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Ugh, the expectation to laugh is nauseating. There's a male colleague at my workplace that believes he's amazingly humorous because he circles any conversation into a statement about his penis. 'We have a small deadline on this project.' 'Ehehe, like my penis!!' It is insufferable. Unfortunately his opinion matters in terms of social standing so plenty fake laugh in response. Usually other men... height of comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:31 PM
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An ex-boyfriend of mine was fantastic with carpentry and building repairs. He would promise the earth but he would never complete or start the repairs required. Then he'd bitch and moan when I finally hired someone. I'm not up for waiting an additional seven months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:31 PM
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Having lived through that, I'm happy being single. My ex-boyfriend and I were accepted to the same university. We mutually decided on living together for the duration. We both had limited experience with independence and housework. Learning together seemed fun... Most appliances simply required basic common sense to operate. Cooking was easy with the plethora of guides and recipes. Maintenance was quick with a read of the manual or an internet search. Despite this, my ex would insist his lack of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:15 PM
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He definitely filled the basket with cheap items. With a budget of $500, I could purchase 2-3 pairs of shoes or five worthwhile skincare items. You're expecting the top-of-the-range, impossible to obtain console? I'm expecting limited edition skincare, clothing or designer shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:44 PM
7

This is the absolute truth. My social media accounts that give me yearly flashbacks have revealed my appearance, style and skills are vastly improving year on year. For example, I had zero concept of skincare in my early twenties. I once thought it was a great idea to remove my dry skin with sellotape like budget waxing. I used to believe anything feminine was less than. That fashion and makeup was pointless vanity. Furthermore, it is rather telling that every actress playing a teenager or young…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:56 PM
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He talks about feeling behind in life... My career involves working directly with building contractors. Whenever I'm informed that an apprentice is attending, I know to expect a bright-eyed teenager fresh from basic education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:26 AM
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I'm from an incredibly rural area. No public transport. Every job lists a driving licence and access to a working vehicle as a basic skill. Despite this, people insist I'm a materialistic golddigging bitch for expecting adult men to have the above. Apparently I'm meant to pick them up like I'm their fucking mother or free taxi service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:58 PM
50

Wow, that's next level. What creeps!! Everytime I've used online dating and spoken to beautiful women, they'll always reveal their swamp monster boyfriend seeking a threesome. No thanks. I'm bisexual. If I wanted a threesome, I wouldn't remotely need online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:50 PM
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My colleague had beautiful flower bouquets delivered to our office every valentines. Honestly, it filled me with pangs of sadness and jealously. We became good friends and she explained they weren't purchased by anyone else. She was happily single and liked to treat herself. I've taken up getting flowers delivered twice a month. I'll get something extra special this valentines. I have my eyes on an €80 bouquet with 45 stems. Buying for women at valentines is ridiculously easy. Men still manage t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:39 PM
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Precisely. Dating depressed men can have an impact on your own mental health. I met my first boyfriend in college. It was an exciting time. I was studying my dream subjects and learning more about myself everyday. He'd respond to every hint of my excitement with negativity. So I dumped him. Then I was shamed by my entire friends group. You can't dump someone with mental health issues. How heartless. No. It is self-care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:22 PM
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I'm desperate to purchase my own home. The mortgage advisor actually stated finding a partner as the main tip for getting onto the housing ladder. This is in an area with minimal local amenities or vast career opportunities. The other suggestions were begging parents for cash or hoping for the death of family members for the chance at an inheritance. Grim World.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:28 PM
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Yes! Best decision I ever made. 🥰 I've spent almost a decade straightening and dying my hair black. My ex-boyfriend used to label me with Roma slurs whenever he caught me with curls. Ugh, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:57 PM
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Most comments are a stupid attempt at a compliment. Beautiful = sex work. The ex-colleague insisting I was already within the business only let his thoughts be known once he was fired (he was always late). On the upside, many of the awful judgemental colleagues were made redundant. The one positive with the pandemic. I would love another job but no-one is hiring here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:50 PM
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They're pretending sex work is becoming respectful and accepted. It isn't. At. All. In the last year, I've fully embraced my natural beauty and found the exact style that compliments me. Curly ginger hair, fitted jeans, tight knitwear turtle necks, and winged liner. I look good. Colleagues insist I venture into sex work (men and women). That it's empowering, well-paid and loved. I've been accused of having porn profiles. One ex-colleague request I give him a friend's discount on my 'account.' Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:28 PM
128

I never realised how celebrated self-esteem issues are in young women until recently. A good example is What Makes You Beautiful - One Direction. A song aimed at teenagers. I thought it was a beautiful song until someone pointed out the lyrics. You don't know you're beautiful, oh-oh That's what makes you beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:18 PM
43

Similar experience and identical height. He insisted he was 5'11. I was able to look him in the eyes when wearing three inch heels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:49 AM
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Common for them to seek assistance in the guise of friendship. They're lightning fast to take the complete credit and lap up the resulting promotions. Then you have those hellbent on fucking you. Firing off compliments and suggestions of better pay. I've seen colleagues target young starters, gunning for nudes to spread or gossip that ruins women's careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:08 PM
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She really really should be. I wouldn't have sex without seeing results from an STD test. Even then, I'd still insist on condoms until it became a long-term relationship. Outright refused one-night-stands. 4 men in 10 years. How did that work out? I've dealt with gonorrhea and cancer causing HPV. Don't trust men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:47 PM
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Men have always gotten excited when they've seen my petite hands, thinking it makes me blind to size and measurements. Deluded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:20 AM
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If I'm not physically holding their hand in place with strength of the gods. Never. Let go? They're suddenly fingering your urethra whispering 'u horny bb, u cum yet?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:31 PM
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'You jUsT neEed to coMmUniCaTe.' I remember taking his hand into mine and guiding his every move with a sensual explanation. Showing him the perfect positioning, speed and motion. Within seconds of removing my hand, his suddenly moved to the middle of my goddamn thigh, scratching my bare flesh raw at the speed of light. Yeah.... All I need is 30 seconds of gentle pressure. No biting, slapping, scratching. Unsurprisingly I've never had an orgasm during sex. Sexually active for 9 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:21 PM
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Thank you! Unfortunately, I started my dating life listening to the many cries of 'Come on, give him a chance. He's such a nice guy!' Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:34 PM
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The men are usually attempting to play matchmaker for their friends. Friends that are clearly single for a reason. I feel plenty of the women simply want me to experience their misery with lousy partners. Unfortunately I've been there before but I've definitely learned from my mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:33 PM
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This is the bain of my fucking life. Everyone in my workplace brings up my relationship status on an almost weekly basis. Analysing the reason and mocking my preferences. I'm a gainfully employed higher educated woman that took the first opportunity to move out and learn to drive. I have my own home and two cars. Intensive effort is put into my appearance - work out daily, mircoblading, eyelashes, nails, expensive skincare regime, luxury makeup and clothes that really compliment my figure. I'm c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:22 PM
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Isn't it awful that this seems too good to be real? I would spend hours researching my ex-boyfriend's interests and hobbies to find suitable gifts. The last was a €200 custom made statue from an interest of his. I'm currently doing similar for my bestfriend. I broke up with him shortly before my birthday. He kept mentioning how I'd never get my amazing birthday gift. This fantastic gift was a €5 unicorn candle that cries wax. I dislike candles and horses are far from my favourite animal. We'd be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:47 AM
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I've only been with one man that upheld basic hygiene. Unsurprisingly, he was an actual model. I was made out to be an absolute bitch by everyone when I wasn't impressed with cleaning my first boyfriend's daily skid marks. Women are not at fault for men's actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:36 AM
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My ex would critique my figure, suggesting ways to radically lose weight or alter my body (I was 96-108lbs). He was an unhealthy skinny male. I almost have an hourglass figure but my hips are slightly bigger paired with a large natural butt. He thought my body wasn't that fantastic because I didn't have an extreme bubble butt like celebrities that have undergone procedures. He hasn't had anyone else with a figure close to mine. Probably why he still watches everything I post....4 years after I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:00 PM
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He was scared but perfectly fine! My ex-boyfriend thought cats were awful creatures because they didn't approach and love him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:11 AM
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It's insane. My ex-boyfriend was jealous of my cat. He threw both the cat and the chair it was sitting on across the room because I gave the cat attention first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:18 PM
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Exactly. Even when an item is authentic, the quality can still be vastly overstated. There was a program in my country where a specialist was given jewelry to analyse. Most of the luxury items had less than appealing metals (some even dangerous) and a very low percentage of the main advertised metal content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:05 AM
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I was once gifted a silver heart bracelet. Apparently it was white gold with petite diamonds from the local luxury jewelers. Imagine my surprise seeing the exact same luxury heart bracelet in the €15 clearance aisle of my countries Walmart equivalent store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:02 AM
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Everything is turned around to be about men. Compliments? What about men?? (Random note. No-one has ever taken mental health seriously but everything I'm seeing now about focusing on mental health is about men. Never women). The compliments only started rolling in for me once intensive effort was put into my aesthetic, figure and overall appearance. Ugly women are hardly thought of as women or even human at times. My first ex-boyfriend used to get pissy when others complimented me. He wished for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:03 AM
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I've had multiple men explain how easy it would be to beat me up or overpower me. They think it's an impressive statement that will increase my interest. Wow Jeff I'm sooo surprised you, a 6 foot dude, could overpower a 5'1 barely 110lbs woman.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:34 PM
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Exactly! My company had to intricately analyse every employee to determine 200 reduancies. The main work force are mostly women, often treated like we're worthless and stupid. Unsurprisingly not one of us has lost our jobs. It won't change the attitude towards us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:12 AM
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I've tried dating broke men, thinking they're down on their luck and that money isn't everything. Nope! There was always a glaring and irresponsible reason. Gambling, credit card abuse, video game addiction, outright laziness so they'd avoid employment like the plague. 'Can I just borrow? Can I just have? I'll pay you back.....' was a common cry. I became their ATM/breadwinner but they still wanted to act like the man. No honey, I'm the man here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:28 AM
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Unfortunately, it doesn't work. Her entire side of the family assure her it is normal. It's all she's ever known. When we go out, she cannot afford something as simple as a coffee. She earns much more than I do. The bank account is constantly monitored by her husband incase she decides to spend anything. Her family constantly insist I purchase things. Going out for coffee? Pay for her. Going to a restaurant? Bring her and pay in full. I'm taking my mom abroad? Pay for this relative too. They act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:51 PM
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This is the case with a family member of mine. She thinks they're constantly at the very edge of poverty, despite her now working full time. He insisted that only he is entitled to retire due to her being a SAHM. Her wage goes into his account and she never sees a single cent. Even though she's working, she's not allowed to use the car. Cycling to work in all weather at 66 years old. Her side of the family think it is completely normal. They expect me to support her as a young adult just startin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:16 PM
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No. Some are absolutely sure they can make me orgasm. I just get bored and it's an easy end without having to console an adult man's emotional and damaged ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:46 PM
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My ex used to use gifts against me. I bought him a €115 statue that was a representative of his favourite hobby. He purchased some €110 heels I had my eyes on. Good deal. I was happy. He brought the heels up constantly to showcase I was a spoilt selfish partner. He continued to bring them up to everyone that would listen after I broke up with him. I gave them back and bought myself a new actual designer pair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:40 PM
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I have faked orgasms... Every single man I've been with wants me to orgasm but insists my tips are incorrect. It's the only way to stop the relentless and painful attempts. I've had my inner thigh rubbed raw once because he insisted that's the location of my clit. I've guided hands, given info. Everything. They don't want to learn. I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. I even have a toy that can achieve it in 30 seconds. Men call me a liar, that they're amazing and become upset at the ide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:04 AM
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Social media is full of these body types. I used to be incredibly petite with a 22 inch waist and 32 inch hips. Wearing size 00 clothes with ease. I didn't have boobs or a large butt. Then things switched and I started to develop boobs and a large butt in my late teens. Suddenly my waist was 29 inches and my hips 39. I was devastated that my waist hadn't remained at 22 inches like all other girls I saw on social media. I thought there was something wrong with my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:47 AM
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The last man I dated would often state 'you look good! Have you lost weight?' I've spent much of my life being accused of having anorexia and being medically underweight. Now I'm a healthly weight - 115lbs. I have curves, thighs, boobs! I love it. But men? They celebrate the 'weight loss' or think its something I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:14 AM
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My absolute dream date would be at a restaurant in my home country, overlooking the bay surrounded by olive trees. I basically treat my mother to this twice a year with the addition of a two week 5 star hotel stay. My normal date standards would be a nice romantic restaurant date. I've never experienced this. Men want walks around dodgy parks, have me drive them around and 'chat' in an empty parking lot. Expecting anymore and I'm suddenly an evil demanding golddigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:49 AM
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It is the absolute bain of my existence. 'Come on! Give him a chance. Don't be shallow.' Conveniently forgetting these creatures are expressing interest because they find me physically attractive. Let's ignore that, shall we? My colleagues insist I'm picky with unrealistic standards because I refuse to date men without their own mode of transport. I live in an area with no public transport. Not wanting to pick them up in my car as though they're my child makes me a gold digger. Wanting anything …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:56 PM
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I used to think this was a rarity. Almost every single male manager at my place of work...usually with lower level employees or temp staff hoping to prove themselves as worthy for permanency. These men always have wives or fiancé's with children. I outright refuse to date office men. I work with them everyday to know the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:06 PM
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Think about it... Do you really want a man that won't even employ the effort to meet you. He isn't even offering to meet halfway in a public place. A man that suggests meeting at their place is after a quick hookup, especially as a first date. Paying for the ticket? He's treating you like a prostitute. Unless a man is willing to travel to me, I'm not interested. I like to feel safe and comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:03 PM
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I'll never forget an incident at my city university. It was the first time I've ever been in a city for more than a weekend. I was walking to university and was only a few blocks away when a random 35-40+ year old man blocked my path. He began to insist I join him, interrogating me. 'What's your name? Where you going? Where do you live? Which university do you attend? Do you have a bf? He doesn't need to know if you do. You're so pretty, my van is over there. When do you finish, I'll pick you up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:33 AM
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Treating yourself is the best thing ever. I used to feel incredible guilt for spending anything on myself. Now I don't hesitate if it won't impact my finances. Designer bags? Get in my basket. Luxury swimwear? Yes please. Shoes? I'll have both styles. Sadly I'm still uncomfortable with gifts as I'm so used to them coming with ulterior motives. My ex would purchase expensive gifts and hand them to me in front of others. Then demand the money once we were alone. If I had the money, I would've boug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:11 PM
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My peers insist I'm an awful shallow person for expecting an adult man to have a career and vehicle (like myself - working since 12, own two cars at 24). My father is constantly ashamed and amused about the current dating scene. He always talks about how boys of his generation would focus on purchasing or repairing a car before they could legally drive. Picking up odd jobs or trades as young teenagers. Even though I lived in a rural community with no public transport and an abundance of trades/h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:03 AM
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This man has the same mentality as my ex. Whenever I felt remotely confident, he would make a comment about my weight being excessive despite being 96lbs. He would often state 'you don't realise how lucky you are to have me.' My confidence couldn't go any lower and he must've loved that. He was heavily against me taking selfies or having a social media presence. I have absolutely zero photos of myself between 16-20 years old. I believed him. For years. Now I've discovered I'm actually considered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:45 PM
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I used to think my childhood neighbor lived a perfect life. As a teenager I went to her for relationship advice as she'd been married 50 yrs. She sat me down and revealed that she'd been in a loveless marriage but divorce was not an option. Her husband could have mistresses but she had to be faithful. She insisted I enjoyed my youth and don't bow to societal pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:32 PM
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I'm a woman with a car, job and apartment. I'm constantly labelled as a gold digger for holding men to the same exact expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:29 AM
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You'll see some senior men wearing suits to work but young men wear any form of black trousers and a white shirt. Sometimes dressy shoes but it wouldn't be uncommon to see trainers/sneakers in offices. Women get excited when a man buys a cologne beyond cheap lynx/axe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:13 PM
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I've never met a single British man that wears a suit beyond funerals and weddings. Sadly an American movie fantasy. I don't understand why these dudes think smoking weed is a personality. Many tinder bios have '420 friendly.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:34 PM
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IDK if you guys have this here too but here there is a big culture of "stoner guys" who literally just sit around getting high every waking moment, playing video games, watching movies and just neglecting their life. These types accounted for the vast majority of the male peers at the British university I attended. If it wasn't an obsession with weed it was binge drinking and gambling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:04 PM
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I studied an engineering degree in the UK. Men vastly outnumbered the women but it simply resulted in being completely surrounded by LVM. I graduated four years ago and men from my old lecture class are still messaging me expressing their unwavering love. You didn't have the balls approach me then in person? Not interested now with your desperate social media message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:57 AM
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I noticed this when I lived in the UK. Local men translating feminism into women simultaneously taking on the feminine and masculine role. Still the ones solely expected to put in the effort to be attractive but now we're also expected to do the chasing, initiating, texting/calling first, and supporting them (financially and emotionally). I took to dating foreign men - Italian, Turkish, Cypriot. I was constantly and openly mocked for this despite being multiple nationality myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:37 PM
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I've just had an almost identical experience. You did the right thing and don't go back. I thought I'd met a HVM two months before lockdown. He was handsome, intelligent, attentive and very giving (never let me pay, cooked me gourmet meals). Then the communication became one sided. People have more free time than ever for texting/calling. I'm not chasing a man. He's either interested and shows it or he can fuck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:16 PM
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I love flowers. Bought some for my window then proceeded to walk home with my ex (then bf). Teenage girls: omg, I wish my bf bought me flowers! Me: So I do.... He had an absolute meltdown for the unacceptable humiliation I'd put him through publicly. Still never bought me flowers until I broke up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:05 PM
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I have dated men between 5'6 - 6'3. The short men would bring up their height at every opportunity in cries of insecurity. They would also belittle my height constantly - calling me midget, dwarf, or insist long legs are the sexiest (I'm 5'2 - no long legs here). They would flat out struggle to pick me up despite me being barely over 100lbs... While dating extremely tall men has it's physical downfalls, they don't insult my height or have crippling insecurity. They're also the main ones that act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:51 PM
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I have experienced the same comments about being small or flat chested when I was 28B in my teenage years and as a 28FF now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:08 AM
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I'm from an incredibly rural area. Public transport doesn't exist and all local jobs specify personal transport/licenses alongside basic qualifications. Men on dating sites get excited thinking I'll be their personal taxi. All my colleagues at work think I'm a raging asshole for expecting the men I date to drive. I don't want to pick them up like I'm their mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:17 AM
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Not in education, employment or training. He expected me to work full time while simultaneously completing my engineering degree to support him gaming 18 hours daily. I wasn't ready for children so why was I accepting a manchild?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:24 AM
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Tell me about it. I was pressured into my first relationship. He wasn't my type and there was no physical attraction on my part. Dated him for six years and saw doctors for my issue with sexual arousal. I lost all my friends when I ended things when he became a NEET. I'm now a vain, shallow creature for only wanting to date men I find physically attractive. Men who only date me because they find me attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:30 AM
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This is so amazing to read. I've spent my entire life looking down upon femininity. Denying my own preferences and pretending to be someone else because being feminine is dumb, vain, boring. I used to pretend to hate makeup, any color other than black, fashion/designer clothes, pretty heels, styled nails. Now this is something I embrace and I love it. I've literally just saved up to buy designer heels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:00 AM
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I've never been with a man that earns anywhere near my salary. That's not bragging. My salary is actually below the national average in my country. I'm constantly labelled as a gold digger for wanting the men I date to be employed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:13 PM
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Repetitive profile bio reading: 'I'm 6'3 because that's apparently important.' My profile states my interest in men with long hair and groomed beards. Constant super-likes from baby-faced bald men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:06 PM
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In my sickness and in your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:08 AM
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Receiving belittling comments when achieving something he faltered or failed at. I was either cheating, seducing superiors or incredibly lucky. Being repeatedly informed that my ambition was unappealing. Men don't like engineers or educated women so why am I bothering? Having any pride in my appearance or outfits. This meant I was either vain or seeking attention from other men, like catcallers. Insisting I was spoilt when I revealed I had savings from working two jobs simultaneously. No, I just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:46 AM
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Mine would have meltdowns at the prospect of washing his clothes. His pants would smell of literal shit with and without the common skid marks. Getting him to shower or brush his teeth was another common daily issue. I remember asking a man I was seeing what the most disgusting thing he has experienced with a woman. A single nipple hair was his answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:44 AM
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In reality I've spent the entirety of my teenage and young adult life repeatedly hearing: 'Come on. Give him a chance. Don't be shallow!' A statement made without fail when random men express their interest in me who know absolutely nothing about me beyond my physical appearance. No-one ever says this to men. I can't utter a single preference in men without an outcry of despair. Want an employed partner? Gold digger. Educated? Hypergamy. Physically in shape? Shallow. Even though I meet them myse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:16 PM
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My high school best friend's parents instigated her marriage to someone a decade older than her shortly after she turned 18. Married within two months of meeting with no friends invited to the wedding. My ambitious friend excited for university is now a mother of 5 children. Married six years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:01 PM
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It's an incredibly common belief. People repeatedly tell me to enjoy my 20s because the interest from men will diminish. That my male peers will date younger and younger because women like bald men with beer guts. My mother and I travel abroad several times a year together. She's in her mid 60s and always turns heads, recieves date propositions and chat ups. The negative is the fact she's bored from having 50 years of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:35 AM
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