| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | My first post. I was almost going to settle for someone I didn't even like. Would appreciate some community support. | MisfitCasper | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 04:59 PM | |
| 1 | How not to be 'creep' labelled | MisfitCasper | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 11:51 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 100 approaches and still nothingHow did the date go? | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Day 1 - Theory guy taking actionSo how's it working for you? | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 1 Progress ReportDid you ask for numbers or got the first few weeks you just wanna warm up and not think about that? | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub?We don't deny that women don't struggle with dating/seduction. Just the nature of problems makes it seem insignificant for us. Major problem with women is getting a "suitable" partner . Major problem with men is just getting a partner and the immense work involved to achieve that (at least that's the struggle for majority of men in this sub and I believe for a whole lot of them out there too). | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I find FwB as a guy?Damn! I just went through your website! Cool as hell. I didn't read it all but definitely bookmarked it to read it without haste at a better time. After seeing the " contents" at the beginning I immediately super scrolled at the bottom to see how much the " course" costs but I was surprised it's all there for everyone. It's really appreciated man .you put in a lot of effort 👍👊 | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?Hahaha... unlimited pussy...you cracked me up! | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 57 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?This is the most minimalistic, clean, to the point post I have read after a long time. May I ask where did you move across the world? Was it for the course in computer analytics and did you return back or settle over there? | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 07:43 AM |
| 18 | Told a girl no todayBelarus it is! | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What's it like finding girls in a small town?Whites generally don't date blacks , isn't that true? ( I'm a black) | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girlsGreat! What went on? How did you do it? What was the setting? Tell everything..)) | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girlsShout out to you dude! You're the brave one. Don't stop, never back down. You're gonna get em. You need just one 'yes'. Keep us updated;) | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girlsHahaha....good one. Or he might also have the need for emotional intimacy as well. Most of us dwelling here do. Me included. | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I am having troubles in with dating and stuffDating is tough !! Especially when you hit rate is like 2 in 20(( | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 01:48 PM |
| 11 | What are some mistakes you made in your younger years?Please tell more if you can)) What changed now for you? I assume you have approached 10 women in an hour. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | AccurateHahaha...you mah bro!! | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 12:19 PM |
| 9 | Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a dateModels is the best book I have read about dating through self improvement. Everything is so organic and makes sense. I love the idea of completely letting go of control of things that you obviously can't control, like getting someone to fall for you and being comfortable in your own skin and developing an attractive lifestyle which makes your personality magnetic by it's own nature. I am rereading it! Though I need more action than motion. Reading is 'motion' and actually doing is 'action' and f… | /r/seduction | 26/01/20 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Gonna approach at least one girl this weekWatch this https://youtu.be/sswopsUW1mQ | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Gonna approach at least one girl this weekBut...you just said you were gonna approach. Doesn't make sense. | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 12:48 PM |
| 0 | 3 Things To Remember When Approaching A GirlHahaha... | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 09:20 AM |
| 2 | tips on how to be "brave" enough to take things to the next level / make out with a girl ?Solid! | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for me to be attractive after weak social media behavior?People are naturally attracted to transformation stories because they have an inbuilt depth and sense of purpose in them . Imagine I told you two stories. I know a guy named Jack. He's rich, drives a lambo and has 6 pack abs from as long as anybody could remember. Now there's another guy called James who was an underdog and he went from being suicidal, broke , living under a bridge to making a business of his own , doing things that he enjoys and gives back to people. Also he now has all those t… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidI just found the season you mentioned about on YouTube. Going to watch that now . LOL | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidWhat did you do? I am at the same place as you claim to be. So you have some advice ? | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys start and maintain a conversation?Good advice!! I would also appreciate if you can find the post . Thank you | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop making excuses to approach women, anytime, anywhere?I am less afraid of them not replying back than the confidence hit I will incur if they actually don't. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Today i beat Approach AnxietyPost again after beach date and tell us how it went..and good job!! | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach at gym?Haha...this convo ! | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Approached a woman. She said she had a boyfriend but thanked me for asking her number?Hahaha | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Ghosted by every approach. Feeling discouragedI would like to hear the rest of the unfinished story. Please tell about the effort you put into selling them. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Full direct game is better for your mental healthWhat's your direct game like ? | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I made a contract to myself, in order to push myself harder through approach anxiety and meet women. If I don't approach (directly/indirectly) 100 women by 2019/12/31, I will give 1000₴ to charity. The Time Starts NOW! 💪👊👊💪Cool bro!! I am proud of you. I am in the same show as yours. I have just started asking girls (cold approach) but indirectly. I just moved to Moscow one month ago and decided I will find a girl here. I am learning Russian and seeing your letter I could even relate even more with you (though I Know it's not Russian, maybe Ukrainian?) Last week I indirectly approached a girl in metro and got her number, then next week I did the same with a girl at my University. I still think about intercepting o… | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | The Triangular GazeYou might be wanna add to keep conversation going 😉. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeYes. I agree with your. But before coming to the conclusion that 'this doesn't work' I would want to try core principles of communication through my own lens on a good sample size like 'being direct and honest on why you approached someone and asking for what you want, being a good listener and being present in the moment and acting accordingly'. | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeThanks a ton mate. Just being able to relate to someone had made me much less anxious at the present. Learning that there are people out there just like me who were able to pull themselves out is relieving. I am gonna make more approaches than 1 or two in a week and update here . That way I will also be accountable to the community and myself mainly. I am going to try speaking to women just fir the sake of breaking my AA if not for an end goal like getting in a relationship for the very least. A… | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeDamn!! That's cool and inspiring. I was looking for words like these. Thanks a ton. Also I start getting in my Head Everytime I see a beautiful woman in metro or my University. People are walking with a poker face in such a haste everywhere. I start having thoughts like " what if there is much age difference and I am perceived as creepy?, What if she is waiting for her boyfriend or what if she's married?" I know it's very lame and shouldn't matter but these thoughts become very intense right bef… | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeI recently moved to Moscow from a different country. It's flooded with women. What did you do? Cold approach ? | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 02:40 PM |
| 8 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeWhere did you go that you found 20-30 girls everyday. I am in the same situation as OP. Though I think the OP just needs to be patient as he is quite young honestly. Me for instance am 26 and a virgin (cherry on top) , LOL. Now that's a concern. I Never paid attention to my love life because in my early 20's I was in college and too much involved in hanging out with buds and studies and just other college stuff. Whenever nature kicked in , I would open my laptop and polish the good ol knob. Now … | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for someone who’s too scared to get started?I feel you bro. I am 26 and in the same boat as you. I am social but for some reason I don't have a big social circle because most of my friends are in relationship and I have no other option to meet women than cold approach which I am still hesitant about. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Hahaha...when you come here you realize you're no freakin special and we all have similar problems with a slightly different flavor of shit sandwich. It's actually relieving that we're not alone in this . I am glad so many people have given tips to work upon in this area. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Hmm... interesting! I actually don't have any pictures like those that you just described. I am gonna try those that are congruent with my hobbies and interests. And your link doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Haha. Yeah! That's a very common thing here too. Since I came here, I saw many people wearing thick soled shoes. I even asked my female Russian friend (who is really short, like you said) who wears sneakers like these and she gave the same reply. It's a cool life hack! I wear boots now. LOL | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Average male height is 5'9 and female 5'4 as per Google stats, But it's not uncommon to see 6 feet tall guys and girls. 100% Russian and specially from Siberian regions are generally taller like 6 feet and drop dead gorgeous women. I am almost 5'9, so that's not something that I worry about. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Thanks for the detailed response man! Respect! I will find more social activities near me and make time for them. I have seen that people seem intimidating from a distance but as soon as you start a conversation, they aren't that scary anymore. In fact they too want to be validated and be friendly just like all of us. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Yes! You're right. I do go to the university but in my class there are only guys. I love to swim and I am soon going to join the pool near me. Thanks) | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:37 PM |
| 58 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?I was almost going to settle for a girl (marry) because I had been lonely for so long and she was too. I am pretty sure that's the only reason I even had a "relationship" . Even though every moment I was with her felt like I was just a standby until either of us finds someone else. This is what happened. She found someone else to settle and I wish I had taken the step to end it earlier because the rejection hurt like hell. Even though I was more anxious IN the relationship than WITHOUT, it was k… | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 04:49 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Cold approach day game from a noobI too think the second interaction was interesting. I think you should have asked for number. Even it's fake or real doesn't matter. If they decide to not talk to you in the future, they might go AWOL. Better to try . I am glad you tried 3 women in a day. Have you tried approaching someone you find attractive on the street? I mean like intercepting them . That's still something that I haven't been able to do yet. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Any beginners new to game interested in joining a master mind group?Okay! Is there going to be a group? If you're not creating one then I am . | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Rejection Isn’t Even that BadSame here. My GF of 5 months rejected me . We had been broken up for a month and it felt to me that we were getting back together after I initiated the conversation. She seemed up for getting back together too. But after two days sends me a text that she found another guy and was not sure how to tell me so put up the charade. Said she wanted to get married soon and our paths don't align (I am younger and need time to settle the career aspect) After 5 day pain period , I am much better now and ha… | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Rejection Isn’t Even that BadSame here man. 26 and virgin. For a second when when I read the first line of the Post, I went like "I don't remember writing this" because it's relatable AF.. hahaha. Good job btw. I am proud of you. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Small victory at the gym for a beginnerCool! I will. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Small victory at the gym for a beginneryeah i agree with you. I think i realize now. If a girl sees me already checking her out but i don't make a move on the spur of the moment and let her pass by me or something , pausing and then going back to her to say Hi feels she'll perceive me as lame and less confident . Is that true and does it matter? | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Any beginners new to game interested in joining a master mind group?Sweet! | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Small victory at the gym for a beginnerYeah! I thought many times to ask out random girls (approach them at least) at my university, but same shit where you eat thing holds me back. Also the approach anxiety is strong with me so i am not able to distinguish yet if it's just my brain playing tricks to chicken out or it's real. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Any beginners new to game interested in joining a master mind group?I am 26 and just dumped by a girl after 5 months of on and off online relationship who i was gonna meet for first time (since i lived in different country at that time). I have been gathering the courage to talk to women (daygame , i think as they call it). I think having a mini group is a good idea. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Tired of failing with women as a 21 year old virgin. How to change this and stop feeling down?Dude I understand where you're coming from but first get this off you mind that picking up girls is a talent reserved to a demographic . It's a number game. Just keep trying. Even if you're getting rejected, you're developing social Communication skills and confidence by cold approaching girls. Your subconscious is registering that. It's gonna manifest someday. Don't lose hope. P.S.- I am an Indian. ;) | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being needy and naturally attract women into your life.Fact!! | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 05:42 AM |
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