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I didn’t say that. Not at all. I am saying that these men can’t even sense that they themselves are abusers, so why do you act like anyone else can?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:22 PM
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Oh yes it is. Rejecting your agematch is picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:16 PM
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Threatening violence again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:14 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/9inx014ptzof1.jpeg?width=1176&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cee4c61a46027803d924f231fa2bddbdf85cee5e says he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore tells me to go away continues the conversation threatens violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:38 PM
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Now you’re threatening violence. Remind me how the men here aren’t abusive and are just lonely kind guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:37 PM
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Now you’re dismissing it because you know I said an important point. Yes you should be more loving as the relationship progresses. That is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:37 PM
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By replying you are indicating that you wish to continue the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:16 PM
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The rules say no personal attacks..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:16 PM
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Amen brother. I got downvoted for saying it but I completely agree. They have a cartoon, childlike view of what a criminal’s life is like and the women they date. And often these prison guards who get into weird relationships with prisoners have been extorted in some way. Maybe they let the prisoner sneak in a cell phone. And then the prisoner used that against them. They say “if you don’t do XYZ, I am going to tell everyone that you let me sneak in a cell phone and you’re gonna lose your job an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:16 PM
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You’re just trying to make a jab at me and be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:10 PM
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I’m not sure what drove you to try to make a jab at me when this is what I said myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:09 PM
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You’re completely missing the point. The point is that these criminals aren’t living in nice houses and banging stable hot chicks who aren’t strippers/ prostitutes. You’re fixated on the verbiage of “UMC” because you don’t like that my overall argument is correct. Most criminals aren’t living comfortable nice lives surrounded by a harem good and sexy women who worship the ground they walk on. No. They are living in shitty areas and neighborhoods and struggling to get by. The truly rich ones like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:04 PM
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There are different levels of autism. Someone with a touch of autism is going to be at a very different tier than someone who can’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:01 PM
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Do you think that calling women “you people” reflects a non abusive way of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:59 PM
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A lot of the men here are very verbally abusive yet don’t think of themselves as abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:58 PM
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Do you realize that this kind of misogyny and hatred for women reflects an abusive attitude towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:56 PM
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Love bombing ends. Thats why it’s called love bombing. He gets the woman a bunch of gifts in the beginning then stops once he has her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:56 PM
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Do you realize that the way you’re speaking is incredibly verbally abusive? Most abusers don’t realize they are abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:54 PM
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I live in an UMC area. The houses where I live are at least $1.8 million, if not more. You’re only proving me right. That the criminals that these men envy aren’t living in nice neighborhoods or banging models.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:52 PM
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Weak attempt at a personal attack. These guys aren’t living in nice houses in nice neighborhoods with a harem of hot women. They live in the hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:44 PM
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No they aren’t. They live in the hood in crappy neighborhoods and trap houses. The women they hook up with have equally messed up lives and work as prostitutes and strippers. They aren’t living in a nice UMC neighborhood with a harem of models unless they are very high ranking narco/ mafia types and they know they have to be discrete in the USA to avoid being arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:19 PM
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I haven’t met a single person who has been to prison in my personal life. Not a single person. I kind of know in passing a couple of people who spent time in jail for a DUI and even that is like 2 people. I understand that not everyone announces their criminal history though. That said, prisoners are just in a completely different socioeconomic bracket and lifestyle than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:16 PM
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Jeremy Meeks is no longer a criminal. He is doing good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:13 PM
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Jeremy Meeks is a one off situation. He also was 18 when he got in a fight with a 16 year old. He was vocal about the effects of poverty and growing up on the hood. Not just that, he has become religious and donates his money and time to helping at risk youth. He also is a stepfather and is on good terms with his baby mama and they coparent. Not just that, he has built an acting career focused on helping the African American community on BET. He devoted his birthday party to donating money to ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:13 PM
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How is it hypergamous if he is penniless and in a jail cell????? lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:10 PM
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OP. You don’t understand that most abusers aren’t obvious criminals. Many men who are abusive are abusive without realizing it. Examples include having a snarky and bitter attitude, doing things like cracking mean jokes at the expense of your partner, and pouting and throwing a pity party when your wife doesn’t want to have sex. Here in this forum, many of the men who claim to be good are actually abusive. The snarky remarks, the attempt to dominate, the backhanded statements, etc etc. And these…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:55 PM
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That’s because young women are leaning more conservative and are also having less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:24 PM
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So you agree with men that most men are very picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:24 PM
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Women don’t give a shit about an extra 20 lbs. men are deeply disturbed by an extra 20 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:21 PM
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Women are absolutely not frequently attracted to serial killers. Look at that night stalker guy. He married a fat older lady. Not some gorgeous Stacy who found her irresistible. I can find even more examples. And no. Selena Gomez has her own clout. She doesn’t need to get clout from Benny Blanco. And the neck guy regularly collabs with women who are much hotter and have a larger following than him. He is largely forgotten and peaked in like 2019. Men are incredibly picky. Being willing to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:16 PM
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First of all, women are a lot less picky than men are. Women don’t care if a man looks like a tall body builder with a massive dick. Jack Black has a fan base of women who find him sexy. Daddy Long Neck, the guy who has weird genetic disorder that makes him extremely skinny with a long neck, has a hot stripper baby mama and always has a weird rotation of sexy women. Selena Gomez is extremely beautiful and her fiancee, Benny blanco, looks like the opposite of a looksmaxxer. Sexy influencer Amaria…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:47 AM
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Exactly. You bemoan and whine about superficiality then are superficial. Thats why most of the men complaining here don’t claim to be fat. Fat men are more willing to date a wide variety of women. The average BMI in the USA is high. https://www.mybodygallery.com You’re free to see that most women who are 10-15-20 lbs overweight look fine. But you not only turn your nose up at them, but you insist they are on their death beds and going to become morbidly obese as they get older. Fat men aren’t go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:22 AM
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You’re falsely representing my argument because you don’t like it. Men say this about themselves. Hitler didn’t say bad things about Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:20 AM
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Women don’t want variety and are monogamous and loyal by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:25 AM
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Men write essays like this then complain that women are too picky and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:25 AM
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Everyone who has a bmi over 25 is perceived as obese to men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:24 AM
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So you agree that I am not conflating men and that this is most men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:23 AM
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Literally men who are in men’s spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:22 AM
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Tell that to the men who say that about men in men’s spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:22 AM
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Yes sadly you’re the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:07 AM
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No literally most of the men here in this forum are pornsick and lonely yet expect young slim beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:07 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIvPWetRfwE/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOGb7ucjkkJ/ More men saying they want variety
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:58 AM
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Most men are pornsick and only want a beautiful young woman who is slim. They don’t want a woman who is 35 and chunky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:14 AM
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You’re just saying that because you know it will prove you wrong. Here’s a screenshot to hold you accountable. Dennis Prager himself said men want variety hence why they watch porn. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:02 AM
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https://www.faithwire.com/2023/04/14/men-want-variety-why-dennis-pragers-defense-of-pornography-is-profoundly-dangerous/ https://youtube.com/shorts/SOORQ0PEQFE https://youtube.com/shorts/Pv7xmofT0Nw https://youtube.com/shorts/IEkwOV1CCU4 This is what men say about men in male spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:39 AM
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No personal attacks, m8. I am repeating what men say about men in men’s spaces. Men constantly say that men are designed to spread their seed to as many women as possible. Source: https://youtu.be/YXu3QvlNyRk https://youtu.be/IDY_Iftrgfo https://youtube.com/shorts/59mjebiZIZE https://youtube.com/shorts/czjobaPVCO0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:13 AM
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Women have less of a degenerate nature than men do. Men are biologically inclined to spread their seed to as many women as possible and then only stick around as a parent for a few top women. Women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:42 PM
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Many men who hate women also happen to be very conservative and not really like gay people either. Calling them gay upsets them because they consider it one of the worst insults. Women who hate men aren’t homophobic the way men who hate women are. They don’t care if a guy calls them a lesbian. They like lesbians. But when a man who hates women is called gay, it makes him more butthurt because usually these same men are homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:04 PM
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You’ve never in your life talked to an elderly woman????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:05 PM
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I think you mainly approach women who are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:51 PM
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No what I am saying is you likely reject a lot of women for their BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:46 PM
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Considering that OP hyper fixated on weight and BMI and you chimed in defending weight and BMI, it seems to me that your standards are weight and BMI related.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:40 PM
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No. They most likely lower their standards and don’t get a hissy fit about women’s sizes the way the men here do. They have a much more diverse range of people they are willing to date and more realistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:19 AM
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<image> Here is a conversation I had with one of the guys who claims to be having the experience you described. He went to a dinner party with some girls he met on a socializing app. They had a great time. He didn’t bother to exchange numbers with any of them. He blames them for not asking him for his number. He resents having to make an effort. Also why are none of the men here claiming to be fat? Why don’t fat men seem to be struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:03 AM
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It’s extremely racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:13 AM
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You’re race baiting at this point because you want to shock and get the last word in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:50 PM
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These “decent men” tend to severely overestimate what their equal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:49 PM
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Why did you suddenly make this take a racist turn?? You have no one to blame but yourself. Get out of your head. Rejection sucks but both men and women deal with it all the time. If you want a girlfriend/ wife, you will deal with at least some. As long as you’re respectful and polite and the people you ask out are respectful and polite, then at least most of the rejection will be civil and polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/19rvgs10qjof1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d2f61f90fa7eb14eac9c3b22af933b8d35bd0b12 Because this is what you said. You’re leading with how badly you want to fuck. And romance novels do not glorify casual sex. They are about loving relationships most of the time. Even smut for women is directed at loving relationships. And going to a dinner meetup ABOUT ROMANCE and asking 1-2 of these women for their number to talk more is NOT treating them like an object. You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:34 PM
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Nope. But you keep trying to dodge accountability for your own lack of courage. You’re blaming it on women instead of on yourself. These women are intending to meet someone which is why they are going to a group dinner. They may still reject you, but if you all had a grand time together and you’re polite, then the worst they can say is “no” and move on. Don’t lead the conversation with how badly you want to fuck these women if you don’t want me to assume you want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/0hzdp9xenjof1.jpeg?width=1161&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=49e9b3474a9ff3d022eda79b47bb590679298e4f So you agree that your whole spiel about basic charisma was wrong. And you now revert to admitting that you were looking for casual sex. Most women don’t want casual sex. Those who do are fewer in number. And they get their pick of the litter because most women aren’t into casual sex. You then grumble and mumble that these women who are having casual sex have had too many partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:20 PM
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How is that an excuse when she knows I am just saying it because I want to fuck her. So you’re telling me you’re not even looking for a relationship. You’re going to places where people are intentionally look for a relationship (dinner party meetups) and trying to get a nightclub casual sex experience. I didn't go in with ANY MINDSET. I went in to talk with people at dinner and they happened to all be women. And we talked and laughed. And I got nothing from it. Because thats how women are. You h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:14 PM
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You make $200k a year and talk to 30 people a day, yet when you went to a meetup for dinner, you didn’t have the courage to try to focus your energies on getting to know them and seeing who you would be most compatible with then focusing on one of them then asking them out. You also only went to one singular dinner and didn’t try anything else. Most people, men and women, have to attend multiple social activities before they meet someone to consistently date. Also, you kept grumbling about chari…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:05 PM
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“Why didn’t they ask me for mine?” See? You went in with this mindset and it got you nowhere. Most women like to be approached. The world is much more conservative than it was like 5-10 years ago and people are reverting to traditional norms. Also, women tend to be attracted to men who show that they are attracted to them first. Don’t try to ask out every woman. Focus your energy on one or maybe two at a time because women don’t like a man who is pursuing multiple women at the same time in front…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:56 PM
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Charisma is a basic social skill and there are tiers of charisma. You use the term “basic charisma”. This is things like small talk, making conversation, having people feel heard and understood, etc etc. Going to a dinner meetup on an app and having a conversation with some of the people. This is not the same thing as flattery, over complimenting people, making a sexy joke with a wink, etc etc. That is sexual charisma. We are focusing on basic charisma. You need that in most aspects of life. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:45 PM
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So you went to a dinner party. On an app designed for meeting people. You didn’t have the courage to ask any of these women for their contact information. Mind you, you met on an app designed to meet people and make friends and presumably continue contact after the dinner. You didn’t bother to make a move on anyone or at least try to continue talking to anyone. Then you have the absolute audacity to blame these women for not asking you out and play victim that no women wanted you. You never thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:34 PM
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Most of the men whining here are not as good looking as they imagine themselves to be. Men tend to have big egos and over inflate how good they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:31 PM
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“Forced” Absolute entitlement and whiny behavior. No one is forcing these guys to be massive monster sociopath assholes. You guys describe men in the worst ways possible then try to twist it around and portray them as victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:29 PM
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Ugly women being used for convenient sex is not a virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:45 AM
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How many did you ask out or exchange numbers with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:45 AM
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That’s because they don’t bother going to social activities to try to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:38 AM
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Most of the men whining don’t meet these standards. And income is important to not be homeless or live in a shitty neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:35 AM
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Most of the men whining don’t meet those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:34 AM
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The only thing that is true here is “basic charisma”. Aka normal social grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:34 AM
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That is the equivalent. Most of the men whining don’t meet this criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:33 AM
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Most of the men here on PPD are verbally abusive and narcissists yet make the exact same claim that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:31 AM
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There is a big difference between overweight and obese. People who are a little overweight are still healthy. :) It sounds like you want to try to get out of accountability. A man who has a lean BMI and a high income is not average. He is above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:12 PM
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Because to these men, they believe their equivalent is a woman who is thin, below age 30, and attractive. Even you disqualify a majority of women on weight alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:16 PM
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Most women are overweight or obese in the USA, as are most men. The average woman is 5’4” and 170ish lbs. it’s funny that you complain about “icks” and how women are superficially rejecting most men, but then you immediately reject most women for how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:51 PM
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<image> You lack accountability. What does this say about yourself? Based on what you say about how people who lack accountability are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:08 PM
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A lot of men, including many of the men here, are bad abusive and toxic people without even realizing it. When a woman is mistreated, it’s not necessarily because she went with a bad boy. Most of the time it’s with a guy who thinks of himself as a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:46 PM
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…….. men pick gold diggers all the time and women know it’s because the gold diggers are hot. However, a gold digger is not an abuser if both parties understand that the relationship foundation is transactional. She gets money. He gets a young beautiful woman. Often the man who controls the finances can be the abuser because the hand that feeds you is also the hand that can starve you. All you are doing is proving that you think abusers are hot enough that women tolerate abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:29 PM
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<image> is offended that women fear abuse compares women to dogs and engages in verbal abuse You just proved that the woman is right to be suspicious and right to get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:35 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:33 PM
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I know you don’t think like me as a woman. But you think if an abuser and think of an attractive man. That tells me everything I need to know. Men view abusers as high value and attractive. And instead of trying to save attractive “hoes”, go for regular average looking women. However, with a face tattoo that will be a challenge because a lot of people associate face tattoos with a life of crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:52 AM
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Perhaps you should read the subreddit rules before telling someone they bark like a dog when speaking. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:20 AM
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Nope. It’s dehumanizing and insulting. You compare getting a younger girlfriend to getting a younger dog. As if older dogs are worth less (they aren’t) and older women are worth less (they aren’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:10 AM
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Letting anyone die is cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:07 AM
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No it doesn’t. It’s just cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:57 PM
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This is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:38 PM
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And you want to eliminate that so that they die???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:24 PM
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Also aren’t you in South America where things are already kind of like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:19 PM
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Male nature revealed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:19 PM
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So you’re okay with the kid dying???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:12 PM
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It is for the responsible adult to decide. Since you’re so vocal about financial abortion as a right, why can’t you come up with a solution? She pays for the kid. But how do they divide up which kid gets what? One kid grows up with double the resources? If no adult wants to be financially responsible for the child, the child dies. And you believe this is a human right for men? She better be convincing. About what? Why would she need to be convincing? Then he pays for the kid. What if he can’t af…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:48 PM
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Why do you compare women to dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:28 PM
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Adding to what Beer4astoise says: Most men who leave their wives for a younger model aren’t intending to do so. Especially when they first get married. They have high hopes and big dreams. This is made up scenario: Let’s say you get married at 30 and your wife is 27. You know you will never cheat. You plan to make her a stay at home mom. You plan to have a few kids. You’re very excited, as this will give your life meaning and joy. Fast forward 25 years. Let’s say you’re 55 and you’re making $300…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:23 PM
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Starting a business isn’t easy. You also need to provide something of value and have a large enough client/ customer base to make a good living.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:06 PM
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But where does the financially aborted kid live? His mom is with his brother. She doesn’t want to divorce. The dad financially aborted him. How does this work? Also women can get financial abortions too. What if a woman doesn’t want to get a medical abortion but wants a financial one? What if the wife wants to financially abort some of her kids but not all and she wants to stay married? And her husband doesn’t want to divorce either? Also what’s stopping people from lying and saying they want ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:58 PM
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You blocked to try to dodge accountability, but the rules of this subreddit are that blocking people to get a last word in is forbidden. You don’t have a good answer. Your claim is that women in the USA are too demanding. But men can choose to not meet those demands if they don’t want to either. They have free will too. That is a moot point that has nothing to do with how demanding one is. You want young women to leave their country and go live with a man and split expenses with a man who they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:14 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/miad8fx96lnf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=debaedd94f27958f50bfbf9c84d61c0b7649c847 Friendly reminder. Just because you lost the debate doesn’t mean you are allowed to block.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:18 PM
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So I was right. You have age as a standard. You’re expecting to import young women who you find attractive. I repeatedly ask and you repeatedly evade the question: Why aren’t you marrying her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:08 PM
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How old are these beautiful foreign women? Are you importing a woman in her 60’s to come be your girlfriend under a partner visa? Are you importing a woman you find hideous? You repeatedly say that you expect her to pay for half of your expenses. You also don’t seem to understand what her leaving her country entails. It means leaving her family and support system behind. You also fail to say what legal protections she has when you are the one who is controlling her visa. You also refuse to say w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:07 PM
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And yes you do. What do you think happens in a partner visa? You aren’t married. She’s leaving her home country and everything behind to be in a relationship with you. And you repeatedly say you expect her to contribute to half of your expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:04 PM
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Ok so would you import a 50 year old woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:04 PM
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Where is your accountability for this?: Lastly, how do you have the audacity to claim American women are too demanding but then demand that a foreign woman be: a) beautiful b) young enough to be fertile c) willing to uproot her entire life and move to the USA with a guy who doesn’t want to marry her d) be okay with living with the guy and splitting expenses e) but not marrying him f) contribute to half the expenses and presumably do most of the housework g) all while he has power over her immigr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:01 PM
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Then men should advocate more and hold protests. And men aren’t forced to be parents. Women are the ones who get pregnant. Being pro choice doesn’t mean you want to go get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:01 PM
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So then ban the draft instead of trying to conjure up laws to punish women. And no one has been drafted since the Vietnam war. And men are too. Child support is much cheaper than daycare. Men abandon their kids all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:52 PM
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Why are you doubling the income? we already established that minimum wage is about $10.70 in the Midwest. Why are you magically raising it to $16ish an hour? Stay in the reality, not fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:51 PM
3

But 10x the salary there is still poor here. And why aren’t you marrying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:44 PM
2

So if you want those women to get less attention and be less privileged then you should advocate to lower the age of consent to 25. That would scare off a huge population of men who go for much younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:29 PM
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Yet most men have a tantrum in this forum about paying for the first dates. And you complain about how American women have standards that are too high yet you expect a random beautiful young woman to immigrate to another country and work full time and be poor with you and pay half your bills with zero legal protection from marriage and the ability for you to drop her on a whim and deport her. That sounds pretty entitled to me and worse than just wanting a tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:28 PM
2

That doesn’t stop these old men from trying to pursue dramatically younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:10 PM
2

But why do you assume she is splitting rent? You’re the one who brought up splitting rent and money. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:10 PM
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Yes it is. “She’s a woman so we are paying her less” is 100% discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:09 PM
5

Anecdotal evidence. Statistically they are your competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:04 PM
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That doesn’t make discrimination justified or legal. And that doesn’t magically make it socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:03 PM
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Why do you assume that the woman coming on a partner visa would pay half the rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:02 PM
3

If they break up, where does the “partner” go? Are they deported? Does that mean that they can be in a relationship for years and years and then when the man gets tired of her, get her deported? Or he can threaten to get her deported every time they fight to keep her subject to him and submissive? What if they break up then her back together? Can she still come back? It amazes me that men get so angry about paying for a date but then advocate for having women live with them and be dependent on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:55 PM
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If you’re paying someone differently on the basis of gender it absolutely is discrimination and calling that out is not socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:50 PM
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No it isn’t. <image> This is from the OKCupid study. Men don’t prefer their age match. An easy way to make dating easier for you is to make the age of consent 25. That way you aren’t competing with 45 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:50 PM
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Paying someone the same for doing the same job as you isn’t socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:47 PM
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You are between 19 and 21 years old. Your agematch is the most desired and sought after age. Especially if the woman is slim and conventionally attractive. (If she isn’t then her options drastically reduce). Instead of trying to punish women, hold men accountable who are old but don’t want their agematch. An easy idea would be to raise the age of consent to 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:45 PM
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So you’re like 19-21 now and you’re angry that 19-21 year old women are the most sought after and desired age of women. Instead of trying to advocate for laws to force women to suffer why don’t you hold your fellow men accountable for only wanting women who are under 25? Men who are in their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s and beyond always prefer women under 25. Especially the attractive and slim women under 25. They are hypergamous and don’t prefer their age match. Knowing this, why n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:43 PM
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What exact laws are there that give women special privileges at the expense of men in the USA? And the only privilege women have in dating, if they aren’t attractive, is that they get more matches and messages online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:40 PM
2

With financial abortion, what if a man has a wife and financially aborts one of their two kids but not the other? Women who are married and already have kids often get abortions (financial reasons or otherwise). So men legally can too to make things “fair”. What happens when the dad financially aborts one of his kids but not the other. Where does that kid go, especially if the mom still wants him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:31 PM
2

With financial abortion, what if a man has a wife and financially aborts one of their two kids but not the other? Women who are married and already have kids often get abortions (financial reasons or otherwise). So men legally can too to make things “fair”. What happens when the dad financially aborts one of his kids but not the other. Where does that kid go, especially if the mom still wants him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:31 PM
2

Tons and tons of women date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:26 PM
6

I don’t know if you’ve actually met African immigrants, but they are incredibly hardworking and value education and building professional careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:56 PM
1

I know. I keep saying this. You envy that they get women. You equate men who mistreat women with being exceptionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:49 PM
1

Yes it’s envy. You envision men who mistreat women as hot. I don’t know anyone who has been cheated on 12 times unless they are keeping that a deep secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:49 PM
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It isn’t dead. It’s accountability. You espouse the ideology I was talking about. Be the change you wish to see if you want to see the term’s definition be changed and the population less stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:55 AM
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No I am not. If you want to change how the term is viewed, be the change. Hold men accountable for saying nasty stuff about women. Don’t make nasty claims about women, such as claiming they keep weird men around who send them uncomfortable text messages for an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:54 AM
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See this is the kind of ideology I was talking about in my other comment to you. Claiming that large numbers of women like to keep weird men around so that they can get attention and an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:31 AM
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It isn’t subversion. It reflects how the community shifted over the years from: a group of people (both men and women) who couldn’t get laid/ romance To just men who couldn’t get laid/ romance To a group of men who couldn’t get laid/ romance and blamed women and feminism for their struggles To a group of men who hate women, hate feminism, believe women don’t have enough rights, and enjoy degrading and humiliating women to get justice That’s how the community has changed over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:30 AM
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Because the definition changed with time. Thats literally how language works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:27 AM
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Calling a man an “inc*l” isn’t virgin shaming. The term isn’t about celibacy or virginity anymore. It is used to describe men who hate women and believe women have too many rights, are too demanding, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:51 PM
1

So you agree that men envy abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:43 PM
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Way to prove my point. You imagine these men as chads with a bunch of options. As I said, men envy abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:42 PM
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<image> See men taunt women when a nice guy switches it up. They assume the guy is a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:20 PM
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Naturally charming doesnt mean he cant be mean in action. This is why yall suck at dating. Yall subscribe certain ideas. Just because he was chill today doesnt mean he cant be an asshole tomorrow or even in 30 mins. Thats when most people break up or cut off the relationship. Then you guys go into a fit of rage that the woman even went out with him in the first place despite breaking up. It’s like a guy gaming you up and when you say no I have a boyfriend he calls you a whore and walks off mad. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:14 PM
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You’re supposed to treat everyone with a baseline level of politeness/ respect/ kindness. People are supposed to be polite to each other. I am not sure why this triggers such anger in OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:47 PM
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You’re moving the goalposts. The original comment talks about a guy who is naturally charming. Natural charm doesn’t mean charming 24/7 but charming in general. Which means that they are generally nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:39 PM
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Wrong answer. Explain how one can be charming while being mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:56 AM
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99% of men are taller than 99% of women. If a 5’4” man is with a 5’1” woman, that is NORMAL and not some kind of fetish chasing thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:02 PM
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Odd answer and unrelated. https://www.wikihow.com/Be-Charming Charm is associated with being nice. Rude people aren’t seen as charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:32 PM
1

If he’s charming doesn’t that mean he’s nice to her???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:51 PM
1

It is the bare minimum. For you. Which means it’s the bare minimum. But it is worthless unto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:05 AM
1

but she gains absolutely nothing from it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:04 AM
1

You’re saying sex is the bare minimum but then admit that it’s trash and worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:49 AM
1

But you literally say sex is the bare minimum but now reveal that sex is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:47 AM
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So you agree that it has zero benefit to the women and women shouldn’t have sex with men fast. Therefore disqualifying your entire post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:22 AM
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You’re the one who is enthusiastically trying to blame women and trying your best to grasp at something to insult them with (calling them children).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:22 AM
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That isn’t what I said though. That’s what you’re projecting because you don’t have a good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:11 AM
2

None of these are tangible answers besides the pleasure and most women don’t get pleasure out of speedy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:10 AM
2

Because it’s nothing. They gain nothing. Not even an orgasm. Zilch. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:46 PM
4

But it’s a simple question. You don’t even list sexual pleasure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:46 PM
0

It is a guy trying to dominate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:07 PM
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<image> Literally this is how men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:50 PM
4

But what exactly does she gain!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:45 PM
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Non answer. Just list 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:39 PM
5

I present to you: This subreddit On the other thread there is a guy who is angry about taking women on dinner dates, claiming that every woman has sex for free with a guy at least once and how he refuses to be the beta chump that takes a woman out to dinner. <image> There is also the psyche or sike subreddit where men talk like this and get angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:05 PM
5

List 5 things the girl gains
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:57 PM
4

List 5 things the woman gains from having sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:57 PM
1

No you guys don’t lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:53 PM
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We want it with a man who isn’t bitter and on a power struggle to dominate his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:42 PM
3

Men rarely say this about fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:39 PM
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Men rarely say this about fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:38 PM
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So you’re saying that men have historically been cruel and women responded yet somehow women are bad for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:38 PM
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Because it’s obvious the guy is a multi millionaire and offers a lifestyle. I’m not sure what the exposée is supposed to be. If the guy is ugly, poor, bitter, mean spirited, and lazy then of course women will question why their friend is dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:50 PM
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