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It's too bad because there's so much about that community I really enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:46 PM
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I once got banned from a sub for using the term "manchild" to describe a man who was literally unable to function without his girlfriend doing everything. This girl was, IIRC, bathing him and laying out his clothes and packing his lunches and all the other stuff and he was 26 and working full time AT THE SAME JOB AS HER. Like, they were doing the exact same job for the same pay all day long and then they would go home and he would sit on the couch and wait for her to do everything. What else do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:44 PM
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men don't have self control and WILL commit violent acts if they don't have access to women And they are, but as women know, the problem still isn't their lack of access to women, it's their lack of access to mental health resources, combined with their unwillingness to acknowledge and then take responsibility for their own mental health issues. Everyone everywhere knows that men's mental health is a growing issue right now, but nobody anywhere is talking about the fact that MEN need to do somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:24 PM
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YESSSSS! Go find someone who is into what you're into! Someone who wants to take what you want to give, and give what you want to take! Don't try to force a relationship with someone who isn't willing to satisfy all of your needs, or whose needs you don't feel like you can or want to satisfy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:17 PM
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My kink is men who like to have lots of monogamous sex with me and then order pizza and watch Den Of Thieves for the 40th time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:10 PM
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I think he started laughing because he had no idea he'd been caught, so he thought it was some kind of joke or something. It took a few minutes to connect his actions with his girlfriend with his being locked out. It was the early 90's, and I didn't have a cell phone, so no texts. I unplugged my landline so I don't know if he ever called me there, but he never showed up at my job, so I assume not. It took a year before I started feeling satisfied with the way I handled it, and looking back after…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:01 PM
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Up until that day I had always been so adamant about getting "closure", but just watching him skip out of some other woman's house totally carefree made me realize how little having the last word mattered. If he didn't care enough about me that he could lie and cheat, there was no combination of words I could ever put together to change things. I did my crying in private where he couldn't see me, and then changed jobs, and a few months later when the lease was up, moved away completely. Never he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:58 AM
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I kept all my stuff and put his out on the porch. I didn't need suitcases full of trucker hats and old Wranglers. I did keep his BBQ though, since he was two months behind on rent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:51 AM
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He took a page out of his dad's playbook - his dad screwed over his mom in a similar way, and he always SAID he hated his dad for it, but I guess the shit apple doesn't fall far from the shit tree. He didn't pay for the utilities or security deposit either, and he often "forgot" to pay rent so he took me out for dinner sometimes. The bar was ON THE GROUND and somehow I still thought that because he was never violent, that was enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:44 AM
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It was the first time in my life I ever just made a decision to delete a jerk out of my life with no fighting, no arguing, and no messy emotional exchanges. It was the first time I really accepted that I had no power to make treat me well, and that the only person I can ever change is myself. It's why so much of FDS resonates with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah someone reported my old account like this too. I suspect it's because they couldn't send me a PM or chat request and were too cowardly to confront me publicly. Edit LOL - they just did it again! You poor loser, go fix yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:11 PM
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They LOVE to try to get us mad at each other and compete with each other. There's a red flag for y'all - the first time he compares you to his ex, even if it's favorable, watch out. If he says you're better than her, you already know that he's going to keep up the comparisons until he figures out where you're worse than her, and will enjoy letting you know it. And if the woman he's comparing you to is his mom, RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:54 PM
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Is it just me or does all this sudden media attention seem weirdly concerted? Why so many articles about a relatively small corner of Reddit? Why so much attention paid to a fairly tiny group of women? And where is the matching energy directed towards all the incels they keep comparing us to? Incels are literally murdering women in the streets but so much media energy is being focused on women who might rather be with their cats and their money than waste time with a man who treats them like gar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:31 AM
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Show me who your friends are and I'll show you who you are. If a man is hanging out with men who treat their partners poorly and live like bridge trolls, the only difference between that man and his friends is better camouflage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:16 PM
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This is part of the reason we need to have and enforce boundaries and standards. Do not marry a man who is obsessed with your past. Do not marry a man who thinks less of you because of it. Do not marry a man who wallows in angst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:57 PM
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Meh, if people can make excuses for all those messy male rappers so they can continue to listen to their music, I'm not going to sweat over the fact that I just happen to know some of Cardi B's lyrics off the top of my head. 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:12 PM
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Yep, they come back because it's easier to go back over your old trail than to cut a new one. If they can make up with you they can be back in a relationship in a couple of days instead of taking the time to work on themselves and meet someone new and wait for her to catch feelings for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:37 AM
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I took responsibility for having terrible taste in men and changed the locks on the apartment. Best $75 I ever spent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:07 AM
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Monogamous sex with a kind, loving, age appropriate partner - so filthy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:50 PM
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If he wanted to; he would. And it hurt to realize they never wanted to. This is very nearly poetry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:48 PM
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Hottest Iago ever and I'll never change my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:42 PM
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Here's what that looks like in case anyone is wondering. https://i.imgur.com/EAH9eJ5.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:08 PM
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Jeebus that's some Stephen Glass level journalism. "Might as well just make it up, nobody will know the difference!" If you post a post in FDS with basically any keyword relating to porn or sex work, Automod automatically posts a comment about how FDS does not condone the sex industry. I've never tested that theory but I sure see that Automod comment a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:51 AM
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Snow Tha Product has a bunch of great songs! Waste of Time Gaslight Say Bitch No Lie Really Counts No Really, I'm Good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:14 AM
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Yep! They're more inclined to respect the wishes of a man they've never laid eyes on than those of the woman in front of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:05 AM
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Women constantly being responsible for all the world's issues and emotions. There's this huge outcry for people to be more aware of men's mental health issues, and I'm like YESSS GET THEE TO THERAPY I'D LOVE TO SEE YOU WORK ON YOURSELF AND LOVE YOURSELF! Unfortunately, the pressure isn't really on men to be proactive or take care of their mental health, the pressure is on women to be aware of it and considerate of it and change ourselves to be more accommodating. It's our responsibility to consi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:58 PM
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I've seen that a few times in a few different subs - parents looking to collect from their kids for the cost of raising them. I've seen in some finance subs that parents will steal their kids' identity and take out loans and then when the kid gets collection letters saying they owe money, the parents are like "well I paid a lot for your diapers so you'll just have to figure this out!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:34 PM
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I think it's also that they can't really argue with the message, so they'll just argue with the tone. Like the concept of resting bitch face - if a woman isn't putting forth waves of warmth and happiness and kindness, she needs to be corrected because she is failing at her job of making other people feel better about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:32 PM
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I think it's nice to want to speak to other women nicely, and I think it's kind to espouse the idea of kindness towards others. That said, this is not the place for nice, this is the place for tactful but honest. We don't have to come out and say "well that was a dumb idea, what did you expect" but we also don't have the luxury of saying "nothing you ever do is a bad idea, please continue on your path and everything will be ok". The middle ground is what I mostly see here. "Okay that was a mista…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:09 PM
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Apparently people are getting an automatic 7-day sitewide ban for typing the name of a public figure into a post or comment. The person is a UK politician who was hired by reddit as an admin. I'm not trying to get banned by reddit but there's more info in both ukpolitics and subredditdrama. Whatever you do, do not type anyone's name or link any articles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:35 PM
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Based on the travesty happening in UKPolitics right now, I definitely think we need an admin to mod the admins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:31 PM
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I had no idea AHS was so tilted that they would support the dissemination of CP but think we're somehow the baddies for wanting to date men who treat us with respect and kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:07 AM
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I'm so confused. We don't even HATE men - we hate assholes. We acknowledge that there are wonderful men out there. We acknowledge that we want to find them and marry them. How is that hateful in any way? We support women above all, and encourage them to love themselves, support themselves, and give themselves healthy boundaries and make sure they know it's okay to step away from anyone who violates them. From what I've seen, we support them regardless of their background, their sexual orientatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:51 AM
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Yes!!! Men can change. YOU can't change a man, but he can absolutely change himself. If he wanted to, he would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:13 AM
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Oh my word, what a weirdo. Imagine what it would have been like procreating with this man and having to ask him to chip in for diapers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:07 AM
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Holy crap yes! If he's great on every other level, but tries to police your spending of your own money, I guarantee you that he is hiding a 50/50 personality, and he's about to start assigning a dollar value to everything he does for you, while discounting the value of everything you do for him. "It's good that you cook dinner for my visiting parents and handle all the clean up because I spent $30 on ingredients" and "I paid for half the cleaning supplies for you to clean, I don't know why you t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:10 PM
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why do you feel the need to preach that in this community YES! You will not find me in any of the tradwife or redpillwomen subs telling them that they can be the captain of their own ship and don't require a person with a penis to sail the ocean - if that's what they choose, then good for them! I hope they're happy! If they find their way here later because they want a change, that's great too. Let's just all let each other live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:12 PM
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This is a two part question. Do I think that telling harsh truths is misogynistic? No. Do I think this post put down non-FDS women harshly? Also no. It doesn't say "you're a dumb ho and we hate you" it says "if you're living your life with low expectations then this isn't the place to talk about that." The post clearly states that if you disagree with FDS principles, you should move on. It says that if your standards are low and you're happy about it, it's okay to go find your own space (literal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:25 PM
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what could be so controversial about this I don't know if you've ever heard of "tone policing", but this is a perfect example of it. And when women tone police other women, that's often an example of internalized misogyny. Tone policing is what you do when you can't really argue with the message, so you choose to argue with the delivery of that message because you just absolutely feel like you MUST argue something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:26 PM
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I turn my DM's off completely, so if anyone has any ranting they'd like to do, they have to do it publicly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:25 PM
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It's absolutely the only place you can share an opinion about a man and not have to edit your post or comment three times to repeat over and over "don't worry I know not all men are like that".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:24 PM
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I agree with this so much. Also, if you educate him on where exactly he went too far with you, he'll just use it to adjust his strategy on his next target. Guys like this, who can fall apart so abruptly are inherently broken, and are looking for a woman to use as a flotation device. He's the kind of guy who will pull you into the water with him, instead of letting you help him get out. He won't do anything to help himself - he's not going to swim for shore, he won't put on his life vest, he'll j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:07 PM
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I understand the why of this, but at the same time, I personally don't want to give a strange man therapy, so that question is a no from me. This is like...a fifth date question. A more appropriate pre-date getting to know you question, in my opinion, is "what's your absolute favorite movie ever." If he says American Psycho, I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:27 AM
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Ayanna Jackson. He passed her to his boys and let them gang rape her because he liked her so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:40 PM
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I wonder what all these "supporters" are doing Probably the same thing that the anti-abortion crowd is - nothing but patting themselves on the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:17 AM
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Yep. Actual physical violence against women? Posted and upvoted, comments full of "I'd still do her tho". Posting about one jerky man? Posted, post edited three times explaining that not all men are like that, pinned mod comment saying it's ok guys we know this isn't about you, comments full of guys saying I would never do this because I have a sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:24 PM
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It's amazing to me that in subs FOR women, mods actively remove posts because "the actions of a few men don't represent the actions of all", but nobody clutches their pearls and cries "not all women are like that" when a post goes up in any of the men's subs. Plus, there are some very popular subs where 95% to 100% of the posts are videos of women acting badly (or in some cases, doing nothing but being a woman in public) and you certainly don't see OP and mods constantly editing their post to sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:32 PM
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Because those women are still stuck in the idea that if they just make the world a nicer place for men, that will fix everything. They think that if we work harder, are kinder, take up less space in men's hearts and lives, give them more freedom, and provide for ourselves, men will realize how valuable we are. The thing is, we've spent about 1970 of the last 2000 years of recorded history being kind and sweet and polite and hardworking and helpful, and in those 1970 years, there was never a time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:43 PM
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"How dare you love your wife and do simple, kind things for her!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:20 PM
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