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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Solution you’ve been looking for | Fundamentals | Mission-Doctor-2622 | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 04:48 AM |
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| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forConfidence isn’t nonexistent, you just don’t have it, and it’s easier to pretend it’s a myth than admit you’re scared to build it. Everyone starts without it. Some step up, some stay bitter. Which one are you really trying to be? | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking foryou don’t lack confidence. you’ve just gotten comfortable pretending you do, because it keeps you safe from rejection, judgment, and growth. The real question is when are you going to stop hiding behind that lie and start acting like the person you know you’re capable of being? | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forYou can say ‘absolutely not,’ but that’s just resistance talking. Confidence isn’t something you wait for it’s how you decide to show up despite how you feel. That’s literally what makes it confidence. If it were purely emotional, nobody would ever push through fear, anxiety, or insecurity. But people do every day because they choose to act in spite of it. That’s what separates confidence from comfort. You don’t need to feel good to be confident. You just need to decide not to shrink. That’s a c… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forYeah, because it keeps getting said and still isn’t getting applied. Just be confident sounds overplayed because too many people treat it like empty advice instead of what it actually is, an action. It’s not ‘just be confident’ like it’s a cheat code, it’s ‘stop outsourcing your self worth, start showing up even when you’re unsure, and quit hiding behind overthinking. Most people aren’t lacking information. They’re lacking execution. That’s why it keeps coming. | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forYou’re comparing confidence, a mindset to skills like fixing a car or passing an exam. That’s a category error. Confidence isn’t a trade you outsource or a test you study for it’s a decision to back yourself in the moment, even when you don’t have all the answers. If your mechanic showed up and didn’t believethey could fix your car, you’d fire him, no matter how skilled he was. Same with a student if you hand them the answers and they still think they’ll fail, they probably will. The point isn’t… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forI can prove to you that it does | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Solution you’ve been looking forYou’re overthinking something that’s actually simple. Confidence isn’t a grand prize you earn later & women aren’t something you buy, it’s a posture you choose right now, no matter the situation. You don’t need the perfect conditions, the right girl, or some magical exception. You don’t win confidence like a lambo. You show up like you already have the keys that’s the whole point. And yeah, you can try to slide by on ‘just enough to start,’ but that’s still playing not to lose. Confidence is abo… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forThis was funny 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forThere is nothing wrong with bi-sexual women, I think they are great. I do agree with him preference wise. I don’t date bi sexual women either due to my own personal beliefs, I would say that they would be more promiscuous than a straight woman & this is just my own personal opinion, idk the statistics so I can be wrong. | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forFind someone with manageable baggage. Don’t try to fix anyone, people will show you exactly who they are. Express your preferences/wants & see their actions from there. Now everyone makes mistakes (reasonable lol) & as long as you have someone that holds themselves accountable. Set boundaries & look for those red flags early. Remember there are plenty of women out there that are looking for the same things as you & willing to work for it. Make sure you be confident talk to more women in person &… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Solution you’ve been looking forThat’s because most likely you are entertaining women that is not that interested in you. In it’s a lot of factors that can play into that so I’ll need to know more in context. I wish I could text these women for you lol but then you’ll fold whenever you in person or get on the phone so just message me pictures of conversations & I’ll try my best to come to a conclusion. Sometimes it’s not even you maybe she needed entertainment from a break up or she needed a confidence booster or was just simp… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:00 AM |
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