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| 20 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?You’re thinking more than you’re acting. Women like action. If a girl looks you in the eye at the club it’s intentional and majority of the time should be enough of an opening to act on that alone. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?Gotta find someone whose diet is consistently decent and their pH is balanced. The best ones have no smell at all. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:20 PM |
| 14 | do you think men enjoy giving head or they fake it?Causing a woman’s pleasure gives me pleasure, so yes. Unless it smells, in which case I’ll come right back up. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:15 PM |
| 15 | Why do my dates feel great conversationally but not romantically?Yup. Simply being more playful with flirting. Escalating to touch, not calculated, but when the moment or conversation presents an opportunity. Basically letting her know you feel comfortable enough to touch and giving her the ok to do it back if she hasn’t already done so. Usually after a couple physical exchanges, the woman will open enough to do it back. If she’s doing it back, that’s most times letting you know she’s considering what it might be like pushing those boundaries. Women can talk.… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I focus on a physical glow up (aka gym and diet) or focus more on social skills?Both. Your personality is what keeps someone interested. Your surface level attraction helps with catching fish. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 03:58 AM |
| 52 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?This is the best advice. Make your intentions clear. It will save you time. It will get you what you want when there is mutual attraction. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 139 | Isn’t nightlife 95% women sticking to their groups?Clubs are for the dancers and the spenders. It’s more of an actions over words space. Dancing is flirting if you know how to do it well. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup.I had a similar issue at your age. Chances are you’re not as forward/honest when you need to be with who you need to be. If I want to hookup with someone casually, I’m not spending much time becoming their friend and talking them up. If I already did spend time becoming friends before deciding I want to hook up, I now have to honestly present to them the idea that I would like to get to know what hooking up with them is like. You’ll have to be ok knowing that making a proposition to some women w… | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Miami exposed how bad validation seeking really is.You have to be in Miami for longer than a weekend to apply those lessons. Now that you know you seek validation, why? The initial cab driver gave you solid advice. It’s about confidence. Confidence comes from acceptance. This is me. As I am. I’m okay with that, and I’m putting myself forward without the fear of rejection. That energy cannot be faked. Women that socialize a lot are able to see through that the instant your energy falters from that confident state. Your best bet would be to go int… | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Anyone try pulling a stripper?Does a gogo dancer count? | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Flirting. Women like men that are straight forward. That’s what leading is all about, making it easier for them to decide. They want direct. They like honesty. So if you say something genuine about how good they look, or asking if she’s single. Basically anything to let them know your intentions are more than just hanging out. Little flirty comments here and there will do it. If you observe them when they hear the comment you can more or less tell if they’re open to more or if they’re not recept… | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 03:03 AM |
| 7 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?You answered your own question in the subtext. Be open about how you feel. At that age a lot of people rely on alcohol, it might help, but it’s not necessary. The issue often happens when a dude befriends a girl hoping that if he’s a good enough friend she’ll consider sleeping with him one day. That MIGHT work, but it’s also a big waste of time if it doesn’t and you might lose a friend. If from the beginning you let the woman know you’re attracted to her, and she doesn’t run off, you kinda keep … | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 11:17 AM |
| 9 | I (26m) like older women, where do I begin to meet them?His statement is in comparison to a woman in their 20s or so. Someone in their 20s is getting more attention based off looks alone than someone in their 40s/50s, despite someone in their 40s/50s having much more to offer generally speaking. It’s not a personal attack on your successes in dating. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Will my height affect my dating life?The ones that do have requirements that you don’t meet aren’t for you. Simple as that. Don’t worry about it. I’m 5’5” and know guys shorter than me that pull models of all heights. It’s all about your character. Don’t be a douchebag. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 11:51 AM |
| 7 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsIf this is how you feel (your first sentence) it’s probably because you haven’t faced rejection/failure enough to get used to it and shrug it off like a bad play in any sport. Probably a sign that you have to face it more often. Before apps, there was no other option. Men were made by being forced to go through this rejection process numerous times just for one success. Until you thicken your skin enough to face reality, you will continue looking for the path with the least amount of resistance,… | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Content Creators are slowly ruining your chances to pick up woman/menInternet is not life. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 11:21 AM |
| 8 | What are some eye opening thing that led you to a successful dating lifeIf she’s open to going on a date with you she likes you enough for you to not question whether or not there’s attraction (unless she’s a meal/gold digger). There’s no secret sauce other than playing it cool, not talking to much (it is so easy to talk yourself out of getting laid), and a decent amount of flirting to keep things light and enjoyable. Girls really just want to have fun. Most women I date stick around for a while even if there’s no long term future because I have fun, with or without… | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Should i use this girl for dating experience/dick gameAt that age due to lack of experience she may find out she’s open to the mutually beneficial situation. I wouldn’t call it a no go before having the open discussion about his desire/intentions and seeing if there is some middle ground to compromise on. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How can I get a date/number in the workplace without getting fired?I’ve made a few lady friends at work outside of work. My number 1 advice would be to keep things casual, and allow them to escalate. Someone that’s interested will bring up doing something after work such as getting drinks or some activity. That should realistically be the only time you escalate to whatever. Otherwise if done in or around the office, you are opening up yourself to a visit with HR / potential harassment accusations and no piece of ass is worth losing employment over. The money yo… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldI do think it works like that. No matter where I travel, as long as one can read body language well and present oneself with good energy many women are receptive, even open to having a casual conversation. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to but I'm about to drop this girl, and it kind of sucks.Just go with the flow. No need to label it. You’re overthinking it. You like each other? Continue to see how it goes. Express your boundaries - if you wanna know if she’s seeing anyone else… ask. Don’t let insecurity dictate what you do. The label of exclusive won’t do anything. You’re already chilling. You’re already enjoying yourselves. Why fuck up something that’s going well? Because you want more? Chill. It’s only been a few months. Good things take time to develop, but won’t if you try and … | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 11:49 PM |
| 0 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingOnce every second year? Seems you aren’t able to figure it out. Oh well! Maybe one day you’ll get it bud. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testing“The fact that I even have to explain this says enough about your mental capacity” is unnecessary, thanks for admitting that because it’s the condescending part. Your response is much more well thought out than OP’s post, considering it uses logic. It’s okay if you think it’s a good post. I think it’s terrible advice, and it’s okay for me to state my reasons for it being so. I enjoy reddit because of these long winded interactions based on a subjective discussion in which at least one person see… | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingInstructions unclear. I’m convinced she’s gay. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 03:09 PM |
| 0 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingIf you figure out how to seduce while being honest you’ll have a consistent sex life. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 03:08 PM |
| 0 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingSo we have to gain trust and the BEST way of starting that relationship is based on a lie… yeah this is why I don’t get my pickup advice from reddit. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 02:46 PM |
| 4 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingYou’re being condescending to protect your ego and presumed intelligence from the fact that your logic still doesn’t translate as you introduced this as a line that gives the ‘best reaction’. It’s a lie, just like your pickup line. And you seem so keen on lying that you have deluded yourself into believing that your logic for using this line above any other is a reasonable way to seduce a woman. It is unreasonable because it is based on a lie. You are introducing an obstacle (being gay) that you… | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 02:32 PM |
| 8 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingIsn’t sex generally the end goal of seduction? Wouldn’t your pickup line be an antagonist to that goal with women in many cases? This is the best you could come up with? | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!?Most guys are open to being approached because usually the shoe is on the other foot. 9/10 times, a basic ‘hi…’ introduction works. You will be rejected sometimes. Such is the nature of approaching that men deal with daily. You build the confidence to keep going by keeping on. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | should you fuck mids for experience ?Very good point and I agree. After a certain # of women the amount of time I had to invest for a new lay just didn’t feel worth it from a gaining sexual experience standpoint though. Different strokes for different folks, which is where the numbers do matter is what you’re alluding too. Completely forgot that part. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 10:45 PM |
| 178 | should you fuck mids for experience ?I’ve learned more from consistency with one person than in n outs with multiple people. Hard to go deeper than the surface with someone you barely know. The experience comes from the level of intimacy. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Keep getting ghosted after messaging girls I met at a club/barThey were likely under the influence and did not wake up feeling the same. At clubs, your best shot is sealing the deal that night. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?It may seem impossible if your mentality is approaching it from negative perspectives. You’re placing the values of others and their opinions above your own. Notice how this wasn’t an issue before being in this environment. You’re allowing your mind to conform to the standards of others which are not based on your personal values of what truly matters in life. You’re allowing the environment to dictate you, which in my experience, points to a mentality that is easily influenced. The transition f… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?You’re human. They’re human. You’re not any less they’re not anymore. Your mindset should reflect that, otherwise people will pickup on your insecurities and treat you as you carry yourself. Name brand clothes? They’re just things. Things only matter as much value as you give them. There’s a quote along the lines of “you can buy fashion but you can’t buy style”. If you walk around SoHo in NYC or any fashion area, you will notice what that means. Being rich doesn’t mean anything except that you c… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?The part that nobody says out loud. Kind of like money, after a certain amount it’s diminishing returns on happiness. Finding one or two (or however many you’re willing to juggle) consistent partners gets much more passionate and fulfilling over time. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 02:57 PM |
| 38 | Why do girls i used to talk to like my pictures of me and my current girlfriend?I assume good intention: they’re happy to see someone happy. Most women, and people, love love. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:00 AM |
| 6 | do you think Miami has worn out its welcome and is overrated as a city to find women?You don’t need to be a millionaire to live in Miami and get women. You just need to make/save enough to be able to go out often if you want to live that lifestyle. I lived there three years and still go back when I can. I had a live in girlfriend for 2. The highest paying job I had was $70k a year. I quickly learned that I don’t want to dip into that money for a woman and living the ‘miami lifestyle’ so I got a part time job bartending/did delivery gigs to pay for women and partying. You just ne… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 05:12 AM |
| 5 | I Met a 40-Year-Old Virgin: Here’s What He Taught Me About Settling in DatingI hear ya. Yeah the biggest benefit (IMO) of sex is the intimate, emotional connection that comes with it. That part is difficult to come across even if it’s not done professionally. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 04:06 AM |
| 3 | I Met a 40-Year-Old Virgin: Here’s What He Taught Me About Settling in DatingAt least you’re a poet. On a serious note, have you ever considered paying for it? If so, what are your reasons for not taking that route? | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 42 | Can you actually find FWB hookups on reddit?It happened for me once and it was a string of luck and intention. Right time right place right post, I just so happened to be in an area of someone I was chatting with because of a concert. One of the more simpler intimate interactions I’ve ever had. Haven’t tried again since, because it was basically a unicorn situation. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Do 21-22 old guys have chances to pickup older women (milfs)Yes | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I get better at cold approaching/build more confidence?What worked, when I was single, for me was treating everyone the same. The point is to become an exciting conversationalist, not to pick up women. If your goal is picking up women and that’s all youre thinking about chances are you will come off as trying too hard or caring too much, as you said yourself: not being your true self. Women can smell bullshit a mile away, especially the better looking + more intuitive ones… stop putting them on a pedestal. When you approach, you’re approaching just … | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Why can I get hookups but not a single relationship my entire life?Lol only a year? It takes time to find someone genuinely compatible. If you’re dating you’re doing fine. A lot of women your age aren’t willing to commit unless you really bring that spark, which in a lot of cases is superficial as their idea of an ideal relationship can be warped by expectations set by others. Best bet would be to continue doing you, which sounds like you’re doing well and soon enough better. When the women you’re meeting see that they’ll get curious if you’re a good dude becau… | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 14 | what does it mean when a girl's friends pull her away from talking to you?If the girl didn’t give the signal for them to do this they either: 1. thought you weren’t all that 2. were reacting to their jealousy of not being the ones getting attention 3. were trying to protect her if she was potentially too drunk / has a partner | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 04:14 AM |
| 10 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?If you want it to happen naturally: Frequent the same places throughout the week just to be outside and socialize. Don’t talk to women with the intention of sleeping with them, converse for the sake of passing time and enjoying yourself. Actually getting to know people without expectations. This will help build your confidence and comfortability maneuvering a conversation with women regardless of attraction. Women feel a lot more comfortable getting with someone that’s familiar and isn’t just tr… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 29 | Update: I dumped him!First time hearing of a kink trap. It’s surprising how many people thought your reaction was too harsh, especially since you consider sexual compatibility a top priority. Almost as if they were disregarding that you’re entitled to your own opinion and feelings about the matter. Props to you for recognizing that red flag, it may not be abusive in nature, but waiting until engagement? That’ll really change the way you view someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:22 PM |
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