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| 3 | Sex is never and will never be a needIf men are really out there constantly thinking about and needing sex I don’t think they’re stable enough to hold positions of power… do you really want someone thinking through their penis with the nuclear codes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.This chart seems a bit off ??? I’m 24.8% and look a lot thinner than the 25% example… could be my scales I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?My girlfriend likes to dress sexy. I think my girlfriend is sexy. So basically I get loads of pics from her looking hot as fuck? I see this as an absolute win. I trust her 100% and love her with all my heart. I know her. PPD guys sound like they don’t even like their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Men are not sexual savages, they have been taught they areI can see it. Many attractive men are comfortable seeking relationships and not having casual sex, and more often happy to maintain friendships with women, because they don’t need to see every woman as a potential sex-parter. They are comfortable and know they could have sex elsewhere if they wanted. They are assured of themselves and their identity and don’t feel the need to prove it. That’s an attractive quality. Men who feel less desirable have a stronger desire to assert their male identity … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:59 AM |
| 3 | TRP is common sense explained to autistic men - CMVI’ve never met a straight woman who didn’t openly say she wanted an attractive man. The idea that this isn’t obvious is ridiculous. The idea that women are lying to men about what they want is so stupid… they’re not? I genuinely thought everyone knew that looks matter until I found this sub. I’m a lesbian and I’ve always known that other lesbian women are going to want an attractive partner… so I make sure that I’m attractive. Sure, I want all the other things… kind, smart, independent, funny, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Speak for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.I literally said “in my experience”. Unlike you, I wasn’t trying to make a universal truth claim. So the real question is… where’s your data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.I don’t know any divorced middle aged women who didn’t remarry… in my experience it’s much more likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.Both my parents remarried in their 40s and 50s. My mum and my step-mum were both in their mid-late 40s when they married/re-married. My friend’s mum remarried in her 50s… etc etc etc. This is clearly just,… not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:08 PM |
| 8 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.I didn’t say you were those men either. Just a general talking point I guess. Everyone wants the best whilst being mad at the other sex for also wanting the best. I’m a lesbian so none of this applies to me anyway and I certainly won’t be procreating 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:58 PM |
| 12 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.But men here get mad when women go for the most attractive men? Confusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:26 PM |
| 2 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationFair enough, as a gay I can’t speak for straight people’s dating habits but almost all the straight people I know are in long term happy relationships (23-25y/o). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:10 PM |
| 2 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationYour post says the proportion of LGBs was overrepresented which would be the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:15 PM |
| 4 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationLesbians tend to couple up, gay men tend not to couple up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:13 AM |
| – | It appears that women don't want menI do love a dialectic. If lesbians are attracted to the attributes which indicate reproductive capability, you would expect (i would suggest) to see them favour the characteristics favoured by men. On PPD we see all kinds of things about women’s femininity and body shape as indication of reproductive health. You rarely see men show interest in sex with masculine women…it is often talked about the wideness of hips, curves, breasts, etc… and not to mention the “virginity” construct that gets circl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 06:43 PM |
| – | It appears that women don't want menCalling a lesbian “basically a man” just because she doesn’t conform to your standard of acceptable femininity is a weird combination of homophobia and sexism. Maybe don’t do that. Regardless, if these masculine lesbians dated by feminine lesbians are “basically men” shouldn’t that make their behaviour towards each other more closely resemble men and women? Which, as we have discussed extensively in this thread, is not the case. Feminine women are my type personally, but I’m sexually attracted t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 01:26 PM |
| – | It appears that women don't want menReported for homophobia. But whilst we’re here, I’m feminine, and my girlfriend is the most feminine woman I know amongst straight, gay, and bi. So, you’re wrong. Since you’re desperate for a girlfriend, or sex or whatever it is you boys are into, I’m sure you wouldn’t mind dating a very feminine gay man, since by your logic they’re basically women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | It appears that women don't want menI agree. Not always of course, but often they want the “aesthetic” and oppression points, but they function and exist as heterosexual women with all the privileges that come with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | It appears that women don't want menThis study has been proven to have been conducted incorrectly multiple times due to the way lesbians might count a 5 hour sex session with 10+ orgasms as “1” time, whereas straight couples just count every time the man cums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 05:07 PM |
| 3 | It appears that women don't want menWho’s “we”… I fuck my girlfriend multiple times a day… but we both have high sex drives so who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 02:44 PM |
| 7 | It appears that women don't want menI would say lesbians have more orgasms “per year” because they tend to have sex for many hours including many orgasms … with my girlfriend I would say usually 2-5, maybe once or more per day, but sometimes every other day or few days depending. So I wouldn’t say sexual satisfaction plays much of a role. I would say probably social stigma is an issue, not wanting to rock the boat or create issues with family - homophobia is still a big deal, I was disowned at 17 for example. However, “repulsion” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:43 AM |
| 11 | It appears that women don't want menThank you for explaining your side as well, and I do agree in a sense, though not completely. I do agree that men are unfairly demonised and should be given a right to their own identity instead of having to constantly disavow it. Having a secure sense of self and personal identity is an important part of the human experience, and men not being allowed to build this for themselves is harmful. However, I don’t think that women are not authentically and enthusiastically attracted to men. Almost al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:33 AM |
| 11 | It appears that women don't want menThis isn’t true. Lesbian women don’t “try less hard” to get bi women. If anything they try harder… because their dating pool is so small, each potential partner is much more important. Not to mention the statistics show women orgasm much much more with other women than with men. I for one, don’t expect sexual reciprocation and don’t particularly like it, I prefer to give to my girlfriend and enjoy experiencing sexual pleasure through her. All she has to do is be pleasured and enjoy herself, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:23 AM |
| 31 | It appears that women don't want menYou say gay men and straight men share a method of desire and sexual behaviour. You say gay men indicate how straight men want to behave with women. When it comes to lesbians, you refuse to say the same is true. You claim there is an inherent repulsion in all women for men… because? Why? Because women only want the best men to reproduce with and are repulsed by all others? That’s the best I’m getting here. But why would lesbians need to experience this when they aren’t attracted to men and don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:16 AM |
| 6 | It appears that women don't want menI have explained extensively about the false equivalence, biologically speaking, that you place between the relationship to men and women between homo and heterosexuals. Either you are ignoring it on purpose or you simply don’t understand what I’m saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:10 AM |
| 23 | It appears that women don't want menThe sexual demand of lesbians for women has a supply problem, so lesbians try harder to attract women because the majority of their dating pool are bisexual… and almost always bisexuals end up with men anyway…. they could have chosen a woman but didn’t? So where is this repulsion for men you believe to exist? You would expect to see almost all bisexuals with women if that was the case…. It is not the case. With lesbians, the bisexual women place lesbians in the male role and have all the same ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:06 AM |
| 13 | It appears that women don't want menWomen are repulsed but men in general? All women? Why. What biological reason do you have for this? You will say that women are attracted to the minority of desirable men to maximise reproduction with the best genes or whatever. Oh? Ok, so this repulsion to most men is an indication of sexuality and the sexual relationship. Homosexuality is an inversion of this, they used to call us “inverts” back in the “olden times”. So the sexual attraction of women is driven by a desire for efficient reprodu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:03 AM |
| 17 | It appears that women don't want menSo if all women are like this, why don’t you see the tendency replicated in homosexual women. You agree with OP that gay men show the desires of how straight men wish to behave. So men across sexualities share a modus operandi of attraction, desire and behaviour. But when it comes to the example of lesbians, they are excluded from your analysis of the attraction, desire and behaviour of women? If gay men and straight men are in the same style of attraction, you must content that so are straight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:59 AM |
| 13 | It appears that women don't want menThat doesn’t make sense. Women are excited about their attraction to sexual partners. Women, for lesbians, and men for straight women. Lesbians prove that there can be real attraction from women for a diverse range of sexual partners. Your argument indicates women can only be authentically attracted to other women, which, evolutionarily speaking, would have been a huge disaster for the human race. If there is a tendency to be repulsed by the sex you are sexually attracted to, biologically speaki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:51 AM |
| 21 | It appears that women don't want menYou compare straight men’s dating to gay men’s… where the “gay men” group is freed from women and engage in their desires authentically. But if you take the opposite view… and say that lesbians are an example of straight women’s desires authentically, free from men, it doesn’t match up here. You are making false equivalence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:47 AM |
| 17 | It appears that women don't want menLesbians have nothing to do with men, or the cultures that surround relations between men and women. We don’t engage with men at all outside of normal friendship and family. Clearly we have negligible impact on these wider relations because we are mostly ignored by wider society. How is my example different from OP’s example about gay men. How come, according to this, gay men have no impact on a culture raising up men of all types, but lesbians have to be an indication of a cultural tendency abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:43 AM |
| 38 | It appears that women don't want menExplain lesbians then. I’m a lesbian, and I can tell you we have as many words to describe types of women that other women are attracted to as gay men do. They just aren’t as widely known because lesbians existing independently of men as their own culture isn’t accepted in the mainstream zeitgeist. For example: butch, femme, high-femme, futch, stem, princess, tomboy, sporty, stone-butch, stone… and the list goes on. I know couples who are mixes of all kinds of these identities, and they all enjo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive?Thank you! I’m very lucky… it was a long time coming. Best of luck to you :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive?I never know if the woman I’m approaching is even into my entire sex… and the implication that I think a woman might be into women can be taken as an insult by some. Almost all the women I’ve approached have been in straight bars bc I used to live in a place without any gay spaces and I wasn’t about to let that stop me. But I have a girlfriend now so that life is no more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive?I don’t feel anything, it’s just a fact of life, I respond in the same tone I was approached with - which, fortunately, is usually polite and respectful, and with gentleness, but I don’t lose sleep over it. I’m also a lesbian so I know how hard it can be to approach a woman, but also if you aren’t respectful to me, don’t expect respect in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time.Literally every straight woman I know met their boyfriends through a cold or warm approach. I cold approached my girlfriend (am gay). PPD men be like… don’t use dating apps and don’t approach women… I know there are a lot of struggles in dating, and they shouldn’t be glossed over… but this is just obvious self-sabotage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Women claiming to be 'Sapiosexual' often do so either inaccurately or as code for something else.That’s a long post for a completely made up “sexuality”. “Sapiosexuality” became popular bc 12-15 year olds on tumblr watched too much BBC Sherlock mixed in with a desire to be special and “queer” (news flash: wanting to fuck the opposite sex only means you are straight… kindly leave us gays alone). Like… it didn’t need this analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Saying one gender is more valuable than another is illogical, since the other gender establishes the priceYou sure post a lot about men and women on PPD. But I guess everyone has a hobby. Weird choice but you do you. Sorry about your life. If you really are gay, which I doubt but I guess anything is possible, it’s a shame you’ve decided that lesbians are somehow less worthy than gay men. Cognitive dissonance is a hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Saying one gender is more valuable than another is illogical, since the other gender establishes the priceObvious troll is obvious, sorry you never made a woman cum before ig. As if gay men are never feminine lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Saying one gender is more valuable than another is illogical, since the other gender establishes the priceI fuck my girl more in one day than y’all fuck in a year so keep being jealous, I’ll be with the love of my life whilst you’re assigning value judgements to human beings 🤪 Clowns keep posting that study like it doesn’t say the majority of violence reported by women in relationships with women was from bisexuals reporting violence with male ex-partners and lesbians who dated men before coming out. Adjusted figures showed the same levels of DV across all couples. Facts don’t care about your feelin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Saying one gender is more valuable than another is illogical, since the other gender establishes the priceI’m a lesbian so none of this applies to me … I have no value according to this. That’s fine with me I’m happy and fulfilled. Sucks to be you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.The assumption that women can’t tell when a man is trying to “game” them is hilarious to me. I can see it a mile away. Maybe it’s because I’m gay so I have absolutely no investment in any man approaching me, “Chad” or otherwise. But really, y’all are obvious af. A man approaching me politely with genuine intentions will receive a gentle let down, a man who’s trying some RP “psychological” bullshit is gonna get the same bullshit right back at him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Should men still cold approach women?Then how come I have a girlfriend lol. Don’t be jealous because you don’t have the confidence to ask a woman out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Q for Women: Does it bother you, not bother you, or flatter you, or just not care if men check out your ass while you walk by? I mean if they do it discreetly, and you notice it, and not overtly ogle you like a mouth breather.Day to day I wear loose clothes that hide my body but it bothers me when men check out my girlfriend when I’m literally right there and we’re obviously a couple 😡. She’s taken bitch!!! Get your own girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:56 AM |
| 0 | Should men still cold approach women?Yes, you can and should cold approach women… in the correct setting. For example, in a place where people can typically expect to be approached…a bar, a club, an activity based place like mini golf, bowling, etc. NOT where she works, in a supermarket, on the street…. I’m a lesbian and I cold approached my girlfriend in the queue for a club and we’ve been together ever since. I’ve been cold approached by men before (mostly back when I looked a bit “straighter”) and I just told them I’m gay so no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:07 AM |
| 23 | M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week“I’ve refused to fully commit to the girl I’m dating” for 2 years, and “sort of love her but if it ends… eh whatever” Vs “Most women are literally emotionally mentally handicapped” ???? Actually I think that would be you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:43 AM |
| 2 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyNah my brother has no social media presence at all and has girls throwing themselves at him. He doesn’t seem to give a shit though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)And you talk to me like I haven’t experienced that.. why do you think I wouldn’t have experienced that before? My ex wasn’t always abusive, she woke up one day and decided to hate me for the life choices she had made. Do you think lesbians are somehow better than straight women so I wouldn’t understand what it’s like to be with straight women? Very progressive… but unfortunately not true. I’ve lived a full life of multiple experiences, just like any man has. Maybe I’ve met the love of my life, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Don’t be jealous - it doesn’t look good on you. My ex abused me physically, sexually, emotionally, and financially. A few examples: she took all my money, raped me twice, choked me, left bruises on my legs from biting me in arguments, cut me with scissors (on purpose), smashed and broke my belongings, and tried to pressure me into marriage to get a visa (“green card”). When talking to strangers online you should try to avoid making assumptions. But sure… tell me more about how easy my life has b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)I have no experience of it and I would hazard a guess that it’s yet another case of shitty statistics. The question is, what counts as “1 sex”… with straight and gay male couples, that’s going to be when the man/one of the men comes, and hopefully the other party involved but that’s no guarantee. So let’s say a straight couple have sex 4 times per week… so that’s 4 orgasms for the man and ?? Some we hope for the woman. When I have sex with my girlfriend it can start and stop over several hours, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenYou can chase bi women if you want, I don’t want them so no loss to me lol. The problem with women talking about men to me (especially a boyfriend) is I know they’re either gonna try and get me involved with them which is 🤮 I would literally rather die. “Dirty little secret” is the same shit… I’m not trying to be a side piece, I have plenty of options without that. If they can’t accept their own attraction to women, and it has to be a secret, that’s a sign that they have no idea how to fuck w wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenHigh five ig 👋🏼 we can be friends. If a girl started talking about her boyfriend or tbh guys at all in a sexual context… HUGE ick, I’m out of there…I mean, more like a red flag than an ick. If she tried to start talk like “you can be my dirty little secret” … 🤮 ick, no thanks. When it comes to my girlfriend she’s perfect so i don’t need to worry about all that anymore, but back when I was dating or having casual sex as long as it wasn’t something crazy like the above, or being an awful person in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI don’t live in london. Sorry you’re jealous that I’m hot and so is my girlfriend :-/ get better soon. I have literally no reason to lie here… I get no benefit from lying lol. I’m quite RP leaning myself, but I’m not going to ignore every single piece of evidence that doesn’t support a given ideology, bc I’m not an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI do not spend any time in “queer” circles lmao. I’m not defined by my sexuality, and I definitely don’t get on with people who call themselves “queer”… “Queer” is a word for people (admittedly usually women) who want to be special but will never really date a same-sex partner. Actual lesbians usually call them “spicy straight”. Died hair and bad fashion doesn’t make you gay, having sex with the same-sex makes you gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI only date hot women lol… I ignore women i’m not attracted to (in terms of when I was dating, not just in general) And I definitely don’t date “queer” women lmao I can’t stand the so-called queer community. Lesbians only. And I never said no one is fat… but irl the people around me usually aren’t. Sure, I’ve seen fat women on dating apps (back when I was dating) but I swiped left and moved on. I have standards too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI’m only talking from personal experience i have no motive to lie to you. I’m sure there are loads of overweight people around you, I just don’t see it around me. Anyway i’m happily taken and my girlfriend is beautiful and lovely, but it’s been hell to get to this point bc dating women can be an absolute nightmare. Sorry for not confirming whatever you wanted to hear but i’m not here to make shit up, im just putting my anecdotal experience out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:53 PM |
| 18 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI live in a nice city and the overweight people I do see are more often men, thou I would say it’s a pretty even split. But like I said.. I don’t see that many overweight people in general. Rip you guys I guess. I’m gay so I understand dating more from the male perspective so I’m sympathetic to some RP thoughts… but also you have to be critical of pretty much any ideology in order to get to the truth. There are idiots on all sides. Rough out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 59 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI live in the UK and I would have thought we aren’t that different to the US but then I see posts like this. I look around myself and I actually see very few overweight people … theoretically they must be somewhere but I just don’t see them… at the station, supermarket, bar… etc… pretty much every young person (20-35-ish?) around me is a healthy weight and slim. Is the US really that bad? Damn. Everyone here talking about how many options fat women have but also talking about them with disgust… … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 8 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?You’re entitled to your opinion but I think I’m probably right in this case since I know this person very well, and you are drawing inferences based on personal opinion. Sure I have my own opinions, but I’m actually quite RP leaning or at least sympathetic to the ideas- so I like to give myself a bit of credit sometimes. Ultimately neither of us can be sure, but I have insider knowledge here. Besides, I’m not saying she represents the rule, but an exception or at least an indication that there’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:07 PM |
| 19 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?I have a close friend who is honestly model like - extremely beautiful, slim, tall but not overly, plus smart, kind, funny, etc… And she has exclusively dated men who I would say are very below average in looks, or at least very below her. But she just likes what she likes - I think it’s more about connection and compatibility for her, especially intellectual compatibility. And she’s extremely loyal and loving, only had long term relationships and didn’t initiate any breakups. I’m sure people wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How will sex robots affect dating?No need to apologise - I thank you for saving straight women the trouble, very kind of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | How will sex robots affect dating?Obvious troll is obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.I don’t know anything about men’s attraction bc I’m a lesbian but I could see how all the women I know (gay or straight) have settled down with someone within their preferred type and the women who had relationships with people outside of their type didn’t last and there wasn’t a real attraction. Personally I’ve hooked up with people outside of my type but I had already decided I didn’t want more than a hookup situation. As I am now in a relationship with someone who is exactly my type (and I he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:06 AM |
| 3 | How will sex robots affect dating?Only someone with no ability to socialise or experience human connection would be satisfied with a robot. I love my girlfriend so much - all her quirks and interests and behaviours, all the things we talk about from ancient religious history to her obsession with bunnies. I trust her with my life and care for her and am cared for by her in a way I never imagined i could be. And that’s before we even talk about sex- which is great. No robot could replace this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy?Maybe blame was the wrong way of phrasing it, what I was intending to refer to was the RP tendency to ignore the proclivity of men to select for women with less experience and income than them. Instead of always focusing on women being hypergamous (whether this is good or bad is up for debate and opinion)…why not an analysis of men seeking those “beneath” them purposefully in tandem, to question the narrative that men just “don’t care” about these things like women do. I think they do care, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy?I would want to ask then why frame women as hypergamous, but not consider an equal and opposite designation for men? As a lesbian I would have difficulty accepting hypergamy uncritically due to my own experience which is pretty much washed out of RP ideas- or I guess considered irrelevant. But I’m not 100% against RP either, I can see how some parts are still useful. But as you just said… your ideal is a woman who is beautiful but beneath you in terms of earning/experience, am I right? Do you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:52 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy?I have no idea I’m gay. It just seems reasonable to me people would want an equal or better… not worse. You did ask about “ideal” partners after all. I would have thought most people’s “ideal” is equal or better. Thinking up a hypothetical “ideal” partner means imagining the best fantasy scenario- why go beneath yourself when thinking in terms of “ideal”? I’m just trying to apply standard logic here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:38 PM |
| 17 | Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy?OP says it’s strange that no one seems to want their ideal partner to be beneath them in all areas. Like… you’re telling me this isn’t a universal amongst human beings? What’s your “ideal partner”? Oh idk… someone kinda worse than me at most things … said ?? No one ever ? This is such a weird take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Taking the leading role means being responsible for all the things a man would usually do in a het relationship - I have a lot of sympathy for the male perspective though I do often find some PPD posts take it too far and are informed by a lot of (sometimes misplaced) resentment. However I do appreciate that my experiences will not align directly to theirs. I take the initiative- plan things, lead in sex, lead in dates, intend to be the provider long term and support my girlfriend to open her ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)My partner and I both look pretty feminine - she more so than me but straight people still tend to assume I’m straight (though gay people can usually tell I’m one of them). Personality wise I’m definitely “masculine”. I can’t speak for all lesbian couples and I’m sure many are more “balanced” but my partner and I are matched so well because I want to take the leading role and she wants to take the following one. In the end it’s about what you want, and finding a partner who compliments that. Whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 10:37 PM |
| 42 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)I’m a lesbian and all my experience comes from the pov of the “male” partner (this is reductive but gets the point across). And the way I have felt is actually exactly like the above description. I get it, I really do. I’m attractive, fit, educated, support myself, earn enough etc…. And yet I have had to pursue woman after woman, changing myself, learning the right words and actions, how to not scare them off, how to be not boring … and still been taken advantage of and left with nothing. It can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 04:03 PM |
| 8 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenThat’s your opinion, you are just saying your opinion without any facts to back it up. You’re entitled to your opinion and I respect it. It doesn’t affect me anyway. But let’s not pretend it’s a valid argument. Also, as I have said 1000 times. Me being an academic DOES NOT make me a more valuable person. Actually my whole point has been that it DOESN’T make me more valuable. My value is independent of my work and contribution. Let’s just all go out and be nice to others lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 11 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenYeh you still aren’t getting it. Things can be considered more or less valuable to society. But that doesn’t affect the value of a person as a human being. Also anyone can come up with stupid thought experiments… what if we were suddenly thrown back to the Stone Age out of no where? Who would you want? Stone masons? Yes. Electricians? Unlikely, where are they gonna get all the metals and magnets to start from scratch. Politics and ethics professors? Maybe useful. I could go on. Anyone can make s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenOh no I’m not opening that can of worms. It’s NOT gender studies thou so let’s move on from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 05:03 PM |
| 11 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenYou missed the point AGAIN. I give up … no one on this site can read. Electricians are great, good for them, they do their thing and I’ll do mine. I earn money doing my thing, I use electric items, I pay my electric bills, the electric men get paid. Those people only have jobs because we demand it… so technically they’re employed bc of me 🤪 how does it feel to rely on a woman for your wages? I’m sure Victorian women had all the necessary money, time, and freedom to discover electricity… oh wait…… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenYeah every single profession and institution has problems, luckily I don’t live in the US where it’s much worse, but even better countries still have issues. That doesn’t change my mind about what I want for my life. I do not give a fuck (as we have established) about what society considers valuable. Thanks for letting me know in advance I’m going to … uhh .. not hire Asians ?? That’s a weird assumption for you to make about me lol. If you want to align yourself to different values than me, go r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenI’m not saying anyone or anything is perfect. But you have completely missed the point. I’m saying that contributing to society is not a good measure of value for a human being. Because society is inherently biased to favour certain skills over others. I don’t give a rat’s ass whether you think I’m contributing to society or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 7 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenAccording to you the average leftover man (not woman though?) has the potential to be a CEO. So shouldn’t be too hard for others who have different priorities to me to survive lol. I literally don’t get your argument … we can’t all be electricians powering the national grid… but good for them, it’s a respectable profession. I’m just saying that measuring human utility by contribution to society is like… a really bad take. Moreover, academics don’t get work handed to them… they study for years an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenI’m not an aristocrat thou and I have to make my own electricity money and I’m ok with that. So what’s your point? If I am happy to support myself and have a lower standard of living to do what fulfils me. That’s no one’s business but mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:14 PM |
| 39 | Leftover men are still more useful to society than leftover womenI’m going into academia to spend most of my life researching things that aren’t applicable to the growth of industry, and writing texts that won’t be read by the vast majority of people just for the sake of advancing total human knowledge. I’m not useful to capitalist society. Do I give a single fuck? Non. Also… (paraphrasing) “men have many options for work like being a CEO” … sure buddy, good luck with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:08 PM |
| 10 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.This. I’m so relieved my parents divorced instead of forcing me to live in hell with them. My friends’ parents who stayed together “for the kids” did nothing but damage them more whilst I had recovered by then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 10:00 AM |
| 34 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.Biologically speaking - pair bonding only means a bond sustained as long as a mating cycle. Doesn’t mean for life. Most animals go through as many pair bonds as they do mating cycles. Primates included. But what?? You mean.. humans don’t just behave like animals ? …. No shit. We are not slaves of biology. Well.. maybe you are. But that’s because you choose to be. Same as horoscopes - stop this self fulfilling prophecy shit y’all look like clowns. According to this graph people with 12 previous p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I have a sense of humour I just don’t happen to find you funny :-( sowwy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Obvious troll is obvious My theory is that straight men don’t exist they just pretend to like women to impress other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy a real concept?Haha so hilarious! You replaced word with word about vagina :-0 I’m simply expiring with how funny this is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Is hypergamy a real concept?I only have it in printed form bc I’m not a member of a univeristy anymore and I can’t afford journal subs. I’ll have a look later and see if I can find it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy a real concept?No I’m saying consider other peer reviewed studies than the ones you’ve already decided to agree with. You can literally find any numerous groups of peer reviewed studies to support almost any point of view. This isn’t the argument you think it is. You realise the article I have proposed as a good starting point for a different view of metaphysics, nature and consciousness is literally… a peer reviewed article? Alongside which are numerous other peer reviewed articles discussing and exploring th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Is hypergamy a real concept?It wasn’t about you tbh I was replying to other comments. I actually fundamentally agree with you. Didn’t mean to be condescending just using common internet language to propose looking into something new. I guess it came across wrong lol. I’m just sick of this sub being like “BuT bIoLoGy” when they are neglecting huge branches of knowledge and embracing unironic, uncritical scientism (with some good old fashioned and widely discredited evo psych thrown in). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Is hypergamy a real concept?Some of y’all have never read any metaphysics and it shows. Try Hegel on the Rocks: Remarks on the Concept of Nature by Frank Ruda. Just… try. You might discover something new. Edit: this was aimed at those who uncritically embrace scientism. Not OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Beer is gross and so is flannel. Sorry to break the fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Lol Ellen but my gf and I are both feminine looking I honestly don’t care… you can ask am I the man or woman since that’s what this question is a stand in for... And yeh I’ll roll my eyes but also I’m the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Yeh that’s the point I’m making. They try to make themselves appear more attractive than they are by pretending you’re a special exception. Biologically hardwired attraction is universal across men and women. If you wouldn’t turn gay for a special man you have to admit biology wouldn’t allow for a gay woman to turn het for a special man either. It’s all about biology with this sub until it doesn’t stroke someone’s ego anymore. Insert: “facts don’t care about your feelings” or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I think you mean bisexuals lol The amount of men who fall for that spiel from bi women is kind of embarrassing “yeh babe I’m into women but like totally into you” to make men feel special and drawn to them. It’s the ultimate pick-me tactic and men fall for it. Every. Single. Time. But dw they do it to us too “yeh I’m totally sooo gay lol” and then reveal later they were bi but didn’t want to admit it bc they thought it would turn us off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?None I’m a lesbian lol. My girlfriend is definitely a Stacey though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the behavioral differences of men and women can be explained by a simple evolutionary observationYou have no sources for this- it’s simply your view versus mine. All I see around me are men who genuinely want a monogamous partner. No post on a Reddit page is going to change that. Moreover, all the men in my life would resolutely challenge you on saying they secretly want harems- as I’m sure would many others. You don’t speak for the human race. At the end of the day it’s what we see around us for you to claim as “anecdotal” as you cite widely discredited evo psych theories. Evo psych likes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the behavioral differences of men and women can be explained by a simple evolutionary observationThey aren’t trying to fuck as many women as possible as this post thinks they should be biologically driven to want. Most men I’ve seen in this sub want to settle down and be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the behavioral differences of men and women can be explained by a simple evolutionary observationHow come most men on this sub talk about wanting to settle down with a virgin bride and make babies together. Doesn’t really match up to this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 01:22 PM |
| 12 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?It’s because the survey in question didn’t count DV in relationships lesbians had with men prior to realising their sexuality. The large majority of DV counted as with lesbians actually happened in relationships they had had with men prior to coming out. You can look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?You are literally agreeing with me… We are both women with women with different observations. Ergo…. Evidence can support either side. It’s not cut and dry. That’s literally what I’m saying. Not to mention hormonal differences between gay women and straight women and gay men and straight men…. Though it may be ✨controversial ✨… I personally think it’s likely true but who knows. I don’t think gay couples can be meaningfully compared to straight couples in this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?Idk why you’re tryna be sassy with me … I’m not just speaking for myself I’m also referring to the other lesbians I know. My evidence doesn’t prove my point any less than yours proves yours. Your main point was about sex drive not promiscuity…I find women want to fuck more when they enjoy it more. But my gf and I each had 25+ (female only) sex partners before we met, and a lot of my friends have high n counts as well. PPD yet again showing that their critical thinking skills extend as far as the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?So as usual generalising to make a point based on anecdotal evidence doesn’t work since large groups of people can be mostly one thing or another depending on who you know…and neither does relying on biased studies. Also a few (for example) 1-2 minute pump and dumps is not somehow “more sex” than 10 orgasms in 3 hours. I don’t think this proves anything. Even when I was with my ex for 1-2 years plus we had sex everyday. Basically it’s all subjective bullshit - something this sub never seems to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?My gf and I fuck like 5 times a day idk what data y’all are using but I don’t know a single lesbian couple (and I know many) who aren’t always fucking lol. Some data has shown an inaccurate view of lesbian sex in relationships due to the way in which lesbians “count” sex… like if my gf and I do it for 3-4 hours and she comes like 10 times is that 1 time ? Or 10 ? We don’t conform to the standard measure of “the man spunked so that’s 1 sex” so measuring it gets more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Women being loyal and contributing to the war effortImagine being a militarycuck thou … like selling your body for the government to use? Kinda gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 5 | Silicon human size dolls are now made really realistically, and better looking than biological women, imagine when they are integrated with AI into cute fembot girlfriends, KO for womenThank fuck maybe my lesbian ass will finally get some peace from the men who harass me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone: could you commit long term to a person that swiped you left on Tinder?My friend is engaged to a girl who swiped left on her on tinder (lesbians). My friend wasn’t her usual type so she didn’t swipe right on her pics … but they met in person and it was an instant connection. They’re very happy together and super in love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Single Women, what are your standards?Mostly for the connection that it brings - lesbians have their own unique experiences and culture that bi women don’t understand (as I’m sure lesbians wouldn’t understand the bi experience). The other influencing factor is that I’ve only had bad experiences with bi women- whether it’s “right” or “wrong” to say so- my lesbian friends and I have never had any positive experiences dating bi women. There’s only so many times you can go through the same experience before you ask yourself … why am I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 08:46 AM |
| 11 | Single Women, what are your standards?I’m a lesbian and in a relationship so for diversity’s sake I’ll give the answer no one asked for: Me: 23, 5’9”, 63kg/139llbs/27”waist, slim/slim-muscular build, white, bleach-white chin length hair, blue eyes, tattoos (right sleeve, mid-large back piece, few other small ones), piercings (lip, nostril, septum, nips, plenty of ear ones), feminine/semi-feminine aesthetic, financially independent- good job+some inheritance, no debt, bachelors degree, renting nice apartment but looking to purchase n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Pupil Dilation + Attraction SignalsUseless enough to get your attention :-) you must need to be validated rlly bad. I don’t need to make a post on PPD to prove how many women want me… I’m not insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Pupil Dilation + Attraction SignalsSo now you want my validation? How,, uhh… alpha of you .. lol For starters: they don’t obsessively reply to everyone who doubts them on a Reddit post. And they definitely don’t “brag” about under age girls being into them. I would think saying you feel the need to reply to everyone who doubts you would translate into you being “threatened” but then again not everyone is able to read between the lines … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Pupil Dilation + Attraction SignalsI suggested you might be threatened so you turned the same insult back on me? Not very creative of you …but imitation is the greatest form of flattery after all so I’ll take it! Thanks! :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Pupil Dilation + Attraction SignalsI will do! Thanks :-P If u were the alpha chad u think u are you wouldn’t feel the need to obsessively reply to everyone who doubts you lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Pupil Dilation + Attraction SignalsDude if u want to wank off just watch porn next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Pupil Dilation + Attraction SignalsDumbest post on PPD yet … dude thinks not only lesbians but his own relatives want to bang him…. There are some pretty reasonable people on this sub, even ones I don’t agree with… but this absolutely takes the piss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I don't fault married men for cheating in some circumstancesSo a woman who gave up her career and all the earning potential that comes with it to be a SAHM to a guy who earns more - she is sacrificing her financial independence for him and he is agreeing to take responsibility for her financially (if she is no longer working) - so obviously that should be taken into account in divorce? With no splitting of assets she’s out on her own with no work experience on her CV for the last whatever number of years of the marriage, and therefore not much hire-abili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like?Most of my casual sex was with bisexual-identified women who wanted to settle with a man. A couple of lesbians too but definitely less. I never hooked up with a woman who honestly identified as straight. I think it might be easier for a woman to approach a bi woman because we are a “novelty”…but they don’t have any real desire for us as a partner. A lot of lesbians get their hearts broken bc bi girls want them for sex but then throw them out for a man the next week (no, not always, but often). I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Which sex provides more sexual satisfaction to the other?Hi I’m a lesbian who has had a huge amount of casual sex - orgasms abound. Doubt all you want- but ask any lesbian to be proven wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 08:52 PM |
| – | Pregnancy and Career WomenDead babies?? This is surely a great opportunity for me to advance my ideology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like?I have nothing to compare my own experience to but I also think I’m more of an outlier. But again.. I wouldn’t know bc lesbians are few and far between. Also at the time i slept with the majority of my body count I lived in a very small place with no gay or lesbian scene to speak of so 80% of the girls I slept with I met in “straight clubs”. But some tinder, some from fetish parties I travelled to other places for bc I’m kinky af (I met my gf at a fetish club in Berlin). Had a breakup of a long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 09:47 AM |
| 13 | Q4 High N Women - What is your lifestyle like?I’m 23, lesbian, 25+ female sexual partners in my life from 18+, no male. Mostly causal or fwb. I’m happy, extroverted, kinky, got a good job in AI, first class degree, renting a nice apartment but looking to buy in next year or 2. I like to read philosophy or modern classics but really whatever gets my attention, I like to draw, smoke weed, watch dumb shit whilst high… like to go out a bit but not as much as I used to bc I’m busy with work. It’s also cold af rn so not fun queuing for clubs in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Evolutionary Psychology And The History Of The 80/20 Rule.Uh huh. So you literally agree with me. That’s what I’ve been saying- it’s multifactorial and OPs post reads like fanfic because of it. Refusing to engage with ideas outside of the “one true answer” (in this case a certain reading of evolutionary biology) is allowing ideology to rule over truth and scientific analysis. Evolutionary biology cannot explain everything and neither can say… Marxism, Keynesianism… and so on and so forth. All I was saying is that a nuanced and critical analysis of mult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Evolutionary Psychology And The History Of The 80/20 Rule.All major religions??? coughs Islam Again, I didn’t say there’s no impact. I said you are all deranged if you think it’s the be all end all. This is a classic echo chamber thought pattern wherein this sub has chosen what it wants to be the cause of literally every phenomenon in the world and will retrofit any logic to fit it. I’m saying it’s more complicated than that. You can’t truly believe the major cause of the fall of Rome was polygamy? But sure, the developing world is the developing world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Evolutionary Psychology And The History Of The 80/20 Rule.As someone with a degree in politics and international relations, including analysis of gender, sex, development, capitalism, communism, internal political affairs, recession, racial tension, religious tension, secessionism, nationalism, protest, dictatorship, democracy, pseudo-democracy, security, border security, bio politics, political geography, etc etc etc etc etc…… You guys are deranged if you think the most important contributing factor to a country’s stability is monogamy. I didn’t say i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Evolutionary Psychology And The History Of The 80/20 Rule.Yeh … dumbest analysis of history I’ve ever seen. For the love of god OP needs to read a book about literally anything other than sex. As if a breakdown of traditional values caused the fall of Rome… the echo chamber is real. I’m not saying there’s no influence from sex and social values but like … come on now this whole post reads like fanfiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Female erotic plasticityWhilst human ancestors may date back c6 million years, the humans we share the majority of our genes with have only existed c600k years. For me, there is too much diversity in sexual behaviour (see kinks of all kinds as well as prevalence of males with female domination fantaisies) to attribute to pre-civilised society, amongst ancestors from whom our genes have evolved so far that we barely resemble them physically, let alone psychologically. I don’t disagree with you necessarily either and I’m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Female erotic plasticityI’d say being taken as war bride or dying is a “be raped or die” situation and that’s the one I took issue with and addressed in my comment. And I don’t think this is too controversial. You believe women wanted to go with the man who just killed her husband and kids? Really? Even if she could get over the husband I’m pretty sure we agree that bonding to your kids is a pretty solid evolutionary necessity. And you think women had agency to choose here? When they were considered the spoils of war? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Female erotic plasticityI’m not trying to debunk any theories … I haven’t at any point claimed to be… I’m just putting other views out there. You seem very intent on “debunking” me rather than actually considering any alternatives in good faith. The truth is the vast majority of women have no desire to be raped nor to they get turned on by it, bar a few exceptions. Other than in the case of actual long term conditioning, women don’t bond to their rapists…How many men like to be victimised and abused by women? Quite a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Female erotic plasticityDude .. I was asking in good faith but nice assumption lol. I’m newish to this sub so I am basically making suggestions and asking for open debate. Besides, it’s not the women who survive who necessarily pass the genes, it’s the children who survive. Don’t you think that has an impact? Women in low stress environments with support would have more healthy births and more surviving children? Don’t you think? And caring male and female family members would also contribute to the survival of those c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Female erotic plasticityI think you would be surprised to see how civilised a lot of primitive societies actually were. You are acting as if it’s a given truth that the major environment of human evolution was a barbaric warlord driven society… So prove it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.The actual tax benefit in the U.K. that you get from marriage is practically negligible lmao. Source: did CA tax exam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Female erotic plasticityResponding to all the war brides comments…. As if evolution happened and fixed permanently…. And doesn’t change over time? Don’t you think that once war brides stopped being a thing (in most places) genes would start to move in the other direction? Wouldn’t women who had loving and caring partners be more likely to survive and their children also due to more assistance from fathers? As if human genes haven’t changed at all since those times?? And why not analyse yourself and peers to see how tru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR?Been thinking this exact thing… the people with the most radical “unpopular opinion” views are the ones without any success in their dating history… If you’re the bastion of cold hard truth how come it isn’t working for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 06:19 PM |
| 7 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?I’m in my early 20s and 90% of my friends (male, female, gay and straight) are in committed happy relationships … I think this sub just has a warped view of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:16 AM |
| 0 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?That no one in this sub actually has a relationship so their advice isn’t exactly trustworthy…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ?I’m a lesbian and I felt that way with my girlfriend when we met… but we also met at a fetish party so context probably had an influence in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Most men are part of one of these two groupsPretty much all the straight men I know are chill, nice dudes in long term relationships and are happy. The single ones are single by choice and also chill and happy …. Y’all are terminally online fr. Go outside and make friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 05:47 PM |
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