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| 1 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.I said, “ThE mAjOrItY oF wOmEn” What you described would be the minority of women……so what are you driveling on about Who said women are wholesome or any type of angel. The majority of men reject women because they’re too ugly, tall, fat, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Only men are “criticizable” because the majority of men are hung up on bodies while the majority of women are not. The majority of women seek men with EQ while the majority of men seek women without stretch marks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.“Women’s entitlement” lol women would rather be single mothers than having to raise an infant plus a 30 year old man. Which delusion? the one where men want a traditional wife but she is then deemed a gold digger because the traditional husband would take care of his wife and kids while she doesn’t work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidHow in the fuck did you get that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid🤣 Bro, the original 4B movement started in Korea in the mid to late 2010s. Doing any work to learn more is not yalls cup of tea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 11:50 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidAmerican women have fought for rights and have now lost them under trump they have no reason to “give in.” Men blaming women for men’s actions is hilarious, men lack EQ while desiring a high EQ woman to be their mommy and tell them they’re awesome when men aren’t providing anything besides maybe money, and that is a big if in americas economy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:30 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidNothing is extreme about it, a movement for women who lose rights after they have fought men to gain freedoms. Nah it will stick and you’ll continue to cry and blame women for your issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:25 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidlol the 4B movement is much more than just sex. They won’t date men, they won’t be on dating apps or in places men would potentially hit on them. they won’t interact with men, they will leave men alone as much as possible. Women will only see women doctors, women will stop going out, they will for sure stop dressing for the male gaze. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:13 PM |
| 0 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?Men especially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourI’ll gladly slide into your DM’s I am not hiding me you can see all my socials if you want them. I didn’t give myself the title, Iv been in the space long enough I don’t have to self proclaim anything 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:09 PM |
| 2 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourAs a man with a hot partner that has dating profiles looking for different dynamics. Men are the only ones that swipe right and are never a fit for what we seek. Men are the only ones that think that their existence is good enough to get some action. The women you’re crying about are the exact same women that wouldn’t give you the time of day with the whining you’re doing here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 01:07 PM |
| -4 | Women's insecurities are proof of Chad onlyWho is going around reinforcing small dick and men should be providers besides men? | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/06/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.That’s definitely not me but whatever helps you sleep at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | All of the problems in dating stem from the fact that men are way hornier than womenSounds like it’s a you problem 20% of prostitutes are male The ratio of strip clubs makes sense based on your own post. Some men (I am picky when it comes to who I sleep with) will fuck literally anything they can put their dick in. Strip clubs are dimly lit and not exactly the safest place for women to be with a bunch of dudes, we know you lack experience with women and won’t understand this. Gay men have way more sex and I would say it’s significantly less fulfilling hence why they have way mo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceHave an actual conversation women, listen to their past experiences. Everyone woman I have dated has been assaulted by at least one man. Iv dated women that have been stalked my cops, trapped and raped, drugged and raped, no woman is out here drugging and raping women. I’m a tall and slender male I have been approached by men from the back not knowing I’m a male then are even more posed off they’re attacking a male and not a woman. Women have to protect themselves at all times, you are more of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.I disagree, I would say most of my interactions are similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Ish, we matched on an app, she messaged first and was the one to ask to meet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 01:37 PM |
| -1 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.I am autistic with adhd and I have zero issue dating attractive women My girlfriend is a solid 13/10 and she is the first one to tell you she is a weirdo and a total nerd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manThings that didn’t happen for 800 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manBahahahahaha you have your colors confused red pillers aren’t worried about making women cum, like you 😉 A red piller would say they focus on their partner(s) pleasure, the focus is being in the moment and allowing the people you’re with to be safe enough to let go and not worry about life outside of that container, pleasure is the focus not orgasms? Hahaha keep trying champ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manBased on your words my assumptions are correct. As a pretty average male it’s very safe to assume our luck with sex and women have in no way been remotely close to each other. If you changed how you look at sex your probably have more luck in finding women that actually want to fuck you Women need sex just as much as men, they just don’t want to have sex with you because you don’t make them cum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:53 PM |
| – | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manI didn’t know the V-card powers got stronger over the years Your “need” for sex is because you self pleasure while your partner gets nothing, get a fleshlight and you’ll be fine you don’t need to have sex with women and risk pregnancy when we all know you aren’t satisfying anyone but yourself. If you find a woman that wants to have sex with you at the rate you want to have sex or more it’s unlikely that you will actually be able to keep up with her, not long term. Based on your post a woman woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Would you give up video games for sex?No chance plus my girl enjoys playing with me while I game online. Real win win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:15 AM |
| 1 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.Where are you from that this is the “norm” that you see? My neck of the woods it is the complete opposite, doesn’t matter how hot a dude is if he isn’t emotionally mature and self aware he gets no action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Sounds like you’re settling for ANY woman that will settle for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Language is important, if you’re in your 20’s and still seeking girls you’re 10000% in the wrong, you’re now seeking women not girls I judged and felt way more judged in high school than by any interaction I have ever had with a woman. Reputation? Are you a celebrity and in the public eye? If not then whatever reputation you’re talking about is entirely a projection that you have created inside of yourself Best advice, don’t listen to other men and their posts on pp, AT isn’t going to help you g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manWhy does asking ruin the mood? Are you not capable of doing so in a way that isn’t an abrasive turn off? Personally I ask for consent for most things the first 6-8 months of seeing someone whether that is touching/cuddling to if they’re desiring to give/receive oral as well as penetration. Again, personally I pay attention to the little things my partners do and enjoy then I do them over and over again to see reaction it’s a pretty easy way to know your partner and their body with what they’re d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.LoL straight men give the lowest effort Do women require a hour to get ready? Sure some do. Some take longer. Wherever you’re wasting your energy that women do not see is on you, women do not owe you the time to see your efforts I get it my experience is different because I love a high body county, I am polyamorous with my profiles open to all genders. Straight identifying males typically don’t read profiles and waste peoples time. Can’t even read my profile and take into account what I seek, ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:25 PM |
| 0 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreYou have perfectly described a conservative male in America They don’t care about you other than if you can provide sex and treat them like their mother taking care of them while they continue to live life as a child with a job yet can’t take care of themselves and will most likely be physically and emotionally abusive. Feelings are weak “not all men” type of dudes Find your ring community but it’s not the people you described | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherTotal gym rat that can’t compliment another dude for their pretty eyes, got it If my opinion is that I think someone/something looks good or is positive or reassuring I am secure enough with myself that I can compliment and gas/hype people regardless of who they’re. Not a gym rat just a functional in shape individual dude that compliments anyone and everyone, at no point am I lying to anyone. Giving a compliment and being positive to people costs nothing, especially my friends. None of this mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherHow is this in anyway similar to hyping someone up? Obviously point it out, so you’re saying you obviously can’t hype up your friends because you have nothing to offer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherIt’s only smoke because all you have to offer is smoke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherNot being rude, based on your activity on Reddit maybe a more positive outlook wouldn’t hurt you. I’m not saying to lie to your friends but it’s easy “hey bro that hoody/shirt/hair cut/smile looks good on you. Keep up that energy great energy” it’s not crazy to be a supportive/positive friend to people. The world sucks why should friends not be uplifting If you have to lie then you aren’t hyping them up, if you’re calling your “friends” fat you might not actually be their friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherLol you don't understand If someone is fat great no need to be a dick about it they’re already aware of it. If they stink again no reason to be rude about it knocking your “friends” down to make yourself feel better is a weird concept especially for people you call your friends Being kind to your friends doesn’t make you weak, doesn’t make you less of a man to be supportive of your friends. Its weird that compliments from your mom is the same as it is from your friends or someone you’re dating/s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherIf that is the hype you’re trying to give, you’re right. It would be best if you refrained from sharing it. Complimenting how they dress, if you know he isn’t as confident around something that you might be, give some advice. Notice his new haircut, if he has a date and he is nervous, you’re his friend hopefully you know him well enough to tell him something he can do to just be chill on the date and be a bit more confident going in. Have you ever heard women hyping up their friends and validati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherI’d swipe right on the dude but not the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherWhy aren't you gassing up your friends? What's wrong with complimenting your friends and hyping them up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherWhy don’t you believe what you ask? You’re aware that men find women attractive differently. Why are women all the same and think of men’s attractiveness the same? They don’t. It’s men that are stuck in the Stone Ages with their thinking of women’s attractive standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | How are men who are finally getting the chance to date and women who have been dating since their twenty's compatible?Experience doesn’t equal confidence He can be confident in himself in other aspects of life besides the sex that he has no physical hands on experience with but it seems he has watched a fair amount of porn, if one understand anatomy and goes into it like a normal person having sex without the expectations of it being what it’s like in porn he could be confident about the sex he just doesn’t have hands on experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | How are men who are finally getting the chance to date and women who have been dating since their twenty's compatible?Reading through the comments it sounds like you might be decently attractive, making a decent living but you have no self confidence Do 40 year old women want someone that won’t treat them like an asshole? Yes and they desire that you’re emotionally mature and are able to communicate wants and desires and willing to compromise to make a relationship work, also needed if the relationship is more sex based To be honest your best luck would be on a kink site, you can tell your story and show pictur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:08 PM |
| 5 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Self lubricating orifices are definitely preferred over any toy material. Escorts are there but I’m not a condom user so escorts aren’t the preferred option. Women are worth the effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?If the world was black and white like your choices then sure since it’s not I picked a better option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Human holes vs fleshlight type holes don’t even compare I’ll take the human holes while dating women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:04 PM |
| 3 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?Why are those the only options? It’s like our shitty two party system that just doesn’t work Iv been practicing polyamory/ENM for over a decade in multiple different practices based on partners desires. Currently in a LTR with a total knockout and we mostly date other women and submissive men. No kids, dogs, we travel when we want and hookup with hot people when we want to. It’s been almost two years and on average we have sex about 22-24 times a month. I would say I have a great mix of both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you date these "overweight" women?To call any of them obese is absurd BMI purely by height and weight is so broken. My partner and I have identical hip, waist, bust measurements yet she is 5’5” while I am 6’1”. She is significantly in far better shape than I am but based on BMI she is obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 11:43 PM |
| 0 | Would you or would you think most people feel a certain way (deal breaker) over a person's past dating choices?I disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answersYou don’t need to lose control in order to lack emotional intelligence You’re right circles to fit the argument you want to have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answersFrom everything you have said you lack emotional intelligence, the pillar of the family looks different for every family, perseverance is something that women also must do so it’s not really hard Masculine is taking charge that also includes taking charge of your own big feelings and being able to communicate that in a way that your feminine lady can understand because they’re different and need to be communicated with in other ways than men pounding on their chest asking when dinner will be rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you or would you think most people feel a certain way (deal breaker) over a person's past dating choices?Looks have nothing to do with being a slut. If that were the case, then most women that are called sluts wouldn’t be sluts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answersHard, can you please elaborate what you mean by hard in context to how men should be Also what is masculine for you here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Would you or would you think most people feel a certain way (deal breaker) over a person's past dating choices?That’s one way to call yourself a slut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answersHumans are wild animals……..women should be soft and feminine. What should men be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answersHumans aren’t domesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answersI am a man, vanilla sex never did it for me. I love my virginity while people watched and I loved it and never stopped enjoying being an exhibitionist hell played at a club over the weekend. Women aren’t hard to satisfy, can you listen and care about what they have to say or do you rely on the information your Bros or Andy tate gave out. Are you too insecure to have a toy or two. Men listen to other men about advice for women, women literally tell men what they want and men are to caught in thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Who buys the plan B?Women should be the only ones able to buy it Personally I believe men especially pedophiles take advantage and can manipulate women into taking it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you console, and what advice would you give to a hypothetical son who couldn’t get dates?It’s not a fathers job to teach children about sex, it’s a parents job. Realistically it’s the individuals job to do research and ask questions and experience authentically what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less1000000000% correct not a single woman has complained or talked bad about my penis, other men tell me how I don’t satisfy my partner with my average sized penis yet my partner shoots everyone down because of how satisfied she is Why listen to women because men are so smart they have to know more about women than women know about themselves. Mind boggling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessWomen have conditioned men lol men have conditioned other men that they need to be this way but I like the spin to blame women Ever hear of the patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | "Men are allowed to have preferences, just don't be rude about it" Is A LieAs a man, I do find it weird that you prefer seeing a woman that is a virgin. You have no desire to satisfy your partner, so they need to have little to no experience, but that’s just me You aren’t being shamed you’re being questioned why you where quiet about something you clearly have as a deal breaker. Your preference of only dating inexperienced women is fine but you aren’t open about that until you start to get to know people. Bold that shit and be upfront that you seek women that have litt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)As a man, I use and have used this rule for the last decade. Women have asked me out and when the bill comes 9/10 they would pay that one off time we would split it. I understand that in no other situation does this apply and also my brother and I going golfing once a year isn’t comparable to someone I’m trying to build a relationship with where things are more equally divided. A friend going out to dinner it is possible that the friend doesn’t have the income to go to dinner and at times will p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The way men get porn brain, can women get “attractive guy they had sex with” brain when it comes to sex with future partners?Oh I have swipe brain then, I enjoy non stop matching with women when I am swiping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:13 PM |
| 3 | The way men get porn brain, can women get “attractive guy they had sex with” brain when it comes to sex with future partners?What is swipe brain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:59 PM |
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