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Never had a man that has money complain about paying the bill btw. Only brokies think that buying a woman food is some over-the-top grand gesture. But anyway, until we stop living in a patriarchy and when men start pushing babies out of their own bodies, I won’t be paying for any date never mind the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:54 PM
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Most abusive men, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:21 AM
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lol I don’t care. Men feel entitled to women’s bodies, youth and beauty all the damn time, yet a woman expecting a man to buy her a plate of food is the problem? Until we stop living in a patriarchy and men can start growing babies in their own bodies then I will not be paying for any date, never mind the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:59 AM
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50/50 both are equally important. If a guy was good looking and kind but doesn’t put effort into a relationship then I wouldn’t be interested. Likewise if a guy did everything for me but he wasn’t attractive or he was an asshole I wouldn’t date him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:42 AM
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I’m not really interested in dating a man whose hobby takes up so much of his/our freetime. Some guys go fishing every weekend for hours and hours at a time, sometimes even from dawn to dusk. I wouldn’t be able to accept that in a relationship and I certainly wouldn’t have a family with a guy who disappears all weekend because of his hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:01 PM
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That’s not the same either, you’re not driving yourself around all day every single day?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:30 AM
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If you have to hire people to replace all the roles a stay at home mom does (cleaner, chef, child carer, household manager etc) then yes that does make being a housewife a job. Just because housewives don’t get paid directly doesn’t mean they are not doing a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:20 AM
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If you have a shitty, ungrateful and unsupportive husband then yes I can believe it. It can be incredibly demoralising to be around kids and work non-stop without being compensated or appreciated .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:22 AM
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Cutting grass is like a once a month activity. Not comparable at all to being a stay at home mom which is a 24/7/365 job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:19 AM
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Imagine being a grown ass man and getting offended that a popstar that makes music for teenage girls dared to call men “stupid” in a song lololol WAAA WAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:34 AM
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Well it’s whether you’re deceiving them or not. If a couple mutually decides that the non-celibate one can go and sleep with other people then that’s fine. But if the non-celibate person is going behind the celibate person’s back then that’s a big issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:02 PM
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If sex is important to you, then just don’t date someone that’s celibate? If you have to cheat on your partner to feel satisfied in your relationship then they’re not the one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:21 AM
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There are men that leech off of the emotional and physical labour of women all the damn time. Thats why terms like “mental load” have been created because of the sheer number of men that trick women into taking on all of the emotional and physical burden of running a household. There are people that leech, and there are people that love their partners for what they do for them without taking advantage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:37 AM
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Men and women find different traits attractive - this is not a new concept. If a man has more resources that is often a testament to his work ethic, his ambition and his ability to offer security. Thats ultimately why a man with more resources is more attractive. “True” love is not about having zero expectations or standards for your partner. Men also have conditional expectations for their partners - it’s not a one way street. And while money and status may play a larger role in initial attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:02 AM
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It works the other way round too. Men love their wives when they cook for them, for making a house a home, for primarily raising kids etc. Both men and women place value on what we can do for each other. But that’s the point of a partnership - you work together with someone to make each other’s lives easier. You can love what your partner does for you and love them for who they are as a person. It’s not an either/or situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:24 AM
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Was she a stay at home mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:14 AM
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Men like this typically don’t see women working as strippers as people, so they feel no remorse if they betray them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:42 AM
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Bro calling all women superficial bimbos is not genuine criticism, it’s an untrue misogynistic assertion about women. How is anyone supposed to “address” what you said when it’s a load of nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:41 AM
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lol we wish misogynistic men would leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:32 AM
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Well yeah, I wouldn’t want to date a single father either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:35 AM
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No one’s obligated to date anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:02 PM
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Why does being a provider automatically make you a beta in redpill’s eyes? A man that can provide for his family, has a wife to come home to, has a loving partner that can take care of him and their children is not a loser to me. But a guy that can’t hold down a relationship, only has meaningless flings, and has no responsibilities or family to take care of is much less of a man imo. I know which man I’d rather date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:36 AM
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This is so hilariously out of touch. If any guy genuinely followed this advice they would end up single indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:24 AM
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And how does shitting on women help men who have experienced this upbringing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:12 PM
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I don’t have any male friends anymore, at least none that I would consider in any way close
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:50 AM
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Attraction doesn’t appear out of thin air after months or years of knowing someone. Whether you’re a man or woman, you will know within seconds whether you are attracted to someone you just met. So the fairytale idea that a man just somehow falls in love with a woman he was formally “just” friends with is not based in reality. What really happened is he liked her since day 1 and he was pretending this whole time that he was happy to just be friends when he was not. And while he may have genuine …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:10 PM
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I’m very curious as to what demographic of women you are going after for conversations like this to occur within a 3 month relationship. The average woman is not this hyper materialistic. Only super high maintenance women are going to be demanding Gucci bags, for you to buy them houses, cars and phones within 3 months of knowing them. The others are correct in saying this is 100% a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:27 PM
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I saw a video about a woman that needed an abortion as the foetus had a fatal abnormality, but since she lived in Texas she had to go to a different state to get an abortion. And all in all she said she spent around $6k for the abortion that wasn’t covered by insurance. When you think about how many people are living paycheck to paycheck in the US, I dread to think how many people have been forced to give birth or just straight up die because they couldn’t afford to leave their state.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:49 PM
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You can say the same thing for the guy leaving the wife for someone younger and hotter as she ages
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:35 AM
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Yep my boyfriend has also had the same experience with women so he doesn’t have any close female friends either. One of the few downsides of being attractive haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:26 PM
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I don’t have any close male friends and I don’t intend to. Every single man I have tried to be more than just surface level friends with has turned around and said they have feelings for me. And when I told them I only see them as a friend they either stopped talking to me entirely or just got angry at me. So when you say women have countless men “vying for their friendship”.. trust me when I tell you no they’re not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:43 PM
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God forbid you have to wait 10 seconds for someone to take a photo before eating your food
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:32 AM
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I choose peace so if it was a friend I would immediately cut contact with them. If it was my partner, I’d hear what they have to say but at the end of the day I’m not going to be in a relationship with someone that’s a misogynist and blames women for all their problems. And most likely these views will become more extreme over the years and I have no time nor patience to deal with that bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:33 PM
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Again, in the bank analogy this a comparison of two strangers interacting with each other. Of course you need to take precautions with someone you don’t know because you haven’t established any level of trust yet. Personal relationships are different and therefore not comparable. And anyway you can spin it however you want, at the end of the day if you are in a loving relationship with a woman and you tell her you want a paternity test because you want to make sure she’s not a fraud, any woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:42 AM
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If she hasn’t displayed any signs of infidelity then I don’t see why that’s necessary. If a guy wanted to do that he can, but he could hardly be surprised if his wife got pissed off since the implication is she’s a cheat. I mean would you be happy if you had a wife and out of the blue she demanded you do an sti test to make sure you’re not cheating too? Or demand to go through your phone and bank statements to check for cheating? Or demand you do an on the spot drug test to make sure you’re not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:05 AM
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That’s not even comparable. In one instance you’re showing distrust in a stranger and the other you’re showing distrust in someone you supposedly love and have been with for years potentially. What would be comparable is if your wife or girlfriend of years just decided to bring pepper spray out on her date with you “in case” you decided to attack her. As a man wouldn’t you be pretty offended by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:43 AM
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Yup my boyfriend also has these qualities and that’s exactly why I love him. I’ve never met someone as kind as my boyfriend and that’s my favourite thing about him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:03 AM
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If it was with a guy I had absolutely zero interest in then I would probably talk about people I’ve dated before, same with any other friend. But if it’s with a guy that I am pursuing a relationship with I wouldn’t talk about anything about past relationships unless I was directly asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:30 AM
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Nobody said you have to look like a giga chad in order to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:05 PM
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Only a man would think that having a six pack or having a big dick makes you a better man than guys who don’t have that. As a woman it’s so easy to find a conventionally hot guy to hook up with. It’s not easy to find a man that’s attractive, dependable, loyal and has a provider mindset. And in fact when a guy has those qualities he becomes far more attractive than any ig model looking guy could ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:55 PM
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If anything I’m more attracted to husband/material types because I am attracted to their personality as well as their looks. It’s not an either or situation when you get married to someone where either you hook up with a hot guy and it be casual or you get married to someone ugly but safe. Like no, I refuse to settle. I will only marry someone kind AND hot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:28 AM
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I got catcalled more as a child than as a woman in my 20’s now. I very much looked like a child. Maybe society is shifting more so there’s just less catcalling going around in general, but it’s always unsettling to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:09 AM
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Honestly the majority of men’s profiles are just cringe or super low-effort. I think a lot of men don’t understand who they are trying to appeal to. Women are not going to be attracted to shitty mirror photos of you in the gym, of your car or you out fishing. Like, as a man you should have a certain level of self awareness that men are already disadvantaged when it comes to online dating. So why do so many men have low-quality blurry photos, no photos of them smiling, or only photos where they’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:46 PM
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15/15 I went to small school and was lucky that everyone was nice to each other for the most part, so making friends from a young age was easy. As an adult I’ve moved to multiple different countries where I don’t know anyone and still never struggled to make friends. I’ve always made an effort to put myself out there and meet new people. A big smile and eye contact also goes a long way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:26 PM
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Why are women constantly criticised for not supporting men’s issues when men give even less of a shit about each other. The level of violence against men done by other men is insane. Look at how toxic male dominated spaces become when there’s little to no female presence such as the army or the police. And if you state problems such as homelessness or unfair family courts, look at who is in almost all positions of power - all men. Redpillers really need to stop blaming women for all the problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:08 AM
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The bar is only in hell for women for guys that are unattractive and have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:00 AM
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Why does everything have to be a competition? Both men and women face their own issues and both can exist and be acknowledged at the same time. Why is that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:57 AM
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And at the same time having kids as a woman is basically committing career suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:06 AM
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Fair enough 👍🏼 I hope some middle ground can be made eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:01 AM
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I mean men literally complain about this problem all the time. This is a real problem for a lot of men today. Look at any dating advice subreddit and there’s so many posts about how do I meet women, how do I talk to a woman, how do I get more matches because no one is liking my profile - it’s constant. But I’m pretty sure the solution is not to go down the misogynistic right wing path to cure the loneliness unless you want to end up like Elliot Roger
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:48 AM
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misogyny kills women and misandry hurts men’s feelings Well the feminists were right then. Since Trump promotes misogyny and misogynistic men (and women) voted for him, now many women are going to needlessly die due to the rights being taken away from them. How do you propose feminists show humility for this kind of psychotic behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:07 AM
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Yeah I guess lol but the ability to change could potentially be a lot more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:47 AM
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I cannot think of a single policy or instance where Trump has said that he aims to better the lives of young men. If anything gender relations and things like the male loneliness epidemic is going to get worse now that women are mad that the public voted in a misogynistic sexual abuser as president.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:38 AM
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It’s becoming a self fulfilling prophecy at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:13 AM
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Yup exactly the case with myself and my friends. All of us are in our mid/late 20’s and only consider dating men 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:30 AM
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Creepy is someone who won’t take no for an answer, still tries to initiate contact when it is super obvious I am not interested, says things that make me uncomfortable (eg saying by sexually explicit things when I don’t know them), someone who won’t respect boundaries or personal space, someone who stares at you and won’t stop staring even when they know they were caught. Generally someone js creepy if I feel like them lingering around too long could put me in danger. However someone who is gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:40 AM
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So why would you care what one woman has to say in an article then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:31 AM
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You totally missed the point of that Huffington Post article. The author is describing men who performatively put that they are in therapy on their profiles in order to appear more empathetic. When in reality they either don’t actually go to therapy, or only go to appear better to women but have no intention of actually improving themselves. Of course any rational woman would be happy for men to go through therapy if that’s what they needed. I wouldn’t want to date a man that refuses to talk abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:45 AM
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You mean a money-motivated women care more about how much a guy makes than his looks? Absolutely mind blowing findings op 🤯🤯🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:48 AM
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Something tells me this guy doesn’t acknowledge the invisible labour women do to keep a home and raise a family, or at the very least doesn’t see it as “real work”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:49 AM
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I understand approaching women isn’t easy, but why would that lead to men feeling ashamed of even liking women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:20 AM
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I get that, but I don’t understand how that leads to a man feeling ashamed of even feeling attracted to women or even thinking he thinks a woman is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:20 AM
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I’m a bit confused as to how you’ve come to feel this way? I can’t think of an instance where I’ve seen men shamed for wanting to be wholesome and take women out on dates. If anything I’ve seen the opposite, which is why for example the lady Campbell Puckett’s (Pookie and Jett’s) tiktok has blown up as she posts videos of her and her husband getting ready for dates and he tells her how beautiful she is etc. As others have mentioned this sounds like a very chronically online problem that doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:11 AM
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I mean when you literally have nothing to lose, you will settle for anything. For most people though relationships cannot function on love alone. And as a woman I would in no way shape or form consider having a family with someone if we were not married first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:17 PM
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What’s that got to do with being called an abuser though? That’s a very specific allegation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:42 AM
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I think you need to reevaluate yourself if you think that being accused of being an abuser is a daily occurrence for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:45 AM
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What man gets accused of being an abuser several times a day for their whole life? If that was even true, he probably is an abuser lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:40 AM
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To each their own innit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:14 AM
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It’s not exploitation though if it’s fair. My man takes care of the bills and I take care of the home and cooking. My partner is more than happy to provide for us and it makes him feel good taking care of me. If a man expected a woman to split the bill and still have children with him, that is 1000% exploitation in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:18 AM
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Nope. And let’s be real, if my intention was to exploit a man, I’d do it for a lot more than just a plate of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:01 AM
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I don’t split the check. Never have, never will. I’ve never been asked to but I also don’t live in a country where splitting is the norm. Fact of the matter is, if a guy doesn’t want to pay the bill, then there’s a hundred more behind him that will. So as a woman, why would I settle for a man that is cheap when I don’t need to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:51 AM
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Nope lol the more the guy is conventionally good looking, the more selfish he is usually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:04 PM
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I’ve honestly never had a conversation with another woman going into detail about each other’s sex lives, and I’m hardly a prude. I’d find it pretty trashy, man or woman, to talk about previous partners in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:19 AM
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There’s plenty of women that have a more masculine energy that struggle with dating. Or they get frustrated that the type of guys they attract are pussies since they are too masculine for traditional men. And at the end of the day, physiology wise men will always be bigger and physically stronger than women. That’s not something you can change by changing gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:59 AM
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Anyone is welcome to live the life they want to live, and if they really want to go against gender stereotypes then they should go ahead and do that. I’m just saying what works for me and what works for the majority of people. Just don’t be surprised when it’s difficult to find a partner when you try to move against the current.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:44 AM
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Women risk their lives giving men children. We all make sacrifices for each other. But if you don’t feel like any woman is worth risking your life for, then no one is forcing you to date. Or if you want someone big and strong to protect you instead, maybe you should consider dating men too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:31 AM
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You’re acting as though my boyfriend is jumping in front of bullets for me everyday when that’s obviously not how life is. Men and women have different struggles in life and both should be acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:20 AM
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You can insult me all you want, but I’m not the one writing posts on reddit asking why do guys never like me back. I’ve never struggled to attract men or struggled to keep them. I know how to keep my man happy. Most men ultimately just want to be with someone who is agreeable, kind, and attractive. Someone who will take care of him when he’s feeling stressed and bring warmth to his home. As for money, my man is more than happy to pay for things. He’s a provider, he has more than enough money to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:36 AM
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Thanks! My boyfriend takes great care of me in return so he deserves it. We met at a bar actually my bad hah. He used to go to his favourite bar alone like once a month just to get out the house. He’d only stay for two drinks then leave. I just happened to catch him on one of the few times he was out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:36 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I cook my man whatever he wants, I take care of our home and our cats when he has to go away for work, I helped decorate our apartment, I advise him on what clothes to buy, I give him massages when he’s hurting, I give him non-stop kisses and affection all throughout the day, I keep him satisfied in the bedroom, and I push him out of his comfort zone. Before he met me all he did was stay at home and go to work and that’s literally it. Now I plan vacations for us,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:21 PM
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Men are the protectors and providers. That’s literally it. Men are still pampered, just in different ways. If a woman were to provide for her man, give him money, protect him, being overly chivalrous, on top of all the things that women already do for men, what role does the man have left in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:03 PM
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Because women are less creepy, less of a threat, and less likely to act on impulse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:52 AM
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I mean that I am not interested in seeing a man that is dating multiple women at a time. There’s plenty of other women that he could have chosen to be with, but once we have mutually decided to date each other then that’s where the focus should be imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:03 AM
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I didn’t find my boyfriend from a dating app, but I do know that a lot of women were after him when I met him haha. To be honest I didn’t really care, it’s cool to know that I got the man that everyone else wants. But I asked him quite casually on our second date if he was seeing anyone else, knowing that if he said yes I wouldn’t continue to date him. He said no, and now that we’re living together and I know he is what his lifestyle is like, I know he was telling the truth. Overall you are alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:34 AM
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At the end of the day, you’re “allowed” to divorce anyone for any reason. I think it would be silly for two people to get divorced because one wanted a paternity test or one wanted to look at the other’s phone. But ultimately that’s their prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:37 AM
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It’s not great when it comes from someone who you thought was your friend, but actually they were just pretending to be your friend so they could get closer to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:12 PM
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Not saying it’s not possible for men and women to just be friends, but every single close male friend/best friend I’ve ever had has confessed feelings for me, so I refuse to have any close male friendships from now on. My partner experienced the same thing with women, so we mutually agree not to have any close friendships with the opposite sex. Friends with ex’s and former fwb’s is out of the question too. Better to leave the past in the past imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:25 AM
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Tbh men only become attractive after I get to know him. Even if I see someone that’s conventionally good looking I really don’t care about them unless I start talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:44 AM
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Like a 3. I don’t really care since I would never message a guy that approached me on the street, but I’d also much rather just be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:58 AM
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It’s just not true though is it. I’m a woman from the UK, and lived across Asia, and I can say without a shadow of a doubt that women are far less materialistic in the west than they are in Asia. At least in countries like the US, you can find women that are happy to split costs of dates, will go halves on rent, and will financially contribute to the household. In fact I’ve seen a lot of western women insist that they don’t want everything paid for them because it would make them feel uncomforta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:22 AM
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Too bad for them, but good for you I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:05 AM
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Likewise!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:03 AM
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If you don’t want to split the check, that’s fine. For every man that wants to split the bill, there’s a thousand more that are willing to pay for everything. So I implore cheap men to reveal themselves as soon as possible so women like myself don’t have their time wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:12 AM
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When we ask for equality, we are asking for quality under the law and to be treated the same as men on a human being level. How attractive, or tall or how much money a person has, should have no bearing on their worthiness as a human being. Everyone should fundamentally be protected and treated with the same level of respect as any other person. So no it is not contradictory to want equality and want a partner you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:00 AM
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It doesn’t matter if the orgasm gap is studied or is in the media if it is not taken seriously by men as a whole. The whole reason why it exists is because men don’t care about women’s pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:57 AM
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Bigger is not better, it’s usually just more painful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:35 AM
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It takes a string of failed marriages and multiple baby mamas in order to become a passport bro? Lmaooo this shit writes itself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:17 AM
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Yep I agree 👍🏼 I think these days many brilliant women are drawn to men that match their intellect and level of success. And many women who chose to be reliant upon men have the ability to become successful because the stress and burden of taking care of the family finances is already taken care of by their husband. So in some ways that reliance also gives them the independence to try out new businesses that they would otherwise have not tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:29 AM
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I think you’re missing the point as to why women reward men of status. Women who are oppressed will want a provider man with a high income because they simply have no other choice. Women for centuries have been denied education, autonomy and their own right to money. Women couldn’t even open their own bank account in the US until 1974. If a woman is reliant upon men for a source of income then it’s a no brainer that they will try to find the man with the most resources. And as much as women’s ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:55 AM
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So what’s wrong with that if you said that’s “what men want”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:06 AM
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So just request a prenup and add an infidelity clause if you are so worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:56 AM
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I just looked at the comments of the video you linked and literally all the comments are telling the woman how delusional she is so I don’t really see how this is an example of “mainstream narrative” not holding women accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:52 PM
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Well of course. Doesn’t make your story any more believable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:24 PM
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What kind of weirdo would go out of their way to meet up with their friend’s ex behind their back? This reads like terrible fanfic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:16 PM
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It’s more to do with demeanour than looks tbh. I know plenty of guys that are good looking and desperate as well as guys that are not good looking and confident within themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:52 AM
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It means like you are being “blessed”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:30 PM
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Lmao the guys complaining that women paying $500 a year isn’t good enough, meanwhile my average is $0.00
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:17 AM
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I was in Seoul a few months ago though and while I was there I literally remember seeing one toddler while I was out and no babies, no other young kids and no pregnant women. Just old people everywhere. Yeah you might see couples but I didn’t see any babies at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:39 PM
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Why would you want to date someone that compares you like that anyway? If a guy constantly criticised me and said I can’t cook as well as his mother I’d tell him to fuck off and go live back with mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:06 AM
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Dying alone will ultimately be the reality for many men in the future so they are projecting this fear onto women because they are scared
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:12 AM
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Yet another reason why there is only a male loneliness epidemic happening and not a female one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:12 PM
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My guy none of these material things matter to women unless you have the personality to match. If all you are attracting is entitled disrespectful women, perhaps stop leading with such a materialistic approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:14 PM
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I have my own money too so I’m not too worried. I wouldn’t advocate for anyone to be solely reliant on another person either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:02 PM
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Good for you. However you can’t ignore that financial problems are one of the leading causes of divorce. So I’m not going to put myself through a life of unnecessary stress if I don’t need to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:01 PM
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I love my boyfriend for who he is as a person and for how he provides for me. It’s not an either or situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:40 PM
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Oh I meant to attract a woman it’s easier for a man if he is a bit more flirtatious and cheeky from the offset rather than just being a nice person but not making their intentions known. But I agree what attracts women and what attracts men are two different things. As you said a woman can act passively and just be beautiful and have certain traits a man wants and attraction will build regardless. But for men if they don’t show any initiative they will struggle to attract women (unless they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:23 AM
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My point is if you have already established a purely platonic friendship with someone you don’t find attractive and suddenly they make a move on you, you would find it weird regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:30 PM
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Well as a man if you had a male friend and he suddenly confessed his feelings for you out of the blue, wouldn’t you find that uncomfortable and jarring? It’s the same for us women. If you have any intent to have more than a friendship then you have to be more flirty from the outset and make your intentions known. That’s how attraction builds. And without any attraction it doesn’t matter how nice your personality is, without attraction there is nothing but friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:13 PM
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To a certain extent men are also subservient to women. Every time a man opens a door for a woman, pours a glass for her or gives her his jacket he is also showing submission. That doesn’t mean by any means that he is less than a woman, but rather he does so out of courtesy. Showing these signs of submission is not always a sign of weakness. It’s okay to do things for others without expecting something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:41 PM
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Young women are only attracted to older men if they are also established, more put together and have money. Otherwise if a guy is a loser when he’s young and still a loser when he’s older he’s not going to gain any more interest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:54 AM
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Why is the onus on women to fix problems and societal norms created by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:50 PM
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Well it depends what your intention is for dating. If you are dating just for fun it doesn’t matter as much I guess. But if you are dating with the intention of finding your future wife and the mother of your children then yes you absolutely should pay for the first date and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:05 AM
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Idk if they would have gotten together but they definitely would have found someone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:46 AM
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And that’s an invitation for sex is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:47 AM
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Lmao cos a stranger approaching a woman leaving at bar and asking her to come to his hotel room at 4am for “coffee” is totally innocent and not creepy at all. Gimme a break
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:37 PM
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No one’s saying you can’t hit on a women ever in that environment. But in this example if you join a club which you obviously have no real interest in/no experience in and just go around trying to pick up women then we will see that and be put off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:22 AM
1

So do both then if that’s what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:16 AM
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The point of joining these clubs isn’t necessarily so you can hit on women but so you can expand your social circle and meet more women that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:48 PM
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My ai gf that was programmed to be nice and show interest in me was nice and showed interest in me. Therefore western women = bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:02 AM
1

Unless my man wants to buy me an entire new wardrobe then he shouldn’t date me if he doesn’t like the way that I dress when I’m single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:14 PM
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Women complain a lot on women’s only groups/forums
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:51 AM
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Love exists outside of romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:31 AM
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Lmao customs will seize more money than the man would lose in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:16 AM
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Telling women to swipe less when the majority of male users swipe right on every single woman haha ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:56 AM
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Rich and ugly. I’m more repulsed by an empty bank account than an ugly face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:57 AM
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Because I need to know from day one whether this man is a provider or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:32 PM
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Until men start pushing babies out their bodies then yes they should be the one paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:41 PM
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Have fun when you’re permanent gf leaves you anyway because you won’t commit to her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:33 AM
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With this kind of attitude I think even ugly bitches are gonna side step you, op
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:17 AM
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Because I don’t need to or want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:34 PM
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Lol I don’t not pay because I am broke, I allow the man to pay so he can take the lead, show his generosity, and be a gentleman. But regardless, whether I were broke or a billionaire I’m not taking my wallet out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:28 PM
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I don’t pay and I don’t offer to pay. I have never been asked to split the check either. I am only interested in dating men that have a provider mindset, and imo most men that complain about paying for dates are more often than not broke. And I am not going to enter a 50/50 relationship with a broke man. The purpose of dating is for the man to impress the woman. To prove that he has the financial capabilities of taking care of someone else. To show that he is willing to put in effort. To treat h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:48 PM
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I can promise you us women have much better things to do than ‘scam’ random men out of a free lemonade
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:59 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:15 AM
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Lol this is hilarious. If you base every major life and financial decision on whether or not you’re gonna get pussy then no wonder you become a failure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:10 AM
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Because a lot of men don’t look they stare at you to a point that it just gets uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:01 PM
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Not true, I have quite the colourful sexual history yet I can safely say my most recent boyfriend was the best person I have ever been with in bed. It’s not a matter of how many it’s a matter of compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:49 PM
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Lol quite the opposite. I don’t like gym bro type guys BECAUSE I know the sheer amount of effort it takes to look that way. I dated a super muscular pt before and although he was super nice, his lifestyle was so boring. Would never join me to any party or bar because he didn’t drink alcohol, could only go to restaurants that had food that could fit his macros, would judge me if my diet wasn’t 100% on point like his was etc etc. I don’t care how hot the guy is I can’t accept that kind of lifestyl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:58 PM
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No, and the situation you described above I wouldn’t even count as submission but rather straight up abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:36 AM
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I tried it, and I will never do it again. All the experience did was solidify my feeling that I never ever want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:50 PM
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It’s not the women that actively chose to be stay at home house wives that are complaining though is it. It’s the women that also work full time jobs but also do the majority of the domestic work and child rearing because their husbands think that just bringing home money is good enough when it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:24 AM
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If you think all women collectively treat men badly based on your experiences then its probably because you are not a very nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:49 PM
2

I would argue a lot of sugar babies have genuine feelings for their sugar daddy too and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:08 PM
2

Alright but where’s the limit? By that definition any stay at home wife would technically be a prostitute too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:07 PM
2

Alright I’ve been an escort and a sugar baby so I’ll weigh in on this. Honestly, there’s a great difference in how men treat escorts vs how they treat sugar babies. Escorting was a degrading experience and I would not do it again. Many men have zero respect for you and purely use you just for your body. They don’t care about your happiness, your well-being, whether you are enjoying yourself etc. The encounter is purely transactional. I’ve had men insult and berate me when I tell them what I char…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:10 PM
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As long as he’s settled in his career, no I wouldn’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:34 AM
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Person B because we will have the same history and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:55 AM
2

I’d be interested to meet these guys in person because I’m guessing that they have little to no social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:29 AM
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What nonsense lmao. I’ve been catcalled even when I’m out walking my dogs with zero makeup on wearing sweatpants. Creepy dudes will creep on women whether they’re dressed up or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:29 AM
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I think it’s highly dependent on the culture of the location you’re in. I’ve lived abroad in one country for almost 4 years and only been cold approached once. But when I go back to my home country I’ll get approached pretty much every time I go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:25 AM
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Good. I don’t want to be approached when I’m out minding my own business. Especially when approaches can quickly turn into harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:22 AM
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Ha guilty 🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:08 AM
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Absolutely untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:40 AM
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I feel like it’s a bit of a redundant question tho cos I would be okay with dating a male equivalent of myself but that doesn’t mean I would like him to wear high heels, dresses and and fake lashes like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:00 PM
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It’s quality not quantity tho. I match with 99% of guys I swipe right on so I can afford to be selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:52 PM
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I’ve never gone 50/50 with a guy and I never will. And tbh if guy is that stingy over a few plates of food then I wouldn’t want to date him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:30 AM
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Listen, male and female attraction just doesn’t work in the way. Personality is one of the main driving factors to attracting women. Ask any women what qualities she looks for in a guy and you can almost guarantee one of the first things she’ll say is that she likes guys that are funny. But personality doesn’t translate well into online dating. And when you’re swiping and making a snap judgement on whether or not to like someone, then looks becomes the determining factor. And the sad reality is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:08 AM
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Yeah no shit. The point is yes the women on dating apps exist irl but not all irl women are on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:23 AM
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Because if you meet a woman irl it’s highly possible she isn’t active on any dating apps. So if you’re mostly relying on online dating to find someone then you’re really limiting your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:13 AM
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Not really since apps like Tinder have a 3:1 ratio of men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:09 AM
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I’ve had a guy show up to a dinner date before in cargo shorts.. I was horrified lol. I think shorts are fine though if the date is during the day and you’re living in a hot country. But they need to be something nice like a fitted pair of chinos for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:29 PM
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They’re bulky and loose fitted which creates a horrible silhouette. The bulkiness also makes it hard to iron so cargo shorts just makes someone look unkempt imo. The shorts are often cut below the knee which makes men appear shorter than they are. And personally as a woman I would want to be on a date with a guy that looks like they’re ready to go fishing at a moment’s notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:11 PM
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As a woman that takes great pride in her appearance, I definitely prefer to be the ‘pretty’ one in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:28 PM
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Then you’d have to let her know that you have romantic feelings for her, otherwise don’t be surprised when she only treats you like a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:47 AM
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If you are only friends with women in hopes that one day they will eventually fuck you, then you are not a “nice guy” but a NiceGuyTM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:30 PM
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Misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:56 PM
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So I’m a woman and I don’t play video games or play board games. I guess the main reason for me is that video games especially are quite an investment. When you factor in the cost of all the consoles, games, controllers, dlc’s etc overtime it can add up to hundreds of not thousands of dollars, and I’d much rather spend that money going out with friends than sitting at home. Also, (and I could be wrong on this) I have an impression that a lot of the most popular video games are more male centred …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:22 PM
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Attractive people in general have life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:40 PM
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Plenty of guys are attractive - doesn’t mean I want to date them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:25 PM
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Let’s be real, the only men who are genuinely concerned about the number of people a woman has slept with are just insecure losers. They’re just mad that they’ve never had that same opportunity so they feel the need to project their insecurities onto someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:55 PM
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