory. I stopped seeing her as a potential girlfriend. It sucks because she was fun and a fan of video games, but threesome is a turn-off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:51 AM
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Women can feel lonely, face rejection, etc. It's just that most women will never go through multiple rejections and have problems forming bonds with people like men. Of course, there's a limit to quality men, but if a girl is in a good environment. It should not be that difficult to find a decent guy that will respect her. If the girl wants a very attractive man then yes, it's going to be tough to compete for that guy. Women have their own issues like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:37 AM
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What do you reproach exactly? Is it the fact that men are using this knowledge to obtain casual sex? Or are you okay if a guy doesn't want a long-term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:29 AM
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Why dating apps don’t have quality men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:19 AM
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The first option and it’s not even close. I like a girl who can keep her attention on only one man. It's just more romantic this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:48 PM
1

Not completely because the guy doesn't take into consideration that women also age. Since they age like a man they have to readjust and develop an attraction for the men they can get. So a man can improve his SMV with good habits and not be seen as the guy during his twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:22 PM
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I see your point but I'm talking about comparing one individual to other guys in the same age group. The majority of guys don't have a salary above the average, have a skincare routine, and go to the gym regularly. If an average guy does all the above he will clearly increase his SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:02 PM
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The red pill is not all about making money and fucking as much as you can. TRP tells you to be a more interesting person, be more cultivated, work on your body, etc. Also, the point of getting laid is to help you to be the man who knows women. It's there so you can be more confident. Be more experienced to find the good one. Personally, TRP helped me to have a better understanding of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:45 PM
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It really depends. To determine the “value” of someone you need to compare it to other people. Let's say an average guy. If he really keeps up the training, I have a skincare routine and by his thirties, he has a good job. I'm pretty sure his value will increase because he will be above average in many areas (youthfulness, body, money, etc), so he will not be anymore an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:33 PM
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Same, I don't like those settings, but it's one of the only ways to encounter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:34 AM
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I was with friends after that I hit the gym. I didn't have the energy to go to a bar maybe tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:32 AM
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Yeah, I'm serious. I try sometimes to go to bars alone since my friends don't really like those places, but It's hard approaching girls when most of the time they are with their group. I tried the meetup application for board games, but only guys go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:17 AM
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Thank you! In my case, online dating is pretty much my only way to get dates. I'm trying to get good pictures for Bumble and Tinder. Also, being bald can be a turn-off for many women. It's like saying if someone has a bad jaw or eye area it will not impact his dating life. Of course, it will. That doesn't mean it's over for the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:53 PM
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Having hair will improve your looks and confidence. Good luck man, I hope for you the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:41 PM
1

I respect your comment about advocating people should stay natural. However, in today's society, physical appearance is more prevalent than ever for a man. When you don't have many avenues to meet women in your life, it's even harder when you're not attractive. You've to bet your chances on online dating. Sadly, it's only a good way of finding a partner if you're a good-looking man. The best way to improve your attractiveness is by doing some procedures (surgery, hair transplant, etc). Sure, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:37 PM
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It’s a waste of money to improve your dating life and be happier in your life? Okay… Some people have not been gifted with good genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:54 PM
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If it was not true you'll not see many men complaining online about not getting sex, you'll not have 30% of sexless men during their twenties, you'll not have a small group of men receiving the majority of likes on dating apps, you'll not see the emergence of the black pill theories, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:53 PM
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A woman will only have sex with a guy in the same league or higher than her. Most of the time, they will only chase someone higher than her and we can see this phenomenon easily on dating apps. On the contrary, a man can have an ONS and FWB with a woman that he will never consider as GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:46 PM
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Women only have sex with someone they find a minimum attractive, especially for FWB or ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:34 PM
1

Dating apps got even worse for men in recent years whereas women only 4.5 of men on dating apps. Let’s be honest, any women will get message on dating apps. However a man need to be at least above average (30% of the population) to even think about going into datings apps. Even for a above average guy, you need to have good pictures and be white. If you’re ethnic, it’s not impossible to succeed but you will definitely get fewer likes than a white guy. When you are a good-looking man (15% populat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:29 PM
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Yeah, Okcupid study is more reliable. I'd even say that it got even worse in recent years where women only like 4.5% of men on dating apps. These statistics are facts. Women can't lie like in a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:59 PM
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And? What's preventing women from lying? Also,59% of women have used dating apps to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:41 PM
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Do you really think I'll take seriously statistics about this subject when women are known for lying about their sexual past?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:59 PM
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There is a big difference between the two sexes regarding settling down for a partner. Most men like and find attractive their partner even if she's far from being conventionally beautiful. That cannot be said for women. Yeah, they settle down for an average guy or stay single. Let's be honest are they happy with these guys? Do they find them attractive? Are they giving them the best they can offer? Or is it only for the hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:34 PM
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Well said! It's the problem I've with people often women saying why men prioritize hookups over finding a genuine relationship. They don't understand men have to go through a lot of experience with women to find this one girl that could suit them. You need to know women to attract them. You're not going to succeed by doing that if you're operating in a way to not be around women and by not being the best version of yourself. I agree, anime and video games are still not seen in a good light by wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:23 PM
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Good thing if they are picky for a relationship (I don't agree with that). Women have more harsh standards regarding male beauty. It's one of the only ways to balance the dynamic between the two sexes in a world where women get constant attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:59 PM
10

They still fuck a lot. It’s just now they are mostly doing it with high-value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:43 PM
2

It's more nuanced than that. The red pill taught me that being overall a better man will make me more successful with women. It helped me be more career-driven and really take care of my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:33 PM
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Same boat, I still really like anime and visual novels, but I don't spend much time on them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:14 PM
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The problem is that they are many ways when a guy needs to change what's inside him to find women. I'll take my case as an example, I don't like bars and dating apps, but there are my best ways to meet women. I prefer seeking a relationship than sleeping around, but I know being able to sleep around will make me more desirable. For the next point, I'm happier when I have more female attention toward me. Of course, I’d like to be in a good relationship with someone who shares the same interests a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:08 PM
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The reason why it's like that it's because we know perfectly which type of men attract more women. So it's better to work on ourselves to approach as much as we can on what women need from a man. Just being yourself will lead to many rejections unless you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:54 PM
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Like Myron said a day it's actually being secure saying that your GF doesn't do certain things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:43 PM
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I read somewhere a photograph saying that some face shape doesn't translate well into a picture. Also, you have to take into account things like height, money and status that can make a guy more attractive in a real-life setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:44 AM
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Because they know more about a woman's nature than a regular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:20 AM
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Personally, I prefer a woman who wants to have sex with me over someone who wants me for another reason. You get better treatment when someone is truly into you not just in terms of sexuality. Why is it a bad idea to get validation through sex? Reading about woman's nature really open up my eyes to the truth that women only really find attractive a small percentage of men. That I need to work to get to this level (skincare, grooming, gym, etc). It helped me to identify someone who is into me ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:43 AM
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I'm saying part of my value is tied to the number of women who want to sleep with me. The less I have women wanting me, the less I'm a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:14 AM
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Then yes I value the personality of a woman. It's just before wanting a woman for a relationship I'll see if she can be a good partner. If she's attracted to me, loves me, didn’t have many partners and I find her attractive then I’d try to build something serious with the woman in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:06 AM
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For a lasting relationship is the price to pay to improve the chance of finding someone who finds you attractive, will not cheat on you and will love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:55 AM
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Did I say I don't value what is inside a woman? If a girl is funny, and share the same interest as me, like being active and more are attributes I'm looking into a future partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:51 AM
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I was implying being interested in you sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:46 AM
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The red pill will tell you how to get more women and how to avoid the bad ones for a relationship (I'm not saying it's a fact ). After that, you find yourself the woman that will connect with you on a deeper level. The red pill cannot know exactly what each man wants from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:44 AM
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That's life, my value as a man is correlated with my money and my physical appearance. If I can't get women interested in me that means I'm not valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:36 AM
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There is some guidance within the red pill regarding picking the right woman like if she didn't engage in the hookup culture, she can cook, she doesn't have male friends, she has a good relationship with her parents, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:32 AM
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There’s a reason why some men choose the tactic of having multiple sexual partners. I agree with the red pill that it's one of the best ways to know if you are desirable as a man. When you are desirable, it's become easier to find a good partner. More importantly, someone that will find you attractive. No men want to be the provider option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:25 AM
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It's perfectly normal wanting your partner to respect you as a man by cutting off any links she has with her previous sexual partners. If a woman loves you, it should not be an issue to accept your request. I'd never start a relationship with someone who keeps her exes in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:53 AM
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I don't trust surveys where women lie about their numbers. Women are aware they will decrease their value if they say the real number by including ONS, FWB, etc. It’s not a surprise, we are living in an era where it never has been that easy before to be promiscuous as a woman without receiving any consequences. They can easily meet high-value men on dating apps. The vast majority of women prefer to fuck a high-value man than be in a relationship with an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:40 AM
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Probably 70-80% of women had more than 20 partners. That's a sad reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:22 AM
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