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| 18 | Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find LoveTime budget was the thing that did my rotation. At the peak I was seeing 5 girls at the same time and seeing them each once a week. I wanted to preserve at least 1 night out with my buddies so I was either going out or hosting 6 nights a week. That plus the maintenance mid week phone calls it was exhausting. All the girls could sense I was distant and they had competition so it really drove them closer to me and they were ferocious for attention. It lasted about 3-4 months before I started cutti… | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedHaven’t been able to read all your comments but do you live in a decent sized metro area? You potentially have a good situation and the means to execute as a doctor. Get a sweet condo / apartment and set it up as your bachelor pad. Years ago a had a long term relationship and a side relationship with another lady (above board not a secret). I had a second apartment I used for my dating. Eventually I moved my side relationship to the apartment full time and I would occasionally go hang with her i… | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Do women actually prefer "older" guys?Perfectly said. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 02:30 AM |
| 3 | On average, how many girls are you approaching before you get a date or more?I did 80% night game in bars / clubs so day game would probably be a little tougher as people out at night already self selected to be social / get approached, but I broke it down to about 1 to 10. 10 approaches leads to 5 numbers. 5 numbers leads to 3 dates. 3 dates leads to 1 close. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 03:25 AM |
| 3 | A trick I used to teach my studentsThis won’t produce above average results. If you don’t care about achieving above average results, why are you part of this sub? | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 03:32 AM |
| 10 | Just watched my natural friend open a set (a girl and her boyfriend) and it was beautiful.Aren’t many of the people in this sub on a journey to be more confident, sociable people? Markers along the way can be helpful. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 12:12 AM |
| 3 | while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girlGosh now I’m second guessing my restaurant list, city list, beer list, movie list, album list, hike list…lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older?Idk but it happens all the time! Some of them even prefer it. You think he would be the first 30 year old to sleep with a 20 year old? | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:26 AM |
| 8 | Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older?The less you can worry about what other people think, the happier you will be. Much like meditation it’s a journey, you don’t just wake up one day and stop caring, but over time you learn to care less and less. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older?Perhaps he’s not trying to make a life with them but rather just wants to have sex with them. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Responding to "not sure if you're my type"This exactly. With practice you will also be better able to read what they really mean. I would actually take this comment “not sure if you’re my type” as a good sign, reading the subtext as “ok I just met this guy and I’m a little intrigued but unsure since he is a stranger, maybe that intrigue can grow” Apprehension….but also some interest. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Point of Seduction?I’m using “status” to amalgamate many desirable traits. Yes an attractive woman can be attracted to a man relatively less attractive than her, but it’s unusual for that attraction to be immediate. In other words, if you want to attract the 9 across the bar, unless you are a 10 or famous, it’s very unlikely your initial interaction with her is going to include her showing high interest. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 06:06 AM |
| 5 | What’s The Point of Seduction?A woman’s interest level is often inversely correlated with her status level. If she’s high status, it’s much less likely she will be high interest upon initial interaction (unless you are much higher status than her like an actor, etc). One of the points of seduction is to give you a better chance with higher status women. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 02:56 AM |
| 10 | If you have a rotation of women you're practicing polygamy don't expect it to suddenly change your views when you marry to 1, you'll always want more women because you're used to itPeople often say “get it out of your system” but for many people (myself included), you don’t get it out of your system, you get it into your system haha. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 05:05 PM |
| 16 | If you have a rotation of women you're practicing polygamy don't expect it to suddenly change your views when you marry to 1, you'll always want more women because you're used to itSome truth to this for sure. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 04:29 PM |
| 22 | Pulled hot college Latina girlLiterally happening at every bar and club around the world every night. And sometimes during the day if you are at a day party lol! | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 04:23 PM |
| 10 | Pulled hot college Latina girlWhat part the story was unbelievable for you? | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 04:21 PM |
| 5 | How good can one get good at game like can you get laid in every 1 to 6 approaches?1 to 6 would be pretty impressive. I broke it down to about 1 to 10. 10 approaches leads to 5 numbers. 5 numbers leads to 3 dates. 3 dates leads to 1 close. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How I reply to girls IG stories that make her respondThis is a great thought, it’s truly analogous to the rich get richer. If you want to know how to get rich, ask a rich guy! | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 6 | How I reply to girls IG stories that make her respondIt’s case by case of course, but on average, if you have to take advice on gaming down a woman, absolutely take advice from a guy over another woman. Absolutely. Absolutely, I can’t say that with enough emphasis. It’s one of the 1st things you learn in the game. Like I said earlier, I’m mostly out of this life now, but I’ve got a decade invested. The only reason I’m even engaging in this conversation is I hope some of the young guys on here read this conversation and don’t get led astray with ba… | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 05:16 AM |
| 5 | How I reply to girls IG stories that make her respondI had a suspicion, and even the best game isn’t going to work on everyone. Your best line hits different for different people. For you it sounds like you have a lot of emotions related to body image so I can see why that approach wouldn’t work for you. And with all due respect, one of the 1st and most valuable lessons to the game is women tend to give bad advice about the best way to seduce women. But if you want to give it a shot, what’s your play for OP to set a hook with an IG bad one with 10… | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 04:13 AM |
| 18 | How I reply to girls IG stories that make her respondlol man I hate to say it but this sub is cooked if this is the most popular comment. Your objective is to intrigue a girl with 100k followers who is getting 100 messages a day - what’s your shot? I’m mostly out of the game these days but OP is giving solid basic advice here. If you truly think this the worst advice on this sub, be honest, how many bad ones have you pulled off IG? How many bad ones have you pulled from any place online at all? Unless you have some actually advice here, you are ju… | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:21 AM |
| 12 | At a bar, a girl gets tons of approaches, you're 3rd or 4th in line. What's your move?I’m with you on this. I’ve seen this scenario play out countless times. You’re at the bar / club and there are two 9s sitting at the bar top. Over the course of a night you might see 7-8+ guys walk up and shoot their shot. Sometimes it even leads to some jokes between the random guys when you see them somewhere else in the bar like one says “nice try man” with a little laugh. To answer your question my strategy is at most places I know the bartender so I’ll go up and make sure to come in hot wit… | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | At a bar, a girl gets tons of approaches, you're 3rd or 4th in line. What's your move?I’m intrigued, so what are you doing here? | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?A lot of cold approach openers are cringey when you read them out of the situation. Many are even cringey in the situation, but if you deliver them with the right body language and they work, who cares? | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:50 AM |
| 6 | I took a girl home after 5 minutes (She was hot too)That doesn’t charge money? | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:48 PM |
| 59 | Does anyone approach at the gym?If the opportunity arrises yes definitely but I don’t just walk up and straight cold approach. Over the years I’ve probably slept with 6-7 girls I’ve met at the gym. None I just walked up cold and tried to pick up, but all were just over natural interactions like using the same machine at similar times across multiple days and then striking up conversation over that. Coming and going at the same time, sharing did you see that moments, etc. I think in all cases we had at least 3-4 such interactio… | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 07:11 AM |
| 0 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?What is wrong with novelty seeking? Isn’t that why we travel, watch new movies, try new restaurants, etc? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:59 AM |
| 5 | Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around.A pushy car salesman and an armed robber are the same thing too yeah? | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | 28 years old female virginI don't want to have sex with a random guy and I don't want my first experience to be so shallow or empty These first encounters tend to mean a lot less to us than we anticipate they will. 10 years from now I would guess there is an overwhelmingly strong chance you look back and laugh at your first experience no matter how much thought you put into making it fit your expectations. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 06:56 PM |
| 23 | Am I the only one who finds quality girls to be so damn rare?In my experience, people are looking for something casual until they find something they really like. I haven't met many people who found someone that really intrigued them, only to move on because they were so committed to being casual. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 11:37 PM |
| 11 | Quick tip: When rating girls, don't use a 1-10 rating system. Use a binary system instead.What about simply "I am just more attracted to a 10/10 vs. a 7/10" I don't care if I I could never tell anyone about it, I would still much prefer a 10/10 over a 7/10. By your logic why ever go to a great restaurant, drink great whiskey, or stay in a great hotel when you can eat at a good restaurant, drink good whiskey, or stay in a good hotel? The idea that there is no spectrum and things are either good or bad is just not how life (and the human mind) works. | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex?So so many human activities :) | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 04:44 PM |
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