Minute-Leg-9583 Archive

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0	The "friend" fallacy. You sound like you have some form of ASPD or at the very least a severely avoidant attachment style from the careless and detached way you talk about your girlfriend. Perhaps having friends is a prerequisite for those who want secure and emotionally healthy relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 11:39 PM
1	Are women lucky to have older guys simping for them ? In a purely survival sense, sure. If you’re a woman dating for love and connection, no. Having much older men express interest in me as a youth was disconcerting, demoralizing, and even sometimes scary. As a 20 year old I didn’t want a 40 year old man to be my lover, I wanted him to be a leader, a mentor, or an otherwise emotionally mature, disciplined, and stable adult with whom to have appropriate interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 11:23 PM
1	The expectation that one should have unadulterated trust in their spouse is unreasonable “Trust but verify.” - a President whose policies I didn’t particularly like but was a great speaker and said some smart stuff occasionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 11:16 PM
1	It is not men's responsibility how individual men behave If you’re a man, holding the other men in your life accountable for their actions is a moral responsibility. Not only for the sake of women’s safety, but for the sake of all people, for decency, and for being a good friend. Women should do this for other women too. I don’t want friends who don’t hold me accountable for my bullshit. Everyone should do it for all close personal relations. You’re not responsible for holding strangers accountable in most situations though IMO; there’s only so much t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 11:11 PM
19	How can I make more girl friends First off, thinking, “Other women are threatened by attractive women,” is indicative of the wrong attitude towards making female friends. I agree with the other commenter who said this sounds like a cope. Also, if you are constantly comparing yourself to other women and feeling competitive, you will never make a true female friend. Let go of your ego, your pride, and work on your insecurities. Easier said than done, but that’s how you make genuine connections with any human being.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 07:38 PM
–	How to deal with the fact that your partner has expressed to you he is sexually attracted to someone else? Sweet lady, your man making offhanded remarks out nowhere saying he thinks a woman wants a threesome with y’all is a huge red flag in my book! I don’t know what y’all’s particular boundaries are in your relationship, but I can say for me I would be triggered af, no exaggeration. Like, how would he feel if you guys came home from a dinner with an objectively attractive man and you were like, “I think he wanted to rail us both! 😜”? Probably not happy! I interpret your man’s remarks as very immatur…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 07:33 PM
20	How to deal with the fact that your partner has expressed to you he is sexually attracted to someone else? I’m sorry, this kind of situation is tough 🫂♥️ did your partner voluntarily offer up this info, or did you ask him directly if he’s attracted to her? Because if he offered it up on his own—yikes! He’s a dummy lol. And just plain disrespectful. If you asked because he was making eyes at her or something, then that’s also a yikes and disrespectful of him. But if you asked simply because you were feeling insecure and your partner was acting properly and not crossing any lines with her, then the iss…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 05:36 PM
20	Man’s female friend acting out If he has any sort of maturity, wisdom, or integrity, he will cut her off. She is not a true friend and has poor character. Does your man have good character? That’s the more important question. Or is he the kind of guy who keeps around women who seek cheap attention from him?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 04:57 PM
18	I desparately want a baby but husband isn't ready This is tough. I’m sorry! 🫂 Your husband wants to enjoy married life for a bit, but how are you supposed to enjoy it when you’re crying at the sight of others’ pregnancies and just want to get on with starting your family? Does he truly want to start a family with you in two years? I am not doubting it from your post, but if I were you I’d make sure to confirm this with him and get the reassurance I need. I think if you can set a target date for trying to get pregnant that you’re both comfortabl…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 07:07 PM
-5	Why does it seem like every guy I start talking to doesn’t want a relationship? It’s not you (really). They are too emotionally immature for a relationship, and I don’t necessarily mean that as an insult to them either. Just not ready, some may never be. You could be the perfect catch and these young men would not see it or would not care. Maybe try online dating and filtering by individuals who are also searching for a long term relationship or life partner!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 06:57 PM
1	What is your game if you are mid 30s (never married, no childen) dating someone from 2 months? What should you tell them, or how long you should wait? Be open and up front about what you want, and ask them what they’re looking for. It will scare off the wrong people and attract the right ones.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 01:54 PM
2	Regarding Body Count and not being a Virgin You can’t change your past, and you should never lie or obfuscate the truth out of shame. You’ve changed your behavior and are living true to your values now, yes? You have nothing to be ashamed of, and your body is not an object that should be freely distributed to men just because you may have done so in the past. Don’t ever let anyone convince you you’re anything less than a whole and valuable human being. Your goodness, your wisdom gained, and your unique soul are what will matter to your fu…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 01:51 PM
1	Advice on building female friendships Keep trying, and take care of your mental health first and foremost. Do not try to hide your issues, confront them head-on and be open about them (but don’t use others to vent). A couple of my best, most trusted and treasured female friends are neurodivergent and/or have mental illness, but they are in therapy and medicated and actively work on themselves. We openly talk about it together when it feels right, and our friendships are stronger for it.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 01:44 PM
1	31 and want marriage and kids, but am not happy in my relationship of about a year Leave him. I’d say the same if you were 31, 21, or 41. Negativity, cynicism, and unkindness are not qualities you want in the father of your children—they would do your children great harm. Plus, you deserve a partner who uplifts you, certainly not brings you down. Follow your gut feeling and relinquish control. Trust God/the universe/whatever you believe in. It will serve you and guide you to your path.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 01:38 PM