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Then people who think they're something they aren't are doomed. Or, start taking a harder look in the mirror and stop lying to yourself. I know you want the turbo hotties you follow on IG, but they ain't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:54 AM
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No, this is a personal statement. How does he know what 'most men' go through in these regards? I don't go through any of this, and am seeing many men here saying the same. I don't think I'm going to be mocked or dismissed, and never have been. Even when I was young. I do think men feel less of a need or desire to say something at times than women do. I think OP is projecting the issue of personal shame, rather than how most men would act in response to him opening up. It's not that men know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:13 PM
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>I think the thing is a lot of guys do have trouble getting laid… it’s quite the learned skill, and things like attractiveness, career, confidence, and all that do come into play. Completely unattractive, unintelligent losers with shitty personalities get laid all the time (more than anyone in fact). Difference is, having realistic expectations of your options and acting on such, is what gets a man laid. Dudes trying to punch above their weight are the ones having to consider those aforementione…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:34 PM
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You've never had a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:42 PM
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I'm not saying a guy should specifically do anything to get friendzoned, just if you do get friendzoned, you're gonna find out a lot. I didn't say they should deceptively act as a gay bestie either, I'm saying if you are friendzoned, it will be as if. Point is, take pussy out of the equation. Being in a relationship doesn't equal you getting pussy all the time either, you will have to spend a lot of time with a woman, not getting pussy when you are in a relationship, might as well get used to it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:51 PM
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I would take it a step further and say, be friends with women. They can absolutely help you with being socialized with women and get you a gf. I know this is a crazy idea for young men, but it's the thing I wish someone had told me. Pull sex out of the equation, and don't give af about any peer pressure from your buddies. Young dudes wanna run before they can even walk. An even crazier idea that I'm gonna propose, let yourself get 'friendzoned.' Let them treat you like a bf that doesn't get the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:40 PM
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I sort of wonder whether a lot of guys who struggle to see those signs are on the spectrum. I think you'd also have to factor in low self esteem and/or depression. I know this affected me once years ago where it wasn't after I got in my car and drove home, that I understood she was showing clear interest, but in my mind no one would ever do that, because I was a walking black void of nothingness at the time. Especially considering she was beautiful and I was at my lowest point in life. I then th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:38 PM
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I would think all people want sexual compatibility. The way you know someone is only looking for sex, is by not giving them sex early. And I mean, the woman not giving sex early. Most men are going to disappear when they aren't getting the only thing they're interested in. Which, even as a man to this day, still baffles me, as I've never wanted to pursue a woman for sex only. And if I ever did, I'm not going to spend months trying to only get sex. If I find her attractive, I would do more than j…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:45 PM
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That's gotta be a 2nd type of Karen, because some of them definitely never got any of that and were never hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:13 PM
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My point is, it doesn't matter. This is a crazy stance to have. It's not like the guy approaches and says "Hey, I was standing over there and noticed your tits, thought I'd come over and take a closer look." Whether he gets to know the woman afterward from being attracted at a distance, or some hypothetical scenario where he somehow got to know who she is as a person. If he doesn't find her physically attractive in that scenario, it ends right there. One way or another, the physical attraction m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:30 AM
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Which is why you shouldn’t approach, because approaching her when you don’t know anything about her means that you objectified her and you are approaching boobs and butt - not a real woman that you see as a human being. Should a man that knows nothing about a woman he sees, not approach her if he's good looking, wealthy, and of high social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:39 PM
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How do simps create Karens? I think it's the opposite. Karens don't get simped on. Nobody kisses Karen's ass, that's why she's so angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:11 PM
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I don't think little or big of men or women, I look at reality as it is currently, where we come from, and why that would give humans our current predicaments. People trying to solve problems created for them, that are on top of underlying problems they cannot solve in the modern context.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:27 AM
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Don't really need much else from a woman. That's not having no standards. That's a difference in gender that will never change. Men aren't evolved to have whatever standards you think we're supposed to have. (which would just be modern female supplication type of shit) We're evolved to build, hunt, and fuck. 'Standards' are for women, for their survival and replication via men. Men are forced to pretend we are something we aren't in the modern world, (so are women) and all relationship problems …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:00 AM
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Uh, if someone can't afford it, they can't afford it. Literally not being able to afford it is not an excuse. You want trauma, try being homeless. Good thing you went to therapy for a few months, which resolved nothing. Most people aren't in dire need of therapy. Unless you're on the verge of unaliving, or are gonna die from drug addiction. Otherwise therapy is a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:34 AM
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The brain, the human mind is an incredibly complex thing, it's not 'just another organ', it's not just like your liver, no one talks to your liver for years in an attempt to make it better. Psychotherapeutic models cannot just nail everyone down and create a solution. And by the time you've figured that out, you've got a new problem. You're broke from therapy. Literally know a woman who was in a financial, mental, and physical health crisis and started going to therapy. Well, she can't anymore, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:09 AM
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Well, I'll be honest, even more so, the idea of therapy is incredibly uninteresting to me, even if it would help me, and expensively uninteresting at that. And it's not like going to the doctor to get one specific thing looked at and potentially fixed in one, or even a few visits. They want you coming back to therapy regularly for years. You can't just change someone with a visit, or 100. So let's be real. Most people can't even afford therapy in the first place. Let's consider this a shit test …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:47 AM
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You still gonna pretend it wasn't obvious what OP was would obviously be referring to? Of course he's talking about heterosexual feminist women. It's a given. He wouldn't need to think that through or state it specifically, he made no blunder. There is a reason the pills should be only about straight dating. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. Specifically issues about two heterosexual dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:12 AM
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Yeah, OP didn't exactly think that through. Ace lesbian radical feminist here Unless something changed since I last came here, (the About didn't change) you know this is a sub about heterosexual dating, right? This is a debate sub based off of The Red Pill, a heterosexual men's sub. Obviously OP is referring to heterosexual feminists that date men because he's heterosexual, the other kinds are irrelevant to heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:20 AM
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High-status men opting out would disrupt dating markets Why would they opt out? They get top choice in dating. They wouldn't opt out of dating, they potentially might opt out of commitment. Two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:03 AM
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He lost me at the part where he thought women ever cared what men do or think. Unless I missed something here, you're here at this sub because of what men do or think. Debating what men do or think is the entire basis of this sub. It's what you're doing now. Speaking for all women in these regards is crazy work too. About: PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. ^ Those are both subs started by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:01 AM
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The subject here is why are women into certain things sexually with dating. This thread is about young women that have sex. I would think they would learn by the time they are with the second guy, that porn dicks aren't normal. The average dick size is a web search away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:41 AM
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No one can be that out of the loop in 2026 to think that porn dicks are normal. No way they are assuming those are average dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:35 PM
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women are visual, even moreso then men, not less If that were the case, men would dominate the internet with sex appeal (social media, onlyfans) and be making millions. Instead, exceptionally good looking men are nowhere to be found on the internet. Those guys aren't trying to make all that money or have the spotlight on them because they already have what men really want. Endless top notch pussy supply. (including lower level pussy when they want disposable women who will do what they tell them…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:17 AM
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But I would say it gets exponentially harder once you get below like 5'5" to 5'6". Something that should be added, it gets harder when you are below that height and also below average looking. My old dad is 5'6" but he was good looking in his day. My mom was too, and she's an inch taller than him. Height matters, and looks, even more. Short good looking dudes pull women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:14 AM
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We don't just turn inside out and die because we got a gray hair Well yeah. The hair dye takes care of that. Regardless most older women are never going to be in the same position the average man is in as far as dating. I think it's time you men just got over that revenge fantasy lol Nothing I said here has to do with the OP. I have no revenge fantasies about women, and trust me, men are delusional about the wall, as if it doesn't exist for them too. I think a lot of men are actually more delusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:30 AM
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Do you know what 'the developed world' is? It doesn't mean 'western.'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:12 AM
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women aren't as afraid of aging as they think we are lol. ^ Literal female consumer driven industries around attempting to look younger. I thought I already made that clear. The triggered downvotes (as expected) only make my point. The whole world knows women are by far more insecure about aging. They prove it every day. Ones that don't bs themselves much less anyone else are at least honest about it, not that you'd expect to find those kind of women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:11 AM
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Yup. It's always been a fear mongering tactic by insecure men because they don't seem to understand that women aren't as afraid of aging as they think we are lol. Meanwhile, every woman in the developed world dying their hair and putting goop on their faces every day till the day they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:19 AM
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Youtube videos of contoversial subject matter, have hundreds to thousands of comments per video. Long comment chains on any point making or provocative post. Your comment also doesn't get hidden for going against popular opinion because of downvotes. Youtube is BETTER for talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:11 AM
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You'd love to see someone get brutally slaughtered? The fuck is wrong with you? Second, I'm speaking of something subjectively, not myself. Duh. I mean goddamn. And third, that was a joke, OBVIOUSLY, I even pointed it out that HAVE TO point it out for slow people like you, and then you go and respond with the proof. F- for utterly poor reading comprehension. Thanks, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:28 PM
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Hello captain save a ho with poor reading comprehension skills. I was making fun of the absurdity of that person's quite ridiculous and disturbing statement by throwing some simple reality back in their face, and mocking what they think is 'funny', emoticon intact. Funny how you didn't jump at what they had to say, at least they straight up said they're sadistic though, so kind of no need, I already took care of it. It's also ridiculous that you think I'm speaking about myself when I'm talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:23 PM
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OP argued that women are scared about being tossed aside for younger women. Without a doubt there will be women that agree that is something they are insecure about, I've heard women irl, and other parts of the internet admit it. I didn't suggest that women would come in here and admit that it's true. I think everything I said before made that clear. It's a debate sub, people arguing over subjects aren't willing to admit things they don't want to, (they'll just ignore that and move the goalposts…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:34 AM
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It's as if the act of fucking, something most every animal species does, and isn't rocket science, isn't the same as 'X' examples that were probably given here somewhere. Of course it's not the same. The sex part isn't worth arguing if one is against specific age gap relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:15 AM
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Sorry, what did you say? Too busy raping. (that was a joke, I know I'd unfortunately have to make it clear by stating so)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:48 AM
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Well you're a woman. (at a gender debate sub) For you it has to say something about men and nothing about women being dishonest, trendy, and most of all, not knowing what they're talking about. Narcissistic personality affects -1% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:47 AM
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No it won't. Because history is filled with war. It's much of what history is. They DO go to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:40 AM
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I've never heard a man passionately argue that women their same age are their 'equals' either. It's as if that isn't a heated topic of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:27 AM
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The sadistic side of me wants this to happen just because I’m curious to see how bad the so called “male loneliness epidemic” would get if women stopped having relationships/sex with men en masse 🤣 Men en masse with nothing to live for go to war. A little history research will tell you what happens to women in war. "🤣"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:09 AM
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So, since garbage men I don't see what a man in the profession of the custodial arts has to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:13 AM
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LOL, every woman's ex is now a 'narcissist.' Trendy buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:11 AM
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yeah just go on awo30 or a dating sub and read about the experiences women have with guys their age. despite being mature, having experience, 'knowing their worth' etc. but let's generalize all men who date younger women because that's convenient lol. Not only that, older women still experience and fucked over by abusive men of the same age. It's as if the woman's attraction to the the man is the leverage that the abusive man uses, and it's so easy for him to do at any age. Abusive people are ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:10 AM
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That's your opinion, I'm not making an argument that it is or isn't, nor does it concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:45 AM
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The only time anyone argues that an 18-year-old high school senior is exactly the same as a 90-year-old retiree, is when an old man is defending trying to fuck young women. The 18th birthday is the arbitrary legal cutoff. It means from that day forward, it is not child molestation to have consensual sex with that person. That’s it. It’s not a declaration that 18-year-old high school seniors are identical to 90-year-old retirees in maturity, knowledge, or life experience. I never said, or suggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:04 AM
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Why do women always sidestep the conversation and/or try to intentionally conflate those two very different things? Welcome to PPD. When you can't debate with facts and honesty, present intellectual dishonesty. When called out, attack the individual. Anything to win. In the end, it's a debate sub of generally one side vs another. Flat out war. I'm sure there are a handful of people that can stand on truth with confidence, but that isn't most. The OP essentially calls out women here, and they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:07 AM
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“Women hate them because we remember being young and having gross men our dads age or older creeping on us when we were young. And now we see the gross men looking at our daughters like that”. Your wife, and others in the comments are however concluding these are the exact same men as suggested in the OP. We are talking about young women in the dating scene here. Not grade school daughters. People here are conflating an older man dating a younger woman as the same as and an older man creeping on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:01 AM
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They're definitely treating the younger woman as if she's trapped in a 1920s marriage for dating an older man, as if women of today don't bounce out of dating someone over the most trivial shit. Younger women today only date older men in hopes that they are just better, more mature (and, c'mon, more financially endowed) men. If they don't live up to their standards they will bounce on the man faster than they would a younger man. An older man is already on thinner ice by default. And lets face i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:51 AM
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Again, all that physical practice and most dudes still ain't doing it well. The virgin, or anyone, can physically practice what they learned from reading. (there are videos too) They have a roadmap. It's better than going in blind like everyone else does. Let's face it, it ain't rocket science, and yet, there are still things to learn that people wouldn't know specifics about, like erogenous zones beyond what men are most interested in touching for their own arousal. Most dudes couldn't even tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:33 AM
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Or maybe she can envision the mediocre sex that will come from having sex with a dude who has never had sex? Is that not a good reason if the woman enjoys sex? Most women complain that men don't know how to fuck them right out of the gate anyway. Dudes could just read some books on how to fuck women well, and 99%+ of men never have and never will. Then, there are women on a individual level wanting specific things, and don't say what they want, the men should 'just know.' All I have to say to vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:45 AM
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Get in shape and get healthy. A long running, undiagnosed disease ruined my life in every way and therefore my dating possibilities. Make as much money as I can, put out my music independently and promote it through various video/social media ideas. The ultimate goal has always been putting out my music, and more than ever means more to me than anything else. Already done the dating thing before, I'm more interested in what I haven't done, and being almost 42 and having almost died, and currentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:56 AM
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Well, no, you're just easily brainwashed by news media (that's the point of news media, influence in socio-political matters and consumerism) and can't think without your emotions, which you perceive as logical, just because they're yours. Your responses say it all. You're far from alone. It's normal. Sadly. Doesn't matter what side of the fence people are on, most people are 'in a cult' (by your cult standards that is) I'm in the cult of 'everyone is stupid and being played so I'm just going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:18 PM
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You were 'one of those' from the jump my dear. I stated nothing but facts that you don't like. You're one of those. + TDS PS, I never voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:04 PM
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Red pill men sleeping with promiscuous women means they want them. Last night I fucked my hand. I don't 'want' my hand, I used it to get off because it was available. Understand? And while this may be looked at and a predominately male thing, there are women that absolutely do this too. People want some fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:46 PM
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No. It's just R votes R, D votes D. Fanatics are a minority. Barely anyone stormed the capitol. (which included leftist instigators) BLM and Antifa cults (both democrat), literal scams/terrorist organizations, did a whole lot more destruction across the country. The MSM is left controlled so let's just forget the 'mostly peaceful protests' ever happened and let's talk about the 'insurrection' that Trump never called for, 24/7/365. *Downvoting is against the sub's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:41 PM
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I think someone should tell you now that most people that voted for Trump don't actually like Trump. Just like no one actually liked Hilary and don't like Biden. (both more sketchy than Trump) They vote for Trump because they hate democrats and liberals THAT MUCH, and same goes for the Hilary and Biden voters. Curb your TDS. *On the subject of voting, downvoting is against the sub's rules my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:27 PM
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I wouldn't associate toilet humour with grown men at all, they don't tend to be into it. We're into it, we just know to keep it with the boys. 'Know your audience' is part of growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:28 AM
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married women I find the married part hard to believe. For anyone that never saw it, pics were posted of the now defunct incel sub having a meetup, and one of the incel hate sub. The incel group was just average looking guys, all normal weight. The incel hate group was all female (except one guy) and they were all below average and all fat. No doubt single themselves (the incel guys could do better than those girls, if they actually had game) Classic projection. Hilarious. That's what I imagine …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:14 PM
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Hypothetically speaking... when you hear a strange noise in your house in the middle of the night This really isn't even the best example. Has nobody ever seen what happens when a couple gets physical in public and how men typically just jump in and start beating the piss out of the guy without even knowing what's going on? Plenty of video examples on the web over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:33 AM
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all of us girls swoon over how hot we think they look. Not all. You're speaking for all, and I'm not. It's a minority of that actually like that, I know it, you know it. It's also definitely a younger girl thing in general, grown women want a man, not some confused, fatherless, androgynous femboy, and it's why you see any phase of boy like that die off really quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:02 PM
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Predictable cool-ad hominem-story after being dunked on over and over again. Not being able to take an L is the vibe you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:17 PM
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This is simple objectification, the makeup is not the woman, and does not make her into someone she isn't. The makeup is just a part of who she is as a whole person, take it or leave it. The enhancement of makeup is applied for any number of reasons and if it is because they want to feel more attractive it would be the same as facial hair, nice clothes, cologne, or any other accessories a man might equip to "get what they can get" ...in your crude words.. Women judge men on their height and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:58 PM
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I stopped reading because I'm not going to debate someone that can't read themselves, from the start. "It's giving ignorant." Poor grammar too. Stopped there. Cheers. You can't follow rules either. (10) We Ask that You Do Not Downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:41 PM
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LOL, I just said I would never want to wear make up. It looks ridiculous on a man, and wouldn't want to date the women that are ok with men wearing make up, nor am I a homosexual. Next time read more carefully and you'll save yourself one incredibly weird and ridiculous, long rant. (also many adult women are into that Kpop shit, some of them attended this sub) Yeah, we don't wear makeup because we're 'scared' and need to 'man up and do it!' LMFAO! I'll just take that all as a troll. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:17 PM
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No sir, because no one here has said a thing about women value a man's looks more than his character. I stopped reading there, because I clarified that statement afterwards. It's meant to take your statement and explain how silly it is by reversing it, then followed by 'it doesn't really work like that...'. Cheers *(10) We Ask that You Do Not Downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:11 PM
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Show up natural, you're lazy and not put together. Wrong. Men don't complain about this. Comb your hair, wash your face, put on your good clothes. Done. Just like us. We then get to see what we're actually getting. You have to be dumb to consider a woman wearing makeup "unrecognizable" bc they clearly have a face with features that cannot be changed with makeup. 'Unrecognizable' is an overstatement but there are before and afters with women and make up that would put this whole thread to rest. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:58 PM
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that'd sad a lot of dudes care about a woman's appearance more than her character It's sad that a lot of chicks care about a man's appearance more than his character. But, it doesn't really work like that, people are attracted to appearance before you ever get character in the first place. An individual's genetic bar must be reached with attraction, character is secondary. This happens with all human beings, including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:42 PM
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Most women are not going to like that. It wouldn't even get to that point, a man's friends will never let him hear the end of it that he put on make up. Those male celebs are in a bubble world, not ours. Also, more likely to get unwanted homosexual attention than female attention. The absolute assumption will be that you're gay. I'd also, just never want to do it. And I'm not interested in chicks that are obsessed with androgynous Kpop boys who can 'pull it off' because they already look feminin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:24 PM
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Don't know why other women blame incels for everything, probs bc they're an easy target to dump hatred on? I don't really hate incels, I think they are an interesting social phenomenon. But they're a favorite group to dump on in other spaces. It's because women go straight to shaming men on sexual matters when they don't like them, whether they know what they're saying is true or not. Seems more like projection to me. I remember a woman calling me that here once and I just thought it was funny t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:48 AM
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men are literally simping even over fat girls!!! You wouldn't see that in the 60s but because of fat women promotion Fat women barely existed in the 60s, but there were always men who are into fat women. And now, there are more fat women as an option. No one is being 'programmed' to be attracted to fat girls. You're either into it or not. If you could just program men to be into it by showing them, then we'd all be, since the human brain is just that susceptible in your world. Heck, even when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:02 AM
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Studies have been reposted over and over here through the years that suggest sexlessness is mostly a male thing with a continued sharp downward trend, and not as much for women. Therefore suggesting most women have sex with a smaller amount of men. Those men obviously would have the highest body counts, they get more women than they can handle, and your average woman would have higher than the average man, in which sex is a rarity. Googling 'sexlessness in men' will give you endless articles. Fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:58 PM
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I’d guess because we’re constantly told that men would shag anything with a pulse Spoiler...it's a lie. Most women are NPC nobodies just as women view most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:48 AM
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On average men have higher body counts than women. On average a minority of men have higher body counts than the majority of women. The majority of women have higher body counts than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:47 AM
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I mean why do women end up in abusive rekationships so often? It's because the guy is hot. No. It's because the woman is recreating her childhood issues with her dad and whoever else. Women that don't have those issues wouldn't put up with abuse, and would likely never be attracted to that kind of guy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:56 PM
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I don't go to the gym. But they're there, and it's silly to act like people don't end up meeting each other there. Men can talk to women at the gym. Timing, and good enough looks needed. Do men who aren't good looking enough, with bad timing, end up being called creepy? Yes. Looks and social skills work otherwise. The gym isn't a funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:29 AM
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Instead of spending 10000 hours in the gym you'd get laid a lot faster if you join something where other women are Like, a gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:10 AM
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(14) No incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:37 AM
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Well sure, barely anyone that no one should be listening to, says we don't need men. Shouldn't even be a topic of conversation. Some people think Earth is flat. Who cares, they're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:13 PM
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I may have asked that man what his job is since almost no one is a plumber, garbage man, etc. Those industries are struggling because they can't find even men to do those jobs. +, those men that do those jobs, do them because they needed a job, and, well, lack education to do something else. Trash man in particular, plumber require some learning and skill for sure and tends to pay well. But those men aren't doing it to 'uphold society' like it's some great sacrifice, they're doing it for checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:43 PM
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I've begun to ponder that one of the greatest horrors and nightmares for men is to realize how little to not at all women think of them. I don't think this even starts with 'women' as in would be relationship interests, but starts with their mother-father/upbringing. This is all then projected onto women at large. Of course women don't sit around thinking about the struggles of man, they have their own problems and lives. This is definitely mommy issues for a man to think otherwise. 'Women' don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:17 PM
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Again, most men cannot miss that window of opportunity either. Very few men are making kids past those ages, and they shouldn't be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:43 PM
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This is a common lie among this sub, l don't know who got the idea women suddenly loose their beauty once they hit 30, a woman can still relatively attract men in her 30s because makeup exists and many other metrics she can use I feel like this tends to be stated by younger men whom these older women wouldn't be dating in the first place. It's a revenge fantasy, and a poorly constructed one. These young men, not counting that they are only going to get older too. This leads into the other cope '…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:04 PM
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I think the words come out when they don't respect or like a specific woman. Just because a man fucks a woman doesn't mean he respects or even likes her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:12 PM
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Condoms don't protect from all STDs. Your average person doesn't know this, and therefore goes passing STDs around through promiscuity. Thanks for proving my point. Under the age of 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:10 PM
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Duh. It could be said about absolutely anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:08 PM
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Well, that's not true. The men who fuck all those sluts call them sluts too, just with a smile on their face. (other variations would be bitch, or hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:05 AM
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What’s wrong with being slutty STDs. Unwanted pregnancies/abortions. Divorce rate highly correlates with the number of partners someone has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:02 AM
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But why marry, have unprotected sex, or consider raising a kid with someone you suspect is untrustworthy? No one is infallible. People can change. Especially in marriages. It's not about not trusting them before marrying them. It's not even about not trusting them after. It's the fact that no one can be 100% trusted. Trusting someone doesn't make them factually trustworthy. You don't really ever know anyone. You're just making bets in life. There are trusted people everywhere right now, cheating…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:34 AM
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Don't forget that NPD is something more common in men, while BPD is more common in women. And neither are common at all. Talking about -1% of the population here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:52 AM
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Those aren't too high standards, those are correct standards. Except the over 30 thing, everyone in the end has to be realistic about age. I don't think men 30 and up care about women being 30, it's what often comes with women being over 30. *As you said, fat moms with high n count. How do you know about any one person's grounds for resenting women? They may have plenty grounds for doing so, and I really doubt it's about not getting casual sex. They aren't getting a relationship period. The bitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:12 AM
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'Emotional labor', it's called being in a relationship. As if men don't have to deal with that from women of all creatures. Again, sounds like women don't know how to say what they want and set boundaries. No one is forcing women to do any of this just like being in a relationship itself. Also, men still generally work more hours and still make more money than women. For who? Themselves? Hmmm, could this have anything to do with women voluntarily working more for a man in the home, (until they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:50 AM
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I agree. We need to stop all the simping. It’s detrimental to men and women. How we get men to stop though, I don’t know. All we could do is shame, but shame left town years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:57 AM
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We're okay being alone because it's normally less work for us than being in a relationship is. How is it less work for you to be alone and doing absolutely 100% of everything by yourself always and forever? There's no way the majority of men out there do absolutely nothing to convivence a woman in a relationship. What would you know about what 'most men' do anyway? You don't. 4 billion of them. Two people, in a relationship, doing the same stuff you did alone, just under the same roof. Perhaps w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:46 AM
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The age of male sexlessness over. The age of the femcel has begun. I would think plenty of it was already there. I would think the age of women admitting no one is even trying to bang them, has begun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:34 AM
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THEY dont say Literally I would think in many cases, they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:25 AM
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Now you're just spouting hippie nonsense to distract from the argument. I mean, you were already doing that, you're just doubling down on it. You compared birds to humans in regards to visuals and sexuality. That's ridiculous, and there is no where to go from there. There wasn't even any need to compare other species, we're talking about humans here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:23 AM
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So you made my point, comparing us to other species is silly. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:20 AM
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I do see humans as a part of nature. Correctly. There is no wisdom in comparing completely different evolved species in the animal kingdom that broke off in evolutionary origins 100s of millions of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:30 PM
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Think of the flamboyant male peacock and the drab peacock hen. Yeah, let's start comparing human evolution to birds. That makes sense. Even comparing ourselves to our closest primate relatives isn't all that legit, much less birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:22 PM
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We've been socialized to not care and give chances to unattractive men How? When? Where? I'd like to see some source material on women being socialized to 'give chances to unattractive men.' Is this at secret girl club meetings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:16 PM
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If you are unattractive, being a shitbag won't improve your odds lol. If you're a shitbag to women who are the same attraction level and are attraction to shitbags, yes you will. I've known a lot of ugly shitbags, they have no problem getting girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:14 PM
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I was never ridiculed when I was fat, for 'having a pooch' and I dated nothing but fit women. It's as if other things matter a lot. I know dudes who are jacked and their women aren't even attractive. (getting jacked ain't gonna hide that ugly mug) Dudes get jacked for themselves. The guys that try to do it 'for women' don't last long. Most women don't actually give a shit about it. Face and frame. Some lean muscle is a bonus to a good frame, and nothing to a less desirable frame. A good face is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:05 PM
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A man can wear a wig too. They're both bald. Bald man, bald woman, not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:57 PM
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Guys can be bald and still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:01 AM
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Jesus being born a man is comedy gold when 90% of your fellow men are so horny that they find bottom-tier deformed whales to be sexy. I'm glad I was never one of these guys. lol. Also, they don't find those women 'sexy', it's just either that or their hand Saturday night. I'll take my hand anytime over land whales. Bleh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:59 AM
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I'll play this game. Men out number women in the gym by 10-1 at least. Men participate in sports in their mid 20s and beyond by an equally large measure. Overweight/obesity rates are similar between men and women, though it is a little higher with men. The vast majority of all men do not go to the gym and definitely don't play sports in adulthood. Not even in high school. So it doesn't matter what the numbers are. Next to no one goes. Most women, don't fatten up well either. The flat stomach but…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:57 AM
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However, most men do nothing. No workouts. Get fat. The rates of being overweight are very similar for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:13 AM
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it might not be easy trying to compete with 28 year old women when you're in your late thirties. How many women in their late 30s are competing with women in their late 20s? For which age of men? Most relationships are of similar age range, and most age gap relationships fail quickly. There's no competition when it comes to same age dating. Dudes in the manosphere are holding on to this ridiculous dream that they are going to spend middle age dating 20 somethings. They won't. The next pill the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:03 AM
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Who told you he is not dating? Well, he did use Minecraft in his argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:49 AM
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It’s smarter to go for the next generation of women who can see and fear turning out like the childless jaded women of this generation. What generations are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:04 AM
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Wrong.... you're attempting to replace what sounds good with what happens in reality. I've observed what happens in my own reality, whatever happens in yours, don't care, I'm not reading any further into that post. This has been a silly conversation. I really just assume you're trolling, because nothing you say make any sense whatsoever, but whatever. When inbreeding was mentioned before, is where I should have stopped reading. The original topic was deleted anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:39 AM
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For a very long time the vast majority of men had to summon up the courage to approach a young woman. That's just the way it was done. If you only fucked people you knew, that's called inbreeding. People have networks. If you don't, that's on you. Men having to approach random women in public just to speak to a woman, lack social connections. That seems to be increasingly common today, and yet, women still don't want to be cold approached, and I already said why. The why hasn't, and will not cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:07 AM
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It feels like something has radically changed in the past five years, and I cannot pinpoint exactly what could have happened. Social media. All that stuff made it's way there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:47 PM
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I wasn't approaching my bros for sex and romance. However, people generally make friends in the vicinity of regularity, (school, jobs, mutual friends) same with romantic relationships. I've never just walked up to a guy on the street, trying to make friends from seeing him and thinking 'ah, that's a nice looking new friend right there.' There is a reason friendships and romantic relationships generally begin this way. You can actually observe the person regularly, and receive third party observa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:02 PM
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Shit like this is part of why men are giving up on dating. Giving up on cold approaching strange women, yes. I've always been perplexed that anyone even bothers doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:15 PM
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men are more likely than women of working out and eating healthy. Tall men are a lot more likely than short men of being in relationships More than 1 in 3 men (34.1%) and more than 1 in 4 women (27.5%) are overweight. More than 2 in 5 adults (42.4%) have obesity (including severe obesity). About 1 in 11 adults (9.2%) have severe obesity. The percentage of men who are overweight (34.1%) is higher than the percentage of women who are overweight (27.5%). https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:52 PM
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Women's emotions must be tended to like a they're a child, and men must take all the shit tossed their way (literal shit testing) and persevere. Because we're MEN. Life's harder for some men than others, but this is what has always been expected and always will be. It won't change, there will be no movements for men in these regards. There will only continue to be movements for men, for us, about being strong men, like we're supposed to. We will never fit into emotional movements that are for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:59 AM
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also you never see men policing other men for being shitty, in fact they encourage it and then blame it on women for having bad taste in men smh Are you certain these are the same exact people on both cases? We aren't a hive mind. Men can't 'police' men on anything in these regards. Do you 'police' women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:45 PM
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Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others... It's called cause and effect. I'm not saying you don't have a point, but I do too. Seriously I've seen guys say stuff like that and when I ask them if they've checked in on a friend of theirs, they'll reply back, "For what 🤷‍♂️." It's like they have no concept of emotional care, but they desire others to emotionally care about them. Again, cause and effect. We learn to be this way by how we are treated. Ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:20 AM
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Women want men who are desirable, and desirable men tend to, usually, not be able to even escape the pussy around them. They don't just want a man that looks good, they want proof that he IS 'good.' A catch. Social proof. Advice, stop defining yourself by this. Stop defining your dating by your experiences or lack thereof. I assume your issue is that you feel women are going to ask about your past. Guess what, just fuckin lie a little man. Don't lie like you're some big time player or something,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:38 AM
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People with 'game' know when to walk away. 'Game' has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:56 PM
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If there is anything that would make me stop pursuing, is her saying she isn't interested. The 'more pushy guy' is going to in fact push over lies and vagueness, and if 'I'm not interested' didn't stop him, then lies and vagueness wouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:27 AM
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I guess I should have asked, what is the cut off point? Those are 'older than you' women you're talking about at 25, not 'older women.' The chances of you dating older women at your age are pretty slim in the first place. Trust me dude, do not waste your youth on older women. They'll be there when you get there, baggage, scorned attitudes, worse bodies and increased expectations despite those things. They won't be so hot to you when you get older. They are just the only thing you can have at tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:13 AM
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What is an 'older woman' to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:05 AM
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I mean as a young man myself i dont care about “young women” i just like “women”… Right. As an older man I will tell you this. Just date younger women for now, don't worry about older women. You'll have plenty of time to date older women later, when you don't necessarily want to, but have to. Begrudgingly. Enjoy your youth my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:00 PM
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Based on what you have described, imho it could be a good risk to take, it might pay off over a lifetime. Best of luck. Nah, like I said, this woman would never date me. She's taken, has been for years, and is ridiculously good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:48 PM
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If she can drop him easily for someone hotter than how can they be manipulated? I've read many stories here through the years about the manipulation of young women by older men. You'd have to ask them, because I don't know anything about manipulating younger women, other than I'm sure it's through gaslighting and fucking with her young emotions, I just wouldn't know the specifics. That's why I said, as soon as the girl catches on, she can just drop the guy like a bad habit, like people do today …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:36 PM
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The 27 yo woman I was talking about, we're into the same kind of things that are for life. We're musicians, she's an audio tech, we like the same kind of music. These are things you don't suddenly drop at 27 when you've been into it your whole life. I wouldn't try to start a relationship with anyone that doesn't really know who they are and just flippity flops through life wherever the wind may take them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:13 PM
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They mean an older person can manipulate a younger person easier. Which can of course be true. I tend to look at it as, the older person is already walking on thin ice for being older, the chick could and would drop you like a hot potato, and can go date a Chad. Be nice and mature older men, that's what the small number of young women that like older men are hoping for. Granted, usually, historically, those men are well taken already. But, that's is clearly, rapidly changing with the generations…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:25 AM
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Most young women regret dating the younger men they dated too. It's as if the woman is the control in the situation (as far as making better decisions, and expecting more) and younger women don't have that as much, regardless of the age of the man. Generally, younger men act worse. Most men any age, older or younger, chasing young daughters are not trying to be 'good men', and are looking to fuck, because that's what all men want to do more than anything. Fuck young women. (10) We Ask that You D…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:05 AM
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it’s because the relationship becomes very shallow as you likely have nothing in common aside from sex. While I think this can be at least half true much of the time, I think a lot of people have a lot of basic things in common regardless of age (unless we are talking about a really big age gap) What do most people do other than work and try to enjoy themselves other wise? What do those people do for the latter? A lot of the same stuff. Your average person is a couch potato, all generally watchi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:01 AM
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The most abusive and entitled men are the most powerful and successful ones The most abusive and entitled men tend to be the 'losers' you're talking about. Low class, low earning men are more likely to be the most abusive and entitled, and end up in jail for it. The most successful and powerful men aren't doing that shit 'just so they could have a family.' That's not the motivation, if it was, they'd quit early after they've made several millions. Chasing billions isn't about earning and deservi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:31 PM
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Women's evolutionary biology is logical and methodical, for living in prehistoric tribes of 50 to 200 people, among many other things. Primal urge is often not aligned with ideals of modern civilization. Men look at screen every day to jack off and play games on. Correct instincts, tricked and derailed by technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:16 PM
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As much as it seems like the bar is so low for men, the missing discussion point is why the bar is so high for women. They're thinking about 'their future', and their future, whether they want them or not, would be children. And if they say they don't want children, they still want the nest they would bring children into if they did. (children substituted with pets) Same reason they don't need a fit, attractive man if they aren't even going to use those genetics and protection for procreation. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:55 PM
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Female here but I figured that's why guys go for younger women, because they're inexperienced I'm sure a few weirdos do, but, nah, it's because younger women look and feel better and are just looking to have a good time. I know older women will try to find any other reason other than that with the greatest mental gymnastics. Women spend years trying to turn back the clock and look younger, then ponder why men like younger women (sexually) more. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:44 PM
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I think anyone who wants a virgin has never been with a virgin. It's easier to say, anyone who wants a virgin IS a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:40 PM
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They'll be weeded out of the gene pool, just as women want. Women don't care about a man's virginity. Women like men who know what they're doing, especially when they themselves don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:39 PM
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No. It's just been part of the religion since it's tribal beginnings, for which there are obvious reasons for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:36 PM
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The men complaining and asking for sympathy here are the same who constantly slut shame and fat shame women, invalidate and trivialise all womens issues and are just as misogynistic as possible in every opportunity. You sure it's the same people or are you just lumping in 'men' together as a hive mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:35 AM
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I worry about having to getting someone else pregnant, which I do not want, and whether I do or not, I have no choice in the matter after the fact, even if it was her responsibility/fault. Being stronger, faster and taller has little benefit for most men. It has never done me any real favors, and there is always endless men stronger taller and faster than me, and I'm way more susceptible to men using their stronger taller and faster against me, and more brutally, because I'm a man. Me being expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:42 AM
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LOL. You do not have the potential to build whatever life you want. That's a bunch meaningless, delusional feel good words, lacking the nuance of one's reality. Which 'self help guru' did you get that from? Good luck to you too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:35 PM
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Male privilege is for privileged males, whom are very few. (the only men women care to think about) Not a single privilege has been given to me for being a man my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:04 PM
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See most women are not going to see it that way though. A hook up is not necessarily going to provide a chance to orgasm, women who explore self pleasure regularly are going to be able to get themselves off much better than a hook up will. A man would rather have his dick sucked for a minute, and the woman runs away and he has to finish himself off, than to not have his dick sucked at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:02 PM
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Lean and jacked are two different things. Just getting lean so muscle definition (that everyone has underneath fat) can be seen, is not 'jacked.'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:16 PM
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'a few weeks.' That wasn't a relationship. We don't want to 'date' someone hot with a boring personality, we want to fuck them. Until we get bored as well. Of course women like sex. That's why you're gladly getting fucked by guys that don't even like you. That 'boring Chad' didn't like you. That's why he was boring. He wasn't even trying, already got what he wanted, and didn't care that you 'left'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:40 PM
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It's because guys want to fuck like Chad, at least for a period of their lives. Not be your relationship entertainment in between Chads. I say entertainment because that's what it is either way. Sex entertainment and relationship entertainment. The 'less attractive but more interesting guy' doesn't get to fuck Stacy. (to clarify, you're not Stacy. Chad has a relationship with Stacy) Also, you don't use Chad for sex. Chad uses you for sex. If Chad wanted to be someone better for you, he would. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:19 PM
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That's not 'conspiracy theory', it's based in evolutionary biology, whatever you want to think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:06 PM
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Depends on the situation, but that's not the point I made. Progressivism on it's own is one thing, how that is taken advantage of is another. And it is always taken advantage of politically, with political goals in mind. The people at the forefront of such movements are always questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:55 AM
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The people back in the 50's who just wanted it to be easier for people in the western world to fuck each other without puritancal shame never envisioned our society getting to this point. Yes they did. That was the purpose. The cultural revolution stems back to Marxist plots to socially crumble the west by the very means we witnessed, and prepare it for Communism. Destroy the family unit therefore creating reliance on the state, create sexual and drug using degeneracy, destroy religion. Divide m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:13 AM
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Low millimeter camera lenses can make you look like funhouse mirror version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:58 AM
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Someone downvoted you, but, there was literally a case recently of a young man murdering a young woman, at work, for rejecting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:46 PM
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Hot women are under the misapprehension that the world is a friendly, generous place Except for the ones that get sexually assaulted a bunch of times. They learn early on their attractiveness is a curse in the end. Note to hot chicks, or chicks in general don't have a bunch of friendzone guy friends, and never be alone with them. And don't be dumb and go to their house for drinks alone. C'mon now. Hate to victim blame, but, COME ON.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:42 AM
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She's a lovely person but yes she has had to change some world views as she realized her priviledge as a 'former' hot girl. Imagine if her change in world view, was losing weight. I know a woman that lost weight after having 2 kids, got into lifting, went on to be a model, women's football pro player and a multi time pageant winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:40 AM
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China is going to kick our ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:32 AM
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Like how the East stole our jobs, we'll retire there and steal their women I don't see that happening at large. Most people don't want to move somewhere else in the world, to try and marry a buy-me-bride, gold digging foreigner they have nothing in common with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:47 AM
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A guy in the friendzone, being used as a tool for convenience in different ways, is the equivalent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:24 AM
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You'll end up finding a virgin woman as being 'any virgin woman' because your options will be extremely limited. You are going to base an attempt at a life long relationship on that alone rather than the person. You've reduced a human being down to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:23 PM
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'Forget about it' is a saying. Forget out it as in, your chances of finding a virgin woman will be extremely scarce with time, very, very quickly. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:20 PM
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You're putting on your best, and if your best is passable then so be it. For others, it will not work. Hence, the point of the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:21 PM
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His massive insecurity has created his conclusions. Also complete lack of experience. He doesn't seem to understand, most relationships with monogamous intent, end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:09 PM
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But women don't want virgin men, how do you explain that? Virgin women, like virgin men, which I assume, like you, are saving themselves for marriage for religious reasons (because who the fuck else would do this), want that commonality. Women around the world are marrying virgin men all the time. But hey, do you, but do it quick. If you live in the west/developed world, you don't have time to shop around for virgin women saving themselves for marriage. If you are over 20 yrs old or so, forget a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:07 PM
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Women want to feel desired by many men. Men want to be desired by...many women...after they have lost their virginity goggles. I thought I wanted the same as you OP, until I lost my virginity. Thank god I didn't save myself for marriage for any of those girls I banged back then. WHEW. Here's the reality for you as a thirsty virgin. Of course you want one woman so bad right now. You'll take what you can get. You clearly also aren't a hit with the ladies, I was desired by many chicks before I lost…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:02 PM
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You didn't lack as much confidence as you thought. You just tried your best. There are people that truly lack confidence and they can't and will not fake it till they make it. Actual true lack of confidence is not being able to convince anyone. I've known people that are very socially inept, and years later they still are. They couldn't wake up and act like someone else tomorrow if their life depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:00 PM
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Yes, you can try to fake confidence, and it will show. How long is some unconfident guy gonna keep up the act? The act itself will manifest into over compensating behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:54 PM
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Women don't like men acting like something they aren't. You can't fake confidence. You either are or you aren't, and it will show.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:16 PM
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First of all, that's being ridiculously extreme. You know there are things you very much don't agree with that are actually involved in the current political climate and issues that are on the table, and raping kids isn't one of them. People died to give me the right not to vote. Free country, that's what they died for. Voters and non voters aren't two personality types of people in two categories, you're only making my exact point why I don't talk to people about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:44 PM
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He has different views on things you tolerate. I'm sure if he had certain specific ones, you wouldn't tolerate them. Also, if your husband votes differently than you at times, it would be just as good if he didn't then. It just really doesn't matter, he's one person. He's not making a difference and neither are you. If you refuse to date someone that doesn't vote, that sounds politically obsessed enough to me, when you really shouldn't even care. Passing up a person entirely for something that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:06 PM
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Good. I don't want politically obsessed people in my life, at least, they could keep it to themselves. I don't talk about any of that crap with anyone, in my life. No discussion needs to be had. You have endless lying media, and lying politicians of preference to influence your voting choices. I don't need a woman's hot take on these matters. She's less interested in changing my mind and more interested in judging me of course. To see if I think 'correctly' like her. Like I said earlier in this …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:56 PM
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That's good but these days it's realistically a deal breaker for a lot of people. I've learned to tell people things like 'I didn't vote.'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:50 PM
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One thing is for sure, they don't want you to display your intelligence in letting them know regularly the things they say are factually wrong. Just let your girl be a full of shit dummy unless it's a matter of life and death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:27 PM
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"As long as his views agree with mine."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:21 PM
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They like the book smarts and raw brain power if it makes a lot of money. Definitely not on it's own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:19 PM
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Men get attacked, robbed, and killed more than women in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:12 PM
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The incel forums, among others, got banned, and so anything having to do with relationships, dating, sex, this is where those guys went.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:03 PM
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Only date low n count women. Yes sure date low n count women but be prepared that they may have really low sex drives. This is because women with low n counts aren't that way because of morals its usually due to not liking/wanting sex or being awkard/unattractive. You can have a high sex drive and be in one relationship for years or life with that sex drive. You can have a low sex drive and be in many relationships due to the lack of satisfaction of your partners that have a higher sex drive. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:59 PM
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There are "Chads" (good looking men) that are also "good men." And these good looking men with good personalities also have an easy time getting a lady in bed. It's irrelevant that they are 'good', however. That part doesn't matter. The guys that say Chad is bad, they are also right, in that they've seen that plenty of times. There is a lack of incentive in Chads needing to be 'good' when they get what other men want anyway. There is more incentive to be good for the average and below average ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:04 PM
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But it’s clear to me that after a millennia of Men working to provide “value” to Women in the form of resources, monetary or security and Women largely engaging with Men for these things, the ability for Men to provide these things especially relative to Women being able to provide them for themselves have been increasingly negated in the last 50 years. Nearly half of adults in the US, age 18 to 35 live with their parents. That includes women. The value of both men and women, is in combined inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:36 PM
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I think it's very interesting redpillers don't seem to care about this. But obsess over n count divorce stats. Then this isn't understanding redpill. Redpill doesn't care about long term relationships, and obsessing over divorce stats is about retaining the mindset that marriage is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:22 PM
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MANY things are possible. It is possible that a woman is making you wait because she is both very attracted to you physically AND emotionally, and worries that rushing things too quickly could ruin things. You are a keeper and she tries to do those relationships right. It's a really nonsensical approach however because it doesn't work that with men. We want to have sex with women we really like. Making us wait doesn't make us closer to the woman, nor is it ruining anything. If the guy didn't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:51 PM
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There are studies posted here regularly about how bad dating has apparently become for half the US population. That includes sexlessness in men being at an all time low, and yet, mostly unchanged for women. Do the math there. Half of US adults are single, not dating, and say dating has gotten worse over the past decade. I said celibacy, because telling men to move on, is telling them to move on to the next failure, statistically. That's why I said that. If you are in the lower 50% bracket appare…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:45 PM
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Yep, but definitely do not improve yourself to meet these absurd standards. Not worth it. Improve yourself, for yourself. Completely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:09 PM
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Yes. Im not saying they're immune to criticism but you shouldn't care about a delusional person's standards. Why cope and seethe about a woman's high standards. Just move on. The point here, is that the average woman's standards are increasingly delusional in numbers. The entire point is how that is affecting dating. Telling men to just move on from that is telling men to just have a life of celibacy. Might as well tell men to stop experiencing hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:08 PM
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I was going to say something similar. I mean, do Asian men not have hormones or puberty? Do they not have an intrinsic desire for human touch and intimacy? Do they get it somewhere else? I think they just jack off and get back to work and focus on succeeding out of the greater emphasized fear of shame of not succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:04 PM
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Yes, I really meant to emphasize how much more attractive white women benefit beyond anyone else. Like, by A LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:00 PM
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White women arent the only attractive women. But attractive white women benefit the most. This is basic knowledge. Everyone knows this and sees this, especially when you aren't white. It doesn't even need to be said, you learn this before you even hit puberty. The elephant in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:31 PM
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Yes. But, that has nothing to do with everything you just said. We are talking about meatspace here, not the internet. And most men don't go to equivalent subs. Men seem needy, dependent and helpless. Cannot exist for an hour without seeking attention. FFS, men are known as the gender that, even unhealthfully, stuffs everything down because no one wants to listen to men's needs. Women complain about that all the time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:12 PM
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This sub is obsessed with the idea that only attractive men behave badly or are accepted by women.. it’s just not the case. Agreed, but the behaving badly happens in different ways. Unattractive bad men are more likely to be violent and possessive. Attractive bad men, indifferent and unfaithful. (stereotypically speaking, these are generalizations of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:10 PM
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Men seem needy, dependent and helpless. Cannot exist for an hour without seeking attention. Did you mean women???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:00 PM
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I've never done any of this shit in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:00 PM
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Most of the people at Trump rallies are married middle aged people and older. It's not a hookup meet. It's politics. I've also never been to one. I've just seen them in videos. And recall seeing people of various walks of life at those rallies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:11 AM
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You definitely can't spew 'whatever' at a lot of those sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:07 AM
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Trump rallies have lots of women at them. *Downvoting is against the sub's rules. I know, you just saw 'Trump' and your TDS flared up. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:04 AM
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We are talking about college and how the offset gender population affects dating among students. *Downvoting is against the sub's rules. And yes, that is what the thread discussion is in this comment chain. Learn to read better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:34 PM
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What do they have to do with this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:19 PM
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I assume you thought you were still talking to the same person. Common reddit mistake, no prob
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:18 PM
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They can't all do that. (subject is college female/male population) The top males statistically couldn't fuck all the women, nor do they want all the women. The top males want top women. They are already competing over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:43 PM
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Who ever said women are the romantic gender in the first place? Men provide romance to woo. Women are just fans of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:06 AM
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I'd assume the standard dregs of society, non-working, sociopathic, addicts. Plenty of those guys get women though, so definitely not the lowest value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:57 PM
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Ok, didn't see sarcasm the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:05 PM
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Yes, men having regular sex has been decreasing since the 70s and then plummeted like never before, with dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:54 PM
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No man past the age of at least 19, is interested in marrying a virgin, unless you are from some ultra conservative religious culture like the Arab world. Ain't nobody marrying pure virgins in the west. Most all chicks (and guys) lose their virginity before their 20s. And next to no one is marrying at 20. There are no pure virgins bro, don't use this fantasy argument again, it's silly. And Chad...you think Chads give af about virginity? HA. No man that is experienced expects any woman to be a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:52 PM
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Women complain loudly about this because realizing that someone you thought loved you and was a close friend was actually just pretending to give a shit about you because he wanted to get into your pants is one of the worst feelings ever. You just reduced a romantic relationship down to wanting to get in your pants. No, he didn't just want to fuck you. No guy sticks around and befriends 'a potential lay.' They befriend someone they had feelings for right away. The fact the he doesn't want to sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:38 AM
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I'm not gonna sit here and describe all your wrong assumptions about me (lol at alt right, lol and red pill) and what I said, but I'll just skip to the end. Maybe the government will be a better father to families than dead beat men. Check out some history, from not long ago. Whining about down votes is beta bitch behavior. Stating something isn't whining. I find it good to point out people's pettiness and cowardice in this case. When they choose downvoting as their response, it only confirms my…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:31 PM
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You want some responsibilities, or do you want a destroyed society? The point of such a society is there is no sustainable alternative. A destroyed society leads to either two things. A traditionalism restart, or a tyrannical government. Either started by a major war. Can't have your cake and eat it too. At least, not for long. Society is complex thing that has to be held together by responsibility of the people. Not just 'do whatever I want.' That won't last. There is no such thing as 'true fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:44 PM
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I know. Wasn't talking about that specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:37 PM
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I'm not disagreeing there because I say the same thing all the time, which I should have added. But it's still because they don't care, because they can't relate, and see it as having nothing to do with them. And yes, on top of that, women can't do anything about it, nor are going to 'care' is some sort of way. I'd leave it to any men making the argument to say how women should 'care', and what they means, and I feel like they wouldn't have an answer to that. Heck, I'll turn it around to a more …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:35 PM
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A way to a woman's heart is a good meal too, shit. Why are men special here lol? Because we aren't the same as much as you want us to be. I understand it is in modern women's interest to want that to be the case, and modern women will take that delusion to their grave, but it will never be the case. You'll just end up where many are already at, we are well past the canary in the coal mine. Men are looking for their moms in women. Women are looking for their dads. That is why. And my mom didn't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:44 PM
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Technology created that. That's what is to blame. Technology is THE thing to blame for everything. That's how societies and economies change. As I always say 'We point fingers, while technology giggles in the corner.'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:15 PM
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It's not that they don't realize it, they do. They don't care. And the ones that do care, 'care' in the sense that they enjoy the suffering of unsuccessful men, whom they despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:13 PM
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Men are way more likely now to not assume you're going to cook for them and shit like that. That isn't out of men being less sexist per se, it's the fact they know you won't, and have given up expecting anything from women. The assumption wouldn't be 'sexist' anyway. People like to call traditionalism sexist, while throwing out the part of why traditionalism was there. It worked. It still does. A way to a man's heart is through his stomach, that isn't going to change. If you cooked for a man, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:07 PM
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Definitely not in my experience. It's always been average guys or below, that also seem to be on the sociopath-ish end of the scale. No filter. Full desperation. Any good looking guy I've ever known, has never cat called. They know it doesn't work and isn't necessary. They can simply go talk to the girl. They know they actually have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:50 PM
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In early human existence, humanity itself was scarce and vulnerable. People died young. You had a small window in time to procreate, and you had tight competition. Procreation was rewarded to the highest sex drives, and here we are, the sons of our, daily, all-year-round, horny ancient ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:05 PM
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As a woman being around most males is psychological torture and don’t worry I know the feeling is mutual for men. That sounds like a personal problem. No, the feeling isn't mutual. This sounds like the problems, in either case, of specific circumstance, or people who's socialization ability and comfort is narrow. It's not like that for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:23 AM
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Then they clearly aren't actually enjoying the decline. That's not hard to understand. Although I'd bet those guys are LARPing and not actually fucking promiscuous women, therefore not enjoying any decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:05 AM
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I don't understand that mindset. "Women won't have sex with me!", PPD male rage is also "She had sex with me too soon, eww" PPD male disgust. Makes absolutely no sense. Because, and I wish a bot would auto comment on these kinds of posts, these aren't the exact same people you're talking about. These are the horrible arguments people make here all the damn time. You are not talking about the same exact people. That's why it 'makes no sense' to you. Your bias in what you want to believe makes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:23 PM
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Most guys in here see tattoos on women as red flags, why is it weird that some women see a red flag too? Some woman above said 'all over, nothing is off limits.' That's a big red flag on the kind of men she likes. C'mon, the kind of guy that gets tats everywhere is a guaranteed douchebag. But douchebag loving women are blind. Smile now, cry later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:57 PM
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Upon looking that up, seems more like a chick thing. Men tend to get the job done with suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:43 PM
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I don't see, as a norm, women in that age bracket not wanting men anymore. If they break up/get divorced they are with another man in no time. And those men aren't necessarily better either. Often, not. Women and men want to be in relationships ultimately, it's at the very least, a helpful thing to have. I know, I was single these covid years, and it was the loneliest I've ever felt, and didn't make life easier or better to be alone. I can't imagine most women being so content with a life like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:23 PM
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The wall: the point in life in which a woman's attractiveness decreases significantly, and cannot be reversed. 'Aged out.' Results vary obviously, but this happens at 30+ years old for women. At 40, forget it. Men in general aren't interested in aging women, we just have to settle for them (unless you're a rich celebrity) That certainly isn't 'increased options.' Plus with age, most people are done playing musical chairs, that certainly doesn't create an increase in options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:09 PM
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Most divorces are initiated by women. I strongly suspect that these women who are "in love" will fall out of it to some degree as their options increase with age. Women's options increase with age? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:38 PM
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His voice was an act. Howard Stern played a phone recording of him, sounded like a completely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:16 PM
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It was a joke. But point made. Yes, female ass shape and male ass shapes aren't the same. If you haven't noticed that at this point in life, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:19 PM
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If this is a tits vs ass thing, then tits being more attractive to men makes more sense since it's a dimorphic feature that's actually unique to women. Women's ass shape is also unique to women. I don't see dudes walking around with an ass that would make me question myself for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:30 PM
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Trends did nothing to change what I like sexually. I always liked big ass since I was 10 years old, and I'm 40 now. Men (that do) always liked big ass. Nothing changed, other than women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:29 PM
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Most women would not agree to the test as it is an accusation of cheating. The marriage would be over. If that's the case, then men should talk to women about paternity testing BEFORE conception. If she leaves because of that, GOOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah, I don't agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:50 AM
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Men don't think they aren't emotional. I'm a man. I know. I have emotions. It's obvious when someone is making an emotional decision or not. That isn't gender specific. I've never suggested men aren't incapable of making emotional decisions. You're suggesting that is what they do, period, and therefore 'shouldn't be in positions of leadership.' Because your immediate thought, is all male decisions are emotional because of sexual drive. This is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:58 PM
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You said men. Twice. You didn't say most, some, none, anything. So just saying 'men' certainly states that you meant most. If not, learn to communicate better. Yes, you're a pussy if you go through life actually believing you'll go to jail for talking to women. You don't believe that of course, that's just a deflection from the fact that women don't like you, which is evident in that you actually typed that nonsense in the first place. Classic incel front.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:05 PM
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No it is not scary that I believe that. (it's not a belief, it's truth) I think you're being ridiculous. You're combining hormonal drive and emotions. Hormonal drive doesn't equal emotions. Testosterone swings the hammer, but it also draws up the plan. I'm talking about WORK here. And that is the majority of what testosterone in men is evolved for. Getting shit done. Rallying. Taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:00 PM
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if men are prisoner's of their hormones why do we allow them to be in positions of leadership? Because those hormones get shit done. Believe it or not, men aren't thinking about sex when they are doing important shit. Testosterone gets shit done. Sex is the least of what it serves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:32 PM
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When is the last time you've ever heard of a man going to jail by having polite, appropriate communication with a woman? And I mean personally, not some random stupid news story. A whole lot of other things in this life you do all the time are going to get you in trouble so many times more likely, than simply talking to a woman. Might as well not leave the house. Most men, MEN, aren't shivering in their pants over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:48 PM
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As a man I hate men like this, and that it is unfortunately the norm. Most men are so dumb when it comes to women. Unless you've received the go from a woman, like you're gonna go out or something, then consider all of them your sisters and treat them like such. That's a rule of thumb all men should have. They are all your sisters until further notice. They won't not like you for treating them as such, and trying to do anything else won't work if they don't like you that way. Some guys are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:18 PM
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Fair enough, but I doubt they sought out 60 year olds for that study
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:53 PM
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Not true. Sex drives among men can vary like crazy. I can have daily sex and still jack off that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:50 PM
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Globally, men tend to masturbate 140 times a year, or 2.6 times a week. Pfff. Amateurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:15 PM
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I am far above average and still routinely got turned down by below average woman. Most guys are stuck dating a woman 2-3 points below them because women would rather be alone than date someone at their level which means a lot more men are trying to date than women. I am 6'2, 200 pounds, make six figures, decent muscles, below average looks, am constantly told things like I would be a catch and would make a good husband by women friends because I am a nice guy. You know what offers I get? Gold d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:18 AM
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BS, we notice women's stupid looking, pencil thin plucked eyebrows, with painted eyebrows on top of that. Knock it off ffs. Half the shit women do to 'look better', makes them look worse. Yes, definitely don't do it for us, do it for other women whom would (or should) still be your friend either way. Straight women trying to impress other women with their looks is the most non functional thing ever. Will they not be your friend otherwise? I get it, ya'll can't help it. Ironically the evolutionar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:12 AM
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The guys that have a problem with it are irrelevant. Since when (in our lifetimes) do people give a shit what men have to say when it comes to women? Anything men have to say about women that isn't pro women in every way, (unless you are famous and beloved and she shit on your bed) is mocked. Guys being vocal about women being upfront about casual sex are going to be mocked. No one cares what they have to say about women and their sexuality other than guys like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:22 PM
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The thread is about women approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:15 PM
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Women 'approach' men. They just don't straight up ask them out most of the time. They just show interest/body language. Some younger guys are too dumb or scared to notice or do anything about it, but eventually you figure it out. Reality is, a lot of guys aren't attractive enough to ever be approached or hit on. Even by women that aren't particularly attractive. Most men have to win out on other things than looks with a lot of women, because in the end, all women are attracted physically to only…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:06 PM
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Not in the age of Me Too# Explain. Because that doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:55 AM
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You're talking about two different men. No non existent hive mind of 'x' group of people will become such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:53 AM
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The long game is to starve and kill off the introverts. We’ve always been undesirable to the extroverted majority LOL. You make this odd assumption that these extroverts you speak of even know you exist, much less care about your personality type. No one is locking you in your home but you. Introverts have always existed. 20-40 years and we’ll all be gone and you social butterflies can go around talking to and appreciating each other again. They're doing that now. Again, you're socially irreleva…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:57 PM
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Youtube. Cussing in youtube videos can get you demonetized. Also, he's a jew, a religious man. I think his views have a whole lot more to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:52 PM
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I agree. Monogamy is disgusting. One of the most cruelest and perverted inventions of post agricultural man. Down with the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:39 PM
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Horniness. Wanting to sleep a majority of women you encounter. It’s incomprehensible to me. That's incomprehensible to me as well, as a man. I do not want to sleep with the majority of women I encounter, nor do I think most men do either. Most women are NPCs to me. I think you're overblowing the male sex drive here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:25 PM
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I’ve met their wives, they are usually active, outdoorsy people and nearly always far more attractive than their paunchy and balding husbands. Being 'active and outdoorsy' doesn't mean they are a good partner. But, more so, it's the reality people don't want to face. Humans are not meant to be monogamous for decades on end. They can be by social force, and incentive, but it's not actually desirable, especially with men. We don't desire it before hand, women come to realize they no longer desire …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:22 PM
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Why men will insist they are the intelligent or logical sex and then turn around and say they can’t help making decisions with their dicks. It is logical by primal nature to 'spread the seed.' We are vessels for DNA replication via other bodies. We, as with women, are no longer evolutionarily calibrated to our environment via modernity. It's like the flip side for women, generally being most attracted to powerful and dangerous men, to protect her from other powerful and dangerous men, except the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:53 PM
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why would you spend this time, money and energy on someone and not want anything serious with them and then accuse us of being golddiggers If a guy thinks women are golddiggers, then why would he want anything serious with a woman? It answers itself. The time, money, and energy is to get laid. The driving force of life itself. It doesn't stop for social realities or conceptual beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:48 PM
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Most people that want their tiring agenda they are pushing pull the same predictable, worthless tactics like 'that's what X people would say, dur hur' when they've got nothing left, though you never had anything in the first place, and I tire of helping you show that. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:08 AM
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Bunch of nonsense. I'm not a gay or bi man, so that part has nothing to do with me, but, sexual preference is developed at young ages typically before people have even completely puberty. It all manifests forward from there. It's all influence, and you don't choose any of it. I can look back through my life and easily see why I like this or that sexually. Big surprise I developed no sexual attraction to specific looks of people I wasn't around, and cultures and cultural attitudes I had no exposu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:35 AM
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There is no specific case here. A woman not being attracted to men having sex with other men and not wanting a relationship like that, isn't homophobic. Her finding that unappealing, is...NORMAL. When people are abnormal, this where the modern defense of calling normal people 'phobic' magically shows up. Makes sense, everyone wants their little world to be 'the' world so they can feel better about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:15 AM
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That's because 'white people porn' isn't a catergory, because it's the norm, because obvious reason, the bigger market due to population. There is endless 'white porn', it is the most abundant porn on the planet. You shouldn't have to look up 'white' anything to find any. It's why there are even 'black' and 'asian' sections when it comes to (regular) movies, and even books. White is the common norm. (in the west) Shit, I'm Latino. If I were to try to look up anything like that when it comes to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:30 AM
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My point was you made a low witted accusation, which I corrected, and you came back for more, and gave another textbook low witted accusation, and are going to continue to fail miserably as you try to play it off, should you wish to do so. Learn to take a L.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:05 PM
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My best friend ever, and nicest guy I ever knew, (RIP Bobby) was gayer than a picnic basket. Fuck outta here. *Downvoting is against the rules, but thanks though, shows how hard ya took being made a fool. HEH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:55 PM
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Better yet, no one is jumping to proclaim 'racist' when a black person says they only want to date black people, or any other dating decision they want to make. BTW, I'm 'Hispanic', 65% Caucasian, 30% Native American, 5% East Asian. Do I get this cultural 'pass' from people I don't want passes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:38 PM
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The term was made dishonestly and is used dishonestly, therefore because I have a spine and a brain, I refuse to acknowledge the dishonest use of language that is invented for dishonest, socio-political purposes. Language can change, again. But, enough of that. You gave your opinion in regards to the topic, but had to throw in the 'if a woman isn't okay with that, she is just being homophobic.' It was an unneeded, judgmental addition at best. Lack of attraction and 'homophobia' are/can be two di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:14 PM
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I'm not offended by anything. Why would I be? Sounds like projection. People that throw around the word 'phobic' are the types to be easily offended. Is English YOUR first language? Because I didn't say homophobic is being scared of gay people. I stated why and how the term is misused in the first place and what being phobic means. More than once. Just said I'm not racist, know I'm not racist. You saying it with your horrible comprehension of simple concepts, and obvious biases doesn't make it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:56 PM
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Phobia, maybe try googling it. I've never dated certain races of women because I'm not attracted to them and I don't owe them myself. Attraction isn't a choice, nor 'being' something. I'm not afraid, nor have an irrational fear aka phobia of them, nor do I hate them or wish for them to have less standing in society than myself. Racism, google it. Please, you won't date many people for many reasons. And because anyone can invent dishonest nonsense in their favor, you will find yourself eventually…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:35 PM
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And? If they aren't attracted to that then so what? 'Being homophobic' is BS. It isn't 'being', it just 'is.' And 'phobic' is also a poorly used term. 'Phobic/phobia' is a serious thing that shouldn't just be thrown around, but, is, for socio-political reasons. And you're doing that here. 'I don't have a problem with it, and people that aren't like me, have a problem.' Just because you are sexually ok with something doesn't mean others need to be, nor should you ever think you are 'more evolved'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:16 PM
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Nearly every study on extramarital affairs shows that men are more likely to commit adultery than women. I haven't checked in a while, but I'm sure nearly every study said it was more or less 50/50. Granted I'm tired of 'studies' on social matters like this. They are often skewed and presented dishonestly depending on the platform it is being presented on. It's all politics and selling to the audience. If that platform has an agenda as such, there is no reason for their 'studies' to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:50 PM
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What an absurd statement You want absurdity, consider you are arguing with someone you don't know through your device on this specific subreddit, instead of dancing and bonding daily with your tribesmen and having orgies with women. And that's just the tip of the modern absurdity iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:21 PM
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That actually checks out, they say if society was left to women we never would have progressed past mud huts. Perhaps, we shouldn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:09 PM
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He's a narcissist. Makes sense that he bought twitter then. The narcissist's platform. I've read his tweets. He fits in perfectly Again, he's VERY in touch with what that platform is. He's just another tweeter, who bought Twitter. Also everyone that spends, or earns billions of dollars is a narcissist. The world is run by them in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:27 PM
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The general population doesn't think anything. We aren't a mass mind. YOU don't understand what the 'general population' thinks. And twitter, isn't the 'general population.'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:22 PM
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There is no censorship either. Censorship is the suppression of speech, public communication, or other information. This may be done on the basis that such material is considered objectionable, harmful, sensitive, or "inconvenient".[2][3][4] Censorship can be conducted by governments,[5] private institutions and other controlling bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:29 AM
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We don't need an out of touch billionaire monopolising all social media He seems to be pretty in touch to me. Certainly more in touch than anyone that owns any social media platforms. Also impossible for him to monopolize all social media. Buying FB/IG isn't an option for him which is all that would be left as far as big social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:27 AM
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Sure, but these are pointless arguments being made here to what I originally said. In the not so distant past child support and no fault divorce didn't even exist. Marriage was generally for keeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:55 AM
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And yet they get divorced anyway. Child support from the father or the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:52 PM
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The more attracted a woman is to you, the less she wants you to talk. It's almost as if talking is completely useless - if they're attracted to you, talking only harms it, and if they're not attracted to you, no amount of talking will help you. This isn't true. She wants you to talk less if a bunch of shit she doesn't want to hear is coming out of it. 'Right things' being said however, she can't get enough of. Point is, she doesn't want to really hear the truth in your brain, in a lot of cases w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:21 PM
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I don't think there has been any real comprehensive study on the reasons why people are divorcing at a high rate currently. In the past, divorce wasn't as socially acceptable, and women depended on men financially more. Don't need a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:31 PM
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I didn't notice anyone talking about cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:13 PM
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Women don’t want to be approached. *Women want to be approached by the men they want. Most men will never be approached by the women that want them, and will mostly never approach those women, because 'women don't want to be approached.' What a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:41 PM
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Masculine lesbians are the most red pilled people on the planet in my experience "Bitches are crazy." - Melissa Ethridge, lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:58 AM
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Because for guys that’s all we really want lol. Pussy and her companionship. I can do everything else myself I want dinner made, laundry done, and house cleaned. I have better shit to do with that time in regards to making money. If she does too, cool, then let's hire a cleaning lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:06 AM
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Older men have disgusting personalities? Ok. That's weird. Young men are half retarded, and certainly not at their best personality in life, but if that's where you're at age wise, then that makes sense. If I was being silly I could say women in their 30s have crappy personalities, worse than when they were younger, and that would be true...on a case to case basis. Like many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:43 AM
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Are you kidding? More women are dating men much younger than them - like 10 or more years younger. I know 2 such marriages. Tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:32 AM
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My mom and stepdad are roughly that age difference and were only a year or two older than that when they got together. I'm talking about young people today. Most women in general are grossed out at the idea of a guy that is a 5+ years younger than them. Particularly at that young of an age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:21 AM
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A 20 year old guy might be a Chad to a 17- year old girl but might be a loser to a 25 year old girl All 20 year old men are losers to 25 year old women. How often do you even see that combination together? It's not because of the 20 yr old man's decision either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:09 AM
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Again. 38 years old was the age that was proposed. If they had said 28, this would be a different story. At 38, you're 38. I've yet to see any example of a woman getting work done at middle age that makes me go 'oh wow, NOW she's hot!' And, how many people actually ever do such a thing anyway? Most people at 40 are over this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:29 PM
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Here's the problem with this kind of thinking. These people would have looked better if they were fit in the first place when they were younger. That would have been the best they would have ever looked. This is the lie people tell themselves, men do it too. "I'm 40 and look better than ever." You would have looked better at 20-25 max, if you were fit then. You look better than your 18 year old self, because you weren't fit then. Of course you look 'better than ever'. Heck I've been following bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:54 PM
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Well, yeah, of course. What does that have to do with this? We're talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:41 PM
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Someone can't be previously 400 pounds, and now be a 7. (details below) Also, the ages you are giving are going against what you proposed in the first place. Which was claiming middle aged women can look better than they did at 18 through 'money and social status.' Also, where are the picture examples like I said? You got a pic of that previously 400 pound gut? (I wouldn't want to see it if you did. I just ate)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:35 PM
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A woman can gain money and social status and pay her way into looking better at 38 then she did at 18. LOL, NOPE. There is no work possible that can be done to make a middle aged woman look better than 18. You're going to have to show some non airbrushed examples of this, not because you're correct, but because it will be amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:12 PM
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I thought the question was about what I personally like? Older men gross me out more then older women. That’s where my numbers come from lol This answer doesn't make any sense. So what are you answering? Looks or personality? Older men's personality grosses you out? Make some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:48 PM
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Bring the self serving age range you gave for women down to the men's range you gave, and it would actually make sense. Most women past 30 are moms, and birthing drops attractiveness substantially, and often, greatly, and most of all, irreversibly, immediately. In an age of narcissism, I think this is a big reason women don't want to have kids beside modern neuroticism, and economy. That said, women are simply not prime past 25. The cosmetic industry is mostly for women past 25. (Younger women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:21 PM
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I'm in my 40's, and just dating a woman under 35, would make me feel like I should be locked up. That's just very odd on your part. Don't walk around thinking that's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:08 PM
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