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Oh boy. Sort of funny for me because this pill shit is the only thing I swing more conservative (TRP) on. Probably because of personal experience, but honestly a lot of redpill and even some blackpill stuff about women is true to me (AF/BB, men must become, women just are, promiscuity being bad for commitment and more). Outside of that, I'm more progressive (well, by America's standards) on most other issues, although I dislike the virtue signaling and identity politics many "activists" try to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah the cluelessness is the painful part. So much wasted potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:58 AM
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Looking back at some of the guys who were getting pussy while I wasn't, yes I was dateable back then and no, I will not take the L's. Just wish I had better social circumstances and less restraint. It got me excellent grades and career prospects, but honestly, fuck all that. I would've rather been having a blast with friends and getting girls during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:57 AM
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Yeah, no. That's just hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:36 PM
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And for those of us who missed that opportunity, there's this sub and all of the other dating/sex strategy ones. High school sweethearts are truly the pinnacle, and they are very much real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:32 PM
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Chad can do more than that and get rewarded. Not saying we should be allowed to do that, but it really should be #MeToo(UnlessIt'sChadorTyrone)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:28 PM
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Libido suppressors are the only way. Men want to fuck so bad, and have it so hard in accomplishing it, that the desperation is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:51 PM
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A lot of men cheating is random, which honestly could be considered worse from a woman's perspective. His wife or gf could be hotter than the woman he cheats with, but she wanted to fuck him more, and he may not have been getting any or enough in his relationship, so his sneaky ass agreed to the affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:30 AM
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Most men can't afford to make rules in the first place. Of course, male thirst is a problem I must admit, but all male thirst/simping really does is, at the same time as suffocating the guy's self-respect, enable women to be more entitled and narcissistic because they get free attention from starved guys who are basically looking for water in a desert. I don't think men hold back more with their wife/gf, even if she is more plain or not as attractive as some hookup he may have fallen ass backwar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:04 AM
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Very untrue. Why does everyone assume "chads" are perfect. You can be good looking and stupid/lazy/rude/immature etc. Many traits which are bad long-term material. I mean, you're kinda hitting the nail on the head here. He is good looking (depending on the demographic like rural, urban or suburban or other categories, etc) and a dumbass (teehee, Chad's so funny) or lazyass (when he isn't laying pipe) or asshole (teehee, Chad's so confident). An attractive guy that works trades making $100k to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:22 PM
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Seems as if women know very little about men. Your primary resource is sex, and it depreciates the more times you give it away, especially to guys who don't commit to you in return. That's why men prefer less experienced women. Why would a man want to buy the cow when others got the milk for free? I see all of these women complain about men viewing them as a sex object when they have "so much else to offer" and being repulsed by their history when they should "appreciate their growth and maturit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:56 AM
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Kinda true, you do as a man need to have the good looks before any of this game shit comes into play. Still better than being an upstanding gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:20 AM
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Yeah I call bullshit. Sounds like a rationalization after the fact because she didn't get what she really wanted. Why would she pass up Chad and Tyrone seed over her dear teddy bear hubby's seed if it could've actually worked out? Not worked out with Chad and/or Tyrone, but with securing their seed. Of course I'm speaking in terms of what women think they deserve, when really this man she married is really her genuine level, even though she truly doesn't see him as measuring up to the hawt guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:15 AM
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Yeah some people are alarming af about kinks and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:33 PM
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But you're self sabotaging by having such strict criteria. Your never gonna find someone who fits this mold exactly, and then you'll be mad at women for this, and not yourself for being so strict. Not like marriage is my main focus anyway, but if I do get married, those criteria will be what she meets on top of the natural chemistry and connection shit. The glass is already broken so there's nothing special about being with them that would justify me preserving myself. She already had her firsts…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:43 AM
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Not spectacularly, not changing them though. I've got other things to worry about first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:22 PM
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Any history of casual sex (ONS, FWB, short term fling, etc.) automatically disqualifies a woman for LTR's for me. For girls who avoid that disqualification and only fuck in LTR's (of at least 6 months), any more than 2 partners disqualifies her; just my personal standards. At this point, I, and other men, might as well just assume that's the case for any potential partner we meet. There are tells and signs and ways if figuring it out, yes, but so many "good" girls have unpleasant surprises in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:03 PM
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Any history of casual sex (ONS, FWB, short term fling, etc.) automatically disqualifies a woman for LTR's for me. For girls who avoid that disqualification and only fuck in LTR's (of at least 6 months), any more than 2 partners disqualifies her; just my personal standards. At this point, I, and other men, might as well just assume that's the case for any potential partner we meet. There are tells and signs and ways if figuring it out, yes, but so many "good" girls have unpleasant surprises in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:02 PM
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Any history of casual sex (ONS, FWB, short term fling, etc.) automatically disqualifies a woman for LTR's for me. For girls who avoid that disqualification and only fuck in LTR's (of at least 6 months), any more than 2 partners disqualifies her; just my personal standards. At this point, I, and other men, might as well just assume that's the case for any potential partner we meet. There are tells and signs and ways if figuring it out, yes, but so many "good" girls have unpleasant surprises in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:02 PM
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Any history of casual sex (ONS, FWB, short term fling, etc.) automatically disqualifies a woman for LTR's for me. For girls who avoid that disqualification and only fuck in LTR's (of at least 6 months), any more than 2 partners disqualifies her; just my personal standards. At this point, I, and other men, might as well just assume that's the case for any potential partner we meet. There are tells and signs and ways if figuring it out, yes, but so many "good" girls have unpleasant surprises in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:02 PM
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Some might be willing to go through that journey with a man, albeit they are very, VERY rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:26 PM
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Facts. No matter how much people preach about the rags to riches, character building journey being so admirable, a natural/lucky person will always be sought after in reality. Just like women going after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:14 PM
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A regular dude won't be able to pump and dump in all likelihood, and he won't want to if his needs are met and he's not a complete slave to his urges, which many men aren't enough to act upon it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:02 PM
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Nah the narrative that it's men who monkey branch and can't stick to one partner needs to fucking stop, when only the top 10-20% can actually do that. If a man gets a steady supply of sex to fulfill his needs, he will gladly stick to one woman and fulfill hers at the same time. Women get accommodated to with a man's resources and protection, but men are pigs for wanting their needs fulfilled? Just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:50 PM
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They project the pump and dump ability of the only men they bother paying attention to (top 10-20%) on all of us. Not saying men are much better, but assuming all women are promiscuous is at least closer to reality because even below average women do have it WAY easier in getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:54 AM
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She is actively opening up her womb to him, at least at the primal level. But like it was said above, he is penetrat-ING, she is getting penetrat-ED. He is fucking, she's getting fucked. She is consenting to this (I hope), but he is essentially fitting his peg into her hole so it is not an equal act if that makes sense. She can also revoke that access as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:51 AM
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Most men just really want sex to be special. If she's nervous about it but still wants to go through with it as a virgin or low n-count, that's natural. It's a big scary milestone of exposing your bare body to another person in an intimate, vulnerable context. I see your point about women 30+ being more relaxed due to experience but honestly, most of us guys are kinda repulsed by a woman who just views sex as a physical act and just goes through the motions more than anything. As long as the des…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:59 AM
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So your solution is to date a guy no other woman would want, rather than have the expectation that in a genuine relationship people shouldn't cheat? People with options have a good chance of cheating or branch swinging, those people being the majority of women and minority of men. If they don't do that, good on them. Find the least attractive woman possible, she's likely to be a virgin. Not even true. Even the ugliest women get laid. Maybe, just maybe the guys need to respect the relationship an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:58 AM
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Never said it was her fault. Just saying she willfully committed to a guy who was desired enough by other girls that he had the power to cheat. Doesn't make him less of a piece of shit for going through with it, just that that's how it goes when a horny, impulsive douchebag has options. I was over here doing the mature thing the whole time so don't think you're gonna gain any romantic empathy out of me for something I wasn't dumb or social enough to engage in. Also, the middle east has an outrag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:47 PM
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Hopefully that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:36 PM
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That's fair. I'm very stoic and unemotional myself and like it that way, without the drama and bullshit, but that is not so much a result of emotional dents from events in my past, rather I'm that way by nature like the other men in my immediate family. Things can piss me off and disappoint me but I recover pretty fast and don't make a hang up or standard out of it in the future. It may seem unfair of me, since many are that way of being too emotionally invested and therefore broken by things, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:34 PM
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if more people were settling down younger, there would be less of all of this "trauma" that everyone talks about Bingo. You got it. I feel like as I've gotten older I've just taken bad stuff in stride. Whereas when I was younger it would mess me up a whole lot more. That's the jadedness talking. Responding to bad things with more calmness, experience and knowledge can be a good thing for a lot of areas of life, but when it comes to sex and companionship, being too comfortable and unsurprised kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:24 AM
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In my experience the young men commonly cheat as they're so horny and feel theyre missing out, so the first experience of love for young women is heartbreak and betrayal Well yeah, I mean that's part of the "young, dumb and full of cum" mantra for the recklessness of adolescent guys, but just because one or a few random guys who were actually capable of pulling that off put her through that doesn't mean I'm gonna excuse the baggage. Women keep giving men the whole "no one's forcing you to date/m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:17 AM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:02 AM
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I mean that's extremely, over-the-top delusional to begin with because Brad Pitt isn't even in your galaxy more likely than not. Compromising, or feeling like it, after not being able to lock down a guy who you DID know/encounter in your regular life, that's the irritating part for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:58 AM
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I think an age gap where the man is older than the woman enough to be her father, like more than 15 years, that's kinda where the most radical line is drawn (for me at least). 10-15 years is still icky but not that bad, and single digits are fine. I'm not at the age you're at, but if and when I get there and I am not in and/or haven't had any kind of long term, deep relationship, I am absolutely gonna go for those sub-25 women and have fun, assuming I can actually pull. So what if women closer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:01 PM
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Older = more likely to have gone through experiences that may have figuratively "punched her in the mouth" and permanently damaged her mentally/emotionally and maybe even physically. That is baggage she carries with her, creating an additional burden for the new guy, who had nothing to do with her trauma and stains that relationship. It possibly becomes a domino effect depending on how many experiences she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:40 PM
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Goes hand-in-hand with the teen love thing. Get to experience that, and hopefully convert it into something lifelong, and you aren't as bitter or jaded as a man. He got her prime years, prime fertility (if he wants kids), her vitality and feminine energy were high, memories, shared firsts (maybe but hopefully some), all that shit. And he isn't having to strain himself building himself up for years and having to go out of his way to attract women, hoping one might MAYBE reciprocate interest and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:49 PM
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They don't want men to have self-respect it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:31 AM
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Ah, I thought it was female solipsistic mind for some reason 😂. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:08 PM
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Thank you for your honesty in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:18 PM
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What's FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:57 PM
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Given the amount of people who thrive sexually/romantically by just existing, even fucking bums with dead end lives and shitty personalities/actions, I'm just gonna roll my eyes at this. Exactly why you never ask a fish how to catch a fish; you ask the fisherman. Look all the advice given to sex and love starved men involves them having to go on some unrealistic, massive overhaul journey of their lives. And it needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:17 PM
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Well yeah, non-Chads can get laid casually too. In fact a lot of lower tier guys get casual sex. But Chads are like the majority of women when it comes to sex: they have control and power over how and when they get it. That's what a lot of men want but probably won't have ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:08 PM
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It generally takes skill and game, even for Chad to bang a chick quickly. That skill and game is almost natural to him when like 80-90% of the work was done for him by genetics. That is why a man will never, ever be ashamed of being “used” Well, unless he has to betabuxx to get some. And even then he needs the self awareness to realize it. Why would Chad be ashamed for going ass to mouth with some thirsty bar slut? 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:06 PM
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I mean he kinda is. His lack of experience damages him the same way a woman's abundance of it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:51 PM
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So…being the man that a woman chooses to spend her life with Reluctantly, when she realizes the guys she really wants don't want to commit to her. In all likelihood, her ego got inflated because she successfully had sex with a guy out of her league, but in reality she was just an average girl, on the same level of the guys she thought she was too good for and rejected them or ignored them. to father her children Hmm well they kinda came out of the man's balls so they're kinda HIS kids that she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:50 PM
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Yeah why don't people seem to understand that attraction and arousal are not a pragmatic, calculated decision? You're attracted to what you're attracted to and that's that. This is why you see young love being so coveted by incel-type forums. THAT is authentic attraction and men want to experience it from a girl they also find attractive. If she ignored me in high school, I'll be damned if I'm gonna let her do a 180 om that 5, 10, 15 years down the road and convince me that she learned to apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:30 PM
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I just said that about the Stacey name because it's so 1980s lmao. As for your points, I can understand and respect your approach of wanting to make the best out of what you have left. But for me personally, I just couldn't live with myself if I chose that approach. It would always eat at me that I wasn't any of her firsts or any girl's firsts for that matter, we didn't share our younger years together and have sentimental relationship memories or wild sex stories. That fact that I could never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:41 PM
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I'm not speaking from the perspective of a clueless, blissfully ignorant chad - I suffer the same crushing loneliness that many men in these discussions do. My apologies, I assumed you were a woman or a general bluepiller. The difference is I'm trying to have a mature and adult conversation about it, with the awareness that whoever it is I might meet, somewhere down the line, probably isn't somebody who passed me up 20 years ago. They are not the same specific women who, as girls, contributed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:01 PM
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Great response. It really is degrading to be the guy who gets her later and doesn't get to share firsts with her in youth. Also immensely frustrating when people (men and women) have an, I guess understandable, not empathetic "so what" attitude towards guys who are upset about it. Or try to turn the blame on them for "not putting themselves out there" or looking into "self-defeating" TRP/blackpill content. Look people, for us guys who missed out on those experiences, we either become incels who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:53 PM
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Spot on comment. It's essentially a hierarchy where the majority are skewed towards this scenario. The top tier men (the exceptions) are fortunate enough to start getting laid in high school and hop from girl to girl with ease, while the men just below them in the middle might be able to get their dicks wet and date during adolescence, but have to go through more trouble and suffer through dry spells. Also, a select few of the men in these groups may end up with childhood, high school or college…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:46 PM
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That's exactly my thing. Why couldn't they have just been or tried to be that mature person the whole time instead of feeling the need to ravage themselves in their "wild phase" when they needed to "find themselves". Sure youth is meant to be enjoyed but the people (especially women, because they have way more sexual and social opportunities than a lot of men do) who spend those up to 15 years going dumb are poisonous to the LTR market when their time on the carousel runs out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:59 PM
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That's very true but experienced adults can be just as shitty if there wasn't the strain of all of the adult responsibilities preventing them from having the social capabilities to do so, unless they're the type that floats aimlessly through adulthood. That also plays into my belief that people don't really go through some kind of noble "maturation" process like TRP and WAATGM like to make fun of. We're still the same as far as shitty or weird traits, we just learn to strategically suppress them…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:30 PM
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This point sort of feels like a hybrid between the FA/blackpill guys' fear (second love as in she was with someone before you and already had all of her firsts and therefore the magic is gone when she gets to you) and the redpill guys' fear (second choice as in you aren't the best/most attractive she's ever had and she isn't as crazy with you as she was with her first choice). I'd say the reason either one is frustrating is when the guy is on the back foot as far as experience in these relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:01 PM
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