| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 22 | Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality? | Question For Men | MissBehave654 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenI'm a woman and we have to be picky about who we sleep with. It's a biological instinct. I don't blame women for being guarded at all or not have sex until they get to know a guy really well. There are women who are attacked or raped or murdered if they reject a man. If they get pregnant or get an STD, it's only her problem to deal with because let's be honest, most men just leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.I've worked on my personality and been to therapy. People still don't really want me in their lives so I've become more withdrawn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:38 PM |
| -2 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.I'm a woman and I've never even met a single guy interested in sex. If you are ugly and overweight you're not finding any guy. Men would much rather be single and keep looking for their supermodel girl next door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous.It's tough for women too if you are not attractive. Have a medical condition that causes obesity and I'm not attractive at all. Have trouble making friends and men usually don't want to have anything to do with me. The most attention I get on dating apps is someone calling me fat c--t. I tried self improvement, including gym, diet, and therapy. None of that can change how the outside world treats a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:23 PM |
| -2 | What are single men doing wrong?I'm a straight woman... I've seen many friends of mine hurt from men who aren't truthful to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:01 PM |
| -10 | What are single men doing wrong?Not a myth, it's fact. Men are biologically programmed to spread their seed and they have a higher sex drive than women. So they will do whatever it takes, including lying to women..Women have to be extremely cautious of who they sleep with because they could end up pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:10 AM |
| -5 | What are single men doing wrong?Most women don't want casual sex. The guy often lies saying that he wants a serious relationship just to get in her pants. It's a tale as old as time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"I don't think this is realistic until the guy becomes a celebrity or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 05:55 AM |
| 7 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysDude, you are 6'5." You are fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 06:53 AM |
| 3 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupHow did you find your cohort of friends? That sounds amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 02:44 AM |
| 2 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupCheck out the YouTube channel elder gal. She's 69, got married and had a kid. She's estranged from her family and has nobody. Can tell she's miserable otherwise she would not make a channel. Sometimes marriage and kids doesn't guarantee happiness. A lot of people will die alone with nobody by their side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.I see it too. My friends in college did not seek out sexual partners at all. They expected guys to pursue them for a romantic relationship only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 05:04 AM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must wait2-3 dates is not enough to get to know someone. Sex only after a few months of dating is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughNope, I'm only attracted to south Asian guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughWhen I was a single woman, i mostly stayed home unless I was going to a meetup group because I didn't have any friends in the area. I personally wasn't comfortable going alone to clubs because of possible safety issues. I don't know any women who go alone to clubs but it seems like a bad idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 06:58 PM |
| -1 | Does the so called manosphere highlight the conversation that had been happening for years, but in the dark?There are some unattractive women that men don't want to date. They don't have that advantage. Nobody talks about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationshipsMy interests are kind of feminine - like experimenting with makeup, going shopping, theater, creative writing, and playing the violin. If I met a guy who likes that too, I would wonder if he's gay .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:22 AM |
| 3 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesI think the problem is women would rather stay single than be in a relationship with a guy in their league. They would much rather be with someone who looks like Jason Mamoa or Travis Kelsey than a regular/average man even if he has a great personality. And this is coming from a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you think people find you boring?Yes people find me very boring even though they don't tell it to my face. I struggle to form social relationships. I'm not a party person and don't drink or smoke. I'm honestly too exhausted from work and my only hobbies are watching Netflix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success?Maybe do a Google search and educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success?Demisexual is part of the ace spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success?Honestly who needs men when you can just buy a sex toy? It satisfies me more than any man can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:12 AM |
| -1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?I was on the apps since they were created. Had no success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:20 PM |
| -11 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Why do men always think women can have sex whenever they want.. that hasn't been my experience at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeI'm a heavy and unattractive woman so I can't relate to being approached by men because that has just never happened. Only conventionally attractive women are the subject of your conversations. Nobody talks about ugly woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:53 PM |
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