MistaFrees Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home?		MistaFrees	/r/seduction	04/11/15 09:28 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Asking out a friend Nice, good to hear. How did you approach the subject when you two were together? I don't think I'll have an issue once I'm on the date but bringing up the topic is the biggest hurdle for me. I have no problem asking out some random girl but I'm nervous about the fall out from this one.	/r/seduction	30/08/17 03:46 AM
1	Asking out a friend No. She only says nobody asks her out	/r/seduction	29/08/17 11:03 PM
–	So I just got dumped by a girl I went on three dates with, how do I make it a FWB thing? You two were a thing after 3 dates? She broke up with you after 3 dates? 3 dates is like a trial period. It either works or it doesn't. It didn't. Move on.	/r/seduction	29/08/17 08:46 AM
–	Asking out a friend Good point. I don't think this is really a friend-zone case. I think if I make a move it would be well received (but of course I think that). She has said things to me like 'when I go out to bars nobody asks me for my number or asks me out'; I don't think that is a friend-zone type of statement and I'm viewing it as more of an invitation. Also when I'm with her she will stand super close to me. What are some signs that you're in the friend-zone?	/r/seduction	29/08/17 08:11 AM
–	Asking out a friend Thanks bro, that's what I was planning on doing - glad I can hear it from someone else.	/r/seduction	29/08/17 04:51 AM
–	Asking out a friend I'm not sure if you're joking or not but I think that shows terrible social awareness. Do you really think a girl wants some guy to pounce on her in front of all her friends? What will her friends think of her? Not really the answer I'm looking for but I wasn't expecting much from this sub anyway.	/r/seduction	29/08/17 04:20 AM
6	First Date Flake.. That's a good point at least she told you what happened and remembered the date with you. Don't stress, shit happens - just reschedule.	/r/seduction	25/08/17 03:26 AM
1	What are your MOST IMPORTANT tips for a first date? You need to find the right girl, the right girl can make a date go amazing and a shit girl can make you feel like you're going to run off while she's in the bathroom. Just keep looking and practicing, it'll come in time. Tinder is great to just practice dating, I've been on so many 'first dates' it feels like I go on auto pilot. It's great practice to figure out what to talk about, what works, what doesn't work, how to keep a conversation going, how to change topics either smooth or abrupt, how …	/r/seduction	25/05/17 08:03 PM
–	Do Any Of You Guys Get Tripped Up By Women Who Come On Strong Out of The Gate? Fuck it, move on to the next one. I'm always suspicious of girls who come on strong, something's not quite right about it. I went to a college with 27% females and I saw girls play all these dudes just for the sport of it, idk maybe they like it or something.	/r/seduction	02/03/17 05:32 PM
5	Everyone seems against a lot of texting on here, but what if you can't meet up with a girl for like a week? I second this, I prefer to do something I am starting to call 'machine gun texting'. I will send 2-4 consecutive messages to the girl quickly, I can lump them into a single text block but I think the rapid firing of them makes it seem more genuine, more energetic and seems to get a better response from girls I haven't talked to in while. I'll do this at random times of the week too, whenever I feel like it. I'll slam out 3 or 4 machine gun texts on a tuesday night if I'm meeting the girl that up…	/r/seduction	01/03/17 02:25 AM
–	Do Any Of You Guys Get Tripped Up By Women Who Come On Strong Out of The Gate? How did the date go? It sounds like something may have happened during the date that made her second guess her choices later that night. You said she was lackluster, but how do you think you did on the date?	/r/seduction	28/02/17 09:14 PM
3	Are routines essential for certain people? I think you need to get out of your head and not think about it so much, just let it flow and have fun. If you're not having fun, what's the point? If nobody taught you how to count to 10, you can still understand that there are more quantities past 9 and you can make up your own names for the numbers, so you would be able to teach yourself how to count to 10 haha :) Same thing here, you have to figure out what works for you. You can't read a forum and figure out who YOU are, only YOU can do tha…	/r/seduction	27/02/17 09:39 PM
–	Are routines essential for certain people? Get really good at small talk, starting a conversation from scratch is tough but you can learn it with practice. Try starting small conversations with everyone you encounter in your day to day, cashiers, uber drivers, people sitting around you at work or school. You'll get more dynamic with the opening of small talk and then you can lead the conversation into what you want to talk about. In the book The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business, it talks about how habits (routine…	/r/seduction	27/02/17 08:29 PM
–	Date # 1 Confusion Nice, just keep working on yourself and it will show on the dates. Inner game is powerful, don't worry about what you say & do and just become awesome and embody it. If you do awesome things at work, life, socially, etc. (outside of dating) these things will just illuminate out during the date and chicks will want to be around you/go on second dates. Don't worry about one tinder chick, it's not worth it. I once had a good fortune cookie, I taped it to my dresser; It says: "If you're never scared…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 03:52 AM
–	Date # 1 Confusion That means you're getting better at them! How have the past 10 dates gone? Do you go on dates with girls you meet in real life too?	/r/seduction	17/02/17 03:33 AM
–	Date # 1 Confusion Plus this is tinder, people are total wild cards. Just go find another one.	/r/seduction	17/02/17 03:16 AM
–	Date # 1 Confusion I don't know dude, sometimes you just have to let things go, move on and learn. I think texting back two times in a row saying almost the same thing is needy, especially if she didn't text back that night. Maybe she was looking for a quick bang, not a second date - you never know.	/r/seduction	17/02/17 03:15 AM
–	Date # 1 Confusion Did you tell her you had a great time with her two times in a row?	/r/seduction	17/02/17 03:02 AM
–	Thoughts on last ditch text attempts Why don't you just ask her to go out? and why would you type that whole long thing to her?	/r/seduction	10/02/17 07:48 PM
1	[FR] First approaches ever during night out. Ah yeah saw that, great advice. I was on mobile and missed the response :P	/r/seduction	10/01/17 08:34 PM
–	[FR] First approaches ever during night out. I mean one bump is probably an accident so that's no big deal, but I've had a couple times when I felt like the bumping was intentional, 5-6 bumps is not just on accident. So what do other guys on the sub do?	/r/seduction	10/01/17 07:08 PM
–	[FR] First approaches ever during night out. I agree, I want some opinions on this one. Especially the bumping part. I've seen that before.	/r/seduction	10/01/17 04:40 PM
2	[FR] She didn't flake Yeah man! This is great stuff	/r/seduction	07/01/17 06:45 PM
2	I'm decent with eye contact. But anytime the other person is also making good eye contact, I break it If the other person is looking at you then they're experiencing the same thing that you are, I look at it as who is going to break first since the person who holds out is dominating the situation. I agree that it is a very awkward thing but you need to embrace it. Some people hold eye contact for a very long time. Especially on dates with girls, I love holding eye contact and never looking away first. I like to point to something and say 'look at this thing over here on the wall of the restauran…	/r/seduction	29/08/16 09:33 AM
2	Stop looking away from hot girls I like that answer	/r/seduction	20/06/16 03:58 AM
–	Stop looking away from hot girls But why is it ok for her to stare at you and you not to stare back? Just wondering if there is a good answer to this and why she is allowed to keep looking at you and it not be considered weird/bad/whatever.	/r/seduction	20/06/16 02:53 AM
2	4 ways you can be better at sex right away... this is some really good stuff; thanks bro	/r/seduction	04/04/16 06:46 AM
1	What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home? I added some more context to the post and you can see I explicitly state I did not have a knife. A gun though, that could have definitely been a possibility...	/r/seduction	05/11/15 10:09 PM
2	What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home? yeah I tipped my fedora and told her she deserves someone better than me and she should go out and find him instead, then I walked her home all the way across town and thought about giving her a hug at the end but didn't and kinda just waved and smiled and awkwardly left	/r/seduction	05/11/15 11:56 AM
1	Today I hit rock bottom: Seduction will not save you. "The little reptilian part of your brain was trained over millennia to stick a funny appendage in a warm hole so the human race could survive." best quote I read all day	/r/seduction	05/11/15 03:23 AM
1	What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home? yeah dude this answer right here is what I'm looking for, thanks bro. I'll add that one to the arsenal for next time	/r/seduction	05/11/15 03:10 AM
1	What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home? A girl asked me this while riding me on a park bench tonight, and I wasn't really sure how to handle it. what do you guys say? maybe if I had a good answer she would have come home with me ha	/r/seduction	04/11/15 09:28 AM