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MisterLionheart/r/ExRedPill19/03/20 07:09 PM
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Indeed. TRP has changed a lot since I was originally reading it and even further since I left it. The misogyny has always been rampant, but the messaged changed from 'focus on yourself and don't value women (or more specifically don't value people who don't benefit you)' to 'women are garbage hurr durr'.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 05:10 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with filtering potential partners based on how much commitment they have to their physical well being. Signals of health (muscle definition, clear skin, well maintained body) are the first filter I put any potential partners through - but certainly not the only one. ​ That said, he's an idiot if he thinks women only care about money. If his filter is fit women and he doesn't think they'll expect him to be fit he's in for a rude awakening.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:35 PM
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There's a bunch of literature in the TRP sidebar that basically states "the more men she has had sex with before marriage, the more likely she is to divorce you". That's it.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 09:36 PM
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These blanket statements "red pill only" or "all red pillers" are bullshit. As a married male with a good career and a solid sex life, I found a lot a benefit in TRP. I left because the culture is toxic and fucked up, but trying to paint "all TRP is X" is as harmful as participating in it.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 01:46 PM
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Pretty much what I did. There's a lot of good life advice in there with the misogyny. There's also frank (albeit warped) discussion around men's problems, which is unfortunately hard to find. Talking about men's problems in public spaces is still likely to get you vilified
/r/ExRedPill18/08/20 07:42 PM
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Alpha/beta isn't binary any more than gender. Change your language and talk about confident/cock/funny/muscled men, because that's what TRP means when it says Alpha. And yes. It's been proven several times that people who are more aggressive, kind of a bad boy, and more physically fit get more sexual partners. If you want to be that person, put in the work. In a world where a woman mostly just has to be open to sex coming their way, and (shy, nerdy, awkward, or day) men need to work their ass of…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/20 04:11 PM
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The people I knew who were into TRP were all in the gym 3-5x a week, all with multiple sexual partners on the go. It's not just fat nerds there, there's plenty of attractive folks who were raised shy and didn't know how to talk to women. TRP gave a script that got them laid. It did not bring them fulfilling relationships, but it 100% got them laid.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 10:46 PM
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How can you say they are clearly not doing it? For myself, and my social circle that were into TRP once upon a time, lifting was the one and only thing we got out of it
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 06:04 PM
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This is a pretty shitty attack. Considering the #1 piece of advice on the sub is to shut up and lift, this isn't actually funny or pointed.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 04:59 PM
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Most men don't have this problem? Sounds like almost no relationship I've encountered. Sexual satisfaction in a relationship is hard to manage for all parties.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 02:31 PM
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Aye. When TRP mentions feminism they specifically mean the radical hateful feminists who are a small but loud subsection of the group, similar to how when feminists are discussion evil men it's usually the dark triad TRP believers. It's common for factions to hold up the worst of a group as an example
/r/ExRedPill12/08/20 09:43 PM
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Having gone from 5'10" 235lbs fat to 5'10" 165lbs fit, I can say that while being attractive doesn't solve everything, it changes a lot. Literally everyone treats me better and respects me more. My self confidence is higher. I get way more loving attention. I have been lazier than ever at work but get noticed more and have received bigger bonuses and more promotions since losing weight (despite working less). It's not a panacea, but TRP is absolutely right that being attractive as a male will ma…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 09:38 PM
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While I agree with you in principal, I don't think spending time here bashing them, their looks, etc is a productive use of your time. "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one."
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 05:09 PM
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Red pill teaches you how to get laid and how to emotionally manipulate people - not how to have a healthy relationship. Do you want all the power in the relationship? Would she stick around if you had all the power? Or would you rather a partnership where you can be vulnerable and get support when you need it? Much better to know what you desire, and what your own boundaries are, and talk about them.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 02:11 PM
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This isn't a "I'm doxxing a scammer" post. It's a ride cartoon that solely exists to make fun of Tyler. If you actually want to out him as a scammer then focus on that and provide examples. This is still not funny. Also, there are so many places you could go to read about RSDTyler and the weird shit show that RSD has been. People are not coming to exredpill to do this. Your explanation falls really flat.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 03:09 PM
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There's no need to attack the leaders of the pickup community. This is just an angry joke in bad form, and it's not funny. I don't think much of RSDTyler but I know you have better things to do with your time than promote this garbage. Getting out of TRP is about bettering yourself. This is just tearing others down.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 02:22 PM
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When I was in the TRP I practiced consensual upfront nonmonogamy - I never understood the need to mate guard. I'm fine with learning all the skills to be more attractive and sexually successful, buy I'm not going to lie or be dishonest to do it.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 01:15 PM
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The goal is sex. The methods deliver. As do many other methods. TRP methods also deliver a deathblow to ones ability to have healthy, functional relationships. But most people who truly buy in to TRP are trying to believe they don't need those, or they're not worth having. Terpers are jaded men who want sex and nothing else.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 04:51 PM
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Absolutely. That's exactly what it's about - that's what TRP is mostly about. It's a "sexual marketplace strategy" with a bunch of additional bullshit. It promises sex and it can deliver for men who have felt abandoned by society and confused by women. I made no mention that it was a healthy or functional way to relate to people. It's not. It's totally toxic. But it can teach jaded young men a way to get access to vaginas, where every other piece of advice or lifestyle change they've implemented…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 05:09 PM
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That TRP works. For those who are involuntary celibates, the TRP method can absolutely get you the sex you want or feel like you need, and that it can make the entire ideology seem "right". I'd also like to see public acknowledge of the few data studies that TRP is based on. Men are angry and often attracted to TRP because 1) the sexual marketplace is really fucked up and gives the average woman seemingly infinitely more option or opportunity. 2) The legal system favours women. Shorter sentences…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 04:32 PM
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I wish they would recognize that some of their methods (lift, find purpose, know your own boundaries and what you want) can get you the results you want (increased sexual encounters, more success in general) without internalizing the hate
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 04:13 PM
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Fun fact: we don't. Common law (in Canada) already gives you spousal rights for most things. Will's, POA, and personal directives cover the rest. My wife and I got married (has a ceremony) without a license (because the government has no place in our marriage).
/r/ExRedPill04/07/20 02:09 PM
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I wouldn't agree with anything as vague as "assorted expectations". I do agree that if your goal is casual sex, then working on your muscles, your social presence and confidence, and learning manipulative behaviour will absolutely help you succeed. Do I believe man should be the provider? Fuck that. If you have a relationship with someone, determine your roles in the relationship, don't assume anything.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/20 04:08 PM
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The 80/20 rule isn't just us... It's everything. The beautiful/sorted thing is strictly related to your culture. Other cultures don't emphasize a woman's beauty nearly as much.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 10:19 PM
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You use "they" a lot. Who is this mysterious they that's presenting different opinions to you? Are you reading bullshit on social media, or listening to whiny people in your spare time? Stop worrying about they and start focusing on you. One thing TRP got right is that sometimes the best thing you can do is to shut up and focus on yourself. If you really want to know, the fact is dating for women is just as bad. The ONLY thing most men want from them is sex. Which makes women feel like that's al…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 04:37 PM
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Having someone at home to cook, clean, manage the bills, be at home for appointments, take the kids to appointments, and also sporting events, clubs, or even taking a hand in children's education... Stay at home parenting can be a full time job. Sometimes it's worth it for a family to have one at home The point is - every relationship is different. Expect to come to an agreement with any partner you end up with.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 03:08 AM
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Chances are all of this is dialogue throughout the partnership. Any of the above could happen.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 01:12 AM
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The thing you are angry about is as biological as it is societal. Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. It may a trope from the manosphere, but it's (almost) omnipresent among our relatives in the animal kingdom. This causes us to be more protective of women. In practice, it means that in general, the system will be skewed towards punishing them less harshly, less often, focusing medical research on their reproductive system. The system's broken. AI will (or should anyway) fix this in legal struct…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/20 01:54 PM
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Impossible to determine because they're vilified publicly. Rules 1 and 2 are don't talk about. I would love for the debate to be more acceptable. They raise a bunch of really interesting points that merit a lot more investigation, but the pendulum will need to swing pretty far before it's acceptable research or public debate.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/20 01:36 PM
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20 years raising kids means 20 years not developing a career. Alimony is supposed to help the lower income exspouse set themself up for the future with something other than child rearing skills, and also to prevent too much lifestyle shock. A 49 year ol woman with no non-mother skills finding herself suddenly single is going to have a cash flow shock real bad. This isn't always how alimony actually plays out.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 04:25 PM
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Healthy flirting is any flirting where everyone's having fun. My partner is a good partner because we are committed to a vision of a future together, because we have each other's backs when we need support, or when we fuck up - and yet we are also not afraid to tell one another if we fucked up. It's accepting the flaws of your partner, and them accepting your flaws (and we all have many) And finally, it's about healthy boundaries for yourself + knowing where you're at in life and finding a partn…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 07:28 AM
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Ex TRP here, married, polyamorous, 33m. Pretty standard demographic target, other than a total disbelief in monogamy for me. Got pulled in by the sidebar reading on TRP, particularly the misandry bubble and some divorce statistics. The truth is, both men and women have a ton of systemic privilege, and even biological privilege. It's hard for a society to treat people equally when biology does not. (See: eggs precious, sperm cheap, men tend towards more mutations, more outliers, etc). However, it…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 06:23 AM
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Truth. It's about the most basic sex Ed beyond abstinence only. There's literally no excuses to not if you don't want a kid.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 06:06 AM
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Maybe I'm just good at filtering shitty women before they get to me? My wife (before we met) had had an abortion because a dude did the condom thing and babies her. That was the end of their relationship. My number of 0.01% is definitely pulled out of my ass. That said, I don't think most people are looking for a way to leech off someone else their whole life at the expense of the other, while also saddling themself with a massive responsibility. More than 0.01% of people, sure, but I would say …
/r/ExRedPill22/06/20 04:43 PM
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"women have been known to poke holes when you're not around". Maybe in 0.01% of cases would someone be crazy enough to poke holes in a condom to get babies by a partner who doesn't want em. Now, if this is a real concern, either you don't trust your partner (which is something you should go to therapy for) or you sleep with a truly astounding number of women. Also, if you're seriously worries, get a vasectomy. Or only use your own condoms. You're trapped in a paranoid delusion fed by TRP that wo…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/20 03:45 PM
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TRP for better or worse presents a sexual strategy that can be very effective for a majority of men. It also presents an extremely selfish approach to life, infantilises women, and is a haven for angry, damaged men.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/20 03:56 PM
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This needs more upvotes. TRP may be toxis and fucked up, and they may not draw deeply flawed conclusions from their data, but they're talking about things that nobody else is. How dark triad men tens to succeed more with women. How a little asshole confidence and good locks can land you hordes of women when every other thing you've tried fails miserably. Yes, everyone is an individual first and foremost and anytime you're dealing with an individual, throw all the rules on dealing with groups out…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/20 12:57 PM
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Depends on the theories. There's as much truth in there as lies. That's how it works. If you stick to the script (lift and get fit, eat well, have a mission, and treat women poorly) then yes, you will acquire more sexual partners who often have poor self images and try really hard to please you out. It won't make you happy though.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 02:22 PM
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Two X chromosomes. It's the "women" subreddit. We're you ever a redpiller? This post doesn't seem to indicate that you were and then left. It sounds like you were disgusted with red pill and came here to find another group who might want to connect with you.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/20 03:45 PM
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Why advertise here? Sounds like you should be recruiting from 2x, not from extrp
/r/ExRedPill31/03/20 03:28 PM
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Of course you do. Almost every woman has male friends lusting after them, strangers lusting after them, and dudes like you hitting on them in the wild, sick picks filling their inboxes on facebook and tinder. Sperm is cheap. A woman is valued for her appearance by men, and the more people after her, the more inflated her understanding of her own value will be. By actively attempting to seek out attractive women for sex, you are communicating to those women that you are no different from the hord…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:39 PM
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Have you ever tried meeting women organically? Like, not through tinder. Absolutely tinder is for hot people. Also not through cold approaches. A cold approach is a pickup technique that again relies on your target immediately making a snap judgement of you as attractive. Join a club. Do you have any hobbies? The best way to meet women is to have something better to do than trying to meet women. Similar to how the most successful businesses are rarely about making money, they're successful becau…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 02:53 PM
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My understanding is, if women are asked to rate a group of men, they will rate relatively. The most attractive guy will rate highly, the leads attractive poorly. Even if the whole group is unattractive objectively, women will rate based on the group, rather than on a slider of all men everywhere. Men on the other hand, presented with a group of women, rate them more objectively. Young, curvy, but not fat, gets high marks. Now, that said, women don't specifically look for physically attractivenes…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 02:19 PM
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And here's your problem. You're grinding for sex. You think you're lucky when you have sex with someone attractive. You don't see your partners as people, you see them as sex objects with value purely related to their weight. I've know fat ugly fucks that got laid plenty by young, attractive women. They didn't think they were lucky. They just knew what they wanted and could flirt like a boss. Your mindset is holding you back. You clearly value having sex as one of your top goals, and it pains yo…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 02:16 PM
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Men who are physically attractive (lift), funny and confident (cocky/funnel), and independent (have interests, career, not codependent) have a much easier time with women. You don't need to treat them like anything other than human, but there are many things you can do to increase your chances. That's ultimately what I took away from TRP, and their tough love attitude worked better for me than anything else I've encountered. I'd probably thrive in the military but no thanks.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/20 11:16 PM
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