| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 272 | Yep... Pigtails mean you are a slut and how dare she wear her hair like that outside the house... | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | Misswinter69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 10:33 AM |
| 6 | Well don't I feel lucky .... | THINGS SCROTES SAY | Misswinter69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:33 PM |
| 4 | In labor and having a baby but her fault he missed it🤔😤 | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | Misswinter69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Wow 2 hour mood swing 😆 I hadn't even been online since he send the message 🤷♀️ | Misswinter69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:28 AM | |
| 1 | When/If to disclose previous trauma | DISCUSSION | Misswinter69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Dating a (potential) HVM | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | Misswinter69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:14 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | (Xpost) "Today this gentleman brought me a flower... He wow’s me every day" I just wanna get myself a gentleman like him...Mine brought me a half dead bird this morning... Is he a lvm 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | In labor and having a baby but her fault he missed it🤔😤Definitely so sad and so many red flags but making her feel bad for not calling every second when she was pushing another human out its a new low! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | In labor and having a baby but her fault he missed it🤔😤It's not my post it's one saw in a sub I just couldn't post the imagine. Just wanted to show how awful Lvm can be, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | In labor and having a baby but her fault he missed it🤔😤I know ignoring all the other red flags she mentioned, this awful that she is actually believing him that she is the bad guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:42 PM |
| 9 | Anyone Else Not Interested in Dating At All After Reading FDS?I think it's a somewhat good way to feel when dating. I blocked so many guys, didn't fall for any crap and didn't let down my boundaries purely because I had the mind set of not wanting to date if that makes any sense 😂 I really didn't care if things didn't work out because I wasn't even that bothered so it meant it was much easier to stick to my standards. My current boyfriend had to work from the first conversation to show me that he was worth me investing my emotions and I think that's the be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:43 PM |
| 26 | Shouldn't this be obvious? Literally what women are expected to do everyday + more. Considering the amount of upvotes/comments however the bar is in hell.Hey guys hot tip I've literally just discovered...... If we actually shower and look after our appearance girls like us... Lol I know I've literally just discovered this who knew... The bar is so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 21 | ***trigger warning*** Psychotic Pickmeisha Boasts About Being Pervy Hubby’s Full Time SLAVE & F*ck Doll. But, Don’t Worry, Queens! It’s BDSM So It’s Fine 😅Who says romance is dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:09 PM |
| 4 | If you’re dating a HVM right now and you don’t live together, how much do you all communicate?Been with my guy just under 6 months. He messages me first without fail every morning and we chat a few times during the day depending on work/plans etc and then a bit more in the evening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:44 PM |
| 12 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEWhat sub is this from? I'm dying to see the comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:01 PM |
| 207 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEI honestly can't believe half of these tales are real. Please someone enlighten me HOW these type of men even get girlfriends and WHY said girlfriends put up with this level of behavior 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:55 PM |
| 13 | Let's spread some hope and remember there ARE HVM out there! :)Only been under 6 months so still in potential stage but he is doing good so far.... we didn't have sex for over 3 months he never once pressured me, never had wandering hands, never pouted, huffed or even brought it up again after the first time I mentioned wanting to wait. *He is never crass or smutty, never makes pathetic sex jokes or immature innuendos. He doesn't have any bizarre fetishes. For example we were watching a documentary and unprompted he expressed how he finds it so hard to unde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 140 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.I'd love to know how spicing up the bedroom involves watching him fuck a plastic doll... What is she supposed to get from that situation 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:08 PM |
| 13 | If you keep explaining and nothing changes, it's not going to get better. He's dedicated to not putting effort in.Was trying to give you my free award but can't figure out how! So take my up votes ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:13 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that kissing and making out are now automatically assumed to lead to sex right afterwards? And men complaining about being "led on" and "blue balls"? What happened to just wanting to snuggle and be intimate?Yeah we are comming up to six months so past more than making out 😂 but he is a good one 🥰 never moaned, forced his self or even asked when can we do it he said the first time I'm happy to wait till you are comfortable and it was never mentioned again! I was shocked but they do exist😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 21 | Why is it that kissing and making out are now automatically assumed to lead to sex right afterwards? And men complaining about being "led on" and "blue balls"? What happened to just wanting to snuggle and be intimate?Yep my current bf was aware kissing was as far as we were going in the beginning stages, he asked if it was OK to put his hands on my hip whilst we made out and he's hands never ever moved! Even several weeks down the line! Previously I'd also end up feeling pressured with the wandering hands etc and end up having sex before I wanted to. It was so lovely to have someone respect and not push your boundaries but sad that it has taken so long to experience that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:29 PM |
| 30 | Why is it that kissing and making out are now automatically assumed to lead to sex right afterwards? And men complaining about being "led on" and "blue balls"? What happened to just wanting to snuggle and be intimate?Got to say blue balls are a huuuge myth! When I was initially dating my current bf I waited 3 months to do the deed, prior to this we had a few heavy make out sessions where he was obviously aroused I asked him didnt it hurt when we then didn't Do anything. He had never heard of blue balls and said there is no pain whatsoever going from being highly aroused for 30-40minites to then not doing anything 🤷♀️ Seems just another lie from lvm to get their rocks off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:25 PM |
| 22 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Doesn't have to be good just want to see what I'm working with? 🙈😂😂😂 If only I wasn't in a relationship I'd be replying 😭 damn you girls are lucky! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 98 | I have no idea who is she, but my heart breaks for her, she's hitting pickme levels ain't even unlocked yetJust wait till you find the right HVM then you will 😆 but till then do your own things and don't settle for less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 70 | Ladies, is it true love if you settle for the boring man of your dreams who hated you when he first met you, after you beg him to consider dating you for a third time?He says yes only after having another date with a different girl which didn't work out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 93 | Ladies, is it true love if you settle for the boring man of your dreams who hated you when he first met you, after you beg him to consider dating you for a third time?Cool.. Funny AND didn't ask for nudes... Well what more could you possibly want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Do Men Care if You Come?If you have a hvm he cares. My current bf is all about my pleasure each and every time. I get off several times before we even touch him no matter how long that takes. Has been the same since the start he's the only partner I've been with who has been like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Be leery of advice from "friends"I'd probally do all that just to show him what he AINT getting back. No matter how much he begged. Bye asshole! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:54 AM |
| 55 | There is so much hilarity in this post. But if I had to pick my favorite, it’s that even an incel chooses the women who make him invest in them. Never prize yourself on looks or circumstances: you are a queen the moment you decide you are.Shows that lvm men complain about everything 😆 complaining that he spent money and supported women but now he's found an independent one complains that she doesn't need him 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Since it’s my cake dayEh what 😂 damn i wish it did stop after a few years. What do they teach guys at school? Never been more glad that my BF has two older sisters so is well versed on periods. This guys seems like the type who would refuse to pick you up some pads or tampons CuZ pEOPlE WOuLd bE lOoKiNg aT hIm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:17 AM |
| 2 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰I'm in a relationship now but I love the power and confidence fds gives you when you block these assholes. When I did old it was so fun to unmatch people within a few messages who hadn't responded with what I require or had said something that set of little alarm bells. It's so freeing to not give a shit and be able to say byee as you move to the next one without thinking should I give him a chance... am I blocking "the one". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:08 AM |
| 11 | "men have integrity" "MEn don't need to get naked to get a job" 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡Yeah definitely few months ago I had a 16 hour tattoo (over 2 days) starting from my thigh going up my hips, ribs and under arms so had to be pretty much naked for the entire process with just a few patches to cover thing such as nipple. I picked a female artist as I knew I wouldn't feel comfortable lying there totally naked infront of a strange guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:03 AM |
| 6 | Do any of you have HVM dads?My step dad is a HVM! They got together when I was 4 and my sister was 8 and since that day he has been a dad. He raised us, spend time with us, engaged up in our respective hobbies, eg took my sister too football games, I love music he bought and taught me guitar he would take me to gigs. As we got older he taught us how to do DIY stuff, change car tyres, minor engine repairs and maintenance etc he always said you don't need a man you are strong/clever enough to do xyz so don't let any man tell… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:18 PM |
| 2 | "My bf doesn't do foreplay so I cOmmUnicated, countless times, but he won't change... why?!"I mean that tells you all you need about how little he thinks about her and how little he values her feelings..... She should dump his butt but we all know she won't so hopefully she will stop having sex until he warms her up first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 22 | I hope her divorce lawyer has a wonderful time with the public photographic evidence of his cheating.Exactly if he genuinely hated himself he would have stopped after the first time not carried on for 8 months its disgusting. I feel for his wife I can imagine her heart dropping seeing her husband on a colleagues fb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 18 | Straight for a man's thoughts.Yep easier for us to get guys... But they ain't the ones we want 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:17 PM |
| 137 | I hope her divorce lawyer has a wonderful time with the public photographic evidence of his cheating."I hate myself"=" I hate that I got caught" "I've been meaning to end it for a while"=" I had no intention of ending things till I got caught" Best part is the NoNe of tHiS wOuLd HaVe HaPpEnEd iF sHe HaDnT gOtTeN SiCk OF mY sHiT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 34 | “its pretty cool cuz she doesnt care if i fuck up my life”I was just thinking this haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | “its pretty cool cuz she doesnt care if i fuck up my life”This is awful... I can't be a good man but now I don't need to.... Clearly she ain't got him on fb, 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Imagine thinking consent is a turn offMy BF does this before we have sex/ he touches me, it's sad that he's the only guy whose ever done this! But I find it a big turn on, and often during sex he will check in to make sure its still all good. I mean how can someone caring so much about you that they put your comfort and needs above their own sexual urge to get off be a turn off? 🤷♀️ the world is broken! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | HVM are so rare, I'm accepting that I might be alone forever.Honestly get off tinder I can guarantee no hvm use it! If you have to do old use something like match or eharmony they are deeper than the swipe if I'm hot and the effort (you have to do a 30+ question personality test) and money needing to complete the sign ups at least indicates some serious intent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:05 AM |
| 7 | First inviting me to hangout with his roommate and play Mario cart for our first date and then this.... GodI'm sure lvm are loving covid gives them a excuse for cheap ass dates😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Found this lol. "What myth is still widely circulated as truth?" Sorry, didn't know what flair to use.So true! I once dated a guy I didn't physically find attractive but his personality was and over a few dates this in turn made him physically attractive. He turned out to be right dick and ghosted me a few months down the line. I wasnt even sad just salty that I'd given his ugly ass a chance and he still turned out to be a dick 😂 Thankfully I now have my HVM so it was for the best!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:51 PM |
| 42 | Yep... Pigtails mean you are a slut and how dare she wear her hair like that outside the house...How dare you look attractive to other people 😂 get back in your cage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 84 | Yep... Pigtails mean you are a slut and how dare she wear her hair like that outside the house...Luckily all the comment from both male and females were telling her to gtfo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:38 AM |
| 55 | The “Arrangement” 🤣Aw damn it I have tattoos.... 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | "Apologise like a straight man in the comments section"Yeah hate that one just tryna get sympathy and an ego boost. Nah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 4 | "Apologise like a straight man in the comments section"I'm sorry you felt that way... I'm sorry my behaviour made you feel xyz... I'm sorry you took it personally.. All apologies.... without an actual apology 😂 but hey they said sorry... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Dodged a bullet thanks to FDS (story in comments)I think I'd take the 200 to help teach him a lesson 😛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:10 AM |
| 6 | The last five dates I've had have had the same theme - the men aren't listening, but waiting to talk.I thinks it's were vetting pre date is super important. Usually can spot these guys from a mile of over text. When you first start chatting to someone and have exchanged 5/6 message have a look over. Who is doing the questions? Whose making the effort. Are they answering all the questions and not asking anything about you. Are you having to try carry the conversation. I unmatched a lot of people who by the 5/6 message hadn't even asked anything about me. I'm also kinda half arsed at first, I wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 11 | Caring for me after experiencing pet lossSo lovely to read! My BF was (still is) like this. So refreshing to have someone not constantly trying to grab ass, grope you and push your boundaries. To just enjoy having a cuddle with no end goal of getting in your pants. HVM respect your boundaries! Hoping he keeps this up and you found yourself a good one! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:33 PM |
| 88 | The goal should be: Power couple at the end of the world.So true! My BF is a farmer. He is confident and comfortable in his skin but never arrogant. He just quietly gets on with making sure everything is in order, this week he's helped several cows birth, in between fixing tractor engines and repairing the fencing. Plus he can use a gun so I think we would have a nice post apocolyse life 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:29 AM |
| 16 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansEugh typical example of a douchebag. How desperate of him as well probally has zero chance with the other girl but clings to the hope that by subbing to her nudes he will get a chance 🙄 Sorry this happened to you but at least you found out fairly early on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 17 | FDS has ruined my lifeHaha yeah not prison probation! Just HVM probation 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 33 | FDS has ruined my lifeAw thanks! It was like I'd been given glasses and suddenly it was so obvious which ones to avoid, I was brutal but it actually felt good and very empowering. Some many of the initial conversations I would unmatch so fast. If they ask for Snapchat, made some kind of sexual inudeno, didn't ask anything about me, didn't carry the conversations etc I unmatched within the first 3/4 messages. It just seemed to click that someone who is actually into you will want to know more, they want to pick your b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:24 PM |
| 28 | FDS has ruined my lifeI'd gotten to the same point as you were guys actually started to irritate me within a few messages 😂 I just seemed to suddenly notice the bullshit early and didn't even give them the time. I was probably pretty frosty to my bf initially as I genuinely didn't care. I was in the mindset of if he wants me then he needs to put the work in and show me that he's worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 11 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Yeah probally after her cheats on her with a girl he does go down on! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Trust your instincts: If you feel like something is wrong with him, there is.Our gut instincts used to keep us alive all those years ago and I do truly believe they have evolved as time has gone on to reflect society etc. I always trust my gut feelings ( although sometime begrudgingly) They have never been wrong and I have never regreted any decision I've made based on my intuition. So important for women to acknowledge and listen to theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Finally ready to date ... but dating sucks right nowI think 2020 is a dating write off thanks to covid. Too much wading though lvm. For your other needs I'd recommend a toy called the womaziner! You wont want to leave the house when you have one of these! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:29 PM |
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