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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Gaslighting women into staying with LVMExactly! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 13 | Gaslighting women into staying with LVMAnd also make ourselves cum cause “he tried.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Reddit does hate womenYep. I don’t really go there often, but there’s a lot of similar content there where women are being mocked for not being gullible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Reddit does hate womenExactly! They get to see pictures and be “visual creatures” in their choices but we are monsters if we decide to be proactive with ours. I can’t believe I spent most of my life thinking that this is just how it is - men are vIsUaL and get to have preferences (plus cheat cause “men can’t control their impulses”) and women get to tolerate absolute bs for the sake of being/staying paired up. And it’s funny how some of them still think we are mortified by a possibility of “being/ending up ‘alone’.” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 6 | Reddit does hate women👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Reddit does hate womenIt’s never about them leveling up, it’s always about us getting to their level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:04 AM |
| 23 | Reddit does hate womenAnd that’s how it goes with literally everything. Have standards? High maintenance. Like taller men? Fucking nazi. Want a commitment as opposed to being led on (aka “let’s see how it goes…”)? Needy, clingy, thirsty. Don’t like anal and threesomes? Prude and frigid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 8 | Reddit does hate womenYeah, like having no standards and/or preferences (outside of what men like) and be “good in bed” aka act out porn. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:40 AM |
| 12 | Reddit does hate womenRight! I didn’t get why he thought it was a “funny” opener. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 84 | Reddit does hate womenI saw a post today where dude was asking this: “why do women unmatch as soon as I tell them ‘I’m not sure what I’m looking for rn, let’s see how it goes?’ What should I tell them to still bang and make them think I’m being serious?” 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:07 AM |
| 30 | Reddit does hate women🤷♀️ Just a very low effort “joke.” He was claiming in the comments that he’s “acTuAllY” 6 ft. tall - so why are you so offended? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:02 AM |
| 41 | Reddit does hate womenExactly. “Found one” as if she just committed some horrible act against humanity. It really made me feel like if they could call her a witch and set her on fire they’d gladly do so…. Ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:54 AM |
| 53 | Reddit does hate womenYeah, such a great opener 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:41 AM |
| 58 | Reddit does hate womenThe level of hatred towards her in comments is shocking to me. And yes, of course they are totally fine with rating women according to how “fuckable” we are based on looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:33 AM |
| 26 | After telling him I’ve been in hospital, have covid pleurisy & too unwell to date atm.. I’m done with menWow. The level of selfishness and zero empathy…. Good riddance. So sorry you’ve been sick and are not feeling well. Hope you feel much better soon, sis! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Just another year end reminder to NEVER EVER build a man. Focus on yourself and only yourself.Me too please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 07:09 AM |
| 12 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thisWhy are these scrotes in relationships if they hate women? And then flex it on Reddit? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:42 AM |
| 13 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭They treat a woman like they would in porn and expect her to be thrilled to please them, shut up right after sex and have zero emotional response (cuddles)…. Just like a robot! So yeah, just go and get one 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:24 AM |
| 2 | A simple thought for your leveling up journey: you are, first and foremost, doing this for yourself“Pretty privilege” really hit me, cause I couldn’t put this into words - and here it is. I do feel like not everyone can just stop wearing makeup as a form of protest. I have a very fair, thin skin, blue eyes and light eyebrows/eyelashes - I look “sick” without makeup. As much as I love myself, I know that I WILL be treated differently (worse) without makeup even by women. Somehow not being conventionally attractive makes you “low value” by default even to other women, it’s insane. It makes me s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:38 AM |
| 3 | 2.5 Year together and he doesn’t know what she likes. How is that even possible?Being “low maintenance” is what lots of women (including some of the ones I personally know) think makes them “stand out” and they would argue that it’s why they are in LTRs. Cause they are “easy to be with” - as if this is something to be proud of. Some of them like to reiterate that to tell me I need to “lower my standards” and be more “approachable.” Well, if wanting my SO to know me well enough to get me a thoughtful birthday present is being “high maintenance” - I’m glad I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 7 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Not a sign of cheating necessarily but something to be aware of: if a guy pays for everything, it doesn’t mean he is HVM and/or interested. Dated a guy who was an engineer and made really good money, so yes, he payed for everything. Just like he did for multiple other women - because he could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:05 AM |
| 26 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Love this! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:23 AM |
| 45 | I have no wordsThis would be the fastest “next” in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:09 AM |
| 13 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”Exactly. I’m putting myself in his shoes and there’s no way I would allow anyone touching me likes this (and for so long) if I wasn’t comfortable with it. You don’t have to make a scene, you can just move their hand away and tell them it’s not okay. But yeah, looks like it’s just some porn fantasy and he’s probably jerking off to some comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:48 PM |
| 9 | How do you tell the difference between your gut telling you something about the present vs what you've been conditioned to expect?I get it, I tend to do the same, and sometimes it’s just a trauma response. My therapist thought me to “fact check”: when I’m thinking the worst about something, are there facts that support this or is this a fantasy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:37 AM |
| 50 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”😮 Really? What a sick scrote!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:58 AM |
| 51 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”Exactly! I bet his gf will unfriend the girl but stays with him. I’m just kind of shocked at the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:57 AM |
| 89 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”So he let her touch him under the table to the point where he almost orgasmed instead of stopping her right away, and everyone in the comments is raging against the friend instead of asking HIM why HE didn’t stop her and only left for bathroom (again, she got him to the point of orgasming so it lasted for a while) so he doesn’t “embarrass himself.” I just can’t. Edit: typos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:39 AM |
| 234 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translations“No drama” - I won’t be emotionally present/invested/mature and will only be with someone who tolerates ALL of my shitty behavior without calling me out on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:27 PM |
| 12 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩Goddamn monsters. I really hope people who teach, use and popularize this stuff will die alone and miserable. If you are leading with hate, that’s what you deserve. I don’t care what happened to them in childhood or who and how wronged them. As an adult, you are responsible for your own mental (physical, spiritual etc.) health and damaging others “cause trauma” is selfish and evil. And then they go and complain about FDS. Yeah, we see you and your shitty behaviors. Will keep you accountable. We … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 7 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.And look at all the “awards.” What the f is wrong with this world if this is considered to be “normal.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:40 PM |
| 10 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileWhat baffles me is that not only they have dozens of their shitty videos online, they also have subscribers. That’s more shocking to me. Any normal human being would feel disgusted with what these creatures are saying but they have subscribes…. The channel might be removed (reported them too) but these uhh people would still exist and spread their toxicity around. That’s scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?God. I don’t understand WHY do some sisters choose to stay with a man who not only doesn’t contribute, but also has an audacity to be “poly.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | 50-50 is a lie.What a selfish little shit 😟 I feel so sorry for her. Imagine seeing his true colors when you are so vulnerable, sick and carrying his baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.Very true! Definitely romanticized and normalized which is sad and infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 14 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.And Keanu: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/amp29697704/who-is-alexandra-grant-keanu-reeves-girlfriend/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 52 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.I don’t think a 22 old woman would want to be with a 50+ year old man if she wasn’t traumatized as a child. So there’s nothing healthy in such relationships on both ends 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 81 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.Well, she’s 56! It’s so unconventional to stay with the woman of your own or similar age these days! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.Yup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 20 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.Yeah... how “funny” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 197 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.I can’t wrap my head around this now that I realized how pedophilic our culture really is. How normalized is dumping your older wife over a much younger woman. And all the rhetoric of women being devalued, ostracized and discarded as soon as they turn a certain age is absolutely outrageous. We gotta stop laughing at and normalizing this kind of behavior - men getting with much younger partners. It’s not funny and should be seen for what it is - a perversion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:18 PM |
| 12 | What the Pickme Fuck? Admin of Supposedly All Female Breastfeeding Group Allowing Men to Pay to Join and Harass Women. Group Had 22.5K MembersIs there any way to let Facebook know so the group either gets banned or its members get notified that there are males in the group? Wtf 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢How sick 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 9 | An Ideal relationshipWait, why is this “mood for life”? Twitter gf meaning she’s got a “character limitation” for when she speaks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 4 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.Thank you for this post! Perfectly put 👑 Most men do not care about women’s pleasure. All they care about is “performing.” Foreplay is for simps ya know. Sure, they will go down on you, but the goal is to show you that they know the “technique”, not to listen to you when you actually tell them how and where to touch you. And if you don’t orgasm, it’s a really big deal cause you hurt their egoooo. And everyone else orgaaaaasmed. Yeah right. I’ve never realized how deeply patriarchal our society i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You LeftStarted dating a coworker although a few people in a row told me he was a jerk. Then one of my friends told me about his ex girlfriend who also said he was a total a-hole. But I ignored cause “build-a-a tote.” And he told me a sob story, so I thought he’s actually good, and I’ll prove everyone that they mIsUnderStooD. Well, this dude had an audacity to have a bet with one of our female coworkers who would kiss me first before midnight on New Year’s Eve.... bc I told him earlier that my first kis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:31 AM |
| 5 | This is nice.I mean, this is great. But also feel like men would do a lot and go out of their way for an objectively beautiful woman. And not necessarily because they are HVM, but because beauty in men's world (and society) is a virtue in itself? Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Don’t...give men your number while out anywhere!I really hope there’s gonna be more and more women with stronger boundaries and self-respect to call out players on this bs and forcing them to either go to therapy or die alone. Don’t have integrity and respect for others? Be forced to change and become a decent human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 13 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManOr a kitten :) Unconditional mutual love 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 35 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManAll of my latest ones lasted less than a month. I started slipping into old unhealthy thinking patterns of “what’s wrong with meee” but then realized that I’m just getting really good at vetting. LVMs and NVMs HATE being caught and called out on their games and bullshit. They think they are “smooth” cause they are so used to dealing with cool girls. So the second they realize you figured them out or started to - they run. Yes, run, boi, RUN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:17 AM |
| 123 | Don’t...give men your number while out anywhere!Would never reply to a guy who doesn’t even bother writing my name with upper case “H”. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:26 AM |
| 343 | Women exist only for male pleasure...🤢🤢I personally hate thongs cause they are extremely uncomfortable (although they are seamless with thinner pants/skirts). Men, on the other hand, would never agree to wearing thongs so we don’t see their underwear showing through. But hey, who cares about my comfort when my whole purpose in life is to look attractive to men. Not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Went to see Promising Young Woman. People were laughing, and by “people” I mean women.Yep. These 3 particular women were. I think, they were pretty tipsy which still doesn’t make giggling at someone’s murder okay. But overall reaction to certain dialogues was pretty depressing as it seemed that the whole message of the movie - that having group sex (and filming it) with someone who is drunk and doesn’t know what’s happening is not okay - was ridiculed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | FDS has got me feelin SELECTIVE a.f.Exactly, why matching? I’ve heard some guys swipe right on EVERYONE and then just wait for matches. Again, laziness 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:58 PM |
| 5 | FDS has got me feelin SELECTIVE a.f.Especially the talking about themselves and not asking any questions one. It always baffles me how self-centered some OLD men are and how much they expect women to “wow” them. If you aren’t able to contribute to the flow of the convo online, why in a world would anyone ever agree to a date with you. Just laziness, lack of communication skills and self awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | This is the energy!Colorado :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 5 | The hardest thing about FDS is watching you’re girl friends struggle when you have the answersLet us know when you do so we can follow an listen! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Wtf? I would be soo disgusted and offended by this. Doritos? In the ziplock bag? And $40? It’s so sad that some women get so excited about clearly disrespectful acts. A normal guy would take you to breakfast. And pay for it of course. But I guess if you are just “staying by his house” then that’d what you think you deserve. That said, so many women grow up in families where they were treated like shit, and it’s not surprising that they’d see the kinda thing as “cute” if no one ever did anything … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 4 | I want to thank you ladies from the bottom of my heart. You guys potentially saved my life.We, empathetic people, tend to see good in everyone because it’s inconceivable for us to think that someone can be that evil. But bad people exist. And they prey on those who are kind and compassionate. And once they destroy someone’s life, they have no regrets, whatsoever. That’s just the sad truth. I saw this video the other day about narcissists and feeling like there’s no justice in the world cause they seem to get away with everything. It helped me so sharing it with you: https://m.youtube.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:47 AM |
| 5 | “Alpha Males” teach men how to be a HVM 🤦🏻♀️Left a rating & a comment on the show page and flagged to Apple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 12 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Omg, yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Wow. Why, why do women put up with such pieces of 💩? I don’t get it. Even if you grew up in a super toxic environment, why would you let some “boyfriend” not only to leech off you but throw away your things? Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 37 | Is this really how little society/men value women ? Yes.It’s sad and scary to think that these men are someone’s brothers, husbands and dads. They should absolutely be exposed and held accountable, but that’s what they think about. And are almost competitive in who’d say the crudest and dirtiest thing. How depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death!I’m absolutely doing it! 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:18 AM |
| 2 | This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death!Thank you! Haha, yep, great guess! I’m planning to do something darker and bolder next time so it aligns with the gesture :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death!Oh! Thank you to the person who gave me an award 🙏🏻 My first one :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Decided to jump on the cute ring trend that’s going on this sub, here’s my first ring that I purchased from a merchant stand at college in my early twenties and I still love it to this day! ❤️So pretty! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death!Haha yes!!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 10 | This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death!Aldo! Of all places 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 6 | This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death!Thank you! I love the idea behind this and am definitely committed to always loving myself unconditionally instead of seeking validation from men. I’m enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.This is so beautiful - not only the cake, but the way you love and care for yourself 🧡 Happy belated birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highIt doesn’t really matter what they try to do. All the hate and all the attacks only reinforce everything this sub is about. That there are men who would always point fingers at other people and women in particular when their weakness, inability to grow, and lack of character are disposed. Throwing temper tantrums is all they know. They will never have enough courage to actually reflect on how they are in the world and maybe book that first therapy session. If you hate women because of your own i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendationsHey! What’s the name of the magazine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Manchild who can’t handle 5 hours A WEEK alone with his child thinks discussing who does what is “silly” (as he asserts it’s “unreasonable” that his wife expects him to care for his own child while she’s in class). There are no words (besides don’t have children with LVM).Jesus. How do women even manage to love someone like that?? What an entitled and selfish douche! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:07 AM |
| 6 | 9 ways narcissists abuse people. Please be aware of these type of people. This channel has alot of helpful contents on narcissistic abuse and recovery.Love Richard 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:45 AM |
| 4 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰Hahaha! Bravo 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Own your sorrowI love this. Thank you 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:42 AM |
| 7 | Own your sorrowSame here. And effing sad that it came to this! Women mourning the expected life in a HEALTHY relationship. I’m sure those men who live under impression that they’d always have as many sexual partners and never have to commit will wake up one morning alone and maybe realize the real value of a loving relationship, not just one night stands which they wouldn’t be getting anymore anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Own your sorrowWow. How horrible. I’m so sorry it happened to you. Did you report him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:34 AM |
| 5 | Own your sorrowWhat a beautiful post and so very well put. Thank you, sis ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Exactly! It’s absolutely twisted. Bumble where women get to choose and that’s soo empowering. No, it’s not. It’s men getting lazier and lazier letting women lead and gaslighting them into gold digger/insecure/desperate label whenever a woman tries to establish her standards. And we are fearfully trying to COMMUNICATE how tired we are of being reduced to something convenient yet chaLlenGing so we constantly keep the entertained and hey, who cares what WE actually want and need. Cause that’s defin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”I wish there was Netflix for women where issues like this one where brought up and discussed so we are not constantly exposed to narratives where women are still being objectified. So we can have a platform to speak up and show how things are from a perspective of a healthy and wholesome woman. Cause most of the stuff that we are seeing on Netflix is same old crap. I really want to see new generations of women who are not constantly shamed for not being men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a female mentorHey! So I created a Google Doc form where we can all submit questions and share feedback: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1zOWtnCU_vQjjO_mO6JdAFjsaH7a6iRSGeZxRxTaOquc/edit?usp=sharing Eventually, I'd like to do video meetups, but this is the first step :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a female mentorHey, here is the link to the Google Form for starters: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1zOWtnCU_vQjjO_mO6JdAFjsaH7a6iRSGeZxRxTaOquc/edit?usp=sharing Eventually, I'd like to do video meetups, but this is the first step :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 6 | How I am beginning to heal my body image💯 with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a female mentorAbsolutely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a female mentorThanks, great idea about the Google doc! 🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a female mentorThank you!! 🧡 I was going to suggest a video chat actually to avoid getting mislead/played. Thank you for offering help and fir the fair warning! Much appreciated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.Downloaded from my laptop, wohoo! Thanks for the link 🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.I can’t download/save it for some reason :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Guy on PP trying to convince me that expecting men to pay for dates is a bad strategy while admitting he would barely pay for a 9/10 woman. But why would I want to date a man who won’t pay because he thinks I am a 2/10? Lol! Just another reminder why you should never settle by splitting the bill!Well said! 💯 agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 10 | Why do men in online dating always steer the conversation towards sexual?Same! Can’t wrap my fingers around that but once they try, they are blocked. I don’t know what’s wrong with men, honestly. They either start off with sexual advances right away or drag it along (loooong messages but no action like having a FaceTime call) which is also not what I’m personally looking for. Lots of ghosters. And just generally seems like because casual sex is very much available now, most of them don’t want to commit. Why commit? I’m seeing an overwhelming number of men who want ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Love is....Thanks, this makes more sense now. You do as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Love is....When I was reading the post my goal was not to follow this as an instruction for my love life. I can agree with some points and disagree with others which doesn’t mean the whole message is wrong. What I don’t understand is why are you attacking me and projecting things on me as if you know me and everything I personally stand for? Wow. I don’t think she’s being woken up every night at 3am to be told that she’s loved. That’s more of a metaphor, not a literal representation of her relationship wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Love is....😧 I’m not broken and neither do I need anyone to put me together. And how does that even correlate with the post? Are you saying that wanting to be in a healthy and loving relationship equates with abuse and wanting to be “fixed”? How so? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:54 PM |
| 12 | Love is....Well.... thanks for being a respectful and supportive female community I once thought it was. Thought we were on the same team and didn’t expect to see so much negativity in the comments. Not seeing how does what I posted contradict FDS ideology and rules and why in a world is this being mocked and getting so much pushback. Wanted to share something positive and it feels like I’m in a troll country. Everyone deserves to express their opinion and be honest, but this doesn’t feel like a constructi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Love is....How is that a pickmeisha stuff? I’m not seeing any contradictions with our Handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:55 PM |
| 16 | Love is....I’m not reading this as an instruction for what a man should be, but I do like the idea of expecting the best from them. And if some of the things she talks about are more if a metaphor, I’m okay with what they represent. Sure, that’s the love that we should all be able to give ourselves, but if I ever have a partner, that’s what I want our relationship to be - loving, supportive, respectful, and based on mutual trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Love is....I cringed at that part too. I like what she means to say though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Love is....Me too! Didn’t want to leave anything out though cause it’s good stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Does he have a girlfriend?💯 agreed! I felt like I was getting into a pickme mode again and didn’t catch that early enough. Thank you! Need to stick to the FDA course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Does he have a girlfriend?Agreed. I just haven’t dated for a while nor did I enjoy talking to someone so much in a long time which is the recipe for being manipulated or love bombed easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Does he have a girlfriend?Absolutely! He is pretty charming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Does he have a girlfriend?Mmm, I don’t think so.... He’s most likely married, in a relationship or talking to multiple women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Does he have a girlfriend?Yeah. I hate that. And for me it really makes it harder to try again, you know? Cause every single time it’s another time waster 👿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Does he have a girlfriend?💯 agreed, thank you! I did start daydreaming and researching because I started liking him AND stopped talking to other guys, so yeah, no wonder. Lesson learned again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Does he have a girlfriend?Agreed, thank you! He also disappeared all of a sudden which only proves your point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Does he have a girlfriend?Thank you, I needed to hear this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:04 PM |
| 6 | Does he have a girlfriend?Very possible :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Does he have a girlfriend?Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Does he have a girlfriend?Agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Does he have a girlfriend?Thank you for this. Exactly what I needed to hear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Energy shift?Wooo, great job queen!! Thank you, will definitely keep it up. I’m with you, I’m super grateful for finding this sub and learning everything I’ve learned. I really hope this new movement spreads out and LVMs will have to level up or be thirsty forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Energy shift?Ha! Agreed. The lockdown definitely brought the best and the worst out of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Was driving places this past weekend and noticed an interesting thing: some men lllove cutting you off or turn right in front of you once they see a you’re a woman. It’s like they are 💯 positive that they can do that safety just cause you’re a woman, no repercussions here. And I absolutely hate it.I do that too 😄 And some psycho having a gun in their car does worry me as well. I actually had someone following me once because I didn’t turn fast enough. I should have called the cops. Yeah. Something has to change. Sometimes it feels like although women “are allowed” to vote now and run their own businesses and for presidency, one way or another we are still seen/treated as less then. Be that a disgusting Hollywood culture where women are forced to undergo plastic surgeries to look beautiful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 06:52 PM |
| 8 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?I support you! It’s tough to be in a place of uncertainty and vulnerability and not feeling your best. Not everyone is lucky enough to always have everything going for them, most of us go through rough patches from time to time. So keep your head up and level up, slowly but gradually. I’d also try not to date right now as there’s a high chance of attracting a predator - they can smell “blood” in water. I’d rather invest in myself and friendships. Get rid of toxic, unsupportive ones and focus on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 19 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.Can’t believe I was so naive at 38 😕 Thought waiting on getting intimate is something out of the last century and super outdated. What the hell was I thinking. Thought he would keep respecting and chasing cause I’m “different.” I really don’t sleep around (not that I’m judging anyone who does) and somehow ended up with a fuckboy. Really glad all that 💩 brought me here though. Enlightenment is painful but worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:54 AM |
| 9 | Don't let friends who settled drag you down.Haha good point! Next time I get a sales pitch about another “great guy” I’ll ask if they’d ever date him and why. Have you also felt like your married friend think less of you because you were single? I want to think that it’s something subconscious, cause my friends a great people otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:26 AM |
| 19 | Don't let friends who settled drag you down.I’ve noticed that my married girlfriends never tried to set me up with someone truly wonderful. It’s never a great man, it’s usually an LVM who is - you guessed it - “a really nice guy.” One of my friends was trying to hook me up with this single friend of hers and when I told her I wasn’t attracted or interested at all, she replied, “Well, he might not be the most attractive guy but he’ll treat you like a queen!” What? So it’s seems totally fine to you to hook me up with a guy I’m not even attr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:08 AM |
| 67 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.Wow. If these were a bunch of psychopaths, I would be kinda able to understand - psychopaths are incapable of feeling compassion. But these are your average men? Just shows that for lots of men today having a girlfriend is having someone to Netflix and chill with, go to concerts with and doing “fun stuff together.” And at the first sign of complexity or conflict - they run cause they never mature enough to get past the superficialities. Let along support someone who’s gone through something as h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so sad when a woman says she may never want a relationship again?Yeah, I love my dad, but I’d never want to be either his friend or married to him. He is definitely an LVM and has narcissistic traits as well. Same with my brother. And when you grow up surrounded by LVMs and your mom is LVW, you grow up conditioned to be a pickme at it’s worst. And you want to be “chosen” and have your own version of a fairy tale because that’s just a survival mechanism. But I’ve learned a hard way that until you do get real with yourself and agree to do the healing work, you’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 10 | Why do people think it’s so sad when a woman says she may never want a relationship again?I’m really sad to admit that, but i don’t believe in love anymore and I 💯 agree that it’s better to face reality than live in a Hollywood promoted illusion of what love is. I really don’t want to be doing all this healing work right now to then end up with another narcissist, manchild or/and fuckboy. I don’t think I ever had any HVMs in my life - not in my family or surroundings, so I know what they are in theory and would love to have them as friends and colleagues to at least start trusting me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | My ex is my coworker and my boss’s friendThank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:33 AM |
| 3 | My ex is my coworker and my boss’s friendThank you. Will do! I don’t really know what to report as I don’t have enough evidence. Just my gut which is usually right. Nasty laughs. Small little things here and there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 2 | My ex is my coworker and my boss’s friendOut HR department is in another state, so I can’t really go there. And I don’t even know what I would bring to them apart from what I think I’ve heard and how I feel when those two are hanging out together. Everyone loves my boss. I don’t even think anyone would believe me. I do know that no one has stayed at my position for longer than a year before I came along, so might be a scapegoat situation. No one really likes my ex, most people think he’s a dick, so that wouldn’t be hard to explain to H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:05 AM |
| 6 | My ex is my coworker and my boss’s friendI’m not 💯 sure they were talking about me. But I kind of know they did/do. Just don’t have any factual information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:43 AM |
| 9 | My ex is my coworker and my boss’s friendThank you! I’ve tried my best this whole time but today just felt like too much. I definitely want to stay strong and keep my head up. 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:28 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, we've reached 60,000 members 🥳🥳🥳Thank you! This sub has truly changed my life! ❤️🧡❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 02:23 AM |
| 10 | Why Breadcrumbing is Pure EVILTherapy. I’m not avoidant, I’m anxious and therapy has been a really transformative experience for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 4 | It’s now or neverI love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:15 PM |
| 9 | I took out some piercings yesterday.So true! I absolutely hate thongs and how they felt on my body. But was wearing them for my ex. Threw them out recently and super happy about it. No more uncomfortable lingerie, clothes to impress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Saw my ex with a new girlSame here. Avoidants 🤦♀️ I’m thinking how lucky we are to live now with YouTube and internet in general. Never ever would I have learned about narcs if we didn’t have access to online resources teaching about people to stay away from. I had no idea who narcs or psychopaths were until only two years ago. Absolutely agreed. It happened for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Saw my ex with a new girlVery well said! 👏 he did mention in the very beginning of our relationship that he sabotaged a few of his relationships, and I made a classic mistake - thought I was different and it won’t happen to me/us. Lesson learned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Saw my ex with a new girlI’m trying. It did get to me though, cause I thought we had a pretty damn good connection. And now he’s “connecting” with someone else. But yeah, time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex with a new girlThis makes me sad - how replaceable people are these days. This whole culture of dropping out once things get real as opposed to Tinder “perfection” which is a complete delusion. I’m pretty sure he was on OLD apps this whole time and met someone he got interested in. So once initial lust started wearing out, he just lost motivation. I did make mistakes too, acted pickme ish. So he’s not coming back. He’ll just hop on Tinder again if his new girl doesn’t work out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you ❤️ True! No unreciprocated love for me anymore, life’s too short for that bs. It sucks that Hollywood romanticizes unrequited love so much. No one should ever suffer or feel “not good enough” just because someone doesn’t choose them. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Saw my ex with a new girlYeah, well, not what I’d want to be doing right after a breakup, but his choice. It sucks to go through this right now, but it’s not too bad! I’m feeling very strong and empowered, so might be the best thing that happened to me in a while because of everything I got to learn these past few weeks 💪 Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you, sis 🧡🧡🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Saw my ex with a new girlRight. I hate that. Why won’t people treat breakups as an opportunity to heal and grow first and then go meet someone new? And then - hurt people hurt people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Saw my ex with a new girlYes! Get busy is my plan! I definitely need to refocus on myself and my life which I’ve been working on hard recently . Just didn’t expect to see him there at all. I’m honestly fine now. Thank God for this community and all of you 🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Saw my ex with a new girlHopefully not :) Pretty sure he’ll just go on Tinder again like he did now. Well, his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Saw my ex with a new girlGod no! That would be wayyy worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 6 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you. So true. It’s definitely better to feel all the feels now then blocking it or bypassing. Agreed that men generally like to jump into another relationship right away instead of processing. And learning. I wouldn’t want that for myself. Neither do I want a man who does this to himself or m/and other person. Thanks 🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex with a new girlQuite possibly, what a boy! I definitely want a man. He won’t contact me, his ego is too big. Even if he’s suffering, he’ll suffer in silence. Like I said, he’s still a boy. Thank you 🧡 Definitely feeling much better right now! Need to find friends like all of you, lovely ladies, cause this is the true tribe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex with a new girlWho knows? Maybe she’s gonna be the one who really hurts/awakens him. So he can grow. Cause he was that person for me. And it’s definitely a win for me. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you ❤️. My mind is definitely being mean to me right now, but I know the wounds will heal. Thanks, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 9 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you! I’d never want to date someone just so I can feel better, so yeah. I’m glad I’m stronger than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Saw my ex with a new girlPossibly. Wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t do that on purpose and doesn’t remember at all it’s my favorite bar in town. Not even sure if he ever really felt for me. Well, it’s in the past now. Glad to still feel hopeful and not jaded. That’s something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you! And wow, proud of you. I know it’s temporary. It’s attachment, I’m still grieving. And yes, not interested in dating anyone right just for the sake of “not being alone.” I’m fine. I do need to focus on myself and my goals. And I’m choosing to focus on this dude instead. Yeah, let life, my goals. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:45 AM |
| 14 | Saw my ex with a new girlRight! Didn’t think about that. Well, hope she actually enjoyed her night. I just thought I wouldn’t want this for my friend - to get involved with a Peter Pan type. So I hope she realizes that soon enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex with a new girlTrue. No one died, thankfully. It’s for the better. Just need time to truly see that. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Saw my ex with a new girlThank you, so true! This is really encouraging. Yes, the best part about breakups is that it’s a chance to take an honest look at yourself and do better, grow, level up. I do have lots of pickmeisha stuff to deal with, so I’m glad I know this now. Thank you, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 13 | Saw my ex with a new girlAgreed. I’d definitely rather be single right now. This relationship really showed me a few ugly things that need to be changed. So I’m sad but I’m grateful for growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:50 AM |
| 10 | Saw my ex with a new girlTrue. Poor girl that doesn’t know she might be a rebound. Time, time, time. I’ll just keep pushing through. Forever grateful for all you ladies and this community. Much love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 10 | Saw my ex with a new girlIt’s just a stage. Yes, I need to keep telling myself that I deserve better. Still long way to go on my self-love journey. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:35 AM |
| 24 | Saw my ex with a new girlRight. I understand all of that logically, but emotionally it hurts. Thank you. Lizzo, yes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:10 AM |
| 10 | Saw my ex with a new girlTrue. But he looked like he was enjoying himself/her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Building Self-WorthThank you so much! Yes, I need to write some of the things on my mirror so I don’t go back to the old ways. Wishing you a beautiful and exciting ride as well! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Building Self-WorthThank you, agreed! I go to the gym, I take care of myself, I have accomplished a lot in live, but I don't have enough confidence to own it and give myself credit for it. So that's a blocker and I need to go past that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Building Self-WorthThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How do I gain queenfidence?Ha! So true. Very interesting prospective. Yeah, men move on way faster from my experience. Doesn’t mean I’d ever be able to, but good thing to keep in mind. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:15 PM |
| 5 | How do I gain queenfidence?Boundaries. Yes. I do struggle with reinforcing them when necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:06 AM |
| 6 | How do I gain queenfidence?Thank you for this ❤️ Definitely need to re-group and do some work. Can’t even think of dating right now, I’m not ready. Thank you for the support and encouragement 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you for sharing this. And I feel you. It sucks to be going through this, but I think I’d never be here and get to make changes if it didn’t suck so bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over feeling usedThanks! I think, I’ve finally got the lesson and know exactly what needs to be changed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you! Glad to be here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you! True. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:22 AM |
| 6 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:25 AM |
| 10 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you so much for this. I am angry at myself because I’ve seen red flags, my gut was screaming at me and I didn’t like things but.... “I liked him and wanted to makes this work.” He made me feel bad cause I couldn’t cum the last time we slept together. I just couldn’t because I felt that something was off. And he went on to tell me that we’re not sexually compatible although it seemed like we were this whole time. I do need to work on my self-esteem and regain my confidence. I’ve never felt … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:24 AM |
| 10 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you! I’m determined to finally making changes. I don’t ever want to feel this way again. It’s just so maddening to think that he was just faking it. And saying things that he wasn’t feeling. I hope karma catches up with players eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 01:31 AM |
| 10 | How do you get over feeling usedThank you. Yeah. It’s just such a bummer that anyone can learn these manipulative techniques and use them against people for selfish reasons. And then you get burned, start having trust issues and need to learn to protect yourself against these dicks who don’t have any empathy for others. I don’t even know anymore if that’s my intuition telling me that’s something’s off or if that’s just me being paranoid because I’m scared of getting played/hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:26 AM |
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