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I'm convinced that the most ardent posters in this subreddit are 14 or under.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:34 PM
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If your goal is to have less children, the solution is birth control. Abstinence training does not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:29 PM
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If you define "dating up" as "only what I think matters" then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:07 PM
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If you want to change your personality then you need to change what you focus on and do every day. If you want to be charismatic then find someone charismatic and start by copying one thing about them. If you just want to be more confident, get good at something. Learn a dance, play an instrument, pursue a hobby. If you lack humor then take an improv class. Find funny people and pay attention to what makes people laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:19 AM
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I would hope it goes like how I found my husband. We became friendly at work and then starting fucking and eventually became more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:11 AM
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"was" frequent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:03 PM
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If you're fairly smart, that means you're open to new ideas. Women are humans, which means each one likes different things. You can't understand them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:55 PM
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There is no objective "up".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:45 PM
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If someone's "desirableness" is important to someone, that's part of being compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:42 PM
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Both ugly men and ugly women are much easier to find outside than attractive ones. It's like 10 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:35 PM
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People should seek someone mutually compatible, yes. A healthy relationship is a team/partnership where both people feel the relationship makes their life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:30 PM
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Ugly women aren't all the same though. They're humans with a lot of variety, just like ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:17 PM
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That's why they say wait to have sex until the 3rd date. People can pretend for a while but it's hard to pretend 3 different times without cracks showing. Also why work, volunteering, and classes can be great ways to meet people. You get to see them multiple times first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:37 PM
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If I like what they bring to the table, and they like what I bring, we're both dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:31 PM
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Women say that they're fine and perfect and completely uninfluenced by social media Literally no one says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:26 PM
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It sounds like you're saying that poorly-adjusted and unattractive women should be seeking poorly-adjusted and unattractive men. But logically, the opposite makes way more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:21 PM
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In the US, it seems like sometime between 2nd and 5th grade, boys stop being able to put their arms around each other's shoulders or be physically close without it being "gay".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:14 PM
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Well yes, if someone is willing to do literally nothing at all to connect with any woman, they're probably not going to have much success. It's asking too much to expect women to just start showing up at their house unannounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:12 PM
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I don't have an issue with porn, including amateur or professional or "bad" porn or whatever, for consenting adults. I was just saying it sucks that kid's only exposure is watching adult porn, which is made for adults, and not a great representation in general of what sex is like. Though amateur porn is often a lot closer, and drawn/animated porn definitely seems way more suitable for young people than watching adults doing some brutal body-harming sex or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:43 AM
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That's not what I"m talking about. And I feel like you're not reading what I'm saying. I'm saying this: if someone is too impaired to consent, it's gross to have sex with them anyway. If two people are two fucked up to know what's happening, that's not that. If two people are tipsy, it's not that. I'm talking about you, as an individual, if you're going to have sex with someone, and you think, "Hmmm, I'm not sure this person can consent to have sex because they're so impaired" then don't have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:37 AM
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Absolutely we need more sex ed, and more informative sex ed, and more often. Like kids should be getting it at least 3 or 4 times, based on their current age, and for the older kids in high school, they should also be doing things like talking about healthy sex and masterbation and stuff like that. And also it would be nice if we weren't so puritanical about sex in general, where people can't talk about it publicly. Not all countries are like that. Our culture also is somehow full of pedos yet w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:35 AM
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Having drinks and being too impaired to consent are not the same thing. I am all for having drinks, partying, hooking up, etc. But if someone is too impaired to consent, it's gross to have sex with them anyway. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:01 PM
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I think the problem isn't really adults watching porn, but in our puritan culture where a teen's only form of sexual knowledge is sex ed and porn. It gives everyone unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:22 PM
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I'm totally against anti-porn laws that affect consenting adults from filming sex and legally sharing/selling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:17 PM
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Puritan BS is saying young people shouldn't have sex before marriage. Choosing not to have sex with someone who can't consent is being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:07 PM
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I once had a coworker I didn't realize was interested. But admittedly, I was in a relationship and therefore not interested in them at all. I think that kept me from "seeing it" since they knew I had a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:40 AM
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Talk to lots of different people in different situations, and see who responds positively. But for sure, bad character and/or a negative attitude definitely reduces your 'league'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:35 AM
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Why care if red pill men believe women? Your energy is better spent trying to understand someone who actually views you as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:22 AM
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The problem is women need to stop trying to understand gross attitudes and just stop dating men like that. There are too many good men, and too many fun hobbies, to spend so much time on people who refuse to see us as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:15 AM
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When someone tells you "I'm a loyal person," be alarmed they think that's worth bragging about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:01 AM
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Just curious, why did you stop dating religious girls? It sounds like you found your demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:55 AM
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Just curious, what's your idea of an approach that works, but only men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:34 AM
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Funny, I was just thinking the same thing. With oldschool RP guys at least tried to help each other be better, work on themselves, gain more confidence. Now the movement feels like guys are trying to pull each other down into a pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:32 AM
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Everyone has some kind of privilege, but that doesn't mean things are fair. I personally would rather have male privileges. Many men here seem like they'd rather have female privileges. In general, it seems like few men want women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:18 AM
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There's partying and having fun, and there's sleeping with impaired people you don't know. One is normal, one is gross and rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:24 AM
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I don't think many career driven women ask for that. They typically want the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:08 AM
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It's gross to sleep with impaired people you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:44 AM
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We tell men all the time to just find someone else. No, women mostly say "leave me alone". It's men that tell women who they should be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:33 AM
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So if neither the title nor "the point of this post" is actually what you were asking, what are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:22 AM
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The point of this post is to point out that going ugly doesn't save you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:08 AM
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The problem is that's not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:07 AM
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Men's support for feminism has always been conditional. As proven by this "argument that often comes up in discussions" you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:54 AM
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Hostility isn’t the same as violence, but hostile men are more likely to be violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:11 AM
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Red Pill absolutely normalizes hostility toward women. That's an intrinsic feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:04 AM
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It’s not up to women to incentivize men to treat them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:51 AM
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Just curious, why did you say "necessarily"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:34 AM
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Money and friends vs "love of my life" and stuck at home. 100% would choose money and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:51 AM
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History doesn't agree. When women don't get to select, we become sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:50 AM
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Be good at something. Find something you're interested in and put some points into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:43 AM
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Primarily women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:40 AM
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Disagree. Red pill rhetoric incites men to violence. Empowerment as you described it incites women to buy dresses and treat themselves to trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:25 AM
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The orgasm gap comes from women having sex with men that don't care. The logical solution is to be more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:08 AM
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I've not seen that be the case with bi women at least. Or maybe even the opposite. I feel like people tend to date people similarly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:02 AM
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People in society have a reasonable obligation to try to avoid making strangers feel afraid for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:57 AM
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I think the problem is thinking anyone besides yourself can "save you".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:52 AM
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Women in the US, as a group, are too understanding when people are being hateful towards them. They let shit slide just to keep the peace, and it screws over society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:45 AM
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The experience and outcomes are different. A man never needs to let himself be penetrated to have sex, which definitely impacts how I experience sex. If I have sex with a woman without being penetrated, or do sexual stuff with a man without being penetrated, it's a completely different experience than actual penetration. Plus, being worried about being pregnant is an outcome a man simply doesn't have, but fertile women definitely are impacted by the possibility of pregnancy when having sex. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:20 PM
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Are you talking about China? In China, the expectation is men have the "3 things" before marriage - a house, a car, and significant money savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:10 PM
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If you could become an 18 year old woman, who was the female version of you (like a fraternal twin) but just 18 and just graduated high school, and keep all your memories, what kind of life would you lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:02 PM
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What part of the challenge of being a man do you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:00 PM
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So you feel like you would be happier, but you still would say no to switching. Just curious, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:59 PM
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> In the era where "sexual harassment" has been redefined to "asked her out when she wasn't interested" reading hints is no longer a viable option I was wondering what you meant by this. Like what hint do you think would be appropriate (if we weren't in an era where sexual harassment was redefined to include asking someone out who isn't interested). Like her asking you what you're doing after work? Or making lots of eye contact and bending over in front of you with a low cut shirt? I'm just curi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:57 PM
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Not counting today, let's say 30 years ago. What would be an adequate hint she's interested in you? Because you mentioned it, I was just curious what kind of hint used to be enough even if it isn't enough anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:29 PM
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That's an interesting response. Thanks for sharing. Any reason why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:20 PM
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A clit isn't magical. It's like a little tiny dick, just very sensitive for some women. I assume it's the vagina that feels the most different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:18 PM
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I feel like women are just trying to get the best man they can with what they've got. If women think someone is worth dating, they'll try to date them. If they aren't sure yet, they'll wait. I don't think it's about categorizing men as 'short term' vs 'long term' as much as "Do I want to date this man right now?" > The second category is that he viewed as longer term, to where he has to wait or work for it. I think this is more about a category of women. Some women believe dating is about the "c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:32 AM
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There are men I find attractive and I'm like "wow they're beautiful". But I think men like that often feel out of my league. I appreciate them, but can't really imagine having sex with them. But when I meet someone I feel sexually compatible with, I feel it immediately. I would say that for me, finding someone attractive in the conventional sense (oh that person is a "7") and being sexually attracted are kind of only loosely related. What makes someone attractive to me is when I feel like they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:23 AM
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Has a stranger ever called while you were doing something else, and asked you to buy something? That's called "cold calling". Even if you might have been interested in buying that thing, getting interrupted by a stranger asking you for something is super annoying. At that point, they better have something REALLY good to offer, because you're already thinking "Oh god what is this going to be about."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:13 AM
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I feel like big age gap relationships have two main problems. How they start - not always, but age gap relationships are often problematic in the beginning. Especially when the younger person is very young and the older person has all the power. When the couple gets old - The difference between the life of a 30 year old and a 50 year old isn't that different, but a few decades years later, you have someone who's still middle aged taking care of someone whos becoming elderly. Like taking care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:25 AM
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Typically I think women do it when they are trying to get closer to you. Like opening up about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:15 AM
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Yes, if you ask women what they want, they typically share what they personally are looking for in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:56 AM
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The one thing about getting married, after being with someone a long time, is everyone stops haranguing you about getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:39 AM
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From watching 90 Day Fiance, the impression I get with these relationships is both people always feel like the other person should be grateful. The American thinks the other person should be happy just to get a green card, and the immigrant thinks the American should be grateful they gave up their life to come. Which seems to often create mutually miserable marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:14 AM
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I think a lot of young men need more good male role models they respect, who actually spend time with them in person and teach them the ropes of modern life. I think many men of all ages need more in-person male friendship and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:07 AM
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So if a guy asks me out, I think "He must like me." If he asks someone else out first, and only ask me after she says no, then I think, "I'm clearly his second choice."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:53 PM
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Just curious, what would you consider to be a hint a woman wants you to ask her out? Like if she did this hint, you feel like it should be enough of a hint that she shouldn't be surprised if you ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:51 PM
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I'm sharing my experience, but it feels like you are not engaging with your experience, simply repeating talk points.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:46 PM
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If there was dating advice that worked every single time, no one would ever share it. Advice from someone who doesn't know you is usually missing something important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:42 PM
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New Hampshire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:40 PM
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Most men who think that way are not advertising it. They just move according to those standards quietly. Yes, but it sounds like you think women can't sense someone's attitude. They pay attention to the things men say about women, even if he doesn't give himself any label. So like if a guy says, "Well I think women should..." or "I'm attracted to women who..." Then women pay attention and think about what else you might think about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:39 PM
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Saying looks matter a lot, saying certain men get more leeway, saying outcomes aren’t evenly distributed… Well I don't think any of those statements is misogynist or bitter. I only have an issue when it turns into "women should..."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:27 PM
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I've never heard it called “misogyny" or “bitterness" when someone is stating facts. It's when people start talking about what women should be doing different that people start using those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:57 PM
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But they're not nearly universal. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:52 PM
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There's a huge place between "total guarantee" and "high likelihood of failure".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:52 PM
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People act like having as many cats as you want is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:02 PM
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Most people just want to be doing things and being around people that make them feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:58 PM
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There's a lot of money being made by selling this attitude to men. I don't think it's what they would do in a void.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:55 PM
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The problem with looking for guarantees is they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:52 PM
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Or a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:51 PM
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Yes, if women find you nice to be around, it intriques them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:50 PM
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I think this is fair. You should probably feel like she already likes you before asking, or at least like her enough to take the risk. Part of this is girls don't want to feel like they are your second choice. They want to feel like you like them in particular. It helps to meet the entire friend group first, just be cool to everyone, and then make your choice once you know what your realistic options are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:47 PM
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When I about 12, our Sunday school teacher sat down the girls and essentially said, "Men don't care about women or what they want. They don't have emotions like you do. The only thing they want is sex. Remember that." I really believed it until I got my first boyfriend and realized he had thoughts and emotions just like girls did. It definitely goes both ways. Our culture is toxic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:42 PM
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People always side with whoever they like more, regardless of who was right. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:37 PM
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The entire culture does it. Children start being affected the moment they're exposed to our media. It's a toxic cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:35 PM
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I just think it proves monogamy is not the human norm. Even in "mostly monogamous" cultures, it typically only goes one way. And some cultures don't seem to value monogamy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:30 PM
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I think men try to date above their league just as much as women, if not more. When someone says "women should lower their standards and date someone like me," they are trying to date above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:24 PM
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Then I think we're in agreement. I think you're saying that the standards of the type of person you want to attract is what matters. Not their label. My point is just that when men describe themselves as red pill, some women might conclude, "Oh, I don't care what he thinks."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:22 PM
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My mom did it for my dad. He's ugly, but he did always have a steady job, and I think he supported her as best he could. It's just that times were hard (grew up in a small town that was dying).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:16 PM
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I don't think men and women are the same. But in some ways, humans are all the same. Your biggest dating asset as a human is when people like spending time around you. So you can accomplish that with money or being hot, but being fun and chill is a strategy that works whether you have looks, money, or youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:12 PM
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Immigration is hard. People don't even want to move across the state nevermind to a different country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:02 AM
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Enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:01 AM
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Then that's awesome. I've just never met someone who wants to do all the unpaid work that doesn't get any respect to support the other person doing all the fun stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:59 AM
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I'm not trying to be mean. Because it sounds like you've never talked to a woman about sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:57 AM
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I was just replying to the idea that youth is a woman's biggest asset. I disagree. Being fun and chill to be around is a woman's biggest asset. A man's too. Once you have that, you always have lots of options even when you get old and look bad. But I agree it's true everyone's best chance at getting a "hot" partner is when they're young, whether you're a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:24 AM
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Based on this answer, I get the feeling I'm not talking to an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:22 PM
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It's funny how guys who can't even imagine having a dick inside of them think they know what matters most. Just curious, if you were a girl, what would you want in a dick? The absolute biggest you can find? Imagine trying to suck a really big dick. I think if you had a vagina, and knew what that felt like, it'd be easier to understand why "bigger isn't always better". A vagina is something you feel from the inside, not something you watch from the outside like in a porn. And every woman is diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:15 PM
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Christian Europe got rich with colonialism, mercantilism, and then the industrial revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:08 PM
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Wanting a good relationship isn't a flaw. And struggling to find love doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. It just means that it's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:58 PM
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No, I don't want to be that kind of dad because it hurts the person you're with to devote their life to you that way. My solution is I didn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:52 PM
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Because as I grew up and saw how hard it was on my mom, I realized it's not fair to do that to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:48 PM
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Yes, I agree with everything you say until this: Dismissing that because of the branding is just another way of avoiding the actual standard. Regardless of any labels, if a man is not nice to be around, there's no point in learning how to attract that particular type of guy. For me, I want to attract chill, sexually open, non-judgemental men who don't want kids. So I need to figure out their standard and become more like that. If I tried to follow the red pill standard, it would literally hurt m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:47 PM
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Learn about tribes that still live today. You might be interested in the widespread belief of "partible paternity". It raises a kid's chance of survival when the mom has sex with lots of men, because they all help take care of the children. Dudes also get to have sex with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:29 PM
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In South America lots of natives believe a child is the result of all the men who had sex with the mom while she was pregnant (partible paternity) so every child can have multiple fathers. That doesn't sound like enforcement of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:20 PM
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"Some people can have multiple wives if they're a rich subset" doesn't sound like enforced monogamy. That sounds like men deciding who women are allowed to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:17 PM
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In “prehistoric” (hunter-gatherer) times, there’s little evidence of enforcement of monogamy. Can you share what examples you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:27 AM
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Do you consider having multiple wives to be monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:24 AM
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Pre-Islamic India did not strictly enforce monogamy. Texts like the Manusmriti outline a primary wife while allowing additional wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:23 AM
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Yes for example you said this If the goal includes attracting a good man, then understanding what that kind of man values is still relevant. I completely agree a woman looking for a "good" man should try to understand what attracts that kind of person. But most women don't want to date a red pilled man. So why try to understand what attracts them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:19 AM
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What we're saying is we want to be a dad. We want to have a spouse that cooks and cleans and takes care of the kids. We get up and go to work, come home and get fed, play with the kids a few hours before they go to bed, then kiss our lovely tired spouse goodnight, and play games into the night while everyone else is asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:56 AM
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Strict, enforced monogamy was not universal. It’s mostly tied to Christian Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:45 AM
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A regular woman is absolutely more likely than a "hot" woman to have casual sex with a regular looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:37 PM
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I remember when I was a kid I always wished I could be a dad someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:31 PM
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I think in the past a lot of men had kids even though they didn't really want to, because That's what they were supposed to do. Now it's okay to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:28 PM
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I feel like women don't hate men, but the manosphere. Women love men who they like being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:26 PM
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The people who believe that are the minority. We have the president we have because liberals don't care enough to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:16 PM
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I'm a 39 year old woman. Young men will fuck me because I have money and a place, and know how to make it really fun. Men my age are happy to fuck me because I'm actually cool and fun. One of my best friends is in her 60s and after her husband died she's been getting around lol. As I've gotten older, my options have only gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:06 PM
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Yes, don't compliment her appearance. Compliment something about her that she chose herself. Otherwise it seems like you're not interested in her as a person, and only care about having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:58 PM
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If you're a woman who wants to date a gross old man to date up for money, yes it's best in your 20s. But that's not what most women want. If you want to date young people who only like you because you have money, that works your whole life. Age nor gender has anything to do with that. As a woman or a man, by the time you're in your 30s, now you just need to be cool, fun, and sexually open, and you'll be able to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:52 PM
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True enough. It's the non-voters we're relying on to come to their senses. Those are who made the difference in every Trump election so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:26 PM
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My impression of red pill women is they believe that women should just play the red pill game. Notice men who are trying to be PUAs, and manipulate them because those are the weak ones that are easy to control. Use your sexuality and men's desperation for sex to get them to buy you things, chase you, and be cold so they have to give more and more. Dole out sex with a purpose like youre trying to motivate a rebellious kid. Seek out the highest quality men and consciously do what it takes to attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:02 PM
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Women do care what men want. It's just they care about the men they like and who make them happy to be around. There's no point caring about the opinions of the men who want to take away your rights. The best thing for women is to stop giving anti-women sentiment a platform. Let these men talk to themselves about what women should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:53 PM
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Most incels are also self-described "red pill". And most men in relationships are not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:35 PM
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Cat calling is sexual harassment. Giving people compliments is different. It's something you can do to children ("love your light-up spiderman shoes, buddy!").
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:22 PM
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I think that's the point. 95% of the time when someone receives a compliment, they don't want to talk to you about it. That's regardless of gender. If they want to talk to you, they will find a way even if you're already casually walking away. It's the expectation to reply that women don't like. It makes it feel like the guy thinks, "I gave you a compliment, so now you owe me to talk to me" even if that's not what they're actually trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:12 PM
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Yeah, and those conservatives are hemorrhaging public support right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:59 PM
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What country do you live in and what's going on? I'd love to learn more. I only know what's happening in the US and China.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:57 PM
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I was initially referring to the comment "But then men will be unhappy and burn the world down if we don’t settle and have sex we don’t want". What happened with DEI doesn't seem to have anything to do with gaining sexual access towards women. I don't see any signs that's going in that direction at all. And many places like Target genuinely suffered from their DEI decisions. I'm not sure I see the connection between ICE and women's rights. That seems more "anti-foreigner" than against women havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:53 PM
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I think blue pill women are describing what they themselves want in a man. I see you describe yourself as red pill woman, enfp. I'm enfp too. I'm always intrigued by red pill women. Many have pick-me-up vibes. But some are real. I feel like most true red pill women realize the whole red pill strategy only works for some men because women don't do it back. I just personally think red pill is a way of looking at the world that makes it worse for everyone. Try to reward the men (and women) in your …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:14 AM
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Yes, I think when women answer, often they're coming from a place of "this is what I want in a man" or "I wish the men in my life would be this way".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:57 PM
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That's a good point. Compliment in a way so it's really easy for her to not give a response. I think what sucks is when someone compliments you and then expects you to say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:52 PM
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For me, whenever someone asks for dating advice, I try to think of what I wish a guy would do to attract me. So I'll say things like, have good hygiene/smell good, have interests, be sexually open (don't slut shame or she won't have sex with you), have your finances in order, be chill to hang out with, etc. Every piece of that advice is coming from the place of: I'm a woman trying to answer the question, and that's what I want, so if you want someone like me, that's what you would have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:44 PM
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But I thought hypergamy is simply trying to get the best mate possible. If it's a matter of success, tons of women are trying to marry up and can't. Are they not hypergamous because they're unsuccessful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:37 PM
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I agree that's what some power holders try to do. And I also agree that's playing out where conservatism is weakening the US economically. Trying to force people to be more socially conservative almost always hurts the economy. That being said, the economic powerhouses of the country are extremely liberal. I haven't seen any evidence that banks, politicians, and billionaires are losing their power hold. And they can all get women. They'd rather have all women working and use immigration to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:35 PM
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So just curious, how is female hypergamy different from male hypergamy? Are you saying men don't try to get the best women out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:25 PM
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The main path to female oppression is when women can't make their own money. Because that means they and their children need to rely on a man to survive. When a woman can make her own money, she has more choices. For example she can opt to just be single if there aren't compatible men around. In our capitalistic society, rich people in charge will try to get women to have more kids, but not to the point that they force women to stop working. Non-working women don't contribute to the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:20 PM
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Yes, but the places that subjugate women to the point they can't work generally have weak or unstable economies. And places with weak economies are getting left behind compared to the rest of the world. While countries with strong economies get bigger and more powerful over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:08 PM
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Part of what motivated me is my niece, who is 19. She is absolutely gorgeous but won't leave the house without both putting on makeup and doing her hair. She spends an hour every day on her appearance. And then she spends hours every night texting with these total loser guys who are mean to her, don't text her back often, or lie. And she thinks the reason they treat her bad is that she's not pretty/hot enough. It breaks my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:02 PM
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Just curious, is this your definition of hypergamy (I got this off Google)? "Female hypergamy is the practice or tendency of women seeking partners with higher social, economic, or educational status than their own, often described as 'marrying up'."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:52 PM
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It's funny how when you decide it's okay to be single that suddenly you feel so free. You can just do the things you want, be friends with who you want, eat what you want... And often you start finding a great friend group, and that's been my best luck finding dates. Well, friend groups and work. I always say, if you date someone at work at least you know they can keep a job lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:47 PM
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I hear men say things like, "women should lower their standards and give men like me a chance to have sex". But to me, that sounds like essentially the same thing as saying, "let men like me put my dick in you". Like they're implying a women's desire to have sex with a particular person isn't the only thing that should matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:33 PM
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Yes, but we've never had such powerful rich people before. And the people at the top know more money is made when everyone works. Even Saudi Arabia started letting women drive. Women need a certain amount of freedom to contribute to society's bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:28 PM
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Could you elaborate a bit? I'd love to understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:23 PM
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Fair enough. That sounds right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:20 PM
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I like the way you think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:19 PM
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Nah, someone with a small dick can do things someone with a big dick can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:18 PM
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My number 1 and 2 guys for sex were actually both the biggest and the smallest haha You can do different types of fun things with each kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:17 PM
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Haha really? That's actually kind of funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:07 PM
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It's not about the dick itself, but how the man uses his personality, words, body, dick, or hands to do stuff she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:06 PM
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True. But I do feel like a lot of women feed into the idea that it's an actual position to take, simply by arguing things like, "I don't believe I should have to let any particular man put his dick inside me".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:44 PM
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That's a great point. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:42 PM
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I think many women do, but many women don't. Especially the young ones in my life (like my nieces).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:42 PM
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Yes, I realize I have too much fun doing that. And it does kind of feel like training for an encounter in a more meaningful situation. At that point, I've really thought about it enough not to get caught up in the weeds. But at what point is it not actually training any more. That's my problem. I spend too much in that fun side and not enough time actually doing stuff in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:41 PM
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That's an interesting point. I think you're saying like, "If you go to a place like this, don't be surprised by people advocating for themselves." Like it would be weird for this subreddit to exist if there weren't people advocating here. Not sure if I missed that. You know, I realize this is a debate post, but as I answered the questions, I've realized my real motivation was a message to the women, not the men, who read this subreddit. Like I kind of wanted to be like, "Women get out of here an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:36 PM
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Yes, my experience with men in real life is nothing like the men in this reddit. I actually wonder what the men on this reddit might be like in real life, or if I know someone who actually feels this way in my life, and don't realize it. One time I was talking to someone here, and I was like, "Wait this seems so unbelievable a man would feel this way...." and looked at his profile and he posted regularly on r/teenagers. And it made me realize that a lot of adults here are probably debating with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:33 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I posted it here because it felt like many "debates" here seem to take the opposite position.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:30 PM
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It sounds like you're saying there are men on the internet who tell women how to live their life before they find a man. Then, once a man chooses them, their life should now be about what he wants (whether that's kids, sex, looking hot, cooking, cleaning, etc.) If so, then I agree. It does seem like some men on the internet are promoting that message towards women, and framing it as "you are screwing over society if you don't take that path."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:29 PM
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If they're unhappy no matter what you do, might as well stop talking to them and do what you want. If you spend less time talking to unhappy men, you'll have more time in your life to talk to men who are out experiencing life and growing as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:25 PM
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No they won't. They say they will but they won't. There are rich people in charge and they want women to work. Economies can't thrive in the modern world when only men work. For that reason alone they won't let the angry men lock us all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:23 PM
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Then what we should be doing is arguing with the ones that have power or influence. Women arguing with men on a forum who otherwise have no influence only feeds the trolls and adds fire to spread the movement to more men. But as I say this, I realize I'm doing that right now with this post. So maybe I should think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:16 PM
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Do you agree or disagree? Or perhaps feel differently about different parts of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:12 PM
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I agree some women do this. And I believe all women should be doing this. I wrote this because it felt like many posts in this subreddit debate against this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:11 PM
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I agree it's good for everyone. I just don't think there's any debate about it the other way in this subreddit. Like no one tells men not to get the best woman they can with what they've already got. We all kind of agree that's the way it should be. The debate here seems to be about whether women should lower their standards and give more men a chance, rather then think of herself and aim to date who she most wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:09 PM
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I do think it's a self-reinforcing loop. If a man is very far from where he wants to be as far as dating right now (whether the issue is he needs to worry more about hygiene, get some hobbies, work on his personality, improve his finances, put his body in places where there are other humans, etc.), the red pill isn't going to help him. Taking the red pill seems to make most men more unhappy and isolated. And that generally makes them less appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:07 PM
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Yes, and I think we need to stop arguing with them about it and double down. It shouldn't be us defending the right to have sex with who we want, it should be us spending our energy on each other all the good men in the world who don't talk to us that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:51 PM
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I think every woman who does this is making the world a better place. And I'm glad to hear you're doing that, but I feel like many young people don't see the world that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:49 PM
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I disagree that's what most people do, at least in the context of what I've read in this reddit. It seems like there's a lot of people advocating against women doing what I've written. That being said, most happy women I know have done it your way, and I do think it's a healthy way to go about it. I feel like once a person decides they're okay being alone, it often seems like their whole life improves. It's fun just doing what you want to do, when you want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:43 PM
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It's possible all men in her life have been like that, from dad to boyfriends, so that's her entire experience of men. Same how if a guy only has negative experience with women, hell generalize. But in my personal experience, most single mothers are just tired and wish the father would help with the kids they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:19 PM
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Be yourself, but don't just stop. Keep developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:01 AM
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In my experience, single mothers only blame the man not taking care of his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:58 AM
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In general, men like provocative clothing and women don't like PUA. That's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:54 AM
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That's an interesting and unexpected reply. I've never heard of anyone that doesn't have any dating preferences besides being an equal match as much as possible. Do you think that's how you feel as a man, too, or just more like what you think you would seek in the hypothetical "woke up as a woman situation"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:50 PM
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It sounds like you're saying if you were a woman, similar attractiveness would be your main criteria for dating. So like if you're a 7, your main criteria would be finding a man who's equivalent to a 7 on the looks scale. And if you're a 5, your main criteria would be finding a guy who's about a 5 on the looks scale. Or am I misunderstanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:31 PM
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Yes, I mean specifically though. Completely disregarding any potential change in traits that would be attractive after waking up as a woman. "My ideal man is..." what would girl-you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:56 PM
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Here's the conditions, I'm curious your response. - You wake up as a woman, same age, the "girl version" of yourself lookswise, like if you had a sister - You feel attracted to men and not women anymore. - Nothing else changes about your psychology What kind of man would you go for, in that situation? I'll do it first. If I woke up as a man, but attracted to women, I would try to find a woman who has her own money, hobbies and ideas. She treats people well in her life, and we have similar values…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:03 PM
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>only being capable of attraction to a few traits at a very high degree. If you were attracted to men when you became a woman (with all the prior experience as a guy). Which traits would you be attracted to in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:55 AM
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If young women are more kinky now, is the increase different from what we see in young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:43 AM
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I don't think anything is wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:32 AM
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I think from what you're saying, you aren't looking for friendships with people, just relationships with women. And it's that kind of attitude women can sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:46 PM
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The people who say 'politics don't matter' don't feel much affected by politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:50 AM
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There's no evidence that stronger women tend to assault men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:45 AM
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Like anywhere people are doing their hobbies. I rarely leave the house except for work or hobby related stuff. The cool thing about taking a class or doing hobbies is over time you see the same people multiple times. That way you can naturally build relationships instead of trying to do some kind of high pressure "approach". There is a thing where if you see the same person multiple times, and they're always cool to you, you "let your guard down" around them and start opening up. It is like how …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:12 AM
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It sounds like you're trying to create a network of women warning each other about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:51 AM
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I don't see AI dating as a bad thing. I will say my sister's husband has sort of an AI girlfriend, or at least chats romantically and sexually often with ChatGPT, and watches lots of Vr porn. My sister knows about it, just doesn't care. He's a remarkably miserable person. I know it's putting space between him and my sister, as well. But they both seem fine with it so I don't see the problem if they're okay with it. I do think it's probably weird for their 3 children that dad chats sexually with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:31 AM
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If someone has opinions about a high maintenance person, I can't think of any better way to approach the situation than both people being direct about it from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:06 AM
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But how does "healthy food" get more buyers? There's really only two ways. advertise the benefits more clearly prepare it to taste better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:39 AM
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I'm sorry someone said that to you. That's not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:38 PM
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I'm 39 and happily married for 7 years. I have two female friends over 35. One (40) dates occasionally, but seems more concerned with her career and hobbies. I think her biggest challenge in dating is she's totally responsible for her mom, who doesn't work and lives with her. The other (61) is widowed, and has one main casual partner in an open relationship, and then kind of dates others on the side. Both seem pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:37 AM
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Why do you think they do it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:41 PM
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Men in a relationship have significantly more sex than single men. Just because someone doesn't have sex right away doesn't mean there's not going to be any sex. If anything, building a strong sexual foundation with someone helps you experiment and have crazier and more fun sex over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:02 AM
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When you really want to have sex, your brain gets less logical. For men and women. The other part of being human is we all like to find logical explanations for how we feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:57 AM
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People tend to support the POV where their desired person chooses them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:52 AM
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Wow, that's hilarious if it proves widely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:49 AM
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Every woman is different. For me, that's just not a life I want. I want someone who hangs out and does hobbies in the room with me, enjoys peace, likes traveling occasionally, and supports my interests outside the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:44 AM
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I think women in wealthy countries have the choice to be single, which lets them be choosier. If you have to pick a man to survive, you pick the best one you can find (even if he sucks) and hope for the best. As far as how many kids women have, I've read it's affected whether you need children to survive. When that's not a factor, they tend to have as many kids they believe they can give a better life. So the more expensive each kid, the fewer kids they have, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:38 AM
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I feel like women chase men when he seems better than being single. They have to be chased when they're not convinced yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:29 AM
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It helps to ask the individual. People have shockingly different preferences in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:25 AM
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I've met one sex-proclaimed asexual woman and she wasn't like that at all. In fact, she told me she believes it was the result of a bad sexual experience she had as a teenager. But from what I understand, some people feel like they're just born that way. But if anyone does claim that most woman are asexual, I totally disagree. That hasn't been my experience in life at all, or what I've heard from men ive dated about their past girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:24 AM
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Many women are very sexual creatures with someone they are attracted to and trust. Have you ever watched couple's porn? But I don't see how it's her fault when she doesn't want to have sex with someone, or just isn't that attracted. I mean, she's literally letting someone put their penis inside her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:19 AM
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In my two biggest relationships, one was extremely hairy and one was extremely smooth. I never really thought about it. It's just not a thing I've thought much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:03 AM
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If “hypergamy” = preferring partners with much higher status/resources, I haven't seen much evidence women tend to be hypergamous in relationships when it's not for survival. But if you count the times it was necessarily for survival, I would guess the rates go up dramatically. In high income countries where women have choices, studies show assortative mating (similar status) dominates long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:48 AM
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Stop situations where people are structurally dependent on men to give them safety, agency, or opportunity. Particularly low income women, cleaners, sex workers, and other vulnerable populations. That's the place that needs the most attention, in my personal opinion. How we allow the weakest members of society to be treated reflects the underlying power structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:21 AM
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Safe haven laws are meant to prevent infanticide or unsafe abandonment. A mom must hand off an unharmed baby to a designated person, typically within 3 days of birth, and lose rights to the baby forever. Giving up a baby for adoption is another process where the needs of the child are held first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:14 AM
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In the 1800s, most couples were married. Very little cohabitation. If you count all couples living together, it's possible more men are in a cohabiting relationship now than then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:33 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I was genuinely curious what you thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:25 AM
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A living child is here. They exist. Safe haven laws are about protecting the child. If their parents are around, we hold them legally responsible. Once a child is born, their right to care comes before parental convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:24 AM
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What if he (or she) doesn't know she's pregnant until too late?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:13 AM
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Men can make money on OF, too. Just take some sexy butt pictures, flirt with men, and pretend to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:10 AM
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In some circles, it's common. In others, it's ultra rare. Where are you looking for women? The women I've known looking for FWB tend to hang out where there's alcohol, music, dancing, and/or drugs. Like a country bar with a mechanical bull on square dance night, or a dance/music festival, Renaissance Faire, or a particularly dark bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:04 AM
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I'm sure they will have no idea you feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:52 AM
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Almost anyone can work on themselves and learn to be independently happy. Not everyone is going to end up happily in a relationship with their ideal person. I do think a lot more people could be in a happy relationship if they had lower physical standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:44 AM
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Not all of human history has been a "patriarchy". In non-patriarchal societies, women have often had freedom and rights. Like the Iroquois before Europeans came, or Nigeria before Muslims came.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:27 AM
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The kid didn't do anything to deserve their dad opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:20 AM
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Ideally, both parents agree. But when they don't, someone has to have the last say. But which person? Of course, the person carrying the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:14 AM
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I think it depends on whether the other person wants to have an actual discussion or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:04 AM
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Chris Brown is famous and extremely rich. There are lots of reason to date or not date someone, and "personality" is only one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:03 AM
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From every person I've talked to who's used these apps (even successfully) the experience is terrible. Think about it, Tinder doesn't want you to actually meet someone or you stop paying them. They set the system up to keep you perpetually single and looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:17 AM
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First off, this sounds unhealthy and toxic. Do you need this in your life? Maybe these aren't people worth talking to. Have you tried restating their position? That helps a lot in situations like this, regardless of anyone gender. "it sounds like you're saying ... Did I get that right?" You don't have to agree, just state their position. If they agree, ask them to state your position. Now you can argue with it, because you're both on the same page. That prevents the argument from moving to somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:10 AM
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What are you doing to try to attract these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:02 AM
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When women are talking about maturity, it's often about whether the man is "looking for commitment."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:54 PM
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Except women, they don't get penalized for deficiencies in those areas in the dating scene. In dating, what women get penalized for the most is sleeping with the wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:49 PM
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Like which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:47 PM
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It is my general observation that being approached by ugly guy is an insult for good looking girls. I've never heard anyone say that but it's true. Do you think it goes both ways? Do good-looking men feel insulted if they're hit on by the "ugly" woman on the train?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:23 PM
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A major way for men to hit it off with women is to make it seem like you're open-minded and not judgemental. Women are way more open to sex if they feel like there won't be negative consequences from sleeping with you. That's why they avoid sleeping with men who criticize women's bodies or sexual history. If you do it to other women, you'll probably do it to them, too. It sounds like this guy is insufferable and using purely that one trick until people see the real him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:10 PM
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Without seeing the pictures, perhaps they're intimidated you seem to always be traveling, like you come across as out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:08 PM
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Is there any evidence anyone, anywhere, is trying to replace mothers as the primary caregiver of young children? That would be an entirely new phenomenon in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:06 PM
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What makes women sexually desire a man: Smells good Dressed decent (clean, newer, not wrinkly clothes) Some women really like when a man is dressed "well" but not all women care Takes care of his skin (at least, his ears and face aren't crusty) Has a relatively recent haircut (doesn't look "shaggy") Whether the man makes the woman feel safe and beautiful/sexy without judgement (like they feel like you're genuinely attracted to them, you tell them they're beautiful, they feel like you won't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:05 PM
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In this world, after a child is born, who would care for them until they turn 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:15 PM
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Weird you're getting downvoted when this actually works. More young people are on Instagram than Tinder by far, and the sex ratio on IG is about half women while on a dating app 80% of users are men. Just make sure to stay local. Long distance relationships through IG are often scams. You know it's a scam for sure if she asks you for money or starts talking about crypto or gold bars. And of course, don't get too invested in someone until you've video chatted and know they're real. But those rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:50 PM
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Do you have well-lit pictures that show you have interests and get out of the house? Do you have at least one picture that's not a selfie? So many men's profiles don't get matches because all their pictures are all blurry dark selfies in their house at night with nothing on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:36 PM
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A woman who is always happy around you will always try to be around you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:30 PM
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What we don't see is the same kind of campaigning and protesting with men despite the tech having a huge change in our lives. What would you consider to be campaigning or protesting from men that's different from what they do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:15 PM
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Money can purchase sex directly, if you want to go that route. Scout around on OnlyFans. But if you're talking about free ways to hold the keys to physical intimacy, being entertaining or funny are pretty effective for men. If a woman is always happy and laughing when she's with you, she'll want to spend more time with you. That's how you see ugly poor dudes with hot girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:09 PM
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