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Women's intuition isn't always right the same way men's intuition isn't always right. Women are also human beings not some mythical creatures whose intuition is always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:07 AM
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Always trusting on Intuition can be bullshit. Intuitions can be right or wrong and women tend to think deeply more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:45 AM
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What intuition are u talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:28 PM
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Where is it written that an adult woman can rape a male child, isn't it child molestation and child sexual abuse already?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 11:15 AM
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What women intuition are you talking about? PLENTY OF PEOPLE ARE JUST GREAT ACTORS! again not the fault of the women or even a man if he gets duped
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:13 AM
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If he's a or she's a murderer and abuser he/she should be held accountable NOT the victim, period!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:46 AM
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I don't see or have observed women killing/raping/justifying forced arranged marriages like what happens in countries like India/attacking on men's basic rights such as education, financial independence, social/public safety of men from the sexual and physical assaults so that due to lack of financial independence women become forced to marry or sleep with men they aren't attracted to, when women face rejections. There are some violent women also, not denying that. Sure many women feel disappoin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:36 AM
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Do you guys even know what feminism is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:28 AM
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Who are the good guys and who are the bad guys? Care to tell? And women do approach men. Besides, some women just have low libido; they can live happily without sex if they can't find someone they are attracted to. From what I understand, a bad guy is someone who forces, pressures, or guilt-trips women into sex, which she isn’t consenting to based on physical or mental attraction or whatsoever reasons. The one who commits crimes like sex trafficking, murder, etc. And the ones who justify these c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:23 AM
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What is solution to UTTERLY ENTIRELY stop, Forced sex, Pressurized sex, Sex trafficking, Then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:33 AM
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Oh I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:15 AM
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This is why sex workers should be provided with government protection and safety measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:01 PM
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Sex workers must be provided with the safety from the government if they choose to be in this industry to make sure no woman is forced into the sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:58 PM
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Good to know that you were safe and you were not put into an uncomfortable situation but the sad reality is many many sex workers are forced into the sex industry and endure rapes. https://www.un.org/en/peace-and-security/understanding-human-trafficking#:~:text=Sexual%20exploitation%20remains%20a%20major,rise%20in%20cases%20since%202019. Sexual Exploitation Sexual exploitation remains a major form of trafficking, involving 36 per cent of victims in 2022. Women and girls dominate this category, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:56 PM
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I have to yell about it because many guys keep expecting from women that she MUST have sex with men she doesn't want to, she's not attracted to even physically and say there's something wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:50 PM
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Do you know that most of the women in the sex industry are forced to do all the stuff aka go through rapes, do you know how traumatic rapes and sexual assaults are. While being sex trafficked is one of the worst forms of rapes that happens in the most brutal manner and the victims aren't even able to escape. Huh! I will never ever support PROSTITUTION and sex work until or until sex trafficking is reduced to 0. Many men that often go to those prostitutes don't even mind if she's being forced, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:47 PM
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For what. For what reason. Go ahead tell me. That's how you guys have always been since the very beginning. She doesn't want to sleep with a man she's not attracted to maybe physically, so she's insane, she needs mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:38 PM
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Why do u guys get so triggered when women don't want to open their legs for someone they don't like they aren't attracted to or they aren't physically attracted to! You guys keep going around on social media and keep complaining about it, keep making fun of women saying you gonna end up alone because you don't want to open your legs for us!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:22 AM
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For what!! Clarify me!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:21 AM
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Ninety percent of the rapes that happen to men by women occur mainly through psychological coercion and manipulation, which I have never justified. Women also experience this kind of psychological manipulation from time to time. Rapes involving psychological coercion and guilt-tripping are truly horrific. My point still stands: rapes such as those in sex trafficking — which are far more life-threatening, brutal, violent, and inescapable — are far more cruel, along with gang rapes and rapes in fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:53 PM
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If I go out at night, it's highly likely that I might get raped and might die.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:39 PM
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I’ve refuted all your points with valid evidence and logical reasoning, without justifying rape against men anywhere. However, rapes that occur in sex trafficking are far more brutal and continue to this day — with women and girls being the primary victims. You keep bringing up wars, but it’s mostly men who commit rapes against other men in prisons and during wars — as well as against women and children — while also murdering men, women, and children and instigating wars themselves. So, of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:37 PM
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How is rape not related to human trafficking and sex trafficking? Sex trafficking basically involves gruesome, inescapable rapes. As for the world wars, yes, many men were raped too, alongside many women, but even in those wars, it was mostly men who committed rapes against other men, women, and even children. Sex trafficking victims are mostly — about 90 percent — women and females. I already showed you the evidence. Rapes also occur in varying degrees, such as gang rapes, rapes under sex traff…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:21 PM
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You are ignoring all the points and evidences I pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:40 PM
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"You are doing it yourself by bringing up unrelated female victimhood statistics whenever I mentioned male rape victims, you did it yourself by saying it was men raping men and not women, and you did it yourself trying to paint women using psychological abuse to rape men as less serious or severe than men using threats of violence to rape men." As for this psychologically manipulating someone into sex is horrible whether it happens to men or women and I never Denied that. But rapes within sex tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:38 PM
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According to the Report, the most common form of human trafficking (79%) is sexual exploitation. The victims of sexual exploitation are predominantly women and girls. Surprisingly, in 30% of the countries which provided information on the gender of traffickers, women make up the largest proportion of traffickers. In some parts of the world, women trafficking women is the norm.https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/human-trafficking/global-report-on-trafficking-in-persons.html
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:33 PM
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In summary, it is reasonable to conclude the following: sexual abuse and sexual assault continue to be a problem worldwide; on average, approximately 10% of children experience sexual abuse; on average, female survivors outnumber male survivors by approximately 4 to 1; on average, sexual assault on children may start ... https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov Comparison Between Male and Female Survivors of Sexual Abuse and ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:31 PM
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In summary, it is reasonable to conclude the following: sexual abuse and sexual assault continue to be a problem worldwide; on average, approximately 10% of children experience sexual abuse; on average, female survivors outnumber male survivors by approximately 4 to 1; on average, sexual assault on children may start ... https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov Comparison Between Male and Female Survivors of Sexual Abuse and ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:30 PM
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Bro all those links are pretty accurate and pretty much confirms all my points. Women are the sexual assault victims mostly especially when it's a sexual assault in the worst forms like human trafficking forced into prostitution and repeated raped with no way to escape. While men too face gruesome sexual assaults but it's mostly by the other men like the prison men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:28 PM
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Read the links I sent, it proves all the points I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:24 PM
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Yes, that’s exactly what I said—and it’s true both evidently and statistically. Statistically, cases of women raping men are far fewer compared to the other way around, and when they occur, they usually involve manipulation, the man being intoxicated, psychological coercion, or abuse of power rather than physical force. It’s primarily women who are victims of the most brutal and inescapable forms of rape, such as sex trafficking, where women are forcibly sold into sex work—one of the worst forms…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:20 PM
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I am not avoiding any claim. It's you who is doing so. I literally proved all the claims I was making and the claim I made in the very last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:44 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10414400/ https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_of_males#:~:text=Several%20studies%20argue%20that%20male,another%20detainee%20by%20the%20officials. https://www.apa.org/topics/women-girls/trafficking-women-girls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:38 PM
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Yes, that’s exactly what I said—and it’s true both evidently and statistically. Statistically, cases of women raping men are far fewer compared to the other way around, and when they occur, they usually involve manipulation, psychological coercion, or abuse of power rather than physical force. It’s primarily women who are victims of the most brutal and inescapable forms of rape, such as sex trafficking, where women are forcibly sold into sex work—one of the worst forms of sexual violence and rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:25 PM
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Like what shit behaviour! We can't be forced or pressured to mate or have sex with men we don't desire, we aren't sexually attracted to. We aren't sexually attracted to. For example I can't consent unless I'm physically attracted to the man and that's just how it is. As for the loneliness, Work on your self-improvement Grooming, getting fitter etc Think about things other than sex Have hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:06 PM
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I did NOT say what you said to me, you are clearly not reading my comments thoroughly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:03 PM
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What exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:39 PM
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What! Suffering from what!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:33 PM
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Trafficked victims endure the most extreme forms of rape, which are incredibly dangerous, inescapable, and can even lead to death if they attempt to escape—and the majority of these victims are women. When I am outside at night, I am significantly more likely to be raped or gang-raped, often through physical coercion in some of the worst ways. Women are objectively the primary victims of rape, especially in dangerous, inescapable situations such as human trafficking, sex trafficking, or being so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:32 PM
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Read my very last comment. Still women are the majority of the rape victims statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:38 PM
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"It's everyone's own individual responsibility to make sure their partner isn't lying." Not in agreement with it, it makes it sound like it will be made socially acceptable for men who lie and cheat on their partners after giving fake promises to get sex just because he has more wealth or better looks or takes care of his looks. Sure women do cheat, but other women don't go around justifying the cheating acts of women. Cheaters Abusers must be held accountable instead of blaming the victims of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:28 AM
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Trafficked victims endure the most extreme forms of rape, which are incredibly dangerous, inescapable, and can even lead to death if they attempt to escape—and the majority of these victims are women. When I am outside at night, I am significantly more likely to be raped or gang-raped, often through physical coercion in some of the worst ways. Women are objectively the primary victims of rape, especially in dangerous, inescapable situations such as human trafficking, sex trafficking, or being so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:17 AM
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The claim that only a minority of female trafficking victims are forced into sex work or prostitution, which constitutes rape, is not true. The majority of sex trafficking victims are women, and they are coerced into sex and sex work, which is indeed rape. It is predominantly women who suffer from human trafficking and sexual exploitation. While men are more likely to be murdered, it is usually by other men. As a woman, I am at risk not just of being killed, but of being raped or gang-raped. I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:01 AM
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How are you claiming that men make up half of all rape victims? Please clarify. From what I understand, it is mostly women who are the victims of human trafficking, being sold into prostitution rings or forced into sex work, where they are coerced into sexual activity repeatedly—effectively rape—unless they are rescued. Infact, most aren't rescued ever. As a woman, it’s difficult for me to step out at night, because the risk of being raped and potentially even killed is very high. Women are pred…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:42 AM
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I’m not justifying any form of rape or sexual coercion against men — it’s absolutely illegal and must never happen. Of course, it’s deeply traumatizing. However, statistically, women are more often the victims of sexual assault, rape, and sexual harassment in general. It is primarily women who are forced into sex work or prostitution through human trafficking and by being sold. Men can be victims too, and feminists acknowledge that — feminism is not anti-men, despite the common misconception. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:32 AM
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As for the sexual assaults, Most of the victims of sexual trafficking are women. Many women are indeed forced into prostitution and sex work which is technically rape which they face multiple times. Most of the victims of sexual harrasments are women. Most of the victims of forced arranged marriages in conservative cultures are women having no means to escape due to lack of financial dependency and unsafe environment. Are you saying we should let these happen just because some women are using me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:19 AM
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Let's be honest Going on a date with someone for free meals is bad, sure it must be addressed out. But Destroying someone's life by lying to them that they are serious for the relationship just to have sex multiple times then cheat or leave is worse than the scenario you described. This issue is not addressed out even though it's worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:15 AM
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Men are not made fun of being bald and short the traits he can't control. For the matter of fact it's NOT right to make fun of anyone for their bodies although everyone has preferences and standards for what they are physically attracted to which I have as well. Although there's traits that are controllable such as weight, being well groomed and being lean and muscular. There's traits that are controllable for the women. Anyways, my point was about, many men lying to women to get into their pant…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:12 AM
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As far as I see, I don't see women lying to men to get into his pants and then suddenly leaving him. This is cruel and immoral, and that's what I'm addressing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:07 AM
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What shitty behaviour? I'm not understanding Are you talking about violence from women,Abuse from women, Being very lazy and, Cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:04 AM
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What shitty behaviour, can you clarify it? If you are talking about cheating, deceiving, being violent or forcing men into sexual relationships, we do call out that! But if you are talking about women must be guilt tripped or pressured into sleeping with men they really don't feel any sexual attraction or physical attraction towards then it's what is shitty and deeply violating this is something that many incels are actively doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:58 AM
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Sure women should tell in the beginning she wants him for his money, but the point is nobody is going to do that and since the man is providing her the resources and stuff, she's also providing him her youth, and comfort and ofcourse sex despite not having enough physical attraction towards him. So, it feels more of a mutualism. Besides attraction can be multifaceted and subjective. One woman might be into lean muscular men. Other might be into men that are chubby types. Women also come in vario…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:49 AM
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I'm not going to married to someone for money, huh!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:04 AM
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I HAVE THE RIGHT TO LOOK FOR THE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, PERIOD! I CAN NOT HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE I'M NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO! PERIOD! IT'S RAPE IF I AM FORCED OR PRESSURED, PERIOD! WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS GUILT-TRIPPING ME INTO SLEEPING TAKING OFF MY FULL CLOTHES TOUCH MY PRIVATE PARTS BY A MAN I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO! THIS IS CLASSIC GUILT-TRIPPING! I WILL NOT CONSENT! PERIOD!!!!!! ALONGSIDE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, I LOOK FOR SIMILAR VALUES ALSO WHICH INCLUDES NON MISOGYNY, WHICH INCLUDES NOT FORCING…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:01 AM
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Ofcourse it does more often and it's rape. It happens more specifically in cultures where women are denied rights to live on their own so they are forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:31 PM
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Well this doom is better for me compared to have sex or forced or pressured to have sex, take off my clothes for someone I'm not physically attracted to. Period! You don't know how traumatic it is being pressured to have sex with someone you are really not attracted to! Huh! I would rather die a virgin happily! Not gonna consent! I'm fed up of incels trying to practically force us in various ways 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:30 PM
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It's obvious why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:34 PM
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Both genders cheat almost equally statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:34 PM
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What do you mean most aren't! Then the sexual union must not happen! I will never ever have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. The thought of it shudders me deeply
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:13 PM
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Even I can't consent to sex with a man I'm not physically attracted to. Women's attraction is subjective. Women also come in various different shapes, sizes, heights and ages. A woman who is fitness oriented slim and well groomed most likely pursue a man like that within her same race or same phenotype. Even if those men have options they can't go around deceiving!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:11 PM
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What 50/50! If my partner and I both spend equal amount of time duration at work then it's obvious the house chores should be 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:09 PM
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What happines, No woman would want to be pressured into becoming a tradwife or doing most of the housechores especially when she chooses to have a job, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:40 AM
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My point was doing housechores is a shared responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:31 AM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:26 AM
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Sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:25 AM
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If men don't want to earn, they are free not to earn. There's no obligation upon them, but if you don't earn how would you support yourself. If both the partners are earning they should contribute to the household finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:24 AM
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There's a talk about Cooking and cleaning though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:20 AM
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Both men and women should be better partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:19 AM
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That's a good response
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:18 AM
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I'm a woman with low sexual libido and I can go without sex easily for life. You can keep your standards whatever you want, I have standards too and I can't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to physically and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:17 AM
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Men must be honest about whether they want a serious relationship or not, using women for sex through deceiving her is completely immoral and shattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:16 AM
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Men that want women that take care of their looks, take care of their fitness and appearance, those men must take care of their appearance fitness grooming, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:14 AM
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I don't think it will be dead bedroom as long as they are genuinely attracted to each other physically and emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:13 AM
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Seriously! Why do so many men cheat then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:12 AM
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Cooking cleaning isn't related to gender. If two people are living together they Must do the chores together!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:10 AM
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Men specifically approach women that they find physically attractive usually the ones that are lean flim or curvy with good waist to hip ratio, not any women. While when women have physical standards such as fit lean etc for many not for all, many men get triggered. I have seen a lot of men actively guiltrippin women into unwanted sexual relationships. Something which I have experienced myself but I stil saved myself thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:09 AM
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Why don't men be honest initially and tell women that they are only looking for sex? Tons of men lie to women's faces saying they want something serious and after having sex they leave them, huh!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:07 AM
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Are you saying women must be Forcefully thrown out of the workforce so they couldn't earn on their own, live on their own, couldn't afford safety roof over their heads foods and all and eventually be forced into marriages and non consented sex and won't be able to escape as she couldn't support herself like what happens in my patriarchal society where the Arranged marriages are quite normal and women are financially dependent couldn't escape and then raped!!!
/r/MensRights11/10/25 02:08 PM
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That ain't institutionalized! True! It's still institutionalized in certain cultures particularly where the Arranged marriages are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:41 AM
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American women have been assaulted and forced, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:30 AM
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It’s true that girls often perform better in coursework and continuous assessment than in one-off high-pressure exams. But this doesn’t mean the system was “rigged” in their favor—it simply diversified evaluation to measure a broader range of skills, such as consistency, organization, and comprehension over time. These are valid academic abilities, not “non-academic” factors. Qualities like neatness and cooperation are sometimes rewarded in early education because they correlate with engagement …
/r/MensRights11/10/25 07:29 AM
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Majority do atleast in my culture. We have the tradition of forced arranged marriages and women in it are pressured and guilt tripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:52 AM
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I know it's not force, but it's considered acceptable for a decent looking man to cheat which is extremely immoral. Oftentimes these guys legitimately deceive women, they initially pretend to be decent humans who aren't cheaters to get what they want and after that they completely change. It's extremely dishonest. Regardless of how you look like YOU MUST NOT BE A CHEATER, YOU SHOULDN'T Deceive OTHERS AND DON'T BE DISHONEST!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:41 AM
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You said majority, it depends on the kind of culture. The culture I'm living in, it's considered socially acceptable for decent looking men (fitness oriented having some abs, better styling, good grooming) to cheat on their wives and girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:27 AM
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Are you talking about teaching men to not have sex with an unconsenting woman through a forced arranged marriage is feminization of education?
/r/MensRights08/10/25 09:09 AM
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Nobody is talking about the innocent men that are not guilt-tripping forcing or pressuring women to have sex with men they don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:58 AM
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So will you dismiss the cases of legit sexual harrasments and legit sexual assaults? Those guilt-tripping have happened to me personally so I'm describing them. Many men literally don't take no for an answer. Many cultures are thriving on forced arranged marriages of women which your manosphere, Andrew Tate and Myron Gains like retards promote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:08 AM
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Because there are plenty of men that actually literally support forcing guilt-tripping and pressuring women into sex because of their sexual frustration which is Not moral and factually promotion of sexual abuse. I personally have come across such sexually frustrated men, they straight out label me shallow or fat phobic just because I don't want to have any intimate sexual relationship with men I'm not physically attracted to and this is a classic guilt-trip used by the men to Coerce women into …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:13 AM
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We love each other platonically ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:22 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:43 AM
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Yeah, but I'm not very religious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:43 AM
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I'm a woman and I choose to live like this until I find a man I'm attracted to and I'm sexually passive that's just how I'm. I have no problem with celibate life. 😑😑😑 I never supported that men should be insulted for being virgins. It's mostly men who do it with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:41 AM
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Are you saying I'm a loser for not choosing to have sex and choosing voluntary celibacy? Is this some sort of guilt-trippin?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:11 PM
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Aah okay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:47 PM
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I do have close friends, lol. Yeah people do wonder about me but I just tell them it's what it is and I can't really force myself and can't have sex just to please the people. It's horrible, you gotta have desire for the person not pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:46 PM
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But I don't face any sexual frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:44 PM
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There's actually more people like me, probably you aren't in contact with them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:31 PM
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You mentioned about the people with low libido too that do want someone but couldn't find someone they are attracted to but living their lives fine also without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:30 PM
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I'm not asexual but just a person with low libido. I have a very responsive sexual desire also yet I'm a virgin but I'm fine with dying a virgin and I might die a virgin probably if I didn't find someone I'm physically and emotionally attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:29 PM
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Whatever! Oh yeah I'm a weirdo! You don't want to get laid with me! Fine!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:28 PM
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Sleeping around isn't my thing at all. Traumatizing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:27 PM
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I'm pretty sure there's far more people that die Virgins 😑 Perhaps I might, too. And I have no health issues! It sounds like you are trying to say people that are older and virgins have health issues! Utterly not true. Many of us are simply not sexually DESPERATE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:25 PM
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What makes you think we have baggage! You don't want to have sex with us, it's fine! But don't make negative comments like we have baggage. There's women with low libido and just can't have sex until or unless they are attracted to someone both physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:24 PM
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Your last paragraph is just applicable on me, and I'm a woman. There's more women with low libido I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:22 PM
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Some people just tend to have low libido and they can just live without sex fine especially when they have not found someone they were not into both physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:21 PM
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I can't force someone to be in a relationship with me, I have to respect their decision
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:19 PM
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That's a very sensible comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:13 PM
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Why is it a bad thing to be a virgin? I'm not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:12 PM
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There are people like me who like this lifestyle and simply aren't willing to have intimate relationships with someone we aren't emotionally and physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:11 PM
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Exactly,I'm a 28 year old Virgin myself and I just can't have sex with someone I am not physically and emotionally attracted to. People do find it weird, but I can't force myself either, but I'm alright, because I know women like me and we kind of support each other atleast online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:10 PM
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It's crazy but it's what it is. How many men will help a woman who is trafficked and forced to do the sex in the brothel. Can you give an estimation? Here in South Asia, only few how about in your culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:04 AM
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It's not feminist propaganda I personally have met up with sex workers that were crying and were threatened to do the sex work. Their pimps were threatening them! Thankfully they escaped through the help of some NGOs. In South Asia, 95 percent are forced they aren't receiving any legal help and despite wanting to escape they can't escape. They must be protected and help to escape
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:56 AM
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In South Asia, there's plenty of evidence. In European countries also a significant proportion is forced not as much as the South Asia and the African countries. Also many women are trafficked from the third world countries and forced to the first world countries. That's a well proven fact. Human trafficking and sexual exploitation is indeed a big issue that must be stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:47 AM
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Even in Europe many prostitutes are sex trafficked, forced in the sex industry there's numerous proofs of if In South Asia over 95 percent are forced into this industry which is sexual exploitation and must be stopped. Forced arranged marriages were common in mediaeval ages when women were nothing but chattel, it still happens in many parts of the world, if a woman repeatedly refuses an arranged marriage she might be disowned with no safety or could be honour killed. Ofcourse you can have sex as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:21 AM
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Nope they won't, even if I had given birth to the children still I wouldn't vote for such disgusting misogynistic laws!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:44 PM
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You can't introduce a law when the half of the population is massively rebelling against it. The women!! Huh!! Also the current army! You just fear mongering to pressure women into unwanted sexs which is degenerative!! Again I'm telling only a little percentage of men are in combative force and many of us women have no problem with the conscription as long as we aren't raped by the degenerative disgusting men!! Still fight the men who makes wars!! And don't go to the wars if you seriously don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:37 PM
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Nobody is raiding your country! Just don't let the regressive backwards enter your countries What the heck! Even then most of the men aren't going to go to the wars. No we are not going to pay more! Stop guilt tripping us into unwanted sex It's creepy and disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:30 PM
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Nope since I live in mediaeval type of culture myself so I know it very well. In mediaeval times many women were forced into sex and childbirth, beaten to death' if they reject those which was why feminism movement took place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:25 PM
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What autonomy protection when you guys are literally forcing us into sex and childbirth It's straight up degenerative!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:24 PM
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Why should we pay more taxes huh? Because we aren't opening our legs for you! NO WE AREN'T GOING TO PAY MORE BUT EQUAL!! HUH!! WHY ARE MEN CREATING THOSE FUCKING WARS!! NOBODY IS TELLING YOU TO GO TO THOSE WARS DON'T GO TO THEM IF YOU DON'T WANT TO!! ONLY ONE TO TWO PERCENT MEN PARTICIPATE IN THE WARS IN THE PRESENT DAY!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:23 PM
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Is it a rape threat? Huh? Don't worry it won't happen! We might return to the hunter gatherers timeline when women had a better status not mediaeval times when plentiful of women were literally forced and Raped!! Because of the wars caused by the men mostly and property inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:21 PM
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Why don't men fight against the other men who create wars! Only one to two percent of men participate in wars in the modern day. Women pay taxes same as men!! Don't know what you are trying to convey!! Still a proud cat lady!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:17 PM
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What'.is this! Trying to make women fight each other! Sorry bro it won't happen! We will seal our legs die virgins instead of sleeping with men like you with such a misogynistic mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:16 PM
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Infinity ♾️ time better to be a cat 🐈 lady than to be forced into sex repeatedly and forced into pregnancies straight up sexual and physical abuse ,🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:12 PM
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What the hell!! Most of us women support each other in terms of no woman must be forced into sex and pregnancies! Stop making excuses about raping us and forcing us to breed, it sounds hyper cruel disgusting and straight up sexual abuse!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:11 PM
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Go fight the men making wars instead of trying to raid on our bodies! And hell no I'm not obliged to have sex with a man I'm not attracted to and I'll not and neither any woman! It's straight up sexual abuse. Being money machine is still not as worse as being forced to have sex and forced to go through pregnancies which are literal sexual and physical abuse! Aren't you guys barbaric, cruel and VIOLENT for wanting to force us into unwanted sexual relationships and unwanted pregnancies!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:49 PM
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Fuck off! I'm a woman human not a birthing machine sex slave who is forced to have sex aka rape and forced to reproduce! If you guys are so desperate Better hit on those women also that are unquote conventionally unattractive for example obese unkempt etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:38 PM
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How about men try to look attractive for women Through Fixing their misogyny! Many women also want quote unquote attractive men lean fit no pot belly sharp featured just as many men hit on as well as being non misogynistic Maybe then many women choose willingly Hit on women that are obese unkempt also they also want children and marriages Otherwise our legs are sealed, we aren't going to reproduce in a pathetic rapistic society. Also those backward cultures. I'm the feminist of that backward cul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:33 PM
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Conquered or raped!! Huh! What is it - an open threat! Sorry we prefer extinction than being raped and forced to open our legs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:28 PM
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Who created those bloodshed! That were mostly men, let's be honest!! Still you can't force us into breeding and opening our legs for men we aren't ATTRACTED to. And women did just as much work in many different ways to build the society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:18 PM
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How many men do you think are in the military and what percentage of men are actually fighting in the wars! And who are starting most of the wars, men! Maybe men should fight those men! Also, just because some men are going in the wars doesn't mean women are forced to breed and forced into unconsensual sexual relationships aka rapes. You mean when a society gets conquered with bunch of rapistic morons that deserve to die because they keep raping women, degenerates pathetic assholes! Lusting afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:25 PM
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What the heck! Is this an open rape threat! That if you don't open your legs for us you are gonna be raped?? Do you even have any idea what you are talking about?? Fuck off! We would rather want EXTINCTION than this literal rape culture!! And being forced to have sex and being forced to breed!!! Huh!! We women are humans not chattels! No point in giving birth in a barbaric world where we are raped through arranged forced marriages and forced to breed!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:07 PM
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WE CAN'T BE FORCED TO OPEN OUR LEGS, MADE TO STAY FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT SO THAT WE STAY AS BROODMARES AND NO WAY TO ESCAPE, WE CAN'T BE FORCED INTO PREGNANCIES. so much bothered about the birth rate then invent birthing machines to keep the population sustained
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:26 AM
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Not true, I live in a very conservative patriarchal culture where I Clearly see many women to be forced into marriages, forced into unconsensual sexual relationships and even Forced into pregnancies. Women are forcefully denied freedom of education, mobility for better opportunities, and safety outside to be able to live on their own resulting women not being able to escape and eventually forced into marriages. While many men despite having the financial independence and capability of living on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:24 AM
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"Men respect women’s autonomy and right to be independent HOWEVER some men may think at what cost - the decline of birth rates and society. This will eventually affect social security retirement, GNP and other social programs, infrastructure etc." Sounds more of promotion of forced arranged marriages and coercive sexual relationships upon women through snatching her financial independence and making her incapable of living on her own. I live in a very patriarchal society myself and I see it happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:20 AM
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Weight filter is for everyone, lol. More men are overweight compared to women in the young ages. Catfishing is abbhorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:28 AM
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What about the average Black men? You are saying as if most of them are fit too. As said women generally become obese years later after marriage due to pregnancies while more men are overweight in young ages
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:50 AM
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Some guys look better with beards, some look better clean shaven. You will have to check it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:22 PM
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Have a stubble not a literal beard! Many women say they like beard, but it's better to remove it. Also, Manilla is a good option, do go there, but if you can't find a woman there, go to South Asia (India and Bangladesh more specifically due to the huge population density, most men in these countries are not well groomed, aren't well dressed and simply aren't fit, most have pot Bellies, so your chances will be much better in these regions being a fit, well dressed man, but you will have to tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:40 AM
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Try changing the location. You will have a better luck! Why don't you go to South Asia 🤔 Culture is super Toxic in south Asia, and many women want to escape the culture, if you are lean fit quite well groomed, there's a high chance some women in your age range will find you attractive. Most south Asian men are dad bods and ungroomed with a lot of facial hair which quite frankly many women don't like so you will have a better chance, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:23 AM
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Even if you are just lean fit, quite well groomed, most likely you will find a girlfriend or wife in your age range. It's impossible that no woman in your age range is attracted to you. If you can't find one in your country or region move to another region or country. But if want a relationship or sex desperately you will have to lower your standards aka she might not be quote unquote slim or hourglass, might not have harmonious features, she could be overweight but well groomed. I would have gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:42 AM
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Still a guy can consider a hair transplant. A woman isn't obligated to date a balding fat guy especially when she isn't balding fat herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:10 PM
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What genetics! I can understand balding! But this Dad bod or beer bellies is definitely controllable!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:30 PM
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I set my location to the USA as well as to other countries, and 80 percent of the guys I come across are dad bods and balding not really lean fit and well groomed to be honest. Even men see stuff like facial Harmony and body fat distribution among women, let's be honest. Facial Harmony and facial features by and large depends on the genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:24 PM
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More young men are overweight and out of shape COMPARED to young women. Women do dieting fasting more that keep them in shape. More women are obese, but it's in later ages not at young marriageable ages and it's the FACT! Period! Women are far more likely to invest in skin care and grooming resulting mid women being attractive unlike mid men that are dad bods overweight unkempt at most cases. Go to dating apps you will literally see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:20 PM
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Most people are attracted to average bones! Don't understand what you are trying to say! Average bones Lower body fat Well groomed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:21 PM
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What is an average woman slim fit well groomed well presentable who has a normal BMI and lower body fat. And what is an average man dad bod unkempt higher than normal BMI and higher Body fat. By that logic an average woman is sexually and physically more attractive bro. Most people have average bones not straight out recessed bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:50 AM
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You are saying as if AMERICAN MEN are lean and fit quite well groomed, happily partake in child rearing and child caring and don't sleep around themselves despite being good looking and they don't hit the wall. Most American men are overweight beardneck also, madly running after slim and trim women, if those men go after obese women regardless of what those women's ages are, they would easily be paired up. I'm not even an American woman but a woman from a third world country who is well put toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:47 AM
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Normal weight for a man to them is overweight, high body fat, dad bod. While normal weight for a woman to them is ideal healthy range weight with less body fat. How deeply unfair! Also, they keep talking about height BS! Most women are average height of 5.2 to 5.4, while for men 5.7 to 5.9, the average height women have never had any problem with the average height men for the most part heightwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:02 AM
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Why not overweight unkempt men go for fat unkempt women? Bet that way they will be paired easily. Besides similar phenotypic preference or standard is common in both men and women almost equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:48 AM
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I as a woman I'm not into unkempt overweight men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:05 AM
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When? Even vast majority of men would find a woman to be undesirable if she's obese, has a pot belly, ungroomed, unkempt, thinning hair and specially when those men are fit and well-groomed themselves. And even in the post it's mentioned clearly that most men aren't into overweight unkempt women especially when he is fit non-overweight well-groomed guy himself. And what do you mean by healthy? I have seen plenty of overweight obese high body fat men considering themselves healthy, while consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:00 AM
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I do! And this is why the Ukrainian women are fleeing! Either they should be made to fight with Russian women or they can flee the country. What are Russian people doing? Both the Countries men should fight their governments not force women into marriages aka unconsenting sexual relationships and forced childbirth, that's barbaric inhumane! Poor Ukrainian women! Not that they support the war or forcing Ukrainian men to go to the wars, it's the men that are forcing other men into going to the war…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:53 AM
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20 to 40 and that's what I see. I use a dating application on which I can change the locations and countries and that's what I personally come across. On that application you can make friends also. So it's a friendship cum dating application.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:47 PM
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Overweight guys going for a slim woman is incredibly common on dating apps bro! Please check! Besides, I rarely come across slim built men on dating apps compared to slim built women. It's based on my own experience with all due respect. Besides the looks part you should have basic decency also atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:41 PM
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Actually most women also are attracted to Semi cute guys, who are not overweight and obese has a good grooming, good hygiene and decent communication skills. As for the average - it's subjective bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:38 PM
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Voluntary celibacy must not be shamed, I'm a puritan feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:35 PM
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I don't height shame men, but just as many men don't want to date overweight women I also don't feel physical attraction to overweight pot belly men. I'm a lean built woman myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:34 PM
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You are forgetting mid women are much more invested in taking care of their fitness grooming appearance resulting her being more attractive on an objective spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:32 PM
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That's a great response
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:31 PM
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I think women can't comment here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:30 PM
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Infact, all the countries must send both the non pregnant and men into wars Men will fight men Women will fight women Fair and justified! Otherwise people must fight against the war inciting governments and organisations mostly led by the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:25 PM
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No one is making anyone sex slaves in today's time and age - what do you mean by that? So are you trying to say women must be forced into marriage aka unconsenting sexual relationships and childbirths, 🤮 barbaric, atrocious! Go fight against mandatory conscription for the men Also as a group people should step forward to protect a woman who is being harrassed - it's just Basic human DECENCY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:22 PM
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Modern men and modern women are of almost the same quality on an average. Both want physical attraction and some level of compatibility. If anything on an average men are more PROMISCUOUS than women and misogynistic men are preaching to go around keep stacking up the body count through cheating and deceiving! If anything, this is barbaric! Instead of keep stacking up the body count (no matter how you look like) - either stay committed to one woman or stay voluntarily celibate - this will prevent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:18 PM
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Every woman is different even women come in various shapes sizes ages and characteristics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:14 PM
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Why pump and dump them! For what reason exactly! I don't support Promiscuity in both the genders equally! Either a person (man/woman) settle with someone you are physically and emotionally attracted to, don't lie cheat decieve betray or stay voluntarily celibate for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:10 PM
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The wars you are talking about mostly made by the rich political men so men must fight against them to stop the wars, in no way it's justifiable to force women into unconsenting sexual relationships and child births. We as women don't want men to be mandatorily conscripted either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:05 PM
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Most people don't have recessed bones, period (Men or women)! Most have an average bone structure - not recessed or strong but in between which again is attractive enough, if the man has a lower body fat preferably packs and styled better. Point is these days we see very few men that are actually lean and fit, if most guys were lean fit and styled better, bet there would be a lot decently attractive looking guys out there and far more dudes will be considered attractive and dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:08 AM
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On average, yes, men have higher sexual desire than women. But women absolutely have sexual desire too—especially for men they are both physically and sexually attracted to. That’s why many women go for those so-called “attractive” guys just for flings. And since you’re not criticizing male promiscuity, then I don’t see why I should criticize female promiscuity or a woman’s desire to sleep with men she finds attractive. If those so-called good-looking guys are giving women the opportunity to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:48 AM
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Those promiscuous men are incentivized for being liars, abusers, and cheaters, while women are not—and that is the pure misogyny. The point is simple: people must view male and female promiscuity the same way. Otherwise, must not criticize female promiscuity at all. It's those men who should be criticized and held accountable for their cheating, lying, manipulative, promiscuous behavior. Otherwise, stop blaming female promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:27 AM
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Bad cheekbones and recessed chins are not that common infact the the common average features are just average cheek bones which are attractive enough at low body fat and most jawlines aren't week or strong but somewhere in between which again is attractive enough to most women. But your jawline and cheekbones are visible enough at low but healthy body fat, which drastically makes the male body attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:20 AM
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This is the problem! Keep saying women are the gatekeepers of sex and putting the blame of promiscuity on women but not on the men! If men justify each other's promiscuity then why do you think women will go against the women's promiscuity. Morality modesty decency and chastity must come from both the ends NOT just from the women's end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:18 AM
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For your last statement, it's not just about the women but men also need to stay in control instead of giving up on their lust and maintain morality and decency just as much they expect from the women to maintain their morality and decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:23 PM
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Many women are aware of these tactics now, which is why so many are choosing to stay single and celibate rather than settle with a man they aren’t physically attracted to, lacking commitment and basic decency. The problem is, a lot of these men are very good actors, and it’s hard to catch them red-handed unless the woman is extremely cautious and very clever. Of course, holding out until marriage can seem like a safeguard, but men can cheat after marriage as well (just as some women can), and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:43 PM
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Because you are clearly fking hating on women as they don't choose to sleep with men they aren't attracted to and justify male promiscuity. Your top 20 is hypothetical and what you find top 20 is subjective and varies from person to person! So I mentioned slim well groomed women go for slim fit well groomed men. If a guy can go for a hotter woman, it's fine for him then there's NOTHING wrong with a girl going for a guy who is hotter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:49 AM
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What do you mean by the ugly women in general? Infact the ugliness is subjective! I talked about slim well groomed women going after slim fit well groomed guys which is obvious!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:45 AM
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Men can go for plastic surgeries too Men on an average earn higher, so if a woman can go for a plastic so can he! Besides, most people go for the minor plastic surgery!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:44 AM
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Ofcourse that's what 99 percentage of the women do! If she is well groomed fit and slim she chooses or go after men who are also well groomed slim fit. If slim fit well groomed is top 20 percent then MANY OF US HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH STAYING SINGLE AND CELIBATE FOR LIFE WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT SNATCHING MEN'S RIGHTS OF EDUCATION OPPORTUNITIES ETC! Men do complain about cheating! What the hell! They do all the time! By their girlfriends and wives! Maybe they should have chosen Better!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:40 AM
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I talked about the men that are so sexually desperate that they talk about snatching basic rights for women and forcing us into sex and they can't stay voluntarily celibate also without raging at women - that they better work on self improvement - lower body fat, considering hair transplant, grooming the things which are in his control! And still if they can't find women that they are sexually attracted to then Lower their standards and approach fat women also - they can be wonderful partners. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:37 AM
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What choose Better! Are you saying being forced or pressured fuck! Men Butter stop justifying each other's promiscuity! By that logic I can say, they if a guy is cheated or lied to, he should have chosen Better!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:33 AM
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Women generally (not all) date men with similar faces as theirs, similar race and similar features like nose and jawline! The same way many men do. For body if they are slim fit they go for another slim fit men. About average and ugly - it depends how you define it. Women date men usually with similar facial features and body types as hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:53 PM
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I talked about the young ages more specifically when people are more likely to date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:47 PM
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Well most slim fit groomed women as well as other type of women find other slim fit well groomed men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:41 PM
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I did obviously and did my research. In America for example and in the most countries women are obese at older ages not younger dating ages. In America there's more overweight men than women in the young age group so as in most countries. Besides in many countries there's many countries where there's more obese men than women according to the world population review site.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:36 PM
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Because from other countries the data is not mentioned well, infact it's the same in countries like China and India
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:32 PM
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Search overweightness in America for young men and women. You will find the results. Also the overweightedness is higher among the older women not the younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:17 PM
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Well most women if they are well groomed slim fit, go for the men that are also well groomed and slim fit and usually go for someone similar facial features as hers, same phenotype etc, so women usually go for their lookmatch! Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:11 PM
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Look up the data about overweightedness! More young men are overweight compared to young women. Men and women are obese at almost an equal rate! And women are obese at an older age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:09 PM
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When it comes to physical attractiveness, if a man insists on pursuing women with a certain physique or specific features, then he should hold himself to the same standards. And if he’s truly desperate for a relationship, the alternatives are clear: lower his standards, work on improving himself, or also consider dating women who are fat or obese. Otherwise, if he truly cannot be with a woman he isn’t physically attracted to, he can choose voluntary celibacy without raging at women. On the finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:05 PM
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It's not lookmaxxing! If you compare the obesity and overweightedness rate to the past, it has increased significantly specially among men due to sedentary lifestyle and men consuming worse diet these days and this has impacted level of attractiveness in a conventional sense. More women take care of their slimness through yoga pilates diet in their younger ages resulting less overweightedness among young women compared to young men. In the past many men also wore nice clothes, kept themselves cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:15 PM
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If you are justifying the promiscuity of those 20 percent men then I should not criticize the promiscuity of women that get to get laid with the chads 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:04 PM
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If you are expecting a woman who has a certain physique and certain features maybe hold yourself to the same standards or simply go for women that are similar looking or similar size as you! After there's plenty of women that do want relationships, regardless of shape size height age and can be wonderful partners!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:03 PM
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If a cheater cheats and lies it's 100 percent his fault! He must be blamed! He must have been honest! 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:51 PM
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We must not be forced to sleep with a man we aren't attracted to! Period! He can choose to go for a woman who is also fat and unkempt like him 😑 why! Can't those women be good! Stop BULLSHITing about the 20 percent Women go for their lookmatch as mentioned As for the commitment Yeah we either look for the commitment and physical attraction both or forever celibacy without being misandrists!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:51 PM
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Why do you think we can't! Because we aren't choosing to sleep with men that aren't entitled misogynist! Refuse to work on their appearance and grooming while intently running after only and slim fit well groomed women! Also many of us are okay with staying forever celibates! Without wanting to snatch men's rights job opportunities and their educational rights. About height I mentioned already in my previous comments! Average woman is 5.2 5.3 doesn't have any problem with an average height guy o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:48 PM
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What the hell! This average and looks is subjective! If he is being an asshole liar cheater, it's absolutely his fault! He MUST BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS WHORENESS! For his stupidity and shamelessness! If he wasn't ATTRACTED to her he should have been fking clear! I said a slim well groomed woman usually goes for a slim well groomed guy! Don't know what your average is exactly! 😑 We have the right to scream for the commitment and he must be clear about Whether he is going to committed or not, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:41 PM
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If you are a religious guy then absolutely you shouldn't be justifying his PROMISCUITY and cheating! He must be held accountable for such traits and must stay stick to one woman! There's plenty of women (regardless of her shape size height weight and all) that do look for personality over looks and do get in relationships with men that are less attractive than her. But there are girls that need physical attraction also just as there are men that need physical attraction and one can't be forced t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:33 PM
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I am NOT A TROLL! on what grounds are you calling me so! What choose Better, it's the fault of those cheaters that chear, they should stop being MANWHORES and be better and just stay stick to one woman! Why don't you guys bully those chads instead! I didn't describe ugly or not ugly I described an average woman takes care of her fitness grooming appearance a lot more than an average man which is a LITERAL FACT! which is why more women find women attractive and not the other way Around! It's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:27 PM
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Some of us are happily celibates not desperate for sexual relationships like clearly you guys are looking! Maybe you guys should look for personality over looks 🤔 instead of intently chasing only slim fit well groomed women! Afterall, There's plenty of women that seek relationships regardless of their shape size height and weight! And would just love a man who stays loyal and non misogynistic! He can't do what he wants, he can't be a liar Abuser cheater, period! Just because he is decently attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:21 PM
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They do, but still women take care of their appearance fitness slimness a lot more than men in younger ages factually! Literally! Proofs are literally lying on the internet which is why more men are attracted to women! Women aren't attracted to toxic abusers, atleast the vast majority! many a times those guys pretend to be the good guys they lie and cheat and deciet! For that they must be held accountable! Many women do leave them after finding out about their whoreness and many of them do settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:16 PM
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I have the right to become angry at decietful and lier guys who pretend to be good guys but are not and hop from one woman to another no matter how he looks like! 🤮 Maybe if men are so desperate for sex they should go for older Obese overweight unkempt women also!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:00 PM
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If a guy takes care of his appearance grooming and fitness then he deserves a woman who does these same things? But if he isn't getting a woman like that but you want a sexual relationship so much then lower your standards! What's wrong with dating an obese or overweight woman when I literally see a lot of couples where a woman is slim and the man clearly has a beer belly and is balding.. And what do you mean by average men and average women! If your average man definition is someone who lets hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:58 PM
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Where did I say 80 percent of the men are ugly! Cite me! It's not wrong for telling the truth! Neither it's trolling! Men statistically and FACTUALLY take less care of grooming maintainance fitness and all compared to young women while men factually only chase after women that are well groomed well Kempt fit or have a CURVY sexy body! And your last paragraph is highly derogatory! It's the fault of those community dicks that lie and deceit! Most women aren't willing to be someone's side chick fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:52 PM
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You troll! Maybe troll those chads for being COMMUNITY DICKS AND THE MANWHORES! IT'S NOT THE FAULT OF WOMEN IF HE CHEATS OR DECIETS! 🤔 YES WOMEN WILLINGLY GO TO MEN THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO, IT'S OBVIOUS BUT IF HE IS AN ASSHOLE CHEATER AND SHE LEAVES HIM THEN KUDOS TO HER! Those MANWHORES must be blamed! WHY DON'T YOU MEN FUCK WOMEN THAT ARE OBESE NOT VERY KEMPT OR OVERWEIGHT AND ALL!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:48 PM
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In the old ages and it's not twice as likely, the percentage of obese men and women are equal! Don't know which resources you are referring to. While in the young reproductive ages women are more likely to stay in shape more likely to stay lean and fit while more men are overweight statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:45 PM
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Even men lie about their body count and how would you even know which woman is lying? Just by looking at her! Is her body count written on her head? This 20 percent is a MISOGYNISTic bullshit! These 20 percent are the guys that takes care of their looks fitness appearance grooming slimness which most women do resulting more quote unquote conventionally attractive woman due to better grooming and maintainance as a result we find more women approaching these quote unquote 20 percent men but still …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:42 PM
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What average guy! If woman takes care of her appearance grooming fitness she RIGHTFULLY deserves a guy like that! Not all the good looking guys are whores! Not that the word whore is written on someone's head! It's the problem with the guys that are liers and decietful pretend to be good then cheat! They must be held accountable for their cheating behaviour! Why don't you guys approach overweight obese women that aren't curvy 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:37 PM
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You are a troll misogynist! Obviously! Maybe chads must be told to stop being community dicks! What do you mean by the chads! Broh! Women usually go for their lookmatch! A fit lean well groomed woman goes for another fit lean well groomed guy usually! Also, what do you mean by why do women fuck the chads? Many times those chads pretend to be the good guys and hide their true disgusting colours which is the problem. They should stay truthful and have a basic human decency instead of fucking aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:30 PM
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What's trolling then? And by what definition I'm trolling! I just presented the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:28 PM
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IM NOT what is trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:53 PM
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What the hell you are even talking about? Why do you guys hate women so much? If anything on an average a woman has a lower body count than men on an average! Why do you want to force women that are slim fit to sleep with men that are not slim and fit and she isn't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:52 PM
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who!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:50 PM
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😂 what! Which world are you living in? ! Are you saying 5.3 women are only and only married to 6 feet plus men! Most 5.3 women statiscally and factually consider 5.9 a decent height for a man and I mostly see a 5.3 with a 5.7 or a 5.8! Gosh! That too I'm talking about the western progressive countries where women actually have a choice and the basic human rights atleast socially. Asian women are mostly married and partnered with Asian men statistically especially the East Asian! Also, I said rac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:48 PM
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Maybe the chad is a whore! Why can't he stay stick to just one woman instead of hopping from one to another. He is to be blamed! He needs to be told to stay stick to one woman 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:40 PM
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I didn't say that! Lol What I said, most women put effort in appearance styling and fitness which most men aren't doing resulting women not feeling attraction towards men the way men do! Why don't men lower their standards and approach women that are even plus sized or overweight or large or obese instead of making fun of them online. If you consistently chase women that are fitting in some standards you will have to put yourself into those same standards or lower your standards if you really wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:38 PM
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Do you even know what you are writing, bro? 5.3 is an average height for women worldwide while for men the average is 5.7 to 5.9. You see a 5.3 woman with a 5.7 or 5.9 man all the time. Average height for both the genders. Also 5.3 man is much shorter than an average for a man. Not to mention there's plenty of women that are shorter than 5 feet or 4.5 or 4.7 like that. A 5.3 M slim fit well groomed has better chances with a much shorter woman although we do find women that are in relationships w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:33 PM
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Lol what's a three, can you specify me exactly? A woman who is slim and fit, well groomed go for a guy who is also slim well groomed similar features as hers (at many cases, ofcourse not all the cases, I have seen slim woman with Chubby men). Most guys don't put efforts into grooming and fitness the way most young women do, is a different thing bro! Hence hypergamy is bullshit!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:00 PM
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Very derogatory comment! 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:52 PM
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Christ this 80 20 rule. Women mostly go for their looks match,.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:52 PM
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No sorry, your statement about women like cheaters and liers isn't logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:52 PM
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No it doesn't, women generally look for men that they are physically attracted to and who are loyal. This is the general ruling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:29 PM
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Something that I can't imagine doing. My situation is not poor bro! Thankfully I have a supportive father and a supportive family that actually keeps me protected from such things so I could do a decent job and stay self reliant instead of being pushed/ oftentimes forced to be with men that I'm not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:28 PM
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Bathing regularly is a basic thing bro. I did not even describe about that in the comment, what I mentioned was about taking care of ones appearance, fitness, grooming and styling etc as well as being nice and warm. Anyone can be Cruel cheater lier regardless of how one looks like. Never said good looking men are inherently cheaters or bad looking men pretend to be kind to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:23 PM
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🤣 oh my God! Why are you guys think women are terrible? seriously! What makes you think women for the most part love cheaters and liers. No one chooses those cheaters, intentionally. They pretend to be cheaters or they cheat, it's the cheater's fault that they cheat not the victims' period! Women in general want men that they find physically attractive (I described the traits that women find attractive in general on physical terms) and aren't cheaters also, something that men also want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:17 PM
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Then I'm also top 10 percent despite being in late 20s, 😂. But I have no problem with staying as a celibate for life. I see many men that are in shape, not balding, good grooming cheating as well as simply lacking basic human decency, so I'm okay by myself. I need both physical attraction and basic decency for a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:25 AM
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Only about 10 percent American men and women are lean and fit. I'm not smoking weed bro! Excluding dad bods and overweight. So these individuals eventually come to top 10 percent regardless of age. It's happening in other countries also.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:15 AM
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I updated my comment, read again. Yeah having these things put a man in top 10 percent same as top 10 percent women because most of the individuals atleast in America are overweight. Unkemptness is another thing. What 6 figures! I'm not going to be intimate with his 6 figures dollars, lol. 😂 I have no problem with dying as a woman with 0 body count which is why I'm chill. The older I'm getting the better I'm looking up until 40s. And 23 that's too young 🤮 You barely have college degree by that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:04 AM
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Lol, 😂 I have a zero body count and I stay fit, average height woman and what I look for is an average height man, who is lean fit like I'm, takes care of his grooming like I do, atleast isn't balding, I am not balding myself, lol, similar looking to me, Ofcourse he should have basic human decency, too. Yeah, my age range guy. I don't understand why decent looking men are given pass to cheat on women just because they are decent looking. Just because someone stays in shape doesn't give them the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:58 AM
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Most men aren't that horrible Obviously I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:45 AM
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Weight is relative to height so better add BMI filter. I don't want to date an overweight unkempt man either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:45 AM
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Go ahead develop personality Basic human decency Upgrade looks I'm a brown woman living in India yet I can stay single for life if I don't find someone I'm not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:44 AM
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Oftentimes these good men aren't in shape, don't take of their grooming and appearance etc stay overweight but keep hitting on and demanding women that stays in shape, wear some makeup, stays presentable, how is this fair? I don't even consider them good men. If you want a partner that's is shape with good grooming, you should be doing the same without being a cheater and lier. Also men that stays in shape, average height, good grooming feel that they are entitled to cheating and bad behaviour a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:42 AM
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What is average! Overweight obese Straight out balding. By that logic an average woman is also overweight and balding 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:39 AM
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That's a total lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:38 AM
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Well I take care of my grooming and stay in shape so I want the same kind of guy with a good personality. 😑 I stay in shape so this means I'm top 10 percent so I should go for top 10 percent for the physical attraction aspect. For me it's important just like for many guys. Can't control it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:28 AM
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I'm in shape so I look for who is also in shape 😑 Yet when I reject a guy in a normal without any insult because he wasn't my type physically, I get called ugly and mid!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:26 AM
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It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:03 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:34 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:24 AM
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Some women find great pleasure in casual sexual relationships just like some men. Everyone has a different sexual psychology. Mine is also different. I'm someone who highly embraces celibacy for myself and for people like me. I'm the kind of person who can only be intimate with someone I'm physically attracted to (You know someone I find physically appealing that it ignites the spark in me, who looks appealing to me and there's certain physical traits that specifically turns me on otherwise I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:59 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:51 PM
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Glad to meet you. I don't call them ugly obviously. It's obviously indecent but many times I have been harrassed bullied shamed by these guys after I reject them as I don't feel any physical attraction towards them so that's what I wanted to address out and obviously the unfairness when it comes to physical attraction aspect such as women must look presentable to please men's eyes regardless of how unkempt men are themselves. It's like women are supposed to induce sexual arousal while whether th…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 06:47 AM
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To know the answer.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 06:19 PM
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What's the problem if I posted this here?
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 05:03 PM
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I am looking for an answer actually, but let it be now. If you have read my answer deeply you would have known why I have posted this.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 02:55 PM
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Online sexual harrasments are indeed traumatic not as traumatic as it's not literally happening to you physically but it is on a mental level. Getting shamed for rejecting a guy, yeah, it feels very bad and at times violating. So this isn't okay with and is not something which should be generalized and considered fine. As for my My dating strategy, I'm not particularly very interested in dating and all. Although, I keep searching someone I'm attracted to and compatible with for the most part but…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 08:42 AM
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I don't get to talk to men much and I'm a bit introverted. Besides, I am not telling women what to do, lol? Why would I, I am a woman myself. I hope you read all my comments well. Besides, why shaming me for choosing to stay single something I literally have no problem about. I told you multiple times I can live celibate for life than having to be intimate with someone I'm not attracted to. But again if I find someone I am physically attracted to and have similar values with, sure I'll be more t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 08:20 AM
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Com'on I live in a very patriarchal culture myself. Women are its victim mostly as men have financial independence to support themselves as well as to support their families. Besides, if you are expecting grooming and fitness or leanness from your partner, it's obvious maybe you should work on such things, too, if you want a relationship deeply and having trouble with finding getting women, there's nothing gay about it. It shows hypocrisy that women must be forced or pressured into looking good …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 07:31 AM
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Well sexual harrasment survivors do face mental trauma. You being harrassed by someone you rejected is indeed traumatic not like rape survivors obviously but there's trauma. Besides, being shamed for rejecting someone is also traumatic, it will make you overthink and hyper vigilant. Maybe I'm not living at the kind of place where I should be considering what I'm looking for or maybe the guy that I felt attracted to has different values, beliefs and could be just attracted to a different style an…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 07:22 AM
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You can absolutely say block and move on. But real life situations get threatening and aggressive. Besides, my point was if you are being rejected in a respectfully one of the reasons could is the person is not physically attracted to you then just move on and try finding someone else instead of bullying or shaming the one who rejected you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 07:10 AM
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Probably you aren't reading my comments well. Some women are more visual and can be turned on by only and only athletic well groomed men while some women are just not that visual and women even men (though women face this more) must not be forced or guilt-tripped to sleep with men or women they aren't attracted to, that's violent. The reality isn't sexist but many misogynists are trying to snatch away basic human rights from women sadly leading them to be forced into marriages which are cruel an…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 07:04 AM
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Christ! Your comment sounds very sexist again. I never said men can't have standards. What I was saying was women can be as visual as men. Back in the days for example in the stone age, society was nearly egalitarian and mates were selected based on strength muscularity fitness for men and probably curves for women and both married quite young. Even in the agricultural times, men were considerably leaner and fitter and many groom themselves well. Thankfully women can earn nowadays and it's less …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 06:49 AM
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I might not be having much luck (despite putting efforts for example in my appearance and maybe because of the kind of culture I live in which is extremely patriarchal and women are lower class citizens) but at the same time I don't want to be pressured or guilt-tripped into being intimate with someone I'm not physically attracted to period! I can live single for life. The question I asked sound like a normal question. Yeah women can behave like that and not that I'm justifying such kind of beha…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 06:26 AM
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As I mentioned on my comment earlier I take care of my appearance, I have a lean built and I do work out so yeah I'm expecting some who is lean fit himself, and does take care of his grooming and all, besides I'm not into money and all, I'm not rich myself. Considering this my standards are quite realistic and extremely fair. Besides, while rejecting those guys I don't tell them specifically if they are ugly or whatever, I just reject them politely and sometimes I do have to mention I'm into lea…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 06:16 AM
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You are saying as if it's only women's health markers that determines the genetics and health of the children, it's mens also. Children inherit 50 percent of their genetics from their fathers and the first two children heavily look like their fathers even appearance wise so by this logic it's crucial for women to mate with men that are objectively attractive such as lean fit better facial symmetry clear skin etc. Your answer seems very sexist and many women are as visual as many men are. Before …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 05:45 AM
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Society has allowed men to be ambitious for thousands of years while women oftentimes are shamed for being ambitious and are called masculine for so, that's another thing. Besides, many areas are quite unsafe, it's just unsafe for women in those areas to live by themselves and follow their career and ambition. Well I'm not criticizing women that are choosing bulkier men, absolutely not, if they are sexually and physically attracted to him, that's okay but but but women when they are visual like …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 05:30 AM
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Isn't it obvious from my question and my post description?. I wanted to know how average women and men look like because to me it seems to be very subjective and region based. And double standards, at men openly preferring wanting or saying they want women to be slim or curvy or in shape and well Kempt, yet being considered normal in the society, they are allowed to live peacefully with what they are looking for and sometimes even admired while when women are visuals like I'm as I mentioned to y…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 05:26 AM
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Ofcourse fat women do but at most cases at the initial phase of the relationship they aren't fat usually either moderate to slim and people have most of the intimacy during the initial phase of the relationship, besides, if a man turns down my proposal I don't get mad at him like many men get mad at me, insult me, label me as shallow when I don't find them physically attractive (mind you, I don't body shame them, I just respectfully decline their proposal because I don't want to be coerced or pr…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 05:08 AM
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There are things I can better lead I think. For me, yeah, I'm pretty visual so much so that only athletic lean slim men turns me on who aren't very hairy and are specifically clean shaven. And I can't fathom having to have sex with a man I'm not physically attracted to like someone with gut belly, bulky, balding, no offense, but sorry I just can't be intimate with them although if the values align I can be friends with them but no intimacy besides I don't want to be pressured forced or coerced i…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 04:55 AM
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I hardly see men approaching women that are fat like even from the belly side. Even when it comes to approaching fat women they usually approach those fat women that have relatively smaller waists, while I keep seeing overweight unkempt men approaching slimmer well Kempt women and sadly many of them bully or shame those women when these women RESPECTFULLY turn down their proposals. To be honest, this is something that I have faced personally as well. Now ofcourse not all the men are like that bu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 04:48 AM
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Hmmm, personally I am very visual. I get turned on by only athletic or slim fit type of guys who are well Kempt and when it comes to height, even if it is around 5.9, it will be okay for me. Money doesn't matter to me much. That being said, it's sad to see, how it's okay for men to be visual, to want women that are well Kempt and slimmer while when women are visual and only certain types of bodies turn them on, they face a massive backlash. I tell what I'm looking for to women a lot of times and…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 04:37 AM
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Try working on your body and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:32 PM
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Makes sense
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 12:31 PM
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I almost think the same as you. I have a symmetrical face with large eyes. I do work on my fitness and I have a curvaceous body. Guys keep approaching me based on my appearance and guys while the moment I reject them because I don't feel attracted to them as they are obese and they don't take care of their appearance, I become shallow. Seriously! I would rather die a virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/25 11:56 AM
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Exactly
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/25 11:53 AM
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