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| 0 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?The problem is human nature, people will always make scape goats of minorities, so minorities kinda have to be cautious and wary of majorities I have no problem putting that aside but the world religions with doctrines that see people like me as subhuman still exist, and because of them in 71 countries my existence is illegal and in some of them I can be punished with death, untill those religions change any level of tolerance an be undone quickly. In the 1920’s German was pretty tolerant of gay… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 11:11 PM |
| -6 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?The lgbt community is not a toxic one and lgbt people cannot afford to trust cisgender heterosexual people to not abuse us because, frankly every point of history in the last two thousand years shows that they will abuse us. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?Also almost my entire circle of friends is queer, (more bi, pan, non binary, trans folks and asexuals than cis gays and lesbians though) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?Honestly because I am visibly masculine homophobes notice me less unless I’m doing something like wearing a pride pin (and not a bi pride one, phobes only seem to know about the rainbow flag.) and honestly i get a lot more crap from gay men for being bi than for being masculine. Especially with the “no fats, no femmes” jerks | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 11:18 AM |
| -2 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?As a bisexual who is also masculine and “straight passing” no I don’t think so | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?Yep expectations of gender expression somehow equating to sexuality are toxic as fuck incidentally, found a pretty good video on how mainstream media created the narrative of the aids carrying bi man here | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 10:47 AM |
| 6 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?I think that’s debatable, I have a hard time being out and dating heterosexual women, to many of them freak out and get weird over my bisexuality. I much prefer dating queer women when dating women (hell I prefer masculine women anyhow and find that queer women in general are more comfortable expressing masculinity). This isn’t to say that dating men is easy as a out but dude either. I think fitting and not fitting society’s image of the feminine gay man are both double edge swords. Fitting the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?But a masculine gay or bi guy is less of a target for homophobes because he’s less visible (I say this as a masculine bi guy, no one looks at me and thinks queer) and they do get a certain advantage from fitting into the societal image of what a man is. It should also be note that gay men are more comfortable being open but bi men are still largely in the closet for a number of reasons | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?Wtf is “normal” society, we need a community because your community is dangerous to us and I have the stab scar, lost jobs, daily harassment and family that has disowned me to prove it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 08:49 AM |
| -7 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?No | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 08:47 AM |
| -20 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?No we don’t that’s bs and keep your terf nonsense to yourself | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?No we aren’t. We are still in a world where straight men have advantages that gay or bi men don’t by virtue of being born straight, and cdc statistics bear that out | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Why does Dan Savage have to be so hostile? Is there room in the gay community for men who don’t want to be effeminate?He has a point, it’s more dangerous being feminine and queer and always has been | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/21 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Misandry and the 'B'Yeah your case is atypical, as in not the norm. I’m a straight passing bi man and I’ve been stabbed by a homophobic man, fired by a homophobic man, and disowned by a homophobic man. The worst homophobia comes from other men, including gay men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/06/21 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Not worth itIt actually does | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/21 09:43 AM |
| 17 | Women have problems, men are problems.As long as the definition of male friendly activities is wide enough that’s cool. I mean not all of us like football, some of us even like theater | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum?I wish hope some witch puts me under her spell, I’ll obey | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum?Wondering where I am as a male witch | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/21 10:43 PM |
| 0 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsIf you what to act like you are embracing all, then treat people like they have no differences and don’t threat them like that matters. If you want to help everyone you need to recognize difference | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/04/21 12:20 PM |
| 0 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsSo I gets queer men aren’t men in you eyes or what does left wing male activist even mean | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 0 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsI think we could do better by immediately incorporating racial and sexual minority men that was a mistake of feminism. We could embrace intensecualism and Immediately embrace all men. Instead of starting out like white straight feminism that though black women shouldn’t have the vote or that lesbians where an “albatross around their neck” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 05:26 PM |
| -2 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsFirst off as a recovering alcoholic I find that very offensive, secondly the only feminists that are having troubles with intersectionality are terfs , and I give zero value to their opinions. We could do better | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 05:04 PM |
| -2 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsBecause intersectionality allows a window through which men can enter. We should try and take advantage of that window rather than ignore it. Who cares if it’s a problem for feminism if we can use it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsThey do now, because the wedge of that opened the way for others. They went form being victims to survivors and often to volunteers which means more men are at these centers, and men are more willing to listen to other men. And also those men have opened the way even for non binary survivors because many know the difficulty of seeking services for non women | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsIn Boston we have, if only because of the massive influx of male survivors form the Catholic Church scandal, they couldn’t not address it when thousands of male survivors showed up on their doorsteps looking for services after hiding it for so many years. That changed things | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsWell than let us be the wedge that opens the cracks and lets my straight brothers in, i’d be proud to think gay/bi men opened the way for straight men to get services | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsA lot of rape crisis centers around me have become gender neutral and have lgbt specific programs (like the triangle program) things are slowly getting better but that just means now is the time to push and pressure more services to recognize male victims, and that means all male victims and all of our specific needs | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsWell than people should ask the victims what they want. That should be the primary driver, as a bisexual survivor of rape , I don’t feel comfortable with heterosexual focused services because I can’t know if they’ll understand me | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsThere are concerns queer folk have that straights simply don’t, like if you have a dv shelter for men would a gay man feel as safe around men as a straight man would since the gay man’s abuser was another man? And for that matter who do you house bi’s with when their potential abusers could be either sex . Are group shelters even a workable idea in that situation. If you have a rape crisis center mainly for straight men you might end up with workers and councilors who have no idea what the speci… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 5 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsBecause a solution that works for straight men is likely not to work so well or at all for gay/bi/pan men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 08:38 AM |
| 5 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsI don’t know where people get this idea that radical feminists and queer men are allies, we aren’t | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 08:34 AM |
| 0 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsAs a bi man, gay men are less victimized by women, bi men however are, and our victimization figures into that. Our identity can be used against us, straight women we date and come out to can manipulate us by publicly threating to out us, which could ruin us. Which makes us vulnerable to domestic abuse | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 01:41 AM |
| -5 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsBut gay and bi men are legitimately in higher risk, should that be ignored | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 01:28 AM |
| -6 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsI think there is a need to specify if the victimization is more intense in certain groups, those most at danger should be the first protected | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 11 | ‘This is a crisis’: Panel discusses support for gay Black and Latino male sexual assault survivorsThis is an article about how a sexual assault crisis among gay and bi men is being ignored, partly because of attitudes that men cannot be victims of rape | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 9 | A new academic paper argues that men do talk and seek help for their mental health problems. And that focusing on getting men to "speak up" is counterproductive and "detracts attention from structural drivers of suicide" in men.Never mind how non straight men fear expressing themselves because it can put us in danger and that many therapists don’t understand the needs of queer men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | A conversation I had on Twitter and links in comments to a thread where people react angrily against it and support male victims (tw rape) (also mods can we get a tw rape tag?)This was a rather nasty comment I received on Twitter. I’m posting it because I started a thread about it on another sub that had a surprisingly supportive, and angry reaction to it. Because some times we need to know that people who support victims exist link here | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Bi phobia specifically from women.Yeah, they’re also the type to have a “gay best friend” that they treat like a fashion accessory and have their bachelorette party in a gay bar and gawk at the patrons | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/21 05:09 PM |
| -3 | Bi phobia specifically from women.Your experience as a straight man is meaningless here. Don’t talk for queer men or queer people in general. You have no idea what we go through | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/21 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Why I love anime (a video essay on male kindness)Demon slayer is great in this way, tanjiro is a lovingly character | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/21 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Why I love anime (a video essay on male kindness)This post is about how men can defy stereotypes of the “cruel man” to show how we can be fundamentally kind, loving and protective, how our mercy can extend to even our most dangerous enemies. How we can see “bad people” and see the victims of an unfair society | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/21 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Bi phobia specifically from women.Lord knows bi women are much better in this category, it’s why I don’t date straight much anymore | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Bi phobia specifically from women.As another bi guy I think you need to make a distinction between bi and straight women. Bi women are far less likely to be homophobic or biphobic, no certainty, but it’s far less likely | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesAlways remember we’re the sons of Alexander the Great (arguably bi by today’s standards) no one can take that from us | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesTrue that, I’m a male witch, and for what it’s worth the one man executed at Salem by crushing had the best “spit in your face” final words ever “more weight” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesOh, btw I’m bi I appreciate any mentioning of men like Turing, he deserves so much credit. The apple rainbow logo is based of him | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | It’s not Men v. Women, it’s the World v. A Radical Woke IdeologyWell in mostly comes down to discussion of when bi men are shunned and bi the omen seem to be more accepted. Basic bi men are shunned because straight women see us as less masculine and for whatever reason seemingly less loyal (when it’s brought up that we don’t cheat any more than straight men we are often told that being left for a man is somehow worse than a straight man leaving her for another woman) and that straight men socially shune us because we are both potential completion and also a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/21 01:56 PM |
| -1 | It’s not Men v. Women, it’s the World v. A Radical Woke IdeologyI think it concentrates on the similarities between bi men and women (and non binaries) while allowing for critique of the differences. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 0 | It’s not Men v. Women, it’s the World v. A Radical Woke IdeologyThat’s not my understanding or experience of it. In my practical experience of it as a bisexual activist it’s more about finding commonalities while being able to criticize the troubling aspects of another movement, but that’s just my practical experience | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/21 06:38 AM |
| -4 | It’s not Men v. Women, it’s the World v. A Radical Woke IdeologyDid I say they where the only offshoot? No. This is why I hate the term woke and and why I don’t understand this boards, and most mras (hell I hate that term too and don’t call myself it) obsession with talking about how bad intersectionality is (because I don’t consider it that bad). Intersectionality allows different movements to influence each other, especially if thier goals are even remotely similar. That happens with marginalized people. Allies with similar goals tend to connect (hence you… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/21 06:27 AM |
| -2 | It’s not Men v. Women, it’s the World v. A Radical Woke IdeologyUm, most “woke” people hate second wave feminism because it birthed terfs, who are pretty universally reviled | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/21 05:47 AM |
| 8 | In the era of gender equality, why men are still expected to sacrifice their lives to defend women instead of expecting women to start acting like adults and defending themselves? Why the people who claim to be against gender roles want to force gender roles on men?Maybe protect the elderly | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 3 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesThat guy you mentioned sounds like an ass, I’m a male witch myself, and being bi, I’m quite familiar with Alan turing, may he rest in peace | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/21 02:25 AM |
| 14 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesI think a lot of this is because historical views of witchcraft are Western European focused, in Western Europe most witches where women, while in Scandinavia, Russia, Iceland and Lithuanian most people who were accused where men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 11 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesI think a lot of that has to do with local ratios, in England, France and Germany it was more women, so as an English descended culture we think women, but in Scandinavia, Russia and Iceland it was far more men, which may have had to do with Viking shamanic tradition | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 28 | An under appreciated history of the persecution of male witchesThis article show a how our understanding of gender and the persecution of people judged by society as witches is skewed, in some places in Northern Europe 90% of the people burned as witches where men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Article about a Japanese trans man facing discrimination as a man for coming out about being a victim of sexual abuse. He was told “you don’t look like a victim should”He’s not accepted even though in this case he’s being treated like one, japans a bad place to be trans | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Article about a Japanese trans man facing discrimination as a man for coming out about being a victim of sexual abuse. He was told “you don’t look like a victim should”Yep, I think trans men’s perspectives are extremely valuable because they’ve lived as woman and as men, they confirm where the biases are | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 13 | Article about a Japanese trans man facing discrimination as a man for coming out about being a victim of sexual abuse. He was told “you don’t look like a victim should”He is a trans man in Japan who attempted to take part in anti sexual harassment protests but was told that because he was a man he couldn’t have been a victim, it’s even worse with how the Japanese view trans men as they have little tolerance for anything trans | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | There's no reason to believe men will start emotionally supporting each other within our lifetimes.Historically being gay or bi came with the risk of being cut off entirely form your support network, friends, family, institutions like churches. so many gay men had to build thier own support networks, mostly from other gay men in similar situations. You had to find friends. These friends became vital to staving off depression and despair these friends that you forge through this shared sense of struggle are not unlike a “band of bothers”. They are a found family who can support and help you. T… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/21 10:34 AM |
| -4 | There's no reason to believe men will start emotionally supporting each other within our lifetimes.You guys really have to learn from gay men’s concept of found families | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 11 | Chivalry Lives.This kind of stuff confuses me since I’m not straight, why treat women like this but not men? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/21 03:41 PM |
| 3 | High resolution debate.As a bi guy (bi men are six times more likely to commit suicide than straight men) I do think that not fitting the classical image of masculinity is a problem. And it can be toxic | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?Mental health, suicide (bi men are six times as likely as straight men to commit suicide), substance abuse, sexual assault (bi men are twice as likely to be victims of rape and dv) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/21 11:19 AM |
| -2 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?Do you think thats even a tenth of the vitriol throw at Gays and othe queers? do you have any idea how hard our struggle has been? Being strait is easy compared to us | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?I’m not trans. I’m a cis bisexual man. I feel a lot of issues that affect men effect bisexual men in a more magnified sense but at the same time I see that a lot of the issues. But I feel closely connected to bi women and slot of the issues that effect women are magnified in bi women so I can’t divorce from my more feminist bi sisters (who are a bit pessimistic about traditional feminism). I think men’s issues are important and I think all different kinds of lgbt men’s takes on these issues snd … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?Do you think trans men are men? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?Um, a lot of feminists dislike non binary people. It has nothing to do with feminism, it has everything with how people want to identify themselves. The rigid gender roles have always been there, well before feminism and believe me straight men and women react badly to people who defy gender norms, some. people just don’t relate to man or woman and in many traditional cultures outside of Europe a third gender is know and respected. Trans people do not inherently have anything to do with non bina… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?I think men’s activists have a bit of an approach problem. I think we need to educate activist how to approach people in a fashion that creates empathy and disarms the anger of opposition. I think most feminist are actually sympathetic to us if we just disarm thier own defenses that exist because of other men. I think we need to maximize empathy. I know that’s hard, but it’s needed I think that will open the doors of the left, that and embracing intersectionality, so we can make ourselves a sect… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 9 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?Non binary just means whoever doesn’t identify as a man or women. It is a bit of a blanket term for genders other than men or women. Some non binary folks are more masc (masculine) or femme (feminine) I won’t pretend to know the intricacies of this since I identify as a man. I think a lot of people feel to constrained by what society says a man or women should be so they find a label better for them as people. That’s the best I can do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 12 | What is the perception of men's advocacy amongst queer (LGBT+) people?I’m basicly this but I’m bi which I think gives me some unique perspectives. I feel like to much of the men’s movement is right leaning and traditionalist, and those sections of it have something of a homophobia problem. Bring in the bi community means I’m in the same boat as bi women who are often very liberal and feminist, but that also means we’re in the boat with them. I think we can be a bridge. I’m not an anti feminist but I have caution about certain feminists like terfs. Since I date wom… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?I’m bisexual I am a lgbt man. That’s who I was talking about | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?As a bi guy I do often feel that gay men over shadow others (unfortunatly a lot of this is tainted by encountering biphobic gay men)and I don’t always feel welcomed in gay male spaces | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/02/21 05:15 PM |
| -3 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?Because we know how to message. That’s something we can bring. You won’t be “whiners” anymore (which I consider a sexist term meant to deride men for being less masculine) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?It may need a different approach but you can’t argue that queer men don’t know how to deal with indifferent to hostile reception , god knows that’s what we have always have dealt with | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?Lol the media has constantly silenced queer voices till about the nineties. It’s only than begrudgingly given us space that we had to fight tooth and nail for. Until the seventies we were considered mentally ill and illegal in 49 states. The msm was not our friends. We learned how to force ourselves on them. And different groups of queer men and queer women experience different violence, I’m bi and experience a higher level of sexual violence than other cis men (rape, sexual assault, stalking, i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?We can provide the model and we provide the organizers, think, the Mattachine society, the gay liberation front, act up, glaad , the human rights council, we KNOW how to organize. The men’s movement is so deorginized and de centralized they can get nothing truly done. We know how to build on a grass routes level, we know how to get funding. And your comments reveal you don’t know how to deal with feminists. We can provide things to the men’s movement, and how can it be a men’s movement if it doe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?I think queer men can provide that organization. The gay rights movement has a model for organization that I think the men’s movement can learn from . We have have been organizing under intense pressure since the 50’s and the mattachine society, I think that model would work for the men’s movement. Also a lot of feminists listen to us and we can change opinions (well outside of terfs) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here do any actual activism?One thing I think that the men’s movement must do is heal the gap between straight and queer men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Good advice against sexual violence is not victim-blamingBecause you’re wrong and it is victim blaming. I say this as a survivor | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/21 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Can we discuss the BS claim that "men can walk wherever they want at any time and not worry about their safety ever"?Well straight men or straight women, queer women also run an additional risk. god knows bisexual women have a ludicrously high victimization rate for sexual assault. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/21 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Can we discuss the BS claim that "men can walk wherever they want at any time and not worry about their safety ever"?I can say this I definite felt safe walking places at night when I was in the closet and everyone thought I was straight. That significantly changes whenever I have something on me that visually identifies me as a queer man | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/21 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayThis effects the way some lgbt people see bi women, they don’t take them seriously. They can never prove thier queer enough. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayWhat harm would him being bi even do? Bi men are just as capable of a stable married life as heterosexual men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayI do think porn is useful though, especially with exploring what ones attraction is (especially for gay and bi men). But it’s very unrealistic | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayIt’s wider while homophobic men are more possible violent, women are just as homophobic, they fetishize gay man as eunuch like fashion accessories, they’re disgusted at bi men and reserve their verbal venom for lesbians and other woman loving women | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayIt really depends, maybe in some cases. Definitely not if she came out as a he. There’s been a surge of transphobia in woman lately | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayI know but I felt morally obligated to try as a bi | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayI was talking specifically how it effects men but you’re correct | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayDon’t down vote this person they’re correct | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayOften for women though this is based out of the ability to excite men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayTrue | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Bisexual and pan guys... how do your relationships with men differ from those with women?I find initial relationships and casual sex is easier to come by with men, but Ltr and commitment are often more difficult to secure, with straight women it can be hard to find someone since you have to filter out homophobes and fetishists. I prefer dating bi women to straight, because I find gender roles are looser in these relationships along with far less homophobia. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayOkay paragraph up | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 45 | Bisexual man ordered to pay ex-wife thousands after she accused him of hiding his homosexuality. Only, he’s not gayThis article presents how two prejudices can create a perfect storm of bigotry and how that can intensify both. In this case, bias against men in court issues surrounding marriage, and homophobia/biphobia, as well as restrictive attitudes around male sexual fluidity. Often times prejudices stack and intensify each other. Here An old fashioned judge with old fashioned ideas about men, gender, and sexuality has ruled that a man has to pay his ex for “deceiving her” and hiding his “homosexuality” w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/20 03:24 PM |
| 7 | When feminists protested to shut down the screening of Silenced, a spanish documentary on male victims of domestic violence.Question about the doc, does it include any discussion of gay or bisexual men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/20 09:47 AM |
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