MisstaBrightside Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Let's get YOU a wingman! I am still actively looking for wings in SD as well. I go out pretty consistently on the weekends, if anyone is in the area then send me a message if you would be down to come out with me.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 02:35 AM
1	What’s up with Revelation being so obscure and expensive? You can find the book for free online, but not the audio CDs, don’t pay for it.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 01:53 AM
1	Wingman in San Diego? Hey man, I am super down. Let me know if you or anyone else for that matter is trying to go out tonight.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 01:32 AM
8	Let's get YOU a wingman! San Diego, California. DM me	/r/seduction	21/09/19 11:07 PM
2	Girl keep sending me mixed signal Correct! That was not a date, ya’ll were just hanging out. Move onto the next one.	/r/seduction	20/09/19 02:55 AM
-4	Asked a girl out a week ago. We set it for tomorrow. Haven’t spoken to her since. What do I do now? Why follow up? Would a confident man call to “make sure”? Just show up to the date. If she doesn’t show up to the date then she never liked you to begin with and if you feel like you need to confirm, then what you are really saying is that you are unsure of her feelings towards you. Always trust your gut! It won’t lie to you bro! You are supposed to ask for the address and tell her you’ll pick her up at such and such time when you call to ask for the first date anyway. This is also one of the ke…	/r/seduction	20/09/19 02:34 AM
1	For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on. Desperate really? A high value male would never ever turn down a woman for sex? Maybe the guy that doesn't sleep with her right away has a different agenda, like marriage. What if the guy was raised Christian? The men I just described are still out there so keep that in mind. Don't get me wrong, a lot of guys would unfortunately agree with you, but great sex won't keep a good guy around very long if it's with the wrong woman. Is the sex more important to you than the girl? You would really leave…	/r/seduction	18/09/19 07:33 PM
0	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated I'm notgoingtodothat. I have been around the block just like you so I think I know a little more about what a man actually goes through in the dating scene than you. I wish you luck with your hot cool guy, I'm sure he'll love you for your attitude.	/r/seduction	17/09/19 12:06 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated You can generate stronger attraction by not initiating the text, again in the context that the girl is legit into you. This is all I am trying to do, provide common sense to these guys who are blinded by the beauty that is woman.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:18 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated None taken, but it does work when a girl is legitimately interested. What games exactly?...girls always default to that vague general statement.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:01 PM
2	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated This is exactly the point I am trying to convey to the original poster though. The original post suggested guys start texting women more in attempts to have better success at getting them to the first date. The only thing that matters is the woman’s level of interest in the man. That’s the real reason why the three girls flaked and started ghosting, not because he wasn’t texting enough. The girls were never into it. My guy could’ve turned this around when he met the girls by generating more attr…	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:57 PM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Hey! I was the valedictorian of my clown college ok? There are no games here, I just enjoy getting down to the core truth and hearing from the females point of view. Let’s not forget we are on this board together.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:41 PM
0	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated On the contrary, my approach benefits me tremendously. I agree 100%, it is true that this is a woman’s game and they know how to play it best. Men are the initiators by default, which is great! no complaints there, but there are things a man can do to hurt his chances for a long term relationship with a female and I believe telephone blunders and messaging are on that list, that’s all I am trying to get across to the guys.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 03:51 PM
0	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Awesome, thanks for sharing that! Basically, for the gentlemen reading this who may be confused by a woman, it all comes down to a woman’s level of interest in you (0-100%). You can text a girl who is 80% into you sure, but I say that number goes higher when you don’t, which is why I think you should avoid texting altogether.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:18 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Correct, but I don’t like texting anyone period. Call me old fashioned, I prefer hearing a woman’s voice when I communicate with her. Sounds like it does have a detrimental effect on your feelings towards the man, which is why I advise men not to text at all. I am 28 years young.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 07:07 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated That’s exactly what a wise man would want you to believe. All the way up until that glorious moment when you ask him to go steady, but this is a tip for the men reading this not for the women. I highly doubt you would start to pull away from the guy you were really into who did this to you, but it sounds like you’ve either not liked a guy that much right off the bat or the ones you did really like never treated you this way.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:58 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated So then why give out your phone number to a stranger when you are not even interested in the first place? Just say you have a boyfriend to let him down gently and save everyones time. They say guys play games in relationships, but you women are no better. Why lead him on and accept a date if you are not going to put it on your calendar or set a reminder? A man has never and will never intentionally setup a date only to break it. I asked the celebrity thing because I was going to put you both in …	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:38 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated So to get to the bottom of this, overall, does the higher rate of text messages from a guy you willingly gave your phone number to have a positive effect or a detrimental effect on your romantic feelings/level of interest towards him?...	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:23 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Hmm...so how do you “forget about him” exactly? Do you just not show up for the date or are you courteous enough to cancel the date before the day actually comes around? By the way do you have a celebrity crush?	/r/seduction	16/09/19 06:07 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Amen, a lot of guys don’t pickup the hint though and think persistence is the key to the girls heart. So if this guy you are into doesn’t text you daily, is that a deal breaker for you?	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:58 AM
9	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Keywords “guy I’m into”.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:52 AM
-1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated So guys ask you for your phone number when they are not interested? Do you always give your phone number to a guy when he asks for it?	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:46 AM
1	How do you guys stay positive? I shift my own mindset by always repeating positive affirmations to myself ESPECIALLY when I don't feel it inside, I am my own cheerleader/hype man. I literally crack jokes to myself immediately after it happens too, I'll say dumb shit like "Got Damn Ryan Gosling ain't got shit on me!" or "She obviously wanted me" or "Well that's a weird way for her to treat her soulmate". Yes, I realize these are very bad examples, but the point is to always have fun and make that your priority. You have a cert…	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:00 AM
17	For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on. Practice discipline and only sleep with a guy after he is your boyfriend. This will filter out the ones who just want sex and you won't feel used anymore. A big part of this is also that a scary amount of modern men (boys really) don't know how to date and court women so don't put all that pressure on yourself.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 04:14 AM
2	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Sounds like it's over with the three girls so why beat a dead horse? I do agree that this should be tested first though, please let us know how this works out in the future.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 04:01 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Interesting, I believe it turns off most women when done in the very beginning stages of the relationship. I don't think a guy should be doing that before the girl becomes the girlfriend and even then it's still a bad idea. Space is very important to the relationship.	/r/seduction	16/09/19 03:49 AM
1	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Wait, so every single guy who has texted you on the daily has gotten a date with you?...	/r/seduction	15/09/19 10:33 PM
4	I just went clubbing solo. (Not a success story) So you talk shit to yourself before going out!? hahaha! Man, lighten up and try hyping it up instead. Say shit like "Tonight is gonna be fucking fun!" "I can't wait to play with my fellow human beings in the bar/club and meet new people" "These people aren't ready for the party that is ME" etc. I know it's very hard doing it alone, I am in the same boat, but you already do it bro! shit takes guts and most people won't even leave the got damn house without the buddy system. Acknowledge and apprec…	/r/seduction	15/09/19 02:03 AM
1	Girl is being short with responses for no apparent reason after first date I should report you for this advice...	/r/seduction	15/09/19 01:37 AM
1	Girl is being short with responses for no apparent reason after first date First of all, good job for getting this girl out on the date with you, most girls online are time wasters, but you made a lot of mistakes here. You should not have gotten "deep" with this girl on the date. Your only job was to make her laugh and show her a good time, which you make no mention of. You then should've been the one to cut the date first, after an hour or hour and a half (only this long because she's an hour away) you could've literally just said "I gotta be somewhere" followed by le…	/r/seduction	15/09/19 01:25 AM
1	I just went clubbing solo. (Not a success story) If this helps you at all, you basically just described me in a fucking nutshell bro. Three quick questions... What do you mean by prepping exactly? How long did you do the PUA thing and how was that experience? Why do you talk so negatively about yourself?	/r/seduction	15/09/19 12:54 AM