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Lots of decently hot single mothers thinking they can fuck their way into a new dad for their kids. If I didn't have personal standards I'd have sex with them as they are significantly easier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:23 PM
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I'm going to repeat the question again, what do you think the outcome would be if all women unambiguously and universally said they wouldn't have sex or kids ever? Male population would go along with it? Delusion lol. The only reason the current situation persists is due to the slow boil and illusion of normalcy that's been created, when it reaches a point that doesn't work anymore(which will happen) you'll see abrupt changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:00 PM
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Question, if women universally and consistently refused to have kids or sex at all, what do you think the outcome would be or societies response? Y'all don't really understand your situation, the current feminist movement is only able to be sustained because an illusion of functioning normalcy has been created but that's slowly changing(and this is also why y'all are so invested in gaslighting men on this topic). On a civilizational level the most basic function of women is reproduction, nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:36 AM
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I have MS, work for government(indirectly), my dislike of foreigners and opinions on women were shaped after the fact through personal interaction and societal observation. And don't confuse someone not explicitly saying they don't like you with what they believe personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:28 PM
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Tell that to the IRS as I'm pretty sure they will disagree. Unless you think people make money for taxes out of thin air? Or any government agency. I don't like having to work in order to not be kicked out of a house but unfortunately society broadly agrees that I need to pay property taxes. Women essentially want all the benefits of western civilization while refusing to contribute to maintaining. This might work for a while longer but it's not going to be indefinite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:52 PM
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Both take resources under threat of force because it's understood that existing within society requires sacrifices on the part of the members for it to continue to function. Hypothetically if every woman in unison declared "we will have zero kids or sex, ever" do you think men would go along with it? No, of course not. The only reason we are even having this conversation is because the illusion of a functional society continues to exist in the minds of many. Once it no longer does there will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:45 PM
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In the same way paying taxes is, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:33 PM
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I have sex toys I use on women I'm with, a fleshlight always seemed incredibly gay to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:32 PM
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Society is a collection of negotiations with violence underlying everything. Women who benefit from society but won't take reasonable steps to maintain it should no longer be able to benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:30 PM
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"Just accept a society that you lose in because its moral!" Eventually this is going to stop working(the wheels are already starting to slip).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:37 PM
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Extremely high probability she has HSV2. Pretty much everyone that swings does, hell there's a super high percentage of single women over 40 with it even not being active swingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:42 PM
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Here's the thing, it's well understood this woman is not someone I would ever marry. So the question is to what extent I would risk getting an incurable STI for short term play. It's more important for me to not get an STD that makes dating even more difficult long term. Same reason I never entertained sex workers, if there was no STI risk I wouldnt hesitate to gorge myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:39 PM
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I'm totally going to believe the health status of a woman I talked to for a day before fucking! Totally!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:32 PM
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A 40 year old on a fetish site wanted me to meet up, fuck her raw dog and do bdsm stuff. I offered to do BDSM, I'm not raw dogging a random woman I just met who's done swinging lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:19 PM
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There have been multiple experiments that show this claim by women is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:13 PM
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Most men would rather get stabbed daily than never get sex. You have no understanding of our psychological motivations. Fuck wars were waged over pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:00 PM
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Someone who is "happily single" doesn't create a wedding ceremony and gift themselves a wedding ring. Jesus Christ this level of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:57 PM
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This is %100 true, women are very effective at socially demonizing men they find unattractive and promoting men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:56 PM
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Again, c0pe and everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:53 PM
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Horseshit, women selected differently and we both know it. Historically being a beta provider was a reliable strategy, not now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:48 PM
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Rich coming from a person claiming women marrying themselves is totally normal and reasonable behavior lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:42 PM
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It's funny that women think they will be able to sustain a dysfunctional society indefinitely, one purely held together by moral framework which benefits only them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:38 PM
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The only way to achieve self respect is put yourself in a position where you can easily replace the woman you're currently with. IE RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:34 PM
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"The men I'm attracted to only want me for casual sex". Many such cases among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:32 PM
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They are just spoiled children, which is a nice summary of western women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:12 PM
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Being unable to find someone you're happy with out of the multitude of options available again implies you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:53 PM
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If a woman fail to get a boyfriend off OLD in a couple months she has something fundamentally wrong with her. In every capacity dating is extremely easy for women, even more so with OLD being available. Watching women here pretend otherwise has a direct implication that are out of reality in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:40 PM
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Women b terrified of having their fucking awful sexual choices be policed again so they concoct an entire fake narrative around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:53 PM
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lmfao I talked to a woman on the phone who only had a face pic, I asked her to send a full body and she refused, she then said she was size 16(US) at which point I didn't feel like continuing further. Why women think hiding their obesity will do anything idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:33 AM
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Lots of single mothers are looking for a "good man", funny how that happens after they have a kid huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:22 PM
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There's individual action aimed at success within the environment and then there's collective action which is intended to have a broader impact. But in either case it's simply wrong to say the current environment is as amenable to achieving rational sex and relationship goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:26 AM
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Don't discount the effect of outside forces or the need to change them though. Dating is objectively more difficult and there are objectively far fewer quality options with the same goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:51 AM
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No, job has little impact on dating currently, it's very much a question of hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:14 AM
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I make 130k, wish it was more but it's not terrible. It marginally improved my dating but not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:17 PM
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Dating apps are the only effective way to meet women. People who say otherwise are simply out of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:42 PM
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When you're at the point of living on the grace of other people(which honestly shouldn't ever have been allowed as it creates this type of entitlement), you're in no position demand any particular life style(one you can't even remotely live yourself, hell you don't even have a car lol). This is a perfect example though of why government welfare is destructive to society, facilitating entitlement among people who contribute nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:18 AM
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lmfao this comment right here reflects how absolutely out of reality the women here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:04 AM
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Lots of women are dopamine addicts, I just assumed once you reach the point of begging the government for money you would have been forced to grow up a little. I suppose given the performance of other groups that are big government dependents I shouldn't have assumed so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:46 AM
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I just got told I wasn't exciting enough by a chick on disability lmfao. She's decently hot but you're literally on government support. You're in no position to declare if someone is exciting enough. Actually this perfectly summaries modern dating. Women who's only positive quality is she isn't obese living off taxpayer money thinking she's hot shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:32 AM
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Women need to tell women who lose their shit to knock it off then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:46 AM
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Funny you think women want to fix any problems when they are the source of most of them. Admittedly most are basically cattle so I suppose the rancher is the responsible one but I am still not so quick to say women have no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:09 PM
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We all understand eating your vegetables is necessary and noone believes they are so terrible that it's rational for a person to not eat them. In general we do things we don't particularly love for various reasons related to personal health, goals and societal function. This doesn't mean we hate those activities either simply that they don't give us maximum short term enjoyment. Marrying someone you're not ecstatic about but has acceptable qualities to achieve shared individual and societal goal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:03 PM
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The thing about veggies is, most aren't actually that bad. After a while most kids accept them and most adults understand they need to be eaten. Women have become dopamine addicts in the context of dating and relationships, it's not that their options are bad, they just don't like the taste in the same way a fat person doesn't like steamed broccoli. It's well understood obesity is a national problem but for some reason women's damaging mating behavior is(currently) off limits to talk about publi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:37 PM
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Rationality. Kids don't like their veggies but good parents tell them to shut up and eat them because the long-term consequences of not are bad. It's abundantly clear collective womanhood is teetering on needing society to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:21 PM
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Money, influence and readily fuckable women. By every measure he's not a loser except in the minds of the women here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:24 PM
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What women say and what women do aren't the same, he's objectively not a loser and we both know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:47 PM
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Tate is hardly a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:01 PM
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"I got tired of being a whore, time to find beta provider'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:14 PM
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My advice to a daughter would be the same as my expectations for a woman I marry. Choose someone with demonstrated competence who has long-term goals. Don't associate with human garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:13 PM
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They have a ton of tattoos and consistently drink and or use drugs, yes. It's honestly shocking how many college girls have adopted this trashified lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:33 PM
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It broadly applies to the west coast. I think women with graduate degrees around here have even worse behavior/lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:09 PM
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I will say to my mother's credit, it would be hard to anticipate the extent of the trashification of the average western woman. Being a tatted up slut is kind of the norm at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:19 AM
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Nonsense, if you actively discourage behavior that's a core part of social interaction in your age group then you're causing your kid a problem. In general being a helicopter parent js doing your kid a massive disservice as good behavior (as women love to say) isn't rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:02 AM
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My mom constantly rants about alcohol and drug use, neither interested me but her obsessive focus on doing everything right absolutely fucked me in the context of socializing with peers. Jesus she was a good person but was a terrible role model in the context of being successful with peers. Single mothers in general almost universally have some kind of problem(s). My father was terrible too but that's besides the point as he didn't interact with me much and certainly had a minimal influence on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:40 AM
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So you're saying the average woman is a fat bitch? Thank God we cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:40 PM
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Sometimes people are more intimidating than super complex machines/systems. Lol not at all, the point is in any sane society the differential in value is so self evident that it wouldn't be a thing. Western women are out of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:12 PM
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Objectively it's kind of laughable someone who's worked on critical systems tied to national security is worrying about trying to impress a middle-low income office Becky whose greatest accomplishment is being a normal BMI. The whole thing is objectively astonishing, western society is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:11 AM
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Your husband is a cuck for not getting consistent sex. "I"m not in the mood", lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:09 AM
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Working to restore the patriarchy and making the average woman's life a little bit worse when ever I get the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:52 AM
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It's abundantly clear the vast majority of women are trying to escape their lives and use dating as an outlet for it. Nobody who is happy with their life is as desperate to spend money getting as far away from where they currently are as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:44 AM
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I don't think it got better but the decline has been mitigated to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:25 AM
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Personal observation of someone who has worked in engineering for years and a pretty widespread consensus among men in STEM fields. There's simply lower expectations of women and women still don't enter it even though looking pretty and not being an idiot are the only two bars they have to clear. If you need government support you're not competent at what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:16 PM
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lmfao nonsense, in any STEM field 95% of the women are below the average man in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:40 PM
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Capitalism is fine, artificially inflating women's position in society through DEI feminism caused the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:36 AM
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So no, nothing will fix that except for a total collapse of civilization. And the emancipation of women is not the main problem. Remove technology and the nanny state and most women would embrace gender roles again. With women making decisions we will get there eventually, just a question of how long.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:14 PM
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This is mostly right, social conditioning has done immense damage to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:42 AM
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Accurate, women will do literally everything possible to maintain their position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:28 PM
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I don't mind prostitutes. Men who pay for pictures are pathetic though. If a chick gives a good fucking, hypothetically, assuming I didn't get an STD id be fine with her. Not to marry of course but sex is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:39 PM
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A Nobel prize doesn't turn me on, nor is part of the prize a woman. You're just validating how fucking stupid many women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:24 PM
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Imagine a chick thinking she's better than a dude who got a nobel prize. Jesus women are not very bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:42 PM
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Yeah, the thing Bable-on ignores is that women are more then accepting of men they find hot and more than eager to find flaws in men that they don't. Women's sexual behavior is independent of morality and I would even argue at odds with a functioning society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:18 PM
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"I didn't like that he ate soup, next!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:06 PM
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It's happened but not with such a massive demographic difference within the same society. There's literally zero viable way for them to force the male population to do shit currently beyond social conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:15 PM
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What would happen is that these men would be suppressed by the small cadre of elite men who have most of the resources, and whose wealth is propped up by the work that women are willing to voluntarily do in exchange for the having a safe social environment created around them that caters to their desires If the majority of men simply refused to do anything? Society would crumble and we both know it. There's not an external force that the super rich have to make men collectively do anything, if m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:38 PM
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Societal level in terms of meaningful contributions or what's necessary to keep the basics of society functioning. I agree women have been granted huge amounts of power but again, granted - not taken. If the male population simply decided to not go along with it anymore women couldn't do shit, our current problems are entirely self imposed due to current morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:52 PM
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average men must therefore prove their value to the women who control the market for intersex companionship. The value of women on average is significantly less on a societal level. Women's advancement in is largely a result of law, not merit and would fall away if it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:05 PM
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Lol my mom entirely raised me around this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:51 PM
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In the context of getting a new partner(in general) they absolutely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:26 PM
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Their options far less and the risk of pursuing them far higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:25 PM
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Bullshit, tons of women said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:59 AM
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Until women are post wall, a dude should never invest in a chick thinking it's going to last. Women are as loyal as their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:32 AM
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Women have the luxury to choose and choose completely wrong. Men simply don't have that ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:04 PM
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I live in a high income taxe state, I contribute 7k year to retirement which I get matched on. My take home is around 6k after these subtractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:47 PM
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450k house loan for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:23 PM
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Being too neurotic about this will result in never having a relationship(as a man anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:23 PM
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Yeah when I was a kid, then I saw the consequences of it in action and realized repealing woman's suffrage is a decent idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:21 PM
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I make too much money for Trump's stimulus check which is bullshit as at 120K a year I still feel poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:16 PM
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Propensity for criminal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:15 PM
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Then I wouldn't marry her, simple as. If she's not a good fuck she don't get the bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:50 AM
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I could easily gorge myself on sexual sadism, bondage, three ways, blood, etc. The depths of my depravity while not boundless are deep. If she's going to be my little bondage whore I don't care about her past, mine is far from virginal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:44 AM
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I don't really mind marrying a slut as long as she is a slut for me. And I have a huge appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:29 AM
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Fat, has kids, has a shitty family that she continues to associate with, any career in beauty industry, any career in a male field(trades, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:18 PM
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It helped any mid chick or better really, the extent their time is poor is due to inability to asses where they rank in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:28 PM
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Unless you're genetically deformed or have had an accident I doubt anyone cares that much, as long as you had a tight body and nice pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:27 PM
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Why do people pretend any of this matters? Just don't be fat. Get it through your heads, don't be fat!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:21 PM
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Honestly I don't care at all about love for marriage, that absolutely has to be a secondary factor. Shared life goals are what matters for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:59 PM
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This is simply not true, there are verifiable worse metrics in most ways if you take historical heterosexual relationships and life trajectory as the basis for what is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:58 PM
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I care about you not being obese, please get it through your skulls, just don't be obese. Literally nothing else matters but not being a goddamn whale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:41 PM
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Modern men and women expect 50/50 these days, if a grown women expects to be treated traditionally but won’t behave traditionally they’re a hypocrite and vice versa Have you seen the modern women's behavior when dating or in a relationship today? All around men exert immense effort for vastly lower quality interactions. If men approached dating like women do today the species will become extinct (and we are certainly on our way there already). Pursuing each other, keeping the romance alive and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:24 PM
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Yeah that's not dating, and even in the context of relationships men are usually the ones responsible for making money. It's kind of ridiculous women would even expect this stuff to continue as relationships will always cool off over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:56 PM
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women are still pursuing by giving gifts, initiating and planning things (dates, sex, etc) This isn't true and if it's a measure of if a woman actually likes the man they are with, very few women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:42 PM
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They not only do, You're delusional and speak as someone who hasn't actually been on a first date in many years lol. As a dude you're lucky if the girl even shows up half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:37 PM
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What are you blabbering on a about? You specifically said women exert significantly more effort prior to a date related to physical appearance for the date which is simply not true. Every single thing women do related to dating simply lower effort than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:01 PM
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Again a retarded comment, the physical effort put in was the same. As in they looked like any other woman in public. None of them went out of there way to meet me for the first time nor is there any expectation for it. You have created a strawman in your mind about what dates actually look like that doesn't reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:52 PM
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This is a nonsense comment, every woman I have ever gone on a first date with showed up in jeans and put in exactly the same effort as me in so far as physical presence. What she didn't do is pay, approach, plan, carefully think out every interaction to weigh the chance of success or not, flirt etc. It's exceedingly easy to date as a woman if you're not obese and even obese ones have dudes lining up, just bottom tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:38 PM
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What women want to date and what women can date are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:33 PM
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Though ultimately that status is defined by the most attractive men which they are deluding themselves into thinking they can get. The top percentage of men dictate all women's behavior, which is kind of funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:31 PM
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Why do you think love should be the driving force of marriage? Marriage is about accomplishing shared life goals and a commitment on the part of both parties towards this. As soon as it moved away from duty it was bound to collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:06 PM
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It's not a technically wrong statement, we make excellent, innovative products that destroy the competition. It's still cool as fuck, lots of anti patriotic subversive bitches around, we need to bring back imprisoning communists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:50 PM
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The one that gaslights you into doing the same thing over and over again and getting zero positive results.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:49 PM
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I have worked in defense contracting made some significant contributions. Women I date don't seem to ever be interested in my work, in fact it pisses a lot of them off. I don't understand why as I find what I do cool as fuck. Maybe even funner than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:30 PM
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Claim to be hungry Be offered objectively acceptable meal Respond by criticizing the meal in every way possible and equating it with gutter sludge Women's reality and objective reality are two different things and women's inability to evaluate things appropriately is how society got to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:10 PM
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Lol no, the basic problem is women have left reality in expectations and share no common vision for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:39 AM
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There's both a range of desire and a range of motivations the mitigate our acceptance of flaws in partners. Women's are simply no longer reasonably calibrated. Women's refusal to attempt to ground any discussion on some form of metric or analyze their own behavior is a reflection of their emotional composition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:38 AM
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Women don't care about any issue that requires them to give up a position of power. This is just factually correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:04 PM
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Beta buxxing is kind of dead, money is useful but not from the sense of being stable, but from the sense of crafting an exciting life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:57 AM
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My father was red pilled, he was a prick though who I never did anything with after my parents divorce but he absolutely gave honest advice the few times I talked to him about it..I just believed my mom(at first....)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:28 AM
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Absolutely not, my mom literally told me to become beta bux and women would be dying to get with a stable provider who didn't drink or use drugs and avoided risks. It's honestly shocking how horrendous her advice was in retrospect and it has massive long-term damage to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:27 AM
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Women want to take away male leverage and facilitate female leverage as it's in their biological interests to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:19 AM
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There's vastly more white women with black lives matter and immigrant rights shit listed on their profile than black women or Hispanic women. In fact I have never seen a black woman's dating profile with BLM listed at all, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:25 PM
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This comment is nonsense as it's conditioned on the idea women will at some point grow up, which is clearly not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:14 PM
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Of course they do. Because there are families. And because there are angry men who scream about "women settling" when they want to pump and dump them. I don't care about the settling thing(most sane people do) but to say women are rational in reproduction is divorced from reality, at least for anyone under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:25 PM
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A lot of women want family, kids etc. And their standards should reflect that, a man who will be good for those things Fuck no women do absolutely not select for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:21 PM
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Must be exciting, but responsible. Have money, but be carefree. Be smart on paper, but don't talk about it or display personality traits associated with it. Have a large social group, but make me your only priority. Respect me as equal, but act as my fallback option. Be attractive, but be willing to be in a relationship with me when you have more attractive options. Commit to me, but understand if I am ever unhappy I should be able to leave when ever I want. Vs mens expectations Don't be fat or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:17 PM
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I have zero compulsion to interact with women beyond sex and reproductive purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:06 AM
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Being fit and having moneys helps no matter what, being a "better person" does not. Women like to think their pussies are omnipotent evaluators of moral standing which is clearly not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:49 PM
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Never expect your relationship to last any particular duration and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:15 PM
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This is highly accurate, basically women are speed running towards a repeal of their voting rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:16 AM
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She didn't look nearly as fat in pictures, she also sent me some upper body photos showing her tits, I knew she wasn't in great shape but the level fatness wasn't clear until you saw her in person. I saw her Facebook and she was objectively pretty hot 5 years ago, it's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:43 AM
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If you have a stomach that sticks out as a chick you're going to get either bottom of the barrel trash or dudes with a fat fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:30 AM
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I went on another date with a girl, 5 years ago she was pretty hot but Jesus Christ she let herself get obese. How do women who used to do field totally implode? A chicks body is one of her most valuable assets, letting yourself fall apart like that pretty much destroys your chance of a high quality boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:17 AM
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I hate people who act retarded regardless of sex but women seem to lack an understanding that they are incentivising societal breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:16 PM
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lol what the fuck? No, not at all. Money is arguably the easiest thing to increase for people who are intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:49 AM
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Yeah the idea I'm going to invest money or be Ok with the woman I'm with investing time into a kid that isn't my is insane. Like women are fucking delusional lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:39 AM
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This is b8.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:37 AM
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It's easier for women to replace existing relationships, all around there is less risk for women and more risk for men in terms of investing in any particular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:34 AM
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The basic question you're asking is did society prevent women from being retarded as it's their natural state of existence. And yeah I think the answer is clearly a yes given not just women's retarded choices in sex, but politics and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:03 PM
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Let's not fucking confuse this bro, there's plenty of dudes making 200K a year who are the same ethnicity and women still don't like because they don't illicit the emotional response women chase today. It has nothing to do with mate value in the context of actually mating and everything to do with satisfying women's dopamine addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:38 PM
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It's not ignorance, they simply don't care and will say what ever makes their sex look good. Women totally a lack the ability to look at things objectively or reflect on how they actually make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:57 PM
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Yeah I think this is highly accurate description of what went on. There's definitely something very mentally broken on this topic in my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:22 AM
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Aberrant social behavior women absolutely love but there is a looks threshold needed to be able to enter that realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:42 PM
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The comment applies to women in general, my mother being a specific of instance of it. I think both my parents were pretty terrible in some fundamental ways, I'm not sure what's worse, giving no advice or giving actively damaging advice but neither were good. Women on this sub certainly like to continue the tradition, which is why I simply ignore anything women have to say - because it rarely reflects reality or lead to anything positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:20 PM
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In the context of her? She's simply bemoaning her own choices and failing to reflect on why she got with my father to begin with(who was absolutely not stable provider lol). This is fairly typical of women though. Incredibly poor analysis on why they got with a man or the steps he took to get with them and instead regurgitating platitudes that make them feel good(and post divorce often related to traits they wish that had selected for). Women do it in this sub all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:16 PM
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Hun my life has since improved 😘.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:40 PM
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Yeah she said being a stable provider was attractive to women(lol). It's funny too as in retrospect her own life choices were opposite of that. The issue is women are disconnected from reality, I swear most are completely incapable of looking at anything without attaching their current moral feelings to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:39 PM
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If I'm going to fundamentally change myself to screw a mid ass 30 year old you bet I'm going to squeeze everything I can out of her. I agree bitching in of itself does nothing but once you realize life is a game and other people are the competition you act differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:34 AM
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For me at least, my mom always said all I needed to do was be successful academically and I shouldn't worry about anything else. Arguably the worst advice a parent can give their kid on these issues, it's actually kind of laughably absurd. So I did everything I was told to do and zero positive outcome. Then I changed my approach, my presentation and who I was sufficiently to get dates but it's certainly more difficult later in life. Women, particularly mothers who don't live in reality definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:21 AM
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Because there is an extremely high probability you have vastly inflated sense of self worth. I have seen obese women utter these exact words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:56 AM
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Not stability or reliability, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:33 AM
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So basically any vaguely attractive woman on a dating site is fucked up? As I have seen moderately attractive bitches for literally years on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:00 AM
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I regret not prioritizing what women actually value earlier, I didn't really care if the woman I dated had sex before, I only cared if I got what I wanted, including the sex I wanted. I suppose I regret not being able to experience relationships in a lower stress environment as when people get older literally everything is more difficult and the amount of human trash in the dating pool rises.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:58 AM
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"I will commit to you until I get tired of you, then I will stop the commitment" It's meaningless now and everyone knows it, the end of at fault divorce ended marriage as an institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:15 AM
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If there is not objective rules for commitment nothing matters, which is why no-fault divorce basically ended the legitimacy of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:08 AM
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The funny thing is most women have to do only one thing and that's not be fat, they will lie, argue and scream about it but for 99% of them they simply need to stop stuffing their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:39 PM
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I have had the opportunity to work on critical systems that span the DoD and DoE, my impact is literally felt across the continent. 95% of the women I interact with are below me in most ways, as soon as I realized that their only significant quality is having a body I want to screw it redefined the social dynamic. I still don't randomly ask women on dates and I date purely online but I'm pretty direct about what I want, doesn't always work but works better than the horseshit women talk about her…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:05 PM
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I don't really care about or feel anything so this is purely performative on my part, but yes engaging in activities your peer group does is useful for creating opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:42 AM
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They are right in questioning the longevity and motivation behind any relationship they are in. Don't invest your life in a woman, worst mistake a guy can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:42 AM
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Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and the marriage rate is going down, there is zero reason for men to have faith in the longevity of their relationship regardless of what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:30 AM
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Why? If they have adequate provisions and are given what they need to exceed over others then that seems like a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:27 AM
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OP is 100% correct, the single most effective way to date is dating apps, no questions asked. Short of that you're stuck with cold approaching random women or spending years building a fake in person persona in hopes you can simultaneously ask a woman out who you're ina group with and not wreck the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:19 AM
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Yes, if your goal is a successful legacy love isnt particularly important.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:10 AM
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Yeah my life improved once I started taking risks, escalated sexually and stopped giving a fuck. Women do not respond to the shit they say they do and for some reason the women here would rather die than admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:10 AM
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The dude is 20 years old and clearly living off his parents money. It's kind of laughable he's arguing anything, my prediction is in 10 years he's going to be in an ethnic minority masculinity sub as shit starts to hit the fan later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:58 AM
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Personally my mother always said just focus on university and women will be excited to marry and have kids with a stable economically successful provider. She also railed on against any type of risk taking behavior, alcohol, drugs etc. I never had a compulsion to interact with people outside of getting what I wanted so I took what she said at face value and followed her ideas. Obviously it led to a horrible outcome 😂 and I had to spend a significant amount of time fixing all the problems related…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:56 AM
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Why do women immediately say your personality is at fault then? Lol. Don't bullshit about this, society absolutely operates on a lot of unspoken rules that directly contradict what is publicly said, worse yet parents can do a terrible job and amplify the lie instead of privately addressing the truth. That said, women's hypergamy has scaled exponentially and is significantly worse than it was 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:56 AM
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It's a thing but it's an incredibly stupid metric women have and doesn't translate into much when weighed against the multitude of other traits when can consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:34 PM
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I watched over the years a woman on a dating app do this(she is still looking post kid too). I agree the women are clearly insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:33 PM
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I don't agree as the differences are beyond economic. Women's behavior and goals are shaped by the broader culture they are in, a woman raised in a different country will behave differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:41 PM
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Women are women no matter where in the world the they are. We both know that is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:26 PM
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When I was young my mom said all the bullshit women say here about just get a good job, be a reliable stable partner and be yourself. It was a pretty terrible experience. Pickup artist stuff is probably worthless but the core RP ideas are 100% correct on what women find attractive and most of all being yourself is a terrible fucking idea if yourself isn't attractive. Western society has further amplified women's shitty behavior too though at an individual level this is just something you accept,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:21 PM
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Bro you literally passported, I said this before but your own actions contradict a lot of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:43 PM
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Dumb as fuck idea said for women's benefit, not mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:40 PM
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This should be stickied, the only reason it's not is the sub likes to cater to women's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:46 AM
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Yeah, though the key is don't fucking tell the women you're dating. It's crazy here dudes are asking women for permission to do things, lie. Lie your ass off about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:42 AM
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Average women were presumably having non-monogamous casual sex with hot men in the late 60s and throughout the 70s, I don't think so and the idea that they could reasonably expect to get exactly what they wanted in a partner wasn't normalized yet. It's undeniably true women's egos and self metrics have been vastly inflated over the past 20 years due to a mix of casual sex and feminism, breaking their ability to honestly self evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:33 PM
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Yes this is a very obvious reality that many women(apparently) have a problem being conscious of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:24 AM
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Life a series of settling for the good enough after you realize your initial goals were not tractable, and this includes your love/sex life. Most people start out high and continually lower their standards until they can achieve them or they are left forever searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:23 AM
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For one thing their delusion calculator is way out of alignment to the point that they think they can get an exclusive long term partner that's significantly above them if they try long enough. Lack of enforced monogamy naturally leads to this dysfunction(even Peterson who's pretty mild by RP standards states this obvious result).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:10 AM
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Yes, they actually do. If a woman believes she can date a celebrity she will wait until she gets one, even most delusional women acknowledge that probably won't happen so they don't. But there is always an implicit calculation happening when presented with a possible partner as to how easily they can find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:05 AM
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Which is why an equal number of women are lining up to date the fat minimum wage guy right? Women think like this even more so lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:07 AM
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This isn't right, there is "excited to fuck", "fucking will be enjoyable", "I'm ok with fucking", "Id rather not fuck" and "absolutely would not". Most men fall into the middle but women have gotten used to eating cake and thinking it wouldn't make them fat(so to speak) so it has screwed up their perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:44 AM
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Dating is a game though and both women and men implicitly understand they are competing for the highest quality partner they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:29 PM
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It's an objective metric because nobody can lie about it and it measures the rate of exclusive 1 to 1 pairings, it's also the normal trajectory for people confident in the longevity of their relationship. If people don't have kids society ceases to exist so that's another obvious measure of failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:19 PM
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You would need to show that things change at a "speed". You just assume they do, because that is how it feels to you? Sorry, this is a lot weeker base to base a worldview on that 5 year old studies. Yearly marriage and birth rates are consistently declining, the single objective assessment on the health of a societies dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:34 PM
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Please, enlighten me to how things changed regarding height and sex partner counts in men. i would LOVE to have new data on that to throw away my current beliefs that are built on data that is as up to date as i could find. There isn't any afaik, but citing 10 or even 5 year old studies to asses current conditions isn't reasonable given the speed at which things are changing(and changing in only one way).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:04 PM
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Literally nobody thinks about statistics when dating.. And who gives a eff about hair color?? Lol what, every rational person makes a calculation on if they can get someone better or not. The problem is women are out of reality in assessing what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:44 AM
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A large percentage of women are going to die without ever having achieved their basic biological function which is to have and raise kids. This is the definition of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:35 AM
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Statistics generated from the past aren't relevant in evaluating current social conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:31 AM
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The only way dating apps could be improved is if number of current matches is shown for each person, this would maybe regulate female delusion a bit since they are often far more out of reality. Ultimately women's behavior on apps isn't much different than real life so removing them wouldn't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:22 AM
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Ask a man a simple question, if given everything else the same, would he rather have the woman he is marrying have a kid or not? And if hooked up to a lie detector literally every single one of them is going to say they wish she didn't have genetic baggage. Those with options or who have self respect don't marry single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:59 PM
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exclusivity but yeah pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:30 PM
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Pretty much every chick is into being handcuffed and spanked, most probably won't be into more extreme S&M though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:12 PM
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I'm sure you have tons of practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:49 PM
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I was in Minneapolis for a while and stupid white liberal women are plentiful in every large city. The basic theme is that normal white women get married by 25 and the remaining ones are fucked up, the PNW does have a huge number of fucked up ones though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:34 PM
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Entirely dependent upon how good you look. /Thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:34 PM
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Tacoma isn't too bad, but yeah a starter house will be around 600k. Seattle's biggest problem is that it's really gay and liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:33 PM
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Being a genetic dead end is nothing to feel happy about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:25 PM
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If you have the money and the time I don't care beyond viewing you as an idiot, more so for women as watching a 40 year old larp as a raver girl is cringe as fuck. Tons of these people also expect money from others and various forms of government support. Make retarded financial decisions and suffer the consequences on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:04 PM
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How dare people have fun social lives with their friends and dates in their 30's. The horror. Pretending you're a 20 year old and failing to progress in life is absolutely dysfunctional and its normalization has had huge consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:55 PM
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I work more instead of spending time pretending I give a shit about any of those things. It's a much more useful allocation of time. You did highlight something important though, tons of 30 year old women are simply not growing up. It should be embarrassing at this point for them to put on rave skirts and take drugs but they are perpetually stuck reliving their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:33 PM
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The best approach to life as a man is never invest that much into a relationship. Ultimately your goal is to make money and fuck bitches, if a woman does a good enough job submitting to you then you can consider changing something for her. This bizarre "true love" shit I see men beg for is both feminine and probably a result of being raised by a mentally ill single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:07 PM
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Sex, money and power are linked and have always been, changing one impacts the other to make things favorable or unfavorable to a particular group. Anyway men are broadly better than women in most high income areas and the presence of women and certain minorities is largely a result of DEI policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:01 PM
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You have no point, you made up some drivel about men not being social at work but ignore that this is entirely the result of women complaining about it. In fact pretty much every single idea woman have promoted is to limit their social interactions with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:45 PM
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There isn't. Hop on OLD and you will have an army of dudes ready to try dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:35 PM
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This is a retarded statement, women were the primary advocates of the HR department and the rule of never asking women out at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:47 PM
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I have said it before and I will say it again, this issue is entirely from the fact women have been able to outsource their needs to the government. Western women take for granted pretty much every aspect of their lives instead of understanding it's entirely a construction of people in the past adhering to a social contract that they now reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:44 PM
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There are two paths, one is becoming a single mother and the other is to be pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:34 PM
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I have said this many times and will say it again, for most women the solution is simply not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:19 PM
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What really torpedos a woman's value is being a single mother, there are hot 30 year olds(though it's getting dangerously at the cut off) but the minute a woman ends up as a single mother literally no self respecting man is going to ever seriously date her. Either way everything men achieve is through personal effort, something women will never be held to the standard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:15 PM
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Out of the last few people in my friend group to meet someone and date they met at a Burn event, a writing group, a build event for makers, a drama workshop and a running group. All in that last 1.5 years. Lmfao just do a bunch of gay hobbies you have no interest in in a desperate attempt to attract a mid chick who you don't like in order to fuck her for a couple months. OLD leads to the same result but much more effectively and with less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:50 PM
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This is objectively not average and not reflective of either the general population or even the population within the metro you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:53 PM
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If you're a single woman over 30 you're single because you failed to have reasonable expectations. With OLD there is zero external reason for any woman to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:55 PM
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Statistically the only thing dying off is liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:44 PM
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Your basically saying single 30+ women are leftover garbage and tbh you're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:13 PM
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So you're coming from an upper middle class to affluent family with high education making an assertion on "average", when likely your entire social circle is completely disconnected from it. Your post is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:04 PM
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My dad’s life is pretty boring, he’s your average upper middle class Singaporean engineer. He still had a great career and he’s had a stale family since he was in his early 30s. That’s something worth trying. That is by definition not average lmfao and it sounds like you're not even in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:54 AM
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Your average man has a solid social circle, does something worth trying in life Lol this is objectively not true and will continue to get less so as time goes by. The median male salary for 30-40 years old is 60K and works a mundane job. This weird as fuck idea that most men have exciting lives is simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:45 AM
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Most women are also working to make the world function I'd say that's definitely not true based upon pretty much every statistic. If women stopped working it would probably be a net benefit for western society, if men stopped working literally everything fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:19 AM
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We all know women are breaking down Taos door to fuck him right? Women want someone not just better than them but better in the right way. And 99% of women have zero appreciation for what goes into making the world function, they simply exist as an end product user.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:37 AM
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It's literally "don't be fat" short of a freak accident or genetic problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:39 PM
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If a woman can't be successful online which is incredibly favorable to women, she sure as hell is going to bottom of the barrel in any in person event.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:37 PM
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Women don't get to arbitrarily say they are 'bad options' without specifying in some quantitative way what is wrong. It's very obvious if they tried they would fail to sound remotely reasonable (and such an experiment has been done many times).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:01 PM
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Most women aren’t able to find compatible men despite the attention they receive and become miserable. This is nonsense, the only reason women aren't happy is because they become addicted to using them like slot machines instead of choosing one of the many men on their same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:18 PM
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I make a significant amount of money, obviously I want more but top 10% of US earners. I don't have a problem with taxes theoretically which are used in a way to restore western society, unfortunately most tax money goes to facilitating damaging ideologies and behaviors. Ultimately on a level playing field most of these ideas fail on their own so simply not funding them is enough to fix the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:19 AM
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You create conditions that disadvantage men and are shocked that they are creating a unified force against you, Picachu face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:02 PM
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Watch an ugly dude cold approach a hot chick and watch women's opinion on leagues not existing change real fast lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:49 AM
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No, I work in STEM with a lot of extremely intelligent people and our drive is to dominate. The ego and pursuit of power is the single greatest motivation that drives the top people in any field. Those who say otherwise are lieing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:34 AM
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Me wanting to stick my cock in a chick has nothing to do with wanting to be her friend, and women wanting a cock in them has nothing to do with wanting you to be their friend. This idea is bizarre but it's convenient for Reddit women to gaslight dudes who still give a shit about what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:49 AM
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If you're a single mother with a toddler you fucked up, it's one thing to end in divorce after 20 years as things can go poorly over time, it's another thing when you chose someone who failed to ever be consistent. That's literally on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:03 AM
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I'm not talking about autistics lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:27 AM
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Women without common goals are destined to end relationships, even perfectly good ones as they crave novelty. Compulsive traveling is something displayed by many of them as an example. I think a woman who wants to create a successful family and legacy will continue in a relationship if I uphold my responsibilities and that is as much as one can ask for I think. I don't expect to stay "in love" but that isn't needed and seeking it out is destined to create unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:46 AM
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I'm fine paying if I get something meaningful out of it, I have had women I'm not even fucking ask lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:40 PM
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The easier something was to get the less you care about it(in general). It's the same reason a celebrities are massive pricks, because the women they date are less valuable and easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:39 PM
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They haven't been gayed up, such an approach is the correct one though this post shows how damaging womens perception of reality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:37 PM
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The restoration of 60s America. It's simply too risky to have kids or marry given the current social conditions, assuming you even find someone who you date long enough to do that with. Government taking from the productive to give to the unproductive has facilitated poor decision making which needs to be rectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:10 PM
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This is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:04 PM
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It's one thing to pay a whore to fuck you(though questionable for your own health), it's a completely separate thing to pay women on the Internet to pay attention to you. The technical benefit of a whore is you don't have to invest any time into them, it's sex on demand. Dudes paying for validation from women on streaming websites are a sad bunch and obviously have mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:11 PM
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There is a near guarantee that the person incapable of holding a steady career, achieving economic prosperity and who engages in low inhibition, impulsive behavior will be a poor choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:11 AM
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I'd argue most women don't understand what intelligence is period and they certainly aren't attracted to it, emotional or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:13 AM
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it’s because women don’t need men to provide anymore, women can provide themselves and don’t need men for basic survival at this stage. Via surrogates where government replaced husbands. Men are still needed, just indirectly. The primary problem with women is due this disconnect, they only see the finished product not what actually goes into making it. The single most effective way to restore society to normalcy is completely removed government support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:28 AM
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I'm tired of those who don't contribute taking from those who do. Restoration of natural order is a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:16 PM
2

You would never know, your next husband might have plowed with the entire South east Asian region and you couldn't ever check.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:09 PM
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Id lie about anything that didn't have an impact and wasn't readily externally verifiable. Women love to say they don't owe men anything, men should have returned the favor long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:06 PM
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'Incompatible' is a meaningless term in this context. I will do what ever is in my own interests as will women, OP should approach this the same way instead of begging for approval lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:46 PM
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I care about not getting an incurable STI and that I get my fill of the sex I like. I don't really care who she fucked before as long as I can do what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:42 PM
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In aggregate, being a bitch who doesnt understand contribution or impact. In general women are less intelligent and take for granted a life they were given and failed to ever meaningfully build.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:40 PM
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lmfao who's stupid enough to tell a woman about it? Its simple, lie. In fact men should probably lie about literally everything at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:36 PM
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No, it's just a subset of women trying to maintain control of the market. The only real issue is getting an incurable STI, high probability she has HSV2 so there's definitely a nontrivial chance you could get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:01 PM
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How hot the person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:33 PM
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Any woman who I think is expensive I pass on and while I don't make as much as a doctor I make more than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:56 PM
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are perfectly content with subsisting on the bare minimum to survive How I know you haven't actually ever dated a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:54 PM
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I work in tech and for what it's worth, many of us hate your guts. I suppose you could throw the "loser" insult still but, if someone makes more money and has greater impact the rest is pretty immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:31 AM
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The dudes I know are below average or completely at the bottom of all of most items. You literally described average men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:24 AM
2

Women will take as much as they can, until they are prevented from taking more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:24 AM
1

It's the same reason Pelosi built a 8 ft fence around her house while trying to stop Trump. Because the garbage that gets said publicly isn't actually how successful operate in private. People who live at higher tiers of society believe in legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:17 PM
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I have more extreme kinks than most women though the women I have dated usually end up at about the same level. If she will be my little bondage slut and humor all of my fantasies I don't care. If she won't I won't consider her for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:29 AM
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Nonsense, more under 30 males are right wing and reject feminism than ever before. The restoration of western society and enforcement of ideals associated with it is fundamentally a red pill idea. Personally I stopped caring at all about women and view many as just another subversive force that will need to be fixed along with removing the communist garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:28 PM
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"Would go to therapy if they ever needed it, which they don't" is what they actually mean. 99% of the shit women say they don't actually mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:16 PM
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The main problem with whores, paid or free is STI issues. As soon as a cure for genital herpes is developed it opens lots of opportunities. I personally have declined sex with women on the first date(I have tied them up though and done other stuff) because ultimately while fucking fun, having a recurring cock blister isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:38 PM
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Any non-fat woman without a fucked up face is sufficient for sexual enjoyment and every man will put up with a nontrivial amount of shit from one to have sex with her. The amusing thing is many women still can't manage the not being fat standard and dudes will still pork obese ones though probably are less willing to be seen in public with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:08 AM
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In a sense this doesn't matter, women will scream and fight for their ability to destroy the society they are living in regardless of what approach you use to fix it. There's a reason functional societies have a track record of limiting women's behavior and becoming terminally ill when they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:25 PM
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You don’t get to 6 figures without a mentor. It's called being competent at your job, which I am. It's actually astonishing the amount of human garbage I routinely wade through but that's another topic. Only advice I ever got was from my mom who frankly is a nice woman but kind of an idiot when it comes to being successful, fortunately I fixed it and a core part of that is understanding how women actually operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:44 PM
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his mentors, co workers, other dudes on the way up What? No, I don't talk about dating with coworkers, and I never had a "mentor". I agree parasitic friends need to be removed too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:47 PM
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I pull over 125k which is well above average, I have also wasted an excessive amount dating and have had women literally tell me they want me to buy shit for them straight to my face. A lot of women are essentially parasitic, they offer their (moderately attractive at best) bodies and expect you to be their source of everything in exchange, from money to entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:00 PM
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Women exert less effort for the same reward and demand more from a man that's her equal. I have yet to see a woman sincerely offer or want to pay half for dates or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:12 PM
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Whores or legal prostitutes. I agree the PNW has an overwhelming amount of human garbage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:56 PM
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No, mens standards is literally don't be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:34 PM
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There's enough single mothers on OLD who are desperate to beta bux that they easily validate OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:54 AM
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Whyte men who aren't sexually dysfunctional voting Democrat is probably the most retarded thing I have seen in recent times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:30 PM
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They are dressing for men, the reason they do it among other women is an attempt to place themselves at a higher pecking order as the most attractive woman almost always ranks higher among her peers. Anyone denying this is lying. So even when no men are around women base their lives around men, like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:02 PM
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If she is my good little submissive slut, sure. But I'm not exerting much effort for a post waller.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:07 PM
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It's quite, there's a ton of hot single mothers hoping to beta bux off a dude. I never dated one and never will but it's very obvious the life trajectory these women took.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:16 PM
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Doing what and where? OLD is literally the most effective place to find women who actively want someone. Friend groups and hobbies are a no go for a variety of reasons, cold approaching random women had never worked(for me anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:48 PM
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I don't agree, men have always been the ones who do the most. Subtract women from the work force and you get a better society, subtract men and society ceases to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:29 PM
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Hilarious you think DEI would ever be used to help heterosexual white men, apparently you're unable to understand the entire reason it existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:04 PM
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Yes, women as a whole have lower expectations placed on them and do less valuable jobs(valuable in a societal context).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:45 PM
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Being the DEI HR bitch isn't a contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:43 PM
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Yes, the bar is literally "don't be fat".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:24 PM
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It's quite a bit worse than that for women, most also don't actually contribute anything meaningful to society. So they both fail at relationships(which is hilariously easy to be successful in as a woman) and fail at having any type of meaningful impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:21 PM
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This is factually not true, they simply don't care. The only men who will end things with a hot chick are ones who can easily get another.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:57 AM
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"And it's not true that most men are happy/happy enough with pretty much any woman so long as she's fit." I'ma say you're wrong there. Men will eat loads of shit for a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:05 AM
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That's purely an issue with you, not men, you don't want to date them - that is your choice. You are choosing to reject the wide array of options available.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:46 AM
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Men literally don't care. Have a tight body and men will lick your shit off the ground regardless of your personality. 99% of the problems women here have would be solved by not being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:27 AM
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Lol what a bunch of horse shit, the only thing women actually have to do is not be fat. A ton of them still fail at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:00 AM
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Id argue it's bigger than this, women no longer value contribution. Historically your worth and thus attraction was tied to your impact on society, today is a reality where women can disassociate contribution from worth/attraction. This necessarily impacts the ability of "weird" men to be successful because women aren't forced to consider their other contributions in evaluating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:30 AM
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Multiple women are still competing for the same man on dating apps(the top). Women are basically allergic to honestly evaluating where they rank in society which is why they continue to play Chad Lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:13 PM
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None of the women I have ever met in person behave differently, it's even worse actually since often they are already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:06 AM
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If you love to waste time interacting with random women in hopes they are single be my guest. Dating apps are the single most effective way to meet women who are looking for a man. Many of the bitches are delusional sure but it's still vastly more efficient than what you're suggesting. I'd much rather be making more money than sifting through equally terrible women in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:36 AM
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I have only ever met woman online, in fact it's literally the only place to meet women. I have had sex with 6 which is a decent number really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:28 AM
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Sluts are less economically productive prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:58 PM
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I can't comment on game or the other shit but some core red pill ideas are unambiguously correct. In "sexually liberated" society morality/contribution and sexual success are at best independent or arguably inversely related. Enjoying the decline and not investing too much in any woman is the only rational behavior given current culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:18 PM
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A lot of women are basically lemmings without any firm beliefs in anything. If culture told women to shut up and have kids they would. Which is why it's important to understand the attack on western society was top down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:25 AM
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Given the advice women here give their kids are 100% going to be cels and probably end up hating them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:11 AM
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I don't care to, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:49 AM
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You never seen women be forced into a situation of finite resources lol. Women can pretend to be peaceful because men literally do their dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:43 AM
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They aren't, which is a key point to understanding the broader social effects of individual decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:32 PM
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Society is ultimately built via collective effort, while in the immediate she can continue to take advantage of the effort of people who built society in the past, this mentality is not sustainable at a mass scale if she cares about descendants. I generally agree that single people without children need to be heavily taxed/shunned as they have no real investment in societies long-term outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:07 PM
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Given the collapse in birth rates and general rise in people being single, I'd argue dating apps are far closer to reality than not. Obviously we will see how it plays out but arguing things are normal is living in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:54 AM
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There's two underlying options here, either you're implicitly saying your own attractiveness is sub par or you're saying the women in your home country who would normally be your match have unreasonable expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:49 AM
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The point I'm trying to make is that your inability to attract a comparable woman to yourself in your home country is a tact admission of fundamental dysfunction in dating. You're saying everything is normal while your own behavior doesn't reflect this. Not that I blame you, I'm simply pointing out your own actions reflect an acknowledgement of dysfunction even if you don't consciously acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:38 AM
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Women are highly motivated to connect morality with sexual success for multiple reasons. It implies men they don't want to have sex with are bad and should be socially discredited. Effectively trying to reduce their social standing is an attempt to preempt complaints. If they can convince everyone the men are bad, this justified their decisions. It elevates the morality of the men they have sex with, again attempting to validate their decisions. As soon as you assert morality and sexual attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:18 AM
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When good doesn't perform better than bad, good will cease to exist. This is the nature of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:13 AM
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But the core issue, which is that a sufficiently good option is not available to the point you have to go to a foreign country basically says you're either a bad partner yourself(as the women here love to claim) or that your ideas don't jive with your own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:25 PM
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I'm not sure why this isn't stickied, pretty much ends any and all of the retarded arguments women make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:57 PM
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Real life is very much like dating apps today. Also you ended up needing to passport bro, doesn't this kind invalidate a lot of the ideas you promote? Obviously things are vastly easier in a foreign country due to how women value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:50 PM
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A lot of men no matter what will end up with terrible partners as the number of attractive women with suitable personalities and desires for a long-term relationship are few and mostly taken by 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:00 AM
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That's circular logic and amounts to arguing you can't say anything about how dysfunctional dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:41 PM
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Jesus watching this tranny shit unfold it's even more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:12 AM
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I'ma stop you right there, everyone and I do mean everyone knows women are incredibly picky when it comes to online dating and yes, there is a small subset of men most women are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:17 AM
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Aptly applies to many progressive arguments heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:37 PM
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Generally social change comes from first recognizing there is a problem so it's a natural first step. That said I agree it's a waste of time, better off advancing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:44 PM
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Calling obese women beautiful is basically a con by women who are a reasonable body weight to reduce competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:37 PM
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We all know Terence Tao is dropping panties left and right, 😂. 99% of the shit women say about dating needs to immediately be put in the garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:33 PM
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Plenty of women are absolutely into submitting lol. The craziest BDSM sex I have had was with a career woman who ran off the don't need to man shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:04 AM
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Yes this is exceedingly obvious, women will gas light you about all sorts of shit but at the end of the day the reason is simple, it benefits them due to them having higher social value while lower economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:47 PM
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In todays society, she's not yours, it's just your turn. Nothing else summarizes modern relationships more succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:02 PM
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There's a handful of things most people will ever do in their life, women prioritizing one will lead to diminished performance in another. Need to decide if having a PhD is more important than continued existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:50 PM
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It's true men will tolerate more shit from women they are attracted too, but that basically means don't be fat or hideously deformed. Every chick in the world would be smart to get on Ozempic right now as it would solve the femcels dating problems in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:11 PM
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Broski, dating has definitely changed. I never said I wasn't at least somewhat successful, only that it is significantly more difficult and the declining marriage/fertility shows this. That said if you believe this is an unreasonable standard I don't know what to say. "24-33yo woman who (dealbreakers) has no tattoos, doesn't drink or vape, is active and a healthy weight, and doesn't have kids. " I'm ok with tattoos though, a couple of my ex's had them and we did some insane shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:17 PM
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You either believe in genetic continuation or you don't, as a basic life goal. This isn't a psyops, it's like what defines if you are a successful organism or not. This isn't even factoring in the economic aspect of it which is currently planned on being propped up by bringing in third world immigrants to replace your current population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:39 PM
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Online and online dating are interchangeable, social media isn't any less competitive and the evaluation process is the same. You can continue to believe everything is fine and normal with relationships while your population demographically implodes but many see the later as a problem and caused by the former. Once it becomes a big enough problem broader social changes will take place but until then best a man can do is enjoy the decline, to what extent he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:28 PM
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In terms of where people meet? https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1908630116 This is the only peer reviewed paper and even then I'd argue people are biased against saying online dating. The rest of your post is pretty nonsensical, either women are marrying and having kids at the same rate or they aren't and the answer is, they aren't. This isn't a survey question this is data compiled from tax information/birth records.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:44 AM
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Women don't particularly want relationships with the people they would have historically paired with, which is the point. All of these numbers are mostly irrelevant since how people answer survey questions about their relationship status isn't something to be trusted. What matters is 1. Marriage rate and 2. Fertility rate. And both are going steadily down in western countries. Beta buxxing use to be a pretty standard life path for the majority of men: become stable, get a decent paying job and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:57 AM
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Society has broadly shifted to OLD being a primary way people meet, denying this is denying reality. Add social media and OLD together and you get the majority of it. While dating isn't possible, the standards for men are far higher than the past and success basically hinges on your ability to fit into a particular archetype that fewer and fewer men can fit into. Which is why you will continue to see a decline in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:14 AM
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