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| 13 | Had oneitis, realized that I place expectations when meeting new girls and get invested through fantasizing positive scenarios with the girl. How do I manage maladaptive daydreaming?I used to, and still do I suppose, do the the same thing. You build the idea of a girl up in your head, and she becomes something she is not. What I've learned to do it transmute ideas that attempt to figure her out to questions. I make myself realize how little I know and what I want to know. Instead of filling in the gaps, I realize them and dig them deeper. This helps with confidence and chatter when you approach, but ultimately just accepting her as the deep mystery she is should keep you fr… | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 06:02 PM |
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