Mission-Bath-7538 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitterness The more time I spend on this sub the more blown away by how many people sit around stewing about power imbalances and over analyzing why their lives aren’t exactly like a rom com, then projecting their disappointment and self-loathing to the point of making themselves and everyone around them bitter and angry. Turn off YouTube and Tik Tok, go outside and look around at real people. Chances are you’ll see the majority are average. Maybe you’ll see some pretty couples or some mismatched couples b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 07:28 AM
4	What causes women to not understand that they are being used by top tier men? What’s a top tier man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 04:58 AM
1	Q4ALL: What would you teach your children about dating? Please don’t do this. I’ve tried so hard to be beautiful all my life but I’m just not. No amount of exercise, nice clothes, plastic surgery and hair dye will make me beautiful. Because I’m not beautiful and I internalized the message that it mattered, I figured I could only settle for the first person who actually wanted me. Body dysmorphia, low self esteem and heartbreak are the lifelong results of being told that I need to change my exterior to be valued. Looks matter, sure, but don’t have to.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:57 AM
1	What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings? Woman here. Don’t care what my ring looks like or how much it costs. We’ll, I care a little bit. I wouldn’t want anything gaudy or super expensive. I like simple. A band is all I really needed. Traditions can be fun, so I’m not opposed to rings in general. The expense has gotten out of hand though. Pun intended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 02:31 AM
2	Getting seriously involved with a significantly younger women is often bad FOR MEN Me too. I’m a glutton for punishment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 02:25 AM
1	Getting seriously involved with a significantly younger women is often bad FOR MEN Power? Marriage is a partnership, not a power struggle. Sigh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 02:24 AM
1	Why is the idea of traditional roles in a marriage seen as sexist? Traditional roles aren’t inherently sexist. What IS sexist is forcing someone into a role that they don’t want because of their gender, or assuming competence/incompetence based on their gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:05 AM
1	Q4W: How important is monogamy to you, really? What is the point of a relationship if it isn’t monogamous? Seems like a waste of time and energy to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 01:21 PM
1	Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people? I’m in really good physical shape and have a nice body, but I don’t consider myself attractive at all. At best, I look younger than I am, and despite what my negative Nancy Reddit posts might suggest, people seem to like me in real life. Not romantically though. That said, I never had the confidence to even talk to someone I was physically attracted to. It seemed like an exercise in futility so I didn’t bother. Sometimes to the extent of actively avoiding them. Some of these guys I found drop-de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 02:28 AM
1	If men want relationships with women more than men, doesn’t that mean women face little to no difficulties in dating? Yes, to an extent. It’s a bummer for both of us but I do what I can to make up for it in other ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 12:54 AM
1	If men want relationships with women more than men, doesn’t that mean women face little to no difficulties in dating? No. 1-2 times weekly, but I don’t enjoy it at all. If I have to, I prefer to do other intimate maintenance activities. Like I wrote, I don’t have the luxury of being picky. A lot of us average people just need to lower our expectations and choose to be happy with what we have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 10:41 PM
2	Q4W: What type of men do you tend to attract? The ones who approached me were special needs, mentally ill, married, or creepy (like sex offender creepy- they’re basically attracted to everyone). I’m over 35 so now I’m invisible to everyone but lesbians and transients. The ones I would approach back in the day were nerds. I married a nerd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 07:18 AM
1	If men want relationships with women more than men, doesn’t that mean women face little to no difficulties in dating? When I was single I had a really tough time dating. I’m not very pretty and I don’t put out, which are the two things you need to be successful. Men were not interested in me once they realized I wasn’t going to immediately sleep with them. Dating truly was a nightmare, full of constant rejection or actual sexual assault, very little in between. My mom was always great with men despite not being pretty because she was extremely flirty. She tried to help me out by telling me to pretend to be dumb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:22 PM
2	What’s wrong with seeing sex as a love language? What if she gets sick? Pregnant? When he’s not getting his love language needs met, even temporarily, should he just up and leave?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 02:24 AM
6	What’s wrong with seeing sex as a love language? I find it amusing that nearly every man’s love language is touch and women are everything else. At least it appears to be this way on Reddit. The problem with sex being a love language is what happens if I’m physically incapable of doing it on command? I am accused of not showing love appropriately and then it is grounds for him to leave. It makes me feel like an object that is 100% responsible for his emotional well-being, and nothing kills desire faster than having duty sex with someone who th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 02:13 PM
1	Women, do you remember how you viewed sex in your teenage years? When I was a teen I wanted to feel loved and have those passionate encounters. I believed it was possible. My parents were really sex positive and my mom basically told me sex is the greatest thing in the world, and worth being abused for. I wanted to experience this amazing thing that people were willing to destroy their lives for. I wanted to know what that was like! Then as I started dating I realized men didn’t want me because I am not attractive, or if they did want me it was only for sex a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 06:44 PM