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Sounds mad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:39 PM
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Do purple pillers just stay on the fence about all topics? Pick one!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:38 PM
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I won’t lie my ugliest, creepiest friend with a crazy stutter got ripped and the quantity and quality of women he gets now is baffling. Do black pill doomers really have an excuse anymore. Theres women that will literally ignore your ugly face like it doesn’t exist if you’re fit enough
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:09 PM
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I started building my ig with my friends like 10 years ago. We’d take pics of each other, coordinate post times, follow the same groups of girls and show love under each other’s posts. After years of that I have a network of at least 800 women I can pick and choose from. Not all though, I’ve watched some of these women grow for a decade, some are married or have babies now lol. But yah instagram has been the best “dating app” for me for a long time. I’ve lost count of how many women I’ve laid of…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:04 PM
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I would never admit or brag about. It’s not necessarily something to being proud of, just knowledge that reflects in my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:04 PM
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Exactly, sometimes you just don’t care, even if you end up regretting it later
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:25 PM
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If you’re exclusively talking about when the sex is good then your entire post is garbage. “Men don’t give up good sex” uh no shit sherlock? “Most men this, most men that” you realize most women don’t have good pussy? Maybe I’m too experienced for the incel mind to understand but if you don’t actually know shit just leave the topic alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:22 PM
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Obviously if the sex is good he’s not dumping but if it’s bad why wouldn’t he? If he knows he can get more sex from other women what is losing 1 off of a rotating roster?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:29 AM
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If you can’t understand that quote then you can’t be helped. Don’t call someone a fake intellectual when you can’t even comprehend what they say in the first place, embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:03 PM
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The biggest misinformation comes from type of men who say things like “You can be emotional and sensitive with women, I cried like a baby in my wife’s arms and she still loves me”. 9/10 women would be revolted by that and the ones who convince themselves they like a sensitive man are revolted by that subconsciously. That’s the worst cause she won’t even know why she wants to leave you, it’ll just be a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:01 PM
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Man I wish I had the powers I do 7 years ago when I was your age. But hey you can’t turn back time that’s why I’m on a rampage now. Back to the point tho, the thing about 8’s, 9’s and the coveted 10s is they will approach you without coming up to you. It’s rare 7’s plus common 6s and 5’s that will walk up to you or say something to you first. The 8’s and above approach by things like eye contact and assumed telepathy. With that being said it’s clearly going to be a very rare occasion when an 8 a…
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:31 AM
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I have a lot of asian friends and most have an asian girlfriend. There’s always a market for asian girls that will only date asian guys and A LOT of these girls are fine/cute as hell. The most straightforward cheat code for asian guys to appeal to any given woman who would date an asian man is to lift weights, grow your hair long enough to tie in a bun and when you take out the bun, luscious locks just flow down to your shoulders or get one of those “pretty boy” kpop jpop boyband haircuts and op…
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:13 AM
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Those girls you are in awe by are unicorns. You just gotta luck up on them. The best are the ones that are beautiful and down to earth. I’ve talked to a few which led no where but my most serious girls I’ve been in awe by were 3 gorgeous girls. 1 became my actual girlfriend, met her at a club, she came out and I heard her call me cute so me and my friend pulled her group then we spent the entire next day together. Good game and just being nice to her helped me pull her but it was still kinda luc…
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:27 PM
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so what happened to the girl you had an insta date with?
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:06 PM
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Talk like you’re already in a conversation with her. Today 1 of the numbers I got, I stopped her, walking in opposite directions, by saying “oh my goodness, your hair” she says “what” I said “it’s so pretty” she was a lightskin with a big curly afro. After that I was in an art gallery and while looking at a display, I waited for a girl to come closer and simply said “so what do you think?” And from there we chopped it up, kinda had a insta date going around looking at the rest of the pieces toge…
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:45 AM
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Staring deeply into her eyes when she talks. It could either make her nervous (emotional reaction) or she holds eye contact and tension rises. And hey all you’re doing is listening with eye contact like what normal humans do🤷‍♂️(plausible deniability). They don’t even know what hit them. I’ve gotten “I like your eyes” a few times, my eyes are dark brown... but they mean they like my eye contact
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:39 AM
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Audio or video calls a couple times a week.
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:20 AM
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I review notes in my phone. I have openers that I gotta remember to use cause a lotta times I just end up improvising. Sometimes I gotta remind myself to make eye contact cause usually I’m not trying to look into my friend’s eyes cause pause but then when switching to women I’ll forget. Overall nothing too deep, my real warm ups are the first few approaches
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:53 PM
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I know you didn’t pay $1000+ for this lmao😂
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:47 PM
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OLD is just marketing, a way to get more leads without physically expending yourself. To be strictly an OLDer is wild to me though cause you’re sitting there waiting for someone attractive to match you when you can just go out irl and find attractive women easier and faster.
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:46 PM
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Why are you getting jealous over a thot?😂 Do better king
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:38 PM
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This is why you go into every new courtship with no relationship expectations. Also as a man you shouldn’t display your emotions to women. Dudes who are womanizers will understand this but for dudes who still got a little bit of blue pill white knight in them, there is no benefit showing your emotions to a girl. Maybe in the moment she might be impressed that you’re such a sensitive guy but she’ll go back to not caring 30 minutes later and her subconscious mind will get to working and eventually…
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:33 PM
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Witchyo freaky ahh
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:27 PM
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Sleeping with women didn’t make me better. It was making myself better that let me sleep with women
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:26 PM
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Man if he can’t even pick up at clubs he’s fucking doomed.
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:23 PM
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What is this a cope post?😂 Nah this is actually sad cause you named my favourite 3 places where I have the highest success and easiest time approaching. Clearly that’s just a you problem. Another guy that’s just afraid.
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:21 PM
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I mean.. yeah facts😅. Of course you’ll get arguments like “eVeRy WoMaN iSnT LiKe ThIs” but this knowledge applies to 8/10 women so 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:18 PM
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Bruh said “or an indian” and I’m mad I know exactly what you mean. Reminds me of the time I saw a short indian dude, fresh off the boat with a graphic tee, jeans shorts, fake ear piercings and a faux hawk standing outside the club trying to build up courage to talk to a girl. Told me he’s never been inside, he just comes and waits outside the club. My solo night was coming to a close so I took him under my wing and tried to breakdown game for him. Shows me his dms with a girl he finally got a nu…
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:42 AM
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She doesn’t exist anymore
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:35 AM
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These are actually decent hacks. Sure one could use all of them but they’re all optional. And I don’t see what’s “fake” about buying a nice suit and taking some pictures. Or actually travelling abroad and taking private jets. It’s not like you’re posting pictures and putting price tags on how much the experience was.
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:35 AM
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Don’t get it twisted, girls will “bro” “bruh” and “fam” you into some pussy
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:16 AM
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Solid points here. Definitely the type of strategy I use. I’m 5’11 too and I can say taller women are definitely checking for us if you’re attractive (overall attractiveness, not face)
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:52 AM
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It’s pretty easy when you have your own place I won’t lie. I’ve gotten away with just having a car and talking to girls with their own place or just having car sex. Obviously both is ideal but even just having your own place is ez mode. When I had my own place I liked talking to girls who had a car cause they’ll just drive straight to the crib. Also being downtown didn’t need a car so girls didn’t mind meeting up then taking an uber or streetcar back
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:48 AM
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I actually approached a girl kinda like this. I said “didn’t I meet you?” Cause I had literally met a girl that looked like her the same night. We ended up having a good convo and exchanged numbers
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:42 AM
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My post nut clarity too dangerous, it can be rihanna that shit gon make me not go
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:37 AM
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I know your comment would trigger the “consent bots” but man you’re right. I was hanging out with a girl who was my neighbour and she was very quiet and shy. We’re on her couch watching tv and she’s just silent. First I had to move right beside side and put my arm around her. She was still very non chalant. It was going nowhere I even ASKED FIRST “can I kiss you” she says “why do you wanna kiss me”. We’re alone in her house at 2AM and she says that🤦‍♂️. It came to a point where I said fuck it an…
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:33 AM
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That’s actually wild she was thinking about that for 2 weeks and actually swallowed her pride to ask out of nowhere even after flaking
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:24 AM
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Now I just think he’s a liar cause what person with a functioning mind would deny justin bieber is the type tobe approached by women. I mean it’s no bieber fan club over here but some things are just common sense if you haven’t been living under a rock for the last 15 years
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:20 AM
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Guys like that are bad at relationships and actually bonding with women of substance. Plus that’s what the women are attracted to so it won’t change till they improve their standards
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:15 AM
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It’s not hobbies but really just behaviour and having knowledge on a wide range of topics and humour. A lot of dudes act similar to each other, guys love to text, become her penpal then bore her out her mind. I’d rather call cause I’m bad at replying and it’s more effective in displaying your personality. I’m weird and like my share of nerdy things but I don’t flaunt it. I remain mysterious and give her aspects of my personality to discover and unlock. It’s like the more they learn about me the …
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:29 AM
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I think I’ve had 3 First one was in 2016(age 21) when I bagged my highschool crush 3 years after we graduated. Now she ended up being my crush cause she was pretty, funny and just had great energy which also made her popular. So I get friendzoned from early on in our friendship and sorta become an orbiter to the point where people think we were talking which she would vehemently deny. School life goes on and we graduate. Fast forward 3 years and I’m living in a decent condo in the city with my b…
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:13 AM
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If you’re not willing to make a change then sure, die alone we don’t care anymore🤷‍♂️ All socially inept dudes do is cry meanwhile there guys just like you who now get women with ease cause they decide apply themselves rather than watch vids and read reddit all day
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:14 AM
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Being a nervous boy worked when I was in my early twenties. Stops working when you’re older and they expect you act a man. Plus women’s hivemind is always evolving cause of social media so it probably rarely works now even for young dudes
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:10 AM
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I think it should be common sense not to be an unhygienic, poorly dressed slob or an overly nervous creep if you want to get women. Should be common sense, the dudes struggling with and don’t understand the bare minimum of being presentable probably have mental issues they need to sort out first
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:08 AM
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Anything public is creepy. Meeting her and wanting to get back in touch is private matter between yall, that’s what private messages (DMs) are for.
/r/seduction16/10/22 10:36 PM
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Me I only dance when the dancehall/afrobeats come on so it’s automatically close contact and really intimate. To escalate further while she’s already throwing it back, I press my cheek against hers, hold her hand, give her peck on her neck and nibbles on her ear. Pretty much always leads to a kiss and from there depending on the circumstance we go home together or I get their number and plan something for the next weekend
/r/seduction16/10/22 10:34 PM
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My go to unexpected gesture is cheek kiss greeting/farewell while receiving a hug. If I had a good time talking to dancing with a girl I might give her a forehead kiss when saying goodbye. Never had any problems doing this
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:11 AM
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Kinda just replying to the title but FACTS. Being different and not just a typical archetype like athlete, thug or nerd but instead a mixture of those and more, I’ve been able to appeal to a wide range of women while being different yet relatable. And it be the hottest women who like different guys or the “weirdos”. The amount of times I’ve said “my bad I’m weird” just to hear back “it’s okay I like it” or “it’s different” or “I’m weird too”
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:04 AM
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Me too and not even at her fault cause I’m assuming she’s an extremely shy virgin who hasn’t had her first kiss yet and I wouldn’t be the right person who’s willing to wait around for her. Otherwise it’d be clipped after the first date
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:50 AM
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I can definitely tell you’re a cringe machine. First step is getting a job, you can’t get women without being able to accommodate or do things with them. I think you should still be able to get a general labour job with no highschool. Go work in the warehouse and save up your money. With some money in your pockets you can start thinking about things like a car, nothing too expensive but something used, affordable and presentable enough to pick people up in. Start looking into high paying fields …
/r/seduction14/10/22 05:48 AM
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Ok well look, we’ve all been terrified. I know that feeling in your stomach where it weighs you down and you just feel sick and frozen in fear. At these times I give myself an ultimatum. I believe in God so I don’t swear on his name if what I say is false. I used to tell myself “I swear to God I will make a move in 10 seconds”. You best believe after that 10 seconds is up I do whatever I told myself to do. That’s just to say you have to get over the fear by engaging otherwise you will always be …
/r/seduction14/10/22 05:22 AM
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Women like to come off like these inclusive and tolerant people but in reality MOST wouldn’t date people with disabilities, trans persons or even bisexual men. They’re too worried about judgement from their peers or their secretly intolerant, at least when it comes to being sexual with such people. It’s gonna be hard but yall are gonna have to search for that non judgemental person that will love you for everything you come with. I’ve seen a guy with no jaw with a gorgeous woman. The man isn’t f…
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:22 AM
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At this point for me rejection is very minuscule to the point where it feels like I have a 100% cause I’m not even remembering the rejections. And that’s cause where I party and run game, the options for women are almost infinite so there’s so many opportunities I’m taking in one night. For a seasoned player in the game there’s pretty much always someone I can connect with to make the night worth it. If I am to get rejected like she won’t even give me her instagram I just shrug it off and scope …
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:07 AM
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Control, as in control the situation. I’ve seen friends mess up not being in control. Leaving the club with girls and start mindlessly roaming the streets till they either get bored or somebody says something to turn them off. Instead of just calling an uber straight back to the crib. You are the one that has to dictate where you’re taking her, what you’re doing and for how long. She has the right to refuse at any point but have your objectives and complete them
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:56 PM
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Escalate by matching or going one step above whatever energy she’s giving you. She touches your hair? Get a feel of hers too, maybe even a sniff too and tell her it smells good. She’s dancing and shaking ass on you? Hold her close and press your cheek against hers. She intensifies and stars dancing harder? Give her little pecks and nibbles on the neck, cheek, and ear. It’s like taking the stairs one step at a time.
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:48 PM
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I have a friend, good looking, but he has a very high and a little bit zesty voice. But the way he speaks is smooth, I mean he’s already the whole chad package but his voice doesn’t hold him back. I think it’s about having control of your voice, you dont wanna be squeaking and voice cracking all over the place
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:40 PM
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If you come off like you have no expectations for yall to be in a relationship she’ll probably wanna fuck you more
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:32 PM
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How much did you pay them
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:42 AM
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Ask a question that implies an interaction with her parents inside the same house. Should lead to some type of definitive answer
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:40 AM
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I agree, actions speak louder than words. Be stoic and logical in your actions and invoke emotions with your words
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:43 AM
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I’m 27 and only on the last 3 years have I been able to truly enjoy being a “womanizer” and not even to the fullest extent. You’re young and have plenty of time to enjoy and keep enjoying even into your 30s. Sure we probably wish we could do this when we were in highschool but it is what it is
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:35 AM
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It matters depending on where you stand. If you’re a 5’5, 5’6 dude, it’s gonna be tough. I mean I have a 5’5 friend who has been prosperous with 8s and 9s regularly as we grew older but he is very charismatic, handsome and cute, PAUSE, so a unicorn and he’s now married to a solid 9. For 5’7, 5’8 they’ll be alright with game and looks. Once you start getting in that 5’9 - 5’11 area I don’t wanna hear any complaints. I’m 5’11 and just standing in bars and clubs most dudes are the same height as me…
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:26 AM
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Even if you’re gonna give a compliment don’t say something as low effort as “you’re hot af”. Only time I would say anything like that is when we’re already in a sexual interaction, that’s when you start getting belligerent. Otherwise be discrete and indirect with compliments or dirty talk. Plus telling her what she already knows about her body will bore her fast, don’t be like every guy. Compliment what you like about her personality if you gotta give one so bad.
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:03 AM
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Sounds like you gotta go look in the mirror and just admire your own being. I mean look you used to be ugly, bullied and unfit and now you’re the opposite of those. You’re your own hero, first you need to recognize the handsome and manly guy you are, then you need to appreciate him and come to the conclusion the girl who bags you is winning a valuable prize. Whoever rejects, oh well their loss
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:51 AM
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I like that line better😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:36 AM
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I completely agree with that. I like in person interactions cause I don’t post much on ig so first impression could end up being a creep who doesn’t post rather when you meet them in person then get the ig she doesn’t care cause she knows you have a real life personality. I do have a dm line I haven’t used yet but it goes like “where do you be at so I can approach you in person?” 😂
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:59 PM
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Go for her till you fall back in love or till she tells humiliates you finally tells you to leave her the fuck alone with such hatred that the love and respect you have for yourself far surpasses the love you have for her
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:25 AM
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I mean you right in most cases. I had one case recently where I was just being cool and chill, didn’t even give any compliments, wasn’t even any of the guys who opened her in the first place so she couldn’t have gotten a good read on me yet. But still just because I wasn’t as aggressive as my friends, she called me the nicest one out of 3 while only being disrespectful to me by doing shit like completely ignoring me when talking directly to her and then rolling her eyes. When it get’s that point…
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:19 PM
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Pretty much I’m staying in the interaction till she walks away, after that she can run off, onto the next for me. If I approach and she just ignores or says I have a boyfriend, onto the next. I game on the most popular club/bar street in my city so there are way too many women to be even wasting time with someone not interested or playing too much games
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:00 PM
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I mean true sometimes you just can’t catch these girls out in person unless you’re heavily stalking them or something. Sliding in DMs is sometimes the only option when pursuing a specific women
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:49 PM
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Listen to this
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:46 PM
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Yall gotta give up faith in pua’s for real before I just become one myself and take advantage of impressionable men
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:42 PM
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From personal experience: In south American latin countries this works 9/10, in Canada this works 5/10, 4/10 it doesn’t work and 1/10 the girl will wave and smile😂 I haven’t been to america but I imagine this definitely works in certain states. If you’re a 5’5” spazz of course it’s not gonna work but if you’re decent looking and wave at the right girl then yah easy money
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:36 PM
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I mean you definitely got a point too. Once talking to women becomes easy to you, you just realize it’s all just odds. Of course you can do things to increase your odds but if we were all blank humans finding a partner would still be odds cause some people still won’t like an overly nice personality, or goofy personality. It’s just data and statistics. It doesn’t gotta be just approach the first 100 women but it could 100 you are attracted too, then sort out that data
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:26 PM
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True you really can just “feel” it. And let’s be real, women are pursued by men from a young age so they usually have a higher understanding of social cues. So more often than not a girl isn’t gonna hold eye contact for more than a moment if she doesn’t want you to talk to her (in a non work environment)
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:20 PM
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It’s a video game term where you play with no reservations or hesitation to see how far you can push the limits of your skill. I just apply it to real life game.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:54 PM
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Well you see theres manipulative mind games, then theres harmless ones, possibly a little toxic but harmless overall. I like to limit test so I might do something like hug and girl and while hugging I’m actually giving a look to her friend who I actually want, I’ve had that end up in a threesome one time. On the opposite side I’ve had a girl make seductive faces or wink at me, then her boyfriend appears 15 seconds later. That ended in a “draw” cause while I did say “don’t do that” to start a con…
/r/seduction10/10/22 05:43 AM
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Don’t be the guy trying to read girl’s fortunes in the bar. I mean sure it’s unique but see tarot reading I’m not saying it’s girly but it’s just something that girls are mostly into. It’s that extra step in the interest of spirituality and zodiacs that mostly women are willing to take so it seems a little feminine. But honestly even though it’s toxic the most fun games to play in these bars and clubs are mind games. Just don’t be the oblivious one and you’ll either win or draw every time
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:38 AM
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Me personally I usually say I have liquor back at the crib cause a lot of these girls just wanna keep partying and have fun. They know if they leave the club they can’t get “more lit” anymore so they wanna know they can go some place where they can keep having fun that isn’t as simple as “getting dicked down”
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:33 AM
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They amateurs for real man, the hand thing is basic technique
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:17 AM
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Wait the hand technique is impressive to yall? Lmfao that’s a basic bread and butter to me, wait till you graduate to the cheek kiss greeting opener, yall gon be shitting your pants just thinking about it😂. The key is to catch eye contact and hold it first.
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:17 AM
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Let me tell you something, you did nothing wrong. One thing to understand about the club is, it’s basically a random outcome generator. There’s no point in questioning a girl’s behaviour because they usually don’t make sense anyway. You kinda just learn to brush it off, I’ve had things from a girl buying me a shot then rejecting me, dancing with me then stopping to say she’s a lesbian just to let the creepiest guy who was harassing her 5 secs ago weasel his way in a triple kiss with her and a gi…
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:13 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. A check box as simple as “having a nose ring” can increase your chances with women who like it. I mean it also decreases your chances with women who don’t but then you gotta think about how much profit did you make? If 5 million women like a nose ring and 2 million don’t like it, I’m still +3 million. There’s also advanced boxes like being in shape, things you gotta work hard on and develop. Having muscles would put you on the majority side of women who find it attract…
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:53 AM
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You’re probably being too flamboyant instead of just laidback or chill.
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:17 AM
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I mean if you’re not already experienced, it’s hard for me to say “just go on the trip and talk to other women”, whether that be her friends or strangers but if you don’t see yourself as someone who can go out and talk to random women then it won’t work. However if you are someone who can accomplish that then go on the trip, have fun and be on city boy timing. If she sees you showing interest in other women, who knows, that might just make her backtrack and start liking you.
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:10 AM
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I mean hey, there was a lesson learned. At least you can leave with that. Don’t tell girls you love them, even if you do. Actions speak louder than words. You can do the most loving(within reason) gestures and she won’t be freaked out till you actually say it.
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:20 PM
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Don’t say anything, fuck her for 2 hours and PUT HER TO SLEEP. Then cuddle her ass, she not gonna want you to go nowhere after laying what you laid
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:18 PM
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Gotta hard friendzone them. Start calling her a friend during casual conversation. “I can see us being good friends”, “you’re already such a good friend”
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:17 PM
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I like to go to bars and clubs with good music. I’d say I can be a fun guy to women cause they like to dance and I’m good at dancing. And I don’t mean corny dancing to some rock or pop but to afrobeats and dancehall. I don’t just go up behind girls, I always ask even if it’s a girl not dancing. While grinding I press my cheek against theirs, nibble on their ear and neck, it’s real close and intimate. Sounds risky right, but think about it, she’s already basically dry humping you while you’re gra…
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:14 PM
1

You don’t just call her randomly, you ask. Personally I’ve never had a call rejected cause it’s not really a big deal. This anxiety you speak of must be coming mostly from the men’s side and that’s a problem they gotta figure out themselves. Girls literally love video and audio calls, that alone will make you standout most of the time and if you know how to talk then it’s easy.
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:38 PM
1

The cheatcode is being able to express yourself better on a voice call than on a toneless, voiceless greybox text. She can hear the tone of your voice, better understand your humor from the way you say jokes instead of the way you type them. In terms of your personality thats gonna be up to you. If you’re so boring with no substance that you’re unable to entertain someone over the phone, I mean 1 idk how you’ll do it in person and 2 I’d recommend working on yourself, learn how to be someone wome…
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:30 PM
11

Are you high? Don’t ever purchase that clown, or any other clown’s course. Just use free content then go outside and apply yourself. Plus being good at texting is overrated. Calling girls and having a nice long convo with them makes sealing the deal so easy it’s almost like a cheat code. She’ll be dam near begging to meet you
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:35 PM
2

I just freestyle honestly. I’ll start out with formalities like what she did for the day then that probably leads into questions depending on what she said. I just be myself, I try not to fit into any archetypes, for example different guys might fall into gangster/street guy, nerd/dork, funny/clown. Thing about falling into the box of an archetype is there are literally hundreds of thousands of men just like you. Women get approached by thousands of men a year so being a typical archetype is not…
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:32 PM
0

Bruh you gotta realize there’s pretty much an unlimited amount of girls. Why care so much about getting rejected by 1 npc when there’s another walking up right behind her, and then 2 more walking up behind that one? When I go out for night gaming in downtown toronto, I could literally stand in one spot and it’s like a conveyor belt of women just passing by in both directions and it doesn’t stop for hours. Sometimes I don’t even say words, I just stick my hand out and see who bites.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:16 PM
2

How to be a good texter? Don’t, call her, if you have a unique and refreshing personality and not just a carbon copy of every other guy she’ll already be into you after the first call. Without fail I always get the “you’re so different, most guys just act/talk the same”
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:02 PM
6

I glad you mention the call over texting. That’s my little cheat code right there. Nowadays I don’t have text conversations with women at all unless she’s engaging it or we’re planning something. All it takes it 1 long call with good vibes and she’s wrapped around your finger. She’s gonna see the call time at 4 hours and think to herself “wow I could talk to him for hours🥰”. Now I don’t recommend trying to talk for 4 hours cause it’s a waste of time but it can happen if the conversation is that …
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:55 AM
0

You think it doesn’t work cause you don’t like it so you’re probably very inexperienced. That’s fine but your pathetic, afraid to talk to women experience doesn’t define others’
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:44 AM
-1

Don’t be weird, girls notoriously play the resistant game all the time then next thing you know after sex she’s tightly hugging you and won’t let go. I get consent is a sensitive thing but most girls do not want a guy asking “Can I have sex with you” while recording verbal consent and getting her to sign a contract for written consent. If a girl is kissing me, letting me rub her area and helping me undress herself, I’m not stopping to ask for consent, while she’s there soaking and thinking “JUST…
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:38 AM
4

The man was depressed from failing on 2 dates he had high expectations for cause he really just wanted his dick wet. Next day he get’s his dick wet by a bad bitch and it was easy. Why wouldn’t he be happy? The mission was accomplished.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:27 AM
3

Rules number 1 of virgin club, you never tell a girl you’re a virgin.
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:11 AM
2

Handshake wasn’t bad. You were able to establish some comfortability with touching without overstepping boundaries with a hug in the gym
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:08 AM
1

Hit em with the “I a man of God” and if they keep pressing just say “I lost count”
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:05 AM
1

Don’t be getting sloppy like that in bars man. Shouldn’t even be messing with type of dirty bitch that’s okay with topping you off in a nasty bathroom.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:45 AM
2

Always go for a first kiss on a first date to gauge interest. If she’s pulling you away to go on a walk thats perfect time to take her to a dark (but safe) corner and makeout, or the car. Grab her hand and lead her to whichever spot you choose, lead her as if you’re going there just to kiss, when you get there, initiate.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:41 AM
0

I mean definitely work on yourself so you don’t have to lie but I don’t see no problem with lying to women. I mean let’s be real, they don’t actually give a shit about our lives anyway. Especially when it’s a girl you don’t wanna take serious, you’re almost doing yourself a disservice not to lie😂. I’m half joking though, lying is bad but it can help progress a relationship. When I didn’t have my own place if I said the truth and told the girl “I’m jobless and sleep on my mom’s couch” I don’t thi…
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:01 PM
1

This is the one right here. Works well if said with confidence
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:14 PM
1

You’re trying to gather logistics from the approach before even doing the approach. Just approach then you answer all these questions. Even if you walk up and she’s totally gross but run through it and take it as warmup/extra practice
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:22 AM
13

If she calls you “sir” tell her “good girl”
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:56 AM
7

But you’re not the same person, you’re a stronger and more disciplined version of yourself. You can do things you couldn’t do before which boosts your confidence level. Don’t be okay with being stagnant and staying the same. You can’t progress in life without changing yourself.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:56 PM
5

Do both🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:56 AM
1

Theres always red flags early but women just love a violent abuser for some reason. That or an ain’t shit dude who makes them a single mother. They hate what’s good for them and love what brings them harm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:17 PM
4

“Pickme” is such a braindead insult when you consider the opposite of it to be “passmearound”
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/22 02:47 PM
1

Lmfaoo women in canada will grind on you like they’re trying to be impregnated that same night then never talk to you again
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:47 PM
1

“I saw you and wanted to talk to you”
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:08 PM
1

Are you really only willing to date black men who are also in tech?
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:05 PM
1

Some girls are just crazy, while nobody would enjoy being beat tf up, they might subconsciously enjoy the toxicity that comes with it. However most women are not into being in an abusive relationship. And not treating a woman “nice” doesn’t automatically mean the opposite of treating her “bad” you can be neutral or indifferent with the “nice” treatment being a reward
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:51 PM
4

Don’t be friends with her if you’re attracted to her. You’ll just be another orbiter hoping she gives you a chance one day. You have things in common with your homies and that should be enough. I’d say only do it if there’s benefits like having her company to attract other women but if you’re just gonna go on friend dates while continuing to pay for everything thats not a friend.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:19 AM
2

It’s crazy the things you can do with 5k and this is what you chose😂 Man some people are truly LOST
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:03 AM
1

Are you from a place where men average 6ft+? Cause 5’9 isn’t that bad. Anyway forget about it being a competition, only way to get better and overcome your fears is to just do it. You’ll gain more confidence overtime.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:51 AM
5

Pitiful
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:21 PM
1

Definitely the first option, always avoid being needy or simpy. Even saying you were nervous is risky cause girls will disqualify you for anything, even if done subconsciously. You could say how you were never big on social media and without sounding snobby come off like you’ve been too focused on personal growth, success and what not
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:44 PM
1

Yeah you can definitely try explaining it to her and hope for the best, if you have a good picture at all I’d at least make that your profile pic so she knows its you and can put a face to the memory
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:41 PM
2

To be honest she’ll probably think it’s creepy. It’s pretty much a tossup whether or not she’ll be okay with it or just ignore you
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:27 PM
164

Orbiting a homeless woman is wild as hell
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:43 PM
1

You just gotta not care
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:19 PM
1

I think you’ll be fine. Try watching vlogs in columbia and you’ll see how sexually liberated the women are which makes them easier to socialize with. You’ll be running rampant over there with your stats, make sure to wrap it up
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:55 PM
2

I’m pretty sure in those grades you’re under the age of 10, I wouldn’t look at that for any kinda data or realization 🤣
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:15 AM
1

Sounds like a chemical imbalance and not a depression caused by being a lonely sexless dude that women pay no attention to. Maybe you need professional help
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:10 AM
1

You can start with growing some balls and being a man. She’s expecting you to make a move, just make it. She’s YOUR girlfriend already. Do what you want and have your way with her (as long as it’s consensual and non abusive of course)
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:24 AM
10

I would have fun while it lasts and move on
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:10 PM
1

I prefer private, I only had to have it open for a while cause I switched to a business profile to run ads but I’m back on private these days
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:50 PM
2

Extremely useful. I remember when my friends taught me how to build my instagram network like 10 years ago. Since then I’ve built of a follower list of 1000+ with at least 800 being women (only men I follow are friends and acquaintances) that I can pretty much just pick and choose from. In terms of the girls I approach first, it starts with the girls that like or comment on my pics or reply to my stories. Sometimes I might flirt with a girl through replying to her story to check her temperature.…
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:42 AM
1

There should never be a last ditch text. A last ditch CALL would have a bigger effect, if you get no answer to the call thats your answer and nothing else needs to be said
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:45 PM
2

They are ALL fair game now. Go crazy lad
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:15 AM
2

Sounds great, you’re a talented vocalist my man
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 05:38 AM
1

Yup the master key vs shitty lock is a top tier analogy
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:35 AM
17

I’ve never heard anything like. If a dude is cultured, not socially inept and can carry himself well around women then he can be a good wingman for me. His race wouldnt matter
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:47 PM
11

She’s happy for the time being cause the dude is selling her a dream. She might end up falling into the cycle of opening her legs to every guy that sells her a dream in hopes that someone will commit to her but all she’s doing is raising her body count and making it hard for a man of actual substance and value to take her seriously
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:46 PM
1

Yeah it’s pretty much hopeless. You could throw a shot in the dark by pulling back for a week, maybe even 2. Then hit her with a call, not a text, a call or facetime. If she doesn’t answer then there’s your absolute closure and don’t contact her again. On the other hand she might answer or might text you if she missed the call to reschedule a time shes free to talk. However do not text her, if she’s already has the simpy/needy/pushy impression then every subsequent text will continue giving her …
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:29 PM
21

Yall literally just come on here and ask “Hey should I completely sabotage myself for no reason🤡?”
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:25 PM
9

I mean, every girl isn’t gonna be soaking in a puddle of her own liquids just from eye contact it definitely does something to them if done in the right situation
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:15 AM
1

If theres distance at the very least you should be calling/facetiming if you want to build attraction
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:31 PM
2

Don’t post ig pics with a girl you’re just dating, also don’t post the cringe pics with 2 or 3 girls on each man to appear as a ladies man. Only pic I’d condone is a group photo,(closeup, not fullybody) with equal men and women, comfortable and unable to tell whos with who
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:54 AM
1

Beautiful girls make my heart race too but I just know deep down that they aren’t special and treat them like any average girl. After all they’re already used to 90% of guys pedestalizing and being intimidated by them. Once you come to realize getting beautiful women is not a tough as it seems you’ll gain the confidence to keep getting more with ease
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:42 AM
3

These dudes be 35 doing shit like that to get a kiss, lmfao like grow up🤣
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:57 PM
1

I see some people are not a fan of asking, apparently some girls complain about it also but I can’t say asking has ever failed me. If she likes you she will say yes, simple. If you kiss her good asking will be a non factor and something she completely forgets about. If she doesn’t call back after asking and getting a kiss, the kiss was trash
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:52 PM
2

And moaning? Pause
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:50 PM
3

I mean yeah these are all pretty much gems. Depending on the situation one of these should work otherwise she probably just doesn’t wanna kiss you. One of my favourites are asking if she’s a good kisser and gauging her kissing skills or if she even likes to kiss. Helps get her in the mood, but I don’t go for it right away, let her soak in the anticipation. My other favourite is the quick and innocent pecks on the cheek, forehead and neck (usually while dancing at a club or standing with her back…
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:47 PM
2

I used to run circles when it came to Instagram game. Yes that little exchange is a open door to the dms. Don’t come on too strong but definitely slide in there.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:52 AM
2

Put too much pressure on her, but you know what you did wrong. Just don’t do it again. You gotta her work her up to the point where she’s the one with this type of eagerness
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:50 AM
80

No note, you’re either gonna have to work up the courage to approach and talk to her or just move on. In a week, if 1 guy approaches her confidently and asks her out and another guy leaves her a note with his number, who do you think she’s choosing?
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:48 AM
1

True but also the higher value she is the more higher value she wants her guy to be
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:02 AM
0

Involve her in it
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:19 PM
1

You’re having trouble escalating cause you’re literally just not escalating. You wanna sit and text all day and hope it turns sexual. You have to escalate by getting her on a phone call or facetime, by planning a date, then inviting her to your place or if she’s nice being invited to hers
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:10 PM
1

I think the help you actually need is elsewhere fella
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:48 PM
1

Nah some dudes really just be cringe af.
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:45 AM
1

Man up and call the girl. Save yourself a whole day of texting with a 1 hour call in the evening. Plus women get in a different mode at night, she’ll probably be the one to engage in sexual talk first. GG now there’s sexual tension and all you did was speak with your voice instead of mute text bubbles that convey no emotion or vocal tonality
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:43 AM
1

Going off by what you say you’re interesting so I guess you got a good vibe and your place is a warehouse art studio. Sounds like some cool atmosphere, I ain’t surprised you get laid often when you go on dates. You gotta remember a lot of dudes are just weird and socially awkward so they ruin it for themselves when really it could be as simple as being yourself, and standing firm, then the seduction comes naturally, instead of trying to conform to what they think would impress her
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:34 AM
2

Lmfao, you know what fuck it, yes. Yes you should, be her best friend, let her confide in you. Be there for when she tells you about what he does wrong. Be there for when she cheats on him with some other guy that isn’t even you. Be there for when she wants you to bring food to her door and rewards you with just a thank you.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:15 AM
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If she hasn’t already responded to previous texts just take a hint already sheesh. The fact that you’re even so pressed on texting is already an L. A simple call would have gave you your final answer. Either she’d answer or she wouldn’t
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:10 AM
1

Stop being so outwardly emotional and maybe they’ll gain some respect for you.
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:48 PM
2

At that point just get her to help you get other women. Maybe if you’re good at getting other women without looking like a clown she’ll gain attraction, just maybe though
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:47 PM
5

Don’t text, give her a call. For 1 it stands out from the other 5 dudes pursing her that are also trying to think of the best things to say through text and for 2 it’s less work. 30 minute call > 3 days of texting
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:52 PM
1

Not bad, definitely something that wouldn’t hurt and could only benefit you if they take it the right way👍
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:26 AM
1

The key is not to text. Guys want to spend days, weeks of months trying to seduce women over text when it’s really just a lost cause. Texting should be to plan a meet up otherwise if you’re trying to seduce her from a distance it’s just so much easier to talk on the phone
/r/seduction11/04/22 12:48 AM
2

Foreplay, start with kissing and turn her on by kissing her neck and rubbing the inside on her thighs but on top of her pants. She’ll let you know if you’re going too far. Slowly escalate from rubbing through the clothes to putting your hand in her shirt, if she lets you touch her breasts you can try putting your hands in her pants and rub through the panties. The key is the slow escalation to get her horny to the point that she wants it. If you can do all that without her saying to stop then st…
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:15 AM
1

This is a once in a blue moon situation that happened with a drunk whore, I wouldn’t bother trying to replicate it, just be happy you experienced something so wild and spontaneous with minuscule effort
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:02 AM
1

👏👏👏
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:59 AM
0

All you have to do is click the info button on your profile and compare it to that of a celebrity for example. Huge difference, don’t be delusional😂
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:19 AM
0

You probably got one of those fake blue checks. There’s ways to tell who paid for a blue check and who has one for actually being a social figure. Just hope the ladies don’t start catching on
/r/seduction09/04/22 09:58 PM
36

You get a response then what? You DM 10, 2 respond, 0 meet up with you. So now we DMing IG models that really only care about blue checks and dudes that got something to offer for our own validation? Sad.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:13 PM
7

You have no confidence
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:08 PM
3

Precisely🎯
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:46 AM
14

Act completely indifferent. Don’t come off as if you’re trying to compete, but rather it’d be completely fine if she chose him.
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:07 PM
4

It’s not, you either do it or don’t
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:35 PM
1

You could try opening with how you always see her on the bus and noticed her unique style.
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:24 PM
10

Go continue to live your life and stop obsessing over things that don’t matter AT ALL
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:27 AM
4

In a good world she absolutely should support you, in this evil world it’s likely she’ll find it weak and be turned off by it even if it’s subconsciously. Personally I wouldn’t be with a woman who couldn’t support me when I’m feeling down
/r/seduction07/04/22 12:31 AM
1

Excellent post
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:09 PM
1

Y’all are already more than friends. As an older men that I’m assuming if of higher value, he’s probably just waiting to see if you’re worth the commitment. Show him you can be trusted and bring value to his life.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:44 AM
28

This question shouldn’t even need consideration but absolutely yes it’s a waste. Especially for $8000? For $8000 that coach better be physically placing vagina on my piece and rock her back n forth
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:10 PM
2

She might be a hobosexual
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:25 AM
1

At this point you could probably just go for it without being drunk, start with foreplay
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:23 AM
2

You just gotta understand that it’s necessary to keep your options open. Not only because she also has plenty of options but because you don’t want to invest time and feelings into one person just for it to not work and you have to restart with another stranger
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:20 AM
2

Funny thing is if anyone of these girls tried to reach out to you to come over or something you’d probably accept it in an instant. But oops too bad you blocked them already. No point in blocking women unless she actually won’t leave you alone. You only did that to make yourself feel better when really you did them a favour
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:17 AM
1

A kiss is always a good place to start. I can’t exactly tell you how to get it. Asking and just going for it have both worked for me so you gotta feel that vibe out. You could try asking “are you a good kisser?” or maybe saying something like “I can’t be with someone who’s a bad kisser”. I like the latter cause then she feels like she has to prove herself
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:02 AM
4

I get the point. Skip all the in between bullshit that comes with dealing with women and have your needs met but personally I could just never bring myself to pay for no desire, no affection, passionless, sex. You may as well just masturbate or get a sex doll otherwise paying an overly ran through sex worker for sex is a tad desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:49 AM
1

How about if you want to be more than friends just tell him instead of kissing your “friend” and wondering what it is between yall
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:33 PM
13

I guess looks come out on top. There’s good looking bums everywhere just running through pussy. But if you weren’t born with extremely good looks then you’d have to work for it it like lifting weights which would most likely cost anyway
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:31 PM
1

Yeah you’d definitely have to take more initiative to get the number, I mean she didn’t judge you for not having a car, gave you a ride when it was out of the way, had good conversation. You could have used that as an excuse like “Hey I gotta make this up to you now” and get her number/ask her out. You definitely have a chance. Women are nice but they aren’t that nice to people they aren’t interested in
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:35 PM
1

Yes that vocal tonality is key. It can really give women of feel of your real personality and demeanour. You easily turn from just words in a text bubble to a real person
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:13 AM
1

Are you type of girl that gets off on pleasuring random dudes that are in need of something sexual in their life? I saw a story one time of a girl who would just go up to random dudes that look like they get no sex and would ask if she could give them a bj or if they want to fuck her. Didn’t think that was actually a thing
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:07 PM
1

Comedy😂
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:22 AM
2

So she said no insta and you didn’t ask for anything else? Did she say no to the number I’m so confused
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:01 AM
1

Best friend?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:59 AM
1

This is like me, but more like two or threeitis. Doesn’t affect me much tho. Just continue to spin plates till you find one you like a lot. There will always be another
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:54 AM
1

Best advice for dudes who don’t know what to say: SAY ANYTHING I mean literally say anything (apart from things that are blatantly deplorable or creepy). You can put some thought into certain things but just say the first, or second, thing that comes to your mind that’s within context of the conversation
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:48 AM
1

Are you asking for it? Women get instantly turned off when asked for sex. You just gotta flow into it. Slowly peeling back the layers of escalation, while at the same time coming off like you’re not desperate for or trying to rush into sex happening
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:41 AM
1

Grow out your beard man, no homo I think you’d instantly become more attractive
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:37 AM
1

Wow the unmitigated gal women can have sometimes😂 Dudes have to use their mouth piece more, it’s very possible to game a chick without ever buying her a drink. Although there is this one VERY risky technique where you buy a girl a drink but then leave her alone. Every guy that has bought her a drink expects something even if it’s just a conversation, but because you had no expect and walked away you instantly stand out and she might become interested. I would only recommend this for dudes with d…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:35 AM
4

Come to the happy medium, phone calls or FaceTimes. Has never failed me. When I start talking to a girl that seems interesting I get her on a call. That’s usually all it ever takes, 1 call and they are captured by your infectious personality. Next thing you know they want to talk every other night if not every night. I can’t say talking every night has failed me but I came to realize I was giving too much attention doing that. Either way try it out, a phone call a couple times a week pretty much…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:26 AM
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