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4

I hear what you're saying and I have this issue myself. I'm trying not to though because it's problematic to be labelling people. Some of us aren't straight or gay 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:55 AM
84

They aren't getting hit on, the women just feel a sense of security because "oop this one's taken so I can be nice" 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:56 PM
3

Are we supposed to remove the user name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:27 PM
26

Jesus the absolute insecurity of them! Unhappy people can't stand others to be happy. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:35 AM
11

I never buy them, only ever the free ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:30 AM
27

Basically, they all watch porn. I've only had one bf who stopped and that's because we were in a loving supportive relationship. He started watching again one we were no longer together. It's inevitable 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:26 AM
11

Too many men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:03 AM
2

Go off sis! I'm with you. We're blessed to be in a position to do this. The world is not America 🤣 I'm from NZ btw. Are you in the UK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:37 PM
2

I do not disagree with you. Also, I have ADHD, so my judgement may not be so exemplary even at the best of times. I can't tell if you're upset with my comment or... woosh sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:17 AM
1

I misread what you said. Thought you cut her off and said "you're not a mechanic". My bad. I retract what I commented ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:31 AM
2

unless she's naive? No hun, it's still not her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:25 PM
6

how could anyone in their right mind find him good looking. Bleugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:21 PM
1

Hmmm... I've prevented many fisticuffs by distracting one of the men (getting between them and talking with one of them directly about a different topic entirely whilst ignoring the other completely). I don't recommended it, I tend to be impulsive and I guess I'm blessed to live in a pretty safe country so nothing has ever happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:16 PM
-9

It's a troll. This story is completely fabricated. E: Why downvote? I'm not making it up. The account has various posts that contradict this. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:56 AM
15

I'm uncertain why he is classified as "brown"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:33 PM
23

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:19 PM
7

I only laugh at my boyfriend's funny jokes. Never laugh at his lame jokes unless I'm laughing at him, not his "joke". #aint_got_time E: that said I always kinda laugh/ groan at my dad's bad jokes. What can I say, I like puns & dad jokes 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:17 PM
8

Its true though. And it's fucking exhausting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:51 PM
-14

What do we think about erotic massage videos by women? E: thanks for all the feedback ladies 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:36 AM
28

Ewww! I have never slept with a man who didn't clean up afterward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:57 AM
1

There's no pre-nup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:09 AM
9

It's true. There are DM screenshots of him talking about walking his daughter around to try to get her to sleep. At the same time organising to meet houseofeffie to "rape" her in the park.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:05 AM
3

If this is real (and let's face it, where there's smoke there's fire) I deplore this! That said, "Hollywood rumours/ gossip" have never been reliable. I'm in no way an apologist, I just believe in verifying facts. I'm currently in the process of confronting my own abuser so trust me, I'm in no way victim shaming or trying to justify any wrong doing. E: Okay, I have just read more dms and absolutely condemn this animal. I'm appalled. Yet another chink in my faith in humanity. Revolting. Kink or n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:31 AM
1

Apparently he continued dating her for several months after - as in he enjoyed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:21 AM
1

u/Street-Holiday 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:20 AM
1

u/Street-Holiday 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:19 AM
20

don't argue with them. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:12 PM
6

Brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:11 PM
14

I gifted myself silk lingerie on his birthday one year 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:08 PM
18

This was terrifying to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:26 AM
41

I'm so happy to see "norms" like this are changing. A lot of my male friends are far more involved in their kids lives compared to our dads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:14 AM
67

I received a "send nudes" meme from a guy I've never been intimate with. Called him out & got the "I'm just joking!" bs reply. Couldn't remember the name of this meme at the time dammit! Blocked and deleted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:42 PM
25

Yep. Got several on the 25th but one in particular stood out because he ghosted. 🤣 now he's all alone in a foreign country with no family #loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:33 AM
8

Ah! That's what I was wondering. Gracias amiga
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:11 AM
30

What's wrong with Danny Devito? (I don't follow celebrities closely)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:41 PM
34

My ex to a T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:38 PM
5

It's so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:34 PM
9

Same. Verbatim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:39 AM
6

Thought they'd already done this. I remember reading something earlier this year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:26 AM
45

A random woman you met in the middle of the rainforest! I feel like that was a forest sprite that mother earth sent to your aid 😊💚🌎☄💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:23 AM
29

My friend does this. He's a true feminist. He says it requires such minimal effort to support his friends so why not. Proud of him 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:18 AM
1

Ok. Defo not from China 🤣 cheers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:58 AM
1

Is that Chandon from Australia or China? If it's from China I'm super interested to know what it tastes like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:46 AM
1

Ahh that makes sense 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:48 AM
1

Lol! Let me guess, y'all are in the US?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:24 AM
21

Same. Lol. After school a gf had to explain to someone why she was hanging out with me "but isn't she like really dumb?" My mate was like "lol no. You just weren't worth her time so that's the persona you were served" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:20 AM
12

Too much energy required to waste on these smooth brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:18 AM
5

I just had a mate over who started this shit with me. I finally had enough and just told him to leave. Promptly blocked him on all socials. We weren't particularly close so no big deal but I'm so over giving these smooth brains a pass. Adiõs bitch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:17 AM
6

Who's cutting onions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 12:08 AM
4

Ah gotchya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:28 AM
2

Like what? The gross stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:28 AM
18

Interesting isn't it. Basically there are trash people everywhere 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:07 PM
2

Det er fantastisk! Jeg elsker Dansk og DK. 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:27 PM
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Ewww! All the guys I know will be gyming, meal prepping, sport team practice, meeting with friends, studying, gaming, working on their own side business, travelling for work etc... I'm sure they do some nasty stuff but these horror stories of despicable men that I see on here seem to be from men in the US. Its awful and I can't comprehend it. I'm sure there are men this awful in my country but I can't help but suspect that there is a huge cultural influence. The most disrespect I've had in the d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:18 PM
5

Ooof! If anyone touched my bonsai (14 years) I would flip the fuck out! I'm impressed with your restraint. God! The utter disrespect! Sorry sis xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:27 PM
4

Jesus 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:02 AM
4

Are enchiladas particularly easy to make? It's not a common food in my country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:12 AM
8

What is up with your overly dramatic men!? 🤣🤣🤣 I've had to deal with so many actual tantrums from Brasilian men. It's kinda funny to be honest. But holy heck, I've never experienced anything like it 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:17 PM
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Exactly! Marriage benefits men more than women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:56 PM
1

r/adhdwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:17 PM
15

Also there is an ADHD women's Reddit 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:37 PM
1

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:44 PM
2

So gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:37 PM
38

"guttering" 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:12 AM
18

Exactly! Breasts are secondary sex identifiers NOT GENITALIA!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:26 AM
2

Following
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:54 AM
16

Oh gawd! The mummyji 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:07 AM
1

u/vredditdownloader
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:43 AM
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I have a fake name on my tinder but my name is seriously unique and in such a small country I am very easy to Google. I disclose my true name once it's been confirmed we will meet. This is purely a safety precaution - as a woman. There is no need to lie about ones name. Bye boi!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:00 AM
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I once purposely matched with a guy who had pics of a preteen girl and him sitting on a bed. In his bio he had said "That's my girlfriend's daughter" so asked him why he thought it appropriate to have pics of A) a child, B) a child that was not his, C) did he have permission to use the pic & D) if he has a girlfriend why is he on tinder!? Fucking gross! He unmatched straight away and damn if I wasn't so angry I wish I could have reached through the screen and throttled him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:50 AM
1

Went on the date. Opened doors and pulled out chairs for me the whole evening. Pleasant conversation. Delicious food at a good restaurant. I made a point not to kiss him. That can wait for the 3rd or 4th date. Anyway, he's been messaging me since so all good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:20 PM
2

It's a great read too. I found it in Dubai international airport on my way back home after a boyfriend flew me over for his birthday (total pickme, I'm ashamed to say) and that book actually helped me to realise that it was okay to be my own woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:14 PM
3

Amen sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:12 PM
3

I adored her character and plotline for exactly this reason. Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:05 PM
4

Eww! I've never done this! I loooove my sleep! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:59 AM
2

I feel like I'm reading about myself 😂 I seriously doubt anyone here is going to tell you that you're too picky. Keep your standards high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:54 AM
2

Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:24 AM
5

Yeah, cos I want a man with bigger boobs and hips than me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:17 AM
4

What is Amino?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:07 AM
2

He messaged me today for a second date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:56 AM
10

Had a partner that could. Yoga is the trick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:07 AM
23

Ummm... personal stimulation (read masturbation) is totally natural. You better bet if I could lick myself I would. This is not depraved. Anal is depraved. Rape fantasies are depraved. Pushing your partner to engage in group sex is depraved. Bdsm is depraved. I won't go on... but masturbation is not depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:00 AM
3

☝️ Don't date a coworker period! Don't date someone that much older period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:50 AM
4

I respond exactly in kind. Leave it for a week (if I'm being active, mostly I forget they are even there tbh) and if nothing further is received delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:40 AM
7

Omg! Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:18 AM
61

This is part of my vetting process. Not to allow him to visit my home while I'm in my pyjamas but to do an outdoor day activity (like a stroll around a park feeding the ducks) that requires me to have my hair tied back, sneakers on, oversize t-shirt, wind breaker jacket, wearing only tinted moisturiser or bronzer & mascara (sometimes no makeup at all, depends on how much sleep I've had or if they sun is out in force) If he's turned of by my average every day self he can jog on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:13 AM
2

Gracias amiga! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:47 AM
25

Yep! I almost messaged a guy today. Half way through typing a sentence I remembered, deleted it and archived the conversation. Out of sight out of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:39 AM
5

I've got a man coming to move my new dining table in tomorrow morning. I asked if he'll stick around for breakfast. Breakfast is at a cafe and he's paying for it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:21 AM
3

I feel like they are angry nasty people because of their perception of the world and subsequently treat others the way they perceive they have been treated. We all know that tearing others down comes from a place of insecurity. Good looking people are generally treated nicer and get more opportunities in life (fact). So why would good looking people be bent out of shape and mean if they rarely experience it themselves? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:43 AM
3

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:33 AM
5

I went to couples counselling with my ex. In the first session the therapist straight up told him his concept of love was not love and he didn't love me. It tore me up inside to have my suspicions confirmed and our relationship subsequently dissolved shortly after. We remain friends to this day and he's undergoing intensive personal therapy to unlearn the behaviours instilled by his parents. (I will never get back with him) I'm glad I've had the experience and now I know never to accept that eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:21 AM
2

We need to focus on their physical and mental health and how to avoid toxic behaviours. Not to teach them how to date. This includes sexual health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:07 AM
4

A handbook aimed at pre-teens could be rife with risk. A handbook aimed at teens would need consultation and input from teens. This needs to be approached with much sensitivity and caution to ensure we are not seen as encouraging inappropriate behaviours in this demographic. While I'm sure we've all considered the responsibility involved in an undertaking of this magnitude, having a record of that consideration is important. This comment is made with the intention of protecting all parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:05 AM
2

Why did they all run away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:53 AM
3

🖕 Your 3rd most recent emoji is your reaction. How fitting 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:10 AM
1

What an egg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:26 AM
8

This is why I wish to live in villa in San Sebastian (known locally as Donostia) in Spain with my bff & his husband and our hot younger "cabana boys". Not to mention the Michelin star restaurants 😍 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:59 AM
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Do you live in an equal society? Have you read the handbook? Have you seen the countless posts about this topic? Dick is abundant and low value. You are the prize, make them work for it. Sorry you got down-voted without an answer, hope that hasn't turned you off this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:04 PM
7

I've been told by so many of my Chinese friends & business contacts to get myself a Chinese husband "they look after you much better than a western husband and you hold all the money"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:23 PM
72

Very true. Do not feel ashamed to come to FDS for advice. We are all at different stages of our journey. At least you're taking a step in the right direction 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:11 PM
4

Actually same... every single one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:32 AM
3

What comes to mind? Drama, emotionally illiterate and immature. To the left!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:30 AM
6

Feel the fear and do it anyway
/r/seduction31/08/20 11:44 PM
25

After coming off BC my skin became really oily and pimply and my periods came every 10 days. Suffice it to say I'm back on BC 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:27 AM
42

I don't like it. Each to their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:30 AM
18

I absolutely adore this post! It says everything and more that I struggle to articulate myself. Muchas gracias amiga!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:21 AM
25

Jealousy. Think about a time when you've not been your best self and you've spoken down about someone's car, or bag or outfit or whatever - pure jealousy. Whether it be of the item or of the confidence of that person. This behaviour is the behaviour of the insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:28 AM
14

Effing fantastic to hear of black women going for gold in their chosen fields! ⚘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:00 AM
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Same. Blocking and deleting right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:49 PM
1

Thanks love. I'm looking for someone to live in my spare room. Covid had severely restricted the options so I threw away my dignity out of sheer desperation to spread the word 🙈 I'm not proud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:55 PM
1

Precisely! Maybe she was referring to my decision not to entertain this path 🤷‍♂️ at least I hope so 🤣 I've just started my journey 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:35 PM
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Thank you 😊 I sent this emoji 😑 told him it was going on Reddit then blocked and deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:33 AM
18

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:57 AM
9

Yasssssssssssss!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:40 AM
15

I'm going to the supermarket to stock up on cucumbers! E: The cucumbers were almost $5 each! So I got carrots instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:22 AM
20

It's definitely phallic 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:10 AM
37

In my country it would be considered as such. I would milk him for all I could get. He's just like the wealthy of today, paying less taxes than the bottom percent. Awful everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:52 AM
6

If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. 🤦‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:10 PM
6

Cheers 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:24 AM
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Is it true he has Native American heritage and Asian heritage? I dated a New Zealand Maori/ Native American guy ages ago and he was so beautiful but I looked waaay older than him 🙈 I really hate that I'm just a plain old boring white person. We age so badly! 🤣🤣🤣 (Not attacking anyone, its a statistical thing.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:33 PM
12

Calling the parents to take their little boys home 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:48 AM
20

They do it so they have less dates to remember 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:25 AM
11

Hated this show from the beginning. Everyone excuses the lines of Barney because "the actor is gay so it's funny" NO BISH! IT'S MISOGYNISTIC GARBAGE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:33 PM
5

Iconic! Did you block or is there a response from him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:41 PM
8

Mate! I get this from guys I haven't even met yet! 😂 so not a big deal 😂😂😂 reach higher sis ⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:09 AM
23

Yep. I've heard "a hole's a goal" many times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:43 PM
14

Mate! It's messed up. I had stretch marks from when I first started puberty before my teens. 5'9" 65kgs. Like it's so natural that it's incomprehensible to judge someone on it. Eff em!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:40 PM
1

Every time I try to do for the code I get an error message saying something went wrong 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:02 AM
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What part makes you say he's selfish and a terrible partner? I'm just going by the OP haven't read all the responses. E: seriously? I'm genuinely asking? What have I missed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:05 AM
4

Dead eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:51 PM
14

Gawd! The amount of times my mum told my dad (when he did stuff around the house) how open and connected to him it made her feel. And then the amount of times he just sat on the couch "oh, what? What's going on? Why are you mad? You just had to ask me!" Smdh! E: tbf he's not like that anymore but it sure took a long time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:53 AM
7

Does the pope wear a funny hat? Does a bear shit in the woods? Is the sky cerulean? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:49 AM
1

Not harsh at all. He's lucky he got text back. Your friends need to reevaluate the meaning of the word "harsh" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 03:41 AM
3

Yep remember this one. Rolling my eyes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:17 AM
12

These people are sociopathic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:39 AM
3

The OP link is dead so try this one https://www.reddit.com/r/redbar/comments/hagxzk/mike_would_love_to_talk_about_these_self_help/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:09 AM
1

Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:01 AM
7

Can someone please explain why we can't cross-post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:19 AM
6

Ha! Fuck those guys! Queen is rubbing their face in it! Woo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:33 AM
3

Misery loves company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:30 PM
4

You know what, you've prompted me to discuss this with my ex. Would you be interested in the feedback?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:14 AM
21

I'm still very good friends with my ex (he lives in another country now) & I'm sad for the future when he will be with someone but I respect whoever the future lady is and will remove myself from the narrative. After all when I'm with a new man I would not expect him to accept my close relationship with my ex, it's just not respectful to the new relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:16 AM
12

If I'm not feeling confident I just go to the rest room. It's taken care of by the time I return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:24 AM
4

New Zealand!?😲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:09 AM
2

Yes please!? I've stopped reading a lot of the posts just in case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:48 AM
4

Not excusing him. Just please keep in mind that people with autism or ADHD often abhor touch ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:31 AM
2

Whoop is Skylar? Also white
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:46 AM
10

🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:42 AM
57

Cats are girls, dogs are boys. Haha! Did anyone else have this irrational notion as a kid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:43 AM
18

Honestly men fetishise everything. I'm very pale white with red hair - guess what I get all the time? Spent some time in the Middle East - guess what the locals thought? Men are despicable, I think I'm coming to terms with remaining single, seems to be the only option 🤷 Can't tell you what to do, but it would be wise to maintain some distance until you're able to determine if anyone you're dating is actually a decent human being. Good luck sister xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:35 AM
10

Don't you have a toilet seat to put back down? Does that work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:16 AM
2

Do you need money to get a new place? I don't know what it's like in your country but maybe we can all put in $10 or whatever. God I'm so sorry this has happened to you and thank you for taking the time to relay this traumatic experience so that we can learn from it. Kia kaha sister ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:17 PM
4

I thought the same thing when it happened to me last time, now I regret not reporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:14 PM
12

IKR! Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:49 AM
2

Holy shit! #gobsmacked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:35 AM
8

I hope she gets adopted by a loving caring family who will give her a much better life than this lvm could ever do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:03 AM
2

Lololololololol! I just woke up and I'm usually a zombie in the morning but damn if you didn't just make me burst out laughing 🤣 thanks sis ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:31 PM
13

Bahahahahaha! Love your attitude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:56 PM
1

I'm hoping to see some further research into this now that scientists have discovered that a chemical in women's tears is actually a turn off to men's brains. I'm not in the scientific community so I've no way of prodding them in that direction but I live in hope ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:27 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:21 PM
2

Hey, I read your response to PatternedCollar's comment and believe we are on the same track. The primal part I mentioned is meant to relate to the primal part of their brain (the Amygdala) the part that doesn't utilise reasoning, deduction and higher thinking it just instructs them to act. Contemporary men have been so devoid of emotional growth and are therefore so emotionally stunted that the only thing their primal brain can think to do is comfort the distressed person in the only way they un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:19 PM
13

I theorise that they are so emotionally stunted that they try to do the only thing they think would make them feel better - sex. It's tone deaf and primal and does not excuse their lack of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:37 PM
13

One of my exes had this reaction too. We never had rough sex, he never beat me, he never watched porn in front of me so I'm unsure of his preferences there. He is a very logical, calm & rational person (Scandinavian/ Engineer). He couldn't explain why it happened and felt ashamed that it did. We are still very good friends to this day (our relationship ended 6 years ago). That said, here is an article about how women's tears actually reduce arousal in men - so these men who become aroused have s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:32 PM
48

Bahahahahaha!!! Welcome to reality scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:43 PM
11

Off with his head! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:38 PM
10

Your English is actually excellent, especially given you were portraying something so traumatic. I'm so sorry for you. Please pm me if you need any assistance. I may not be wealthy but I'm aware of the fallout, my mother has been through the same thing. So I'll do anything I can to help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:42 AM
4

Lol! What a loser! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:56 AM
2

That's so great! Wish my parents had done this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:02 AM
5

I don't get why you swiped on him in the first instance? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:25 AM
8

Same tbh. Up till recently. Being raised Christian I've been taught to look past people's exterior and not to protect myself. Have made some terrible choices in men and friends in the past because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:19 AM
6

Lol! Why did he even expend energy on something he would profess to not even care about? Dummy! 🤣 It's like swallowing poison and expecting one's enemy to die - Buddha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:30 AM
3

FFS! How can people be this emotionally immature!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:53 PM
48

Basically, if you "can't afford" dates you shouldn't be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:21 AM
6

I'm sorry love. I truly am. You should know that acting as they do is only going to hurt yourself more in the long run. What is it that Buddha said? Something like "Hating and being angry with someone whilst not forgiving them is like swallowing poison and expecting your enemy to die" you don't have to forget the misdeeds done to you in the past but for your own wellbeing and growth you do need to forgive them. Acting like this only pulls you down to their level. But the good thing is you're now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:14 PM
10

Damn! That's scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:18 AM
9

My first kiss was 19, lost my V plates at 22. Was awkward to feel like the only one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:13 AM
10

Yay Jacinda! 😍🇳🇿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:01 AM
23

My dad - 69 - still does this. We give him so much shit for it. He always goes back and makes us one of whatever but the fact we have to even say anything says a lot about how selfish he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:31 PM
22

I've no idea. Just saw something on ig that's why I said "apparently" because I'm not 100% on it. But either way it's funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:21 AM
109

Lol! Apparently she's now with a woman 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:29 AM
2

Gold teeth! 😲 I honestly thought that was a pirate thing 🙈🤣✌️ E: thanks for answering 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:52 AM
0

Someone said it! 👍 I knew there was something I didn't like but couldn't articulate it. Thank you sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:28 PM
7

He's butthurt that he can't share the nudes he's been sent without being prosecuted. What a dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:00 AM
3

Of course they did. Damn! Should have screen shot that!!! E: just checked they are still there, have screen shots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:10 AM
1

Yep 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:03 AM
1

Read my comment ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:01 AM
34

Hmmm... I took a look at his history... In one comment from 2 months ago he says he has never had sex and is bad with "girls". Another post from 2 months ago saying his parents walked in on him having sex while watching Peppa Pig. Now this post is saying he has a wife and son... Fishy E: well it was too much and I had to call him out on his post 🤣 felt cute might delete later 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:44 AM
14

I'm more interested in how to get that font on my phone!? 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:32 AM
2

Ewww! What's wrong with his teeth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:31 AM
2

Wow! What a loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:07 AM
16

Lololololololol! What a clueless twat! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:52 AM
6

Lololololololol! So tragic 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:30 AM
2

Also it's possible this was a shitpost as the account is only a few days old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:33 PM
2

Thanks. I still don't understand some of the rules on Reddit. Appreciate the guidance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:52 PM
2

K. Cheers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:23 AM
4

We need a link so we can go downvote this comment. I do not wanna see this get any traction Edit: what she said below ⬇️ 😊✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:04 AM
1

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:16 AM
10

Sometimes I can't even read the FDS posts because I become so angry at these men that I have to go meditate or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:28 AM
15

Oh this poor woman 😢 I'm genuinely sad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:10 AM
2

I'm dating a 29 year old. I'm 36. He's HOT! And he's a total gent. My fiance is my age, tall, slim, good looking, plays rugby (which is compatible with my country's culture), is in the navy reserves, works full time, well travelled, multi-lingual, well educated, enamoured of me and emotionally mature. Yes I'm dating in the interim because he lives in another country. We've agreed that until he immigrates we are both footloose and fancy free, but tbh he doesn't date anyone because he's too busy. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:01 PM
14

Exactly. It says a LOT about him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:12 AM
6

Here here! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 12:14 AM
23

Lol! I must be a man. I lied about my age because I want to hook up with attractive men and the men my age are so wrinkly and gross. 🤣 F that ish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:24 PM
9

Tbh I believe she is. But that's just me. I'm likely from a completely different culture to OP and I was raised quite openly about this kind of thing (think on par with Scandinavian attitudes towards bodies etc). But I say it's a grey area because her account doesn't really give a heck of a lot of info and there could be other subtilities unaccounted for 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:26 AM
4

Ummm... This is a bit of a grey area. I've two friends (both gay) who have a similar situation and there is no way they are trying to show anything off. It would be super weird of me to focus on it and/ or say anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:17 AM
18

Scum! I don't even date the manager of a restaurant I frequent yet I regularly receive free coffee, breakfast, wine etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:07 AM
14

Ummm... In the current global situation she probably genuinely cannot leave. That really sucks for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:47 AM
11

Lol! Mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:56 AM
18

Even my FWB is attentive, generous, punctual, engaged in communication and affectionate. Aside from actual mental illness or spectrum disorders, there is NO excuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:07 AM
10

Yep. I put a stop to all of that and they readily agreed. If they were to get pissy about it the be gone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:23 PM
8

Damn! He gonna be so embarrassed when his mates see this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:17 PM
47

That's exactly what I do. I don't even give them the option to treat me like this. They are expected to be a gent and if they then push back, I'm like "I thought this was a date, be a man" that always brings them into line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:56 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:45 AM
9

ESTJ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:47 AM
35

This probably needs a trigger warning 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:04 AM
15

That's interesting. I also have PCOS and have never felt this. But testosterone is an incredible drug. I'll have to Google it 🤔 but also I seriously doubt it could induce such a level of disillusionment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:00 AM
5

Actually he's not just fat, he's obese. That's a genuine observation not trying to be mean for the sake of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:55 AM
2

To look at this seriously my impression of his physical representation is as follows; bald; fat; old; bad skin; un-maintained body hair; takes a selfie naked and in the bathroom (not a particularly classy look). Then to actually believe that he could get laid that many times in 12 months from women he's not paying - delusional. He must be making some serious coin to get laid by younger women. How degrading for him to only get affection because of his wallet - poor love 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:54 AM
28

Even if I could trust my man for this is still select my sister, she's a nurse or my mum, she's my mum 🥰 (basically, nothing compares to the love of a woman)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:49 PM
8

I mean it is just logical. The closer the ejaculation is to the egg the better chance it has of fertilisation. Basic stuff 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:40 AM
2

Lol! This happened to me recently because I mentioned going to a LGBT+ bar 🤣 very special
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:32 AM
22

r/niceguys r/inceltears 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:27 AM
18

Saved 🤙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:23 PM
3

I'm with you 100% on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:37 AM
1

Which culture, German or French?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:10 AM
5

Yeah, Germans for sure. Best sex I've ever had has been with French men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:11 AM
8

This! ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:01 AM
12

Joined!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:27 AM
15

Yeah, like seeing a man be "manly" is a turn on ffs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:12 AM
7

Flipping heck! I don't let my girlfriend's walk alone, always make sure they're inside before driving away and follow up to make sure they get home safe. It's not difficult!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:11 AM
3

Oh! Yeah, up-curves! Duh! 🤣 Thanks love ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:24 AM
9

Do you think this can happen naturally? I've slept with a guy, quite a few times, who has this shape. He had no issue getting or staying erect and no pain. It was honestly the best sex of my life 😅🙈 before your post I didn't even know this was a thing 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:08 PM
12

Same! Fucking sucks. My ex partner left me 4 days before we were supposed to move to a new country together for this exactly 😡 over him now of course but was utterly blindsided at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:46 PM
8

That judge is bomb!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:34 AM
14

Hahahaha! I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:23 AM
22

Send her everything! She doesn't deserve t this anymore than you do. You're amazing btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:19 AM
21

Wow! Big words through the internet! 😂😂😂 #loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:48 AM
45

It's a shit post. Look at his history. He's never been with a woman 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:18 AM
1

https://interactives.stuff.co.nz/2019/11/grace-millane-trial-victim-blaming/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:19 AM
1

The posted case happened in my city and we were all aghast that something of this nature could happen in little old New Zealand. A seemingly safe country. Then a show was aired interviewing a group of young women about hook up culture and OLD. Their responses to the dangers, we as women face, were astounding. Literally a group of pickmeishas giggling at how they aren't concerned and how they hook up with strangers on the regular with no form of vetting whatsoever. I was ashamed of them and scare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:16 AM
3

Didn't even give it a second glance. All those dating shows are trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:57 AM
7

Chris just got added to my top ten most hated names
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:52 AM
66

WTF! The 17 year old had "sex" with her 100 times. That's not sex muthafickers!!! That's RAPE! God I am ropable!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:35 AM
15

I agree with this but I think we have a duty to women everywhere to spotlight this shhh as much as possible. The more we normalise how wrong this is the better it will get for all women collectively. It's a long road yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:33 AM
2

Niiiice! 🤩💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:58 AM
2

You've nothing to worry about then 🥳 If he has a disorder, that's not on you. How did it go btw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:28 AM
6

Ok. Thanks ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:27 AM
2

Yeah it's a joke! Ha! A joke that if she said yes to you'd be all in! Scum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:46 PM
9

I've the same experience here in NZ. Drinking and coffee are seen as the norm for first dates. I used to be the one to suggest the coffee date cos I didn't want to waste an evening with a boring fella 😂 Now when they ask me if they could take me for a date (because I'm so impatient as I have ADHD) I say straight up "I'll be available in two weeks for you to take me somewhere nice for dinner" don't give them a chance to cheap out and because NZ is so small if the date is boring I usually know som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:24 PM
11

Yeah and in the UK drinking is seen as so much the norm that you're seen as the odd one for not going along with it. It's the same in NZ & Australia - Bloody Commonwealth mentality 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:17 PM
6

So does that mean we shouldn't enjoy a glass of wine with our meal at a dinner date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:07 PM
11

Wow! That is my dad all over and subsequently why I go for emotionally unavailable men. Mind blown! Thanks for the share 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:25 PM
10

Ooof! I just read a description of my last relationship. So glad it ended and so glad I found FDS! Thanks OP 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:01 AM
20

Hagfem is exactly right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:08 AM
6

Woo! Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:07 AM
11

Right!? Where exactly is the compliment 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:07 AM
13

Heartbreaking. Sorry babes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:03 AM
9

Yeah, like if he earns enough money but prefers to spend it on alcohol, drugs etc... Then if he's not going to prioritise even owning a bed he definitely will not prioritise you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:03 AM
16

But is your house dirty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:57 AM
2

Love this! Thinking back with so much cringe 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:01 AM
8

Yup! I swipe left on anyone that already has kid or says they want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:19 AM
11

Had this happen. I'm 5'9" had a 5'7" guy try to convince me he was 6'. Like mate, did you think I wouldn't notice? 😂 Feckin eejit! I stayed for one drink cos I was like you owe me! The whole time he kept trying to make himself seem taller and trying to look down my top. I gapped it really quickly 😂😂😂 #loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:18 AM
4

Here here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:11 PM
7

I second this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:07 PM
6

Anything by Diablo Cody such as United States of Tara or Jenji Kohan such as Orange is the New Black or Weeds Edit: Gentefied from Netflix - majority executive producers are women, including America Ferrera 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:03 PM
17

Lololololololol!!! This is sadly hilarious. Saving this image to show all my friends! That said my ex was a thoroughbred and honestly it was bloody annoying a lot of the time 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:15 AM
3

In my country we get free mental health care... Not sure what country you're in, but could be something to look into ☺️✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:11 AM
17

Put your life on hold!? This IS your life! Ffs! You do you gurl ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:51 AM
5

Not sure why you're being down voted. You have some legitimate questions and have asked them in a respectful and concise way. I don't strictly agree with everything you have to say but please don't let that deter you from seeking genuine female based guidance on dating etc... ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:21 AM
31

It happens so often we're getting confused over which article we're referencing. Fucking disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:39 AM
8

What part of NZ? I'm from Auckland. Also, I don't mind playing tour guide when I'm at a loose end and they pay for everything 😂😂😂 it's fun and I don't allow myself to be pressured into feeling like I have some kind of obligation. I get free meals and a funded day to enjoy my city through a newcomers fresh eyes. Some people think I'm using them. Whatever. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:17 AM
14

Ooohhh weee! They came for him in the comments! 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:01 PM
2

Same! I do all of the above!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:16 PM
25

Yeah! Start saying "thank you" for example "thank you for waiting"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:20 PM
22

Yeah! Replace "but" with "and"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:20 PM
46

Yet men don't receive the side eye when they succinctly state their wants/ intentions 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:18 PM
4

Same! Sell it girl! Use the money to treat yourself 🥰💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:14 AM
23

This is so encouraging! Proud of him. #hopeforthefuture 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:41 AM
69

Gawd! I always hated HIMYM because of these exact reasons and people would say "but it's funny and acceptable because he's gay in real life" WTF! So perpetuating misogyny is ok if it comes from a gay man!? Get away with you! Nassssty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:44 AM
17

Argh! I just read the petition and see the guy fled to New Zealand, my country! Wtf! I'm going to do some research, if he is here I'm going to have to do something about it. Scum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:23 PM
3

I like to send a photo with me in the background but with a male friend taking up the majority of the photo. It's not the best response compared to referring him to my profile but if I feel the request comes from a genuine space not a nasty place, that is all they will get from me. I feel it gives me the upper hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:10 AM
5

Lol! The audacity! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:46 AM
43

This is why my last relationship broke up. He was like I don't want a mother. I was like ffs! You think I enjoy this!? Twat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:18 AM
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