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MinutesTilMidnight/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 08:01 PM
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Yeah I mean everyone will have their own personal opinions and values of course. It’s just an example I came up with :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:47 PM
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Again, my only point was that your first sentence was wrong because that is not what egalitarian means. The word for "gender equality" being "gender egalitarianism" shows that equality = egalitarianism, otherwise there would be no need to have the word gender in front of it. Gender egalitarianism is a subset of egalitarianism, which is essentially what I said in my first comment, where I said that feminism (with the definition including gender equality, which you yourself said is gender egalitar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:49 PM
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Yes. Equality between the genders does not necessarily imply equality between people of different races, SES, ability, etc. which is why they are two different concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:37 PM
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Pull out a dictionary, man. I paraphrased the definition of egalitarianism for you. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/egalitarianism https://www.britannica.com/topic/egalitarianism https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egalitarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:13 PM
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No response to any of my points? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:35 PM
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I'm not arguing the merits of feminism. Your very first sentence was wrong, and you should know what words mean when making an argument. Words have meanings, and don’t just change because you want them to. That was the purpose of my comment. I don’t care what you think about whether feminism is good or bad; that has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:34 PM
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"Equality between genders is egalitarianism." No it isn’t. That’s feminism. Egalitarianism is the idea that we are all entitled to the same rights from birth, in terms of economy, society, and politics. Feminism is included under egalitarianism, but they are not the same thing. That would be like saying a root is the same as the tree, or the raindrop is the same as the cloud. It’s simply not true. These are adjacent ideas, not identical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:20 AM
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I think the point is that the reason for your answer is what’s important, not the specific person you choose. A guy with genuine intentions could choose a "bad" answer, like Kim K, and still have good reasons that facilitate a connection, which is the purpose of the question. For Kim K, he could talk about how she cleverly gamed the system to get famous, or how she’s working hard to become a lawyer even though she’s like 50. Kim is not a good answer (in my opinion), but the reasons he chooses sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:05 AM
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There’s no issue with that scenario, not really. The issue is all the context surrounding the scenario. We live in a world where a majority of women have been assaulted by a minority of men. Most women will have at least one story about a guy who did not react well upon a polite rejection. Women are stalked, harassed, assaulted, or even killed, for rejecting advances. Women are aware of this; we are told from a young age about the various dangers men pose to us. So while the man in the scenario …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:40 PM
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I mean, assuming all the equipment still works, it would not be a factor in my decision to date him or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:56 PM
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No, it wouldn’t change anything for me. Men who want to be with women need to be people that women want to be with. Same for women who struggle to get with men; they need to be people that men want to be with. Instead of expecting others to cater to you, improve yourself, because strangers owe you nothing. Expecting them to cater to you is not going to get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:47 PM
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Lol that’s not true at all.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 11:43 PM
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I don’t think this is true for all men, though I have definitely met the type of guy you’re talking about. My bf and I are both leftists, and have been together 1.5y. Idk, I think I would’ve seen a crack in the mask by now if he wasn’t really a leftist. He’s very open and honest about pretty much everything.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/23 01:11 PM
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Getting rid of no-fault divorce would make a lot of women not want to get married at all; they wouldn’t feel safe. It’s hard enough to get divorced without having to prove the other person did something bad. I think it’s a terrible idea.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 07:33 PM
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Not sure how old you guys are, but I’m only 20 and my boyfriend is more mature than this. Something is absolutely not right with this guy. Maybe couple’s therapy would help? I don’t know. This is a real mess :(
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 02:00 PM
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Ok! I wish you lots of luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 10:03 PM
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I agree with what others have said, so I won’t offer any advice beyond this: Please be careful, a lot of women in the military end up raped or otherwise sexually assaulted. (RAINN says a little over 6% of active female service members were sexually assaulted in 2018)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 09:10 PM
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My boyfriend has bipolar, and he’s the sweetest, best guy I’ve ever met. Mature, hard-working, kind. We barely ever fight, been dating for almost a year and a half, and living together for almost 5 months, and been talking about marriage for a while too. I think, even if some of your kids do have bipolar, it won’t be as big of a deal as your boyfriend thinks it will. And I agree with you that it’s likely they’ll never get it anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 03:31 PM
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My boyfriend is only 23 and is more mature than this. I don’t have any advice that hasn’t already been said, but I’m so sorry he’s treating you this way :(
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 03:03 PM
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Even from a leftist feminist’s perspective, the only stuff I’ve seen in this sub that I’d consider toxic is when abuse victims post describing their toxic/abusive husbands. I haven’t seen a single person behave in a toxic way here without being corrected, & possibly removed, by a mod. This is a great relationship advice subreddit to be in, regardless of if you actually believe in red pill or not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 10:03 PM
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Ohhh I love Diablo 3! Definitely not feminine but it’s one of my favorite games. It’s the first video game I ever beat!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 02:59 AM
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Yup & OP is refusing to answer any questions, just accusing people of siding with a feminist. I really doubt it’s about her outfit.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/23 04:33 AM
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I am a feminist, and I also like traditional relationships, which is why I am here :) I don’t think your mom is doing this because she’s a feminist, I think she’s doing it because she has a false need to be right all the time. That’s not part of feminism though, that’s part of not behaving like an adult. If you have to be right all the time, there’s something not right with you. An adult shouldn’t be that argumentative, especially with their spouse who they are meant to love and honor. Tradition…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 03:37 PM
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I’m actually on my own weight loss journey right now! My dietician told me that losing weight is like 80% diet, 20% exercise, and she put me on a pseudo-keto diet (less than 100g carbs a day, less than 2000 cal, and at least 150g protein) and it was super easy to get used to! The meals are really yummy, and if you have cravings for carby stuff like bread or chips, you can buy or make alternatives :) ETA: I lost 50 lbs in the first 2 months on this diet without changing my exercise habits. Depend…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 11:30 PM
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I’m not trying to have an argument, just wanting another perspective. I would consider this a pretty big issue. Not just the smoking but the lying. If he got good at hiding his smoking, what else is he hiding? If he lied repeatedly for a year, what else is he lying about? For me, I think something like this would break the trust I have with him. Why should it be considered not a big deal?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:17 AM
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I’m gen z, my boyfriend is too. He doesn’t watch porn. I can’t date men who watch porn too much tbh, I’ve done it before and it really impacted our relationship negatively. I believe everything can be good in moderation, but a lot of people don’t know how to control themselves, especially with porn it seems. So I prefer men who don’t watch it at all, they’re more likely to be stable imo. As another commenter said, no “porn brain”.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 10:57 PM
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I don’t have any advice, just wanted to say I totally agree with you. I would be fine with a $20 ring from Walmart for a few years honestly 😂 $10k is a lot of money and I’d personally prefer it to go towards something more important, like a house, car, child, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 11:06 PM
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I tend to get a little bit jealous but am generally okay. My man has friends that are girls and I’m cool with it. But assuming you guys don’t know these women he was talking to, it’s disrespectful as heck for him to walk off from you to hang out with strangers. I would be pretty pissed if my boyfriend did that to me. Especially multiple times as you say he does.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 12:16 AM
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I’m neither & I’m here! RPW has a lot of great tips to increase femininity & navigate long term relationships. I don’t like all of it, but a huge chunk of it has been really helpful! I consider myself a feminist, which is probably why I don’t like all of it, but again RPW has been very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/22 08:34 AM
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What you’re saying makes complete sense to me, but it makes me feel icky. Maybe I just don’t have the life experience yet
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 04:33 PM
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No offense intended, but would you say this if it was a woman being physically and verbally abused by a man? & why or why not? Genuine question.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 04:40 AM
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I’ve only ever dated men who are virgins. Not on purpose, just how it turned out. Personally I prefer low, for some reasons others have mentioned, but am not opposed to high. But I would consider it a red flag for a man to brag about a high body count. I agree with others that context matters
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 02:09 AM
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I wore black lipstick as part of an outfit to “emo day” in middle school and our female principal pulled me aside and to talk to me, and implied I looked like a whore. Didn’t say the word, but she said “you look like a… you know… with that black lipstick on”. 🙃 So personally, I would say it doesn’t matter because people will judge you no matter what. I think lipstick in general is feminine. I would choose red though, for most outfits and occasions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 03:36 PM
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Yo as a 19 yo college student, I get where you’re coming from, and my uni has the same rule, but divorces w no lawyers or anything still cost around $500. If stuff goes wrong then it’ll be way more than that. You’ve been dating him for 6 months. That’s nowhere near enough time to tell if someone will try to screw you over in the event of a breakup.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/21 12:28 AM
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Not redpilled but if you have no issues with his other female friends then she’s the problem, not you. If it was me I would go and talk to her about what’s making you uncomfortable (be nice about it), and audio record the whole thing (assuming you’re in a one-party consent state). Recording in case she admits she’s doing it to mess with you, or goes nutty, so you can show your boyfriend and he’ll stop hanging out with her. But regardless have the conversation, and if she tunes down then great, i…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 12:47 AM
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You describe yourself as flat chested & without curves in another post, but pictures on your profile are of a beautiful woc, who is definitely not flat chested. Your perception of yourself is very muddled.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 10:39 PM
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The thing some feminists don’t understand (as a feminist) is that the feminist movement gave women the power to choose. Just because a woman chooses to be a housewife doesn’t mean she is degrading herself. It’s like any other job. It’s a choice. It’s about what you want from life.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 05:19 AM
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My best friend is a guy, and we just don’t have feelings for each other. I’m not exactly sure why we don’t see each other as dating material. I also usually like to be friends with a guy first before we date, so I can know him better. I think guys and girls can be friends, but not if he’s someone you’d date. If you try to get close with a guy like that then it’s probably gonna go sour. Ultimately tho it’s up to you. If you’ve got a really good guy friend and you start to catch feelings, you gott…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 11:30 PM
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That’s your opinion. I have mine, you have yours. Everyone has boundaries and lines they don’t want crossed. I don’t consider porn addiction okay. Other addictions are different and I would deal with them separately. Why do you think my age is relevant? I’ll be an adult in less than a year and you think it’s cool to just disregard my opinion because I’m ‘just 17’? How did you even find it anyway? Searching through my comment history? Pretty lame of you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:23 PM
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Imo, watching porn is okay. Addiction is not. If he’s more interested in the porn than in the woman, I’d drop him. If he prefers masturbation to porn instead of sex with his woman, then I’d drop him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:05 PM
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Ah! I didn’t see the wiki section of the sidebar until you said I should check it. Thank you. And I didn’t mean like personal ideals, I meant like the group as a whole. But now that I know where to get the info, I can go there! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 08:29 PM
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No thanks, your job’s already hard enough. You don’t need the competition.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/19 09:54 PM
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