MissPolymath Archive

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-2	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. I dated my boyfriend who is short because he got muscular and stocky. And I only wanted to date tall guys before, so I don't think so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 06:03 AM
1	Red pill teachings have made it impossible for me to trust my girlfriend. Seeking advice As a female who is a committed Christian, studied red pill teaching for years, and was a trained under a female relationship coach who helps women build healthy relationships with masculine men, here are my two cents: I have found many truths within Red Pill, but as with any other ideology, it contains truth but doesn't have a monopoly on it. There are plenty examples from other viewpoints that can contradict Guys friends. I would argue in general FOR BOTH GENDERS that having lots of friends of …	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 07:01 AM
4	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? You summed up my life philosophy perfectly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 04:28 AM
1	I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a life Thinking you can't change implies you have found evidence you can't. And there objectively is none. We often think in those ways because we blindly trust whatever our emotions tell us is real. Your emotions are real, but the perceptions and thinking that cause them is not. Want to truly change? Distrust this thinking your mind is absorbed in and realize it's not reality: it's your false, limited perception of it. I've gone through depression throughout my life many times. Last year I was on top …	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/22 03:40 PM
2	I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a life Well as a Christian woman the female community I am involved in looks down on dudes who have slept around. We're out there. If all you are running into is women who say this, you need to expand your pool of interaction and visit other places. These women also require you to be religious, so. There's trade offs.	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/22 03:21 PM
0	I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a life Start reading the book Atomic Habits by James Clear. He goes into the science of motivation, willpower, and building habits. Stop seeing your issues as insurmountable obstacles. Tackle them one by one and learn to see your issues as obstacles to overcome rather than problems your are held by and have no power over. Changing my mindset in that way changed my life. Also do it for yourself and not for women. I would want to be attractive for the other gender, but I want to be happy more. And happin…	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/22 03:13 PM
7	Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story? Great clarity you made here.	/r/seduction	02/06/22 08:31 PM
2	Ten years a RPW, hit the wall with no loving marriage in sight. Trying to figure out why? I think maybe you are coming off as a more masculine woman you realize. And your relationship behaviors from what I read from your comments are making things more difficult for you then you realize. I'm hearing you have done all of this but it's difficult to gauge that given you are claiming you are doing it and it's all vague. Personally, I would look into Katarina Phang's work. She helps women like you who don't seem to land relationships. Look her up. I think your situation fits the criteria …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/22 05:27 PM
2	How to Prepare for Marriage & Children Lol, my post was formatted way better before I posted it. Thanks, Reddit. 🙄 Glad you found it insightful! 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/22 05:25 AM
1	How to Prepare for Marriage & Children Please see my comment above in response to the recommendation of these books.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/22 04:00 AM
7	How to Prepare for Marriage & Children I mean this with all sincerity and concern on yours and others, who read your comment's behalf, but there is a lot of controversy surrounding those books that they have damaged marriages and families with their teachings and advice. The authors themselves are guilty of plagiarism and innapropriate behavior for people trying to check them for accountability. Please check out Sheila Gregoire's blog on the subject. She provides more detail. 🙏	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/22 03:59 AM
10	How to Prepare for Marriage & Children I am in a similar position as you. Christian. Abstinence. Prepping for marriage. Etc. I'm probably prioritizing things slightly differently from you, though we are doing some similar things. Nothing wrong with yours; just sharing what I'm doing. Learning how to workout and stay fit. Learning to track my calories and macros and keep weight off. Cooking healthy meals in general. Spiritual disciplines like prayer and Bible reading; developing my moral character. Mastering time management skills Sta…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/22 03:56 AM
3	Burnt out I'm in a similar boat and find it difficult to feel feminine the way I'd like to be. But I have decided I am making a trade off, whether I like it or not. Either I trade the things I feel obligated to do to prioritize myself and my femininity or I enjoy and do the obligations and accept not being as feminine. There is no shame in not being feminine in either. Just realize it's a trade off and life always comes with those kinds of hard choices. Personally, I am content limiting how feminine I am …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/22 06:59 AM
1	Shower thoughts: being water %100	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/22 05:58 PM
1	Advice Needed Looks to me like he is freaking out over the prospect of commitment with you and is coming up with excuses. He's really into you, but he isn't ready just yet. Also if he's really MGTOW, why is he breaking every rule in the book? He wants to marry a post-divorced woman, take on another guy's kids, says women in dating culture are atrocious, and says YOU have red flags but is still dating you? Don't get me wrong, if he's the real deal and wants you then great for you! It's just these words and act…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/22 03:31 PM
4	You should pay for what you order when going on a first date Savage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 05:12 AM
1	The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spot So women should just lie to themselves and pretend their guy is the hottest dude on the planet? It's one thing to describe a dude, it's another to insult. Women saying things like that doesn't necessarily mean they are being insulting, it shows more to me they are trying to make the most of their situation so there is a semblance of happiness for the both of them in their relationship (because you can't force a guy you are with to be attractive; relationships are about acceptance and she is tryi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 06:31 PM
1	Is Love even fckin real? I think you are committing a fallacy thinking that just because something is transactional it can't be true love at the same time. Or that I am not being loved for who I am. Also screwed up ideas about love being merely esoteric and not expressed in tangible things like looks, money, or behavior. Think about it. What is love? Love is finding some value trait within or tied to and representing another person and being inspired by that trait to honor and give to it. Women needing resources and men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 06:33 AM
7	I don't know how to differentiate communicating my needs and recognizing neglect Too much "communication" imo.... Sometimes it's ok not to express your feelings and just accept our partner for what they give you, the good and the bad without getting worked up over every little thing. It's not sustainable otherwise; learn to self-soothe and look past hurtful or annoying things and trust he isn't trying to maliciously hurt you. Save communciation for the things that are really essential. I'm sorry, but having hurt feelings and expressing them isn't necessarily essential. Pick …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 08:20 PM
2	Being smarter and showing reverence at the same time Sometimes, but overall as long as you are aware of what you say and don't actively rub it in their faces and highlights he aspects they are good in, it shouldn't be a problem. Some guys don't like you are smarter and some are secure and don't mind. There's a good mix. But it hasn't really caused problems for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 07:21 PM
7	How to act more feminine? I am also textbook INTJ (well, actually a Jumper), 22, very tom-boyish, struggled with femininity my whole life. However for me there are many forms of femininity and I don't particularly like certain expressions of it (some due to internalized shame over it and some because of preference), but no one says you have to fully embody everything. Only train yourself to embody what you like and what works bare minimum to be a quality woman and form functional relationships with men. Me? I'm sorry, bu…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/22 04:08 PM
6	Define “Femininity”, “Feminine Energy” and what that looks like in detail. Feminine "energy" includes senses like of being, living in the now and experiencing the 5 senses, recieving, nurturing, life, submissiveness/agreeableness, gratefulness, intuition (not to be confused with subjugation), creativity, connection, responsiveness, softness, vulnerability and emotion. Masculine "energy" includes senses like of doing and action, firmness, leadership, initiative, accomplishment, pursuit of goals, logic, strength and immovability, directness, black and white, control, com…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/21 07:45 PM
2	Not sure what to do Read Katarina Phang's blog and get her e-book. These issues you are experiencing are textbook classic in women's experiences with men; I went through the same thing and her advice really helped me. I will note her advice is slightly different from RPW's but a lot of it is similar and red pill as well. Have some discernment, but it works.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/21 02:10 PM