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| -1 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?Yes. It’s gay and submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for themThat’s nice. I wish you well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:38 PM |
| 35 | Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for themWomen (and men) almost always prefer fantasy to reality. They want to be seduced and taken for an adventure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Misogyny and misogyny denial“mean words bad and need to be taken seriously” isn’t an adult position. There are thousands of more important things worth focusing on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 12:25 PM |
| 13 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?In my experience, the women who claim to “do it all” are being very generous in their accounting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 15 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?That’s exactly what I do. I only date casually and have my own place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:13 AM |
| 17 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?People are free to form, or not form whatever relationships they wish. In general, the women who roll out this opinion tend to be doing some very silly accounting. Not all “work” is equivalent. I’ve never understood why men put up with unloving, ungrateful nags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:54 AM |
| – | Are misogynists good men or are women justified to despise them?I don’t really care much about what people say- Especially what they say about themselves. Their actions are what I’m concerned with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 11:09 AM |
| 23 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.Either become attractive to women, Or hookers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:02 AM |
| 4 | TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complexNo. It’s an acknowledgment of horrible decision making and stupidity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated?I think people should pursue what interests them organically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 10:08 PM |
| – | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netAttraction is pre-rational. It doesn’t matter if dominance and old style protectiveness is now a liability or not. It matters what makes women’s lizard brains melt and their pussies wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 08:46 AM |
| 3 | How Red Pill Alpha guys are worsening the situation for menI mean, there is no collectivist solution for men who are struggling. The solution is what TRP prescribes individually for men if they want their lives to improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 08:49 AM |
| 9 | At what age do women expire to men?It obviously varies from woman to woman. It’s when her looks fade. The only way I “deal with aging” is proper health and fitness. Nothing much else to do about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:07 PM |
| – | Its not biphobic to not date bi menIt’s “okay” to not date anyone for any reason. Only insane people on the internet “believe” otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toI only have dated women my age but I’ve had multiple exes who told me they like older men. And before me usually dated older men. It seems to actually be a thing in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 02:56 PM |
| 17 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?No. I don’t want children and I’ve dated women who don’t want children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Sex. TRP is generally anti-marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?The difference is men will stay with a woman who is “boring” as long as he gets what he wants, like sex. I’ve never broken up with a woman for being boring. I’ve broken up with them for being too annoying, difficult, disloyal, insane, dramatic, or demanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?Sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Why doesn't the red pill community try advocating for men's issues IRL.Because collectivism is for regards and dudes want to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseIt is the case for many of them. But their egos and narratives in their heads prevent them from getting their dicks wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 04:49 PM |
| 6 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThey just need to get laid. The rest is just pretending men are women with women’s needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 05:59 AM |
| 17 | The hate for single moms comes from jealousy.Lmao no. They are just tards who everyone has to pretend are victims because they’re women. And that annoys people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:22 PM |
| 9 | Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido?I’ve never seen this advice anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 11:45 AM |
| 11 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.It’s just a shit test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 01:39 PM |
| 14 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.It’s just false pattern recognition. Most heterosexual Women generally like masculinity. Convicts and bullies are dramatic, exaggerated examples of masculinity. But one obviously doesn’t need to be a convict to be masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 01:14 PM |
| 8 | Most Women Sell Themselves ShortThis is one of the those death by bullet points arguments. I don’t have time to challenge/refute everything, but -Most women aren’t young and as attractive as sex workers. -Most women don’t fuck their man at his whim, and fuck how their man wants at that moment. -In relationships, most women have considerable time, energy, and financial obligations for their man. All of these are absent for the man with prostitution. He’s paying for sex and freedom from relationship obligations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 11:48 AM |
| 2 | The manosphere doesn’t believe men should be putting effort into relationships.It depends on what the individual man wants. But yea, you’re correct in essence. TRP is generally anti-marriage and is about getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Older people are slightly to blame, for why our generation is screwed.How is it the previous generation’s responsibility to teach you how to get laid? If you fail, then you’re irrelevant. Others will succeed and the world moves on. Same as it always has. It’s on you to adapt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Claiming "Sex isn't the only thing men care about" only works when men show they have other priorities.They are atypical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Claiming "Sex isn't the only thing men care about" only works when men show they have other priorities.Because reality doesn’t exist in your 3 bullet points and you have proven time and again to be completely disinterested in the male perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Claiming "Sex isn't the only thing men care about" only works when men show they have other priorities.Sex is important to men and vital to relationship health (to men). Any argument which tries to twist, moralize, or wordplay this reality away isn’t dealing men’s experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Male hyper and polygamyMale polygamy is axiomatic to TRP. It’s literally about how to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guyseverything you wrote is incorrect about dating a single mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:16 AM |
| – | Using a value aproach to relationship viability is the best way to understand themYea. Most of the value analysis/transaction is subconscious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:29 AM |
| 1 | What's the psychology of a cheater circling back?She’s an attention-seeking hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:12 AM |
| – | Using a value aproach to relationship viability is the best way to understand themIf someone makes you feel good emotionally, you are receiving something from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:01 AM |
| – | Using a value aproach to relationship viability is the best way to understand themHumans don’t stay in voluntary relationships unless they receive something from them. We all want. We all give, to get what we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceFair enough. I can see that. I prefer the solo life, personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:35 AM |
| 16 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceHe’s a perfect blue pill cautionary tale. I don’t feel bad for him at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:56 AM |
| 6 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceIt's hard to truly build wealth and be successful when you're alone. This has been the opposite of my experience. Being alone means ability to massively cut living expense and time overhead. It’s trivially easy for a non-idiot to build wealth alone, with no familial provider burden. Minimize expenses, maximize savings/investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Straight men are better off allowing 4B and political lesbianism to take over the feminist movementEvery normal person is “allowing” every other person to do what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 12:50 AM |
| 3 | How do you reconcile the leaders being losers?Anyone can gain a social media following and declare themselves a “leader”. I’ve never watched any Andrew Tate content. The vast majority of people who hold Red Pill beliefs likely haven’t watched his content. TRP isn’t a political movement or religion. There are no “leaders”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.What does that have to do with anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:20 AM |
| 15 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Why would men collectively organize with other men? The powerful men have always used power to enslave all of the other men for their own benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:12 AM |
| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonBecause trust isn’t required for a short-term fling. It’s essential for someone who you’re having/raising children with, sharing property with, and intending to spend the rest of your life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?When men say and hear “high maintenance” they aren’t talking about an accurate accounting of time for a woman to make up her appearance. They are talking about how easy she is to get along with, how demanding she is, etc. What is the psychological tax of being with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | The primary way to fix a good portion of dating issues in the next 30 years is to increase public transportation, third spaces, decrease cost of production and increase wages.Collectivist nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 08:57 AM |
| 6 | Need Advice from Women: How can men decenter women and still get regular sex & intimacy, just like women are decentering men and meeting their needs? How can men live like women?Prostitutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:46 AM |
| 5 | Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag.The question was rhetorical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag.Why would a man be with a woman who shames him for wanting to fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag.And what a great relationship for the man it would be. Being shamed for wanting to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag.Those women are already halfway to a dead bedroom with shaming and nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag.Men should avoid women who complain about this like the plague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are these popular figures controversial?They are only “toxic” in leftist echo chambers. All of those guys are pretty mainstream old school liberals. They’re not even conservative. I’m old enough to remember Rogan talking about interdimensional DMT trips with Graham Hancock while being sponsored by the fleshlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Are there any positives to usual porn consumption?People don’t jerk off to porn for “positives”. They jerk off because they want to bust a nut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:07 PM |
| 17 | Most of what men say they are attracted to and "deserve" is actually unreciprocated delusion that can't be fulfilled easilyJust be young and beautiful forever and there’ll be no problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 01:01 PM |
| 2 | People with extreme fetish and kinks why does that turn you on?If fetishes were rational, they wouldn’t be fetishes. Sex is an animal drive. Fetishes are unusual forms of this animal drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like men prioritize their female friends over girlfriends?They don’t get anything out of the friendzone. It’s a shitty association and a cautionary tale for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:59 AM |
| 25 | Why does it seem like men prioritize their female friends over girlfriends?I’ve never seen this once in real life. Unless it’s a guy in the friendzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:42 AM |
| 25 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?What young men are “looking for relationships” as opposed to “trying to get laid”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 04:43 PM |
| 5 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?No… Wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 04:28 PM |
| 65 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?In free societies this works itself out. People can fuck who they want, enter and end relationships at will. People only do these things with people they consider “worth it”. No one will stop a man or woman who wants to leave the intersexual dating landscape, if they so choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 11:43 AM |
| 10 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptHistory says otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 11:03 PM |
| 19 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptWomen have occasionally ascended to thrones to rule. The ones who did were just as vicious as the men. Because the laws of power don’t discriminate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:26 PM |
| 23 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptNo. some men did. Not all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were toldFlaking because of “responsibility” is certainly a take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 04:39 PM |
| 48 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptLmao. The world never “revolved around men and men’s libido”. Powerful men enslaved other men and used them for labor and canon fodder. And women were enslaved as broodmares and whores. But yea, it is a lot better today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:58 PM |
| 59 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were toldNah it’s become worse just in the last 15 years. But it’s just part of the declining sociocultural landscape. When I was in high school, flakiness wasn’t a thing. People said they were going to show up and actually did. People were much more relaxed, reliable, social, and considerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ?Do you want a man to love you and not hate you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military police[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?Lmao no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 10:21 AM |
| – | Women actually agree with redpill ideals they just dislike the brandingSo Red Pill = anything I find personally immoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 12:28 PM |
| 8 | What's the ideal world for a RedPiller?TRP isn’t about an “ideal world”. It’s shedding blue pill idealism, and adapting to real world intersexual dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | You have two options - which one would you go for?2 has no downsides and 1 isn’t even an option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 11:18 PM |
| 3 | How do you prefer to be asked for consent to make out?Lmao autistic nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 08:27 AM |
| 12 | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?Just in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 01:19 AM |
| 9 | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?Date? Sure Marry? No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 12:59 AM |
| 6 | CMV: it's underhanded for men to keep their assets in their mother's name in case of a breakupShe was a girlfriend who was entitled to nothing. Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why Low-Attachment FWB/Companionship Can Be Healthier Than Traditional RelationshipsIt’s also my preferred option, but it’s not for everyone. Plus if one wants family and kids, it obviously wouldn’t work well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?All men are never going to drop out of society. Society would collapse without useful men. There are always some percentage who give up. The world keeps turning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The 50/50 model is a bad deal for women. It's just a roommate situation with sex, and it becomes outright exploitative if you have kids.Cool with me. I’m down to not live together and just have sex then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:50 AM |
| – | who is more valuable to you, a prostitute or a regular slut?They’re both hoes with different prices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 05:55 AM |
| 6 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Women aren’t just selflessly devoting themselves to men. They are getting things they want out of those relationships. Otherwise they wouldn’t be in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 11:12 AM |
| 9 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?They want different things than men, and pursue those. They are just as self-interested as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 10:33 AM |
| 13 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Women consider their commitment and love the prize. Men consider sex the prize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 09:55 AM |
| 30 | An average young woman *isn't average*The average young woman is fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 12:04 PM |
| – | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.If you replaced “white” and “men” with any other categories of people and generalized them in this way, it would be bannable/fireable offense. But I don’t expect moral consistency from children with a 3rd grade perspective of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.This is insane, vile, sexist, and racist. And has nothing to do with what the typical white dude internally experiences. Mass shooters and the typical white dude have as much in common as the average person and a schizophrenic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Do RP believe that "most" men share the same dating strategy?Obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Do RP believe that "most" men share the same dating strategy?There are certainly other things worth pursuing in life which lead to deeper life satisfaction. I was more describing the male lizard brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Do RP believe that "most" men share the same dating strategy?The vast majority of men want a lot of sex with the most desirable women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?Or all people in the safest, most advanced, most abundant free civilizations in history could stop pretending to be victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 01:24 AM |
| – | Red pill ‘truths’ are just excuses to frame hierarchy as biologyIt’s certainly up to those men to change their situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 05:05 PM |
| – | Red pill ‘truths’ are just excuses to frame hierarchy as biologyLmao. I don’t care what women do. You’re the one making assumptions. It’s perfectly reasonable to want someone who can pull their own weight (and then some). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:38 PM |
| – | Red pill ‘truths’ are just excuses to frame hierarchy as biologyThis is just false. Let’s take your claim about status and money. TRP (and the consensus of social science) claims women select longterm mates by status and resources. This means men are incentivized in a way women aren’t to pursue those things. There is nothing in TRP which says “men have to be the ones with those things”. Women are free to compete and acquire status and resources. It simply is reality that men who don’t do these things tend to be left out in the cold. As per usual, you’re blue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:08 PM |
| 30 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?There’s no mechanism for grievance ideologies like feminism to self-dissolve. It will always move forward to claim oppression unless opposed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 08:25 AM |
| 10 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Non-masculine, submissive, avoidant men finish last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:50 PM |
| 3 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?By enjoying the freedoms available in a 21st century high civilization past its prime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Dead bedroom discourse explains dead bedroomsYour comment has nothing to do with mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 05:15 AM |
| 6 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"It’s a fine exchange for the compensation I receive. We all want. We all must give, to get what we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:46 PM |
| 6 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?Nothing. Enjoy the decline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Dead bedroom discourse explains dead bedroomsI wasn’t talking about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:37 PM |
| 18 | Dead bedroom discourse explains dead bedroomsEvery time I read some woman play this semantic game, I thank God I’m not married. Imagine living with such an entitled creature who thinks they can argue with what you want and need out of the relationship. What garbage wives and garbage humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:32 PM |
| 12 | Dead bedroom discourse explains dead bedroomsNo marriage, no dead bedroom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:18 PM |
| – | Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to womenLmao. It’s not a threat. It’s just how some of us want to live life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Men should work harder for womenOr I could just fuck her and then go back to my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 01:28 PM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceTrue enough. Regards gonna regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:40 AM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceThen don’t reply to me, regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:39 AM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceI don’t care what women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:38 AM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceI mean that’s fine. People can do whatever they want. But there’s the other side of the coin. I have no idea why a man would marry a premenopausal woman after the expiration of her youth. Though admittedly, many men still seem to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:32 AM |
| 1 | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?It’s infantilization of adults. But universities can do whatever they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Men committing majority of violent crimes consumes more tax payer money that single momsAre you under the impression criminals are viewed in higher esteem than single mothers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 07:58 AM |
| 12 | The idea of marriage and family is dead for womenThen don’t get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:44 PM |
| – | It makes biological sense to be impregnated by a hot guy then have a average provider fund itI mean, I know this is a troll post, but how does it benefit the provider men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Men: how do you feel about traditional gender norms?If you want to pursue status, you’re likely best served by aligning yourself with the traditional masculine role. But I don’t care much for status, am not getting married, or having children. I value freedom and independence. It’s never been easier to live unconventionally than now, as long as you’re not incompetent at life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:36 AM |
| 51 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreYou’re right. Skimpy clothing doesn’t give men the right to look at women. The right to look at anything or anyone in a public place is freely available for all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:54 AM |
| 36 | If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds.Why would any sane man be interested in this on a conscious level? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Is sex a need? Depends on how you define needIn what way is “social life” necessary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Why dont women start a single father epidemic?Or they could just stop becoming single mothers and being garbage parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 07:19 PM |
| 28 | Is sex a need? Depends on how you define needIt’s just semantics. Sex is a “need” in the same way love and social connection are “needs”. They aren’t literally necessary for survival, but a necessary part of a fulfilling life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 12:26 AM |
| – | Where do you draw the line between “being used” and “just a breakup”?“Being used” is a description of the woman’s internal feelings and subjective experience. There’s no real objective, measurable behavioral standard for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 10:41 AM |
| 23 | What are some things women dont understand about you?Peace is just as valuable as sex. And without both, a relationship makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 3 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostPeople who decry individualism, tend to contribute the least to the community. Or are religious nutjobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?He will be viewed as that. In reality, he probably is simply skilled at getting laid and has normal male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 08:20 AM |
| 13 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:23 AM |
| – | Why are men obsessed with younger 23 year old women when there are so many women in their 30s,40s, and 50s who look phenomenal?Men are equally “obsessed” with older women if they look as good as the young women. Most people get fatter and uglier as they age. There are always exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Does the “victim” in a break up really glow up the mostThe one who cares less, wins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.Agreed. It’s a garbage deal for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 05:53 PM |
| -4 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.The more comfortable women get monopolizing a man’s sexuality while offering continual rejection, the more I feel men shouldn’t feel bad about getting side anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 02:13 PM |
| 2 | "If men use you for sex, then that's all you're good for/the only thing you have to offer them." Likewise, if women use you for "your resources," then that's all you have to offer women.Yea this is exactly Red Pill thinking. It warns men against being a beta bux mule, and how to occupy the desired position of “the lover” instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:00 AM |
| 21 | If a Guy is Toxic, Women Won’t Entertain Him (Looks Be Damned).Way too many single mothers for this to be true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menI’m safe as long as a fight of stairs separates us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?Sounds like maladaptive focus causing insecurity. Focus on something else and the problem’s solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:18 AM |
| 14 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?Stop preoccupying yourself with what your man might be thinking about and the problems go away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menAnd you’re clearly fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menIt’s habits and weakness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:21 PM |
| 8 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menThe Genetics of populations take thousands of years to change. The obesity rate was below 2% 100 years ago. It is now ~30%. Genetics don’t change that fast. People over-consume and develop bad habits. They never break these habits and thus become fat. They choose this every day they over-consume. The temporary pleasure of indulgence is more valuable than longterm sustainable health to the majority of the population. They choose to be fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:09 PM |
| 54 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menIt’s ego. Men would rather be enslaved to a fat, entitled single mother than pay a hooker and go back to their lives. This allows them to believe they are above “paying for it” and positive social identity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:04 PM |
| 11 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menThey are fat by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men.Most men are NPC’s to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 06:59 AM |
| 1 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?All things that people suffering from depression, anxiety, CPTSD, schizotypal disorder etc find extremely hard to impossble to do. There is no solution for severely mentally ill people. If they can’t do the necessary things everyone else is doing, life will leave them behind, just like everyone else. The fact that it’s harder for them isn’t relevant. It’s what the world demands. People fail to take care of their fitness because they lack discipline, not because they’re poor. If only you could ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?Lift, find and pursue your mission, don’t fall into one of many of life’s traps (addiction, knocking up a girl, overspending, marriage, etc.) And no. Free gym membership would do nothing. Gyms are cheap. People fail to take care of their fitness because they lack discipline, not because they’re poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 11:12 AM |
| 12 | I believe for struggling men, red pill works best if you are have at least one of the following genetic markers: neurotypical and/or conventionally attractive appearance. How can you apply the red pill if you are autistic + conventionally unattractive without causing significant mental damage?TRP was always for men who are neurotypical. Seduction, frame, maintaining connection are all high order social skills which autism nukes. My honest advice would be to see hookers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameStrange. I enjoy those things and still also enjoy my life. I never feel I’m escaping the horror of my life when playing a game or watching a movie. It’s simply fun to be immersed in a story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:48 PM |
| 14 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameIs reading or watching movies “just escapism”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:34 PM |
| 18 | The market depicts your value, not youYou’re right. But When men do what you describe to women it’s labeled as ‘misogynistic’ or ‘objectification’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 11:31 AM |
| 4 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)It’s also exhausting dating women, as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:50 PM |
| 3 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)Try dating women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.If you’re buying a car to impress women, you can just skip several steps and get a hooker instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.As a man with a dirty Honda, i find this comment reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 11:31 AM |
| 16 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Women can do whatever they want. The women who operate like this will face intense competition. Also men observe women, just as women observe men. A woman doing as you describe could easily be labeled as “disloyal” by the men who she wishes to attract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?My standard for relationships is mutual benefit. If either person believes it’s no longer worth it, the relationship is over. Roles are largely irrelevant since I’ll never get married and don’t want children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:59 PM |
| – | The Politics of DatingYou’re wrong. TRP is about accepting reality as it is and providing the accurate prescription to get the results you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | For women, words are more important than actionsPeople have nothing else to judge you here, other than your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?Lmao. All men would feel like kings if this were the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)Prostitutes have always existed. The internet just transformed the landscape and made them more visible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 10:03 PM |
| – | Why aren’t men good problem solvers when it comes to relationships?The Red Pill specifically tells men how to improve these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:30 PM |
| 15 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?“If a man could fuck you in a cardboard box, he wouldn’t buy a house.” -Dave Chappelle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:55 PM |
| 2 | I think that marriage is risk.People who fear commitment are the ones who actually understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.Do you know what an analogy is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.Yes contentedness, the hallmark of every single mother 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.Do you require empirical evidence to know people who declare bankruptcy are generally less financially responsible than those who don’t file bankruptcy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.Yea I’ll fax my findings right over to you. Your homework assignment is top of my priority list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.Of course there are patterns which typify such a large demographic of women. Just like there are patterns which typify people who declare bankruptcy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.No amount of mental gymnastics will convince the majority of people that the typical single mother isn’t a low class moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 12:06 PM |
| 2 | We should get rid of dating apps“We” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 10:34 AM |
| 67 | Is it true that men who are more awkward introverted non-charismatic types are more likely to be creeps and only want sex?It’s the reverse halo effect. People ascribe positive moral attributes to people they’re attracted to, and negative moral attributes to uggos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 02:47 AM |
| 17 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableThen she’s a frivolous hoe. Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 05:35 PM |
| 14 | Why don't men want to date single moms?Cool story. The answer is massive upfront obligation which doesn’t exist with non single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 06:11 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyNot really. They are just irrelevant to morality generally. Take male sexuality for example- there’s nothing moral about clear skin, hourglass figure and nice tits and ass. But those things produce attraction in heterosexual males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 06:25 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flySexual attraction is amoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:58 AM |
| 102 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedIt’s weird this sub rediscovers everyday that people prefer people they’re sexually attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 08:12 AM |
| – | Is Jamie a “monster” or a product of a broken system that failed him?So is the new thing posting things while assuming people can read our thoughts, without any context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 12:19 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”RP101: Attraction is amoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 02:29 PM |
| 11 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"To be honest I don’t see a lot of women who are interested in giving a man what he wants. I see a lot of women who are interested in presenting themselves as if they give their man “the world”, for the approval of other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:09 PM |
| 50 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"100% agree. Men who are happily embracing the decline tend not to be the ones complaining on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableThen why is it women who disproportionately push for commitment and marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:05 PM |
| 20 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableThis is true but it cuts both ways. Men are foregoing commitment and marriage at higher rates because there is no longer any real social or religious enforcement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:31 PM |
| 2 | As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high?Then you’ll find out when you try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:31 PM |
| 2 | As a single woman in my early 30s, are my standards realistically too high?If you want but can’t get, your standards are too high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:19 PM |
| 14 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerThere is no “lack of willingness to date educated women with careers”. It’s simply irrelevant to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Marriage and kids benefit men more than womenSo women don’t want commitment anymore? Fine by me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 07:57 AM |
| – | How do men view sex?It is an end in itself. Fulfillment of a deep biological imperative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:01 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?It’s the prime reason the vast majority of men seek relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:18 PM |
| 11 | Why do red pillers continue to push the sperm is better than uteruses argument?This is one reason why men are viewed as disposable. It’s not a “male superiority” argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:08 PM |
| – | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Baby momma is a colloquial term referring to an unmarried, low class woman who has (usually multiple) kids, with (usually multiple) ‘baby daddies’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Are “baby mamas and the men who impregnate them” the only ones who have children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.You’re not even trying anymore. Obviously not what I said. And anyone who reads your post and my comment knows this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Baby mamas and the men who impregnate them are all garbage humans by default | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 01:11 PM |
| 36 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeLooooool why are you here on a subreddit dedicated to normal intersexual dynamics then? The more information you reveal, the less relevant the entire situation is to Red Pill/Blue Pill discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:57 PM |
| 29 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeYou weren’t supposed to do anything. The point is there was nothing Red Pill in what he did. There’s no point in “dread gaming” a girl in another city. He had misplaced focus. He should’ve been out getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:51 PM |
| 40 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeHow fortunate for him to ascend from the friend zone when you’re miles away. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:47 PM |
| 46 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeAs “friends” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:43 PM |
| 63 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeThere is no such thing as dread gaming a long distance oneitus. He was an idiot for having a long distance (fake) “relationship” in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | The female orgasm is a mythLoool where is this posted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 03:58 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Coffee dates to see if there's chemistry is a red flagsigh There’s no good trolls anymore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Scenario: sex is off the tableNo sex, no relationship. People who say they can have relationships without sex are aliens to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 08:18 PM |
| 9 | Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing?Because when they describe traits they want, they are listing things they wished men they are already attracted to possessed. They aren’t listing some pre-rational arousal checklist that makes their female lizard brains go brrrrr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 01:29 PM |
| – | Why the Red Pill is so obsessed with having kids?Shut up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 12 | Why the Red Pill is so obsessed with having kids?TRP is about getting laid. Anyone can claim to be “Red Pill” and then spew whatever word diarrhea they want to though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:17 PM |
| 15 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobSeems reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:25 PM |
| 0 | “Needs Vs Wants” (The Truth of the Matter)What an autistic take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:02 PM |
| 2 | “Needs Vs Wants” (The Truth of the Matter)Do you believe using language non-literally, is using it “incorrectly”? Everyone knows sex isn’t necessary for survival. The same way getting emotional needs met isn’t necessary for survival. But It is a need for most people in relationships in order for the relationship to continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:51 PM |
| 4 | “Needs Vs Wants” (The Truth of the Matter)People colloquially use the word “needs” all the time to describe items not strictly required for survival- emotional needs for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:39 PM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightWhere is the lie? Men want sex. Nothing in TRP disputes this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Are you woried about feminism?Disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 01:21 PM |
| 12 | Are you woried about feminism?I believe women already effectively have the same rights as men. And feminism is just one of many mobilizing victimhood ideologies sold to the public in a time of unparalleled freedom and security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 01:05 PM |
| 13 | CMV: It's ok to break up or divorce, even if nothing is going wrongreads bait post title clicks on post and see it’s Windmill closes post and keeps scrolling Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Would you volunteer dirt on your EX for money?lol no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:06 AM |
| 7 | Would you volunteer dirt on your EX for money?No. It would feel like a betrayal to the girls I dated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:45 PM |
| – | Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argumentWeird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 05:53 PM |
| – | Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argumentWhy would a 24-year-old virgin be interested in your dick when she’s never had sex in her entire life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argumentYea I agree with her assessment. A 24-year-old virgin woman is a sign of significant issues. She’s not likely to be normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argumentTRP doesn’t have an “obsession with virginity”. Non Western foreigners claiming to be Red Pill do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 03:50 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"People feel used when they give something but don’t get what they want in return. Outside of this subjective feeling, it’s just victimhood nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:26 AM |
| 0 | What does your ideal society look likeWhy wouldn’t people purchase insurance against catastrophic events? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What does your ideal society look likeOh yes, Afghanistan, a country famous for the freedom of its citizens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What does your ideal society look likeCurrent levels of “Provision” by the federal government are far in excess of original intent and unsustainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What does your ideal society look likeWhy wouldn’t free people make choices to prevent their own deaths? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 11:31 PM |
| 19 | Question about financially successful women.None of these things are bad, but the only real thing that matters is if I’m attracted to her. And that can’t be determined before actually meeting her in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 11:18 PM |
| -1 | What does your ideal society look likeYes the government should provide protections- for individual rights. As well as apply and enforce the rule of law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:22 PM |
| 0 | What does your ideal society look likeI believe people should be free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:18 PM |
| 0 | What does your ideal society look likeYes. Either eliminated, phased out, or dramatically scaled down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:11 PM |
| 2 | What does your ideal society look likeWhat’s MGM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:38 PM |
| 3 | What does your ideal society look likeI don’t believe free civilization can be fixed with top down dictatorial powers as the OP asks. Free civilizations have their own organic culture shifts. If I was emperor for a day, I would end the larger government entitlement programs, and legalize all drugs, prostitution, and gambling. And term limits for Congress. Those wins would be enough for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 04:35 PM |
| 13 | We need to bring back witches and sirens and other evil female archetypes to teach young menThe old stories and wisdom are available for anyone to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 12:26 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexistIt’s sexist to treat one sex differently than the other out of fear. loooooooool No You! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 0 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Being fit and loyalty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:31 AM |
| 64 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.They think it’s weird, because it’s weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 09:33 AM |
| 9 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.What world do you think you occupy? Do you believe the universe corrects every “wrong”? Do you believe every “abuser” is held to “account”? What I said in my previous comment is how the world is. The wise act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 8 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.There will always be humans willing to take advantage of other humans. Naivety is for children. Adults have to perceive threats before they manifest or suffer greatly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyWho cares? She’s fat. The why is up to her to solve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:52 PM |
| 9 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIt’s the same thing. Boring dudes don’t excite women. Fat women are gross and men don’t want to fuck them. You can’t negotiate attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:50 PM |
| 10 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeNo need to choose at all. Just enjoy the decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:41 PM |
| 12 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeMeh. It doesn’t affect me either way. It’s just one more piece of evidence of what I already believe- women are great for short term fun, but horrible candidates for lifelong commitment and marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:32 PM |
| 25 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeThe flippancy of discarding a marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:20 PM |
| 27 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI mean, I’m 100% down for this as a guy who never wants to marry or have kids. It’s more available women in the casual sex dating pool. But this attitude is exactly why men aren’t interested in marriage anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 11:17 AM |
| 24 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Oh stereotypes are allowed again?! Great. Men are stronger, more courageous, more rational, less neurotic, better at being funny (on purpose), more ambitious, less selfish with material resources they accumulate for their families, less materialistic, less vapid, less inane, more utilitarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:42 PM |
| – | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 11:09 PM |
| 29 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornThe idea of surrendering sovereignty to the woman I’m having sex with, seems such an obvious path to disaster. What other standards in her brain are going to come out as future mandates on my behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 03:43 PM |
| 57 | Why are you a red piller ?I’m not here for any “movement” or community. Based on what I observe, the descriptions laid out in TRP seem to be accurate to reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:45 AM |
| 5 | Would you be willing to g to forgo all casual sex if it meant dating went back to how it was before?Nah fam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 12:27 PM |
| 9 | If you’re waiting 3 dates (or a month) to fuck someone, you would have been better off having a hookup and fucking immediately.Don’t give her dick until after she buys you dessert. Know your worth Kings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 03:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageYes, I think it’s silly. It’s also an easily correctible “mistake”. if you don’t like the ring, go together to take it back and exchange it after the proposal. I think the whole thing is ridiculous honestly. An insane, expensive little mini game of life for no real utility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageWomen wear their engagement rings every day for the rest of their lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 04:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageAny woman upset over this would be an insane liability for the rest of the marriage. Any dude who marries them would deserve what he gets - a disappointed gold-digger with the option of ruining his life at anytime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Most men fall easily for women's tricks.“As a result of ‘love’, man is able to hide his cowardly self-deception behind a smokescreen of sentiment. He is able to make himself believe that his senseless enslavement to a woman and her hostages is more than an act of honor, it has a higher purpose.” -Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him.People get fat because they give up and let themselves go. Most people don’t want to fuck fatties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him.It’s normal to be repulsed by obesity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him.It shows he’s a normal, heterosexual male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:28 PM |
| 42 | Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him.Or as a grown adult, your health and fitness could be your own responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:28 PM |
| 14 | RP says men should have their shit together before they get married which I totally agree with. But shouldn’t women also have their shit together before marriage?TRP is for men and is anti-marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?The quality of their love isn’t worth the price | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 08:10 AM |
| 19 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?I like women around my age (mid-30’s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Males should stop dropping out of the dating marketNo one contests men being fathers, providers and protectors for their families is good for civilization. Men in the current cultural landscape are organically choosing not to occupy these roles because they no longer see it as worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 03:12 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Males should stop dropping out of the dating marketYou seem to be under the impression that my argument is trying to persuade men to come back to the dating market. Because this is what’s required for your OP to come about. My argument is only to point out that males coming back to the city market would be good for society. Nothing more This is uncontested. It also would be “good for society” if no one became obese, or used drugs, or committed adultery. In free civilizations, people are free to make choices for their own reasons and for their ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:53 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Males should stop dropping out of the dating marketIn order to achieve your OP’s aim, it requires men organically return to and invest in dating. Ignoring what they want makes no sense for your “argument”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 23 | CMV: Males should stop dropping out of the dating marketThere’s nothing in this post attempting to appeal to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 01:06 AM |
| 50 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesSome people value honesty over sensitivity. Some people value sensitivity over honesty. But the internet just wants to watch the world burn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:23 PM |
| 23 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?That is not “negotiating attraction”. That’s becoming more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:43 PM |
| 56 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?The idea attraction can’t be negotiated is axiomatic in TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Do mind games work “better” than straightforward communication?If there were no advantage to manipulation (mind games), humans wouldn’t use it. It comes at price though. People don’t like being manipulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:22 AM |
| 9 | "He's just not that into you" is one of the WORST books/movies for dating adviceThe idea is to not do what Average Girl does by becoming prematurely invested- Which naturally follows from the title “He’s just not that into you” (so move on) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?That’s nice for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 11:25 AM |
| 17 | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?That’s because you’re a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:28 AM |
| 28 | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?Men prefer pussy. Political affiliation is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Women would become less picky if men increased their parental investmentIn other words: Alpha fux / Beta bux | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too low🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowOP’s premise was women need to raise their standards due to a surplus of quality women over men. The female obesity and fat rate alone proves this is not the case at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowI don’t care about that. That’s an incel talking point and irrelevant to the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowWho cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowThey don’t care that fat, entitled women want commitment before sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowWho cares? Most women are fat anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowI don’t fuck or date men. Why would I care about them? The vast majority of women are fat or obese, therefore not quality. There is no surplus of “quality women” as the OP suggests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowThey haven’t stopped trying for sex. They’ve stopped putting in as much effort as the past for courtship, commitment, and marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:48 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too lowNo. fat or obese not just obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:41 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too low“Fat or obese” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:38 PM |
| 25 | CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too low75% of women are fat or obese. This surplus of “quality women” doesn’t exist. Men have stopped trying because women are no longer worth the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:33 PM |
| 3 | I think a lot of the red pill frustration comes from women's more narrow sexual preferencesThanks for contributing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | I think a lot of the red pill frustration comes from women's more narrow sexual preferencesNot really a very lucrative “grift”. Being a millionaire isn’t much of an extraordinary accomplishment for 40-50 year-olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:55 PM |
| 5 | I think a lot of the red pill frustration comes from women's more narrow sexual preferencesSilly. I’ve never spent one cent on any of these things. It seems likely most other RP men haven’t either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I think a lot of the red pill frustration comes from women's more narrow sexual preferencesDo you honestly believe the vast majority of RP men spend money on any of these things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 02:46 PM |
| -3 | I think a lot of the red pill frustration comes from women's more narrow sexual preferencesLmao what “products”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Red-pill types ought to stop eulogising male psychopathyTRP is for getting sex. The vast majority of men want sex. It is the female imperative which wants commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Red-pill types ought to stop eulogising male psychopathyMasculinity and dominance behavior can certainly appear psychopathic, and yes gets men laid all the time. Men want sex, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.Lmao so your advice is to not spin plates, but instead uproot one’s life and move to another country all in the pursuit of monogamous marriage with a woman using you as a betabux?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Red-pill types ought to stop eulogising male psychopathyHow many “quiet shy nerds” are married now? I said “getting laid” not married. How many “dominant bullies” are whining online about being incels? Lmao. FAR fewer than the amount of quiet, shy nerds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Red-pill types ought to stop eulogising male psychopathyIs that why bullies and dominant men live lives of inceldom, while quiet, shy nerds are drowning in pussy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Red-pill types ought to stop eulogising male psychopathyPeople should stop moralizing when we’re talking about what gets men laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:15 PM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Only ideologically possessed sore losers are writing things like this. Normie men and normie women are going to do what they’ve always done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:57 AM |
| 8 | Monkey branching is fine.Believing this is also believing commitment is meaningless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:01 AM |
| 10 | Women having high standards will have positive effect on men.A dancing monkey loves his treats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:05 PM |
| 17 | Women having high standards will have positive effect on men.Spoken like a good slave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:58 PM |
| 27 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?Then why do women disproportionately push for commitment and marriage, rather than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 12:08 AM |
| 47 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?It’s male nature. If one looks at the behavior of male homosexuals, one can get a better idea of what the male imperative is, without having to compromise with the female imperative. Generally speaking- It’s a lot of sex with a lot of partners with little commitment. You actually have it reversed in your post. Men need social incentives and influences to commit and build families. Men’s default is to seek sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 09:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastAre you mentally ill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 08:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastThe end goal is sex. Sex with lower overall price is better than sex which costs more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastSex with no commitment burden is better than sex with commitment burden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:40 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastMarriage is paying the highest price for sex. And forsaking any other options for sex. It’s so strange to me that people act like women desiring commitment and men being skeptical of commitment is some alien phenomenon they’ve never heard of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastDuh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:10 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastNo. It’s just male nature to want and pursue sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastSex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Nice guys don't finish lastIt is male nature. It has always been male nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 06:15 PM |
| 18 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.Beggars can’t be choosers. A Big Mac isn’t a substitute for a Filet Mignon, but it will keep you alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:17 PM |
| 2 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedHow does it feel to be levitating above everyone else on the ethereal plane? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 01:53 PM |
| 27 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedThe idea people would ever be motivated to marry for “muh society” is beyond delusional. People marry because they believe it’s in their interest to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 01:48 PM |
| 6 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedDo you only talk to men when they try to fuck you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:39 PM |
| 9 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedI’ve never heard men say this ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:27 PM |
| 15 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedI only remember terms like “sapiosexual” or “Demisexual” being used by women on Reddit or tumblr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:24 PM |
| 20 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedMakes sense honestly. Dumb people want to be taken care of. Smart people like freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:08 PM |
| 17 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get MarriedLmao what guys ever claim to be sapiosexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:07 PM |
| 37 | CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriageWhy would men care about any of this? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 05:58 PM |
| 3 | How about some slightly less depressing, how should a guy healthily meet someone in 2024?Why wouldn’t a guy just fuck hookers rather than move to another country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Men intentions on getting sex is universally diverted into relationship rhetoricThis is what the old r/TRP sub was for. But any space where dudes talk about what they really want and talk shit about girls is haram now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 01:19 PM |
| – | Many redpill men are incapable of a lifelong healthy monogamous sexual relationship.Glad it worked out for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 12:56 AM |
| – | Many redpill men are incapable of a lifelong healthy monogamous sexual relationship.It’s not just Red Pill men who prefer younger women over older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Denying sex in a marriage should be considered cheating.It’s another form of unacceptable behavior in a marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 02:10 PM |
| – | Q4A: at what point does paying become prostitution?It’s all prostitution. The only variable is what currency is exchanged for sex (time, money, emotional investment, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?I wouldn’t say “bigoted”. Women have more in-group preference relative to men. Mainly because men tend to regard other men as competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:55 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Oh, then give up then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:01 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?The solution is men actually doing what TRP prescribes - lifting, taking care of themselves, developing socially, taking their work/money seriously, and not throwing their freedom and power away for the first girl who gives them a blowjob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:35 PM |
| – | Body count always has and always will matterIt doesn’t matter to me at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:48 AM |
| 3 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceIn my experience, most of those women are just crafting a self-serving victimhood narrative which isn’t reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceThat’s your experience. You just got fucked over. What I’m saying is what I observe is the overwhelming majority of women who claim such victimhood ignored obvious evidence of his cheating/lying/violent character because they were attracted to him. Most people are not capable of hiding massive character flaws like these over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceOkay, let me share my experience. I’ve observed countless women choose felons, obvious liars, social bullies- as long as these men were able to produce feelings of attraction in them. These women almost always claimed victimhood after the inevitable disaster (or series of disasters) occurred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:35 PM |
| 2 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Who is having a “hard time” accepting this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:13 PM |
| 11 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceUsername checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceA reality TV show obviously proves nothing. The idea women pick men who are amazing with no red flags initially- but these men transform into violent/neglectful/avoidant beasts over time- is delusional. Anyone with any real life experience knows this. Women pick these bad men because they are attracted to them. Attraction is brain poison. It’s brain poison for men as well btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:09 PM |
| 12 | Red Pill Men, Do You Realize You’re Creating a Larger Pool of Non-Toxic Women for Us?You’re welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 04:49 PM |
| – | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresShut up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 02:47 PM |
| – | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresYup. Male sexual desire isn’t approved of socially. The solution is to not care about social approval and do what’s best for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the women of the Americans would be happier today if the Americans was never colonized by European settlers?They would be dying of preventable diseases and poverty- same as the men in those societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:29 AM |
| 5 | MEN who don't want kids- Why?Freedom. Life is simpler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:22 AM |
| – | Andrew Tate is literally a pimp, why is he slutshaming women?Do you believe pimps control women with their ironclad, rational arguments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4RPMen: Would you be in a LTR with a very good looking virgin woman who isn’t sexually attracted to you?Lmao no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:00 PM |
| – | Why do women often prefer dad bods over six-packs?They don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:33 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsEconomic incentives have been shown to not meaningfully increase birth rates. free people in free civilizations will never have children on par with those born under religious control or slaves born in poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:26 PM |
| 11 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingLmao. I’ll take “Things no one believes for $800, Alex”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 01:53 PM |
| 10 | Have you noticed couples who have their social media profile picture as dyadic (both individuals in their pfp) almost always are happy and in love.This is just extroverted normie shit. They have the same failure rates as the rest of us imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Would you date someone who is bisexual?My longest relationship was with a bisexual girl. It’s a nonissue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Is there a reason some men don’t ask questions on a date?Right. because they want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Is there a reason some men don’t ask questions on a date?Because they don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 01:42 PM |
| – | "Women like all types of men" apparently the majority of women tend to be attracted to the same type of manPeople who don’t lift are pathetic. Might as well just admit they’re okay being a blob of nothingness and give up and die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 10:42 AM |
| – | Women have always found most men unattractive they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men.Welcome to the Red Pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 11:32 AM |
| 7 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?Don’t get fat and add value in ways other than looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 01:40 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cThe solution is to forego marriage, enjoy the whores, and enjoy the decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 10:19 AM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Why would anyone care about someone being a mother to children who aren’t related to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:52 PM |
| 17 | Do you think the world would be better for women with no men in it?Civilization would collapse within a generation with no men. It would also collapse within a generation with no women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 12:06 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Why should money not be a woman's primary concern, if the man in question is like twice-thrice her age, is not the silver fox type handsome old man,ageing like fine wine, and is a cranky, sanctimonious, delusional old boy, who can't see he's past his prime?Older men should expect it. She’s still a whore for gold-digging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't complicated or mysterious, they're fickle, impulsive and poor communicatorsWhy not be gay OP? Is he stupid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.The collective is outside of one’s control. You, individually, are within control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:47 AM |
| 3 | To improve society, we must focus on helping both genders instead of hating one.Good luck with that. Maybe you should become a missionary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | To improve society, we must focus on helping both genders instead of hating one.Lmao “we” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How does one deal with rejection, negativity, lack of desirability, and female affection?Get good at giving head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 8 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usWomen hate the inside the locker room, misogynistic tone of the Red Pill more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Is Chad generally blue pilled?They are red pilled. They spend a lot of time with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Is Chad generally blue pilled?What does that have to do with being blue or red pilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:18 AM |
| 86 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeBecause marriage is a binding agreement with potential severe legal consequences, compared to an LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:33 PM |
| 7 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?He has the cause and effect reversed. Men who are doing terribly in life are selected against by women for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | On the dating book for women "Why men love bitches"It’s oversimplified but mostly correct in how men view commitment and what they want (lover not a mother for example). It seems decent guidance for someone with tendencies you’ve described about yourself (autistic, neurotic, mothering, openly pressuring about commitment early). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 0 | On the dating book for women "Why men love bitches"Honestly following the book’s direction would likely yield better results for you, based on what you’ve written and what you claim to want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?So? Who gives a shit? Fat people are gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?It’s the fatties who are angry at being called fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Lmao a command to a stranger on the internet and a victim complex in one short comment. Yea, life is so tough because meanies on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Welcome to the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I didn’t “excuse smoking”. I said I’d rather date a smoker than a fatty. Both aren’t ideal, but being fat is an automatic disqualification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Okay? It’s still disgusting and unhealthy to be fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 7 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.You can also ignore online content which offends you and not seek it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:26 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?They aren’t mutually exclusive. Being fat isn’t healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 12:06 PM |
| 46 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Smoker 100%. No fatties allowed on the field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:11 AM |
| 41 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.It’s the easiest standard in the world to understand. Massive additional burden for the man makes single moms less desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:03 AM |
| 1 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Men and women love differently, and parent differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Men and women are different. They have different strengths and weaknesses when it comes to parenting. Constant caregiving and attention to temporary emotional states will coddle a child and make them weak adults. And weak adults live miserable lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.The role of father generally is to act as a proxy for the expectations of the outside world for the child. As the child grows in ability; expectations, responsibility, and enforcement are applied by him in order to shape the child into a functional, independent adult. The father provides a transition state from the security and love of the family to the harsh competition and apathy of the eventual adult world. The difference between the world and the father, is he loves his child and is on their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:33 PM |
| 6 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.To infants and toddlers, yes. Everyone has always understood this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:43 PM |
| 13 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.It’s almost like men and women naturally take on different roles within a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:37 PM |
| – | Double Standards of WomenMen are presumed to have more agency than women in virtually all domains, except child-rearing and getting pregnant. This leads to men disproportionately accepting responsibility but receiving excess credit when things go well, whereas women are blamed less but are ignored or passed over for credit more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Self Control and a Challenge is AttractiveThis was a long walk for no real point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 11:27 AM |
| 8 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?Not really no. I don’t care about them at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:14 PM |
| 27 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?Single moms are the female equivalent of male losers. Nobody cares that much, but they are viewed as an acceptable outlet for scorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.In what world is late twenties not young? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 11:29 AM |
| 5 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.So you don’t think people consider more than one factor when considering a marriage partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 11 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Lmao. Nonsensical response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:57 PM |
| 11 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Except people tend to date and partner up when young. Almost everyone is potential at that point in life. The practical endpoint of your advice would lead to younger women dating older, established men- which women also hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Why do you assume that all trans men feel miserable solely for being men?No one cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever known of a man who is cute, and personable yet was a #totalfail at casual sex or hookup culture?The shortage of sexually available young women directly affects the success of men in hookup culture. Most men are “failures” with hookup culture due to this reality, if we define it as the OP describes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever known of a man who is cute, and personable yet was a #totalfail at casual sex or hookup culture?There’s always been a shortage of beautiful, young women who were/are into hooking up relative to the amount of men who want them. Struggle is the male normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality?No. Obesity is disgusting to me. It’s an automatic disqualification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's good advice to never settleI mean, people can do whatever they want. What do I think about her? She’s just another entitled, mid-level hole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:49 PM |
| 86 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.It would solve no issues for women, so why would they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:46 PM |
| 39 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing a woman when he meets her, on equal terms, and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens.This is a perfect example of why men should never take dating advice from women. Rescuing cats is cool. It won’t get you laid. Women saying otherwise are imagining men they already would fuck or date rescuing cats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.This is what everyone calls “simping”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 08:29 AM |
| 48 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?Men aren’t women. Their idea of a “happy life” is different from women’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 09:45 PM |
| 62 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?Because men don’t want to do that 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 09:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV: affluent bachelors who refuse to marry are selfish cowardsYou know what? You’ve convinced me. Wifing up the next girl i see to avoid being “cowardly”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 04:23 PM |
| – | Two trash people (M&F) have conflict at coffee drive through, only man is blamed.Two things can be true simultaneously- 1) The guy was an ass and deserved what he got. 2) it was irresponsible and unnecessary escalation by her (and possibly criminal?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Red pill want to be upsetHave you read any of the original sidebar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Red pill want to be upsetExcept TRP doesn’t argue men are victims. It argues Blue Pill nonsense is bullshit and to get what you want, you have to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:40 AM |
| 0 | How would the world look if women ruled it?Women running things since prehistory? -grass huts and universal poverty Women given the keys to power in existing civilization? -same as current world as they would be under the same pressures as existing men of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:42 PM |
| – | Q4men who believe in the 80/20 rule: What's unfair about casual sex only being available for the top 20% of menFairness is irrelevant. It simply is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 05:52 PM |
| -1 | It isn’t victim blaming to suggest that certain behaviors increase the likelihood of sexual assault and encourage women to avoid these behaviors for their own protection.Are all men responsible for the actions of a small subset of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 04:16 PM |
| -1 | It isn’t victim blaming to suggest that certain behaviors increase the likelihood of sexual assault and encourage women to avoid these behaviors for their own protection.Because of violent men, which are a small percentage of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:58 PM |
| 0 | It isn’t victim blaming to suggest that certain behaviors increase the likelihood of sexual assault and encourage women to avoid these behaviors for their own protection.No. Women do not need to take these precautions because of men. They need to take these precautions because an incredibly small proportion of psychopathic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | It isn’t victim blaming to suggest that certain behaviors increase the likelihood of sexual assault and encourage women to avoid these behaviors for their own protection.Is it victim blaming to suggest leaving your doors unlocked increases the likelihood of being robbed and to encourage people to lock their doors to prevent robbery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:48 PM |
| 13 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededNo. The preference against single mothers is organic. It’s not some brute forced implanted idea by TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:00 AM |
| 33 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededThe vast majority of men don’t prefer single mothers. Everyone understands this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Would you prefer a society governed by Islamic law and norms over the status quo?Lmao no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Most men are not friends with their girlfriends/wivesThis has never been the case with me. All my relationships were friends before they became girlfriends. Once the relationship begins, however, relationship obligations exist to her which don’t exist with friendships. Such is the origin of the “ball and chain” term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider the current dating model to be sustainable? (includes religious tangent)Humans have survived far worse than the current dating dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:27 PM |
| 38 | What's wrong with women making rules for some and breaking it for others? It's just common senseThere’s nothing “wrong” with it. Men who become aware of women’s dual mating strategy can make their own, more informed strategy when dealing with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 02:38 PM |
| 42 | If women were forced to marry beta males in the past, then why do they grieve for them today?Men never had it easier. It was more difficult for men to get taken to the cleaners in divorce because divorce was incredibly more difficult/impossible in the past. The reason these women appear to be mourning their husbands is because they are mourning their husbands. This doesn’t have much to do with young adult intersexual dynamics. It has to do with loss of a lifelong companion with whom one has spent decades of life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever encountered a woman who shattered your worldview?You have Oneitus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:36 AM |
| – | Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS.Some people can deal with reality. Some people get offended when people describe reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 08:57 PM |
| – | Men who committed a high body count women, how do you not feel like a loser?Per your definition, virginal or near-virginal women. You probably should dump her and go jerk off to Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:09 AM |
| – | Men who committed a high body count women, how do you not feel like a loser?In modern civilization, where is the supply of virginal women waiting for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:04 AM |
| – | Big problem: women’s delusional standards are now a flex.It costs nothing to be delusional online. There’s no reason to take it seriously. Either these women are voluntarily taking themselves out of the dating game, in which case they are irrelevant. Or they are dating and follow the standard dynamics, regardless of whatever they post online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:30 PM |
| 6 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?I can see why your boyfriend wants to kill himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 9 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?Standard dumb hole protocol has been activated, I see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 05:03 PM |
| 14 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?Good to see the social shame enforcement force has arrived right on time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 04:00 PM |
| 37 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?Young women tend to be more beautiful and fun relative to old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 03:12 PM |
| 6 | People that play games, why? Be honest.They weren’t your girls, it was just your turn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 09:45 AM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?There’s no point in marrying either of these | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 04:41 PM |
| – | Why do men push for 50/50 relationship when women find most men unattractive?You believe most coupled women are with men they aren’t attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:05 AM |
| – | Why do men push for 50/50 relationship when women find most men unattractive?Most coupled women aren’t in relationships with men they aren’t attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 08:23 AM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADIt’s the one you’re commenting in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 12:59 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADYou’re on a debate sub about gender relations and you’re surprised to find complaints from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 12:53 PM |
| 15 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedCensorship and criticism are quite different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:16 AM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallFemale solipsism. Being old surrounded by loved ones = ideal female endgame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:14 PM |
| – | Why are men much more attracted to me now that I'm a passing male(FTM) with androgynous style ?Wtf is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 09:02 AM |
| 4 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 08:22 AM |
| -3 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Probably because they’re doing what men like to do - fucking hoes, whether they’re “pick me’s” or independent wymenz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:19 AM |
| 4 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.How come RP men are not dating an influencer they’ve never heard of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:14 AM |
| 20 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.This is female projection at its finest. Men don’t like to “tame the beast”. We actually like what we say we like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Men who are decidedly not attracted to overweight women, how do you feel about women of healthy weight but large frames?Death by Snu Snu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Question about buying attractionSo? What else are uggos supposed to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:27 AM |
| 9 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)You also don’t have to indulge everyone who claims to be a victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:55 PM |
| -1 | How Much of Guys Being Sex Obsessed is Socially Constructed?Oh look, another naive dummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:54 PM |
| 5 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Don’t really care. Obviously disagreement isn’t censorship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 0 | How Much of Guys Being Sex Obsessed is Socially Constructed?Well history says it is 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:50 PM |
| 0 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:47 PM |
| 38 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Lmao imagine thinking counter-criticism is “not allowing”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:04 PM |
| -1 | How Much of Guys Being Sex Obsessed is Socially Constructed?Very little. Men in a state of nature are violent, illiterate, antisocial rapers and pillagers. Civilization socializes and shapes men to be what it considers to be acceptable morally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:00 PM |
| – | Why should I date a much older man vs a man closer to my age?There is no “should”. Do what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 10:49 AM |
| 5 | Question about buying attractionYou’re describing the textbook Beta Bux trap. TRP emphatically warns men about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 10:46 AM |
| 8 | Men, why won't you commit?There’s no reason to let someone have power over you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:23 AM |
| – | What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with?Where are these virginal or near-virginal women who will suddenly sexually awaken just for special old you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 08:30 AM |
| – | What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with?1) men avoiding high body count women is insane and just shooting themselves in the foot. 2) sometimes if someone flakes, it has nothing to do with you. There is no perfect combination of words or game or anything which would’ve changed things. Some people are just flaky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 06:30 PM |
| 5 | How would legal prostitution change society in America?While illegal in the US, very few people (providers or Johns) actually face legal consequences when engaging in prostitution. Making it legal wouldn’t likely change much, except some providers would start paying taxes- as the top comment says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManNot really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManMany people experience rage and contempt, and are occasionally sarcastic in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 05:25 PM |
| – | (As a female) I believe sports, both physical and mental (like chess), should be separated by ability and physical condition. Gender segregation is pointless and actually contributes to inequality.This is Wholesale ignorance of biological reality and would annihilate women’s leagues. Spaces are artificially carved out to allow females to play sports protected from male competition. If it was simply “best players compete”, there would be no females in any competitive sports. Elite male athletes are hilariously stronger, faster, more agile, taller, more skilled, etc than elite female athletes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManCategories are fun when they are so broad, they encompass all humans at some point and time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 04:16 PM |
| 14 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyThe juice isn’t worth the squeeze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:36 PM |
| – | I think that "slayers" or men who sleep around are low value because it means they never got validation in childhood and probably have fried dopamine receptors.Cool standard bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:54 PM |
| – | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?I know enough that they are annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:19 PM |
| 26 | Reasons why the Red Pill want a war so badly?Lmao who wants a war? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:14 PM |
| – | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?The items you listed aren’t what people are talking about when they say “women need to hold themselves more accountable”. Some actual things people mean by this are- women choosing to become single mothers and then being surprised by the burdens and risks which tend to accompany that choice. knowingly choosing violent or bad men and then playing victim when things go predictably horrible. Playing victim generally when basic adult prediction and decision-making would’ve prevented the problem in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:24 PM |
| 11 | For better or worse!?Marriage rates would collapse. Children living in poverty would rise. Women would treat out of wedlock pregnancy as a severe life failure mode, and avoid premarital sex. “Fun” dating and sex would disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Dating inequality cannot be fixedThe world doesn’t have to do anything. People will do what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?Why would I involve myself in my fully adult daughter’s dating life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:52 AM |
| 1 | AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLosers always want winners to be taken down a peg or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:43 AM |
| 29 | Is it fair to say something about a woman existing as a self-sufficient relatively accomplished adult turns off many men even if she's a kind beautiful woman?Send all the low maintenance, self-sufficient hotties over here. Sounds like the dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 10 | Do you think the red pill community destroyed the concepts of "alpha males"?“The Red Pill community” was ruined by the influx of mentally ill incels, irrelevant non-Western chatter, and censorship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 09:26 PM |
| 32 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"Delusional woman 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:02 PM |
| 19 | Women and Men have completely different ideas about sexYour boyfriend and yourself have completely different ideas about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive?I don’t care about her promiscuous past. I care about whether or not she is likely to be loyal to me in our relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:15 PM |
| 27 | "redpilled" and NOT misogynistic?Argument avoidance usually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:53 PM |
| 28 | "redpilled" and NOT misogynistic?what constitutes “hating women” isn’t objective. For some, making any generalization about women’s behavior = misogyny and “hating women”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:11 PM |
| 25 | "redpilled" and NOT misogynistic?The word “misogyny” is a moving target which can mean a thousand different things to a thousand different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Which one would you choose?I want the girl who likes sex and who I’m attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Would you trade your inherent male strength in order to be considered as non-threatening as a woman?Wtf? Of course not. What a ridiculous question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:17 PM |
| 8 | 4b movement isn’t so badIt’ll never happen since the overwhelming majority of men and women will just do what they have always done. No one cares about any obscure “movement” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:35 PM |
| 3 | 4b movement isn’t so badWho cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:33 PM |
| 3 | 4b movement isn’t so badTry it and see what changes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:20 PM |
| 8 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.Aren’t the dudes who do these horrible things in prison or dead? Seems like a good system of accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:15 PM |
| – | "Everybody dies alone" No shit, but a lot of men are spending their prime years aloneHookers exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:21 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?Whatever he did to get lots of sex from women in the first place wasn’t “irrelevant to women”. And I already said sex is what men are after, not leveraging sex to get status- as the OP seemed to suggest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 02:04 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?It’s self-evident women “like him” per the male system of value because he’s fucked a lot of women. He gets sex = women like him, from the male POV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:36 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?You have it backwards. Men use status to get sex. Sex is an end in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?That's so different from men. Men either refuse to lick pussy or only do it out of obligation. I think a lot of men view the act as disgusting. Lmao no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:01 AM |
| 42 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Interesting. The bisexual girls in my social group and in my past always complained a lot more about dating girls than guys. They tended to have beliefs which were fairly close to RP males except with more feminine, softer language. Your experience seems to be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:18 PM |
| – | How should a man address the issue of his SO gaining weight?The only thing to do is decide if it’s a dealbreaker or not for you, as the man. People don’t often change their habits or ethic. If she got fat, she’s likely to stay fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Are men to blame for picking on young girls or is it the other way around?Either women are adults, or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seetheAre you mentally ill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seethe“Accountability” implies morality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:35 AM |
| 7 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Women bring more to the table for other women. Social companionship isn’t the prime factor men select for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 01:15 AM |
| 8 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seetheThe point is quite clear, I think. Unlike your verbal diarrhea of a post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 07:31 PM |
| 10 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seetheSexual strategy is amoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | These women who cry on social media about being single and childless at 30 would not make good mothers anyways, and we shouldn't careNo one does care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 02:57 PM |
| 4 | How do red pillers raise their sons and daughters?Red Pill is anti marriage. It is a sexual strategy for men. It is neither a religion nor an all-encompassing life philosophy for all situations men may face in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:25 AM |
| – | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIt’s 100% false in my reality. I don’t want some weird, sex-disgusted “pure” virgin. I want a cock-gobbling monster who likes Mystery Science Theater 3000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Did any men here try imitating "asshole" behaviors (aloofness, overconfidence etc.) and saw more success with women?It’s not necessary to be cruel. But when it comes down to it, it’s better to be cruel than weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Women being immediately drawn to men they see with other women is less about preselection and more about herd mentality/competitiveness.Same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:22 AM |
| -1 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?Then stop replying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 0 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?It’s an irrelevant population. So yes. Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 06:30 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution won’t work (change my mind)Prostitution has been present for most of human civilization. Even in countries where it’s illegal, in effect it’s accessible with minimal risk if one isn’t an idiot. Men who can’t get sex through socially approved means, have always visited prostitutes. Even a lot of men who can get sex, also visit prostitutes. There is no societal revolution coming if women were allowed to sell sex. Women are already practically allowed to, and we have what we have now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Whats the point of monogamy and emotional attachment?The point of desire and attachment is Continuation of the species. Monogamy is a social technology which facilitates continuation of civilization. What does it mean to you? Only you can know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerJust standard delusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:19 AM |
| 9 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?That’s the life of a dependent child. Not a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?There is no “solution”. There is only individual adaptation. For men, the best bet is TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerBecause it would obviously be terrible for the kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey walk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:11 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Men don’t want flowers. Women don’t love men the way men love women. Because men and women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Many men think cheating is alpha and high value. Many men justify cheating with these beliefs.Fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 10:54 PM |
| – | Society would begin to have a different view about gender and gender roles if genetic engineering created an intersex man capable of getting pregnant and delivering babiesLmao what even is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Many men think cheating is alpha and high value. Many men justify cheating with these beliefs.The women who sleep with him judge him as “high value” by sleeping with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Many men think cheating is alpha and high value. Many men justify cheating with these beliefs.Sexual attraction is amoral. The ability to have sex with multiple women is “alpha”. This is completely separate from moral consideration. The vast majority of people still view cheating as deplorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?It was a comparison between two relative options. I was saying option B is easier than option A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?My comment was in response to the OP’s position of becoming a passport bro and traveling for sex. This seems like way more effort than just paying for sex in the US as an option. Then you commented a nonsensical analogy about homeless people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Lmao. What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 03:18 PM |
| – | Seeing the shitshow that is modern dating makes me even more thankful to have a loving partnerI remember my first girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:26 PM |
| – | Cheating when you have a dead bedroom isn't justified but it is understandable.Duh. a significant percentage of people in dead bedroom marriages do exactly this. They obviously just don’t talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Pretty terrible analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:19 AM |
| 34 | Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions?A lot of people on Reddit generally have both diagnosed and undiagnosed neuro issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:51 PM |
| – | you can be bigger and still be healthy for both men & women.Someone pissed the fatty off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | How would the artificial wombs affect the dating market?I mean. It’s the first time I read about it and I agree 100%. The guy is a fucking idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Short term fentanyl Phil might be doing okay. Long term, not so great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?“Always” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:12 PM |
| 13 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Neither is heroin, but people still partake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:04 PM |
| 18 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Seems like unnecessary added steps. The US has hookers too and they speak English. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How would the artificial wombs affect the dating market?No. What she is saying is “dads are not mothers”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Is dating a "free market"?In the US and other Western countries, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.“If a man was a woman, he wouldn’t be jealous of successful men.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Has ''Bluepill'' ideology ever really been the dominant narrative?Blue Pill is the bullshit baby talk people say to appear morally virtuous. Red Pill is what people see with their eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How would the artificial wombs affect the dating market?They wouldn’t. Dudes only want a family if they get a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?Those are situations which have arisen organically. There’s nothing to do but to adapt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Powerful Men also enslaved the majority of other men throughout history as well. Men will never categorize and mobilize themselves as “team man” in order to conquer “team woman” en masse. Women have equal rights and enfranchisement. It will never reverse in the current iteration of civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:05 AM |
| 18 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesNo man should listen to women about getting what they want from women. They should follow the advice of successful men who already are getting what they want from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you think women are more likely to choose remaining single over lowering their standards than men are when they are struggling to find a partner? Why or why not?A woman nailed this in another thread. Men will stay in shit relationships as long as they get sex. Women will not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:07 AM |
| 2 | She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex.I’m not talking about the “majority of relational interactions”. I asked if you believe people occasionally do things they aren’t interested in, in order to maintain a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex.Do you believe people never do things they aren’t interested in or feel like in order to maintain a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:02 PM |
| 2 | She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex.“Nah I wasn’t avoiding talking to you, I just wasn’t interested in communicating with you at all.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 09:58 PM |
| – | Is the default world view blue pill or purple pill?People profess Blue Pill beliefs while actually behaving in Red Pill ways. Who knows what they tell themselves internally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Why do some smart men like to be dominated?He’s weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | What would it take to change your mind?If reserved, respectful do-gooders were swimming in pussy, while high school quarterbacks nationwide couldn’t get matches on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:42 AM |
| 1 | People become blue pill from fiction entertainment, but would those stories be as entertaining if they were red pill?People go to the movies to participate in fantasy where they are free of pain, sickness, death, and other real world consequences. The Red Pill is a model of the real world human behavior. It does the opposite of fantasy construction. It tells you pain and consequences are real, and must be accounted for if one is to live a good life. Less entertaining, more useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Redflags that someone will be abusive?The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. Criminal records are publicly available online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:28 AM |
| 7 | Should effort be equal during the dating phase?If a “relationship” can be killed by a failed brunch attempt, it not only deserves to die. It needs to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:14 PM |
| – | The narrative that women can have sex whenever they want is wrong and detrimental to women's mental healthI have no idea what you’re arguing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairThis is TRP 101 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:48 PM |
| – | The narrative that women can have sex whenever they want is wrong and detrimental to women's mental healthThey can do whatever they like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:12 PM |
| – | The narrative that women can have sex whenever they want is wrong and detrimental to women's mental healthRP doesn’t want girls with low body counts. Weird foreign dudes and tradcons want those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:12 PM |
| – | The narrative that women can have sex whenever they want is wrong and detrimental to women's mental healthIt’s true women risk more and have to deal with greater uncertainty about men they choose. But the reality is, it’s trivially easy for most women to get sex if they want it. It may not be risk-free and the sex may not be good though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:07 PM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?I’d think she didn’t want to have sex. Then move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Should extramarital affairs be destigmatised?Why does everything have to be a movement now? If people want to be pieces of garbage, they are free to do so. Everyone else is free to judge them accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:59 PM |
| – | Independence: Why the Obsession With it?There is no worse feeling than being powerless. Independence protects against this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 08:57 AM |
| – | Media is not brainwashing young people with blue pilled ideas.Media is not in the business of making men or women unsuccessful and bitter. It's in the business of... well earning money. They will make movies/series that sell. Art produces fantasy people want to believe in. This is how it makes money. The masses demand and consume Blue Pill fantasies like crackheads in our current culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you ever want to feel sexy just for yourself?Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What is the logic behind dating knowingly bad men?there is no “logic”. Female attraction go buurrrr for dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you ever want to feel sexy just for yourself?Lmao no. What you’re describing is female sexuality behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:18 PM |
| 12 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?The fertility rate will never again rise back to well above replacement rates. No minor economic incentives the government offer would make a difference. Free people choose to have fewer or no kids in free civilizations. Civilization will have to adjust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.I mean yea. Casual sex happens where other extraverted fun happens, usually with booze and drugs as well. There is no untapped reservoir of sober living virgin women waiting in line to jump on dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 09:36 AM |
| 1 | 4B movement and Ni Una MenosLmao no one cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Yea that’s reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Ask people complaining about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:39 PM |
| – | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?I guess someone’s gotta language rape these fools to keep them in line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:32 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Red Pill is generally anti-marriage. No one but incel basement-dwellers and tradcons actually care about marriage declining. Women who espouse the belief you presented still choose to push for commitment and marriage from men, far more than men do from women. Even armed with this supposed “knowledge”. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:15 AM |
| – | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Imagine believing yourself to be the hall monitor of language on an online forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:01 AM |
| 5 | What's your opinion on men who want to date long term by don't want to get married or have kids?Then why do women push for it still if the jig is up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdLmao “gaslighting” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?Free adults want to raise children less than the religiously indoctrinated or impoverished do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 11:50 PM |
| 13 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdNo one is forcing you to do anything. The world doesn’t care if you fuck or date single moms or fatties. The world keeps on turning. It’s on you to get your needs met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:59 PM |
| – | What is common "blue-pill" dating advice?“It’ll happen when you least expect it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:43 PM |
| – | Are intersex people also hypergamous ?Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:20 AM |
| 4 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Irresponsible decision and bad for the kid. The idea one’s desire to mother or father supersedes the cultivation of the best environment for the potential child is immoral. Get a dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:05 AM |
| 4 | The idea that you should be sexually attracted only to certain traits otherwise there's something wrong with your brain is absurdWelcome to The Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:52 PM |
| – | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?🤣 yes it does. All rape is sexual assault, but not all sexual assault is rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:16 PM |
| – | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?It is telling, that when I said “rape”, the goalposts moved to “sexual assault”. And no. The evidence is not “1 in 3 women will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime”. That’s the headline often quoted, but it isn’t what the evidence says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 06:52 AM |
| -4 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Games and Goals?People do what’s best for themselves. In an environment of fat, disloyal, greedy individuals- be the best you can be, get yours, and enjoy the decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:53 PM |
| -2 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Being raped is a fairly low probability event | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Being permanently maimed is comparable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:30 PM |
| 13 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Socially and economically in the West? Woman Biologically? Man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:29 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.Then leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:32 PM |
| 42 | Switching around "Commitment" for "Sex" may allow more empathy between the sexes?It’s almost like the male and female imperatives conflict with one another. And one of them has to budge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:31 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Could be many things. 1) Healthier men may be selected by women more for marriage than unhealthy men. Seems likely. 2) Divorce (if divorcees are included in the “single” category) is bad for men’s health and longevity. 3) Marriage instills a greater sense of health responsibility in married men versus unmarried men. They believe they must stay healthy to provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingWho cares? People still like pretty people with good personalities. It doesn’t matter if it’s hard to change. If one wants different results, the only option available is to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingOP really just did a fictional character creation. then said anybody not satisfying any one of the imagined criteria is “below average”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:05 PM |
| 9 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyPeople don’t actually care about the state of the world. They just want to feel morally superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Population collapse and datingDumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:25 AM |
| 18 | Population collapse and datingThere is no “we”. If this is occurring, it’s an organic response of individuals to the current environment. There is no brute force solution. Free individuals will always act organically according to what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?Are there potential costs to abandoning the shared societal-level stories religion has provided? Sure. Is it also just kind of inevitable people abandon religion if they’re free and have internet? Also sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’🤣 okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:22 PM |
| 3 | What is the point of casual sex/short term?Sex is the end in and of itself. All normal, heterosexual men are driven this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’It’s power the man is giving away for the benefit of the woman/family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’It’s time the bf/husband devotes to her/the family which could otherwise be spent elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Surrendering time, freedom, autonomy, options, money, focus through marriage and longterm relationships. Accepting additional future legal risks as well through marriage. There are others, but that’s the off the top of my head list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Any category where the barrier to entry is “anyone pick your colored flair” isn’t going to have consensus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Because it’s infinitely easier to daydream about “fixing civilization” than it is to actually work on yourself. Plus politics is the new religion so it sells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:32 AM |
| – | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Abortion is safe and legal in many states. And it’s de facto legal for anyone with a car. Why the fuck would it be free? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’TRP was about men getting sex through individual self-improvement. The bizarre collectivist tradcon fantasy is misplaced focus. It’s another form of the general useless utopian idealization found in the corners of the internet where the pasty, frightened, and unmotivated gather. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:09 PM |
| 11 | I think that breadwinner women should not be shocked at their lackluster marriages.This is less about women being the “breadwinner”. It’s more about how choosing a deadbeat for a husband sucks longterm for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Are relationship worth it?It depends on what one wants and prioritizes. For some, the loss of freedom in a relationship is worth it because of the benefits. Others want the other side of the bargain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:05 AM |
| 4 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyFair. Love comes with conditions for adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:00 AM |
| 6 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:04 PM |
| 2 | What year did women achieve equality?You guys are so naive but the funny thing is that you do not realize yet what this will mean for you. Especially when contraceptives will be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 10:51 AM |
| 7 | What year did women achieve equality?Delusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 10:22 AM |
| 5 | What year did women achieve equality?As of right now, there are no travel bans. And if they were legislated, it’s incredibly unlikely any would hold up to legal challenges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 09:20 AM |
| 6 | Someone complaining about their S.O. on social media or in a group chat is a huge red flag.It’s a sign of no self-awareness. Complaining about your SO online screams child in adult body or low class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 08:15 AM |
| 4 | What year did women achieve equality?Lmao. If one doesn’t have the resources to actually get an abortion, then they should obviously do everything in their power to prevent unwanted pregnancy even more. And yes, most women could take time off for an emergency-level event from work, if required. This insane lack of agency is just silly. The world doesn’t owe women everything free, convenient, and instantaneous upon demand. Most unwanted pregnancies are not the result of using birth control responsibly. It’s dumb idiots busting nuts/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 07:57 AM |
| 12 | What year did women achieve equality?Overturning Roe vs Wade made it a state by state issue. Women can travel to pro choice states for abortions- Not convenient certainly, but still doable. Abortion is still de facto legal in the US. And of course women are free to use any birth control they choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 01:59 AM |
| 10 | (Re-upload) What do y'all think of this excerpt about radicalisation in the manosphere?At first, when I saw the length of your comment, I admit I thought it was going to be a lengthy haul for little benefit. But you raise some really good points and perspectives. Social decline and entropy may not show up clearly in statistics, but certainly have an effect on quality of life for people in a civilization. I still think TRP and the so-called “manosphere” is mostly a boogie man taking the blame for a wider social decline which is more complicated in nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 06:32 PM |
| 32 | (Re-upload) What do y'all think of this excerpt about radicalisation in the manosphere?There is no “radicalization” occurring in any measurable way. Violent crime rates are down in the West. The manosphere is publicly scorned because the views expressed fall outside the window of publicly acceptable opinions. It’s a boogie man people get to blame every time a mentally ill loner shoots up a school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 10:15 AM |
| 21 | Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculatingWhat advice do you want then? “Just be yourself” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:13 AM |
| 0 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Not outside insulated religious circles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:46 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Most Red Pillers (TRP) are actually the most defeatist of all the "Pills"That’s your point? Collective action is possible and should be attempted because it worked for dictators and warlords? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 08:08 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most Red Pillers (TRP) are actually the most defeatist of all the "Pills"The people who “try to do things en mass”, never actually accomplish anything en mass. TRP recognizes basic reality- you are alone, and you are the only thing you can control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Would you be a beta bucks?Hell no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:34 PM |
| -1 | Which one is correct?2 is textbook codependency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:11 PM |
| 4 | The Red pill and Manosphere is based on possibility and not probabilityThe information of TRP demonstrates and argues marriage is disadvantageous and even potentially dangerous for men. What naturally follows from this is the anti-marriage perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:12 PM |
| 2 | The Red pill and Manosphere is based on possibility and not probabilityTRP is anti-marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 10:48 AM |
| 24 | How do you think we can tackle kink inequality....or should it even be a concern?Imagine thinking this is an issue which requires both broadcasting and collective action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:49 AM |
| 6 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Marriage is shittier than in the past for men. Chasing hoes is easier though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:56 AM |
| 0 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?It’s never over. It only depends on the man’s motivation to change. Age isn’t the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?Bizarre | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?So if a woman is aware of this socially ingrained idea, which cuts so much in the man’s favor, why would she still want to get married? It seems from your perspective, marriage is a mistake committed by unenlightened women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?If marriage isn’t risky for men and they benefit from it, why do you imagine men are still so skeptical of marriage compared to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?But women can have all those things today, independent of marriage to a man. Yet they still are the ones who push for marriage more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?Then why is it women who tend to push for marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?There are trade offs in any situation. For some people the freedom of being single is better than the benefits of even a “fulfilling” relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?Yes it is easier, speaking as a man. Sex can be more difficult to get outside of a relationship. But if you live in the US and are independent, being single is freedom. Though most people prefer to sacrifice freedom in order to indulge their codependency. Honestly single cat ladies have it figured out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Post-Nut Clarity and what it suggests about malesYou were under the impression sexual arousal makes humans more rational? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you lovely ladies think you'll be able to pull off a alpha fuxs/beta bucks strategy in a post red pill world?A lot will just be single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?We know and don’t expect any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?Or believe the evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Men feel that women will not allow them to have preferences but where do they get this idea?Type “I don’t like fat women” on any sub and see what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:01 AM |
| – | All evidence suggests that people prefer a bad relationship to lonelinessBecause idiots are codependent and/or receive identity through telling themselves a story about their bad relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Marriage is a trap.You’re being intentionally obtuse so last comment from me. In the event of divorce, the government will enforce terms- like with all contacts. This is reigning over one’s romantic life in a way which is completely avoidable- by not marrying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Marriage is a trap.Yes. Which is why not marrying allows one the advantage to not have the government reign over their romantic relationship(s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:03 AM |
| 5 | Marriage is a trap.Not marrying is foregoing government involvement in one’s personal life. Whereas marriage involves the state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Marriage is a trap.There is no boyfriend/girlfriend contract. Thus the advantage of not marrying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 08:32 AM |
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